What to wear?

[sebbie]

Part I

I remember being fascinated by articles of clothing even at a very young age. I’m thinking that I was probably only 5 or 6 when I first discovered this. Even at a very young age, I found myself being preoccupied with getting to wear clothing that fit very snug around my male body parts. Obviously, I didn’t know all that was about to unfold in front of me at that age. It was a curious mixture of feelings. I was at once apprehensive, fearful (what was going on with me anyway?), and yet very, very enthusiastic, and somehow at the same time strangely excited. It was a weird combination of emotions for a guy my age. For me, all of this happened well before puberty, and I certainly wasn’t yet having orgasms, but whatever it was still happened every time I thought about wearing clothing that fit snugly around my genitals, and even thinking about this happening was way fun. About as much fun as a little guy my age could.

At the same time, I was starting to have some vague awareness that my feelings were somehow related to sex and maybe to having babies, but what the specific connection or connections might be I had no clue. I remember waiting for the summer sale catalogs from Wards and Sears to come out. I discovered they sometimes carried brief-style swimwear, and invariably they had some available for sale. But I lived in a landlocked state, and a long ways from any sort of place to swim, so why would I need a swimsuit, let alone a brief swimsuit, thou I so longed to be able to order one of those brief suits.

I did eventually have a little pool, one of those three-ring inflatable ones. To use the pool, mom did need to get me a swimsuit, but it was a plaid boxer style. Of course, the boxer suits from late 1950s, and by then I was about twelve years old. I quickly discovered that there was something really interesting about those suits, a snug-fitting brief=style “liner”. Whenever I pulled the suit on, my penis got bigger and harder, and I was having to “reposition” my growing penis inside the snug liner. Sitting alone in the little pool, there wasn’t a lot to do other than contemplate the meaning of life and all the unanswered questions I had about my body. But here my body was, stuck in that suit with the little nylon liner. As you can imagine, one thing led to another and I ended up having my first real orgasm sitting in that little pool. I was not only terrified, but I also thought it was the greatest feeling I had ever experienced in my still young life.

That same summer, I think it was, my cousin and his family came to visit from the west coast. The cousin I was closest to, age wise, was about a year younger than I, just past 11, and his older brother was about 2 years older than me, about 14. Both my cousins were good swimmers. We went to the lake, and they swam in, guess what, brief-style swimwear. I so envied them. Then my younger cousin came home to stay overnight with me. We had a small house, and both ended up sleeping in the same bed. So, the time for bed came, and younger cousin took off the clothes he was wearing, and lo and behold, there was the little blue brief suit I had seen him wear during the day! His mom, my aunt, thought it was really weird that he liked that suit so much he wore it even when he wasn’t swimming. I was beginning to think there was more to this than his mom was observing, but I was obviously too bashful to ask. That was a strange night for me, certainly the strangest of my young life. If I recall correctly, he started out sleeping in just the suit, but then at some point during the night the suit came off and he pulled on a pair of pajama bottoms. The blue suit was just laying there at the side of the bed. I so much wanted to try it on, but I didn’t dare ask.To this day, I still find royal blue briefs with white piping extremely erotic...

[PSDave]

I remember back when I was young the boy scouts had an "official" swim suit that was designed for camping trips. It was made of nylon so it dried fast and you could put in your backpack dry. They looked like they were made by Speedo and were gold and red striped with the scout logo on them. I had always had brief cut suits from my first suit, but these were that silky nylon and felt sooo good when I wore them. I think I joined the scouts just so I could get one of the "official" suits. It was that suit that started my long love affair with nylon suits. I remember almost living in them when I went to scout camp every year. Other guys had them and I recall that at least one of them had mentioned they liked the nylon too. I wish I knew how many of the nylon speedo type suits I have had since -- must be hundreds.

[sebbie]

Part 2

When I was bout 14, really snug-fitting jeans were the height of style, especially for young males like me, who had just gone through puberty. I did not fully comprehend what was going on with me and my body. Especially popular was a color called “sand”, which was something of an off-white, sometimes referred to as wheat. I think it was the color of un-dyed raw denim, pretty much. What I did know was that I was also suddenly very fond of clothing that fit snug in the crotch and butt, and the jeans that were so popular then really fit the bull, and were “tugging” at me and my psyche, so to speak. I was at the age then where it was really easy to get a full-scale erection and orgasm going, and these sometimes happened in situations that were quite unplanned. Just the vibration of the ride is a school bus would sometimes do it, and I had to be really careful not to get into a situation where I would be dealing with a trying to hide a sticky damp spot for much of the rest of the day. Usually, my underwear would “contain” the moisture, but not always. Sometimes an orgasm would leave a tell-tale damp spot in a very unfortunate place.

But, I still wanted those jeans. We were about 60 miles away from a store that sold them, so getting a pair was going to be quite a trip. At 14, I was still in the process of trying to figure out exactly how my “new” body worked. I was vaguely aware of pre-cum at that stage in my development, and at least somewhat aware that whatever it was could easily leave a quarter-sized wet stain on my underwear and maybe through to my jeans, which, even without a full-blown orgasm, could be quite embarrassing.

I also knew I wanted jeans that fit really snug, which meant finding a pair that was almost too small for me. Mom was wary of this. If she was going to want me to get a bigger pair, a pair that would still “fit” me as I grew. Mom went with me to the store—she was going to be paying for the jeans. Mom had another rule. She was not going to let me get a pair of jeans without first me trying them on. That set up an interesting dilemma for me, because the mere THOUGHT of pulling on a pair of really snug jeans was getting me hard and immediately causing all sorts of interesting sensations down there.

I crawled into the boy’s dressing room, and pulled down my pants I had worn to the store. I was already starting to pre-cum big time. What to do now? If I pulled on the jeans, it was likely that they were going to get some damp pre-cum stains on them, or worse! And I was at the stage in my adolescence where I was not at all good at forecasting what my sexual body was going to do to me next. I knew that I may quickly reach a stage where I was not fully in control of what my body did and what was going to happen next. In some ways, I was terrified: In other ways I was elated. Those skinny jeans were doing to me exactly both what I had hoped (and feared) they would do.

The story does have a somewhat happy ending. Somehow I avoided having a (fully orgasmic) mess in the changing room. I considered myself both very lucky and at least a bit in control of what my body did, a significant learning process at age 14. The jeans I took off did get some (for me, at least) pre-cum stains, and mom seemed satisfied that they fit me OK. I was back in the dressing room. I pulled off the jeans. I knew they would have to go across the counter when mom paid for them. I carefully folded the jeans so the wet spots would not show. Neither mom not the sales clerk were the wiser as payment was made and the jeans bagged. I still love snug-fitting sand-colored jeans.

At other times, I was not quite so successful in containing my young orgasms…

[Schoolspeedo]

HI, I remember spending a week during the latter end of my school holidays with a friend and his family at a little cottage they had rented in a small sea-side village near our city. Being about 12 at the time I think, I had also started my love affair with skimpy swim suits and I recall my friend having a very brief yellow swim bikini and similar to this story he took it off just before bed time and it lay on the floor. I managed to put it on unseen beneath my pyjama bottom. When his mum finally left the room we shared, I whipped down my pyjamas and displayed his bikini on me, making some random silly comment. We both laughed though I found the tight skimpiness of the suit very erotic along with the colour. To this day I have 4 yellow bikinis of different brevity, ranging from 1/4 inch string side to a HOM 1.5 inch.

[sebbie]

Part 3

A lot of guys realize that they can get at least a bit turned on by simply looking at or wearing certain items of men’s clothing, but they also may very well see this as something of an annoyance in their psyche that can be the source of a great deal of pleasure, if even perhaps the turn-on could be a potential source of embarrassment, on occasion.

It’s safe to say that this Web site probably would not exist were it not for the fact that many men see snug-fitting swim briefs as a potential turn-on, whether the interest is mainly in feeling how the briefs feel when wearing them or seeing other guys wearing the same, or perhaps often both. There is something profoundly erotic about the thought of another guy who is enjoying the same sensations and feeling you are, at least for a lot of guys, even regardless of their sexual orientation.

When I use the term turn-on, I do not necessarily mean having a full-scale erection. Instead, I am talking about something that usually happens far earlier in the arousal cycle, the erection being more closely the late- or at least later-stage arousal. A lot of guys associate getting turned on with being with another person in some form, but keep in mind that growing up at least, you probably noticed that your body was responding to all sorts of what then appeared to be oddball situations. In those days, you certainly were not focused or secure enough to want to try and have fun with what was happening to you, let alone even understand why it was happening. What at some level was interesting and fun was also a bit scary and annoying.
Generally speaking, to the extent that a particular item of clothing will be around any parts in your groin area, a turn-on is certainly possible. For that matter, seeing another guy facing a similar “predicament” could be equally a turn-on. Your body will respond if the conditions are right, whether you consciously “will” it to do so or not. This is one of the most interesting things to know about all of male sexuality, that you can’t easily “will” a turn-on to either happen or not to happen.

Your body, most likely, start sending a “clear” indication that you are turned on, not by an initial erection as such, but by producing a small patch of viscous precum right where the tip of your penis is on your underwear. The precum is viscous enough so that usually the spot will not be visible on your outer clothing, tho this is not 100 percent true always either. A dime-sized precum spot can easily turn into a quarter-sized spot, and a quarter-sized spot can become half-dollar sized. You are not ejaculating, nor even erect, significantly. You may sense some “tightness” both in your penis and in the pit of your stomach, as your sexual being starts to tell you that it is experiencing it likes. How much your body likes the situation it is in can be directly measured by the diameter of the spot made by the precum.

It is fun to set up hypothetical situations to see if they affect you or not. The classic one is a swim team being asked to wear briefs for the first time and the swim team is all in the locker room changing into their suits. Will this all come off without any incidents that might be embarrassing to the team members. What if one guy exits the locker wearing his suit with an obvious clear precome spot right at the place where the tip of his penis must be? Will the other guys “respond” the same way, involuntarily? A most interesting question.

A second possibility is that the swim team guys have all gotten “used” to wearing their “standard” briefs, and can get in and out of them virtually without any involuntary precum production. Then the coach announces that for the meet next week, they need to swim faster and a way to accomplish is to reduce drag, which means wearing smaller, tighter and skimpier briefs than they use for practice at the big meet. At this point we get into an entirely new “round” of potential events. The guys who were able to “stand” their standard practice briefs without incident may discover that their bodies behave in mysterious ways at just the POTENTIAL of thinking about getting into something that is going to be a whole lot tighter and skimpier. Each new brief presents a new set of issues and problems to be overcome. The situation is both potentially embarrassing but also joyously enjoyable and fun. By this time most guys have already discovered that when they are producing precum they are feeling really really good, somehow. This is a most interesting discovery as most guys thought the really fun part about sex did not happen until the penis became erect and the ejaculation took place. The new information is that there is a lot of fun stuff going on, and none of this is to be missed from the very beginning to the very end of the entire cycle.

[sebbie]

Part 4

The jock strap turn on is only a slight variation of the swim brief turn-on. In this case, a person who has never before had to wear a strap for some athletic endeavor is made to wear one. Let’s say the first experience is without a cup. Like swim briefs, a properly-fitting strap is really tight and snug. There are all sorts of new sensations from getting into the strap. I particularly think the wide elastic waist band provides a fun sensation, as does the leg straps, and of course that coarse-textured snug fitting pouch. This may lead to precum overload as well.

Then there are the hard cups, so much a part of sports like baseball. A properly fitting cup fits snug against the penis, tho manufacturers have been trying to make cups that work with a bit more space. Since the cup goes against the penis, there is the instant psychological sensation of the penis being enclosed. What generally happens is that the penis gets just a bit hard, and the consequence is that it presses physically against the immovable hard cup. It is not as if the cup is going to flex to accommodate to any degree. The poor guy is now even more turned on, and to solve the problem he tries to reposition the cup if just a bit in an effort to relieve a bit of the “pressure” both psychologically (the sensation of being “inside” something) and psychologically. Precum forms on the pouch containing the cup. I’ve discovered that if a guy is inside a cup it is very difficult to work into a full-scale erection followed by an ejaculation. Wearing a snug-filling cup is something of a “delicious” agony in which the guy can languidly precum for hours, adjusting the cup, pressing on it firmly and repeatedly with the palm of the hand or even tapping on it with the fingertips occasionally if he starts to lose the sensation. It’s a great way to just relax, entertain and enjoy yourself on a sleepy summer afternoon. It’s also a great way to build your stamina for delaying orgasm, which is a really fun exercise to work on. This is a favorite of mine.

Underwear of various sorts is always fun too. A simple one to try is just some tighty whitey briefs, ideally several sizes too small. For example, if you normally wear Men’s Med try buying a package of boy’s briefs size 12 or 14. This is a variation of the undersized swim brief technique. Ordinarily I wear a 30-32” mens brief, but I have discovered I can wear a boy’s brief down to about size 12. Below that gets iffy. The waist band should stretch enough, but the briefs get really snug. Plus, you will have to do some serious packing of your package to fit. All fun in a weird way.

Then there are other kinds of underwear such as thongs. Good thongs are like fine wines. The best are wonderful and amazing to wear, and the right one should cause you to precum in an instant. Each one fits a bit differently, and you will not know how successful a particular design is until you buy it. The best are wonderful. Many guys are apprehensive about the whole idea of having an elastic cord or band cutting between their buttocks, but that is all part of the fun psychological pressure. The best thongs cut rather deep between the buttocks, while putting upward pressure on the perineum area which is going to hit your prostate big time as well. What fun… Gotta try it if you have never done it… Nothing to be fearful of, and a real treat for the sexual senses.

I could write a book on the subject of Lycra and Spandex compression shorts, shirts and running tights. Maybe I will write a separate document on this another day, except to say it’s the same idea, here, basically. Combine this with one of the other garments discussed here, a brief, a strap or maybe even a thong

Finally, let me mention snug-fitting jeans on this list. Somehow I always get aroused wearing jeans that fit really snug in the thighs,---and the buttocks, and the calves. Again, combine these with one of the other options here, like the undersized tighty whiteys, or maybe a nice strap.

Now for the quiz question. You can tell for yourself whether your body has shown any “interest” in any of the ideas I have listed above. Specifically, did reading the descriptions of any of the techniques above cause your body to “respond” by producing precum? If so, you may want to try pursuing that particular idea on a sleepy Saturday afternoon. Show this to your partner, if you have one. If your partner is turned on by any of these ideas, then maybe you have found something that both of you would have fun with together, straight or gay.

[sebbie]

It is always interesting to experiment privately with situations (and items of clothing) that could have the effect of turning you on. These are useful experiments to run, in part because they are fun to engage in privately, when you have no sexual partner to engage in sex play, but they are also excellent learning activities that can allow you to learn about fun activities between you and a partner.

There is really no significant down-side to all of this, especially if you like to do this as a solo activity. Having said that, not too long ago, however, I got a letter from a guy who revealed that he got very turned on by just thinking about the possibility of getting into a brief-style swimsuit, and was anxious about how this might affect his life with a potential partner. Straight guys who have swimsuit turn-ons usually are particularly worried about how what they should “do” with such turn-ons when they get into a relationship, particularly in a relationship with a woman. Does a relationship with a woman mean that suddenly all of these other turn-ons will simply evaporate into the atmosphere? I do not think so!

These questions about clothing related turn-ons and what to do with them in a relationship are not easy to answer. Women are wired very differently from men when it comes to sexual turn-ons, and for a woman it is all about the relationship with the partner. For most women, clothing fetishes of all sorts simply do not compute, and many women are surprised to learn that they got into a relationship with a guy who, in at least some instances, the woman is not at the center of a guy’s sexual arousal. This is part of a larger set of issues relating to a guy’s interest in and engagement in solo sex while in a relationship with a woman. A lot of women start to scream and then cry uncontrollably when they accidentally discover that a guy is engaging in solo sex in the bathroom or shower, and a swimsuit, strap or other snug-fitting garment would make the screaming and crying only that much worse. This is just an extension of the ideas girls learn from their mom’s growing up about sex and guys. These same girls as adults simply cannot believe that what they thought they knew about guys from their moms was sadly incomplete and inaccurate.

Gay guys as a group seem to have fewer issues with these clothing-related turn-ons of all sorts. Why? Because most guys know that this was part of their sexual being dating from even before puberty. I must have been only five or six when I discovered that I really enjoyed getting into and wearing certain clothing items, particularly anything that fit realy snuggly around my genitals. In the early days, I did not fully understand what was going on and exactly why this happens, but I certainly did know that what I had “gotten myself into” was a heck of a lot of fun. Growing up, I thought that as I became an adult and started getting into relationships with a partner, then these silly “interests” would somehow evaporate as simply something I enjoyed in my younger days. But now, in my late 60s, I can confidently assure you that my interest in these activities did not decline in the least. OK, I admit, I have never had a partner or even been in a serious relationship, in part because I was struggling myself with what to do with these other “interests” in a relationship. Are there partners who would not only put up with such interests, but better still, enjoy similar kinds of things? That remains only a fond dream. No one here would ever admit to that!

I have this collection of “stuff”. The guys here pretty much know what this stuff includes and can pretty well guess what is is in the collection as many of you have analogous collections of your own. I keep seeking out things that keep me, sexually turn-on wise, a little out-of-kilter. The unexpected, and indeed, the anticipation of the unexpected, is part of the fun. Swim briefs always are a good starting point, but I am always in search of another pair that is going to be smaller and tighter than any I already own.

A lot of you appear to be on the same quest I am on. Unlike some of you, however, I keep swapping back and forth between swim briefs and other possibilities. Jock straps too, are always fun. The whole idea is to wear something that keeps me aroused and thinking about the sensations coming from my genitals, but not so aroused that I go into an orgasm quickly. Hours-long arousal is better. Far better. For me, this has all been a learning activity, learning how to stay aroused but not immediately getting past the point of no return and go into an orgasm. This has been something I have only gradually learned how to do, control I only wish I could have had when I was, say, 12 or 13. But it is also a set of skills that could prove advantageous in a relationship, especially a relationship with a (male) partner who would like to learn how to be able to do the same thing…an entire afternoon of erotic pleasure.

This, what I like the most are items that keep me somewhat aroused for long periods of time, perhaps, say, an entire afternoon. I got up this morning longing to spend some time in a strap, a really snug strap. I know just the one. It is right here handy in a drawer. It has one of those really wide elastic waistbands, but being a Youth “Large” it is not very big. Just big enough to fit, however snuggly. I’m going to engage in my usual exercise routine today, involving stationary rowing and bicycling, so what I am wearing has got to “work” for that. My exercise routine will go more quickly to the extent that I am continuing to “enjoy” myself while engaging in the activities.

I decided I could use a bit more “padding” on my bottom for exercise than just the strap, which leaves me bare-butt, so over the strap I slipped a pair of “youth size 10-12” tighty whiteys over the top of the strap. They just fit. And over all of that, a pair of neat steel gray Starter compression shorts, and a compression tee on top. I am all ready to exercise, but also, I am feeling really good in the groin area as I write this. The sensations coming from my groin area are “snug” but erotically not uncomfortably so. Sometimes just for fun I also add a hard cup, but not today. I’m getting plenty back from just the combination I am wearing. Somehow I just “know” when I have hit on the right combination, and this is certainly right. The idea of finding a training partner who would like to experiment with the same remains a dream, but only a dream. Perhaps there is someone out in cyberspace who would like to experiment and play with this. Maybe send me a message and we can share some more ideas for cyber fun.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

I ended up digging to the bottom of my underwear drawer this morning. I found a skimpy little pair of no-fly Jockey briefs in a navy blue color, with a white elastic band. Size SM, of course. These must date from the late 80s or perhaps the early 90s. I’ve noticed that Jockey stuff has gradually gotten “tamer” over time. In the late 1980s and early 1990s, they used to sell these thongs that were just excruciating fun. They were really snug, and often made from a cotton/Lycra blend. But what made them really feel neat was a very narrow elastic band in the rear, a band that was, shall I say, a bit short.

Actually the band was a lot short, and really cinched up snuggly between the glutes, to the point where it would disappear entirely. I still have a number of these thongs, and they haven’t lost any of their delightful “meanness” over time. If you wanted upward pressure on your perineum, something that feels really delicious (and that is an understatement), this tiny little Jockey was really the thong to wear.

Anyhow, back to the briefs. I really like how these fit. I can put my penis “up” and it just stays there, even (mostly) flaccid. Now THAT is snug. If you have been reading my stories here, you realize that I am a big fan of feeling cloth of various types pressing against the underside of my penis. I think most, if not all, guys get the same sensation, tho they are sometimes not willing to let things develop as they should. And seeing the outline of the underside of a penis rubbing casually against the cloth can be really erotic.

What to wear over the top of all of this? Why my pair of Forest Green “biking” shorts of course. They work fine for stationary rowing too, and I can easily see my penis is positioned “up even with the Hind shorts.

Many of you are aware that I have been in a long-term recovery from prostate surgery. I have been starting to get more nearly normal erections back. It’s happening but it has been slow. Many of my “experiments” with various items are designed to set me up with situations I found to be highly erotic (as in precum producing) before the surgery. In the surgery, the Cowpers glands are “downstream and left alone. I actually only discovered this about a year ago Many of you realize that I have always been a big fan of precum and the circumstances under which guys produce precum. I am pleased to report that in writing all this down, I now have a beautiful clear drop of gooey precum showing through my Hind shorts, right at the tip of my penis. This is great fun to see, and psychologically enormously enjoyable as well (and a great relief, too). Highly recommended!

OK, if you are wondering the details, post prostate surgery, orgasms happen and feel the same as before, but they are dry. This is actually convenient, if you like to play with yourself in bed!

Sebbie

[sebbie]

This morning, I got up thinking about how much fun various combinations of these could be, and I decided it was time to once again put pencil to paper, well, not a real pencil, nor real paper, for that matter.

As a teen, I never participated in any sport (baseball, football) where a cup was recommended, and I was a young adult before I learned that there was more to this than I had known. I have always been interested in items of clothing that confine my groin area, brief-style swimsuits being just one of many possibilities, albeit an excellent one with lots of excellent possibilities and sensations. By the time I started experimenting with cups, I had already messed around inside a lot of suits!

When I got my first cup, I quickly realized that I would be confining my penis to boundaries that would not expand should I become erect. The cup was, well, hard. In the early days, it was common for cups sold to those participating in sports were relatively flat, and many left very little space to grow, if that happened. I admit that the sensations I got from the early cups were part physical and part only psychological, the psychological part not being the actual physical pressure surrounding my penis, but instead just the realization that if my penis expanded to any significant degree, I WOULD be feeling the pressures from the hard cup on all sides of my penis, a cup that was there, but not for the moment at least confining me to any degree. It is normal for guys experiencing this when wearing a cup to “experiment” a bit, by adjusting the cup to see if a more “comfortable” position for the cup can be found. The problem with this idea, of course, is that making attempts to “adjust” the cup to find a more “comfortable” position for the cup. The problem with this approach, however, is that with a semi-erect penis, taking pressure from one side of the cup may very well increase the pressures and sensations coming from the other sides of the cup, perhaps making everything feel more confining, not less confining. Guys who wear cups in sports have to find ways to resolve the dilemma, or they will probably have difficulty keeping the mind focused on the sport at hand.

To varying degrees, cup and strap manufacturers have attempted to deal with this problem for athletes. The first attempt was to move away from the flat cup that pressed tightly against the groin, and go instead with what is loosely termed as a banana shaped cup. These cups, tho narrower, typically had a lot more space for the genitalia to flop around with, and so guys got less of a sensation of confinement, psychologically, at least. The term banana cup is actually a specific brand name, as Speedo is to swim brief. A side benefit is that the guy wearing the banana-shaped cup were going to look like they had a bigger bulge than when wearing the older design that fit nearly flat against the groin. At this point, if you go to a mass market discount or sporting goods store, generally all you will find are cups with straps set up to hold a banana shaped cup. The interesting thing, however, is that these are commonly sold in all sorts of sizes to fit athletes of various ages and body sizes. Some of the youth-sized cups are quite small and in particular quite narrow. These small cups can be readily slipped into a pouch of any size, so an adult who still wants to get a sensation of confinement can readily do that.

I have cups of all sorts of sizes, and I like to wear whatever I want on any given day. I am also very fond of many of my old-school flat cups I have collected over the years. Sometimes the sensations from these are really over the top and the technique of pressing the palm of your hand against the flat cup toward your groin can produce some really interesting sensations.
This essay would not be complete without me discussing with you some ideas for enjoying cup and strap technique. First, generally speaking, smaller, snugger-fitting cups tend to usually produce better sensations overall than larger cups. This is one instance where small is good.

Second, keep in mind that it is very difficult, and sometimes impossible to go into a mode where you can have a full-scale erection and orgasm without first removing the cup. You would think this would be comparatively easy, given all the interesting sensations coming from your groin area, but it is not.

Generally, what happens instead is that under the cup you will end up getting, at most, as semi, and you will probably start to precum inside the cup, perhaps profusely, creating those neat little clear globules of wonderful fluid from the Cowpers gland. Once you get set up to do this correctly, I would encourage you to take full advantage of all the sensations emanating from your groin area. You might think that most og the sensations are coming from where your penis is rubbing against the walls of the cup as you try and adjust yourself to come from, but soon your mind is focused on the sensations coming from your entire genital area, not just your penis. You should be feeling also that the inside of the cup is becoming moister as you produce precum in increasing amounts. If you feel that you are starting to lose sensations from the cup, do not despair. Usually just a quick adjustment of the cup will do it. I can do this literally for hours at a time, and have discovered that it is an excellent way to enjoy a lazy summer afternoon.

Another option is to wear a cup not with a pouch strap but with a swim brief. If the brief is snug and skimpy enough, the smaller cups should stay nicely in place, and not be noticeable except that the other guys might notice that you have a particularly good-looking bulge but without any obvious outlines.

Most guys are not able to maintain a state of arousal and especially not arousal with precumming profusely without eventually getting to the point psychologically and physically where the can no longer constrain themselves and basically feel that they must go into a full scale orgasm and ejaculation. But I have always thought that it was most interesting to see how much stimulation a guy can endure while still not getting off. (This was the theme of that video by the Japanese guy.) Press yourself and see where your limits are in this regard. The cup and strap certainly helps in keeping arousal high with long periods without orgasm. This takes both practice and will power, and the practice is a lot easier to do with the cup in place.

Today I have outdoor work to do mowing my lawn. I sometimes wear a strap and cup to do this work, as today. That will keep me safe and odd branches from piercing my private parts. Straps and cups seem to go well with physical labor, even if I am not engaged in a sport such as baseball or football. The day is already going quickly this morning. Atr some point today, I will probably have a full-blown orgasm, but for now, no rush. I am just enjoying myself, immensely enjoying myself. The walls of my cup are confining me, and I have been precumming as I write this. An excellent day, for sure!

Sebbie

[sebbie]

Let me suppose that you want to learn more about how your body reacts to situations that are (largely) outside your conscious control. Let me assume that you own at least a half-dozen swim briefs of various sizes. A basic stunt involves taking these out of the drawer, examining each one and checking its condition.

Next, it is fun to line these up in order, from least skimpy/confining to most skimpy/confining. It is always interesting to include in the group a new suit, one you have recently purchased but have not yet tried on.
Then, what you are going to do is try on each suit in private, but in front of a mirror, starting with the least confining of the suits you have selected for the experiment, and only gradually moving toward the more restrictive-and confining suits. In my case, the least confining suits often have a 32- or even 34- inch waist, and I gradually work my way down to something with a 24- or 26- inch waist.

As you try on each suit, do more than simply stare at yourself in the mirror. Examine exactly how each suit fits you, and what position for your penis in each suit looks best and feels best for you. How does your penis feel when confined in each successive suit? Also, as you pull yourself into each suit, are you starting to feel the tightening sensation that typically occurs at the very beginning of each erection. As you pull each successive suit in position, are you starting to get bigger? Explore different locations for your penis. Does one of the suits just feel better and more exciting than others?

Unless you are completely brain dead, the process of getting out of and then into a successively smaller suit is probably going to result in significant precumming, perhaps profusely. Take mental notes of all of this. Specifically, what was the suit that first got you there? Are we talking dime-sized precum spots, quarter-sized, or even larger? Take mental notes!

It will get increasingly difficult to try on, examine and adjust each successive suit. By the time you make it to the sixth suit in the row, you will probably be longing and clamoring more and more to have a full-scale orgasm. That is fine and to be expected as you near the end of the sequence of suits. Just take note that messing around like this probably not only taught you some things you did not know about your body and how it responds to what initially.

This is a great way to enjoy yourself and your suit collection when you are alone, but the same iea might work even better with a partner who is attempting to do the same thing in sequence. As you do this there is something hugely erotic about the simple realization that there is someone else near you who is experiencing much the same most interesting sensations and feelings.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

Every once and awhile I wake up in the morning, and my male sexual organs seem to be calling to my brain. This was one of those mornings. “Hey, we are here and we are fine, and we are ready to give you some incredible sensations and pleasure all day long to today if you will only pay attention to what we are capable of doing to your brain. If you only pay attention and give us even a little of what we want, we will reward you in ways that we know is really going to be a treat for you. And this is not a ‘one shot deal’. We were not thinking of 5 minutes of fun for you. We were hoping to give you fun sensations to experience for as much as the entire DAY, assuming you have the time and the inclination.”

When this happens, often once a week or ten days, but if you are lucky, still more often, should a guy just ignore all of this, and in essence tell his sexual organs to go back into hibernation. Big work day ahead, no time to spend the day enjoying oneself. Surely it is more convenient when one’s sexual organs play this game with the brain on a leisurely weekend, when a guy might have more time to pay attention.

When my sexual organs start to send these kinds of signals, as they did this morning, loud and clear, my body usually responds all but involuntarily by producing a few of those wonderful shiny clear glistening drops of precum. I love watching those most fascinating little droplets form one-by-one, as my brain realizes, again, almost completely involuntarily, that it is starting to feel some sensations that are simply too pleasant to be ignored.

This, I have always thought, is one of the oddest things about being a guy. A lot of guys are focused on having a big erection and a powerful orgasm, and the sensations associated with that, sensations that are terrific fun, but are all over in all too short a period of time.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

Me? I’ve always been enamored with the more subtly aspects of male sexuality, with a particular focus on what is happening to my brain and sexual organs that is causing me to produce drops of precum. Of course, I realize that the big “payoff” is always there, but I can “call up” a full scale orgasm quickly as desired. For me, the fun part is leaning how to maintain the arousal and precum production without getting into a “point of no return” situation where I go into an involuntary orgasm and lose out on being aroused for the rest of the day.

I have long advocated the view that for a guy, mastering control over one’s body so that orgasm can be delayed, perhaps indefinitely, while maintaining arousal as measured not by erection size but by the continuing production of precum droplets at the very tip of the penis. What fun to be able to do this.

If you just ignore what your sexual organs are signaling you as you wake in the morning, and get distracted by the other ordinary events of the day, your sexual organs will quickly go back into hibernation. In essence, you sexual organs will have concluded that there is no point in messing with your brain, as you are so distracted by the ordinary events of the day.

Or, if you have a partner, you might respond to the call of your sexual organs for attention by finding your partner, and perhaps both going into a mode of both having full blown orgasms. This probably will take no more than 10 minutes or so, start to finish. Then you can get back, perhaps somewhat exhausted, to the ordinary events that fill the day for both of you.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

But, there is a third option. What if you are alone, without a sexual partner. You love the sensations your body is sending, and you are not being distracted by other events. Is there a way to enjoy yourself for a much longer period of time, and without ending everything with a quick, full-blown orgasm? In short, can you keep the sensations coming from your sexual organs to continue over periods of 30 minutes, an hour, or perhaps, if you are really good at it and have truly mastered the skills, for periods as long as several hours. In this brave world of longer term sexual experiences, it is actually an advantage to being alone and be largely undistracted. At some point, you might actually want to teach a partner how to do the things that you have learned to accomplish and what the various signals from one’s sexual organs really mean. Once again, a fixation of having the largest erection with a very quick orgasm impedes the learning process. What you are about to learn to do is far more subtle, but ultimately far more rewarding. Enjoying yourself for longer periods of time is part of being a human male.

The title of my series of stories here is “what to wear”. Perhaps this could suggest, however subtly, that particular items of clothing could prove to be a key component of learning how to enjoy yourself over much longer periods of time. I guess I was only 5 or 6 years old when I figured out that certain clothing items felt really good to me when they pressed against my body. I was maybe 7 or 8 when it dawned on me that snugger-fitting clothing made me feel better down there than looser-fitting clothing, At one time, maybe when I was 9 or 10, I started to think that I was the only little boy out there who had discovered this. I thought this fascination with the sensations from clothing pressing on me was something that I might somehow outgrow by the time I reached, say, 11 or 12. But somehow, the fun sensations never abated and I ended up on what has amounted to a life-long quest for clothing items that felt good to wear.

Whenever I get to this point, I always am hesitant to recommend specific clothing items that I have found to be useful and helpful to me in enjoying myself. I have read enough on this subject to fully appreciate the argument that each guy’s sexual turn-ons are as specific and unique as a fingerprint. In short, every guy is “hard” wired a little differently, and what works for one guy may not work for another at all. I also think that the guys who claim they would never get turned on by this sort of play have largely spent their lives fooling themselves into believing stuff that simply cannot be true. Unless a guy is completely brain-dead, there will be clothing situations that generate arousal. The guy may be embarrassed to admit such to their partner, but that doesn’t somehow make the arousal go away.

I really have trouble believing that there is not some degree of commonality across all guys and how they respond arousal-wise to wearing specific clothing items. After all, this Web site is largely focused on brief-style swimwear, often the skimpier the better, and consequences of the issues guys face as they attempt to get their body parts do reside happily within a tiny wisp of cloth. Other guys seem to enjoy hearing about a guy who is facing that “predicament” and how he copes with the “unfortunate situation” of having a penis that for some reason grew to a size where it would no longer “fit” to any degree within the suit. This situation at the same time is amusing but also erotic for the guys observing all of this.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

We spend a lot of time here discussing the reasons why more guys do not wear swim briefs. I suspect that there are many more guys out there who would quickly get aroused pulling on a swim brief, and contemplating the idea of seeing oneself in the brief or, horror of horrors, appearing in public in a situation where it is obvious to all that the guy has male sexual parts, perhaps even parts that are quite functional.

This is not a new issue. I have been watching an old episode of “Batman and Robin” on Me TV. Both Adam West (Batman) and Burt Ward (Robin) wear brief as part of their batman costumes. These reruns are over 50 years old. The briefs the stars wear have quite wide, maybe 5 inch sides. They are made of a shiny material. Even given these large briefs, I was amazed at how obvious the outlines of the sexual organs of both of the stars were under the shiny material of the briefs. I can confidently tell you exactly how they positioned themselves in their costumes (in both instances, obviously sideways). Part of the fascination with the TV series for viewers of both sexes back then was in watching the male organs of the stars, and given that the shows have been restored, details on this in the reruns are more visible than ever.

In concluding this, given that this chapter is also part of the series “What to Wear?” I will explain to you a bit about what I am wearing this morning and why my arousal is being maintained so well over a period of nearly three hours, so far.

I slept in a snug brief last night, but this morning I quickly returned to a couple of my old favorites, First, a black pair of Joe Boxer thong underwear. The back on these is actually fairly wide, about ¾ inch, and I was curious as to how much sensation I would get from it this morning. Turns out, not to worry!

[As an aside, I realize that a lot of guys still think of thong underwear as “women’s wear”, and probably go into a fear or terror moment of having the thong cinch up snugly between the glutes. This is the “swim brief fear” but 5 times over. But normally a guy is not going to be wearing the thong in a public setting, so if the thong creates more arousal, that is actually very much a plus not a minus.

The way both men and women are set up is that there are a lot of nerve endings that terminate in the perineum area, a spot that when massaged, feels really really good. Guys have an advantage over women in that they have a prostate and associated internal nerve endings so thong wearing should be more fun for guys than for women. The rear of the thong will tend to cinch up between the glutes, putting a very cool pressure with fun sensations both on the nerve endings in and around the prostate. Still, thongs are being sold to women as underwear in huge quantities with big supplies even in mass-market stores, so its tough to believe that women aren’t getting something back in sexual feelings by wearing them. This entire issue deserves further research I believe.]

I am really hooked on the upward pressure a little pair of thong underwear gives specifically to my perineum, and this sensation feels very nice. I will start to precum in an instant as I experience this. This sensation I’ve found is never quite as strong or enjoyable in a swim brief, even a tiny one.
The other obvious sensation is coming from the back, which is fairly wide, about ¾ inch on this thong. In getting into this thong, the back simply stays on the outside of the glutes. But as the morning has continued, with each movement, I sense that the thong is cinching up slugger between the glutes.

You will hardly notice this at first, but suddenly your attention will be drawn into the details of the predicament the thong has made for you. As I focus my brain on what I am feeling in the perineum and between the glutes, the sensations I am feeling become stronger. This sends me into a mode of more intense focus on my maleness, and my body responds with more interesting sensations. The sensations will not be strong enough to send you into an immediate orgasm, but more like riding a continuing wave with surely something sexual going on. Your body realizes it is experiencing something interesting and says to you “I like that very much, and I want more of that”!

Over the top of my neat little thong goes another old favorite, a little Duke jock strap. I’ve always thought the combination of strap and thong tended to be multiplicative, sensation-wise, not additive. In other words the sensations from both the strap and thong together are far greater than simply the sum of the sensations from each.

It’s getting tough to find the old-school jock straps in bricks-and-mortar stores. All of the recent ones I have purchased I have ordered on line. The thong tends to push upward in the perineum area, pushing my penis and balls forward. The neat little strap has the opposite effect. I love the feel of the elastic leg bands crossing my glutes, glutes that are also being hit by the sensation from the thong back, which seems to be getting tighter and tighter between my glutes.

But even more I love the downward pressure from the strap, even a strap with a pouch but no cup, pressing downward as the thong presses upward. All these pressures in combination is simply not to be missed and I will spend most of the day enjoying their interplay.

Over the top, of course, goes a nice little pair of compression shorts and a compression tee. I have a nice bulge showing in front, in large measure because of what the thong is doing.

I have very much “enjoyed” writing this story for you this morning. I think you can appreciate exactly what I am trying to tell you.

I have a half hour of stationary rowing to do next, which I will do wearing these items. My body might be a little surprised at how this all feels on a rowing machine. I’m sure the thong back will keep cinching up on me as I row, but experiencing this will certainly be part of the fun today for me. Stay tuned. Eventually I might get to having a full-blown orgasm, but for now I am in absolutely no rush.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

I have been trying to better understand how my body works, and for that matter, the bodies of nearly every guy, when it comes to what exactly must happen when sexual arousal occurs. I think practically every guy realizes that the sexual signals most often involve things that are physical, but also things that are not physical at all, but almost always things that are purely psychological. Sexual arousal normally involves an intermingling of the two.

I have been doing some reading about a study that asked men to masturbate to orgasm using porn, a common way of obtaining a sperm sample in a doctor’s office. The basic conclusion reached in the study is that the more novel the sexual situation in the porn, the greater the quantity and quality of sperm the guy would be produced. In fertility work, the concern that was raised was that couples may not be bearing children because their sexual activity in the bedroom had gotten to the point where it seems no longer novel and interesting, but to a degree commonplace and boring. It is difficult for me to ever believe that arousal and leading to orgasm can ever possibly be boring, but that is what the researchers are concluding. The recommendation was that couples may be able to increase fertility levels by introducing novel activities as part of their sexual routine.

At least since I was only 8 or 9, I was fully aware that there were situations that seemed to feel really good and that I somehow enjoyed very much, whether involving anything physical or not. I vaguely remember mentioning this to a doctor one time, and he said “Don’t worry about that. It’s just part of sex. You will figure it out soon enough.” I am reluctant to disagree at this late date, but Having tried again and again, I still haven’t figured it all out. I finally came to the realizes that most other guys haven’t figured it all out either. Maybe there is more going on than most of us realize.

In large measure, this Web site exists because large numbers of guys who are willing to admit on line that they get aroused whenever they wear, or even think about wearing, swim briefs. The Internet to a certain degree has permitted a lot of guys to be more open, if anonymously, about sexual turn-ons, particularly sexual turn-ons that might be considered odd by normal standards.

Up until recently, very recently, the definition of normal meant having sex with a partner of the opposite sex. Same-sex partner sexual activity was not considered normal, and for a long time was considered deviant behavior. Not that many years ago gay sex was viewed as a form of mental illness. To a large degree, everyone, well almost anyone, has moved on from this, but the guys who seem to be still struggling are the ones who believe that are largely heterosexual, but can be and have been aroused by certain same-sex situations, particularly if the situation is sexually quite intense, say getting to watch two guys up close masturbate each other to orgasm. For a lot of guys, many who call themselves heterosexual, a situation like this might be more fun to watch than, say, watching a heterosexual couple up close having sex.
I have written quite a bit about this, and there are more details on this in my Amazon books, so I do not want to dig down further on this subject. I’m more interested here in developing some details about sexual arousal as it relates to solo sex and items of male clothing.

Obviously, the guys who like to hang out here do so because of their sexual fascination and arousal related to swim briefs. We write stories about guys encountering swim briefs for the first time, outlining n great detail how their bodies might respond. These stories could not be accurate without the author having some first-hand knowledge of what can happen based on their own personal experience, and that is part of what makes the discussions so enjoyable.

A simple story involves a shopping trip to a local sporting goods store to buy a brief suit, and what might happen. Currently, there are not a lot of bricks-and-mortar stores that stock a variety of briefs, so setting up a situation like this is becoming more and more difficult to do. I remain convinced that very few guys doing this for the first time, would not quite quickly get into a semi-arousal situation, usually involving spewing drops of precum. But, the extent to which the guy gets aroused largely depends on how novel the situation is for the guy. Will this be the first time the guy has ever attempted to wear, in which case we might be dealing with a veritable flood of precum. This contributes to the overall apprehension regarding the situation at hand. The guy worries that once inside the suit, he is not going to be able to consciously stop the erection from growing, and the thought of going into a full-scale orgasm wearing the suit in public is almost too much to bear. Mere apprehension about the situation becomes total fear. A lot of guys will run not walk away from getting into such a situation.

I remember shopping for a swim brief in a sporting goods store many years ago. I was scared to do that but somehow I also found doing so extraordinarily enjoyable. The one I chose was a black all-nylon brief, I think by Arena. I asked the clerk “What size do you think I should get?” The clerk said to me “Well, if you don’t know for sure you can try the suit on.” I knew I was aroused, precumming, and that I was getting pretty hard already, and I was terrified at the mere thought of getting into a dressing room with the suit to try on. I said “That’s ok, I think I will take this “32”. I paid for the suit and went out the door of the store, but I often think back to what I might have missed out on trying on the suit in the store. At the same time I was terrified, I really loved how the little black suit was messing with my brain and my sexual arousal that day.

Nowadays, in the era of Internet vendors, I can order a lot of suits on line that I would never be able to find in a physical store. Like the guys masturbating to a novel porn situation, I am usually in search of a brief that I think will be a bigger turn-on than anything I already have in my collection of briefs.

Of course, over the years, I have collected a lot of basic briefs from companies like Speedo and Tyr, win what I would call my normal size, 30-32 inch waists. But then I soon discovered that downsizing a little sometimes got me a suit that was more fun to wear from a turn-on perspective. First, I downsized to 28”, but then I discovered that I could fit myself into even smaller suits at 26” and even down to 24”

A lot of companies have grab bag deals that is the way they sell suits that they have accumulated that did not sell at regular prices. I have gotten a few interesting suits this way, including a skimpy orange plaid Tyr suit that was made for the European not US market.

The bag of suits will come in the mail and its always fun tearing into the bag and trying them on one by one. Generally, what I do is line the suits up in order from biggest to smallest and then try them on one by one from largest to smallest, going over my lower body carefully with each one to “check” the fit and feel. By the time I go through 3 or 4 suits. By the time I get to the last suit in the pile, having pulled all the others on and off, I am usually fully ready to have a powerful orgasm.

Then there are the Sporti “Euro” briefs that fall into a separate category all their own. There are great fun, and I have a few of these, especially my Kelly Green suit, that are really erotic to get into.

The last category for me are the Asian briefs, particularly those sold under the Seobean and Aqux brand names. All of these are cut really low in both the rear and front. But, I really enjoy wearing them. The low fit in the rear and only limited pouch space make for some really fun times just getting the suits in place.

All this sexual play using suits is at the very heart of who I am and how I get through life. I realize a lot of guys would be very embarrassed about admitting to this, but I am happy. Very happy!

All for now!

Sebbie!

[sebbie]

Human males over the eons have become genetically programmed to respond to novel sexual situations. This automatic response system works equally well to respond to novel sexual situations with a partner, but interestingly, in setting up situations for solo sex as well. Sexually, we are all programmed to seek out situations that we think will make our penises happy, and that we will know when our penises are happy because our brains will each tell us that we are getting a lot of pleasure from the situation our penis finds itself in.

A guy can go out and seek a partner for getting this enjoyment, and it really matters not at all if the guy is straight or gay as the mechanisms are the same. But interestingly, a guy can employ the same mechanisms to advantage in solo sex. The solo sex can be considered an end unto itself, but interestingly, a guy can also use solo sex experiments as training for what to try in partner sex at some future point in time.

What does this all have to do with finding clothing items that arouse? For starters, the penis has a remarkable ability to conform to the space it is given, big or small. I think that surely has a lot to do with the genetic programming designed to interest males in having heterosexual sex with a female partner and to focus on reproduction for the continuation of the species. Penises love confined spaces. There are tons of pleasurable nerve endings that spring into action as soon as a penis starts sensing that the guy will be putting it into a place that might be barely big enough to fit. Generally speaking, penises will size themselves to just barely fit into the space that they have available to them, expanding just enough to fill that space. At the same time, penises sometimes put up a lot of kicking and screaming before they get themselves into the space that they so much want to be in, and the guy attached to the penis has to confront all the emotions and pleasurable sensations that are slamming his brain in all sorts of ways. You penis has two basic modes: 1.”I could never fit in there as there is not enough space”, but 2. “If I COULD somehow fit in there I would really enjoy myself”.

So, think about all of this in the context of a guy getting into a racing swim brief for the first time? In anticipation of what is about to happen, all sorts of questions flood his brain, the two most important ones being “How can my penis possibly fit in there?” and “What will my penis feel like once it gets surrounded on all sides by the snug and slick Lycra material in the brief?” A third and fourth question might be “Will I almost immediately go into an erection, and worse, orgasm with ejaculate?” and “What if I immediately have to go from the guy’s locker room into a semi-public situation where my swim team members will see me in this unfortunate (but strangely, very pleasurable) state, and “What happens if I have to immediately go out in front of all the people around the pool, meet or not?”

A lot of guys, while finding the whole idea of getting sexually aroused just pulling on a swim brief for the first time to be fundamentally a pleasurable event, are also terrorized by these other thoughts about what could uncontrollably happen to them. I’m convinced that many if not most guys would live to get into a swim brief and their penises are telling them that, but they are terrorized by these other questions and concerns. First, if you are new to this, it is probably best to experiment with your first swim brief alone, in your room, in front of a mirror, to see exactly how your body will respond to what your penis is programmed to see as a novel situation, and then you might have a better understanding of what to expect as possibilities should you end up with these sensations in a public or semi-public situation.

These same mechanisms work in partner sex and in finding a sexually-compatible partner. They are the biological core of what drives people together into sexual relationships of all sorts. At the same time, guys not in partner relationships still love their bodies and the wonderful sensations their bodies are able to produce, so for these guys getting these things to happen in the absence of a sexual partner takes on top priority. More about this in a later chapter, but some of this may very well involve snug-fitting clothing items of various shorts such as swim briefs, not as a replacement for partner sex but as an alternative pleasurable situation when, for whatever reason, a willing sexual partner is not available..

Enough thoughts for one morning, except one final thought. A lot of guys don’t seem to quite know what to make of their body when it produces precum as part of arousal, but this precum production does not quickly lead to a full-scale erection followed by a powerful orgasm. Here is the part that to me is really interesting. Precum production, technically the secretion of the male cowpers gland, kicks in automatically (without conscious control, and that scares a lot of guys) at the very initial stages of arousal;, usually long before any significant erection takes place. If a guy wants to, he can stay in this aroused and precum-producing mode literally for hours, without proceeding to a full-blown erection and then orgasm. This takes a bit of experimenting to train yourself, but any guy can do it. A lot of guys I don’t think fully appreciate this. Drops of precum are the body’s automatic reaction to having confronted what the body believes is a novel sexual situation, perhaps involving a potential sexual partner, but equally interesting perhaps just an item of snug-fitting clothing. If you are precumming, something you are observing or otherwise experiencing is affecting you sexually for any number of reasons. Think of your precum as the neatest-ever signal to your conscious brain that you are observing or feeling something that is turning you on sexually. This system works with potential sexual partners, but with a host of other situations as well.

[footnote: Some of you may know I lost my prostate and seminal vesicles in surgery a little over a year ago. I still have fun full-blown orgasms, but they are completely dry as there is no liquid to propel the sperm. Sperm stain in my body and are simply reabsorbed. Interestingly, however, this surgery did not remove my cowpers gland, which is way downstream of the prostate. This means m produce precum at the initial stages of arousal much as before. This really has caused me to refocus my sexual play on setting up initial arousal situations that will generate lots of precum. But other guys with normal prostates would have fun doing the same things I have been doing.]

Enjoy your body! This is all a great treat!

Sebbie

[sebbie]

A mixture of unholy terror and unbridled euphoria. That is how I felt about my body as I was coming of age in the late 1950s and early 1960s. My body was sending me all sorts of signals, and some of these signals I knew I enjoyed very much, more so than I could have possibly imagined. I knew that a lot of these pleasurable sensations originated in my groin area, but somehow, there was a whole lot more going on than that. But what? If I was picking up sensations from my groin area, how could it be that my BRAIN suddenly felt so good? A mystery for sure, but certainly a mystery that needed to be further explored.

Young guys at that point in time are confused about stuff, a lot of stuff. Maybe young guys that age are less confused nowadays, with more open discussion about sexuality appearing practically everywhere. Nowadays, ads for Viagra and Cialis are everywhere on TV. Young guys can hardly helped seeing those ads some of which are rather explicit about what the problem is and how a little pill can (purportedly) resolve the problem being described in detail. Of course, in the late 50s and early 60, the little pills were not close to being invented yet. But let us just suppose that in, say, the year 1960, an ad had appeared on a then black-and-white TV that discussed a couple in love and that the guy was having trouble with “ED”. ( I always love it when the medical community abbreviates a problem or disease using initials, such as, ED, UTI or PMS, as if the initials will then make the discussion less embarrassing to a wider audience or somehow makes the discussion “G” rated.)

The current ads leave almost nothing to the imagination, and the typical 12-year old has to conclude from the ads that first getting and then maintaining an erection must be a key problem a lot of adult men face. The odd thing, of course, is that the typical 12-year old usually is trying to find a path that will lead to fewer unwanted erections not more. Unlike the guy in the ad for ED pills, the typical teen is struggling with dealing with getting way too many erections, or so he thinks, and is unhappy that erections seem to just happen not under conscious control, often at inappropriate times and in inappropriate places, as if the penis were running the brain. Almopst every guy thinks he has a basic problem that he is getting more unwanted erections than any in his male peer group. Go figure!

The young guy attempts to get greater control over when an erection happens, and these efforts are almost never successful. Erections just keep popping up in all sorts of places and situations and in a lot of instances that creates unholy terror. What happens if an erection occurs in a athletic locker room, surrounded by a bunch of other guys? That is the unholy terror part of being a guy. A guy learns at a very young age that there are times and places where it is ok to get an erection and other times and places definitely not. Every guy is way curious about whether or not his male peers are struggling with the same or similar issue, and every guy likes to check out what is going on with every other guy in this regard, while not being too obvious about it, of course.

Young guys quickly become are fully aware of situations where an erection might be "appropriate", perhaps on a first date with a young girl, but then all those rules are coming down from the parents and at school, to make sure stuff doesn’t get too carried away. But the guy usually worries that the erection will end up being strong enough to end in a powerful orgasm, which might be (painfully) obvious at a very inappropriate time or place. It is one thing to show something of a penis bulge in the front of your jeans, but this reaches a whole new level if the bulge is accompanied by a gigantic wet spot at the very location where the tip of your penis appears to be.

Thankfully, precum stains from the initial arousal stages can leave a quarter-sized (or even half-dollar sized) damp spot on a guy’s underwear. But for the most part at least, these wet stains normally do not show through the next layer of clothing such as the guy’s jeans. But not always. Some guys precum a lot, and it could happen that the stain works itself right through to the next layer of clothing. The guy ends up maybe with a dime-sized wet spot usually near the jeans fly. The snugger the jeans fit, the more likely the precum stain will likely show through. Will the stain be big enough so the other guys will even notice? If they do notice, will one of them say something? Will this lead to teasing or bullying? Even worse if the guy is with someone from the opposite sex, will she notice what has happened? Will she say anything?

All of the above is part of the unholy terror of growing up as a guy. The unbridled euphoria is the other part. I was not very old when by accident I discovered that as all of this was happening to me, my brain was saying that the sensations were really fun. As terrific as anything fun I had ever experienced, or even more so. I knew I wanted more of this, even with all of my concern and potential embarrassment. I wanted lots more. I was hooked on my body and the sensations it was capable of rewarding me with, big time hooked. What to do?

This is enough to ponder for one day.

Sebbie

[crimsonspeedo]

I produce a lot of precum as well. The first girl to ever put her hand inside my briefs, after about an hour of making-out, drew it out quickly and wanted to know if I'd ejaculated in my underpants. Boys on the other hand, know all about how boys produce precum, and think it's hot. Girls want you to wipe off and clean up before they touch you again, boys just grin and use it for the lube it is supposed to be! Girls won't give a guy head with precum showing, but boys lick the stuff off and try to squeeze out more.

Just one more reason I'm tending more towards guys in college than girls.

[sebbie]

It is always interesting to put my body in a bit of a predicament and see how it “responds” to the situation it is faced with, largely on its own. Penises love to be in confined spaces, even spaces that do not seem to be that confining, at least not at first. In fact, penises almost seem to have “minds” of their own, and are constantly thinking about what they could feel like if the space around them seems snug and confining. At some point, they “tell” the brain what they would like to do and where they would like to be. At some point, the brain responds to these “demands” by attempting to accommodate the demands. That is at the very core of human sexuality and part of the drive that leads to a search a sexual partner.

Guys could rush out and find a sexual partner every time their penises start placing these “demands” on them, but often times this is at minimum inconvenient or perhaps even impossible. I’m always seeking out ways to have fun with these sensations and feelings by myself, without the fuss, bother and other issues related to seeking out a sexual partner. I admit that some of these techniques might be even more fun if pursued with a partner, but I would not let that stop you. Sex play is fun irrespective of whether you are engaging in it alone or with someone else.

This Web site is largely devoted to guys who like to experiment with and in different ways “enjoy” a swim brief. But swim briefs are just one possibility for making your penis happy. When your penis is happy in the situation it finds itself, you will be happy too!

For many years I have loved playing with jock straps, especially jock straps with hard cups. The reason I like these so much is that they confine my penis to try and deal with a space that is fixed, and will not expand if my penis decides to grow. Penises like to grow, and do not quite know how to deal with being surrounded, at least on three sides, with immovable cup. If the cup is big enough, there is no problem, at least no immediate problem. However, I have usually gotten the best results if the cup fits quite snuggly leaving little room for expansion. I admit that part of the fun is that the walls of the hard cup being there is partly psychological and partly physical. I may start out with a cup that is big enough such that I do not immediately have the physical sensation of the walls. Still, my mind keeps thinking that I dare not grow too much, or the walls of the cup will start putting a subtle but still real physical pressure on my penis. I start focusing on my penis and the dilemma it could be in if it starts to grow. Of course, the effect of this is that my penis starts o get bigger, and pretty soon, a situation that was just a theoretical question becomes reality. There is a feedback loop here. My penis grows, if ever so slightly. My brain focuses on what is happening, and my penis grows some more by getting still bigger and harder. Soon my brain is saying to me that the sensations are getting really interesting and enjoyable. Waves of pure enjoyment and delicious “agony” are coursing through my body, not only in the groin area but throughout my entire body.


All of you already know the recipe I like to use. Today I started with a little (Boys size 18) pair of Gildan tighty whiteys. Over that goes the duke supporter with a cup that is just big enough to contain my penis when it is completely flaccid. I want the cup to be immovable, so over that goes a pair of gold Russel football pants. These have the lace up ties. With the football pants in place the cup presses tightly against my groin, and, as a consequence my penis starts to react by telling me that it is feeling very good about the situation that is confining it.

This all feeds on itself, over and over is all great fun, not to be missed by any guy. The bright gold football pants look way cool and clearly show the bulge of the cup. I respond by touching, tapping and pressing on where the cup is, and that feels even better. Next up I will do my stationary rowing and biking with the cup firmly in place. How long will I be able to take all this psycho-sexual “abuse”? That is an empirical question soon to be tested at length.
Its well worth it to locate a cup that will give you the correct fit.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

This morning, I took particular notice of this line on the Miami Country Day Aquatics Web site

“When purchasing a swim suit it is important that your swimmer gets the RIGHT SIZE. As a general rule, a swim suit should feel like it is 2 SIZES TOO SMALL when it is dry.”

That is very interesting. The statement is specifically directed to the mothers of sons, I assume. What it says is that undersized suits generally work better for swimming than suits that are a little too big.

Mothers of sons generally would not think that way. In fact, they usually think just the opposite. I’m not sure how your mom picked out clothing items when you were a kid. My mom was of the school “buy two sizes too big as whatever it is will last longer and you will always grow into whatever it is.” This rule applied to practically everything: shirts, jeans, underwear and swimwear.

Moms generally think they are somehow experts with respect to what is going on in the heads of their sons perhaps aged 11 or 12, and part of this expertise is to never buy clothing items that fit just right at that age, because the boy will quickly outgrow whatever it is. Saving money is equated to buying oversized clothing, unless the boy can wear castoffs from an older brother. Of course, moms understand none of this.

By age 12, nearly every boy has discovered what are turning out to be some really interesting things about his body, in particular that some body parts felt really good when touched or rubbed. The vast majority of boys that age would be totally embarrassed to share that newfound information with anyone, and least of all their mothers. Shortly thereafter a boy learns that certain types of clothing make it easier to repeat those sensations, but there is one problem: too much touching and rubbing leads to growth, growth that could become obvious if a lot of care is not taken. Thus arises the odd combination of anxiety, terror, and euphoria. The poor guy is already addicted to the feelings and sensations his body is able to create, but terrified and anxious that anyone else could accidentally find that out.

So, at this age or even earlier, the boy wants to learn how to swim, but the swim club wants him to wear a swim brief. No male swimmer wears a lot of clothing and the clothing they wear doesn’t hide a lot. He owns an oversized pair of board shorts his mom bought him (too big is always good) and at least not when wet, all the cloth hides a lot of stuff. But a swim brief for a swim team is a whole new world. Here is a garment that, when wet is going to likely reveal the exact state of the anatomy to the rest of the peer group of both sexes. That would be a potential situation that could not only cause a lot of anxiety but also to some potentially embarrassing situations. How to the older, more confident male swimmers deal with all of this. They seem to treat wearing a swim brief as just all in a normal day. How can that be? The boy says to himself “am I unique in having this problem?” “How do the older boys deal with what might very well happen? They seem so unconcerned about their bodies! Maybe I am the only one facing this!”

But as this quite indicates, things are only going to get worse not better. Now the swim coach want my mom to buy me not only a brief, but a swim brief that is two sizes too small, as it will stretch out in the water and as it is worn over time. I suspect that the warning that too large a suit could fall off completely while swimming in the pool is an admonition based on sad experience of coaches, and not just hypothetical. The embarrassment from that trumps the embarrassment from getting an erection in too small a suit, and having that become obviously and painfully apparent during a practice.

Guys struggle with all of this. They are addicted to the wonderful sensations their bodies are capably of producing, and perhaps especially so while wearing a really snug swimsuit. At the same time they are terrified that they are alone in having to deal with the problem. Moms buying swimsuits for their sons generally understand none of this.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

As the weather turns cooler and the swimming brief season winds down, it’s time to turn to trying other ideas. For me, fall is always the season when I pull out one of my various pairs of football pants. I follow the same sizing ideas with football pants that I do with swimming briefs, that is, small and snug is good, but even snugger and Extra Small (sometimes known as XS) is even better!

The shorter day lengths affect me in a variety of ways. In the summer months, I seem to be able to get aroused very quickly, but as the nights grow longer and the days get shorter, I tend to lose some of this ability. So coming up with fresh ideas to keep myself hot and bothered as winter approaches becomes more and more important to do as the fall season progresses.

My interest in football is mainly linked to what the guys wear. I think the shiny pants are cool, and being able to see the strap line makes this even neater. So the first thing I did this morning was to sort through my drawer of straps, and I ended up pulling out an “Old School” Bike strap, size small, of course! I’ve often thought that straps are like fine wines. Each brand, style and size fits and feels a little different, but any one of them can be quite enjoyable. Further, a strap that seems to be a little uncomfortable when I first put it on can suddenly start to produce some really pleasant sensations.

Then, I sorted through my drawer of football pants and ended up pulling out the little black pair of Russell’s, size XS. Goodness these fit snug! But they look and feel great! There is just no room to spare in them anywhere, and they are laced up tight and with one of those little metal loop belts.

Combined with a compression tee, this is going to be a great combination for my stationary rowing, bicycling and weightlifting workout today. No cup yet, but the day is early! Have fun and make certain you continue to enjoy yourself even as the hot summer days fade into fall.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

Today, with cooler weather coming on, I dug out another pair of football pants for my workout. This was an older pair, solid white, branded “Bike”. What is interesting about these particular pants is that even dry, they are kinda see through, much like a white swim brief would be. They do have lining here and there, most notably along the butt crack and under the lace-up front.

I decided that the only thing to wear with a pair of Bike football pants was only a genuine Bike jock strap, and I had one of those right on the top of my jock strap drawer. What makes this combination so interesting is that the jock strap can be easily seen through the semi-transparent white material. This is a great look, and I really enjoyed myself this morning working out in my football pants and Bike strap combo.

All for now!

[sebbie]

You have read all of these stories before, perhaps several times before, but I always have fun writing them. So consider them as much as being pleasant for me as they are for you to read.

I’m always looking for interesting ways to pleasure myself. I am ok with this and at this stage it is certainly not something that I would be embarrassed to admit. Well, I guess that might depend on the exact situation I was in, but heck, I think a basic issue is that a lot of guys refuse to admit that they are interested in, if not engaging in self pleasure. Plus, the whole discussion often gets intermingled with the sexual orientation issue. As is, a guy who just enjoys himself alone somehow must not be heterosexual. It is sad that this is sometimes the case. Why not instead treat self pleasure for what it is—a pleasant way to enjoy a leisurely afternoon and nothing more or less, and simply not pass judgment other than to say that successful self-pleasure is both a science and an art. It is also very individualized and personalized.

What works for me might not work for you, or it might work very well. But goodness, that is true of all of sex and sexuality, solo sex or partner sex, and finding the right sexual partner really hinges on finding a partner who enjoys the same things you enjoy doing.

So, here goes. I hope you find what I write to be interesting to read and maybe try on your own. But then, maybe I didn’t somehow push your buttons. It doesn’t really matter.

I’ve long thought men’s thongs either as underwear or as swimwear were really interesting to wear. I’ve thought so ever since I saw the first pair of men’s thong on 1988, I think it was. What fascinated me the most was that elastic that was going to have to cinch up tightly between my glutes as I pulled on the thong. Up until then I had not fully appreciated how interesting the perineum area was just behind my scrotum was. I soon found out. I soon discovered that each thong fit a little differently, some had wider bands in the rear, bands that did not cinch up between my glutes quite as tightly. Often, these were sold as swimwear, as the back would cover the butt crack. I also discovered that the smaller the thong, the more it would press on my perineum, so undersizing a little was a good idea. Further a proper-fitting thong would tent to not only press on the perineum, but push the rest of my male anatomy front and forward.

I have also long been fascinated by jock straps or athletic supporters, but especially the athletic supporters that had hard protective cups. Somehow I always thought the idea of having a hard cup containing a (growing) penis couldn’t help but feeling erotic. Some of this, I now realize, was psychological. The hard cup has the opposite effect of the thong. The cup tends to press everything down and back whereas the thong pushes everything front and forward. Why not then combine the two..a snug-fitting jockstrap with a cup barely big enough to contain my flaccid anatomy, with a thong underneath relentlessly pressing my penis into the cup. I would sense the hard cup surrounding me, but with very little if any space to expand without running into the walls of the cup. Psychologically, I would know the cup was containing me, but doing anything about it would pose something of a dilemma.

I tend to precum—a lot—whenever I even think about such situations, and then start to write. If you have never tried wearing a thong, maybe you will start to precum as soon as you start to pull one on, thinking about all the things I have just told you. Goodness, I tend to precum just writing these things, and I’ve always thought it a fun experiment to see exactly what thoughts my precum “factory” is sensitive to.

As I write this, I have a thong on which has cinched up quite tightly, and I can feel an interesting constant but subtle pressure in my perineum—very pleasant. My penis is being forced into a little strap and cup, and the sensation is one of having my penis being surrounded on three sides. I am feeling quite horny as I write this, just not horny enough to go into a ful-scale orgasm. In fact, I have some more exercising to do, and I will stay in this state though the next phase of my exercise routine. I just got off 30 minutes on my stationary rower, which tended to move the cup around just a bit with each stroke, and I am off to my stationary bike. Somehow I am going to have to “survive” the sensations from that thong cinching up between my glutes while on the bike seat, while the cup moves around with each turn. This is going to keep feeling more and more interesting as time progresses. I have a pair of Adidas compression or biking shorts over everything, which keeps the cup firmly planted.

What if I go into a full scale orgasm while wearing all of this? Surprisingly, I have found this difficult to do ith the cup in place. It is possible, but not easily. The various pressures are enough to keep me horny, but not quite where I need to be. I can go for hours this way. It’s just a great way to spend a leisurely afternoon, alone. Or, maybe with a partner who enjoys the same thing. All for now, as I now need to go ride my bike.

Sebbie

[PSDave]

I think you will find that the purpose of the hard cup is not for erection control (which sounds like it could be painful) but for protection in sports. Something about a baseball smashing into you crotch and ruining your chances at a family. The hard cup is to stop that from happening. It is utilitarian - not fashion.
I have on a couple occasions seen guys wearing the hard cups under speedos and I have to say it was quite funny. The shape is so distinctive and the form quite unnatural so it is obvious. I have also seen one guy with the hard cup that is covered in leather and actually ties on. The one I saw was navy blue leather with a red strap that tied on for a secure fit. I am sure it wasn't meant to be worn as beach attire but his body and tan was something to be admired. Saw him in the restroom rinsing it off. He told me the salt water would ruin the leather and not being able to jump in the surf made it hot to wear. I was hoping he'd let me try it but he got it rinsed off and cooled down and he put it back on and headed out to the beach.

[sebbie]

PSDave, a guy's penis has the amazing ability to somehow, some way "cope" with the space it has available to it. It is certainly possible to purchase larger cups so your penis simply flops around inside the cup as it grows, but that is not really any fun. The really fun part comes when your penis senses that the space it has available to it is in some manner confining, such as feeling a sense of sides of the cup lightly touching it, which means in this case finding a cup that barely fits over your flaccid penis.

Psychologically and physically, this is a most interesting psycho sexual "predicament" Sometimes I will get into a cup/strap combination and initially say to myself that this unfortunately seems to be really uncomfortable. Then something somehow ends up coming together and I am quickly saying to myself that was only a moment ago agony is suddenly this amazingly delicious agony that I am absolutely and totally hooked on.

If you have never been in this psychological and physical space involving straps and cups. You will end up playing with and enjoying yourself on a whole bunch of different levels. I've given you a ton of tips on techniques that work for me. At the best, you will soon be "hooked on a feeling" too!

[sebbie]

My body loves to send my brain signals, some physical, but some psychological. I have to admit, the ones I enjoy the most are the instances that combine the two into a wild mix. I have to admit, the whole issue of how my brain and sex organs interact with each other has always been a topic that has fascinated me endlessly.

Here is what fascinates me so much. Sometimes I am pretty certain that my brain is running the show, and giving directions to my body. That is fairly easy to understand. But sometimes it seems just the opposite. That is, my body is running the show and sending fun signals to my brain. That drives me silly, sometimes, but that situation can also be terrifically enjoyable. And my brain knows it when my body is enjoying itself. So, the two are hopelessly and inextricably intertwined. That there is still an element of strange mystery to all of this after all these years, only adds to the pleasure.

What does all of this have to do with brief swimsuits? It turns out, quite a bit. Do any of you recall the first time you ever got to shop for a swim brief? Or, got yourself in a situation where you were being “forced” to wear a swim brief for the first time, say, perhaps as a requirement for taking swim lessons or even being on a swim team?

My hunch is that in a situation like this you were having a lot of complicated feelings, some in your brain but also in your groin. You may have felt apprehensive, a little scared, but also excited, and somehow enthusiastic. At some level, you wanted to be someplace else, but at another level you were rather enjoying yourself. How could such conflicting feelings co-exist?
Oddly enough, the male body is set up for driving the male brain in strange ways. At one level, you are excited about the possibility of getting to experience the sensations from wearing a swim brief for the first time. At another level, you are scared, perhaps even scared “stiff”.

The male body does some wonderful things, but a lot of males tend to think that these things could be embarrassing not wonderful. The sensations are great, but what about the other stuff going on, stuff that seems weird.

One of the weirdest parts is the precum thing. Early on, most guys learn about the orgasm and ejaculation part, but the precum part just seems really odd. Guys are OK with the idea that semen is ejaculated during an orgasm, but the idea of dealing with a liquid, even in small amounts, that is definitely not urine and not semen, is less well understood.

Let me suppose that you are back at an age where you are shopping for your first swim brief. At that age, guys have pretty well taught themselves to believe that sexual arousal is supposed to be the consequence of observing a live person and the possibilities of that person as a sexual partner. But you are not looking at other people your age, you are shopping for an inanimate swim brief. That your body should respond to such a situation seems weird, and perhaps you are thinking “I must be abnormal for this to be happening” My brain is processing the idea that I am just looking at swim briefs in a store, but my body is starting to send signals that at some level that I am starting to get aroused.

What kind of signals? Well, precum! As a shopper, you aren’t aroused as such. Your penis is the same size as it normally is in a flaccid state, but, suddenly you can feel a damp spot forming on your underwear right at the tip of your penis. Strange! Really strange! The liquid is clear and quit viscous, unlike anything you have ever seen before

Usually, the precum is viscous enough to not work its way past your underwear to your next layer of clothing such as your jeans. The same is not true for semen. I know that from a terrifying and embarrassing experience I had when I was 16. That experience is still just too embarrassing to discuss here in detail.

It wasn’t long before I discovered that when I was feeling the damp precum at the tip of my penis, I was starting to feel good. Actually, really good. So merely shopping for a sut was psychologically interesting and fun, even if I didn’t actually try it on.

But, I was also aware of two odd facts. First, the precum that didn’t show on my jeans would certainly show at the tip of my penis if I were wearing a nylon swim brief, and second, those nylon briefs from the 1960s and 70s were made of a very thin material and basically left almost nothing to the imagination if I did get a real erection going. So there were twin terrors in wearing these. Either a damp precum spot at my penis tip others might very well notice, or an erection that others surely would notice. Twin terrors rolled into one. Do I really want to do this, even with these issues and problems? Well, yes, psychologically my body was making it really tough for me to not proceed.

This is a long enough story for today.
Sebbie

[sebbie]

Mannnnnn……that fits snug!!!!!!! I discovered that I particularly “enjoyed” wearing really snug fitting clothing at a very early age. I must have been no older than 5 or 6 years old. For a long time, I was not clear at all was going on with me, but I knew it was something….and I realized that whatever I felt when I got into something that fit snugly was something that I really liked.

Thus began a lifelong quest to find articles of clothing that fit me as tight as possible. As a child, my mom I don’t think my mom ever quite figured out what exactly was going on with me. I was constantly on the prowl for new ideas and items that would get me to where I wanted to be.

My mom, of course, had other ideas. She tended to favor loose-fitting clothing that I would be able to gradually grow into, clothing that would last me a long, long time. Oh, and she thought I should wear boxer briefs, not real cotton briefs like the other guys were wearing. As a result, I got “excited” even just thinking about the possibility of wearing real briefs, like the other guys wore. In retrospect, this was a conflict of sorts that I think in part shaped my interest in snug-fitting clothing in all its forms.

But I was growing up, becoming a young adult, and getting out on my own, away from home. I finally had the chance to start buying the clothing I wanted, not the clothing my mom really thought I should wear. My mom had pretty well figured out that I had this thing for swimming trunks, not Speedo briefs, mind you, just short regular trunks. Did I mention that almost all of the cotton trunks in those days had a coarse nylon liner in the form of a brief? It took me no time at all to learn that even these trunks with the snug fitting course-textured liner were fun to wear. Instant hard-on, well nearly instant hard-on. I looked down there and there seemed to be no place for my penis to go. Should I try to put my rapidly-hardening penis in a downward direction? It did not seem to fit. Should I try and lay it sideways? That did not seem to work very well either.

Mom found out I got turned on just by wearing these swim trunks in a most embarrassing way. I came indoors from the little pool we had, pulled down my trunks and revealed a very large penis that promptly went into a full-blown orgasm right in front of my mom! How embarrassing. I think that may have been the first real orgasm I had ever had. My mom, bless her, did not scold me. Instead, I think she said something like “Don’t be scared. That is quite normal.” Throughout my adult life I never got the courage to ask my mom what she really thought on that most interesting day. In retrospect, mom never scolded me, and to this day I do not know if she ever told my dad what had happened to me that day. At some level, I suspect that she was proud I was growing up.

By that time, I had concluded that my trunks, even though they were not briefs, were still a lot fun. Whenever my parents were gone for an hour or two I would dig out my trunks, and play around in them until I had an orgasm. This happened over and over even in months when it was way too cold to get into the pool. The liner collected the semen, which dried, and made each successive masturbation even more and more interesting. I think I was trying to set some sort of a record for the amount of dried semen I could collect. Eventually, holes developed in the liner where I had ejaculated so often.

Growing up a guy is fun! Really fun!

Sebbie

[sebbie]

WOW that feels good! I’m not quite sure what is happening to me. The sensation is both subtle and sensational. How can something so subtle being so enjoyable? All I want to think about is the sensations I can feel it coming from my groin area. I feel tense, but at the same time very relaxed.

Even the thought of having snug-fitting clothing pressing tightly against my penis is sending me off into what seems to me to be nearly another dimension. Its almost as if my body lives in two places, the first place being where I live my normal life, unfettered by any sexual feelings and sensations. But there is also this other place I can go and visit, a wonderful place that is at once both relaxing and exciting.

I am just starting to go to that place right now. The sensations I am starting to experience a subtle, but very real to me. I guess nearly universally, other guys can experience the same sensations I experience, and, almost universally as well, are perhaps annoyed, and I am off to the races, so to speak. or even terrorized by what is happening in their bodies. Guys love to be control over every aspect of their lives. It comes as a huge shock when guys discover that their sexual feelings and sensations are the one thing about their lives where they are not always in control. Stuff happens. Sometimes stuff that seems way out of place. Sometimes stuff that could turn out to be way embarrassing unless somehow brought under control.

A basic puzzle I have confronted all my life is the simple question “Does the brain tell the penis what to do, or does the penis tell the brain what to do?” Try as I might, I have not been able to come up with a definitive answer to this question. At some point, something happens, and I am not sure what. I start to think about my penis. My penis reacts almost immediately, and it starts to feel a bit tense particularly right near where my penis connects to the rest of my body. Just a little. Maybe a tiny drop of precum with start to form. When I start to sense even a bit of moisture I know for sure that something has happened. In my younger days, I wasn’t entirely certain what was going on. Over the years, I have learned to just be happy that all of this is happening to me, and just kick back and start to enjoy the sensations.

I suppose that some of you might say that what must have happened was that I either just saw or maybe even met someone who turned me on, sexually. After all, haven’t I just outlined what biologically must be the start of sexual attraction? Well, yes..and maybe no.

Over the years, I have also learned that sexual attraction to another person is but one of many ways of getting those sensational feelings going, and despite all of the electronic and social media out there, perhaps not the simplest way. I guess that unlike many other guys, I never have been much of a porn fan or watcher. For me, the most erotic thing is reading about how other guys struggle with the same feelings and sensations I have. If you are still reading this, you apparently are one of those too. If you are starting to think about the same things I like to think about, I congratulate you. You can just kick back and enjoy yourself too, just as I do. You do not need permission from me or anyone else to have some fun on your own.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

Shopping for clothes, and in particular clothes that you will want to try on in a changing room, always was a moment of terror but at the same time a great deal of fun as well. The terror occurred because I did not know exactly how my body was going to respond faced with a brand-new and novel situation.
The entire idea of going out and shopping for swim briefs is less popular now than it was 20 years ago. This is in part due to the fact that many guys are probably a little bit to a lot apprehensive about buying such a garment, and then taking it up to a sales clerk (often female) to pay. Trying on the brief in a in a store changing room presents a new and possibly more difficult set of challenges.

So, a lot of guys wear swim briefs, if not for swimming, perhaps serving as as undergarments under board shorts and even for daily wear under jeans. If guys aren’t buying these from bricks-and-mortar stores, what is the supply source? Why on line, of course! That is the easy way to deal with all of the difficulties and fears associated with going to a physical store, finding and then making a purchase. Many guys have always been fascinated with the whole issue of how they will look wearing a swim brief, whether they are skinny enough at the waist, fit enough, etc to pull off the look of the fit guys they see in Web photos, but a lot of guys do not want strangers to make the same judgments, so this can pose a major psychological dilemma. As an individual, you can err on the side of not being critical enough, or perhaps sometimes overly self-critical. Americans, in particular, seem to worry a lot about this, and have the belief that there are somehow rigid standards with respect to whether a guy if fit enough to appear in public in a swim brief. Many American women, in particular, seem to be way hung up on this. Swim brief photo posters probably are often sorting this out as to what others might think.

The old idea of taking swim briefs into a store changing room in various styles and sizes was always an interesting one, however, both psychologically and physically. In a previous post in this series, I have outlined a fun thing to try if you already own briefs in various styles and sizes, that is, lining them all up from biggest to smallest and then trying them on, one-at-a-time from largest and loosest-fitting to smallest and snuggest-fitting. I highly recommend this as an interesting thing to do if you have not tried it, and how your body responds with each change of garment will be, well, fascinating. You will be playing around in this loopy area where you might discover that your body has some ideas about what it is confronting a situation that will look and feel a little different, often snugger and more revealing in sequence. Your body could take over from your brain.In my teens, I might have worried that I was going to have an full orgasm right into the brief I was trying on. Once I got into my 20s, my main concern shifted toward leaving a large precum stain of the brief I would probably be carrying to the checkout counter!

This is the same dilemma faced by members of swim teams who are told that they will be required to wear briefs in a meet. For the young guy who has never seen himself in a swim brief, this can be a moment of real terror, especially if the guy will be trying on a swim brief for the first time in front of the other guys in the locker room. Will I get an erection? Holy terror, will I go into an orgasm on the spot? What about the other guys in the locker room? Are they struggling with the same issues I am sorting through? Are they experiencing the same psychological and physical issues I am confronting? Could this mean that deep down I am a homo? The whole situation whereby a bunch of fit young swim team guys are all changing into swim briefs seems to be a situation that is just a touch homoerotic.

Then there is the issue of downsizing for the meet. The swim coach requires that we wear exceptionally snug and tiny briefs for the meets, meets where the public will be watching me. Having successfully navigated putting on a normal-sized swim brief without too much embarrassment or obvious problems, what happens when I know now that the brief I will have to wear for the meet will be even skimpier, with a snugger and tighter fit?

One partial solution to this series of problems is to make certain that your first experience in dealing with these issues is not in the swim team locker room, but rather in private. Fortunately, that is where the on-line retailers such as swimoutlet.com can serve a useful purpose. Part of the complexity of dealing with the psychological and physical issues in coping with all of this relates to the fact that the briefs large and represent a new and different experience. I suppose the swim coach could pass out the meet briefs and instruct the team members not try them on now but to take them home and try them on for fit. Here is another option. An online outlet such as Swimoutlet sells what they call “grab bag” briefs often at a fraction of the price of other briefs. Swimoutlet usually has one of these for Tyr briefs and another for Speedo. Normally these are briefs that for whatever reason did not sell out at normal prices. The buyer has control of the size but not the style or color, which is part of the fun.

For example, suppose I ordinarily wear a size 32, but I am supposed to downsize for a swim meet. Part of the fun here is that you do not get any control over style or color. These are cheap, usually about 1/3 the regular retail price. Place an order for three briefs, with one each of size 32, 30 and 28, so you have a brief that is normal-sized and also one and two sizes down. You are going to experiment with fit, feel and body response when you are confronted with the novel situation of trying on swim briefs in various styles and sizes. You will have the opportunities to meet your fears and apprehensions directly, but in private not in the semi-public spaces of a locker room.

When you get the order, try the briefs on one at a time, from largest to smallest, in front of a mirror, in the privacy of your bedroom. If you are ok at home, you will at least be more comfortable doing the same in the locker-room situation. If the experiment elicits a strong physical response by your body, the best thing to do is to just let it all happen, and make another attempt the next day when you are calmer and can try again. Eventually, with sufficient practice, you should be able to work yourself through all of your fears. It may take you two attempts, or three, or even more. But with each attempt you will learn something more about your body and exactly how it responds to a novel situation.

Man those briefs feel good! Once the sheer terror subsides, you can just kick back and enjoy being a guy, with all that entails!

Sebbie

[sebbie]

Much of the complicated process of understanding human sexuality involves learning that every individual is unique and special in ways that are as unique as an individual fingerprint. No two people are the same in this regard, and I am often amazed at the whole idea that somehow people can pair up in sexually compatible relationships that somehow hang together from both a physical and an emotional perspective. For married couples, much of this becomes a discovery process that often gradually but continually takes place after, not before the marriage.

Many adult women grow up learning that somehow that they should be the sole source of sexual arousal and pleasure for men, and end up being surprised and unhappy that guys frequently do not sexually behave the way the woman was led to believe. For example, I have talked to women who are absolutely in bits and pieces when they accidentally discover their husband masturbating alone in the bathroom. I keep telling these women that things could be a whole lot worse, and that this is indeed very common and that the situation needs to be approached with understanding not anger. Indeed, the proper response by a woman when accidentally encountering her man masturbating should be “May I help you?”

Men learn the details of what they particularly enjoy at a very early age, and much of what they learn does not fit the stereotypes in the movies at all. Furthermore, a lot of particularly beloved the solo-sex activity sticks like glue throughout adulthood. It is not as if what a guy found to be fun sexually as a teenager will no longer be fun in adulthood. The tricky part is integrating all of this into an adult relationship that is interesting and enjoyable for both parties.

Gay guys in relationships tend to have one advantage over straight couples in that their teenage solo-sex experiences are frequently not that dissimilar. Any guy knows that solo sex can be quite enjoyable, but straight guys generally have a lot more difficulty sharing what it is they like about solo sex with a female partner than do male partners. Of course, the vast majority of straight guys would greatly fear discussing such topics at all with their straight male friends, for fear that they might be labeled as at least gay-interested if they did so.

So, what does all this have to do with swim briefs, or in particular, guys who manage to get turned on by wearing skimpy swim briefs (and further, why am I writing about this here)? I once received a letter from a guy who was in a relationship with a female partner, but he also got turned on by wearing skimpy swim briefs. He was wondering what he should do about this. He was somehow wonder if there was “a cure” that would help him break his “habit” of enjoying himself this way, and further, what would his female partner say if she found out that she was not necessarily always the center of his attention, sexually?

These are not easy questions to answer for sure. Revealing this to a female partner could end up going in any number of different directions. Some women may find the whole situation most uncomfortable and want to get out of the relationship ASAP, as this was going into territory her mother never told her about. Other women may be more open-minded about the whole situation and in particular a woman might be open minded if she herself enjoys seeing her guy wearing a swim brief. Some women are ok with their guy wearing a swim brief in private but not in public. These women may have a particular issue with other women seeing and ogling the outline of her guy’s male parts in a swim brief at a pool or beach. This goes back to the female idea that the guy is hers and hers alone. Strangely, a lot of men have quite the opposite reaction when other guys stare at her in a skimpy bikini, as in look how lucky I am.

All for now.

Sebbie

[MaryAnderson]

I love to wear swimsuits so whenever there would be a trip with my friends, we always have this kind of enjoyment.

Last time, We’d be spending our days relaxing, swimming, and beach hopping with most attractive beachwear “Swimsuit”.

Mostly the people hate for swimsuits shopping but from a long time I was looking for the attractive swimsuit and finally I got it from http://www.vidasoleil.com/

You will get the swimsuits for everyone whether she will be of 30’s or 50’s.

[sebbie]

Yah but where is the stuff for guys, who are 99 percent of the members of this site?

[sebbie]

Making your workout zing

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the issues a lot of guys have in sustaining a workout and exercise program over a long period of time. We are talking years, not merely a few weeks or even months, but rather, thinking up strategies that make the program sustainable over much longer periods.
As many of you know, a lot of the exercise routines, especially those that are aerobic and conditioning in nature, tend to require lengthy periods of time, often periods of a half hour or more. This can get rather boring if you don’t have some ways to keep your mind occupied during the long workouts.

I think all of you have pretty well figured out that I am not a swimmer, despite my love of swim briefs. Mostly I do stationary rowing and stationary bike riding. I’ve learned that two things are essential for sustaining good workouts over the long term. The first is a good TV show to watch, but the second is having the right clothing available for the workout, and for me this varies for me not only day by day but also by the season of the year, with more clothing in the winter months.

I would like to think that swim briefs make good workout clothing for my routines, but, try as I might. I have never gotten just a swim brief to work very well. In either the rowing or biking routine, I find that I want something that comes farther down on my legs. Depending on the season, this usually means one of the following:

1. Stretch compression shorts that are sold as an athletic undergarment, or even as athletic underwear for daily wear. Normally these are not supposed to be appropriate as an outer garment, though I sometimes ending up using them this way

2. Jammers designed for swimmers from the major manufacturers such as Speedo and Tyr

3. Stretchy designer workout shorts designed to be worn as an outer garment in a public gym

4. Pants designed as part of a football player

5. Running tights. Some I have do have a fly and are designed to be worn under loose-fitting shorts but others do not

6. Wrestling singlets with a combined top and bottom.

7. Full cotton Sweatpants and Sweatshirts 9the most boring of the options)

I tend to alternate these, in part based on season, but also in part based on exactly how horny I am feeling on any given days. On some days I am drawn to wearing something that fits really snug and tight, but on other days not quite so much. You can somewhat gauge my degree of horniness based on what you see me wearing on any given day!

For me, all of these require wearing at least something underneath. I could use a swim brief, but somehow that has never worked that well. I’ve always enjoyed wearing tighty whiteys too, and I do like to have another layer on my butt when I am working out. But I truly love the fit and fel of a good, snug strap, sometimes with a hard cup but sometimes not. The strap often ends up OVER the tighty whiteys, but under whatever else I am wearing that way. I have long found that my workout proceeds faster when my entire groin area is fully activated in the process. Part of what is going on here is that if my groin area is happy, then I am happy working out, and the happier my groin area is, the more involved I will be in getting a good workout.

I usually also wear a compression tee as a top, short sleeved in the summer, and long-sleeved in the winter months. If friends unexpectedly show up at the door while I am working out, I am fully covered.

The right workout wear can really help sustain your workouts over a long period of time. Looking good in the workout wear becomes part of the goal in doing the workout. Part of what works for me is that I can do my work out in 30-minute increments as I have all the gym equipment in my house, and I do not have to make a special trip to go out to the gym (or pool). Then I have this great collection of workout wear with something different to try most every day and check out to see how my groin will respond to each possibility on each day. This becomes part of the workout fun for me.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

I have been watching with some interest the discussions here about old school nylon swim briefs, and in particular the discussions related to how they felt and what they revealed about the male anatomy, especially when wet. Compared with modern snug-fitting briefs, these old school nylon briefs fit rather loosely. Some guys have always seemed to think that in terms of being modest, looser garments are always better, which would lead them possibly into all-nylon swimwear as opposed to Lycra briefs.

Another discussion I have been watching with some considerable interest is the one related to wearing a so-called “swimmer’s strap” under a swim brief and the so-called ups and downs of that. Of course, this almost invariably leads to yet another discussion relating to the idea of using a strap under all nylon swimwear to provide some support missing with the nylon but automatically there with Lycra in a brief or jammer suit.

A third discussion I have been watching relates to the potential renewed popularity of old school short leg nylon shorts for running and what is currently happening on that scene.

I love to shop the off-price clothing retailers, particularly during the holiday season. I was finding some items for some “self gifting” out at Gabriel’s, what I call an off-price, off-price clothing retailer ( usually half price or less than the better-known T.J. Max or Burlington although all of them sell stuff that did not sell at Macys and other full-price department stores). I was actually looking to pick up a pair of skinny jeans I thought I might like that I had spotted but not purchased on an earlier shopping trip. It takes a while to sort through the merchandise at Gabriel’s. Often there are one-of-a-kind items just thrown together on racks with other one-of-a-kind items. In digging through all of this, I spotted something interesting, what appeared to me a pair of old-school short-leg nylon running shorts in solid navy blue. For $3.49 I knew I had to add them to my collection of interesting things to wear.

So, I gift myself at Christmas, and the first thing I notice is the white decal logo, that says “World Wide Aquatics”. Ah hah! These were not intended as running shorts at all but as all-nylon swimwear, even though they have the standard runners’ cut and shape on the sides. Here is the logo:

http://www.sebringsil.com/world2.jpg

Inside, is an all nylon support brief made of the exact same material as the outside. Smooth and silky. This is starting to look like it could be fun.

Many of you who have followed me know that I had prostate surgery nearly 2 years ago, and since then I have been very slowly but steadily rebuilding my ability to get a firm hard-on. Not to worry! I pulled these shorts on and I almost immediately had a nice firm hard-on underway. Maybe I have accidentally discovered a new medical treatment here. OK, so building an erection is partly physical but also partly psychological. My body tells me how it feels about the particular situation is confronting, not my mind. If my body likes the situation it finds itself in, it will let me know, and sometimes in a hurry! I’ve become an expert in creating these uncomfortable situations for pleasure as I experimented with ideas over the years, and I always hope that other guys will take full advantage of what I have learned in their own life experiences.

I’ve always thought that this is the part about male sexuality that often drives guys bananas. Just when you think your arousal mechanism is fast asleep, it sometimes perks up to attention and often lightning fast. I’ve actually been using the items in my swimwear collection as therapy and as rehab aids post prostate surgery. I’m too embarrassed to tell my urologist exactly what I am up to in this regard (he keeps asking me what happens when I am with a woman, and I keep trying to walk around the subject, but then he has this puzzled look on his face as to how I seem to know exactly where I am in the rehab process!) This is nothing short hilarious, if you stop and think about it.

Anyhow, in the ongoing discussion of swimmer’s jocks, the thought occurred to me that it is under the nylon swimsuits that a nice snug strap really makes a whole lot of sense, in part to provide support but also to keep you modest once your thin nylon suit gets wet. On this suit, the inside navy support brief provides a double layer of navy blue, but the suit without the brief would be quite transparent, and without a strap would probably clearly outline your anatomy too when the suit is wet. Depending on your particular tastes in self-pleasuring, you can try this either with the strap or just inside the slick nylon liner. I’ve had good success both ways. For those of you who enjoy doing this in a standard swim brief (not that there are any of you reading this here!), the all-nylon provides an interesting alternative and a different feel from the Lycra. I recommend trying this as a change of pace from how you normally play with yourself for pleasure. I think you will find the slick nylon fun, almost like a lube but without the messiness.

How does this old-school suit look on an old-school body? Well, here is a photo. I actually had a full size strap on underneath when I snapped this photo, and the suit has a high enough rise to cover all of this. You can see the cut here.

http://www.sebringsil.com/world1.jpg

I did some digging on World Wide Aquatics on the Web. This appears to have at one time been a Florida based retailer of swimwear and athletic clothing, but apparently has gone out of business, and the Web site address is up for sale. So I might have found a unique item to own and add to the collection.

Oh, and I did buy the jeans too. They are skinny-cut jeans of the Denizen brand name, which was a short-lived Levis brand they sold at Discount department stores mainly at Target. Hmmm, these are snugger in the legs than a standard pair of Levis 511’s and have some Lycra mixed in the denim, so they stretch. These are 32 W and I normally wear a 31 W in skinny jeans, but I’m glad they didn’t have a 31 W as these fit quite snug around the waist. And goodness, they fit snug in the butt and thighs. They feel almost like an old school pair of skinny jeans like I loved in the 1960s. I need to cool down a bit. If I keep thinking about this, I fear that I am going to end up with another hard-on. That could get messy, and I’ve got stuff to do today where one of these accidental hard-ons (or is it hard’s on?) could be a problem!

I hope you enjoyed my adventure. Usually I find only one interesting item per shopping trip but this time I found several items. The interesting cotton-Lycra underwear I found was neat too. I sincerely hope that all of you have the opportunity to enjoy yourselves as much as I find pleasure in so doing. If you are still a little bit squeamish or feel a little embarrassed about admitting to yourself that your body might like some of these ideas and that they might prove to be quite enjoyable, I would encourage you to dive right in. What works for you might not be the same as what works for me, and part of the fun is going on this never-ending journey to identify exactly what works for you as an individual person. I can almost guarantee that you will learn things about yourself and your body that you did not know before. And, unlike me, if you are in a relationship or contemplating a relationship, your journey can be an interesting place to visit for your partner as well.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

I have a big dresser drawer right at bedside stuffed with straps of all sorts of shapes and sizes, some with cups and some without. The cups are of all different shapes and sizes too, some made for the young guys and some for the bigger fellows. This has always made for some interesting fun. Depending on the size of the cup, some can keep you quite confined while others not so much. The predicament this makes is that with the quite confining cups, there is almost no room to expand, and your body immediately recognizes that this could become a difficult situation to deal with in a hurry, to say the least as your body senses the hard cup is there and just barely touching.

But, enough of the playing around inside a hard cup stuff for now. I have another drawer filled with swimwear and thongs of various shapes and sizes, equally handy at bedside. The items in this drawer were all purchased for one purpose and for one purpose only: At some level I thought that each of the items could make me horny in a hurry, which is pretty much true.

These collections of mine have grown in size over a lifetime, and it is always interesting to dig down deep in the drawers to see exactly what I have stashed away.

With respect to the straps, one thing that I have noticed is that even heavy elastic bands do not last forever. In particular, leg straps tend to stretch out and no longer provide the necessary snugness for the pouch. It is the leg straps not the waistbands that usually lose their elasticities. But, I have learned how to repair some of these. Yesterday I repaired a little Futuro swimmers’ strap that fit fine except that the leg straps were about twice as long as they should have been, I’ve learned to not cut the leg straps from their moorings on the waist band or pouch, but instead cut them right in the middle and then overlay the two pieces by the amount I need to shorten the strap and sew them back together double over a section. I have a Zig Zag sewing machine that works well, but if necessary you could use a needle and thread.

I sometimes get a little aroused just working with the sewing machine. I know the strap is going to snug up some with shorter leg bands, but I never know exactly how the repair is going to fit until actually try on the repaired strap. The repair yesterday worked well, restoring the function of the strap to more like it was when new. With much shorter leg bands the pouch fits much more snuggly, which feels much nicer if you know what I mean. My entire groin area gets more sensitive to situation at hand which I always enjoy immensely too. Swimsuits are nice, but there is really not much better than a nice snug, properly-fitting strap for sure!

I run into the same problem with some ancient thongs I have. Thongs and straps in many ways are similar, aside from the obvious differences. I realize there are thong-back straps out there and I have been known to create these on my own by removing one leg band and reconnecting the other leg band to the center rear of the waistband.

Thongs are really fun, once you get into them. A lot of guys are apprehensive about having an elastic cord or even a band cutting snuggly between their glutes. I would respond to these guys by saying that the apprehension is actually a good thing not a bad thing. I learned a long tome ago that no two thongs are alike in terms of how they fit and feel and you will never know what you have until you actually try it on. The rear can be a nearly inch wide band, a narrow ¼ inch wide flat elastic band, or even a round elastic cord. Interestingly, I’ve found that the most fun thongs to wear are neither the ones with the wide bands nor the round cords but rather the ones with the narrow elastic bands. I haven’t figured out exactly why this is true, but I have some thongs of that sort that I really enjoy wearing in all sorts of ways. The narrow bands cut deeply between the glutes, which feels a more than a touch uncomfortable at first, but then suddenly explodes into the most wonderful of bodily sensations.

The backs of old thongs tend to stretch out as they age, making them less fun to wear, but I have taken to shortening these and snugging everything up using my sewing machine in much the same way I have doing with the straps.

Part of the fun here is trying on the thongs of various shapes, sizes and fits, and then evaluating each in terms of feel. I have a few thongs that almost invariably send me over the top. If for whatever reason you have not tried this, you need to. You are missing out on something that is really fun to do.

In cool weather like now I tend to wear flannel sleeping pants and a tee shirt, but over something tighter and snugger. Last night, I chose just a cotton thong with a wide band back. I crawled into bed thinking that this combination was going to be warm but not that erotic. I went to sleep and didn’t awake until nearly 6 AM. You all know I have been struggling with getting my erections back to some semblance of normal since prostate surgery coming up on 2 years ago. But I woke up this morning and I felt quite turgid down there, and the thong was tugging away at me in the rear too. I checked, and I had managed to produce a very nice gooey half-dollar-sized precum spot inside the pouch of the thong. This is great for my rehab! I am always feeling the best when I am offloading precum.

Finally, I wanted to report on the Denizen skinny jeans I bought myself as a Christmas present. I wore them yesterday. I love the fit and feel, which is very different from a Levis 511 or even 510. These are a classic tight-fitting jean in the butt and groin, with quite skinny legs too. I wore tighty whiteys yesterday, but these would be really fun with either a thong or a strap under.

All for now!

Sebbie

[sebbie]

Preface

I wrote the initial version of this story starting maybe as early as 1995. It has been on my sebringsil.com Web site in various forms since then. This has always been one of my favorite writings. What has changed since it was originally written is the brands of straps and cups available. The underWWWear Web site and alt.support.jockstrap newsgroup sites are long gone, too. This is a bit of a trip back in how guys interested in discussing male fetish and masturbation issues interacted on the Internet in the “olden days.” Another thing that has changed is you can no longer find an assortment of straps and cups to experiment with at local discount houses. Wal mart now carries but one option and that one in my mind is not very good for my kind of “recreational” use. The big mall sporting goods stores carry a bit better selection, but nowadays this is a place for the on-line retailers.

This was one of my posts on an AOL FTP account. At one point, some other AOL user complained that it was just way too explicit to be posted there and AOL forced me to remove it. But then, soon thereafter, AOL quit providing personal disk space for HTM files at all. In retrospect, this is quite mild stuff compared with the X-rated videos etc. that anyone can readily bring up on the Internet without restrictions. In rereading this today, I can easily see that my views on a lot of things haven’t changed. I hope you enjoy reading this, partly as a step back in time still with the theme of learning how to enjoy yourself to the fullest while not assuming any risks (aside from answering embarrassing questions related to why you own a drawer full of straps!

........Continues

[sebbie]

Part 1

This story is intended primarily for those men who are not involved in an intimate relationship with another person. It is also intended for men who at times must spend a considerable amount of time away from their partner. Just because an individual is not involved with another person does not mean that a person is asexual, and is somehow doomed to never experience the interesting sexual sensations that their bodies are capable of producing. Indeed, many men living under such conditions could actually be experiencing a great deal more fun than their counterparts that are involved in intimate relationships. You may understand why this could be possible as the story proceeds.

Most men learn how to masturbate under very unfortunate set of circumstances. What is learned in our youth is very interesting-- masturbation is at once extraordinary fun, but somehow evil and something that any real man should be ashamed of. Thus, while most men enjoy masturbation immensely (Authors of a few sex manuals I have read argue that for many men, the orgasms are even stronger than those involved in heterosexual intercourse), they soon learn that in order not to be "discovered," they must complete the act from arousal to orgasm very quickly--perhaps in the space of a few minutes, likely in the bathroom, if possible; and perish the thought of having sheets and pajamas covered with ejaculate.

What's a fella to do after ejaculating in bed? Turn the light on to get up, clean up, and change pajamas? This will likely attract attention from whoever else is in the room or house, whether that be a roommate, a parent or another family member. The message is quickly learned that while masturbation (even involuntary masturbation from wet dreams) is a great deal of fun, the feeling of cold ejaculate for the rest of the night on the pajama leg is not fun, but must be endured to avoid being embarrassed by being "discovered." It's either that or a quickie masturbation session in he bathroom, all the time hoping that no one breaks in to ask why you are taking so long.

And it gets no better as men get older and move away from home. I routinely visit with college students over e-mail who are absolutely terrified of the thought that somehow their roommate or another male friend might discover that they masturbate. I'm not sure what the social signals are here--perhaps that any male who masturbates is somehow unable to form a relationship with a woman? Perhaps this means a person is gay? Why the extreme embarrassment about masturbation even among college students who brag about their other sexual conquests is unclear.

Whatever society is saying here is badly messed up. Masturbation is no sign of weakness, sexual preference, or anything else. Sure, gays masturbate, but virtually every other healthy male masturbates sometimes regardless of their sexual orientation, most throughout their lives.

Nearly every male thinks he does it more than he "should" as if there was some sort of nature-limited allocation. Occasionally, a man might not masturbate regularly if he is in a relationship in which he engages in partner sex so frequently that he lacks the energy do it any other time. Even here it gets confusing, because many forms of partner sex involve mutual masturbation or activities very similar to masturbation. After all, what is foreplay but a form of mutual masturbation? In addition, my hunch is that for most men, masturbation as a form of sexual play occurs far later into life than many people realize.

The problem, of course, is that like most other forms of sexual activity, masturbation is a great deal more fun if it can be taken slowly, with each sensation enjoyed for what it is, and with no concern for being discovered. Furthermore, unlearning the quickie techniques learned in childhood can not only be fun, but even ultimately enhance one's sex life should one get involved in an intimate relationship. Like other forms of sexual activity, it's important to introduce variety in masturbation. Part of the fun of sexuality is the unexpected; the unknown. With this background on masturbation, my story begins about spending a night in a jockstrap.

Before describing a technique employing a hard-cup jock strap, let me first say that I am a big proponent of sexual activities that are not dangerous and do no harm to anyone, and do not transmit disease. If they do not even require a partner, all the better. The approach I suggest here earns an A on all counts.

.............I still think about the same issues as outlined above, in particularly the issues created by being a horny young male with only limited access to privacy, such as dropping in unexpectedly on your college roommate in your dorm room while he is enjoying himself at a time he thought would be private. Growing up, I cherished the times and places I knew would be private, and enjoyed these moments immensely. Continued.

[sebbie]

Part 2

The internet is abuzz with discussions related to jock straps--A whole news group alt.support.jock-strap is devoted to it. This newsgroup does not exist because of widespread interest in what needs to be worn to protect oneself during contact sports--there is obviously something with sexual overtones going on here. In describing the following technique, I am indebted to one of my e-mail newsgroup contacts, who provided me with some ideas I had not thought of, but I have added some additional ideas of my own that seem to work for me.

[Ahhh...the olden days of newsgroups that were early versions of a chat room but not in real time]

Most men, when they think of sexual feelings, tend to identify with the pleasant sensations obtained from stroking the penis, particularly the underside of the head, or the area technically called the frenulum (Has it occurred to everyone that there is a biological reason why nature made that particular spot is so ultra-sensitive? e-mail me and I will explain my theory on that further). But the entire groin area is one giant erogenous zone, including little recognized places such as the inner thighs, and in particular, the area between the scrotum or anus.

[even back then, I was perineum-focused...At this point I was just discovering exactly where my body was most sexually sensitive. I discovered something new and often memorable nearly every day, and of course had to write it down to see if the other newsgroup members already were aware of the same thing. I was experimenting and learning new things every day about the sexually sensitive or erotic areas in my body. I started researching all of this further and quickly discovered that medically the perineum area is a tiny point where a large bunch of nerve endings terminate, different from but not that dissimilar to the frenulum and even the entire head of the penis. As such, this is another bodily area that always wants to be touched, fondled and otherwise played with to stimulate erotic feelings. I started to be concerned that a lot of guys have never gone through this step-by-step bodily exploration process in the manner in which I was doing, and further, that what I was discovering in my solo experiments could be useful knowledge to bring into a relationship with a partner of either sex. What does this all have to do with cups and straps, anyway? Well, keep reading!]


Thus, any article of clothing that comes into contact with any of these areas is capable of introducing sensations, some perceived as being clearly sexual, others not, and still others in a strange halfway region that depends on the particular situation. Most men have trouble interpreting signals in this latter category. What goes on at the underWWWear site frequently reflects men's interest in the sensations that are not clearly sexual but are not clearly non-sexual either. Most of these sensations are pleasant, but some are interpreted by the brain as being more nearly sexual than others. Is the simple act of putting on a tight fitting pair of underwear sexual or not? I suppose that depends on how the individual interprets the tactile signals. The underWWWear site has served an important function in showing that there are a lot of men, regardless of orientation, who are not certain what to make of all this. However, if you interpret a sensation to be sexual, then for you it undoubtedly is.

Jock straps are of interest because they are the one article of clothing (underwear) that by design and purpose, fit very tight to the groin, perhaps tighter than any other garment. But as the underWWWear site suggests there is also a good deal of quasi-sexual interest in brief and thong swimwear, cycling and compression shorts that contain spandex and the like. (I'm still trying to figure out loose-fitting "boxerpeople"in this regard. Something similar must be going on based on their observed behavior--perhaps some of you could clue me in on the details of how you interpret the tactile signals from loose fitting boxers. I don't mean to demean my friends who wear boxers, its just that the tactile signals appear to me to be less clear)

........Continued

[sebbie]

Part 3

Now for the fun part. Actually, you may or may not find this activity fun depending on your mindset. But bear with me. As is widely recognized, the sex organs of a man's body go through a number of erection cycles during the night, some of which may ultimately lead to an unintended orgasm or wet dream. Because of the pressure, any article of clothing that fits tightly to any part of the groin area, (including but not limited to the penis and scrotum} will tend to produce new and perhaps interesting and unanticipated sensations as these arousal cycles proceed. The brain may interpret many of these sensations as providing a great deal of fun (or it may simply interpret them as simply wearing uncomfortable clothing!)

More than a few men enjoy wearing jockstraps as sleepwear. Others who interpret the tactile signals differently (and they have every right to. It's their brain!) describe the sensations in very non-sexual terms--simply as uncomfortable. There appear to be two categories of men: those that prefer loose-fitting clothing and those who enjoy tight fitting clothing as sleepwear. I clearly fall into the latter group. (I also suspect that the loose-fitting group are big on masturbating quickly, focusing almost exclusively on the penis, but that is another arguable story/theory of mine, which will probably result in outcries from the boxer crowd!)

Now suppose that an additional element is added: a hard cup. Much discussion on the daily underWWWearsurvey and on alt.support.jock-strap centers on the supposedly erotic qualities of the streamlined Bike cup. My problem with the Bike cup is that it doesn't produce a tight enough fit to the penis, allowing the penis to flop around a lot. As sleepwear, in this experiment the whole idea is to find as tight a fitting cup as possible, one that just barely contains your flaccid penis. A couple of readily available possibilities for me are the GRID cup (K- Mart, large youth 26-32) and the Duke (Wal Mart, large youth) but if you really must, you could try the Bike, The GRID is made in China, but the cup of the GRID and the American made Duke are nearly identical in size and shape. The GRID is made of nylon, and feels colder to the skin. The Duke has a broader foam surround on the cup and is made of a softer material, perhaps a cotton or polyester blend. If you must have one, Bike's are available at Target.

Next, slip the jock strap and cup on and crawl into bed. You may want to wear the jock over a tight fitting pair of briefs or even a thong. The pressure of the thong strap along with the straps of the jock is interesting. In addition, for a good fit the cup should be held really tight to the groin, so you may want to top this off with a pair of compression shorts --The Bollingers from K-mart really compress and provide some interesting sensations to the inner thighs as well, but the cotton/Lycra Spaulding cycling shorts available atWal Mart are nifty too.

Try to find a comfortable position to drift off to sleep in. Problem number 1 that may occur: The feel of the cup held tightly to the groin is starting to be interpreted by your body as a sexual rather than as a non-sexual sensation, and you are starting to feel slightly aroused. What's more interesting, you are starting to sense the distinct pressure of the hard cup against the penis. Meanwhile, the cord of the thong is starting to tug away as the penis hardens slightly, and the straps of the jock are starting to bind a bit. What to do? Try to quit thinking about where your sex organs are, and attempt to get some much-needed rest.

Problem number 2: You fall asleep but soon wake up again and the situation is not getting any better. You are still stuck in all the layers of clothing and the straps are starting to really put the tension on. Somehow the sensations of all of this are magnified at night making it more difficult to handle than when you are awake.

Now its 3:00 AM and you discover that the feelings you earlier that night had interpreted as only mildly sexual are turning into a serious hard-on. Your brain interprets the tactile signals from the groin area as if everything in the groin area is getting tighter with no way out. Moreover, the thong strap which was tolerable earlier that nite is really starting to tug on your rear end. Meanwhile, the cup feels hard and cold,the pressure of the hard cup on the penis is building, and can no longer be put out of your mind. Serious trouble! What's worse, you are starting to experience sensations that are screaming to your brain "I need toejaculate, and the sooner the better!"

You reach down, thinking there is a simple fix to all of this. Just stroke the penis to ejaculate and relieve the pressure. But given the cup and clothing, this is not so easy. That doggone cup is in the way. You know that if you could only touch the frenulum of the penis, you would go off quickly, but that is in a position which you can't get to. At least not very easily. This is maddening. Maddening, frustrating--but at the same time, terrific fun! You are nearly out of your mind in agony, desperately needing to ejaculate but not quite being able to reach the erection level at the point where you can. Keep going. Maybe there is hope.

You keep trying. What will possibly work? You try to stroke your penis through the cup, but that doesn't quite do it. You attempt to adjust the cup by pressing it sideways and downward hoping that you can find some temporary position that will provide momentary relief from pressure and the agony. But if you have chosen your jock strap well, nothing will work. When you move the cup a bit, the penis senses the pressure as a new sensation and gets a bit harder instead. You even try laying on your stomach, but that just presses the cup closer to the groin, which doesn't improve the situation either.

You squirm a lot, in an unsuccessful attempt to relieve the agony. But after what may seem to be an excruciatingly long period of time, perhaps an hour or more,the situation is ultimately resolved. Either (1) the hard-on subsides on its own, (2) you end up reaching a stage where you finally are able to ejaculate into the cup, or (3) In total frustration you pull off everything and masturbate to orgasm. I've had some great orgasms by masturbation (I like to wrap the penis in a facial tissue to collect he ejaculate, then stroke through the tissue) after an hour or two of this, but all three events have happened to me on various occasions. You never quite know how it will turn out.

The amount of fun you will have doing this seems to vary depending on how long it has been since your last orgasm. This activity is particularly enjoyable if you have already gone 2-3 days without ejaculating. So if it doesn't work for you the first night, then try for another nite.

The next day, I often experience some rather weird sensations centered in the pit of my stomach--interestingly enough a craving or longing for the pressure and sensation of the cup to be again held tightly against the groin. A new nervous pathway has clearly developed that "remembers" the sensations of the night before, and craves their continuation. It's the strangest feeling--I come home from work anxious to pull on the cup again. I am curious if others get this delayed sensation as well.

As near as I can determine, this is a quite safe form of sex play for us single and unattached guys. I would like to hear from others who have or are interested in trying this. I would also be particularly interested in other techniques used by those not involved in a sexual relationship with another person. I am not interested in anything that is dangerous, harms someone else, transmits diseases, or involves putting carrots or cucumbers in body orifices where they don't really belong.

Best of luck, and I enjoy hearing about your ideas and experiences. Very little has been written on the topic of sex play for unattached guys. Most sex manuals seen to act as if the problem is one of finding a significant other. I don't see it that way.

Let me know if these techniques work for you.

Enjoy and have fun!

[sebbie]

As I read and upload this story with annotations I inserted this morning, my mind travels back to an (imaginary) college student I will call Bill, who shares a double dorm room at a big state University with an (imaginary) roommate I will call Joe. Joe and Bill might be straight, might be gay (one or both) or be in something of a sexual middle area. Both guys, each 19 y/o, know they are feeling horny a lot of the time, and sometimes this spills over into their daily lives and generally dealing with the pressures of getting a college degree. Neither guy wants to get involved in something that could affect their ability to find employment after graduation. They are not snapping and uploading to the Web photos of themselves wearing Speedos in a classroom or library study room, for example. They may be dating third parties, but only on Friday and Saturday weekends. They end up spending a lot of time, alone or studying with each other, often in the tiny dorm room, which doesn’t even have a separate bathroom, in an old-style dorm and the big bathroom is way down the hall.

So, Bill is surfing the Web, and somehow his search locates the Spending the Night in a Cup story I just posted, above. Bill finds the story of what I describe to be quite erotic turn on, and as he reads the story he already starts to feel a really neat tingling sensation in the groin area and as he reads he realizes that the tip of his penis feels a wet spot which must be precum. So, Joe is clearly aroused, and the story has punched some buttons Bill did not before know he had.

What should Bill do now? Should he share what he found surfing on the Web with Joe or not? Should he just keep quiet? What would Joe think of the story if he read it? Would Joe’s body respond in the way Bill’s body did? Good question!

If Bill shows Joe the story, Joe may suddenly conclude that he is rooming with a ‘pervert” named Bill. Sex for Joe is something you do with a woman late at night on a date, (or for gay guys, the same thing but with a guy).”

But what if that is not Joe’s reaction? What if Joe reads the story as suggested by Bill and says this could be really fun too? Joe obviously gets aroused thinking about the same things Bill gets aroused by thinking about. Maybe both Bill and Joe are perverts who somehow ended up rooming with each other, perverts who both now really want to explore their own bodies and run their own sexual arousal experiments much like Sebbie described in the story. In short, what really happens if a guy puts on a nice snug pouch strap with an undersized hard cup, covers that with a pair of equally snug compression shorts in preparation for bedtime, and then crawls into bed and attempts to sleep? Will sleep happen at all? Will a guy fall asleep and then wake up at 3 AM with a tremendous hard on that presses against the cup? Will a guy ejaculate with a wet dream while still INSIDE the cup? All of this is unpredictable for sure, but almost certainly will present a seriously fun predicament for any guy, but particularly a 19 y/o.

Let me assume that Bill decides to NOT mention anything to Joe about the Sebbie’s story he just read, at least not yet, but he does go out and do a little shopping. Sebbie says the best sensations come from an undersized cup and strap along with a pair of snug (undersized as well) compression shorts. Bill heads out to one of the big box sporting goods stores and finds the two items he needs to try.

Remember, Bill and Joe are in a old-style double dorm room that lacks any private bathroom or even a closed-door changing area. The bathroom is a big area down the hall. Night-time comes and it is time for bed. Bill’s only choice is prepare for sleep with Joe right there. He first strips, then pulls on the strap with the cup already in the pouch, and adjusts it all. Then he pulls on the snug compression shorts. The compression shorts hold the cup very tight and secure against the groin, and make the thighs and butt feel slick and smooth. It’s tough to even make a small “adjustment” in the cup’s position on the penis. Psychologically, Bill is very aware of the presence of the cup just barely touching his (still semi-flaccid) penis.

Joe thinks this is all pretty weird, that Bill is crawling into bed wearing all this stuff. Usually Bill wears just a loose-fitting pair of boxer shorts to sleep in. Joe the same. Joe crawls into bed in his boxer shorts, still wondering what is going on with Bill this seemingly strange night.

Believe it or not, Bill drifts into a light sleep with his penis firmly encased in the cup and the cup cinched tightly against his groin by the compression shorts. But then about 2:30 AM Bill wakes up drowsy, and starts to groan lightly. Bill knows what is happening. He is having a night-time erection inside the strapped cup, something that just came and went when he slept in his boxer shorts. Deep down, Bill knows what is happening, because just before Bill awoke he was a player in an erotic dream, and now his penis, still quite firm and hard, is feeling the sensation of the hard cup bearing on his penis all around.

Joe is quickly awakened by Bill’s soft moaning and groaning, but he doesn’t want to let Bill know he is awake and listening. But Joe is starting to get turned on himself just by thinking about what might be very well happening to Bill in the little bed just a few feet away from him. Clearly these are the sounds are those made by a person undergoing some sort of psychosexual euphoria, not just normal moans and sleep noises.

Bill decides he can’t take the risk with Joe of bouncing out of bed, stripping off the strap, cup and compression shorts, and then masturbating to ejaculation to relieve himself. He decides to stick it out in bed still wearing the items, and eventually manages to have an orgasm and ejaculation right inside the cup while still in bed.

The next morning, Joe can’t resist asking Bill if he was OK and whether or not he had slept well. Bill says “I am fine, but I read this story of Sebbie’s on the Web, the one about trying to get to sleep wearing a strap, cup and compression shorts rather than loose-fitting boxers. It works for me just the way Sebbie said it would work”. Here is the link to the story, and you can read it on your own.”

Joe then reads the story and says “This is really wild stuff. I can understand now what you were doing. I think I would like to try the same thing myself to see exactly how this could work for me!”

Bill says “Joe, I can help you find just what you will need to enjoy yourself.”
Joe says “That is great. Maybe I can experiment tonight with what you did last night.

Bill and Joe’s experiences as College roommates living in a double room in an old-school dorm at a big state University are about to get more interesting. The college experience suddenly looks not only more expansive, but also is starting to move along much faster.

……….Continued

[sebbie]

[ Author's note:This part of the story is like a flashback in a movie that fills in important details to the story line that lead up to the part you read in the previous post. I hope everyone is able to follow this and hangs with me. I know some of you thought that I was leading up into a shopping trip to a big-box sporting goods retailer by Bill and Joe, but in writing this I decided that was not what I wanted to have happen, at least not quite yet, anyway. Keeping the reader in suspense this way for awhile with details of the events that led to what happened last night is a lot more more fun!]

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At this point in the story, both Bill and Joe face an interesting dilemma. Like nearly all college guys their age, they are both filled with raging hormones. Bill read somewhere that guys his age have a sexual thought fly by every 30 seconds or so. That seems totally amazing. A lot of this stuff that flies around occurs only for a fleeting moment, and most guys learn to deal with whatever it was that passed by in a hurry and simply go back to concentrating on whatever it was that they were doing that was non-sexual.

In other words, sexual thoughts on the part of young guys for the most part tend to be fleeting or ephemeral, technically, lasting but a moment. A lot of guys just keep whatever is going on in their heads in this department completely inside of them, for whatever reason thinking that keeping quiet is the safest possible course, especially when guys are hanging out with other guys their age.

OK, guys do occasionally provide signals to their male buddies as to what is going on inside their heads. A pretty girl might walk by, and out might come a wow! Or, considered not PC nowadays, a cat whistle, or is it a wolf whistle? Or the guy may mutter something softly under his breath that contains an obscenity, like, say, “She’s F$#@en beautiful! Hardly considered even bad language today, either among straight guys or even in mixed company.

For teenage gay guys, this quickly becomes a much more complicated problem. What is going on inside their heads might not exactly correspond with what is going on inside their straight friend’s heads, and this then poses something of a dilemma. The young gay guy may have the exact same feelings the straight kids have, except that the person walking by is probably a handsome young man not a girl. But the young gay guy cannot in any way express his feelings in the same manner the straight kids routinely do assuming that the gay guy is not out to his friends. To do so would be a form of coming out, perhaps at a very inopportune time (and maybe age). It would be better if human sexuality did not work this way, but unfortunately that is the way it is.

Which brings us back to Bill and Joe, our two college roommates who just went through an interesting experience. Let me recap where Bill and Joe are as of now. Bill somehow found Sebbie’s story “Spending the night in a cup” while surfing the Web and got so turned on by reading it. he decided that it would be fun (well at least “interesting”) to attempt to try some of the techniques laid out in detail in Sebbie’s story. Bill does so, and Joe is quite, shall we say, mystified, by what is going on with Bill. All of this seems more than a little weird. Even more weird is that Joe is starting to get just a bit aroused himself just thinking about what might be happening to Bill. But mostly, Joe is just confused is all, indeed confused about a lot of things he thought he once surely understood about himself.

OK, what makes this even more interesting is that Sebbie, the “Spending the Night in a Cup” story writer, created both Bill and Joe, and, as a consequence, Sebbie, the writer, can make Bill and Joe do or not do anything he decides he wants them to. Now Sebbie introduced a very interesting twist to the story line as he created the college roommates Bill and Joe. Sebbie first said he didn’t know, or maybe it did not even matter, if Bill and Joe were straight or gay or perhaps one of each. What a dilemma.

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[sebbie]

So, where are we in the story telling right now? We know the following.

1. Bill and Joe are roommates living in close quarters in an old school style men’s college dorm room and no real privacy whatsoever. The bathroom and big wide open shower is way down the hall. The weird part is that Bill and Joe’ dorm is very much like the one Sebbie lived in when he went to college.

2. Bill and Joe did not pick each other out as roommates, and they did not know each other until they arrived at college and were both assigned by University housing to the same room. The College is old-school in this regard too, and does not ask students whether they are straight or gay when room assignments are made. Students are expected to sort through all of that themselves and deal with whatever they have to deal with the best they can. If things get too difficult, either one of them can put in for a new roommate, but as of right now, Bill thinks Joe is a good roommate and Joe thinks Bill is a good roommate. Both are committed to first of all getting a college degree that will make possible a high-paying job. The rest of it, including the socialization stuff, is secondary.

3. Both Bill and Joe are reasonably fit and on an appearance scale don’t regard themselves as bad- looking, but they were never Homecoming kings either, or followed around in high school by girls simply because the girls saw them as cute, handsome and sexy. Appearance-wise, Bill and Joe are two rather normal looking guys. Neither were particularly good at basic high school athletics, let alone being star athletes.

Now let me fill in a few more blanks about Bill and Joe for you.

4. In high school, both Bill and Joe had pretty well decided that they were ruler-straight in terms of sexuality. They were turned on by the good-looking girls in school. But neither had reputations for being women’s guys, and certainly not reputations for engaging in sex with the homecoming queen. Heck, neither even got to take the homecoming queen to a movie.

5. Both Bill and Joe take college seriously. Occasionally, while Web surfing, both have been known to bring up porno sites with some videos that by old-school standards, at least, could be considered a bit raw and graphic. But neither is fixated on this sort of thing.

6. Bill finding Sebbie’s “Spending the night in a cup” paper was merely a (happy?) accident. Bill started reading it and he saw some stuff he didn’t quite realize before, at least not completely. Bill thought sexual feelings really were all about finding a sexual partner, someone intimate to be with. But Sebbie was saying something rather different and at least a little strange, at least from Bill’s perspective. Who is this crazy writer Sebbie, anyway? Sebbie seems to look at the world, sexually in some confusing and challenging ways and sometimes completely upside down from Bill’s perspective at least.

7. Both Bill and Joe engaged in self-pleasuring as young teens, and both of them thought they pretty much knew everything they needed to know and that there was to know about that. When you felt the urge, you rubbed your penis in private. If you stroked or rubbed it for a long enough period of time, eventually you would ejaculate, and then you could simply go back to whatever it was that you had been doing and no longer be focused on getting an orgasm at least until you started feeling really horny again usually in a day or two. Then just repeat the entire process. Problem solved!

8. The dorm room living situation for Bill and Joe 6 weeks in was starting to eat away at both of them if for no other reason than the total lack of jerk-off privacy. At least, when they were both living at home with their respective families, they could both go “hide” in the bathroom for what seemed like a “bit long” and jerk off to orgasm whenever they got the urge. But the dorm room not only lacked its own bathroom for private jerk-off sessions it lacked any privacy at all. The showers in the hall bathroom was even worse, just eight shower heads all in a row in one big tiled area. A guy COULD jerk off in a shower like that, but again there was no privacy whatsoever. You might think the showers are otherwise empty, and you are absolutely all alone. You start playing with yourself, building up a good and really neat-feeling hard-on, and suddenly another guy saunters in wrapped only in a towel. You quickly try to figure out a strategy to disguise or otherwise try and cover up exactly what you had been doing but you need to think fast, as you have a big hard-on and it isn’t exactly deflating in a hurry. You were very near the point of orgasm when the other guy just sauntered in.

9. So, both Bill and Joe are stuck in a tiny dorm room, 6-weeks into college, and no place to get their rocks off without a lot of potential embarrassment. Well, isn’t there dating on Friday and Saturday nights, with the potential for intercourse then? Shouldn’t that be enough for guys to deal with being horny? Well kinda, but with that comes a whole new series of issues, as in relationship issues that neither Bill nor Joe want to deal with at this stage in their lives and where they are relative to completing their degrees. Their lives right now are mostly focused on getting degrees that lead to good jobs, and to be sure, a serious relationship too soon could really interfere with that goal. Interestingly, the girls know all of that too, oddly enough. Hence a reluctance to be willing to engage in intercourse especially with a guy they do not know very well, no matter how cute and sexy he is. And remember, Bill and Joe are neither athletes nor have movie star good looks. Their hoped-for claim to fame is that they are sharp enough and talented enough to be able to find a high-paying job that potentially would support a family very comfortably, but that has to occur in steps, the first being doing well in college classes and completing the degree. Sexual intercourse intermingled with a serious relationship is just a complication at this point, and an unwise one as well. But Bill and Joe still both get horny, and regularly. What to do under the circumstances as they have happened?

10. Are you clear on where Bill and Joe both are right now? Big hopes and dreams. Tiny dorm room! Zero privacy! Horniness attacks that seem to keep manifesting themselves more and more frequently with each passing day that seem just one part of dealing with the day-to-day pressures of going to class and studying for a college degree while not being able to jerk off easily in private at all! This is worse than it was living at home in that regard! A reluctance to get into a steady and serious relationship with a girl given that the graduation date is years off. A Web full of erotic literature! Sebbie’s goofy paper on Spending the night in a cup eating away at Bill’s brain!

Which leads us right back to the storyline before the flashback. You remember the part where Bill puts on a strap, cup and compression shorts and crawls into bed, and Joe, to say the least is mystified as to what in the world might be happening with Bill for sure. Remember, at this point Joe hasn’t read Sebbie’s”cup story so Joe is completely dumbfounded on all of this and what could be going on with Bill.

Bluntly put, Bill was not an athlete either in high school or even in college. Joe is thinking why would Bill even OWN a strap, let alone a cup for it. For goodness sakes what is Bill doing that would require groin protection like that? And at NIGHT? And what about those compression shorts? They seem just odd as sleepwear given that Joe is used to seeing Bill crawl into bead wearing colorful and loose-fitting boxer shorts.

All of this seems odd, really odd to Joe. Joe ponders these thoughts in his heart.

…….To be continued

Sebbie

[sebbie]

Both Bill and Joe had what they considered to be rather “normal” childhood, both growing up with a mom, a dad and their respective siblings. Like other guys entering their teen years, they both were scared but at the same time thrilled the first time they had a real orgasm. Bill didn’t know what to think. He worried that he might have a medical issue or perhaps has even “broken” something.

Joe’s situation was a little better. Joe’s dad had given Joe his “birds and bees” lecture about a year earlier, so Joe was in a little better shape than Bill in understanding what had just happened to his body.

Once a guy makes his way through his first orgasm, it is amazing how fast things seem to move along, at least for most guys, and Bill and Joe were no exceptions to this rule growing up. Things quickly move from the “what in the world has just happened to me?” phase of puberty to the “how can I enjoy myself in private without embarrassing myself in front of others in my family?” phase. This is the part that gets tricky. A guy COULD spend increasing amounts of time in the bathroom but then sis will likely start complaining and that is no good. Besides, jerking off in the bathroom is no fun if and you are trying to focus on enjoying what you are doing to yourself while your sister is banging on the door to use the bathroom. Quite a dilemma for sure. For a horny teen boy, very few places are private.

Except for in bed, at night, of course. Most teen guys quickly learn how to jerk off under the covers at night, and after a few tries at least, learn how to do so without drawing attention to themselves and what they are up to even if someone else is right there in the room with them. Specific techniques first learned at home, at night, may actually prove quite useful only a little later in life, say in college or even in the military, where even a modicum of privacy is rare.

There are, of course, still issues to be resolved, issues that could prove embarrassing still. The obvious issue is semen, and the consequent wet stains on pajamas and probably the sheets. Bill discovered that this could be a particular problem if he jerked off shortly after he went to bed. Not only was the wet spot on the pajamas uncomfortable until it dried to a starchy stain, what happened if he needed to hit the bathroom down the hall a little later on and he still had a wet spot on his pajama bottoms? This could get tricky. And how about what appeared to be a giant spot of slimy wet ejaculate right on the sheet, something Bill would have to contend with trying to sleep next to (not on top of the slimy stain, if at all possible), all night long, or at least until it dries, a process that could take several hours.

Bill likes to jerk off at night, when others are fast asleep, but sometimes other things happen. In the teen years, wet dreams, dreams that feature a sexual story or theme, occur with some regularity. If Bill drifts asleep without first jerking off, he quickly discovers that the odds of having a wet dream with a sexual encounter or theme tend to rise. These dreams can take all sorts of crazy twists and turns, often involving a sexual encounter of some sort with a girl, maybe the one that sits behind him in class. Sometimes the girls in the dreams seem to be real acquaintances or class mates, sometimes they seem to be largely imaginary and sometimes even mixtures of both.

Even weirder is that some of the dreams involve sexual encounters of some sort with young guys his age. These dreams take on the same basic pattern of the girl dreams, except that the other person in the dream is a guy, and almost invariably the other guy is having a jerk-off session too as Bill watches. This is more than a little bit scary. What does this all mean anyway? Could this be an indication that Bill might be bisexual or even have a “gay streak” despite the fact that he thinks he is ruler straight when he is awake? Could Bill’s dreams be telling Bill something that he is not willing to admit even to himself during the day, that he gets aroused by looking at other guys’ male body parts, and particularly aroused by the possibility of seeing another guy rub and play with himself to the point of orgasm? This is crazy stuff, way crazy stuff.

Wet dreams seem to be a lot like so many other aspects of sex. Fun in all sorts of ways, but, at the same time, a lot scary as well. Fun to just kick back and enjoy the wonderful sensations your body is able to produce even all alone with only a little effort and just rubbing or even touching the "right" places. But dreams often tend to go in directions that seem inconsistent with real life. There are no rules here. But what in the world when Bill starts to think to himself that it would be even more fun to just see how other guys his age deal with the exact same dilemma. How does this all work for the other guys anyway? That is a great mystery for sure at Bill’s young age.

Bill quickly learns that wet dreams also present a major technical problem. They almost invariably end with a powerful orgasm, an orgasm that spills slimy semen all over everywhere both pajama bottoms and sheets. That is no good at all.

Suddenly, Bill develops an interest in keeping a box of facial tissue right next to his bedside. He sometimes even slips a facial tissue under the covers as he crawls into bed. You just never know if or when you are going to need to blow your nose, Bill thinks. But, of course, the tissue is not there for Bill’s nose. Bill has another idea in mind. He is starting to think that if he can determine pretty much when he is going to shoot based on what he is feeling both in his head and in his groin, then he might be able to quickly wrap the tip of his penis with the tissue, neatly “collecting” nearly all of the slimy ejaculate right in the tissue. Then roll up the tissue and toss it in a convenient waste basket.

Better still if the waste basket is right by the bed just below where the tissue box is. Neither mom nor sis will be any wiser in the morning as to what happened. They will think Bill just blew his nose during the night and has a soiled tissue in the waste basket as a result. Bill thought about this and has figured that all out. Of course, the tissue isn’t a perfect paper condom. There might still be small starchy stains on the pajama bottoms or the sheets, but certainly much easier to deal with than without the tissue at all. Of course the tricky part is coordinating the paper tissue condom construction with the wet dream orgasm, but that is a story for another day.

…………Continued

Sebbie

[sebbie]

Joe grew up under somewhat different family circumstances than Bill. Bill had two siblings, a sister just a year older and a brother three years younger. Joe had only one brother, and Joe’s brother, Daniel, was four years older than Joe. Joe was a freshman in high school the same year Daniel was a senior. Daniel then went off to college, so in his sophomore, junior and senior years Joe had a lot of the house to himself. That meant that Joe had a little more privacy than Bill had. Joe’s parents sometimes went on errands for a few hours at a time, and Joe would simply stay home alone in the house. Joe was a reliable kid, and his parents trusted him that he would be fine staying home alone once he turned 13. Daniel had a part-time job when he was a senior, and so he was away from home a lot even before he went to college.

Joe quickly learned to take advantage of these quiet, private times to try some things that he might have been too scared or embarrassed to do when his parents or his brother were in the house. Joe thought of these mostly as little “experiments.” These were mainly experiments related to learning more about which parts of his body were most sensitive to touching. Even high schools can be a bit traditional in terms of not being willing to give high school students access to sex-related information. This whole issue is interesting in that a lot of schools want all students to have a mandatory sex education module (as part of a course called “Health and socialization” oddly enough). Joe took this course, but it seemed to Joe that the course covered all the stuff Joe already knew and almost none of the stuff Joe really wanted the answers to.

Joe had lots of questions. Questions he did not have the nerve ask his sex education teacher, his dad or his male friends his own age at school, as in “Is there any harm to occur in masturbating every day?” “Does dad masturbate?” “What should I do if I get an erection in the school locker room?” and other questions like that, questions that are not a part of the sex-education class. Joe wondered if his male buddies at school had the same questions and issues, but he was just too afraid to ask.

There was another “problem” too, a problem he was really afraid to reveal to his parents and particularly to his friends. In running his experiments when he was home alone (which were actually jerk-off sessions) he gradually realized that he could get aroused not by a girl or even another guy, and certain clothing items would tend to set him off. What kind of clothing? Well he thought a lot about being able to get into a snug-fitting swimming brief, even though he was not a swimmer and he did not have access to a pool either at home or at school. There were other things that “bugged him”as well. He liked to look at pictures of fit guys in swimming briefs, and the snugger it appeared the brief fit the guy the more he got aroused. But there was other stuff that set him off too. He found himself looking at pictures of guys wearing compression shorts, jammers, the pants the football players wear, and wrestling singlets. Really snug-fitting jeans, too. He liked it if the picture he was looking at showed the guy as being really packed into whatever it was he was wearing. Joe kept wondering how he would feel if he were able to get into the same kind of clothing as the guy in the picture was wearing. Just the thought of that made him feel warm and pleasant all over inside.

Joe did not quite know what to make of all of this. He thought of himself as ruler straight and at some level attracted to girls, but this fascination with snug-fitting clothing seemed to be something different, entirely. Joe wondered if any of his other male friends had the same feelings and reactions, but he feared that if he asked, his friends might call him weird, or gay, or even worse.

Joe was at an age where his parents were starting to give him money so he could buy his own clothes. Joe knew what his friends were wearing. Most of them wore rather loose-fitting jeans wih equally loose boxers shorts underneath. The guys Joe hung out with said they needed the room in the boxers for “ventilation”. Joe thought that this was a ruse, and what his buddies were really hoping was that loose-fitting boxers and jeans would hide erections that were happening largely unexpectedly at inopportune times.

When Joe went shopping for underwear, however, he tended to gravitate toward the old-school tighty whitey rack not the loose-fitting boxer shorts rack like most of his friends were wearing. He thought he could get by wearing traditional white cotton briefs without attracting too much adverse attention from his buddies in the gym and physical education locker room. He liked how the white briefs cupped his male body parts, not only holding them securely in place but sometimes even giving him a neat little rub down there even during the day.

But, of course, that was not really what Joe wanted to wear. What he really wanted was some colored bikini briefs that, even though made of a cotton-Lycra blend, looked a lot like a skimpy pair of swim briefs like he saw the fit guys wearing in the photos. But Joe could not do that, for two reasons. First, he was afraid his parents would not approve of his purchase decision or at minimum think his choice was quite funny. Second, if he wore such underwear to school and the guys saw him wearing that in the gym, all hell could break out. There is no telling what his male “friends” might say do or tease him about if he even thought of doing that.

So Joe entered college and his double dorm room assuming that the “rules” about what was proper underwear were exactly the same as those he had followed in high school. But as we will see shortly, all of that was soon about to change, and Joe was about to learn some things about himself and other guys that he had never realized before.

…….To be continued

Sebbie

[sebbie]

Let me begin this section of the story by summarizing what I want everyone to know about Bill and Joe before proceeding farther down the trail. First, Bill and Joe come from very similar backgrounds, family wise. Both of them had two parents and siblings. Both come from moderate-income backgrounds, not wealthy, but certainly not poor, either. The real differences related to the amount, sex and number of siblings, in that Bill has a sister just a year older than he, plus a younger brother. Joe has but one sibling, a brother four years older.

Like most teen guys, both Bill and Joe grew up with a lot of questions relating to sex and life in general. Both Bill and Joe made it through puberty with comparatively few serious issues or other obvious problems.

Also, like most guys their age, once they made it past puberty they quickly discovered self pleasuring and, specifically, how touching their bodies in certain ways could feel really, really good. But in doing this, new questions kept arising as to exactly what was going on. Some of the pleasant sensations seemed to be in specific locations in their groin, while some of the sensations seemed to be in their brains. Which was it, anyway? Is the brain the real sex organ or the stuff in the groin area.

Bill and Joe both had a lot of unanswered questions. But therein lies the rub, so to speak, in high school.

Teachers all are really concerned about the possibility that students surfing the Web see something they should not be seeing in school. So they load down the Internet service with all sorts of controls designed to limit access to anything they think the students should not be allowed to see.

Like other normal teen-agers, Bill and Joe are both gradually picking up on words that seem to have something of a sexual connotation to them, but are not mentioned or at least not highlighted in the health-education classes on sex and relationships. Two of these words that fall into this “funny” category of seeming being sexual but also just anatomical terms are frenulum and perineum.

At some point in high school, both Bill and Joe try putting words such as these into the Google search engine, and immediately up pops what appears to be an interesting and helpful series of sites. These are not porno sites, not places to watch couples engaging in intercourse with a camera aimed at a vagina being stimulated by a penis being inserted, but they do appear to be instructional sites containing useful information of various sorts, perhaps even useful information for answering questions about getting the most out of a (ahem) jerk-off session.

Even though the Google sites look interesting, and there is some privacy in the back of the school library data center, on clicking on the links, immediately a bold warning comes up that says the user has run up against the adult content firewall because of the nature of the words found on the sites that appear to be of a sexual nature. So much for researching interesting questions at school on the Internet.

My readers here presumably have computers that do NOT have adult content firewalls, so as readers you can see what Bill and Joe missed out in seeing. Here is a link for the search term frenulum:

http://www.cirp.org/pages/anat/

The CIRP site seems to cover a lot of the stuff that should be covered in any high school sex education class, but in a lot more detail than the high school instructors dare to go into. It seems a shame to deny access to a site like this with an adult content firewall but that is the way things often work in high schools.

The word, perineum, brings up some even more interesting Google hits, starting with anatomy in great detail on a perineum for dummies site.
http://www.dummies.com/how-to/content/the-anatomy-of-the-perineum.html

But even more interesting is a site that comes up is a sexuality.about.com Web site that talks not onluy about pleasuring the perineum, but also, on separate pages, massaging the prostate and playing with a soft penis. Sebbie your author thinks this site is way cool and thinks he needs to check out all of the pages on this site in some detail. Here is the first page of the series, directing to a discussion of the perineum.

http://sexuality.about.com/od/glossary/g/perineum.htm

But the other pages surely caught my attention too, especially the page on finding and massaging the prostate gland, playing with a soft penis, and instructions for men on how to use a vibrator. Some of this seems focused on sex with a partner, but many of the ideas could be adapted to making solo jerk-off sessions more interesting too.

Of course, Bill and Joe are also barred by the firewall from seeing Sebbie’s popular “understanding male sexuality" paper, too, the one at

http://www.sebringsil.com/sex.htm

......Continues

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe are each in a little different situation when they try to use the computer at home. Bill is seldom home alone, and usually his younger brother is following him around, or his older sister is watching everything he does. Bill fears that his sister will report everything she sees to his parents. No telling what the younger brother might do as he is just starting to get curious about sex. But, at home at least, Bill doesn’t face the same firewall restrictions he faces in the school library computer when he gets on the computer at home, assuming he can find a situation whereby his little brother or big sister is not looking over his shoulder.

Joe’s situation is not that he has siblings looking over his shoulder as he works on the computer, but rather that when his parents put in the WiFi service at the house, the service defaulted to a “block adult content” mode and his parents did not bother to change that, so Joe’s computer functions much the same way the computers function in the high school library. Joe would like to have a conversation with his dad about removing the block, but he doesn’t quite know where to start. Dad might get the idea that Joe would like to have sex with a girl, and that could lead into weird areas of conversation indeed.

Adults of all stripes who interact with high school students, parents, teachers etc, are like that. They seem uncertain whether more information about sex-related stuff is a good or a bad thing. Is not knowing better than knowing? Even crazier is the seeming adult uncertainty about the entire subject of jerking off. It seems that most parents, teachers too, have pretty much decided that jerking off will not harm guys physically nor lead to blindness either temporary or permanent, but beyond that the adult views still seem to differ all over the place. Some adults seem to think that jerking off is merely a prelude to having underage partner sex. Should teenagers be allowed to jerk off in private in their rooms or does this suggest some other deeper emotional problem, perhaps mental, with respect to socialization issues and being with people in general, for example.

Joe’s parents, despite the dumb WiFi adult content firewall, are a little more modern and understanding perhaps than Bill’s parents. Joe’s parents have never told Joe that he could not or should not masturbate, but neither have they accidentally wandered in when Joe was in the middle of a nice and cool-feeling jerk-off session in his room. Joe is thankful for that. Very thankful.

Bill, on the other hand, quickly learned that any really good jerk-off session was probably going to have to take place under the covers, at night, and so that is why he quickly learned to be an expert at “covering his tracks under the covers’ so to speak, employing interesting techniques such as the paper tissue condom and waste basket method and so on.

So Bill and Joe join as roommates in that little college dorm room with some very different views on masturbation and jerking off. Joe sees this primarily as something that most logically should happen in the daytime but in privacy. Bill assumes that he can employ the same under-the-cover methods that he used at home and seemed to have gotten him through his high school years in one piece and that Joe should be none the wiser either even tho Joe is sleeping only a few feet away. Bill really likes erotic, that is wet dreams, and wet dreams tie right in with the undercover method of jerking off. Who knows if you are awake rubbing yourself to ejaculation or just coming out of an explicit erotic dream that leads to an orgasm? Bill, we know loves wet dreams.

Another difference is that Joe has all these hang-ups and some experience with snug-fitting clothing items that he learned to use in a day-time jerk-off session. One of Joe’s basic problems is to figure out a way to continue what he calls experiments while having Bill as his roommate in that little room. Bill has never really even really thought about that.

Bill and Joe are about to educate not only themselves but each other. The dorm room computer has no adult content controls on it, and both Bill and Joe sense a new freedom in being able to surf anywhere they want to go. Searching on perineum or frenulum is no longer off-limits for sure, or even more explicit stuff too. This is a brave new world for them, a world that is only beginning to reveal itself.

At some point, the story needs to get back to the earlier theme of Bill finding the “Spending the night in a Cup” story Sebbie wrote, and we are about to take you there now. But the story line that you thought you understood is about to evolve in a different way. Keep in mind that both Bill and Joe think of themselves as ruler straight, and certainly not interested in each other sexually. They are both happy, however, that their Web surfing is no longer restricted, and Joe already has some clothing-related what he calls ‘hang-ups” that he regards as left over from his solo jerk-off sessions in private during his high school years. Both Joe and Bill see solo sex as merely an “appetizer” for the real thing which is heterosexual intercourse with a girl. But getting serious and sexually involved with a specific girl is something that is maybe 3 years off for both, given the demand of getting through a college degree in a decent-paying field of study. Remember that neither Joe or Bill are prepared to get intimate with a girl at this time largely because the intimacy could adversely affect their degree progress and career goals.

But, what to do in the meantime? The hormones are still raging and erections are still happening. Semen is being spilled. Maybe jerking off alone is not such an unacceptable option under the circumstances at all. At least it can be thought of as simply a body maintenance exercise to make sure the male equipment is working properly when the time for serious sex with a female partner does occur. So maybe things are not quite as uncomfortable in the sex department as they might first appear to be. But we shall see.

…..To be continued

[sebbie]

Let me recount where we are. Bill went surfing on his dorm room computer, and first found Sebbie’s “understanding male sexuality” paper. That led him directly to the “others” paper but Bill was particularly taken by the section of that paper called “Spending the Night in a Cup”. Bill started reading that, and it took him to places where as a high school student he had never been in his thinking before. Remember, Bill was never an athlete in high school, let alone a star athlete. He had never even thought of the whole subject of how certain athletic clothing items could perhaps lead to sexual arousal. He had just never made that connection.

Sebbie’s words started him thinking about two things, first that an athletic supporter or “jock strap” could, on its own, result in sexual arousal. Then there was the subject of the hard protective cup worn for some sports like baseball, and how that might fit and feel next to the penis. Then there was the topic of how compression shorts fit and feel as undergarments for athletic wear. All of this to Bill seemed new and different, mainly because such thoughts had never occurred to him before.

Sebbie’s paper suddenly put Bill in a whole new mindset. Sebbie described
some things in the paper that at first glance seemed more than a little bit weird, but at some level, still interesting too. As Bill read on, he could feel a wet spot developing on his loose-fitting boxer underwear right at the tip of his penis. That must be precum, which is supposed to happen when an initial sexual encounter takes place with a partner. Certainly nothing at all like this was ever mentioned in his high-school sex-education class for sure.

Bill thought it odd that this was happening as he was reading about a guy going to bed and trying to sleep wearing a jock strap, a hard cup and a pair of compression shorts, but he kept reading on about what Sebbie was doing and feeling anyway. This felt weird to Bill, particularly the wet precum next to his own penis part, but strangely enough, he was not put off enough to stop reading. He quickly became oddly curious, or at least he thought the sensations were odd, maybe even abnormal. But Bill kept reading, visualizing in his own mind what Sebbie was doing and trying to understand exactly what Sebbie was feeling and experiencing at each stage in his arousal going on under the covers and insidethe cup and strap.

Sebbie’s paper certainly did not meet the traditional definition of pornographic material. There were no photos or videos of guys ejaculating or women groaning as penis enters vagina. Just words. Bill had already seen several porno sites, and this was not that at all.

Practically every guy it seems can get aroused just thinking about another guy getting into a situation where he is being aroused. Practically every “primarily if not “exclusively” straight guy believes that this must be some sort of hidden “gay streak” that must be hidden from view insomuch as possible if he is to have a “normal” heterosexual relationship. So, practically every straight guy would be very embarrassed to uncover that deep down there is stuff out there that can lead to arousal that doesn’t involve a female partner.

Pretty weird, huh? Sebbie writes words on a paper that describes sensations he experiences spending the night in a cup. Obviously, as part of writing this, Sebbie gets very turned on, and that is apparent. Bill reads this and can relate at least to the point of understanding the fun of jerking off under the covers, even though the jockstrap-and-cup stuff at first seems weird at minimum. Is Sebbie really a gay guy who is so in the closet he can find his sexual pleasure only in himself? That certainly is a question to be pondered too, but if that is the case Sebbie has certainly taken self-pleasuring to an entirely new and different level.

Bill finishes the paper just before it is time to go to bed, and as he crawls into his little twin bed he is still thinking about all of this. What does it all mean for goodness sakes?

………To be continued

[sebbie]

Dreams are funny things, but particularly night-time dreams. The most interesting dreams are the ones that mix together things that went on in the daytime with elements of pure fantasy. And the rules by which a person operates during the day may get twisted and turned in all sorts of ways that would not happen in reality. That can be fun, but it also can be very scary. What if, for example, a guy who thinks he is perfectly straight during the day starts to have dreams that have him watching another guy jerking off to orgasm as the dreamer fondles himself. Does that mean that the dreamer is not as straight as he thinks he is during his waking hours? What if the male-to-male relationship goes even farther than that in the dream, as in having partner-sex. What does this all mean? Who knows?

Bill drifts off to sleep quickly after crawling in bed wearing his usual loose-fitting boxer-short sleeping attire. Joe has made it into bed too. Bill has said nothing to Joe about Sebbie’s paper and what he found. He is embarrassed to do that, for fear that Joe will think Bill is secretly interested in gay porn, and where that conclusion might possibly lead.

Almost immediately, Bill starts to dream. He is suddenly transported to a giant athletic field with green grass, but for what game? The field looks nothing so much as like a strange cross between a baseball field (or perhaps softball field) with a soccer field. Whatever the game is, there are players of both sexes, but everyone is dressed similarly. In the southwestern most corner of the field, a bunch of players, some male but others, interestingly, female, are lined up in what appears to be some sort of goofy batting order. The player up is clearly holding a bat, but it is a bat unlike any bat used in other games involving bats and balls. The bat is about the length of a standard baseball or softball bat, but at its widest appears to be six or seven inches wide. Think very fat baseball bat, but made out of the same stuff they make surfboards from. Heavy-duty foam stuff covered with a colorful layer of plastic material. Each player in the batting order is holding a different color bat, some with geometric and other patterns, but all the same general shape and size.

This, purportedly, is a game called Funchball, though some of the people watching from the stands are shouting F#@kball! F#@kball as each batter comes up to the plate. So Funchball or F#@kball, take your pick.

There is a pitcher, there must one for each team. The ball being pitched is unlike any other too, larger than a softball but a little smaller than a soccer ball. It’s tough to tell what the ball is made of, but clearly it has a leather or heavy duty vinyl over something that has some spring or give to it, maybe some foamy rubbery stuff.

Anyhow, the pitcher throws the ball toward the batter up. Bat strikes the large ball and the ball is sent over to a second group of players over at the north end of the court. There are apparently two basic kinds of players, the batter group and the soccer group, though they may have different names from that. Like so many dreams, this detail is never adequately explained.

Once the ball is lobbed from the batter to the soccer-like players, this new group treats it pretty much like a soccer ball. They start moving the ball back and forth between each other mostly with their legs and feet but occasionally get into something involving a move with their heads, chests or even groin areas. There is a goal with a net on the north end of the field too, and apparently scoring involves getting the ball into the goal which is protected by a a goalie that is dressed in colors different from either team. The goalie works against both teams, and the goalie’s objective is to keep either team from scoring, since there is only one not two goal setups.

Another interesting thing about the game is the costumes or garb that the players wear. Both teams are wearing snug-fitting shorts made of Spandex that look nothing so much as like a cross between a swimming jammer and a compression undergarment. They are shorter and fit somewhat higher on the leg than a true swimming jammer. The tops are really just snug compression tee shirts in school colors that match the compression-jammer shorts.

One of the teams is clad all in a steel gray color, top and bottom. The compression shorts have a triple bright red stripe that runs up the sides of the shorts and then continues up the sides of the compression tee shirt. So the school colors of this team are red and steel gray. The footwear is apparently Adidas, an outdoor soccer-style shoe in the same steel gray color.

The other team is clad similarly, except that the main color is navy blue and the white stripes are white, well actually a creamy off-white.

What Bill is watching is apparently the first game of an interschool Funchball tournament. Soon we learn not only that Bill is actually going to be playing Funchball, his school team will be up to complete in the next game.

Bill can’t help but noticing the costumes on the players, and in particular how the female players pack themselves and their curves and body parts that curve into those tight-fitting little Spandex tees and shorts. Bill says to himself this is a really interesting, and must be part of the reason why there are so many fans and the crowd is so big.

But something else also draws Bill’s attention. A couple of the guys look really fit and athletic, and Bill for some reason starts studying their bodies in detail. The shirts accentuate their upper-body muscularity, and the shorts really grip their thighs and butt muscles in an erotic way, at least Bill is secretly thinking that.

But Bill is studying something else. Under those tight-fitting compression shorts, Bill can clearly see that the guys are wearing athletic straps. He can easily see lines across the glutes where the leg straps go. Not only that, in the front there is a bulge that appears to outline a hard cup!

For the girls, you cannot see a leg strap line. They must be wearing some sort of athletic panty under the shorts, and the front bulge is not as prominent if at all. Bill surmises that the women might be wearing some type of protection, but merely a flatter, female-style cup. Bill's eyes return to the guys he has been studying.

……To be continued

[sebbie]

The first game of the tournament is over, and there is a 90-minute break before the second game. There seems to be some noisy dispute over who actually won that game, and the referees are huddled in the corner of the field trying to sort that all out. Some of the rules of the games still seem unclear, maybe even to the referees, but it seems that everyone, the crowd and the players too, are enjoying themselves immensely.

Bill’s team colors are what is called old gold with a forest green accent . The team uniforms follow this, as in a neat gold color in Spandex, with the vertical stripe in forest green. Interestingly, the shoes are forest green too, with a single old gold slash.

Bill has played Funchball with competing teams from his own high school, but this is the first time to play against a team from a neighboring school. In the inter-mural games, no one worried much about game dress or protection. But coach wants everything for this much bigger game to go just right He thinks the players need to have some protection in a game involving what could get to be rough-and-tumble with the neighboring school. He announces this conclusion in a bellicose voice, “all of you need to be wearing protection under your team suits for the big game in an hour” and then proceeds to toss out some straps and male cups for the guys and some pouch panties and female cups for the girls.

There is one small (or is it big) problem however. The straps the guys are being asked to wear look somewhat, errrr undersized, and the cups that go into the strap pouches do not exactly look particularly roomy, either. Then all of this has to somehow fit under the compression shorts, which are not exactly oversized, either.

The girls on the team seem less concerned with the protection garb and how it will fit. After all, they are all used to wearing some rather little panties under their clothes, and the female cup protection is no issue, largely because the women are not trying to cover a (what could be a giant) penis.

One of the players dare ask the coach how in the world he expects the "big guys" to fit into the straps and cups. The coach responds “very carefully, but that is your problem and the snugger the cup fits to your groin the better the protection. You do not want to have your hard cup sliding around as you play or perhaps even slipping out of place where it then can no longer protect you.

So, the players on Bill's school team all go off to their respective locker rooms to change into their team wear, straps, cups, gold compression shorts and tees with the forest green trim. Bill is still worried that his strap and cup is never going to fit. One of the guys hollers out “maybe you would fit better if you jerked off first”. Bill thinks about that option but decides that idea is out of the question, given all the guys wandering around the locker room also getting into their playing garb. Bill is starting to think that this situation has gotten “interesting” at some level given all the guys around him also trying to stuff themselves into straps and cups that are clearly undersized for the anatomy as well.

Bill manages to get his jock strap on over his thighs and in place. He slips the cup into its pouch and it fits every bit as tight as he feared it would. He struggles to pull on his tee, and finally the shorts go on over the strap and cup. Like most guys, Bill can’t resist trying to “adjust” the cup in an effort to move it into what he hopes will be a more comfortable position, but the movement of the cup he immediately senses as a feeling on his penis, and the adjustment only seems to make Bill feel still hornier with the cup bearing down on all around his penis, and he is getting really close to spilling his seed right inside the cup.

Suddenly, at this point, Bill awakens from his dream, and he awakens in the middle of a really powerful ejaculation, creaming his loose fitting boxer shorts and bedclothes all over the place. He did not have the time or the ability to use the “tissue condom” method to avoid at least some of the mess. Slimy semen is in all sorts of places, but thankfully, all under the blankets.

Bill looks over toward Joe’s bed, and it appears that Joe is still asleep. Bill needs to figure out some way to get up and clean himself and his bed up, without making any noise that awakens Joe, who will immediately wonder what has happened to Bill. This will be tricky. Will Bill have to admit to Joe what just happened? Let‘s hope not! This could get complicated.

Isn’t it just weird how elements of Sebbie’s story intermingled with the basic story line of the wet dream? That is the way dreams often are!

……..To be continued

[sebbie]

Sebbie, your story-writer, wants to once again remind you that both Bill and Joe think of themselves as straight-as-an-arrow 19-year olds, both interested in women of their same age for socialization, and, eventually, sexual relationships. Bill and Joe were placed together in the tiny dorm room by University housing, a room that offers neither space nor even a modicum of privacy. Given the normal college pressures of taking freshman college courses, designed in part, to weed out students who do not have the academic prowess for getting a college degree, and the tight living conditions do not exactly help matters.

Not that Bill and Joe after 6 weeks dislike each other or get into nasty fights over things like shared spaces and noise. Indeed, all things considered and given the minimalist dorm room setup, they are doing pretty well.

The University would like to update their dorms maybe with a few more amenities so the dorms didn’t have such a military-barracks feel to them, but putting in even semi-private baths that would be shared, say, with the room next door, would be an expensive remodeling task. The University does not have the money for that, and besides, once the remodeling is finished surely the University would have fewer rentable rooms. The financial numbers simply do not work for the University administrators, and the dorm residents are forced to use the big military-style bath down the hall, with little privacy either.

There are separate stalls for the johns in the big hall bathroom, but there is just one giant shower area with eight separate heads hanging down in a row, and then a long row of nine urinals without so much as even modesty panels between them. If a guy thinks he is going to easily be able to jerk off in the big bathroom, a lot of practical considerations enter in, none of which lead to a quiet or lengthy solo jerk-off session. This is worse than living at home with your parents and siblings always around from a jerk-off perspective. At least at home, you could always go to the bathroom and just close the door!

About 10 years ago, the University did decide to install WiFi in all the dorms, which meant running a computer line with WiFi antenna down the long hallway with the little antenna coming out of the fiber tile ceiling every 20 feet or so. You can imagine all of this must look, rectangular fiberboard ceiling tiles 2 x 4 feet interspersed with an occasional 2 x 4 ft fluorescent light fixture the same size as the tiles, and then these little black WiFi antenna popping out of the occasional tile as you go down the hall. The rooms themselves have a pretty good WiFi signal as they are lined up along both sides of the hall. You can even bring a tablet or iPad into the hall bathroom and get pretty good WiFi not that any guy would actually want to do this ROFL.

In the rental housing contract there is a sentence that says “the University launders bed linen”. Sebbie signed a similar dorm rental contract with the exact same phrase. Sebbie always thought this was hilariously funny, as it sounded as if the University was simply a giant washing machine. Sebby thought maybe university staff laundered the bed linen but not the University. The University was too busy teaching and doing research to take the time to launder bed linen.

What actually happened is that the University, or maybe its staff, thinks that sheets certainly do not need to be washed every day. This is a college dorm not a hotel or motel for goodness sakes. Each row of dorm rooms was designated a certain day for laundry, and early in the morning of that day the residents were expected to rip the sheets off the little twin beds and throw them in a pile outside the door. If the resident doesn’t do this the sheets simply do not get washed until the next week. There is also a once-a-week cleanup maid service. A cleaning lady comes in, sweeps the floor and drops off clean sets of sheets on the laundry day assuming the beds are stripped. Not the same set of sheets that went to the laundry mind you, but a different set of sheets, just washed, that were from another dorm room in the complex. Then the resident was expected to make up his bed with the fresh sheets after he got back from class on laundry day. As we will see, all of this University procedural stuff will enter into Bill’s “predicament” as he rises from sleep and comes out of his wild-ass wet dream experience involving the Funchball game, the jock straps and the cups that were in it.

Both Bill and Joe have separate closets with little chests of drawers for storing clothing items such as socks and underwear. A basic problem Bill now faces is that these little chests are not right by the twin beds, but in the opposite corner across the room. Bill knows he has some clean boxer shorts in the drawers of his chest, if he can figure out a way to get to them without waking Joe in the process.

The dorm does have washers and dryers for use by the residents in the dorm basement. Bill has done laundry only a couple days ago, so he has 5 pair of clean boxers waiting for him in the drawer. Like so many dorm students, Bill just uses an old pillowcase as a laundry bag, and that pillowcase with the soiled items to be washed downstairs just gets filled up during the week as dirty clothes accumulate and tossed in the bottom of the closet.

……….To be continued.

[sebbie]

Bill is now awake, lying in bed, wondering how he is going to get out of the predicament that he has managed to get himself in without embarrassing himself or adversely affecting his currently decent roommate situation with Joe. Bill comes out of the belief that jerking off is best done at night, and under the covers, and between the age of 12 and 18 at home, he honed his skills in surreptitiously jerking off without drawing the attention of others, specifically, his parents, his older sister, but in particular his younger brother, to what he was doing on a regular basis nearly every night.

He had honed his skills at using a facial tissue much like a condom, to catch semen before it messed up his bottoms or got on the sheets in significant amounts. He had actually gotten pretty good at the techniques, as in reading his mind and body as to almost the exact moment he was going to ejaculate, and then collecting nearly all the semen in the tissue. The only real clue was the little plastic waste basket that had somehow migrated from the opposite corner of the bedroom to right next to the upper left hand corner of the bed, and the tissue box sitting right there too. Bill never worried a lot about this, however, because if anyone asked he could always plausibly say that sometimes he needed to blow his nose and clean out stuffy sinuses during the night.

Sometimes his sister helped his mom with the cleaning, and on occasion the boys got dragged into this work too despite their distaste for a lot of it. The convenient thing was that the tissue containing the semen looked almost exactly like a soiled tissue containing whatever you call the flemmy stuff you blow out of your nose. Neither his older sister nor his younger brother were going to try and unravel that. Frankly, it did not even dawn on them that the soiled tissues could contain something a lot more interesting. It was all just soiled tissue that needed to be put in the trash. So the tissue condom was a near–perfect under-the-cover-jerk off cover,…except that….

Except that the wet dreams did present something of a problem, being so unpredictable. If the wet dream ended with a full-scale orgasm and ejaculation while the dreamer was still fast asleep or even awake but drowsy, there was no time whatsoever to get the tissue in position for collecting the semen. So would then end up with cum-stained pajama bottoms (he did not sleep in just boxer shorts at that age) not to mention cum-stained sheets too. This created quite a mess, at least until the cum from the jerking off had thoroughly dried.

When Bill was 13, he initially thought that the only real strategic issue was to wait until the wet semen dried, which usually took a few hours of laying in bed. But Bill quickly learned that dry cum stains leave a very odd starchy patch on his pajama bottoms when dry. Odd not only because these patches felt like a little area that appeared like a small patch of laundry starch, but also because they stained the pajama bottoms with off-colored yellow stains. You could see a pattern on the pajamas where every drop of cum landed. Bill had actually heard the terms, cum-tracks cum-stain trails or even penis tracks.

Even worse, there would be similar stains on the sheets. Starchy little discolored patches landing here and there about a third way down on the bottom sheet. All was ok so long as the bed wasn’t being stripped, but if the bed were opened up, there would be all these stains that clearly indicated that something involving a liquid had happened while Bill was in the bed. Bill never did figure out a plausible explanation that he could use except to say that whatever it was that caused the stains must have happened while Bill was fast asleep. Mom seemed to get used to the notion that the sheets from Bill’s room were always going to be soiled within the week. Pajama bottoms too. If mom had figured out what was really happening and how much Bill was involved in creating these stains, she had the good sense to never confront Bill or even say a word about te laundry issue. Bill always thought that was to his mom’s credit for sure. Were other guys so lucky?

Bill brought all of these teen-age jerk-off and wet-dream experiences and cover ups right along with him to college. Obviously he knew that some of this could easily be an issue with a male roommate sleeping right next to him in a tiny dorm room. But what was he to do, just not go to college? That wasn’t an option.

So, at this point we have Bill still under the covers, still wearing the same pair of boxer shorts he wore to bed, but now the boxer shorts are covered with big spots of wet cum, ejaculate from that wild-ass funchball wet-dream sequence that he just awoke from. Bill THINKS Joe is still fast asleep in his own bed, and knows nothing. Bill NEEDS to get the cum-stained shorts into his laundry bag in the closet in the other corner of the room, and Bill would like to put on a clean dry pair from the drawer in the chest in the same closet. How to pull this all off without awakening Joe?

The sheets have cum on them too, and that is a problem as well, because it is Tuesday and laundry pickup day is on Friday. What a mess!

Bill decides that with respect to the sheet issue, the best strategy is to just let the cum stains dry to their starchy spots of discoloration. Live with the cum-stained sheets until Friday. After all this isn’t the first time in Bill’s life that he has ended up sleeping in sheets stained with cum!

Bill then decides that what he really needs to do is get up in a hurry, quickly drop the soiled, cum-stained boxers he is still wearing to the floor, and then make a fast dash to the opposite side of the room stark naked, grab a clean pair of boxers out of the drawer there, and pull them on as quickly as possible. At that point Bill can nonchalantly carry the pillow-case laundry bag back to the bed edge and stuff the cum-stained shorts into the pillow case. Finally put the laundry bag back into the closet. Bill thinks no one will be the wiser and he implements the strategy.

Bill thinks Joe is still asleep. Of course Joe is not asleep. In fact, Joe has one eye open but only pretending to still be asleep. Joe sees Bill making this wild dash naked cross the room and gets a glimpse of Bill’s naked butt moving in a hurry. Joe is starting to wonder about this, in part because Bill was not exactly completely quiet during the funchball game dream. Bill actually talked, or at least mumbled, in his dream sleep, cheering the opposing teams out loud and making what sounded like nothing so much as like somewhat lewd comments about the uniforms both the guy and the girl funchball players were wearing. What really confused Joe is that he heard Bill mutter what sounded like F@#kball! F@#kball! Several times during the night. To Joe, Bill seemed to be having, at best, a confusing night or a really wild dream.

Bill pulled off his boxer sacking maneuver thinking that Joe knew nothing at all. Shortly thereafter Joe got up and dressed for class. bill did not say anything to Joe about what had happened during the night, nor did Joe mention that he thought Bill was behaving a bit “odd’, to say the least. Both Joe and Bill quickly dressed and were off to their early morning classes.

……..To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill went on to his classes, but, quite frankly, his mind was not very much on the class contents. Bill was thinking about stuff, weighty stuff. He was still replaying the funchball dream over and over in his mind. Bill started thinking about stuff. Really weighty stuff.

The part of the dream sequence that kept going over and over in Bill’s head was about the costumes the funchball teams were wearing. The girls looked really cute in the snug Spandex shirts and shorts. But Bill’s dream focus had been on the hunky guys dressed out similarly, and he was particularly focused on seeing those jock straps clearly outlined under the guys’ tight compression-jammer shorts. Funchball was nothing if not sexy fun, appealing to “arousal central”.

If Bill was really this ruler-straight guy, why did the dream head off in such an unexpected direction? Was this an indication that Bill had a gay streak and a special interest in and appreciation of guys he didn’t fully appreciate or even realize was there? Bill was starting to struggle with what all the stuff that happened in the dream sequence really meant for his real sexual orientation.

Until the dream took place, he thought sexual orientation was rather simple to understand. Sexual orientation basically divided human beings into two groups, straight or gay. Whether you were straight or gay, as in one or the other, depended entirely on who you engaged with for partner sex. Straight guys always had partner sex with women. Gay guys always other men. This, Bill had always thought, was all very simple.

Bill got to thinking, however, that if this were true, what of all the people floating around that did not seem to be having partner sex with anyone? Are they neither straight nor gay? But then Bill concluded that sexual orientation was not determined by the gender of the person you are having regular sex with. But rather by the gender of the person you would most want to have sex with if you were in a relationship. So a lot of people not having partner sex with anyone at the present time could be classified as being either straight or gay simply based on the gender of their primary sexual longings. That seems straightforward, at least at first.

Of course there are asterisks and footnotes. With sexuality, there always seems to be asterisks and footnotes. For starters, what about those who claim to be bisexual, as in attracted to, desiring, and perhaps even engaging in partner sex with people of both genders, perhaps over a period as short as a few months or even days? These people must fit into a third category of those who are neither straight nor gay, but somewhere in the middle place between the first two categories.

But then what about what is sometimes called asexual people, people who seem not to be interested in having partner sex at all? Even this gets complicated. We all have met spinsters and single males who claim to be completely disinterested in sex at all. These are the men and women who cannot remember the last time they had a sexual orgasm, alone or with a partner. Bill is not sure he wants to toss this group of people into the space with the people who claim to be bisexual if the bisexuals are regularly engaging in partner sex with people of both genders and the asexual are not engaging in sex with anyone.

This gets more complicated still. It suddenly occurs to Bill that some people (Sebbie maybe as an example?) seem to enjoy solo sex immensely to the point of continuously dreaming up new and interesting ways to jerk off. This thought had never occurred to Bill before. But these solo-sex episodes almost invariably end up being private, solo sessions, not sessions with a partner of either gender. Bill gets to thinking that there are plenty of people who do not have a sexual partner, and plenty more who are of the mindset that they are no longer even interested in having a sexual partner. Are these people somehow denied orgasmic pleasure simply because of their relationship status?

Bill thinks about this. He considers himself heterosexual, but for right now a regular sexual relationship with a certain girl could create more problems for him (and her) than it resolves. The girl might soon get to thinking because Bill’s actions with his penis that she is the one for eternity, and Bill is not ready for that, at least not yet for sure. Probably not the relationship for ANY 19-year old to get into, regardless of how much he thinks he is “in love.”

So, what is the other option? Bill certainly does not want to deny himself the pleasures of having powerful orgasms at age 19, but, without a female partner, Bill is back to jerking off, in private. Finding a place to jerk off in private under the circumstances has become quite a problem still to be resolved. Bill thinks that in a few ways things are better in college than they were at home, but in other ways the current situation is far worse in this regard. Bill cannot go into a jerk-off session in front of his roommate, Joe, or he might have to rethink his belief that he is a straight-as-an-arrow heterosexual. Joe too!

But the hormones are raging, and Bill thinks jerking off is great fun, maybe almost as much fun as real partner sex. The orgasm Bill had at the end of the funchball wet dream, Bill thinks, was the most powerful of any that he has ever had. What gives? There was no partner. Only a strap, a cup and a bellicose coach.

……..To be continued.

[sebbie]

Sebbie is a “mean” writer. He doesn’t intentionally set out to twist his readers’ heads in all sorts of different ways, but sometimes he ends up doing that, inadvertently. Well, maybe not so inadvertently.

Bill has gone to a lot of hero-and-villain movies. In some of these movies, the hero is captured by the villain. The villain then attempts to gain control over the hero, and then to help the villain in his wrongdoing.

An interesting way of accomplishing this involves having the villain inject the hero with a brain-controlling microchip, something that looks halfway between a little insect and a mechanical beast containing a microchip. This mechanical insect then goes in and migrates to the hero’s brain, and starts to force the hero to do the villain’s biding.

Bill is starting to think that Sebbie’s papers seem to work on him much like a mechanical insect microchip would. On first reading, these seem innocuous enough, and hardly even that sexy. Certainly they contain no descriptions or videos of raw partner sex like so many of the Internet porno sites do. The stuff Sebbie seems to like to write about seems pretty harmless and even a little boring at times.

When Bill read “Spending the night in a Cup”, something must have clicked in his head. Bill was not even aware of what was happening to him. But then he went to bed, and the funchball dream almost immediately started up.

The funchball dream plot by no means followed the plot of the “Spending the Night in a Cup” paper, not anything close. But some of the ideas contained in Sebbie’s Cup paper showed up in different contexts in the dream. It was almost as if Sebbie had inserted an insect-like microchip into Bill that then traveled into Bill’s brain and took over during sleep to then write the dream script. And here Sebbie was just having fun writing about his experiences in wearing a strap, cup and compression shorts to bed. Interestingly, a combination much like the funchball uniform in the dream, the storyline that got Bill so hot and bothered.

Bill did not quite know how to deal with all of this. He was suddenly in a strange place. He loved the funchball uniforms, all the slinky Spandex, the tight straps, the look and probable feel of a snug hard cup bearing firmly down on his penis. He was struggling to not keep thinking about all of this. Bill was in a different place now, psychologically and sexually. Sebbie had crawled into Bill’s head.

Bill knew well what he wanted to do. He wanted to go out to a real sporting goods store, a store that had a wide selection of snug-fitting compression tees and shorts all in bright-and-sexy colors. He knew maybe he couldn’t find exactly what was in the dream costumes, the triple vertical stripes in a contrasting color. Old Gold compression wear was going to be tricky to find too, but probably not Navy Blue or Steel Gray. Those would be easy.

Another issue would be to find the right strap and cup to wear underneath. Sebbie provided some guidance on that, but some of what Sebbie said is clearly out of date. This will take some serious research for sure.

Bill decided that what he really wanted to do is find the pieces he needed to look as close as possible to the male funchball players he thought were so sexy in the dream. So he decided that as soon as classes were done for the day he would take a quick trip out to the big-box sporting goods store in an effort to come as close as he could to what the guys in the funchball game were wearing.

Bill still has a potentially big problem. At some point Joe is going to see some of what he is up to, and will start asking questions about what is going on with him, which even Bill thinks has gotten bizarre. Intensely aroused guys sometimes do bizarre things. What is Bill going to say? Is Bill going to reveal to Joe why he is behaving in such an awkward way? What details does Bill tell Joe and what does he leave out? Does Bill tell anything to joe about his seemingly sudden infatuation with solo sex methods? What will Joe think once he sees the costume Bill bought? Will Joe react by angrily putting in for a different roommate concluding that Bill has suddenly gone completely “off the ranch” so to speak?

There is a lot more going on here than Bill merely needing to get his cum-stained wet dream sheets picked up in the Friday laundry pickup for sure!

These are all interesting questions and questions that surely deserve an answer. How does the shopping trip go? Does Bill find any clothing remotely similar to what he saw the funchball players wearing in the dream? My readers surely deserve answers to all of this.

But, quite frankly, I do not know the answers to any of these questions right now. I am as confused about what is happening with Bill as Joe is. Well, almost as confused. I can relate to Bill and know what Bill must be feeling right now. Sexually, Bill is being tugged in all sorts of different directions at once.

I am hoping to figure out where this is all going from here by tomorrow morning, and in the meantime you will just have to wait. At this point you think that what is about to happen is that Bill gets his funchball uniform purchased and then crawls into bed wearing it, with Joe wondering what in the world is up with his roommate.

For now, that is a good place for my readers to be. If you want to jerk off while reading all of this, that is quite OK with Sebbie and approved too, but you might need your own funchball uniform to make that work for you.

As I said at the start, Sebbie can be a “mean” writer in messing with his readers. I dare you to try keeping from reading the next episode with Bill, Joe and the new funchball uniform. I think you are having trouble staying away. Something is calling for you to read on as Sebbie is setting you up.

…….To be continued.

[sebbie]

Classes are over, and Bill has spent the entire day just thinking about how much fun the wet dream last night was. He had never had an orgasm that powerful before. And Bill is starting to get the entire sequence of events back into perspective. He feels fine all over, in fact kinda warm inside, in a way that he had never quite felt before. It is just a little more confused than he was before about sex, and maybe a few more unanswered questions about his own sexuality and sexual identity as a human being, questions that had never even occurred to him before.

Bill was still deeply engaged in the funchball game dream but especially the uniforms the guys were wearing that showed jockstraps and even the outline of a hard cup under the skin-tight compression shorts and shirts.

Truth is, Bill was much more a pointy-headed student than an athlete in high school. What this meant was that he had never even played in a sport where straps were required equipment, let alone a contact sport that would require a hard protective cup. But then Joe hadn’t either, but we will get back to that part of the story line a few chapters from now.

Still, Bill as a non-athlete, was always curious about, and perhaps just a bit envious of, the guys in high school that wore straps and cups to play their sports. That meant the football players and the baseball players in Bill’s school. Secretly, he always wondered how being in a strap felt, particularly a strap that held a protective cup. In particular, he wondered what happened if a player should accidentally get an erection while wearing a strap and cup, Where would the erection be able to go? That could be painful. Just thinking about having your penis in a confined space seemed to be at once a bit scary but also in a strange way, erotic and stimulating.

Bill could feel his penis stiffen just a little even as he thought about all of this. Just thinking, he suddenly nearly had a real “semi” coming on, complete with a few drops of precum, and he was not even thinking about sex as such and not the least about sex with a partner. That was certainly unexpected, but in an odd way, a little bit fun too that Bill’s body was “messing” with his head that way. After all, Bill was still wearing just boxer shorts under his jeans, not exactly something erotic, and it was only the images in his mind that were doing this to him.

Bill was always quite curious about how jock straps would feel on his body, but he had no reason to own a strap given his non-athlete status in high school. He could not just go out and buy one for no particular reason. How would he explain this to his parents? Now Bill was in college, on his own more or less, and he was free to own any clothing that fit his college-student budget, including stuff that could best be classified as athletic garb he wanted. His parents were no longer looking over his shoulder with respect to every detail about how he spent his money. He still had to figure out an explanation if he planned to put on the athletic-looking garb right in front of his roommate Joe, but coming up with that seemed simple relative to explaining exactly what he was up to to his parents. Bill decided not to worry about the excuse he would make, for now.

Bill’s reaction to the funchball uniforms in the dream seemed to indicate that Bill ‘liked” practically anything that would grip his penis and nads and provide a sensation of containment. Some of this is psychological and some of it is physical, as Sebbie had said. Bill sensed the same thing when thinking about stuff surrounding his penis. It was only partly the physical sensations of your penis being contained inside something, but it was also the psychological knowledge that this was the case that was so interesting, and, at least to an extent, driving him bananas. Sexual feelings can be loopy in that regard. Loopy maybe, but in an odd way, also terrific fun.

Of course, a strap and cup is not a real female vagina, nor even close to that. Bill knew that only too well. He wasn’t fooling himself in that regard at all. Still, for a 19 y/o single college student not in a sexual relationship of any sort with another person, the combination still apparently provides something that is sexually interesting and stimulating. At least that is what Sebbie said in the cup paper, and it seemed to be verified by the male funchball players in the wet dream. Maybe being a high school jock rather than a pointy-headed know-it-all had its advantages, too. And for a horny, single freshman college student not in a partner relationship, what was wrong with that? He wasn’t going to get VD, HIV or a girl pregnant from just wearing a jock strap for goodness sakes. This seemed like completely safe, cheap, at least mildly erotic fun. An in human sexuality, given the alternatives for horny 19-year old college freshmen, the other options frequently cannot say that.

So it’s off to the sporting goods store as Bill pondered all of this, while replaying the funchball wet dream over and over in his head!

…….To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill was still thinking about the colorful details of the funchball uniforms in the dream. He was also thinking about the points that Sebbie made in the cup paper about selecting straps and cups for the best self-pleasuring results.

First off, Bill decided to locate a compression tee and compression shorts as close as possible to what was in the dream. He knew old gold would be all but impossible to find. But he did find a rack of compression tees, some in navy and some in steel gray, and a few racks over the matching compression shorts in the same two colors. Bill settled on the steel gray. The shorts came in two lengths, one came nearly to the knee and the other cut off closer to mid-thigh. Everything was labeled Small, Medium or large.

Sebbie in his paper said it is best to undersize the shorts a bit to make sure the strap and cup is held securely to the groin and the cup cannot move around 'too much'. Just a little, maybe? Bill had about a 32-inch waist. The small shorts said 30-32 and the medium ones 34-36. Bill decided that the Small shorts were the better choice for what he was going to be doing. In the case of the tee, however, Bill went with the medium which was technically a 38-40 size not 34-36. Bill worried that he would not even be able to get into the smaller tee. Even the medium looked pretty small and tight. Bill put the steel gray shorts and matching tee in his shopping cart.

Then it was off to find a suitable strap and cup. Sebbie explained that the smaller and snugger fitting the cup fit around the flaccid penis the better the sensations, and it was helpful in getting a tight fit if the strap itself was a little undersized too. What Sebbie described looked amazingly just like the straps and cups the funchball player were wearing in the dream. A lot of cups in the store looked way oversized and not at all liked the funchball cups in the dream. Bill thought his penis would just flop around loosely inside any of those. These were actually all “banana style cups”.

Finally Bill spotted what he thought was what we wanted, an old school “Flarico” brand strap with a smaller, somewhat flatter cup. And one size was adult SM. Bill threw that cup and strap into his cart and went to the counter to check out. He was too embarrassed to go to the checkout counter with a girl, but a guy was at the other counter, so Bill checked out there, looking somber.

And Bill was back off to his campus dorm room mulling what if anything he was going to tell Joe.

…….To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill drives back to his dormitory from the sporting goods store, still trying to figure out how he is going to come up with a plausible explanation to Joe with respect to what he just did. He needs a story line that is at least a little bit believable, at least a line that Joe does not burst out in uncontrollable laughter at the outrageousness of it all.

Bill really wants to try Sebbie’s stunt using the pieces that he just bought at the big-box sporting goods store. In short, Bill wants to try spending the night in a cup while dressing as the funchball player that he saw in the wet dream experience and run an experiment of sorts in an attempt to see exactly how his body reacts to the new “predicament” that it is in through the night. This sounds like wild and crazy fun, something a College freshman might try but probably not a high school senior.

But while this is the unvarnished truth certainly that is not an explanation that would work with Joe as to why he is wearing all the equipment he purchased to bed that night. At least that is not today’s explanation. Maybe Bill can clue Joe in a bit more as to the unvarnished truth tomorrow, or the net day.

Bill needs to come up with something that at least has an element of plausibility and sanity to it, and certainly not that he wants to see if he can still successfully jerk off while wearing a strap, a cup and a pair of really snug fitting compression shorts. The truth is just too blunt.

Naw, Bill needs a subtler excuse. Bedtime is nearing. Bill is thinking. Joe is in the room thinking bedtime is nearing too. Maybe a simple explanation is the best approach, even though it stretches the truth “just a little”. OK, well maybe a lot.

Bill finally concocts an explanation. Here it is.

“I have been thinking that I want to do some workouts at the College gym for students. The gym is only a half-block away from the dormitory. I decided I did not bring any clothes to campus suitable for that. Mostly my closet is filled with several pairs of jeans plus some colored shirts. I was out to the big box sporting goods store this afternoon, and they had racks of tee shirts and shorts on sale. Turns out, they are both made of this new Lycra blend suff. But since that stretches so much it might be just what I need for my new student gym workouts. The only problem is, after I got this stuff home, I decided that the size looks as if the fit is going to be rather snug. I thought maybe if I wore the shorts and compression tee to bed for several nights, that would loosen them up a bit when I use them at the gym.”

That sounded plausible at least, not laugh-in-your face silly. Joe seemed just listen and to take all of this in stride. Joe was a bit surprised in that Joe had never shown any interest in being an athlete or even working out in the gym before this. But if Joe had issues with Bill’s explanation, he did not show that in his facial expression. Joe just took this all in.

…….To be continued

[sebbie]

The tags still need to come off the tee and shorts, but a nail clipper in Bill’s desk drawer works fine for this. Bill has a bigger problem, however. The strap and cup came packaged in what they call a blister pack, and the blister pack has to be cut or ripped apart to get at the contents. How does he do this in front of Joe in the tiny dorm room?

Bill says

“Oh, and I decided to buy a strap too. I decided that could provide some support when I am working out.”

Bill doesn’t mention the cup, but Joe can see a cup inside the blister pack, too. Joe says nothing about what he says.

Bill says

“I think I am going to try the strap on and see if I got he right size” He proceeds to do that. After that he slips the cup in the little pouch, saying nothing more to Joe. But Joe is quietly observing all of this.

Next Bill struggles a bit as he pulls on the tee. This compression wear really does fit snug. It has to, to do its job, Bill thinks.

Finally, Bill pulls on the shorts, the ones he bought that were SM when Bill actually thought he was a MED. Man, are these snug, Bill thinks to himself, but he says nothing at all to Joe, who has been watching all of this in silence.

Yup, Joe is watching all of this with some interest of his own. Joe is not sure what is happening to him. Was that really a couple drops of precum forming at the tip of his penis just watching as Bill struggles to get into his gym garb? Joe doesn’t know, but something was going on down there. Joe did not want to even think about that.

So Bill says “I think I am ready for bed now. I hope this idea works and these clothes are going to be easier to get in and out of when I do go to the gym.

Bill never makes the point with Joe that he was ready for bed with the strap and hard cup still in place, but certainly Joe must know that, Bill thinks to himself. Oh well, no reason to raise that point at this stage.

So, Bill crawls into his twin bed wearing all of this garb, and Joe quickly lands in his own bed. The lights are off. Tomorrow is Wednesday, and both Joe and Bill have only one late class in the afternoon. In the morning they can both sleep in.

In spite of all of this, Bill quickly falls into a deep sleep, all this stuff Bill is wearing is there for sure, but for right now it doesn’t seem that uncomfortable. Indeed, it feels quite nice, not erotic nice, but nice to sleep in, at least for the time being.

Joe is having problems getting to sleep, however. In his mind’s eye, he is playing over and over what he saw and what Bill was doing. Joe thought that there must be more going on here than Bill had told him. Joe was wondering what Bill was feeling as he got into all this stuff. Remember, Joe was no more of a student athlete than Bill was and was perplexed as to what could happen if HE were to get into garb similar to what Bill had worn to bed. As a teenager, Joe had messed around more than Bill had ever done using articles of snug-fitting clothing as jerk-off aids. That is what Joe often did at home when his parents were off running errands and his older brother was at his part-time job. By the time he graduated from high school Joe had a short list of items that he “enjoyed” wearing and sometimes masturbated into. He never admitted that to anyone and kept these items secret from his family. These items did not include straps, cups or compression wear, but somehow Bill had hit some buttons in the stuff he had brought home today in the sporting goods store.

As Joe thought about this over and over, he was starting to get a little aroused just replaying what he had seen Bill just do. The basic question was his understanding of what Bill was feeling as he “tried on” the new clothes. At some point Joe got to thinking that he would really like to be in Bill’s shoes right now, so to speak, even though Bill was not wearing shoes. Joe could feel a little blood flowing into his penis as he thought about what he had just seen and that Bill was sleeping wearing this stuff right next to Joe. Joe could sense a tiny spot of precum forming on his boxer shorts just at the tip of his penis. This was in some ways exciting, but in other ways, more than a little scary. Finally Joe just drifted off thinking about what he had just seen his roommate do and wondering how it was all going with Bill in the twin-size bed just a few feet away.

……..To be continued

[sebbie]

This is getting to be a long and complex story line. Bill and Joe, both who believe themselves to be ruler- straight 19-year olds, by accident ended up as roommates in an old school men’s college dormitory that offered little if any privacy particularly for jerking off. Only 6 weeks into their freshman year, the pressures of competing in college classes along with being constantly horny but seldom able to find the privacy necessary to get relief, the unfortunate combination of conditions are taking a toll.

Bill ended up surfing the Web and ended up reading Sebbie’s “Spending the night in a Cup” Web paper. At the time, Bill thought the paper was interesting but innocuous but hardly erotic. But then Bill went to sleep and had an erotic dream involving a coed funchball competition in which both the guys and girls together were playing a crazy game with some elements of softball and some elements of soccer. Bill’s dream eye was first attracted to the women, but he was surprised in the dream when his attention suddenly turned to the guy’s uniforms, colorful, snug fitting, skin-tight spandex that looked as if the players had been poured into them. Not only that, it was clear that the guys had neat little straps on underneath and hard cups too. Bill got turned on by all of this even tho he was asleep and ended up with a big erection. He ended up with a powerful orgasm that spread cum everywhere in his bed just as he awoke from the dream. Bill was talking in his sleep, too, and that captured the attention of Joe in the other little dorm-room bed. Bill had a real mess to clean up but he also thought the orgasm he had was nothing short of amazing as to how it felt.

The next day, after cleaning himself up, Bill decided that he needed to get himself a real funchball outfit at a local sporting goods store. Today he found something very close and he decided to try the uniform on and then crawl into bed wearing it, much as Sebbie’s paper had suggested. Keep in mind that neither Joe nor Bill was a high school athlete and neither had ever even worn a strap, let alone a hard cup.

Joe watched Bill get into his new purchases and, to Joe’s surprise, got a little aroused as he was watching. Not a big-penis arousal, but he could feel precum forming at the very tip of his penis as he watched Bill struggle to get into and adjust his new clothing to his body. Joe was surprised by this because he had always thought he was perfectly straight and not at all interested in or attracted to othe men, even men who might be sexually excited, as Joe suspected Bill might be under the circumstances.

Actually, Bill was a bit disappointed. Initially he did not know how his body was going to “respond” to the clothes and snug-fitting little strap. He thought he might quickly end up with a big erection that would not even fit inside the cup, but that was not the case. Bill had no difficulty fitting his male member inside the cup, and did not notice any significant degree of discomfort as he crawled into bed. Bill was perhaps even thinking that what Sebbie had written was all wrong, or at least did not work for Bill.

Joe, on the other hand, was rather turned on by what he observed even though he had no new clothes like Bill had. This bothered Joe to a certain degree at least, because never before had he gotten himself aroused just by looking at another guy. Bill fell asleep wearing the funchball uniform garb. But Joe laid awake in his dorm room bed still thinking about all of this and what it might mean for Joe and his future.

……..To be continued.

[sebbie]

Getting to go to college can be a marvelous experience. Most of the constraints imposed on you by teachers in high school are suddenly gone. Professors seem to not really care what you do except they like it when you show up for class. Parents are back home not watching your every move, and the professors are clearly not locus parentis. The dorm has a resident counselor, but he seems like a very mild-mannered junior psychology/social work major of all things, there only because he has two years of college under his belt.

Colleges give students a lot of latitude to study subjects on a wide range of topics in as much depth as each student wants to go, indeed, the deeper the better. And no subject is more interesting to study than human sexuality now without any constraints imposed by parents or high school teachers. And with the Web now completely lacking adult/parental controls, Bill was ready to do some serious reading up on all the topics he wanted to know more about. Have other guys discovered the same things Bill had discovered under the covers? How do other guys deal with all of this?

A lot of the Web sites Bill has managed to read at some level sound very scientific, sometimes using terms unfamiliar to Bill. Bill had hung out with peers in high school, and any reference to sexual parts or function always was in slang. Penis sometimes came out as dong, for example. Testicles were balls or sometimes ‘nads. Bill had always wondered where the term nads came from, but on line he soon learned that nads was really a slang shortening of gonads, which could refer to either the male or female sexual organs. Nads were like ‘rents were to parents as in I really wanted to go to the party, but my ‘rents wouldn’t let me out of the house! I was really feeling horny and my ‘nads were aching to blow. Ahh, for the vernacular peer slang language of the teen-ager.

Bill had gotten into some really interesting reading when he searched on the terms frenulum and perineum. Both searches led to some well laid out Web sites that explained some details of human sexuality Bill was not aware of, with even line anatomical drawings and an occasional photo too. These were the kinds of materials the adult firewall Web controls were blocking in high school. That seemed strangely unfortunate to Bill, because the sites he was pulling up were designed to be educational about sex and sexuality but not pornographic as such. The topics addressed some of the same issues in the high school sex and socialization class, but in far greater detail.

This whole issue of slang versus scientific term got more complicated as Bill kept digging. Bill knew that jerk-off was slang for masturbation aka solo sex. The guys in high school would say that they were horny and needed to jerk off, on occasion, but never that they needed to masturbate. In the world of high school teen boys with raging hormones, jerk-off was considered at least somewhat socially acceptable, but masturbation was done only by non-athletic, socially-insecure teen males who were uncertain of their own sexual orientation. Some difference! And then, the guys routinely referred to a peer whose behavior was in some way out of line derogatorily as a jerk-off. This was confusing, to say the least. But then guys would also refer to the misbehaving person as a dong. It was never clear whether a dong referred to any penis in any stage of erection, or only an erect penis. Then sometimes a guy would say “you penis-breath” to another guy, but usually only in jest when the other guy did something considered dumb or stupid. What exactly a penis-breath meant was not totally clear either. Teen male vernacular and insults done in jest with no serious ill will using sexual slang can quickly become very complicated.

I do not want to lose track of the story line here nor write as if I have forgotten where I left Bill in his college, sleeping in a twin bed across from Joe, but Bill’s interest is seeking out information about sex and sexuality plays right into the situation Bill is currently in sleeping in the dorm room. Bill knew that on the Web, he was seeing not only masturbation as the correct term for jerk-off,but also erection for the slang term hard-on. No teen would ever say he was getting an erection, the proper vernacular was that he was getting a hard-on.

Then there was the physiology of all of this, as in why and how does the penis get hard and erect. For a teen male, this can be an incredibly complicated subject in part because of the loopy mixture of physical and psychological invariably going on. Some of what is going on seems to be in the head and some in the body, but what is driving and controlling what? Is sex really about the sex organs or the brain? Well, Bill was starting to realize that the simplest answer to that question was some of both, but that does not really resolve the matter at all, and in fact that explanation makes understanding even more difficult. Sebbie, in his papers that Bill read, seemed to delight in messing with his readers in this regard, taking over the reader’s brains in a funny way. And this is what led directly to the funchball game and the wet dream that was so much fun for Bill last night. But the control did not stop there as evidenced by the fact that Bill raced out to the sporting goods store after classes to pick out his own funchball uniform like the one he saw in the dream and now was sleeping in it, of all things.

……..To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill continues to read:

“During sleep, It is normal for the male penis to repeatedly fill with blood and become turgid, and these cycles may occur multiple times during an ordinary night’s sleep. With each cycle, the penis fills with blood, becomes sensitive to the touch and then finally drains and shrinks. No one knows exactly why males are built this way and why nature did this, but this same process seems to occur in many other animal species as well. The extra blood supply from a biological perspective seems to keep the penis healthy and ready for partner sex. Sometimes, the tumescence is enough to cause the guy to ejaculate spontaneously during sleep, but sometimes not. Of course, this filling and draining has a psychological component as well. In sexual excitement for the male, the tiny valves that allow blood to go out of the penis contract and close, while the valves letting blood in open at the same time, so a penis getting stiff or hard is all about the position of the inflow versus the outflow valves. The psychological component of this is the most interesting part, particularly the interaction between the brain and the sex organs. If it the blood flow and erection of the penis that triggers the erotic dream that may end in ejaculation, or does the wet dream as it evolves trigger the blood flow and erection that might at some point during the dream end in ejaculation? A good question for sure that no one fully knows the answer.”

So, Bill now knows that during sleep, his penis is likely going to go through normal cycles of erection and draining, perhaps several times during the night. Bill had not thought about this cycle before, except when it accidentally led to a nocturnal emission. But now there was a new twist, the funchball uniform, the compression shorts and tee, but most importantly the athletic strap and cup. Bill realizes that if his penis is going to be able to go into its normal night-time cycles of filling and draining, it is going to need some space to go into when it is larger in the fill cycle. But the combination of the strap and the cup held tightly against the groin during sleep is going to seriously limit the expansion space for the erect penis during the normal nocturnal cycle. Blood is flowing into the penis during tumescence, but the penis has almost no place to go except to press more tightly against the walls of the cup. The cup that would fit fine in the daytime over the penis and ‘nads while playing in a sport could pose a barrier. As the penis presses against the walls of the hard cup what is going to happen? Will Bill end up quickly ejaculating INSIDE the cup? Or not?

Bill is about to find out.

………….To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill is thinking about all of this as he is climbing into his strap and cup. Having never been in a strap and cup before, he thought that the sensations he was feeling in his groin area were, well, interesting, but not necessarily that erotic. The leg straps pulling on the pouch and drawing his penis back toward his groin, the feel of the straps crossing his glutes on both sides, the realization that his butt crack was completely visible, all stuff he thought about when Bill was a teen-ager back in high school. All of this was certainly interesting but nothing particularly erotic as such.

Then Bill slipped the hard cup into the pouch of the strap. The cup felt a bit cold. He could feel the pressure of the cup against his groin on the skin and nerves surrounding his penis, but at least for now, the cup was not in direct contact with his penis, even though psychologically he knew it was there and containing him. So far, so good! Bill did not have the big hard-on to contend with that he had feared.

After that, Bill pulled on the compression shorts. The compression shorts he bought, size SM, were made to, well, provide compression, and by undersizing to SM rather than MED the shorts fit almost like a second skin. Bill had to struggle just to get the shorts up over his thighs and then the waist band into the proper position at his waist. Actually, the shorts seemed to fit a little low on the waist, and that was one consequence of the SM versus MED sizing. Bill then got himself into the MED compression tee, and that was long enough to completely cover the area that might have otherwise been exposed as skin by the low rise of the SM shorts.

Bill took a quick glance of himself in the dorm room mirror. He actually thought he looked pretty good all things considered, more muscular and more of an athlete than he had expected for sure. He couldn’t help but make note that he could see a distinct outline of the leg straps and cups beneath the compression shorts, in much the same way as the male athletes in the funchball dream sequence appeared. Bill was happy for that, as looking as much like a dream sequence funchball player as possible had been his real goal.

Bill particularly noticed that once he had the compression shorts on, the cup inside the strap pouch was held quite securely against the groin area. Bill was just beginning to get some feeling of the physical presence of the cup being there and just staring to press against nerves in his penis, something more than psychological for sure. Subtle to be sure, but there.

Just like a “real” athlete getting into a strap and hard cup as preparation for a rough-and-tumble game, Bill was tempted to try and find the most comfortable position for the cup to rest on his groin and over his penis. Maybe just a slight tug of the cup just a touch this way or that would restore the sensation that the cup was no longer touching his penis. Inside compression shorts, however, the cup is held firmly against the groin and the amount of movement the guy can do with the cup is quite limited, only a little ways up, down, left or right. Bill first tried the possibilities one at a time, but quickly discovered that any movement whatsoever just increased the sensation of the cup touching the penis, not decreasing the sensation. No help at all.

Then Bill got another idea. Maybe his penis just needed a short “rest” from being contained within the cup. So Bill tried this: Pull the cup and strap away from his penis by stretching it outward, away from his penis and simply hold the cup and strap in that position through the compression shorts for several seconds. Finally, he would simply release the cup and strap and let it spring back to its original snug position tight against his groin.

That strap-and-cup snapback sent Bill somewhere he had never been before in terms of sexual feelings. Bill soon discovered that his penis “likes” to momentarily be in unconfined space when the cup and strap is pulled away and just held away for a moment or two. The penis “responds” with a small inflow of blood and becomes a bit more tumescent and larger than before. Then the cup suddenly springs back into position, and the penis “discovers” that it has now gotten just a bit too big to fit into the cup like it did only moments ago. The result is just an enormous super-pleasant feeling in the penis unlike anything Bill had ever experienced. The feeling was so extraordinarily pleasant and so powerful that Bill became concerned that he might have actually ‘damaged’ something in messing around. But he quickly decided that was not the case.

Bill was amazed at something else. Bill was having these enormously pleasant sexual feelings without having an orgasm or ejaculation at all. His mind was still just focusing on his penis, without relieving himself by ejaculating. It was in this mindset that Bill crawled into bed under the covers. Joe had observed all of Bill’s actions, but for right now Joe was saying nothing and just acting nonchalant as if nothing was going on even a little bit odd or strange.

……..To be continued

[sebbie]

So Bill climbs into his little dorm room bed, and Joe climbs into the other bed. Bill is wearing his funchball uniform and thinking about how the “snapback” technique worked to send him off on what appeared to be an entirely different planet, sexuality-wise. But oddly enough, Bill almost immediately fell into a deep but dreamless sleep, almost completely conked out.

Joe, on the other hand, was still lying there in his own bed, wide awake, playing over and over again what he just observed and what he thought he might have just seen. Was Bill in some way “messing” with Joe’s head? Joe had never really thought about this at all before, but suddenly the thought occurred to him that what he was seeing Bill doing, the strap, the cup, the compression shorts and tee, was making Joe feel just a little aroused himself. He could feel that little patch of precum forming on his boxer shorts as he thought about all of this. What did that possibly mean since Joe always thought of himself as straight-arrow straight?

[This story seems to be moving along at a glacial pace, with recounts of recounts of episodes appearing over and over. It keeps recounting pre-ejaculate events again and again, almost as if Sebbie is somehow fascinated by and turned on just thinking about all of this as he puts words to paper. Sebbie has finally decided that it is time for the story line to move forward and a slightly faster pace, and so here goes.]

It is now 3 AM. Bill moved out of a deep-sleep phase and into a lighter sleep phase about 1:30 AM. It seemed almost as Bill has moved into a REM sleep which is usually when wild dreams occur. But this night Bill is not dreaming, erotic dreams or otherwise, and he is in the process of awakening again.

What is awakening Bill is the physical tension that he is feeling in his groin area. In going into the REM sleep mode, something else happened. He started into one of those penis-filling-blood-and-becoming tumescent nightly episodes or cycles much like he had been reading about in the Internet papers about how male’s penises normally behave during a night of sleep.

Under normal circumstances, as in sleeping in boxer shorts or sleep pants, these night-time semi- erections pose no particular issue or problem, except when they end in ejaculation which becomes a wet dream and then the assortment of tactics for cleaning up and dealing with the slimy semen that is spilled have to be employed. But now Bill’s penis has no space to expand into and just keeps pressing harder and harder against the walls of the hard cup. Not that Sebbie didn’t warn Bill that would happen.

It is Bill’s RESPONSE to the situation at hand (no pun intended) that gets interesting. Bill awakens with only one thought bearing down on his mind (well, not only bearing down on his mind) . That thought is that he is desperate to get off so his penis will return to its normal size and he can then get back to sleep. Bill first approaches this problem in much the same fashion as he was used to doing wearing only loose-fitting boxer shorts to bed. His hand wanders down to his groin area and he tries to rub his penis by simply pressing on and stroking the top of the cup.

Bill discovers that this provides a most interesting sensation very unlike stroking his penis directly. He can sense his hand moving over the top of the cup and that is in a strange way stimulating. Doing a hand job this way keeps him erect with his member pressing against the cup sides but he can’t get enough direct pressure on his penis to send him into the ejaculation phase. He is just lying there languidly stuck with a non-stop erection pressing on the sides of the cup with no end in sight. Bill soon discovers that being “stuck” in this arousal place that is just below the level needed to ejaculate can be an interesting location to stay, and that he could stay in this place for a comparatively long period of time. He is starting to think that the best strategy for now might be to just kick back and “enjoy” the predicament his penis is in rather than to try and figure an immediate (ejaculatory) way out of the situation at hand. This is a somewhat cruel but exciting game of deferring or delaying orgasm while bouncing along very near to just dumping semen all over. Some guys seem to think that the faster they can go from initial arousal to full-scale ejaculation the more of a “male” they are. Bill is starting to learn otherwise!

Then another thought occurs to him. What about trying the “snapback method” he experimented with a few hours ago but now in bed? If this was fun when Bill was only mildly erect the snapback method might be truly mind blowing in Bill’s current condition. He pulls the cup and pouch outward from his penis and holds in there for, maybe 10 seconds or so, and then simply lets everything snap back to his groin. The results are truly mind boggling. Bill’s mind anticipates the snapback moment coming up, and his penis prepares for what is about to happen the best it can. Moving cup meets erect penis and Bill is suddenly transported to some new interplanetary sexual world the likes of which he has never been in before. The sensations Bill is feeling makes the funchball game wet dream seem like a very “mild” event on an erotic scale.

Bill starts thinking that the idea of learning how to get aroused but then delay the orgasm for as long a period of time as possible is maybe not so crazy after all.

But here is the really strange part: after all of this messing around with his penis, Bill never did get to the point where he ejaculated. Lots of precum: no semen. It is now 4:30 AM and Bill has fallen back to sleep. Bill awakens at his usual 6;15 time still wearing the funchball uniform with the strap and cup still firmly grasping his penis and balls. He rises and he feels just as horny as he did when he went to bed, maybe even more so.

Joe, in the adjoining bed, did not stay sound asleep through all of the activity by Bill in the other bed during the night. He heard some of Bill moaning and grunting, and Joe pretty much has figured out that Bill was somehow in a male sexual “moment”. But Joe on rising remains quiet. He wonders if Bill will start explaining even a few of the details of what happened last night.

………….To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill got up just ahead of Joe, and Bill was able to get out of his funchball uniform and into his school garb, that is, a sharp royal-blue polo shirt and gray-washed Levis 511 jeans. Bill was sorting through his backpack stuff as he was checking his email on his laptop computer. Joe rose and quickly dressed. Joe was wearing a blue-and-white checked shirt, and some PacSun “Bullhead’ dark navy wash jeans.

Joe said: “Did you sleep well last night’?

Bill responded: “Very well, Joe, how was your night?”

Joe replied: “I did ok too. I heard you a bit during the night, and I was concerned that you were not getting a good night’s sleep. How did it work out sleeping in your new athletic clothes? Do you think you got them stretched out so they will be more comfortable to wear by sleeping in them?”

Bill: “I hope so, but boy did everything fit tight when I crawled into bed!”

Joe: “I was a bit worried about you. You looked like you would be quite uncomfortable.”

Bill: “But I DID fall asleep quickly”

Joe: “And here I was still awake. I wasn’t quite sure if you were OK or not. Let’s just say I thought all of this was more than a little strange as to what exactly you were up to. I did not quite ‘buy’ your entire story”

Bill, sounding a bit perplexed: “What do you mean by that?”

Joe: “I thought it was more than a little odd that you would want to go to bed dressed like that, and your new found interest in working out at the gym caught me unexpected.”

Bill: “But, not being an athlete in high school didn’t mean that I was not paying attention or admiring the guys who were.”

Joe: “But Bill, I thought you always said you were an uncoordinated, pointy-headed scholar not a wise-ass jock in high school.”

Bill: “But that does not mean I still can’t work out at the College student gym, now does it. Getting some physical exercise will be good for me!”

Joe: “I guess so, but…”

Bill: “But what? Now you sound really perplexed.”

……….To be continued

[sebbie]

Joe: “I thought the compression shorts and tee were over the top for a guy who claimed to be a career-focused scholar not a jock, and, well when I saw the strap and cup you bought, alarm bells went off. This all looks just crazy!”

Bill, sullenly, looking at his feet not Joe: “I know!”

At this point, Bill knew that the “jig” was up and that he was going to have to come cleaner with Joe than he had done so far, because Joe was not buying the story line he had crafted, at least not completely buying it.

Bill; “Well, I guess you have a right to know a little more.” I was surfing the Web the other day and I found this Web paper by Sebbie called ‘Spending the Night in a Cup’.”

Joe: “That is certainly a strange title for a Web paper. What is it about for goodness sakes?"

Bill” Well, in it, Sebbie describes his experiences sleeping over night in a jock strap, cup and in compression gear.”

Joe: “What kinds of experience, anyway? That sounds just weird.”:

Bill: “Can’t you guess?”

Joe: “You mean…..?”

Bill: (looking down, not straight ahead) “Yup!”

Joe: “You mean that is where you got this loopy idea to go out to the sporting goods store and bring home the gear you said to me was going to be for workouts at the student gym?”

Bill (sheepishly, again staring down at his toes and avoiding Joe’s eyes): “Yup, but there is a little more to the story than you realize at this point. You see, a couple nights ago I had this crazy dream. It happened right after I had gotten done reading Sebbie’s ‘Cup’ paper.”

Joe: “What kind of dream?”

Bill: I would call it an erotic dream, but some of my friends in high school used to say they were actually ‘wet’ dreams. They are dreams with a sexy story line that lead to, well, you know…” Bill’s voice trailed off at the end of that sentence, and he started to look at his shoes again instead of at Joe…

Joe: “I think I do, yes. What happened in the dream?”

Bill: “Well, the kids in it were playing a crazy game they called funchball, it was like a goofy mixture of softball and soccer using funny balls and bats, with some crazy rules I am still trying to figure out.”

Joe: “That doesn’t sound very erotic or sexy for sure. Just a funny or weird game that err kids were playing.”

Bill: “Well, err, it wasn’t what the players were doing in the game that was erotic, it was what the players were WEARING?”

Joe: “What were the players wearing, anyway, that got you all hot and bothered?’

Bill: “For starters the female players were stuffed into really snug-fitting compression gear both tees and shorts, and you could see every bump in their anatomy clearly since the clothing fit like a second skin.”

Joe; “I can see why you might think that was a little sexy, especially if the playing gear fit really really skin tight.”

Bill: “But that is not the part of the dream that really got me hot and bothered.”

Joe: “It wasn’t?”

Bill “No it was the way the guys were dressed. Similar skin-tight compression tees and shorts but I could also see they were wearing protective gear underneath.”

Joe: “Protective gear? You mean….?” Joe’s voice trailed off.

Bill: Yup, it was as if Sebbie had dressed all the players himself, and they were all wearing regulation straps and cups and compression gear just like in Sebbie’s paper.”

Joe: “WOW! You mean like the stuff you bought today at the sporting goods store that you said was going to be your workout wear for the student gym?”

Bill: “Yup….” Again Bill’s voice trailed off and he started once again to stare at his shoes and not look into Joe’s face.

Bill: (haltingly and emotionally) “I was afraid to tell you the real story of what I was up to. I didn’t know what you would think of your roommate if you knew all of this with respect to what was going on with me.”

Joe (laughingly); “Well, I think no less of you. I am thankful that you feel that you can be candid with me as to what is going on with you. Why should I feel badly that I have this horny guy for a roommate?” (Joe laughs)

Bill: “Well, I am certainly glad that you feel that way and that you are not upset with me.”

Joe: “Maybe I need my own funchball uniform just for the fun of it. But I have no idea where this could lead for me. I might not get turned on at all”

Bill: Maybe I should first give you the link so you can read Sebbie’s “Cup” paper that started all of this for me.”

Joe; “I might like to read that for starters, yes.”

To all my readers: The day is young yet, and the only scheduled classes Bill and Joe have are late in the afternoon, 4:30-5:20 pm.

….To be continued

[sebbie]

Sebbie loves to mess with the minds of his readers. I realize that most of my readers here think of themselves as being gay, which poses an interesting dilemma for me with respect to how the story line involving Bill and Joe is going to develop from here on out. I have said over and over again that both Bill and Joe think of themselves to be ruler-straight and interested only in women, and I should not have to repeat that yet another time.

It is just that Sebbie has a more complicated, but I think also ultimately a far richer and more expansive view, of the entire sexual orientation issue than most guys do. I realize that the determination of sexual orientation in large measure, for a lot of people, is a consequence of the gender of the individual they normally engage in sex. In the absence of an ongoing sexual relationship with a specific person, I could stretch that idea to say, well, if that is the case, then sexual orientation can be determined by the gender of the person you think in your fantasies and maybe dreams that you would most like to engage in sex.
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But every time I think I have resolved the orientation determination issue to my own satisfaction, up comes an exception of one sort or another. For starters, there are people, many of them, who claim to be bisexual. I have always wondered if bisexuals might go for relatively long periods of time engaging in sex with persons only of one gender or another, or whether they might keep switching back and forth over relatively short periods of time. Or perhaps even have sexual encounters involving three or even more people as in group sex involving both genders. I suspect anything is possible.

Then, I have a male friend who appeared to be happily married, with his own kids, who appears to have suddenly decided he was gay and soon divorces the wife, taking up life with another man. The kids with his wife are his own. Is my friend gay or bisexual? I have no clue! All I know that trying to put an orientation label on some guys can be very problematic.

Then there are a number of people who have not ever had sex with anyone of either gender. Sebbie numbers himself in that group. Am I disinterested in sex? No, I am fascinated by the entire subject and keep writing long essays about it. Am I an unhappy loner? Naw, not at all. Am I depressed because of all of this? Not to my knowledge. Am I planning to eventually take up with a woman? No plans whatsoever! Am I planning to take up sexually with a man? Absolutely not! So what kind of sexual orientation label would you put on Sebbie? Certainly not asexual if you mean a person who does not have orgasms, but none of the other categories fit well at all either, at least not that I have been able to determine.

Why is all of this important to the ongoing story line? Well, Sebbie is controlling what Bill and Joe do or don’t do in the dorm room next.

I left you some tantalizing clues like crumbs of bread on a forest trail. Bill’s wet dream contained one of the big clues. If Bill was as ruler-straight as he believes, how come Bill got so fascinated by the uniforms the male funchball players were wearing but not so much by the uniforms the curvy females were wearing?

Bill, of course, is struggling with this. Bill had thought ruler-straight heterosexuals should have ruler-straight wet dreams, but that turned out to not be the case. Was Bill’s fascination with seeing the guys in their funchball uniforms a direct clue that Bill was not as ruler-straight as he thought? Good question! Can the gender of the people a person is fascinated by sexually in an erotic dream indicate something about the sexual orientation of the person who had the dream in real life? I told you Sebbie likes to mess with you in that regard and what you think you know about sexual orientation, maybe including your own. I want everyone to think about this question and its extension. When Sebbie has an erotic dream, who shows up in it, anyway?

And finally, what role did your masturbation sessions as a young teenager play in determining your sexual orientation as an adult? What about the gender of any masturbation fantasy partner? Does masturbation normally involve a fantasy partner of one sex or the other? How does what you did in the solo sex department as a young teen male affect your sex and sexual orientation as a young adult. I have always thought that what guys find to be sexually exciting comes along just like so much baggage right into adulthood, in part also affecting what you most enjoy doing in partner sex. Fun sex stuff as a young teenager tends to stick around like glue in adulthood.

I realize some of you are thinking that this story line is headed in the direction of Bill and Joe, two straight guys, at minimum will soon be masturbating each other. Will Sebbie take the story down that path or not? What is the point of a story in which the players only engage in solo not partner sex? Does partner sex happen even if the two players in the plot never even touch each other? Do masturbation fantasies as a young teen-ager play a role in linking to your sexual orientation as an adult? Why do some guys get so turned on just even thinking about another guy getting aroused, jerking off and then ejaculating? Some guys are so “sensitive” in this regard that this does not have to be actually occurring but merely a fantasy of being able to observe? Are guys who claim to be ruler straight somehow immune from getting aroused just thinking about observing another guy getting aroused and jerking off? Are there same-sex situations that turn on straight guys? Will straight guys be able to even admit to that possibility? I told you this all was very messy.

I have already given you one clue. Bill was playing with himself while wearing his funchball uniform in the bed next to Joe's bed in the little dorm room. Joe was awake but Bill thought Joe was asleep. Joe got aroused thinking about what Bill was doing in his bed. Ergo, does this mean that Joe is not really straight?

What is going to happen next to Bill and Joe? Will Bill and Joe ever get around to a shopping trip where they both try on and then purchase pairs of swimming briefs? You will just have to wait and see!

…….To be continued

[sebbie]

 
So Bill passed Joe the link for Sebbie’s “Cup” paper and suggested that Joe read it if he wanted to find out more. And “ruler-straight” Joe WAS interested in finding out what had happened that led to the entire sequence of events with Bill over the past few days, in particular, what could have precipitated Bill’s vivid funchball dream as well as the events that followed that caused Bill to make some purchases at the sporting goods store.

Joe wasn’t saying it, but, to be certain, Joe had actually had more experience growing up as a teenager using articles of clothing as an aid in masturbation as a teenager when he was left home alone than Bill had had. He even had a particularly favorite pair of tighty whiteys as a teenager, a pair that somehow fit really snug (boy’s size 14). Joe loved to dig that pair out of the bottom of his dresser drawer, pull them on, then get an erection and masturbate to ejaculation while still wearing the underwear. This pair of underwear seldom got thrown into the laundry and washed. The yellowish cum stains would just dry into those interesting starchy patches teen guys are so familiar with.

When Joe got the privacy to masturbate again, he would find the stains on his jerk-off briefs-of-choice to be strangely erotic. Joe looked at that pair of underwear with a kind of reverence that made him feel like he was now a man, or at least in the process of becoming a man, and the stains each reminded him of what he so much liked about being a guy, and, maybe more importantly, pride at how good he had gotten in just making cum stains. Joe kept tossing this stained underwear in the bottom of his dresser drawer, recognizing that no one else would likely dig in there let alone “discover” what he was doing to (with) himself and his little “personal jerk-off trophy”.

As a teenager, every sexual sensation is a new experience that could lead to something new and unexpected. Guys that age do not fully understand or appreciate all the possibilities and how each possibility might feel. Sexual feelings get a grip on a guy and then just hang there waiting to be experienced to their fullest. In high school, Joe had seen athletes who wore straps and, he thought, maybe even cups, and he thought this was, well, interesting (well, maybe more than just interesting) to have your balls and dick contained snuggly inside all of this. But there was no way he was going to convince his parents that he needed a strap and a cup. What for, for goodness sakes, anyway?

Joe, now just 6 weeks into his freshman year and living in a little dorm room with a roommate, was already longing for the moments of privacy that he had when he was a teen-ager living at home. There just wasn’t that much privacy anywhere in college, certainly not the privacy he loved when his parents left him home alone as a teen and he could do what he wanted in his room.

So, the contents of Sebbie’s paper did not end up being that much a shock to Joe, in part because when Joe daydreamed, he had sometimes thought along much the same lines, basically that penises loved to be in confined spaces, and if that confined space was not inside another person, this could at least be the next best thing for sure, at least for the time being.

Plus, it suddenly occurred to Joe that this could perhaps even lead to a partial solution to the lack of privacy for jerking off that he was having in College. After all, what Bill had been doing the last couple of nights wasn’t gay at all (or was it???). Bill had been just jerking off in his bed, at night, on his own. There was no way anyone could possibly call that gay partner sex. It was just another guy getting his rocks off, so to speak, under the covers. Best not to read too much into all of this, especially when the thoughts drifted over into the sexual psychology of what might be going on.

All of this seemed innocuous, as a consequence. Solo jerk-off sessions are certainly not a gay-only experience. Every guy does those, for goodness sakes. But then what about a solo jerk-off session occurring while another guy is in the same room. Joe thought that he bet those occurred all the time in close quarters in the military, and those guys at least claimed for all those years that they were not gay. Joe wondered how all of this worked now with open gays now in the military.

Still, there was something really erotic, Joe thought, just THINKING about another guy jerking off. The idea that Joe was in the same room in college as a guy who he now knew WAS jerking off, even under the covers, was somehow a thought Joe could not easily get out of his mind. But Joe knew he was ruler straight. What gives, anyway? How can this be so erotic when there is no sexual contact between the two people, indeed one of the two was not even masturbating, but merely silently contemplating what the other guy was doing. That is a tough question, to be sure.

Joe thought some more. If all this funchball-uniform-as-sleepwear thing is as much fun as Sebbie claimed and now Bill claimed, what was the harm in it all, anyway? After all, Joe was in College and could make a lot more decisions on his own. It was not as if Joe and Bill were suddenly planning on having roommate sex together, or something even close to that. However, Joe realized that if he did get his own togs at the sporting goods store, it was entirely possible that BOTH Bill AND Joe could climb into bed wearing their newly acquired gym clothes and just see what happens.

Joe thought about this. He thought a lot about this. He finally said to Bill “You know what? I think I need my own funchball uniform too!”

Bill said “Let’s go out to the big-box sporting goods store and get you fixed up!” Bill knew exactly where he was going to take Joe, right to the racks of compression shorts and tees, but in navy blue not steel gray. And then a trip to the jock strap-and-cup section. You see, Bill still had the funchball dream in the back of his mind!

………To be continued

[sebbie]

So, Bill and Joe hopped back into Bill’s car and they were off to the big box sporting goods store, about 2 ½ miles from the dormitory. Bill pretty much knew where in the store he wanted to take Joe in order to find the compression gear. Bill took Joe over to the navy blue rack of tees and the other rack of navy blue compression shorts too.

Joe asked “What size should I buy?”

Bill said “Well, I went with the medium (MED) on the tee, but the small (SM) on the shorts. My waist is about 32”, so the small undersizes just a little.”

Joe: “Well, Sebbie said it’s good to undersize the shorts a bit so the cup stays in place. I think I will try those too!”

Then Joe and Bill wandered over to the rack of athletic supporters. Bill showed Joe the Flarico strap and cup that Bill had purchased. Joe took one of those, but then spotted a separate pee-wee-sized cup from McDavid, designed as a hard cup for little league players.

Joe said “Well Sebbie said the smaller the cup, the better the experience, or something like that, anyway.” Joe threw the McDavid pee-wee cup in the shopping cart too.”I can always use that cup with the Flarico Pouch and run some experiments”

Bill: “Are you through shopping then?”

Joe; “Pretty much, but….” Joe’s voice trailed off as he stared down at his toes.

Joe: “Bill, I always thought those little swim briefs like the divers wear were neat-looking, and I always wanted to see what I would look like in one of them”

Bill: “Well, there is a small lap-pool over at the student gym. Maybe we do need some swimwear if we are serious about getting in shape.”

With that, Bill and Joe head off to the men’s swimwear section of the sporting goods store.

So, Bill and Joe remain college roommates in the antiquated freshman dorm who think of themselves as ruler-straight. However, in their first 6 weeks at college, they have revealed a little more to each other about parts of their sexual beings than most guys their age are certainly comfortable in doing. To me, the most interesting part of this story is about what each has already said, or not yet said, about techniques that work for jerking off, but also what is happening in each of their own brains in a situation where they realize that the other guy is experiencing sexual pleasure as part of a solo-sex jerk- off session.

Bill and Joe probably both will enjoy going to the student gym for workouts on a regular basis, wearing some of the clothing items they have purchased or are in the process of purchasing right now. Compression tees and shorts for these workouts! Sure! Straps? Maybe! Cups? I will get back to you on that!

Do Bill and Joe even KNOW how to swim in a gym pool? Are they now shopping for competition style (racing) swimwear normally worn buy guys who swim well when they should be shopping for suits commonly worn by the “minnows”?

And what about where we have gotten with respect to what Joe as learned about Bill and Bill about Joe on normally what 19-y/o guys consider to be very private and personal subjects?

These and other questions MIGHT be answered in the upcoming episodes. There is still a long way for this story to go for sure.

….To be continued

[sebbie]

So, Bill and Joe wandered over to the other side of the big-box sporting goods store, with Joe pushing a cart in front of him. Joe didn’t know exactly what he would be looking for in the swimsuit racks. Sometimes the stores kept the briefs-style swimwear on separate racks from the regular swimwear, but sometimes the briefs ended up getting intermingled with the other suits, and it was often difficult to see what was in a rack like that without looking at each suit one-at-a-time.

Keep in mind that Bill and Joe were into the sixth week of the fall semester. The semester had started in late August, so now they were at the first week in October. The summer swimming season was long over, as the public pools had all closed on Labor Day a month ago. The sporting goods store tried to cater to the serious recreational fitness swimmers year round, and had not completely cleaned out their stock of suits.

Instead, all the men’s swimsuit inventory was just tossed together on a single large circular rack. There was some sizing info, as in suits separated in 28-30, 32-34, 36-38 groups, but that was about it. The suits on the rack were all mixed together in terms of style, some briefs, some jammers and some board shorts. The briefs were often hidden behind the longer suits, and not that easy to see. But the best thing was the big sign over the rack that said “All Clearance Swimwear, 60 percent off” Joe suddenly knew that in order to engage in what amounted to a diver-boy fantasy, he was not going to have to spend a lot of money.

Clearance swimwear racks always have interesting combinations of stuff. They include anything that did not move during the regular season for whatever reason, but usually because the style or color was considered by shoppers to be a bit oddball. And this clearance rack was no exception.

To be sure, there were a few suits that seemed surprising they were still there on clearance. There were some rather plain board shorts, and a few solid black jammers. There were even some standard blue Speedo® Endurance briefs in size 32. The tag said “Sapphire”. The price was marked 60% off, $14. But the sides looked to be nearly 3-inches wide, and would not give the diver-boy look Joe was thinking about.

Then Joe spotted the suit he really wanted, a Speedo® Solar suit in a maroon color. That had narrow 1 1/2 inch sides, but the size was only a 30. Joe wondered if he would be able to fit himself into such a skimpy suit, but the price was right at $12. Without thinking about this potential issue any more, Joe threw the suit into the cart, because it was the look in his fantasy.

Bill was starting to get a little bit excited by all of this too, and began to think that if Joe was able to find a suit without any real problems, maybe he could too. And there on the rack was another navy blue Speedo® Solar, size 30 too, and also marked $12. Bill threw that into the cart too.

Joe looked at the Jammers. Some of those were marked $14. Joe decided that if he was too embarrassed to wear his suit at the gym pool, he could pull a pair of black jammers over the little Solar brief. Bill thought that was a good idea, and he also threw a navy $14 jammer into the cart, his a Tyr brand size 32.

Bill and Joe checked out at the counter and walked with their respective clothing items back to the car for the trip back to the dorm room. Joe was thinking about the fun he would have trying on all his newly- acquired items. But remember, Bill and Joe both had a scheduled class today that met at 4:30 to 5;20, and it was nearly 4 pm by the time they had gotten checked out and hopped back into the car.

……To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe just barely got back from the sporting goods store to get to their 4:30 classes. Both of them did make it to class, but if the truth be known, they were lucky that nothing that critical happened during the classes.

Joe’s mind, in particular, was way off somewhere else. As a young teenager, he had always wondered how he would look and what it would feel like to wear a skimpy diver’s style swimsuit, and now with the new maroon Solar brief, he was going to be able to find out maybe shortly after he got back to the dorm room from the class, a class that somehow seemed to drag on and on.

“Professors must thoroughly enjoy listening to their own voice drone on and on”, Joe thought. Joe wasn’t 100 percent certain what the professor teaching the class was even talking about, something about evidence of sexism in early Middle East literature. The topic seemed light-years away from what Joe was in college to do.

One of the hurdles in getting a college degree is that as freshen, you generally get tossed into a University studies program, which frequently requires students to take courses a long ways away from their intended major. What does Middle Eastern literature have to do with getting a technical degree, anyway?

Joe was thinking about this, and how boring this class had become, but he was also wondering about something else. Oddly enough, he could feel a growing wet spot at the tip of his penis on his cotton briefs. This wasn’t noticeable on his jeans, but obviously, Joe wasn’t only thinking about Middle Eastern literature today. The trip to the sporting goods store and what he had just purchased was going around in his mind over and over, not only the maroon Solar brief, but the compression shorts and tee, and the strap he had purchased with no less than two different hard cups, and one of those looked really, really small and snug. Joe was thinking about whether he was ever going to be able to fit his body and Joe’s penis was responding in its own inimitable way, informing Joe of what it thought about all those snug-fitting clothing choices Joe had made in the guise of just needing gym clothes for workouts at the student gym.

Meanwhile, in another class, Bill was not doing a whole lot better. That class was a little more interesting and less dull, but not by much. Bill worried that maybe he had told Joe too much about what he was doing and what had happened to him in bed at night, and that Joe might have second thought about being so cool with everything he now knew about Bill. Still, Bill knew that joe and bill had hit it off quite well as dorm roommates from day one. They both were focused on getting a college degree and then a well-paying job. If nothing else, that shared goal bonded Bill and Joe.

Bill’s bigger concern (or was it a worry?) was that he had never worn a swim brief in his entire life, and he had just purchased himself an, err, rather skimpy one. Bill wondered how his body was going to react to this new “situation”. Bill was actually a little bigger down there than Joe, (although not by that much) and Bill suddenly started to worry whether everything would fit the way it should. Maybe Bill would just look silly. And how was he going to position himself if he did get the suit on OK? How would the material in the suit feel coming in direct contact with the extra sensitive underside of Bill’s penis? Would Bill laugh at how he looked in the mirror? Bill’s penis was starting to send a response to all these thoughts too, which started as what could only be described as a gentle tension or tightening that he could clearly feel. Not an erection, mind you, but that odd feeling that guys sometimes get where they start to think that an erection could be imminent. Thankfully, guys can often go along in that stage for significant periods, but what would happen as Bill contemplated the reality of actually getting into the skimpy suit? Bill had no clue, save the damp spot he was now sensing too at the very tip of his penis.

BBBRRRINNNNGG!!! Classes were over, and Bill and Joe were headed back to the dorm room.

…….To be continued

[sebbie]

At this point, Bill and Joe both faced somewhat of a dilemma, a dilemma made more complicated still by their male teenage bodies filled with male hormones and erections that frequently occur in unexpected or unwanted situations. They had both just done something that for both of them resulted in a degree of excitement, but also in a degree of apprehension.

As any guy knows, penises absolutely love the unexpected and the unknown. In fact, penises love the exact feelings of apprehension and uncertainty that drives guys bananas in their brains. The unknown and the unexpected creates the feelings of apprehension when there is something that involves any body part located in the groin area. This is the combination of sheer terror melded with gloriously wonderful joy that accompanies so many situations that have a sexual component. Let’s just say that college freshmen would still be learning about all of this and how to deal with the two very different psychological experiences at the same time.

This becomes doubly true for Bill and Joe in part because they had not exactly grown up as kids wearing swim briefs on a regular basis, let alone a rather skimpy Solar brief designed as much to show off the male body as for practical swimwear. The kids who grow up doing this pre-pubescent end up entering puberty basically with all but none of this apprehensiveness about wearing swim briefs and how it this will feel on their male body parts. For Bill and Joe, this apprehension is directly related to already being college students with none of these “life experiences” when they were younger. But this same apprehensiveness is part of the energy driving the experience they are about to have in getting into their new suits. How will their bodies respond in this “novel” situation? Will they be able to maintain control of key “bodily functions” as they are running their experiments?

Let me be honest here: there is also a sexual orientation issue floating around in all of this, bubbling along just under the surface. Now Bill and Joe can go back to their dorm room and at the same time try on their new suits, and there is no sexual orientation issue. But what happens if in so doing, either one or the other starts to get a serious hard-on. What if both of them do? What if the situation gets so carried away that one or both of them go right into a powerful ejaculation? What if the two of them explode approximately together? Is this a bona fide gay experience or merely two guys who both have something of a Speedo® fetish in that they both get off by first crawling into and then jerking off in the suits with reckless abandon. Is this all a solo-sex experience or a modified partner-sex experience?

If this happens to Bill and Joe, are both of them still comfortable in their ruler-straight skins? What are these sexual feelings and sensations that have nothing to do with women and girls but keep popping up anyway? Should these kinds of feelings be suppressed, ignored, or treated as if they were simply not there at all? Or, should they be celebrated and encouraged as just one part of what it means to be a real guy with real sexual feelings encompassing a broad not narrowly defined "acceptable" range of erotic activities? This is not an easy question to answer for sure. All of this is at the very core of the apprehension Joe and Bill are now experiencing.

I think I have backed into a major reason why brief-style swimwear is not that popular for many young males. There are terrified of getting into this situation in, say, a gym locker room with their peer teens wandering around. Guys like to maintain what amounts to an unrealistic image that they are always in control of their bodies in all ways including what their penises are feeling and want to do. Of course, this is not true, but guys like to try to maintain the myth anyway. Anything less leads to peers calling labels like wimp, jerk off, socially challenged or worse. Never mind that the peers calling them out are facing nearly the same challenges with their own bodies, and nearly the same apprehension and uncertainty. Some guys deal with their psychological pain by calling out their peers regarding the same issues that are troubling the guys calling them out. This seems really weird, but that is what many guys like to do and that is the way it is!

So, where are Joe and Bill now? Back at the dorm from their classes and entering the dorm room as I write this. Both Bill and Joe’s penises have informed them in no uncertain terms that their respective penises are more than a little apprehensive but still enthusiastic about the situation that appears to be about to unfold. The respective penises have sent clear signals to bill and Joe about this in a number of ways. Joe especially seemed excited at the sporting goods store when he threw the Solar swim brief he found in the shopping cart. He was soon going to be able to act out something he had thought about for a long time growing up, but never had the opportunity to do.

Bill threw his choice in swim briefs into the shopping cart with only a bit less enthusiasm than Joe. After all, Bill had never done this either. He was at least mildly curious too. Well, maybe more than mildly apprehensive

But now the apprehensive part was eating away at both Joe and Bill. What Joe thought was going to be fun to try might end up in an unexpected place that could affect his roommate bonds with Bill. Bill was thinking much the same thing as well. Is this something any “normal" male college roommates would do alone, let alone at the same time in a dorm room? What a question to ponder.

Never mind that both of them were getting signals from their penises that basically were basically looking forward to the opportunity that appeared to be going to happen soon. Penises are funny organs in all sorts of ways. They signal their pleasure with a psychological situation going on in a guy’s brain like this by producing viscous drops of precum. Guys know that this can get weird, as this sometimes pretty much happens on its own. Then there is a funny though quite pleasant feeling sense of tension that frequently overtakes the penis starting at the base of the penis. Most guys enjoy this feeling of tension very much that goes right along with the squeezing out of precum fluid one tiny drop at-a-time. But guys also quickly learn that even though these feelings and sensations are not an erection as such, they represent an arousal starting point that could easily develop into a full-blown erection and then ejaculation.

By the time guys are the age of Bill and Joe, they have learned to ride along with and enjoy these pre-erection feelings for extended periods of time without anything further, or more embarrassing, happening. I call this “riding the wave”. That is exactly what Bill and Joe were doing sitting in class and contemplating what could happen after they got home from class. That is why they were not paying a lot of attention to the lecture. The sensations were just too enjoyable to not focus on them.

These feelings and sensations, the precum drops, the sense of a very pleasant tension in the penis but not yet significant expansion of the penis, of course provide the basic power needed to keep the entire experience going first to erection and finally to orgasm. In solo sex, a lot of guys miss out on a lot of this in part because they are way too focused on getting to the ejaculation part as quickly as possible, possibly to reduce the risk of being “discovered". But a “slow hand” often works a whole lot better (I think there was a song about this) with both a lengthier bit also a much more enjoyable overall sexual experience from start to finish. And guys do not need to have a partner in order to learn how to accomplish this.

Bill and Joe arrive back at the dorm room feeling “horny as hell” and are embarking on a whole new sexual experience as roommates. Where might this all lead? I will let you know!

……..To be continued

[sebbie]

It was 5:35 PM by the time both Bill and Joe had made it back to the dorm room. They were planning on going out to get a sandwich to eat, but they decided maybe they should look at their purchases first. They each had a plastic bag of new clothes with the logo of the big-box sporting goods store on the outside. In Joe’s case, the larger items were at the bottom of the bag, and the smaller items on top, except that the strap and the two cups in their little blister packs had slipped to the bottom of the bag too.

Joe reached into the bag, and, of course, the first item he pulled out of the bag was the little maroon Solar brief.

Joe called out to Bill “Hey Bill, let’s try new swimsuits on, and see for sure if we got the right size or not.”

Bill said: “I was thinking about that too!”

Of course, the suits were on a clearance rack, and the store probably would not have exchanged them for size, anyway, but Joe’s statement at least sounded somewhat plausible.

The suits of course were loaded down with 3 tags on each that discussed the merits of the suits. Joe knew he had a toenail clipper in his desk drawer and started snipping tags. Then he passed the clippers over to Bill and he did the same.

Joe said: “I suppose I should strip down if I am going to see if the suit fits me right.”

Bill agreed, and soon both of them were slipping out of their clothes.

Joe took off his shoes, socks, and PacSun Bullhead Skinny jeans first, and then slipped out of his blue-and-white checked shirt. Bill did likewise, with his Levis coming off before his royal blue polo shirt.
Joe was now standing there wearing only his tighty whiteys. Bill at this point was clad only in his plaid boxers, aside from a little silver-color chain around his neck.

Joe and Bill had seen each other clad this way in their skiveys dozens of times, just before nearly every lights out.

With that, Joe drops his white briefs and starts to pull on his brand new maroon Solar. Joe was feeling a little apprehensive at this point, but he felt almost surprisingly in control despite the sensation of tension in his penis and groin area. Joe was a bit stumped on how exactly he was supposed to position himself inside the brief, up, down or to one side. Initially, he thought that down was the obvious choice, but that seemed uncomfortable. He then tried positioning himself to one side or another. Finally Joe tried the “up” position. Joe really liked the way he looked in the mirror in that position, but there was one problem, well, maybe two problems. Meanwhile Bill was getting into his own navy blue suit while silently watching and taking in the positioning experiments Joe was running.

Joe quickly discovered that the underside of his penis is much more sensitive than the top. The slippery Lycra material felt really great next to and sliding along the underside of his penis. This penis next to Lycra felt cool in the up position. Joe quickly noticed a drop of precum forming on his new suit, right where the tip of his penis was in the suit. He also quickly noticed that he was starting to grow and get hard, quite hard in fact.

Bill was also attempting to find a comfortable position for himself. Quite frankly, Bill was better endowed than Joe when he was not aroused. Joe was more of a grower. And Bill was starting to confront some of the same issues that Joe was facing. The down position worked poorly for Bill too. Sideways was a little better but not by much. And by that point Bill was starting to grow and produce precum too. Then Bill tried the up position, and instantly he understood why Joe liked that so much. Bill was suddenly getting hard, real hard. Bill was now very concerned that he had gotten himself to the point of no return, so to speak.

And all of the events of the days were too much for Joe. Joe was losing control too and he knew it. Sometimes you can take only so much stimulation and then everything comes aparts and there is an explosion of semen. This happens not only because of what is going on now, but the accumulated impact of all the events of the day.

All of the day’s events were just too much. Both Bill and Joe soon exploded in consecutive bursts of semen, only about 30 minutes apart, semen that got all over both of their new suits.

Was this just solo sex, or was this some crazy type of partner sex? Who knows? More importantly, who cares?

Joe and Bill were both still planning on going out to eat, but first they needed to get their new suits washed out and their own bodies cleaned up. And the showers were way down the hall.

…….To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe figured the easiest way to clean up afterwards was to take a shower. They both put on their terry cloth robes, and stuck their respective “soiled” Solars crumpled up in the big robe pockets. Then, when they took their showers they simply pulled their suits out of the pockets in the robes and laid them on the tiled shower floor where the water from the shower heads would hit them.

This actually worked like a charm. The suits were almost instantly all wet from the shower water, and it was simply a matter of picking up the suits and wringing them out. They did this for two or three times, and now the suits were as clean as new. All that needed to happen now was to hang the suits up on their respective towel racks in the dorm room, and everything would be as good as new, or t least nearly so.

Joe and Bill then again got dressed, Bill in his Levis 511 and Joe once again in his PacSun skinny jeans. Bill switched to a sand-colored polo shirt and Bill went with another shirt he had with a narrow red-and-white stripe on everything but the collar, which was solid white. Both Joe and Bill looked pretty sharp.

There was a nice Burger King® only a short walking distance from the dorm room, and Joe had a “Two Whopper meals for $8.99 coupon. The price was right, well within the budget of a college freshman to be sure. Plus, Bill was, well, amused by the fact that both Bill and Joe would be ordering whoppers right after, well, you know what just happened.

Orgasms, especially male orgasms, are weird fun in all sorts of marvelous ways. Sometimes erections seem to happen almost instantly, after only a minute or two of just seeing something the guy thinks is exciting. But sometimes the arousal sequence is an experience that an last for the better part of the day as arousing events keep piling up as the day wears on. Each one of these individual events may not appear to amount to much, say Joe thinking about the possibility of owning his own diver boy suit, something he had never done before. Then there was the process of actually going to the store and finding the suit that was in his fantasy. At the start of all of this, Joe did not particularly even think that he was going to get a suit that was arousing he would jerk off in, the idea of looking like a diver was simply a fantasy that he had long. It was only after Joe got INTO the suit that he discovered that doing so was quite arousing.

The combination of the skimpy fit, the slick Lycra, and the experiments in positioning oneself repeatedly inside the suit along with something of a discovery that the underside of his penis was far more sensitive than on top all worked together to make Joe hard. Of course, sitting in a boring class merely contemplating what could happen once Joe got back to the dorm room did not hurt, either.

What surprised Joe was that Bill, a guy who always acted in control, quickly got himself worked up into exactly the same state. Joe thought that this was interesting, especially because Joe and Bill both regarded themselves as quite straight. What is it about being in a doom when another guy is getting an erection and then an orgasm that is so sexually exciting, anyway? Both Bill and Joe were thinking about this as they ordered their couponed Whopper combos. Neither Bill nor Joe wanted to start a conversation about what had just took place. Both of them thought that maybe the less that was said, the better. Just treat the entire sequence events like one would treat any private solo sex jerk off session. After all, when both Joe and Bill were growing up, they would never announce to the rest of their family what they had just done for goodness sakes.

Maybe silence was the best policy here as well. The less said the better. Bill and Joe were still roommates and good friends. In many respects they were very similar, two career-focused straight guys. They were still two career-focused straight guys. Maybe a little time would make everything like it was again. But then, both Bill and Joe had their other clothing items. Could they resist the urges to mess around with these items if only just a bit?

…….To be continued

[sebbie]

So, Bill and Joe ended up at the Burger King® just a short walking distance from their dormitory, and Bill had a valid coupon for two Whoppers®, two fries, and two soft drinks for $8.99. That was quite a deal, as the regular price for a single Whopper® Combo deal was $6.29.

Whoppers® are interesting. They consist of a quarter pound ground beef patty that has been grilled on a gas-grille like device using a real natural gas flame, and so the taste is closer to a backyard grilled burger than the fried patties most of the other chain burger joints do. On top of that are pickles, two slices of tomato, sliced onion, mayo, lettuce and Heinz® ketchup all on a giant sesame seed bun.

The sandwiches are really quite a treat, but Bill and Joe were both thinking that this was not the first whopper that had proven to be quite enjoyable. The sandwiches were at least an “8” on a 10-point scale with respect to meals eaten by college freshmen, and who could possibly complain about the price for goodness sakes

Many guys love to rank orgasms on a 10-point scale, in much the same manner that some guys like to rank women on a 10-point scale. On the quality-of-orgasm scale, a 10 would be “up there with the best orgasm I have ever had” while a 1 would be “I could barely tell anything was happening to me at all.” Most orgasms guys have would merit at least a 6 on that scale, with the vast majority would go at least 7 or 8. Let’s face it: Most orgasms are a lot of fun, but some are really really fun, a total experience and feeling of blowing both mind and body. Bill was thinking the current Whopper at the restaurant was probably an 8, but the one that took place 50 minutes ago was maybe an 8 and a half. Joe was thinking 8 and nine for the two different whoppers. Bill, of course had only recently had his funchball wet dream, and that experience was surely a 9.5 or even better as in 9.5+ on the 10-point scale. Joe had only had the recent Solar® jerk-off experience and had no real way of comparing if the strap, cup and compression shorts deal was going to be more enjoyable or less than what Bill had just been through.

Both Bill and Joe were rather quiet at the restaurant, but both were thinking much the same thing. Had any two guys jerked off in the presence of each other, and then managed to come at approximately the same time, they would both be instantly worried that one of them would “tattle” to the other guys about what the other guy was doing. That could cause problems. Major problems as the other guy counter-tattled and then everyone would be teasing both of the guys because surely they were gay because of the mutual solo-sex episode. This would be an instant major mess in high school, perhaps non-recoverable at all. The parents would be brought in, the principal, the school board president and who knows what other people as well, all condemning what the two boys did. Suspension threats would abound, with no clear resolution at all.

But in this respect, being a college student, even just a beginning freshman, was totally different. First off, there was essentially zero probability that either Bill or Joe was going to run to some other students to explain in detail what had happened. The attitude in College was that whatever happens between two-consenting adults is fine so long as it doesn’t involve illegal activity. Of course, nonconsensual sec was an issue, maybe a legal issue, but certainly not two guys both engaged in solo sex, even dual solo sex in their own private dorm room. And unlike most high schools, at most colleges and universities same-sex activity of whatever sort between consenting college students is fine, basically a non-event, at least so long as both parties consent which is the same as saying that neither party objects. Colleges in general tolerate certain aspects of human behavior far better than most high schools would, and the locus parentis only really applies to activities that are potentially illegal. After all, the college freshmen are considered to be young adults and are permitted to behave as adults not children in need of constant oversight and then discipline should things get out of line.

Bill did not say “Joe, I do not want to watch you squirm as you struggle to get into your new Speedo®” now did he?

Joe did not say “I would rather not see you figure out how you are going to get into your new suit, Bill, and what ‘issues’ for you might arise” either.

Both Bill and Joe agreed that was what they were going to do, and both seemed to enjoy not only their own experience, but also very much watching the other have a similar experience and seeing exactly what happened during the entire process. Where this all fits on a 5- or 6-point straight-versus-gay scale is the unanswered question. Would any guy be able to watch another guy in this “predicament” without getting at least somewhat aroused, never mind whether the first guy considered himself as “completely straight”. Maybe nearly all guys have a gay side under such circumstances.

So, here we are. Two freshman men who thought they were ruler straight-guys, Bill and Joe, both engaged in solo sex in the presence of the other, pulled on Speedos® rubbed themselves, played with their penises in the suits and finally ended up coming at approximately the same time. Was this simply plain ordinary masturbation that happened to take place in the presence of another, or was this instead some sort of slightly out-of-whack method of engaging in same-sex partner sex that some people might not call same-sex partner sex. Bill and Joe took zero risks. Neither will get pregnant because of all of this, nor will either contract an STD because of what had just happened. They each learned something about their roommate, however, something really interesting and they were both having thoughts that had never occurred to them before. Complicated thoughts. This was a weird but fascinating puzzle, to be sure.

It had been a long and complicated day for Bill and Joe. They were both tired, well exhausted too from jerking off. They had a little studying to do before tomorrow’s classes too. So they went back to the dorm room, quickly finished their studies and crawled into bed. Any further messing around with the straps, cups and compression shorts would just have to wait.

……..To be continued

[sebbie]

Unlike Wednesday, which was an easy day for classes, Thursday was very busy for both Bill and Joe, both with classes that started at 8 AM and one that did not finish till 5:20 that afternoon. Joe’s first class at 8 AM was freshman calculus. Joe had learned about the limit of ∆x as ∆ → 0 was dx, and now the instructor was talking about the difference between ∆y/∆x and dy/dx.

Bill was in a chemistry class, organic chemistry. There, the instructor had discussed a whole series of similar organic compounds that were basically all the same but the chain length starting with methane and then ethane going to the others such as butane and propane. Bill had learned that short-chain hydrocarbons were likely a gas, but as the chain length increased, the hydrocarbon became liquid. Today’s lecture was on benzene rings, a weird sweet-smelling but potentially noxious 6-sided, hexagon- shaped organic compound.

Bill and Joe both thought these courses were far more interesting than the course that was plodding through Middle East literature for sure.

Truth is, this was just an very average ordinary college work day for two freshman pursuing a technical degrees, and neither Bill or Joe had much time for their minds to wander even a little.

The day was long, and Bill and Joe stopped at an on-campus sandwich shop for a sub on the way home from class. They both arrived at the dorm room and it was well after 6 pm.

Joe knew that he still had a bunch of clothes is a store bag that he hadn’t even pulled out to look at yet. There was a compression tee, a pair of compression shorts, a pair of jammers that were quite similar to the compression shorts, and of course a strap with a pouch for a cup, and two separate cups, one smaller and flatter-shaped than the other. That, of course, was the “Pee Wee” cup Joe had tossed in the cart at the last minute.

Bill’s bag only contained the Tyr Jammer he had bought. Bill already had the other items and had worn them the night he had the funchball wet dream.

Joe decided that the first thing that he needed to do was to clip all the tags off of the jammers and the compression gear, and so he first dug out his toenail clipper and did that. But his attention was really drawn to the strap and cups that he had purchased, each in separate blister packs.

Non-athlete students in high school claim to be more interested in studying than in playing rough-and-tumble team athletic games, and this is no more true than for any game that required the players to wear a strap and a hard cup.

Yet, these same, what some would label as “pointy-headed” students frequently wonder what it would be like to be a high school athlete, but in particular how the athletic garb might fit and feel. And high school guys are normally fixated on the sensations that they may be feeling in the groin area.

A lot of high school athletic garb fits, shall we say, rather snugly in the groin area. Football pants are an excellent example. It would be the rare non-football-playing high-school male who would not take notice of that, or that the players might be wearing straps with hard cups underneath the snug-and-shiny football pants. This is where simply noticing all of this meets arousal, as in starting to think about what that football player so clad might be experiencing given the garb he is wearing. Maybe this is a gay side on the part of the observer…or maybe just “normal” under the circumstances. Who knows? More importantly who even cares?

Joe went through high school having observed all of this, and to a certain degree his observations he knew were created some “pre-erection” tension in his groin area. Every guy knows what this tension feels like. This happens over and over to post-pubescent guys. The tension is part of the not-knowing uncertainty of it all.

But Joe, being a non-athlete, had never had the opportunity to see exactly what these football players clad in straps, hard cups and snug-fitting pants were experiencing, and his curiosity that he first had several years ago was now bouncing around in his head.

The strap and the two cups he had purchased were still in those little cardboard and clear plastic blister packs that had hung on the racks at the sporting goods store. As Joe pulled the three items out of the bag, all of these thoughts and experiences he had had in high school watching the high school football players and what they were wearing suddenly come flooding back.

Joe decided that he was most anxious to first get the strap out of the blister pack, so he could examine it in more detail. The strap Joe bought had a 2 ½ inch wide waistband of elastic with tiny blue and red parallel stripes, a pouch with an opening to hold a hard cup, and two leg straps that were attached from the pouch to the waistband in such a way that they would cut across his glutes, a lot like the ones the football players appeared to be wearing under their football pants. The waistband made of strong elastic did not appear to be very big around and Joe was thinking that the strap would be difficult even to get into. Joe realized that once he was in the strap, his butt was going to be completely naked with no center strap or thong back that would cover his crack.

Joe had noticed that football pants almost invariably had a double layer of fabric about three inches wide that ran vertically down in back from the waistband, and he had often wondered why they were made that way. He now realized that the logical reason was that the double layer of fabric provided extra protection so the football player’s crack could not be seen when the player was wearing a backless strap, as the Lycra-blend fabric in the pants could be a bit transparent in place. The strap pouch and cup of course covered the front, although what that meant is that every player would have a bulge exactly where the cup was positioned, and the bulge would be quite obvious.

Joe knew the compression shorts and jammers were thinner than football pands, and he was wondering whether he would get a similar if not stll more obvious bulge assuming he was wearing the shorts or jammers over the strap and cup. This was going to be a new experience for Joe for sure.

Joe pulled the strap out of the blister pack and strated to examoine it, the wide but seemingly small waistband, the pouch that appeared to be made out of a stretchy but knit fabric, and the ¾ inch wide leg straps. As Joe examined the details of the strap construction, he knew that the next step was to see how the strap fit and felt once he tried it on.

Joe’s penis knew that something new and uncertain was up too. Joe was sensing a certain tension in his groin area, a tension that he had experienced many times before. In fact, he had experienced the much the same feelings the night before just before he got into his Solar brief. Joe knew where that had led. But if anything the strap was skimpier than the swim brief was, and would fit more snugly too. Then there was the hard cup. Joe’s penis quickly started oozing out tiny drops of precum, almost instantly felt as a tiny but growing wet spot on his tighty whiteys at the very tip of his penis

Joe loved it and the sensations when his body started to ooze as in produce precum. Joe was fascinated by the tiny drops of a crystal clear, viscous liquid. When that happened, Joe knew that he was getting signals to take everything to the next step, if at all possible, and the next step obviously involved actually trying on the strap.

……To be continued

[sebbie]

By now, Joe had taken off the clothes he had worn to class, and was sitting on the end of his bed dressed only in a white-cotton V-neck tee shirt and a pair of Hanes tighty whitey briefs. Joe had managed to get the athletic supporter out of the cardboard-and-clear plastic blister pack, and was now in the process of carefully examining it.

First, he stretched the 2 ½ inch waistband with the red-and white horizontal stripe. As he did this he wondered if the strap would ever fit around his 32-inch waist as it looked awfully small to him. But there was also quite a bit of stretch to it, but it still was going to be a very snug fit around his waist, at the best.

Next, Joe examined the pouch very carefully. The pouch was made of some really strange looking material. It was if the pouch were made of a material that was partly from elastic threads similar to the waist band elastic. It was stretchy, and yet it almost appeared to be a knit fabric, certainly something one would never see used in any normal clothing.

Finally, Joe tugged at the leg straps. These were made from a ¾ inch wide elastic band, fastened at about the 10 o’clock and the 2 o’clock positions on the waistband, and then to the bottom of the pouch at the other end. These leg straps appeared to have a lot of stretch to them. Joe did not yet realize this, but the way the leg strapped pulled and tugged at the pouch was going to be part of the interesting sensations once Joe got himself pulled into the strap. This scheme puts upward pressure on a guy’s perineum area, just directly behind the scrotum A lot of nerve endings terminate there and the upward pressure there from the leg straps tugging and pressing upward can be quite enjoyable to be sure.

Joe was actually oozing quite a bit of precum as he did all of this, just merely examining the strap in detail, and the wet spot on his Hanes briefs was about quarter-sized. Joe was concerned that Bill would start to notice what was happening to Joe.

Bill was sitting on the foot end of his own twin bed, acting as nonchalant as possible, but taking all of this in without acting as if he was not staring at Joe and what Joe was doing.

It is sometimes funny how things guys do affect them. You wouldn’t expect that simply taking a strap out of its blister-pack container and carefully examining it would be a sexual turn-on for straight-arrow Joe, but it was, and here is why.

A lot of what is going on here has to do with Joe’s experience (or, maybe better, lack of experience) in wearing various kinds of snug-fitting clothing as a teen-ager, snug-fitting clothing frequently worn by teen athletes. Joe was having the same problem a couple days ago when he tried on the new swim brief, and quickly found himself quickly and uncontrollably shooting off right into the brief. Had Joe been a team swimmer, he would have worked through his fascination/turn on with wearing a little swim brief years ago, and doing the same in College probably would not have resulted in a significant “response” on the part of his body.

When guys do not get a chance to experiment in their early teen years, however, the unresolved uncertainty about this tends to gradually build over time, as the guy keeps thinking that other guys his age are perhaps “enjoying” themselves more in this regard. A guy gets more and more focused on trying exactly the items that are “causing” the “problem” (well, this is more nearly an opportunity than a problem, perhaps) and usually this all comes to a head when the guy gets into college and is away from parents who might otherwise wonder what is up with their son. In high school, a male non-athlete cannot simply announce to his parents that he would like to go out and buy a strap and cup like he sees the high school athletes wearing as a proposal just out of the complete blue sky. The ‘rents would wonder what is up for sure, and I can just see Joe trying to explain to his parents that he thinks the jock and cup would be quite useful in his increasingly frequent masturbation sessions. That simply is not going to happen, thank you.

But now that Joe is in college, all the “rules” have changed. Joe has already talked a lot of this over with Bill, even as Bill has laid out his funchball dream in some detail. Joe doesn’t think Bill’s experience was odd at all, in fact it reinforced what Joe had long suspected but had never gotten to try for himself.

Even more obviously, even in his apprehension, Joe is clearly now enjoying all of this. Just pulling the strap out of its blister pack and examining the look-and-feel of the fabric and elastic bands is something of a turn on, and Joe can already feel the tension rise in the base of his penis even as he oozes glistening drops of precum at the tip of his penis. Whatever Joe is doing to himself right now, this is really fun. Oozing precum is always fun, thought Joe.

Joe is also completely aware that Bill his roommate is not that different from Joe. How your own situation compares with those of your peers with respect to these issues is something that never really gets resolved in high school. Otherwise, how did Bill manage to get himself inserted into that crazy funchball wet dream if that were not true. Is this in itself, gay? Who knows? But who cares? If Bill does not feel uncomfortable or embarrassed talking about this stuff in detail, why should Joe?

Joe decided that the next logical step was going to be to rip off his white cotton briefs and pull on the strap. What Joe did not realize was that the strap was going to put significant upward pressure on his sensitive perineum area. The snugger and tighter the strap is, the more the strap is going to press upward and against the perineum.

As Joe got into the strap, he could feel an all new pressure from the strap pressing tightly against his perineum. Joe swallowed in response to the sensations. Joe was starting to get hard, and he knew it. Joe now knew that some of the stuff he had only imagined about in high school was, well, absolutely accurate. Joe was now also beginning to worry that he was going to quickly completely lose control of his bodily responses and quickly ejaculate right into the strap pouch (much like he had done only the day before just getting into the Solar swim brief), never mind what could happen once the cup and compression gear were in place. Joe now was also beginning to understand what Bill had gone through two nights ago wearing all of this stuff. The strap seemed uncomfortable in some ways, but he was also getting very excited. How could a guy be both uncomfortable but at the same time feel excited? That was part of the dilemma.

Meanwhile, Bill was just sitting on the end of his own bed, still fully clothed wearing the same clothes he wore to class, taking this all in. As he watched, he soon realized that Joe had gotten himself into an interesting predicament or dilemma with his strap. But Joe didn’t seem unhappy at all. In fact, Joe seemed very happy, even enthusiastic about the situation he was in. Both Bill and Joe realized that there was more to come, much more, but Joe was first going to have to regain control of his own body. Bill thought to himself that Joe’s dilemma was not only interesting, but fun to watch as a mere observer of what was happening to Joe.

……To be continued

[sebbie]

Joe was in a dilemma of sorts. Joe had always known that he was very sensitive in his groin area, and he assumed that he was just an average guy his age in that regard. His memory of things they did and happened to him when he was only 12- or 13-years of age suddenly resurfaced. His mom used to buy him packs of three white cotton briefs, and he would get funny but not unpleasant sensations in his groin area even when he pulled a brief out of the plastic bag and tried it on. Even way back then, Joe thought that this somehow must just be normal for guys, but he had no way of finding out because he didn’t dare mention this all to his peers.

The odd-but-certainly-not-unpleasant sensation had always perplexed him to a certain degree. It seemed to be concentrated in the base not the tip of his penis. As Joe grew older, he started to associate this sensation of pleasant and certainly not uncomfortable tension with the production of tiny drops of the clear, glistening but viscous liquid Joe used to call ooze, but now knew to be precum. When that happened, Joe always felt really good, and very much liked the sensations from that. Joe knew the liquid was very different from the milky semen that happened when he had a “real” orgasm. So this was something different from an orgasm, perhaps not as powerful, but interesting in its own special way, and potentially much longer lasting, too.

Joe was now feeling the exact same way right now as he did when he was only 13-years old after pulling himself into the strap after a bit of struggle. Man, the little strap fit and felt snug. Joe was in the process confirming some of the things he had always wondered about with regard to his peer high school athletes, that there were sexual sensations associated with wearing certain kinds of athletic gear. Yesterday, he had already discovered what some teen-age swimmers and divers must be dealing with wearing Lycra-blend briefs. Some of the swimmers seemed to like to undersize their briefs at least a size or two for competition meets. And the divers seemed to love to wear briefs that really fit way small. These water-focused athletes must have some way of dealing with all of this so as to be able to compete in their respective sports without going into an orgasm in public in front of a crowd of people, but how did they handle this so as to not embarrass themselves remained a huge mystery.

Then there were the football players Joe had seen in high school, in tight-fitting football pants, with the leg straps from their jocks clearly visible in outline, not to mention a pouch and cup in the front. “How did the guys wearing this managed to keep their focus entirely on playing the game?” Joe wondered. And what might have happened in the locker room before and after the game?

As Joe pondered all these thoughts, Joe was starting to get erect and hard, quite hard. Joe needed to keep control of his body. He was starting to worry that he was on the edge of going past the point of no return, and that if he wasn’t careful, he was going to blow and convulse right into the strap, with Bill sitting right there on the edge of Bill’s bed. That would be embarrassing under the circumstances, with only Bill watching.

So Joe decided he needed to do something in an effort to cool himself down, if only a bit. He decided to pull out the navy-blue compression tee he had just bought and put that on. The compression tee fit Joe’s chest like compression tees do, also quite tight and snug. Joe had to struggle a little to even get the tee on, but finally it was on.

Joe was now clad in only two items: a navy blue compression tee on top with a strap below. Joe looked at himself in the dorm room mirror, and he liked what he saw in ways he had never before seen. Given that Joe was not an athlete in high school, he was still almost surprisingly fit. The navy-blue compression tee gripped his chest and showed off his upper body, and the groin clad only in the strap showed a bulge that looked, well, interesting to say the least.

Bill was sitting there just silently taking Joe’s struggle in as Joe got into the strap and compression tee. Joe had not only read Sebbie’s “cup” paper, but he had also received confirmation from Bill that a cup could help to keep Joe oozing in a state of semi-erection but also make it more not less difficult to go past the point of no return to ejaculation. If an ejaculation occurred, Joe knew that what he was “enjoying” so much now would quickly be all over.

Joe had purchased two cups, one a little larger and one, a pee-wee cup that was quite a bit smaller. Joe quickly decided that he was far too “hot” psychologically right now to be able to “tolerate” the little pee wee cup at this stage. So Joe pulled out the larger of the two cups from the blister pack, and popped it into the pouch. That felt a little strange, a bit cold, but not at all uncomfortable either, in fact quite comfortable. And in all of this Joe was starting to cool down if only a little.

Next, Joe decided to take this all the next step and pull on the navy blue compression shorts over the top of the strap and cup. Once again, Joe struggled to get the compression shorts in place, but finally managed to do so. Joe looked at himself again in the mirror, and just like the high school football players, he could clearly see the outline of the strap, at least the leg straps, as well as the “hard” jock cup.

Meanwhile, Bill, who had been just silently watching Joe struggle to get into his new purchases, was thinking that he was actually happy not embarrassed that he had shared so much detailed information with Joe, the link to Sebbie’s “Cup” paper and the details of what had gone on that made Bill’s funchball dream so enjoyable.

Joe was now clad almost exactly like the players on one of the Funchball teams Bill saw in his dream. Bill had enjoyed watching Joe get into his new clothing, but he did not say that. However, Joe had started to get out of his class-clothes, the classic polo shirt and Levis 511 jeans, and was now clad only in a cotton tee and a pair of loose fitting boxers. Bill went to his chest of drawers inside his closet, and pulled out his clothing items, the steel gray compression tee, the matching compression shorts, the strap he had worn when the wet dream happened, and his cup.

Tonight was going to be interesting for both Bill and Joe. Very interesting.

…….To be continued

[sebbie]

So far, Bill has just been quietly sitting on the foot end of his dorm room bed, watching Joe, first as he removed his new strap from the blister pack and them carefully examined how it was constructed and the materials it was made of. Then Bill watched nonchalantly as Joe pulled the strap into position on his body, and then took out the navy-blue compression tee and get into that after a bit of a struggle. Bill thought Joe looked trim and athletic in the navy tee that hugged his chest. Bill paid only a bit more attention when Joe took the bigger of the two cups out of its packaging and slipped that into the strap pouch, and finally as Joe pulled those compression shorts over everything down below.

Bill may have been trying to act nonchalant and disinterested, but the cumulative effect of Joe’s series of actions as described above was starting to take its toll on Bill. Flashing through Bill’s mind was the experience that Bill had two nights ago when he had the funchball wet dream while wearing much the same garb Joe was now wearing. Bill knew that what Joe was doing was causing Joe a combination of pleasure and apprehension, the pleasure emanating from his groin area as he made a real effort to stay under control, the apprehension in Joe’s head was mainly concerned with what Joe thought could happen next. Bill knew that Joe was in something of a sexual tension-laden predicament, and Bill was starting to sense what Joe was enduring in Bill’s own groin area.

Bill knew that this was a wild and crazy part of human sexuality, but something he still did not fully understand. Why would a guy who thought himself as being perfectly straight and who liked women in a sexual way get excited just observing another guy getting into a situation where another guy was only apparently in a situation of getting aroused in some manner? Why did Bill think that watching Joe get into his strap was somehow interesting? Bill did not have an answer to this question, at least not a simple answer.

Bill did know one thing: He now wanted somehow very much to be in the same situation Joe was now in. Somehow, Bill could sense that replicating the situation Joe was in could be quite pleasant for Bill. In effect, Joe was a real-life in the dorm room version of exactly what had gotten Bill going so much in the funchball wet dream. Joe was also interested in seeing if Bill could handle the situation any better than Joe had. Joe was feeling horny, of course, as in “I really need to get off”. But so was Bill now getting increasingly horny too.

Bill knew what he needed to do. He quickly ripped off his Levis 511 jeans and his polo shirt and was sitting in boxers and a white teen. He pulled his strap, cup, compression tee and shorts in his dorm room chest and started reexamining them, mimicking what he had seen Joe do a few minutes ago. Then Bill decided to first pull down the boxers and get into the strap. Bill’s strap was every bit as tight as the one Joe had bought, and Bill took his time positioning it on his body and over his bulge. Bill then pulled the white cotton tee and replaced it with the steel gray compression tee. Bill then inserted the cup in the pouch of the jock. Bill really liked how his cup felt, seemingly just barely touching his semi-flaccid penis on three sides. The cup felt a little cold, but not uncomfortable at all. Finally, Bill pulled on his little compression shorts and positioned the cup inside of them.

Bill took a quick look at himself in the dorm-room mirror in his garb and concluded that he looked a lot like Joe looked, except for being on a different funchball team. Both Bill and Joe were now thinking what they really wanted to try was sleeping in the garb, just to see what would happen.

It was getting late, but there was one thing Bill and Joe had not done yet. They both needed to pee and before they could crawl into bed in their respective uniforms, and the dorm bathroom was way down the hall.

As any guy knows, peeing is not that simple for a guy even if you only semi aroused. Urine is deadly to sperm, so a guy’s body is set up to close off the bladder entirely as soon as a guy starts to feel like he is about to be getting there. And both Joe and Bill were in a fine state of semi-arousal. What to do? Neither wanted to get out of their gear at this point, so they both decided to make the bathroom run while still wearing their gear. After all, it wasn’t as if they were making the run nude or even just wearing a jock strap!

So then went out in the hall, and who should be wandering down the hall in their direct but a classmate Dylan. Now Dylan was an engineering freshman, and sharp as a tack. Both Bill and Joe had met Dylan, and thought he was a really cool guy even if he was a bit too mathy pointy-headed. Dylan smiled, thinking what he was seeing was a bit silly but thankfully Dylan did not say a thing.

Practically every guy has been in this particular predicament at some point in their lives, feeling the need and urge to pee, but also being in a situation where he is semi-aroused making that particular bodily function difficult. Bill and Joe in that respect were no different from any other guy. At minimum the compression shorts were going to have to come down, and the strap with the cup inside. After that, both guys hoped that they would be calm enough to be able to be able to stream.

So, Bill and Joe each picked a urinal, and made the attempt. Fortunately, there were no other guysin the restroom at that moment. It took Joe what seemed to be several minutes to start, but then Bill start and Bill was able to get going almost immediately thereafter. Both Bill and Joe breathed a sigh of relief! One key issue with their bodies had been resolved!

Now Bill and Joe needed to get back into their straps, cups and compression shorts. But penises, freed momentarily (in this case, at the urinal) from being contained within the cup, sometimes respond in strange ways. An uncontained penis often responds by getting just a touch bigger and longer, and once a cup is back in place this expansion can be felt as direct pressure. Bill and Joe now discovered that what was just tolerable before was becoming even less tolerable. But both Bill and Joe were committed to running the experiment of attempting to spend a night sleeping in their funchball uniforms. They had both concluded that a penis encased in a cup is not nearly as easily brought to orgasm as an uncontained penis where there is no cup barrier blocking the touch sensitivity.

So Bill and Joe, still wearing their gear, both headed off to bed.

……To be continued

[sebbie]

Now comes the real test: Both Bill and Joe are committed to doing what each had read about in Sebbie’s “Cup” article, that is, attempting at least to sleep an entire night wearing their garb. Of course, Bill had already done this a couple nights before, which led right into the funchball wet dream. This was going to be all new for Joe. Joe was very curious as to whether his body and mind would follow the same sequence that Bill had described happened to him.

Bill, on the other hand, was a bit less apprehensive with respect to the possible events to come. Still, Bill was enthusiastic about the upcoming experiment. Bill had experienced a most powerful orgasm as his funchball wet dream was drawing to a close two nights ago. What he was wearing and the events in the dream were interconnected in strange but fanciful ways. Bill could not quite figure out why or how this was happening? How In particular, could the sensation of the cup surrounding his penis cause the plot in the dream to develop in certain ways, and why did Bill seem so fascinated by the male funchball players but not the female players? Would Bill be able to sleep through the night without having a wet dream? Or would he start to dream again with a yet-to-be-determined plot line that ends in an orgasm.

Another issue was that Bill knew that Joe was in the other little dorm room bed wearing essentially the same items that Bill was wearing, except for the navy blue rather than steel gray color for the compression tee and shorts. Would this knowledge affect Bill in any way as the night progressed? Bill did not know the answer to that question except to say that even attempting to sleep when you know that the guy in the twin bed next to you is attempting to deal with his own issues in dealing with the pressures from the strap, cup and compression gear could become difficult.

Maybe Joe’s gear won’t “bother” Joe’s ability to sleep at all, and Joe will quickly fall into a solid sleep that extends through the entire night. But what if, at some point during the night, Bill hears Joe softly “moaning” in his bed? Can Bill simply ignore this as if just nothing at all is happening? If Bill knows that Joe’s cup and strap is giving Joe a snug but not unpleasant sensation of being contained inside a too-small space to be able to expand. Bill had never been in quite this kind of a situation before.

Meanwhile, Joe has his own set of “problems” to confront, and in part, Joe’s apprehension relates not only to what Joe had read in the “Cup” paper but also to the details he had learned about Bill’s funchball wet dream. Joe had concluded that Bill’s wet dream had a somewhat gay-themed plotline, and Joe worried that his dreaming could take that sort of turn as well. And Bill had not been sleeping in a bed in the same room as another guy wearing the same gear and potentially facing the same “problems” Joe was facing. Basically, Joe was apprehensive with respect to finding out how his body might respond or not to such circumstances, but he was also feeling driven to find out what would happen as well. This combination of terror and unbridled enthusiasm for the events that might unfold is often the case with respect to events relating to sex. Joe was just starting to learn that.

Joe and Bill, both feeling a strange mixture of apprehensive and enthusiasm, both crawled into bed. Both had been wearing their straps, cups and compression gear for a couple hours awake already, and they both felt that they were starting to get “used” to the fit and feel of the gear. Penises, once they get “used” to the situation they are in as being normal, begin to act as if whatever the situation they are in is no big deal, and the tension not only in the penis but in the entire groin area sometimes recedes a bit. Both Bill and Joe had started to think that this was the situation that was starting to occur. Familiarity leads to flaccidity, Joe thought.

During the day, say, a football player, clad in a strap with a cup, even a snug-fitting strap and cup, the mind of a guy is focused not so much about the situation his penis might be in, but also on the non-sexual events that are happening, such as each player’s role in the big game. Even if there is direct pressure on his penis from the hard cup, the football player’s attention is diverted from being able to focus on his penis and the sensations it was experiencing.

Once he got into bed, Joe quickly found out that the situation was very different from daytime wear of a strap and cup, where there was always some kind of diversion going on. The sensations that seemed only subtle if at all when Joe was awake, suddenly were taking over. There was something going on in Joe’s groin area, and Joe was quite aware of it. In particular, he could feel the pressure of the soft outer edges of the cup pressing directly against his groin, with the compression shorts keeping this pressure steady. Joe knew that the inside of the cup was right there surrounding his penis on three sides, and that even though the larger of the two cups was the one that Joe was wearing, the psychological knowledge that Joe’s penis would not be able to just get bigger indefinitely was starting to eat away at Joe’s psyche. Joe was starting not only to realize that his penis faced not only a dilemma in his psyche, but also something that could turn into physical sensations as well. Joe did not fully understand how his body was going to cope with all of this.

Meanwhile, Bill was facing much the same issues in the bed next to Joe. Bill’s only real advantage was that he had actually made it through a night wearing this gear two nights ago. But Bill knew what had happened to him then. Would tonite be a repeat of that? And what of the fact that Joe was in the twin bed beside him perhaps struggling with the same thing but without the experience of two nights ago that Bill had already had. This was interesting, if a little scary too.

…..To be continued

[sebbie]

To briefly review the situation Bill and Joe are in, both of them are lying in bed, and attempting to get some sleep. This should ordinarily not be that difficult, except that both of them are wearing snug-fitting jock straps with hard cups that are not roomy either, and both of them are wearing new or recently purchased compression gear consisting of compression tees and compression shorts that were purposely undersized a bit, Bill in a steel gray color and Joe in navy blue.

Since the compression gear are new (or, in Bill’s case, been worn once) the Lycra blend fabric has not yet stretched out a bit as it would be had the gear been older and worn many times. Plus, the shorts were purchased in size SM (28-30 W), when both of the guys normally wear a MED (32-34 W) in cotton shorts, jeans and other stuff, so just getting into the shorts and positioning them posed a bit of difficulty.

Such snug-fitting shorts means that the strap underneath is held very securely in place in terms of the position of the strap pouch and leg straps. But, more importantly, the hard cup in that fits into something of a “sac” that was sewn into the strap pouch is pressed very tightly against the groin, making the cup all but impossible to move with the guy’s hand.

All of this works fine so long as Bill and Joe can keep from getting even partial erections which would need to be contained within the cup. But, given all that gear and how it fits, it is difficult “not” to start to get an erection, an erection that has no place to go except to press harder against the strap and sides of the cup.

This poses something of a dilemma. Wearing gear like this during the day is ordinarily not that difficult for a guy to do in large measure because a guy cannot simply spend the waking hours just thinking about his penis and the situation it is in. During the day there are even moments where the guy’s penis thinks the situation it has found itself in is no big deal, as in this is all just normal, and the penis responds to that by going completely flaccid and apparently seems hardly even aware that the jock and cop are even there. This in large measure depends on what a guy is doing during the day and whether his thoughts are primarily not about sex and his penis. But most guys would probably find the daytime situation at least manageable.

But night time creates an entirely new situation, with new issues with which to try to deal. Think about this: Suppose that you sustained a small cut or bruise on your arm that hurts just a little. During the day, you are busy doing things and the slight pain is no big deal. There are times during the day that you do not even think about that the cur or bruise hurts just a little.

But then you crawl into bed, an suddenly the cut or bruise hurts enough that it is keeping you from being able to go to sleep. What seemed trivial and unimportant during the day is now keeping you awake at night.

The same with Bill and Joe. They had been messing around getting into the straps, cups and compression gear and at times at least thought all of this might very well be no big deal at all. After all;, their brains are in control of the situation at hand, not their penises.

But now both Bill and Joe are in bed, and trying to get some sleep. But now suddenly they are fully aware of and focusing directly on the situation their penises are in. Now, to be sure, a lot of this is psychological, not physical in that Bill and Joe are both fully aware of the fact that their penises are within the confines of the strap and cup, even though there might be only a bit of sensation that their penises are actually feeling the bounds of the respective confinements as opposed to just sensing that the bounds are close by but not causing any significant issues yet. Unlike daytime, there is no non-sexual event occurring that would divert attention away from the situation. So Bill and Joe are focused almost entirely on their penises.

It doesn’t help that Bill is now fully aware that Joe is right there sleeping in the bed next to him and facing the same dilemma, nor does it help that Joe realizes that Bill is sleeping in the bed next to him and also facing the exact same situation. This bit of knowledge alone is weirdly erotic and not making the entire situation any easier. When Joe is not focusing his mind on his own penis, he is diverting to thinking about what Bill might be experiencing, same for Bill.

Given the focus that both Joe and Bill have on their respective penises as they lay their quietly but still very much awake. Under the circumstances, what is a penis to do for goodness sakes? Well, as nearly every guy realizes, the moment of initial tension is normally accompanied buy a few drops of crystal clear but quite viscous precum, and that is now exactly what has been happening to both Bill and Joe inside the strap.

But any guy also knows that this initial tension, if not somehow diverted, will soon lead to a slight expansion of the penis, sometimes referred to as a “semi”. This is certainly not a full erection, but simply an expansion just sufficient to make the walls of the cup move from being only psychologically there to a clear physical presence. Now, the sensation may not appear to be of much consequence whatsoever, just the sudden awareness in the guy’s brain that the walls of the cup are indeed physically present. But still, a guy quickly becomes aware of the fact that he is growing in size, and if this continues, the walls of the cup will soon pose a firm “barrier” to further expansion that will somehow need to be confronted directly.

Joe is experiencing exactly this now, and wondering if Bill is starting to have the same “problem” as well. Bill is experiencing the same phenomenon, and is also wondering if Joe could be also experiencing this same problem as well. The awareness of the guy in the other bed perhaps facing the same problem is making matters for each of them more difficult, but at the same time, certainly more interesting that if each of them were experiencing all of this alone.

…….To be continued

[sebbie]

Both Bill and Joe have been lying in bed for about a half hour, but both are still wide awake. What began mostly as a psychological dilemma, their respective penises confined in the limited space of a hard cup, is starting to become physical as well. Both of them can sense that their penises are no longer able to expand as they would have in loose-fitting boxer shorts, but are running up against a barrier at least on three sides.

The strange sensation that they are both getting in bed is one of both discomfort but also a really odd pleasant feeling, and this really weird combination seems to be getting gradually more powerful not less powerful. As the penis senses the cup is confining it, signals are sent back to their brains. The brain almost immediately responds by sending electrical signals that open valves in the respective penises a bit, which sends in a bit more blood, which, in turn, makes the penis expand in size, just a little more. And, of course, the brain also begins sending signals to the cowpers gland that results in glistening crystalline-like clear drops oozing one at-a-time from the tip of the penis. Both Bill and Joe can sense this is happening to them even as I write this.

But with a guy’s penis already pressing a little against the cup, sending more blood to the penis simply makes matters worse, or maybe better, depending on whether or not the guy is sensing discomfort or pleasure given the ridiculous situation his penis is now in. The weird thing that is happening is this odd mixture of goofy pleasure mixed in with discomfort. The health education classes Bill and Joe both took in high school had neither discussed this strange phenomenon they were now experiencing nor in any way prepared either one of them for what was now happening to them.

Usually, when a guy senses a little direct pressure on his penis, he makes an effort to attempt to find a more comfortable situation to be in. In the case of the cup, this ordinarily means adjusting the cup just a but by sliding it up, down or sideways. Joe tries this, only to discover that the movement of the cup itself is starting to make his penis firmer and harder. Not by much, but just a little. So the more Joe tries to find a comfortable position for the cup, the more difficult the situation becomes for Joe.

Bill already found this out when he was playing around with all of this just two nights ago. There may be places where the cup seems a bit less there or not, but no location that eliminates the sense of its presence, entirely.

Joe finally decides to try something completely different in an effort to deal with the situation he is now in. He decides that his penis needs a short “break” from the sensation of being contained within the cup. So the solution is for Joe to grab the cup in his right hand and pull the entire cup and pouch that holds it outward, away from his penis pulling against the wide elastic waistband of the strap. Given the size of the strap waistband and its 2 ½ inch width, even holding the cup away from his penis for 5-10 seconds takes a significant effort on Joe’s part.

Joe thinks but maybe, just maybe, the five or ten seconds of freedom will give his penis enough time to deflate just a bit, and once the cup is back in place his penis will be less sensitive. The only problem with that idea is that it is wrong, completely wrong. When Joe lets go of the cup, it quickly snaps back into position. What happened of course, is that in just the five or ten seconds of freedom for Joe’s penis, Joe’s penis decides that since it is no longer as confined as it was, it can expand a bit, if only a little.

So as cup and pouch go back into position against Joes groin, the sensation Joe experiences is one of agony, but of a delicious agony unlike anything Joe has ever experienced in his entire life before. Joe’s penis seems very much unhappy that it is back in tight confinement, but it is a delicious unhappiness that contains both elements of physical discomfort intermingled with sheer pure ecstatic pleasure, something unlike anything that had ever happened to Joe.

Joe is so fascinated by all of this that he tries the pull-away and snap back technique several more time, now realizing beforehand that each time the cup and pouch hits his groin again is going to send him off into delicious agony. Each time the cup snaps back to contain his penis Joe lets out a discernible moan of pleasure.

Meanwhile Bill is lying there still wide awake and taking note of the commotion taking place in Bill’s bed. Having had a similar experience just two nights ago, Bill has pretty well determined what Joe must have been trying and what must be happening and why Joe appears to be letting out repeated moans of what seems to be a pleasant agony.

For Bill, the problem is that just listening to Joe struggle trying to find a comfortable cup position is starting to turn Bill on too. Bill knows that he is now precumming inside his own cup and strap and forming spots of clear ooze on his cup pouch in part just thinking about Joe and what Joe has been experiencing. The pressure of Bill’s cup was mainly psychological, but the sensations for Bill not woo are starting to get quite physical as well. Bill cannot simply ignore what is happening to him at this point, even as he quietly listens as Joe struggles.

……To be continued

[sebbie]

Joe was getting in increasingly desperate shape. His penis had become tumescent enough so that Joe was getting the sensation of a steady pressure on the top and sides bearing down on him by the cup. This is a loopy sensation to be sure. It’s a sensation that initially at least does not seem to be that difficult to deal with in part because keeps bouncing back and forth from being a tad uncomfortable to a sensation of pure pleasure. Whenever the pleasure point of the cycle sets in, Joes brain starts concentrating on his penis and the predicament it has gotten itself into by being surrounded so close by the cup, and the valves that let blood into Joes penis gives his penis as bit more tumescence still and the pressure and urge to ejaculate slowly, incrementally but still steadily builds.

Joe lies in bed, thinking about all of this and that his urge to ejaculate and just get this situation all over is getting stronger and stronger as the steady pressure on his penis by the walls of the cup keeps getting more and more apparent. Joe is now starting to get desperate in thinking that he needs to quickly f@#k himself to orgasm, and he is actively thinking about his options at the point. Of course, one option is to simply get up out of bed and pull his shorts, strap and cup off and then quickly f@#k himself to orgasm by simply stroking his penis from base to glans with his hand. However, there is a little voice in Joe’s head that is speaking to him and telling him that this situation is at the same time getting more and more fun, and the longer that Joe can manage to tolerate wearing the cup the more fun this is all going to be. Joe is beginning to understand what Sebbie had said in his “cup” paper.

Somehow, Joe backs off from that plan. For starters, getting up and doing so would create a disturbance in the room, perhaps awakening his roommate Bill, who Joe thinks by now has probably fallen asleep. The dorm-room accommodations without a separate bathroom for privacy would make the f@#k- yourself option difficult to pull off unless Joe is comfortable with the idea of ejaculating with Bill right there. This did happen the day before when Joe and Bill were trying on their Solar® swimsuits, but then, both of them were actively engaged and perhaps were equally embarrassed about how everything developed. Besides, Joe doesn’t want to admit to Bill that he has less ejaculatory self-control than Bill has, and Bill seems to be lying in bed and dozing off.

Joe decides that it would be far safer to simply remain in bed and “suffer” with the dilemma such as it is. So, Joe sees the other option is to simply fall back into bed and if it becomes necessary, simply ejaculate right into the cup that is still in its position confining his penis. He starts to think that he might be able to stroke himself to orgasm simply by pressing on the outside of the cup and sliding his fingers back and forth along the top of the cup. Joe can feel the pressure on his penis as he presses the cup even more solidly against his groin. Joe can also sense movement as he slides his fingers back and forth across the top of the cup. These sensations are sufficient to give the Joe the sensation that still more blood is being pumped into his penis, but still not quite the pressure Joe needs to ejaculate. Joe knows that what gets him off quickly has always been touching and stroking the head and glans on the underside of the head of his penis, once his penis is hard. The problem here is that the head of Joe’s penis is buried deep inside the super-confined space deep inside the cup, and not the least bit accessible by merely stroking the cup on the outside.

Sebbie talked repeatedly about doing something called “riding the wave” in solo sex. The “wave” is a psychological and physical place to be where the guy is on the very edge of ejaculating but not yet quite there. “Riding the wave” simply involves maintaining the highest degree of arousal that is possible without going over the edge and immediately ejaculating. Guys often have difficulty learning how to ride the wave for extended periods of time because they are so fixated on the pure (but quite short-lived) fun of a super-powerful orgasm. Sebbie has often said that the longer a guy can ride the wave, the more powerful and ultimately satisfactory the orgasm will be at the end. The pressure and sexual tension builds gradually, and the longer this goes on the more fun the final orgasm will be. In solo sex, Sebbie talks about only a 7- or 8-point orgasm versus a mind-and-body blowing 10-point orgasm.

Anyhow, with respect to Joe’s current situation, Joe has now “found the wave” and is somehow now successfully riding it. This has been a learning experience. Try as he might, Joe has been unable to ejaculate inside the cup, even as the pressure to do so keeps getting stronger, even if only a little at a time. Joe presses on the cup, but this is not enough. He strokes the cup from top to bottom and his penis senses the movement, but again, this sensation is just not quite sufficient for Joe to blow.

The sexual tension affecting Joe’s brain is now so unbelievably powerful and Joe is on the very edge of physically convulsing. Joe starts to pound the mattresses with his right fist over and over, all the while softly muttering “I need to ejaculate! I want to ejaculate! I must ejaculate!” over and over to himself. The pressure and tension Joe is feeling from the hard cup is on the very edge of being unbearable, and Joe’s brain is now just as much involved in what is occurring as his penis is. Still, Joe is unable to bring himself to the ejaculatory point of-no-return while still inside the cup. Joe thinks to himself that college is providing some opportunities to learn things that were never covered in high school, or when he lived at home for sure.

Joe thinks Bill is sound asleep. Of course Bill is not sound asleep, but has been quietly listening to everything that has been happening in the bed next to him. Bill knows Joe has a real problem that he is trying to deal with and somehow cope. But then Bill has problems of his own, in part brought about by the fact that he has stayed awake and has been listening attentively to Joe’s struggles and soft moans.

……..To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill has been lying in bed quietly, not moving at all, but interested in the sounds he has been hearing from Joe’s dorm room bed, only a few feet away from him. Bill thinks that Joe’s situation is interesting, if not a little amusing as well. Joe is clearly involved with some of the sensations that Bill has been experiencing as well.

But meanwhile, Bill has his own set of issues. It is important to understand a little about the physical builds of both Joe and Bill. Joe is actually quite skinny, almost gaunt-looking as if he were just a tad undernourished. Bill, though not overweight, has more of what is sometimes called a “stocky” build. Although neither Joe nor Bill were team athletes in high school, Bill loved to ride bicycle both in grade school and in high school. The consequence of all of this means that Bill is built more solidly than Joe is particularly through his upper thigh area. Even though Bill and Joe are now wearing compression shorts of the same brand and size, the fit for each is rather different.

Bill has to struggle quite a bit to simply get himself into the compression shorts as they are difficult to pull up over his upper thighs and waist. It is not that the shorts fail to fit properly, but simply getting them in place requires more effort on Bill’s part than on Joe’s part. Bill also has a bit more upper body development than Joe does, particularly over Bill’s shoulders and through to his biceps, so Bill’s compression tee also fits more snugly than it does on Joe even though both are the same brand and size.

A third important difference is that Bill is bigger in the groin area extending back though Bill’s glutes, which are bigger than Joes as well. So Bill’s strap of the same size is simply going to fit more snugly everywhere than Joe’s strap does but in particular the two leg straps are going to exert more sideways and upward pull at the bottom of the pouch. This upward pull is interesting given that it tends to put intense pressure on the perineum area just behind the scrotum where a bunch of really sensitive nerve endings terminate.

Bill is fully aware of the situation he is in, with the cup bearing down on the top and sides of his penis, in part brought about because the compression shorts are pressing the cup strongly against his groin, even as the strap itself is pressing upward on his perineum area. All of this can simply be uncomfortable at first, but Bill already knows that what starts out as mere discomfort can morph into something uniquely pleasurable. Some of this is psychological but some of it is also physical discomfort. Bill, having already experienced this two nights ago, is now traveling along right on the very edge between physical discomfort and physical pleasure. It is a strange place to be, one of not quite knowing whether a situation is uncomfortable or pleasant, and in fact the situation seems to switch back and forth between the two feelings almost moment-by-moment.

Of course, the sounds emanating from Joe’s bed only adds to the entire situation Bill now faces. Bill fully realizes exactly what Joe must now be experiencing and why Joe now appears to be struggling with it all. This is not about being gay versus being straight. Having another guy in the room a few feet away who is clearly aroused and struggling because of that is clearly arousing for Bill as well. Bill thinks that must be true for practically any guy who would somehow end up in a situation where another guy across the room is struggling to deal with arousal sensations. That situation certainly did not ever get discussed in the health education class in high school for sure.

But what possible harm of any sort is in all of this? Bill and Joe have not had any direct sexual contact with each other for sure. They have certainly not even talked about any contact as an option. From the perspective of either, they are simply engaging in commonplace solo sex. It is just that neither has tried doing this openly at the same time another guy is doing the same. This is not gay, just two straight guys having a little fun as freshmen in college.

Bill keeps thinking about this. As Bill ponders all of this, his penis very slowly but steadily fills with blood. As Bill lies awake he is definitely feeling more tumescent moment by moment. What began as discomfort is morphing into some very pleasant sensations, much as what had happened to Bill just two nights ago. Bill thinks about what Joe must be going through right now and how Joe must be dealing with it all. Joe thinks about Bill in the dorm room bed right next to Joe’s bed, but has been thinking (well, maybe just hoping) that Bill must have fallen asleep some time ago. As a consequence of all of this, Bill is now moving around in bed, and Joe suddenly realizes that Bill is not asleep.

…..To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe are both frustrated with respect to the current situation they are in, but at the same time they are both enjoying themselves immensely. Maybe I should be using a stronger word than frustration here to describe the situation Bill and Joe currently find themselves in, because they are at a place, both physically and psychologically, that is really, really complex, and not easily understood.

Let me start at the beginning. As teenagers, and probably shortly after puberty sets in, a guy almost invariably get themselves into situations whereby an erection happens but the guy is not at a time or in a place where he can easily or conveniently bring himself to have an orgasm. This could even happen when the guy is just sitting in a classroom, and not thinking sexual thoughts at all. Another place where this is common is in a vehicle, particularly a vehicle traveling down the road, such as in a school bus, a bus that might jiggle and vibrate as it goes along a road. Even a little vibration can easily set a guy into erection mode. A third well-known possibility is in a gym locker room, but particularly in an instance where the guy will be wearing something that fits snug against the groin for the first time in order to participate in a sport, the obvious one being any sport that would require a strap and cup as undergarments for physical protection, but the other obvious ones are swim coaches who pass out racing briefs and so on.

Part of being a male teenager entails learning exactly how to cope with each new situation that comes up that could be arousing such that he does not embarrass himself. It doesn’t help that the other guys are facing the same or very similar issues with their own bodies, and that all the guys are attempting to employ coping strategies as well. Coping strategies vary in their success rates, and most guys do not make it through their teen years without one or more incidents that proved to be embarrassing given the time and place where the “accident” occurred. Depending on the exact nature of the accident, these accidents can often lead to permanent psychological scars that a guy ends up dealing with for his entire life.

Teen males quickly go into a mode where they begin to think that it is ok if they have an erection if they are with a girl their age, but not ok if this happens under any other circumstance. Many teen girls quickly learn that their desirability as a female by the guy they are dating can be measured by how quickly they can bring the poor guy to the point where he has a full erection, and this can quickly become a game for them.

Teen males who are not entirely confident with respect to their own sexual orientation face a particular set of unique issues, especially in situations where the guy has an erection at a time or in a place where only other guys are around. Assuming that the teen male is not “out” as a gay teen male, the guy who is not confident that he can control his erections in times and in places where an erection would appear to make no sense at all faces particular problems.

As a consequence, a lot of guys, irrespective of their sexual orientation, quickly learn that if they are going to engage in solo sex they need to figure out a way so they do not draw attention to themselves or what they are doing, especially by other males their age. This often means doing so in privacy, at home in a bathroom or at school in a secure bathroom stall, perhaps. However, the guy also quickly learns that spending too much time in places such as this can easily lead to questions that the guy does not want to answer, at least not truthfully answer. Some guys even begin to think that the best sex must therefore be the sex that happens most quickly, maybe only a minute or two from initial arousal to ejaculation. Some guys might even begin to think that they are “more of a male” based on the speed at which they can move from initial arousal state to a full-blown ejaculation.

Some of you are probably now wondering what this long story has to do with dorm roommates Bill and Joe and the current predicament that they are finding themselves in. The answer to this question is very simple. Joe and Bill are getting their first real experiences in dealing with the issues their bodies face if they make a concerted effort to maintain and even build upon their respective arousals while delaying orgasm as long as possible. One way of looking at the gear both of them are wearing (the straps, the cups and the compression gear) are all simply inexpensive aids to help them build skills in maintaining arousal levels for long periods of time, an hour or longer, without ejaculating.

As teenagers, most guys end up learning a lot about their penises and what parts specifically need to be stroked or touched in order to go into ejaculatory mode. Generally, the information goes something like this as a sort of beginner’s guide to the best solo sex.

1. Long strokes along the top and sides from the penis base to the head of the penis are enjoyable and get more pleasant as the penis fills with blood and becomes firmer.

2. Long strokes along the underside of the penis are generally more pleasant still than stroking the top or sides under the same circumstances, as in general the underside of the penis is more sensitive to the touch than the top or sides are.

3. Neither 1 or 2, however enjoyable they both are, is usually sufficient to get a guy to the point of a full orgasm. What is usually required is that once a guy is erect, the glans, or lower part of the head of the penis needs to be touched or rubbed. Doing so can quickly send a guy into a full-blown orgasm.

Why a guy’s penis is set up this way has to do with the details of how the female anatomy is constructed, and I could go into those details now, but for the moment I will not.

Learning how to delay orgasm while both maintaining a high degree of arousal and a firm erection is as much about learning psychological control as it is about the physical aspects of what the guy is doing. Bill and Joe are in a situation whereby they are both learning the important aspects of ejaculatory control as they attempt to cope with the situations they both are facing. Part of what they are both attempting to deal with is physical, but part is psychological. Let me explain why.

The straps and cups they are wearing are both putting direct pressure on the tops and sides all along their penises, but not on the underside of the penis. The sensations from the walls of the cups bearing down on them are partly physical but also involve the psychological realization that the cups are very much there and will be felt more strongly if any penis expansion takes place. Moving the cups around a bit can simulate stroking to a degree at least, and usually leads to more blood being pumped into the penis not less.

Given the shape of the cup, the tips and glans of their penises are deeply buried inside the cup and not in any position to be touched or stroked. This alone is going to make ejaculating inside the cup more difficult though perhaps not impossible to do.

Having another guy in the dorm room experiencing the exact same dilemma poses a most interesting psychological issue for both of them. To the extent that either Bill or Joe take their focus away from their own penises and their own situation, their minds probably travel into the area of wondering with what the other guy is experiencing and exactly how he is coping with the situation. Neither of these guys under the circumstances is going to be perfectly quiet in bed, as real pangs of sexual pleasure course through their entire bodies. They are both experiencing something unique.

Bill and Joe both have a long series of classes tomorrow, Friday, and both are trying to get some sleep, but will they be able to do so given the circumstances they are in?

….To be continued

[sebbie]

It is clear right now that neither Bill nor Joe seem to know quite how to deal with the situation that they currently are in. They keep trying to figure out a way to fight back at what is happening to them, and that is perhaps often not the best choice.

A guy’s penis is a marvelous organ in all sorts of ways. The feelings and sensations it is capable of producing are not only quite varied, but they frequently seem to change moment by moment. Young guys often think that their sexual feelings are all simply concentrated in the organs that hang outside their bodies in the groin area. Only gradually do they learn that the sensations directly felt in the organs in the groin area are only the start of what can quickly turn into a whole body (or perhaps whole out of body experience) The pangs of sexual tension and pleasure may begin in the sex organs, but soon the entire body (and mind) is involved.

Bill and Joe are both lying in bed and experiencing something that is quite novel to them, a constant and steady sensation of pressure surrounding their penises. Under normal circumstances, a sense of pressure on a guy’s penis happens regularly during the day, and this is no big deal. The pressure of clothing items or whatever is there for a moment and then gone as the guy just moves around during the day. The modest sexual sensations, for what they are at the moment, are fleeting, at best, and a flaccid penis never produces the kinds of sensations that a turgid penis does. This is part of the marvelous real “magic” of male sexuality that the penis nerve endings become so much more sensitive to any sort of touch as the penis even just begins to fill with blood.

But in the case of Bill and Joe, the pressure is quite subtle but steady. Commonly, a guy’s penis will respond to a steady direct pressure from the strap, cup and compression gear. This is a very different sensation to try to deal with than the fleeting moments of pressure on a guy’s sexual organs that routinely happen many times during a normal day. Normally, when a guy senses a steady, direct pressure on his penis, immediately signals move between brain and penis that it is now the time to get bigger and harder. This is an automatic response. If the guy is wearing loose-fitting clothing this is no big deal, so long as he doesn’t get too carried away accidentally enjoying himself. Every guy quickly learns that he can become semi-hard and underneath loose-fitting clothing no one will even notice.

Of course, there can be situations whereby this is not true. Indeed, one of the main fears of guys in wearing snug-fitting swim briefs in public is the whole idea that any penis enlargement in such a garment will immediately be noticed by everyone. These same guys may be quite comfortable wearing snug-fitting briefs as underclothing but the outer garment, say a pair of jeans, will normally hide whatever might be happening underneath. But this is part of the swim brief “terror” in which lots of guys are terrified that others might be able to observe the state that they are in. All of this extends to what guys who have to change clothes and perhaps even shower in locker rooms will or will not do. This fear is very real.

But Bill and Joe have come a long way in this regard, and are now light years ahead of where they were even as students in high school. Think about what they have been doing. Despite claims by both that they are perfectly straight and sexually interested only in girls (ok, I should say college women at this point), the incident with the swim briefs just a day ago basically was mutual masturbation to ejaculation, and somehow they both made it through that experience enjoying their own bodies and without psychological scars of any sort, or at least that is what appears to have just happened. They have not suddenly come apart or concluded that they are not as straight as they once thought they were.

But the very swim brief incident (the very incident that Bill and Joe both enjoyed immensely, by the way) is the exact kind of event that terrifies so many guys. As in, what if I pull on a snug-fitting pair of swim brief and end up getting erect and my male friends are standing there, watching this and relentlessly teasing me for being a “jerk-off” all at the same time. This is a situation that must be avoided at all costs, and the way to avoid the situation is to think up any excuse to avoid wearing the swim brief.

Now Bill and Joe face another and equally complicated set of circumstances. They have both quickly learned that the direct pressures coming from the cups, straps, and compression gear they are wearing in bed is resulting in sexual tension. Further, the sexual tension is not steady and non-varying, indeed, the amount of tension seems to vary moment by moment from one instance to the next. At some moments, the pressures seem relatively easy to tolerate, just there and gone, but at other times the pressures and tension seems all but intolerable, and neither of them can avoid letting out soft moans as the waves of sexual tension course through their entire bodies. Each time this happens to Bill’s and Joe’s brains, their brains become more and more focused on their increased need to ejaculate. I need to ejaculate! I must ejaculate! But them as rapidly as this builds, the tension recedes, if only for a moment, and the situation once again seems to be tolerable.

Both Bill and Joe are tired, very tired. In the moments in which the waves of sexual tension recede just a bit both Bill and Joe start to get drowsy. Will the sexual tension keep them awake still? Well, maybe not. Oddly enough, both Bill and Joe are starting to fall asleep, both with their penises still firmly contained within the straps, cups and compression gear. Bill and Joe are starting to sense that the pressures surrounding their penises can somehow be very comforting as a guy drifts off to sleep. Do not fight the sensations or try to avoid them, just kick back and enjoy the situation you are in and everything will be fine. From a partner sex perspective, this is much like just falling asleep with your partner just holding and lightly caressing your penis as you drift off to visit the sandman.

Of course, drifting off to sleep presents an all new set of issues, as Bill at least already knows for sure.

But for now, Bill and Joe, still both contained within their really snug-fitting cups, straps and compression gear, are getting drowsy,….very drowsy

…...To be continued

[sebbie]

Guys, straight, gay, or residing somewhere in that huge central plain in between, truly love the sensation of their penises being contained within a snug-fitting place. I suppose this is one of the major keys to understanding the physiological and biological basis for the core of partner sex, but in the absence of partner sex, practically any situation that gets a guy into this place and space will do.

A lot of guys grow up thinking that the faster that they can get to orgasm, somehow, the more “masculine” that they will seem to their partner. A basic problem with this idea is that it is quite the opposite of what is necessary for maximum enjoyment with a partner. The key to maximum sexual pleasure for guys is to train yourselves to be able to maintain the highest possible degree of arousal such that you can still hold off ejaculating until you for certain really do want to end the sex. This is not an easy thing for most guys to learn how to do for a variety of reasons.

The issues begin shortly after puberty, when a guy begins to learn some of the nuances of how to masturbate, but then learns the techniques for getting off in the shortest possible period of time for fear of “getting caught” It doesn’t matter who “discovers” what they are doing, parents, siblings, peers at school, the lesson that is always learned is that if a guy is going to play with himself, he needs to get to the ejaculation part as quickly as possible. This coupled with the fact that young guys are almost invariably uncertain as to what they are doing is “normal” or not, or whether such activity indicates, perhaps that the guy is gay and not really that interested in girls that much or at all.

All of this is terrifying to the male teen. Fun, perhaps exciting, extraordinarily special, but in many ways terrifying as well. Think about what Bill and Joe are doing right now, and take notice of how things have changed for both of them, relative to the place they were at in high school. For starters, both of them have been getting huge lessons in the pure enjoyment of staying somewhat aroused for an extended period of time without ejaculating, with their cups providing the tool for not quite being able to get off like they would have in just plain ordinary masturbation.

Second, they are both enjoying this knowing full well that the other guy in the room is doing the same thing to himself as well. In part, they have both at least to a degree worked through their fear of masturbating at the same time or place as another guy and the prospect of being teased, bullied or labeled a sissy gay jerk-off or whatever it is that teen males do or say to other teen males that invariably makes this situation for young teens so difficult. Bill and Joe are doing this largely because what they are doing is terrifically enjoyable, and they are not even thinking about attempting to apply sexual orientation on each other because of that. What end could possibly be served in labeling the activity as being gay or anything else that might be considered by some to be not totally normal?

Bill and Joe are both learning how to get the most out of their own bodies without in any way causing inadvertent issues with others. As they start to fall asleep, things are going to get more interesting still not less interesting as their penises cycle normally during the night between tumescence and flaccidity. Joe’s and Bill’s brains, even while sleeping, are interconnected to the ongoing processes occurring in the groin area. They are both probably going to start to dream, and the contents of the dreams will likely include erotic components. The physical pressure of the cups bearing down on their penises, and the cycles of tumescence and flaccidity will likely create an erotic plot to the dreams they will both be experiencing.

It is really interesting how all of what has been happening is interconnected, and the wet dreams will likely find ways of weaving conscious thought together with whatever is happening in the subconscious. Exactly how all of this plays out remains to be seen. For now, I wish Bill and Joe only the best as their respective journeys continue forward from here.

……To be continued

[dm106]

Very cool story! Keep it up please.

[sebbie]

So, Joe falls asleep still clad in all his gear, and being aroused but unable yet to ejaculate inside the strap and cup.

Joe starts to dream. He is standing in front of a brightly-lit arena with a big marquee that says “Riderball: 8 PM tonight!". It is now dusk, with the sun just barely above the horizon at dusk. It is cold where Joe is standing, maybe no more than 40 degrees, but with a wind it feels more like it is in the lower 30s. Given where the sun is and the outside temperature, Joe concludes that it must be late fall, maybe late November.

Joe realizes he is standing there for a reason, indeed he knows that he is there because he is a member of one of the Riderball teams that will be playing that evening. Joe opens the door to the players entrance of the arena and after saying hello to the security guard standing right there (oddly, the security guard at his station seems to recognize Joe right away and they greet each other warmly. Joe does not have to even show any identification.) Joe steps into an area, actually a walkway, that gives Joe a nice view of the entire Riderball game area along with the stands that surround the track inside the arena. The arena is huge, Joe thinks. At its base is an oval track that seems to be nearly a mile in length: the arena is that big.

But that is what dreams do, sometimes, stuff that would be totally implausible in real life sometimes seen quite reasonable inside a dream. But obviously, Riderball has some detailed rules and procedures and the big oval track is needed for some reason, irrespective of how long the track inside the enclosed arena really is. Joe notices that the curves in the oval track are heavily banked as if to keep the riders from flying right off the sides of the track. And, at about 6 (or perhaps even 8) places along the sides of the track there appears to be a goal, the goal consisting of a vertical area on the side of the track with a hole that looks to be maybe a foot in diameter, and surrounded by brightly colored metallics, gold, red and silver designed to attract the viewers’ attention to the scoring holes. Clearly these goals play an important role in Riderball.

Joe follows the walkway down to the locker room area and there are clearly two locker rooms, one for each team. One locker room has a large steel gray flag near the door, the center of which is a dark red Riderball® Logo along with the name of that team. Oddly, Joe cannot quite make out exactly what the name of that team is.

The other locker room has an equally large flag out front, but this time navy blue in color, with the Riderball® logo but in a creamy white color. In this case, the name of the team is easy to read, and they are the “Commandos”. Joe does not think this as particularly odd, but it is at least a little funny.

Joe enters the Commandos locker room, and discovers that there are two distinct groups of players inside, dressing and otherwise prepping for the big Riderball game set to take place. The two groups of players are called the Riders and the Defenders. Clearly, both will play a role in the game that is about to take place. Joe is initially uncertain as to which category of players he belongs, and the two groups, while playing the same game, are physically built quite differently

The Riders appear to be built like very athletic, competitive bicycle riders, big guys with huge thighs, skinny stomachs and visible six packs. Some of them are already in their gear, while others are in the process. The gear for each rider seems to consist of snug compression tees, equally snug compression shorts stretched tightly over their big thighs, and underneath the compression gear, Joe notices that every guy is wearing a jock strap with a quite obvious hard cup. The compression gear fits skin-tight and the outline of everything underneath is clearly visible.

Some of the riders are still in the process of getting into their gear. A few of the riders are laughing and complaining that the team-issued straps are too small and snug to contain themselves, and the team-issued cups are not exactly very roomy either. A couple of guys are off on the side, in what looks to be an only slightly covert effort to beat themselves off so that they are able to fit into the gear. Somehow, Joe’s attention is diverted to what some of the guys are doing. They do not seem the least bit embarrassed about doing this with their teammates right there in the locker room. It is just something some of the Riderball riders do before practically every game and all the players just accept this as being a normal part of game prep.

The Defenders form another group, and the garb worn by a defender is very different from what the riders wear. Basically, the game garb for a defender is very simple, just a brief in the team colors (navy blue with a cream-colored Riderball® Commandos logo on one side.) Interestingly, Joe thinks, the briefs worn by a Defender looks very similar to a Speedo Solar® brief, with 1 ½ or 2 inch sides.

The Defenders are built very different from the Riders, in fact. Physically they are athletic, but smaller in stature than the riders, almost as if they were part-time competitive team divers. Some of them too are laughing and complaining about how they are struggling to fit into the team briefs, with a similar complaint that the briefs are undersized so that it is difficult to fit everything in.

But the team owners know that part of the reason that there are huge crowds showing up for Riderball games is that the patrons of the sport enjoy seeing the players compete in clothing that really fits snug and tight, so the team-issued garb is purposely designed to put the players in a bit of a dilemma each week just getting themselves prepped for the big game. A couple of Defenders who are still getting into their briefs seem to be using the same tactic that the Riders were using in order to be in better shape to wear their briefs. Joe notices that the Defenders are beating themselves off too, just like the Riders are also doing, and they do not seem to be the least bit embarrassed by all of this.

Joe knows that he is a Commandos Riderball team member, but as was indicated earlier, he is initially unsure as to whether he is a Rider or a Defender.

…..To be continued

[sebbie]

Riderball has a huge following among females, and we are going to see the exact explanation why in a bit. Joe is initially not sure if he plays as a rider or as a defender. The reason for the confusion is resolved when Tom, a co-player tells Joe that he is actually a “swinger”. Some of the Riderball players can play in either position, as a bicycle-riding rider or as a swim-brief clad defender whose work is at one of the goals.

There are eight goals, and each is manned by two defenders, one for each of the teams, for a total of 16 players as defenders. But half of the defenders or four for each team are actually what are known as swingers, and sometimes these players ride bicycle in support positions as well. A swinger will commonly play the first half of the game either as a rider or as a defender, then during half time the swingers switch into the other garb and play out the remaining half in the opposite position. A swinger who starts the game as a rider will need to change into defender garb quickly while the half-time entertainment is underway. More about that entertainment and how it works during the game, too, later. What Joe now knows is that he is going to have to get out of the rider garb and quickly into his skimpy swim-brief defender garb in the middle of the game.

Joe also sees what he thinks is a strange sign in the team locker room. The sign states that “If you are having difficulty getting yourself in your team uniform, please be sure that you beat yourself off as dry as you possibly can BEFORE getting into your team competitive wear. There are cameras everywhere in the arena, including cameras that might be aimed directly at your groin area. Any “accidents” will be immediately visible to millions of viewers on the networks as well as to those in the arena seats, as this video is frequently streamed live to the big screens all around the arena not to mention that it might go out over the networks as well.”

Joe initially thinks this advice is a bit odd, but then it suddenly occurs to him that maybe that is not such bad advice. And the sign also explains what some of the rider guys are doing to themselves just before they pull on the straps and cups that are part of the competitive team wear.

Joe glances over at the defenders who are also getting into their team garb, consisting only of. skimpy swim style briefs in navy blue with the Riderball Commandos logo in a creamy white color. Joe notices that the defenders and swingers getting into their uniforms are shaved completely clean of pubic and other body hair, much like a competitive swimmer would be. Joe is starting to understand why a Riderball game has such a huge female following.

A Riderball game ball is in the team locker room. It is a most interesting ball, about 9 inches at the widest, and not exactly spherical, but not like a football, either. It is more like an ovoid in shape. It is made of a glistening clear material, probably a very sturdy clear plexiglass style of plastic. It suddenly dawns on Joe that the game ball looks nothing so much as just like a giant glistening drop of male precum! But the game ball is even more complicated. It has very bright LED bulbs inside the clear plexiglass, LED bulbs that are capable of not only shining a brilliant white but also turning on in multiple colors, red, blue, green, orange and even a golden yellow! Joe suspects that the balls are all wi fi connected to electronics contained within the scoring holes in the goals, and glistening clear the game ball shoots off in multiple colors almost like a fireworks display when a team scores.

……To be continued

[sebbie]

The big game will begin soon, and, as a swinger, Joe will be playing the first half of the game as a rider, and the second half as a defender. Joe needs to get into his rider gear, and so Joe finds his way to the team locker area. Joe finds his locker, with a big number 41 on the outside. Inside Joe’s locker is the gear that he will be wearing as a rider, and later in the game, the gear Joe will need to play in a defender position as well.

The Rider Commando logo in creamy white is on the navy blue compression tee. The Compression shorts also have the same logo on them, but in the right butt (glute) area, so the tee and the shorts match. The tee has a huge 41 in creamy white on the back. there are navy blue socks with the same logo on the tops, as well as athletic shoes in a combination of navy blue with creamy white stripes. The shoes look to be Adidas®, as there are three parallel creamy white stripes against a mostly navy blue background.

The rider gear also includes an athletic supporter (jock strap) and cup, which needs to go on before the compression shorts. Joe carefully examines the strap and how it is constructed. It is built like a conventional strap, with a 2 ½ inch wide elastic waist band a pouch made of an elastic knit material, and two conventional ¾ inch wide elastic leg straps that attach to the waistband on the sides of the front, and then to the bottom of the pouch, pulling the pouch into the correct position.

But there is also one key difference between the rider strap and a conventional strap. In addition to the two leg straps, there is a third band of elastic fabric in the middle of the back of the pouch. This band connects to the waistband at the center rear in a “Y” connection, so there are two points of attachment to the waistband. The band then goes down and gets really narrow, only about a quarter inch wide. Finally, this band attaches to the bottom center of the pouch.

Joe realizes that this is something of a “Y” thong back built into the strap, and that the narrow ¼ inch band of elastic, while stretching, is not that long. This means that the thong back will cinch up tightly between Joe’s glutes, and probably get even snugger and tighter in this regard as Joe rides.

Joe pulls on the strap and tries to get it positioned correctly, and in particular getting the Y-shaped thong back positioned correctly between his glutes. Joe swallows as he notices that the three strips of elastic are pulling the pouch upward directly behind Joe’s scrotum, in the perineum area. Joe is swallowing because this all gives an initial feeling of discomfort that is somehow morphing into a sense of pleasure.

Joe is starting to feel more than a little horny, and he now realizes why several of the riders were beating themselves off before they got into their gear. The gear is actually designed to put the riders under subtle but direct sexual tension as they play the game, and for those in the stands, this is part of what makes the sport fun to watch. Will this tension affect the ability of the riders to successfully negotiate the fast-paced track and score or not? And what about the cameras placed everywhere around the track that flash shots of anatomy of the clad riders on the big screen?

Finally, Joe pulls out the regulation cup that goes inside the pouch. That cup design is interesting too. The cup is flatter than a normal cup and only big enough to fit around a quite flaccid penis. The strap with the thong back is pushing Joe’s male anatomy upward and forward, even as the cup in its pouch is pressing the male anatomy down and back toward Joe’s groin. This is quite a dilemma. If Joe was feeling horny a few moments ago, he is feeling even hornier now.

Joe persists and gets the strap and cup in place, and he pulls on the regulation compression tee and the compression shorts. There is a mirror in the locker room. The compression gear is really light in weight, and somewhat transparent as well. In the front, the image of the hard cup is clearly outlined. Of course, Joe is feeling horny as all get out, but he knows he must persist. Joe now fully realizes that part of the appeal of the sport to the fans in the stands is that the riders are playing in gear that seems to be designed to make the players feel horny even as they play the game.

There is one of the rider bikes in the locker room too. It looks like a combination between a razing bicycle and an off road bicycle with off-road like tires that would have more traction. The larger-than-normal fenders are all decked out in the same Rider Commandos team colors of navy blue and creamy white. The bicycle seat too is shaped differently than a normal bicycle seat. It seems to be almost made to put the rider under even more pressure in the perineum area right at that point where the three straps of the supporter are sewn into the pouch.

All of the gear is designed to get the fans in the stands worked up for watching the big game, and Joe is now fully aware of exactly why this is so.

……To be continued

[sebbie]

There are 8 guys on bicycles on the track for each team at any point in the game. Two of these are known as swinger-riders, as they will be alternating position with two of the defenders for the second half . Only 6 of the 8 are allowed to actually throw the game ball into the scoring hole. The other two, who are actually the swinger-riders play something of a support role. They tend to ride near the back of the pack of riders, and if the game ball is lobbed their way, their position is to get the ball back up to one of the riders who is allowed to score by putting the game ball into the hole.

The bicycles are now waiting for each rider outside the door of the locker room. Joe finds his bicycle and gets up on the seat. Joe knows that he is feeling pretty good as he gets on the bicycle, given the fit and positioning of his game strap and cup. The sensations are only reinforced once Joe gets on the seat of the bicycle, which is curved in a special way to stimulate his perineum area. Indeed, the riders are all feeling something of a psychosexual “high” as they parade into the playing track. Joe now fully understands why this is so. The crowd in the stands is standing and cheering them on. There are, of course, star players as well as players like Joe who are more in a support role.

As the riders enter the arena, the big cameras focus on them one by one, panning toward their groin areas as each player passes by the camera. These camera shots are fed directly to the big screens placed in strategic locations throughout the arena, along with the logos of each team, the navy blue and creamy white Riderball Commandos and the steel gray and dark red Riderball Raiders. No doubt these same pictures are fed out to the TV network that is covering the game too.

Let the game begin! All of the riders are very good at what they do. The track itself is actually a clay-dirt material, definitely not smooth, which explains why the bicycles look as much like dirt bikes as racing bikes. The game ball is lobbed in the direction of Joe, and Joe is able to catch it while still maintaining his balance on the bicycle. Joe lobs the ball back toward one of the rider scorers who immediately lobs it into the hole and scores. The Raider defenders whose jobs are to lob the ball back to the Raider riders completely missed that one! Joe gets to count that score in his own stats as an assist.

When a rider scores, all sorts of things happen in the arena. The LED lights in the clear ball light up almost like fireworks, alternately red, blue green and gold. But the whole scoring board where the hole is also suddenly lights up. The game camera, of course, catch all of this and the din is captured both on the big arena screens. The crowd stands and cheers.

Scores actually happen relatively infrequently. Generally the defenders do a better job of lobbing the ball back instead of allowing the score than happened this time. And there are slow moments in game play. The TV cameras have been known to take advantage of these slow moments by panning the camera on the various players, sometimes the riders but often the defenders with their skimpy swim- brief style suits. The game cameras have been known to focus on the groin areas of the defenders, especially the defenders who appear to have an oversized bulge for some reason going on and showing well for the camera. This image gets blown up on the big screen and that happens almost invariably the crown goes into a loud cheer. The defenders know that the attention they get during the game (and perhaps their salaries too) depends in part on how these camera shots come off to the game team owners, so the incentive is to keep at least a semi hard-on all during the game.

We are now coming up on half time, and the game between the Commandos and the Raiders is tied 2 to 2. The crowd stood and cheered at every score. Joe has managed stay on his bike throughout the first half too and is getting credit for the assist on the first Commandos goal.

Joe realizes that he will need to change out of his strap, cup and compression gear for second half-play in a Commandos defender position. After what began as some initial feelings of discomfort, particularly from that wild-butt elastic thong back, Joe decides that he has rather “enjoyed” the regulation strap, cup, and how it fit his body. Joe is actually hoping that he will stay hard enough in his defenders brief such that the camera will focus occasionally on his groin area and that his body will be featured on the big screen at slow moments during the second half. Joe realizes that all of this is a key part of the sport for team fans, and has a lot to do why the network TV ratings for the sport are high. Everything fits together: A bunch of really horny guys in snug-fitting garb playing a game using a ball that looks nothing so much as like a giant glistening drop of precum!

…..To be continued

[sebbie]

Joe has been rather enjoying himself wearing his rider gear. The initial discomfort of the strap with the narrow elastic band “Y” thong back quickly dissipated, and Joe quickly found himself liking the fit and feel of the strap in his groin area. Same thing with the cup Joe was wearing. Again, after a bit of initial discomfort, the feel of the cup fitting around the length of his penis felt quite good to Joe, even as the compression shorts held everything tightly against his groin. Joe was thinking that the gear actually helped him play better, and may have been responsible for his success in the assist that happened early in the game.

Meanwhile, there was half-time entertainment on the field inside the track. The entertainers were singing while performing gymnastic floor events. There were both girls and guys wearing Brazil back suits. The crowd was getting worked into a frenzy wildly cheering on the entertainers as they showed up as well on the big screens strategically located around the arena.

But Joe knew what he had to do, and that was to get into his defenders gear for the second half of the game. Initially, Joe thought that the suits the defenders wore were very similar to a Speedo Solar ® brief, but once Joe pulls out his brief Joe quickly realizes that is not quite the case.

For starters, the brief is significantly undersized. Joe has a 32-inch waist, and the brief says 28 on the tag in the rear. The front of the brief actually has an inner panel that has two elastic rings and holes. Joe suddenly realizes why the defenders typically look so hung on camera. Joe now knows that he needs to fit his penis through the first elastic C-ring and his balls through the second. While still fully covered on the outside, it is obvious that Joe will also look quite hung as the rings tend to push his male anatomy front and forward, making Joe’s groin look very similar top how the defenders looked on camera and on the big screen earlier in the game.

Joe now fully understands that a good deal of the fan appeal of Riderball has to do with the way the players are dressed for the game, and that the big-screen camera shots are an important part of that. Of course, Joe is feeling quite horny right now, having struggled to get his male anatomy through the elastic built-in C-rings. The fact that he is at least semi-hard simply adds to all of that. Joe is actually anxious to see whether or not his groin area will be featured by a camera shot on the big screen too, and he doesn’t see any reason why not assuming he can keep from ejaculating.

The half-time entertainment is finishing up, and Joe is prepared to head out on the field and play the second half of the game as a defender.

…..To be continued

[sebbie]

Joe is now standing next to the goal he was designated to support. He has just gotten out of his strap, cup and compression gear, and is now wearing his skimpy swim-style brief with the inner panel and the elastic rings, two of them, one each for his penis and for his balls. Quite frankly, Joe is still feeling as horny as all get out as he takes his position in front of the goal. The pressure of the elastic rings snug up around his penis and balls is almost unbearable, and Joe is not only aroused but hard, quite hard.

The second half of the Riderball game has not yet even started. The cameras, passing the photos to the big screens in the arena and out to the networks, is showing the various defenders getting themselves into their respective positions right next to each of the scoring holes.

Joe is quickly getting past the point of no return with respect to his own bodily functions. He really needs to ejaculate, and the quicker the better. It is actually the cumulative effect of all the snug-fitting garb that Joe has been wearing throughout the game, the jock, the cup, the compression gear, and to top it off the skimpy briefs with the funky elastic C –rings. This all in combination is simply a whole lot more than Joe’s young body can possibly handle.

Suddenly, Joe starts shooting, and what is happening is painfully apparent on the front of his skimpy defender briefs as a giant wet spot. Even worse, it turns out that the camera is panning right to his pulsating groin inside his briefs, and the picture is immediately being shot up to the big screens in the arena, and still worse, out to the network for home viewing.

At this point, the entire arena crowd is on its feet wildly screaming and cheering Joe, painfully aware of what is happening to Joe as vividly shown in great detail on the big screens. The crowd is appalled, but also amused and even amazed at what they are seeing. Some of the young women in the crowd seem to be particularly beside themselves with what is now happening for everyone to see.

Joe suddenly awakens from his vivid Riderball dream, still lying in his dorm room bed but now in a full scale ejaculation inside the strap and cup, and compression gear he wore to bed. Semen is dripping outside the strap and cup and is forming various dart wet spots in locations on his compression shorts. This powerful ejaculation seemed to start almost exactly when the camera panned over Joe’s groin area in the dream. The dream was almost too much for Joe.

Joe now lies in bed, still wearing his strap, cup and now semen-spotted compression gear, wondering what his next step will be.

Sebbie wonders what the next steps for both Joe and Bill will be too, and is planning on taking a few days off to contemplate what should happen next. Joe’s erotic Riderball dream took a lot out of Sebbie, too.

…To be continued, possibly.

[sebbie]

Bill is now obviously awake too, and he senses that Joe must have had a wild night. The conversation goes something like this:

Joe: “I just had the wildest dream!”

Bill: “You too, huh!”

Joe “Yup! I’m trying to figure this out.”

Bill: “Figure what out?”

Joe: Well, I have never had an erotic dream as wild as this one. And I am trying to figure out if what I was wearing going to bed had something to do with how the story line in the dream went.”

Bill: “You mean the strap, cup and compression gear you were wearing.”

Joe:”Yup”

Bill: “I’ve been thinking about that. You realize dreams often incorporate things that are actually going on in your life, but then sometimes head off in all sorts of strange new directions.”

Joe: “You mean that the dream content was conditional on what I was actually feeling in my groin area?”

Bill: “Exactly”

Joe: “Well, it sure was a wild dream, but one thing was really odd.”

Bill: “What was that?”

Joe: “I was wearing my strap, cup and compression gear, but things really started to happen in my dream AFTER I pulled that gear off and tried getting into the really snug swimming brief.

Bill: “Was the brief exactly like the one you bought at the sporting goods store?”

Joe: “Well, not exactly”

Bill: “What do you mean?”

Joe: “Well there were these elastic rings built into the inner liner, and I had to pull my penis and balls through them. That was the point in the dream where I ejaculated.”

Bill: “WOW”

Joe: “All I know for sure is that I have never enjoyed myself so much as I did last night.

…To be continued

[sebbie]

Joe's and Bill’s dorm room is only about a block away from the student gym, there to help the college students keep in shape after eating so much dorm cafeteria food :-)

The gym is set up with a lot of different exercise equipment, and is ringed by a short indoor running track. There is a small lap there pool too, and of course, the usual collection of exercise equipment—several treadmills, a couple weight machines and even three rowing machines.

Neither Bill nor Joe had availed themselves of the opportunities the gym provided, and both were starting to put on what is sometimes referred to as the freshman weight gain brought about by the combination of dorm cafeteria food, too many soft drinks, and basically spending most of the daily routine either just sitting in class or lying in the dorm room studying.

The gym seemed to provide a welcome break from the studying and the dorm cafeteria food.

“I have an idea” said Joe. “Let’s wear our compression gear, straps and cups to the gym”

“But it’s October, “ Bill said. “Isn’t it rather cold for that?”

“But Bill…we can put our items on and then pull some swear pants and a sweatshirt over the gear. Then when we get to the gym, we can pull of the sweatshirts and sweatpants, and work out in our gear”

Bill thought that was a fine idea. That way, he could decide whether he was willing to appear in public wearing his compression gear AFTER he got to the gym.

Joe said “Bill I think you already know how much I have ‘enjoyed’ wearing the
gear you helped me get out at the sporting goods store. You introduced me to something I had never known existed before.”

Bill said “That is much the same way I felt when I first got into the gear.”

Bill and Joe both thought some about exactly what they were going to wear for their gym workout. They were both excited about the idea of wearing their straps and cups, but neither was certain they wanted to be bare butted. In that case the compression shorts might be a bit transparent. So they quickly decided that the best solution was to wear their straps and cups over a pair of tighty-whiteys. That way, their butts would be fully covered, and yet the outlines of their straps and cups would be visible, but not TOO obvious.

“I really like how that cup fits me” thought Joe. The snug fit against his groin seemed at first to be a bit uncomfortable, but then his penis suddenly realizes that there is something surrounding it, something almost immovable. A guy’s penis responds to that situation the only way it knows how to respond. It starts to become not only more aware of the presence of the cup, but more sensitive to the sensation as well, expanding if only a little bit. It is not long before Joe is feeling pangs of pleasure in his groin area as his brain starts to become aware of what is happening to him down there. These sensations at the start very subtle and transparent, but quickly become less subtle and more attention grabbing. Joe wondered if Bill experienced the same thing, but he was’t quite confident enough to ask him.

Joe wondered what would happen if he made an effort to exercise wearing this gear exactly what would happen to his body. Joe finally concluded that the only way to find out was to “subject” his body to the situation and see what happens.

Bill had some of the same questions. Bill was thinking about much the same things Joe was thinking.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe, both 19, and both were still struggling with their bodies and what was happening to them. Now being 19 years of age and a long ways from puberty (heck, that happened just prior to their 12th birthdays. For both of them their first real orgasms were this crazy mixture of terror and nearly unbridled pleasure. For both, that first orgasm was indelibly imprinted on their respective brains. How could something be so terrifying at the same time it was so much fun? Heck, that very combination of fear and joy tends to haunt sexual experiences in all their forms, throughout life. At least, throughout life, pretty much.

A complicating factor, of course is that sexual pleasure and sexual relationships are linked, often, maybe most often, in complicated ways. That is one thing to be concerned about. Does sexual pleasure have to somehow be connected to a partner?

Now THERE is a weighty question, and particularly weighty for a couple of 19 year old guys who think of themselves as being straight as in ruler straight. Bill and Joe both think of themselves as being interested in girls, but obviously neither is in a relationship with a girl, let alone a sexual relationship.

But their bodies keep doing strange things to their brains. At least, that is how it seems (feels?) right now. It wasn’t long after puberty till Joe and Bill both discovered that ANY pressure, sometimes only very slight, could end up feeling really good in the groin area. And further, whatever sensations experienced in the groin area were then immediately transferred to the brain. And the most interesting thing about being a guy is that these pleasant sensations may very well begin well before an erection starts to form.

Guys after puberty quickly discover that as the penis hardens and becomes erect, the nerve endings in the penis become more sensitive to any sort of touch or pressure. This is the basic idea that drives guys to develop techniques that produce the strongest and hardest erections possible. It is only later, and more gradually, that guys discover that their penises are able to do a whole lot more than that in terms of producing deliciously pleasant sensations even prior to when an erection starts to form.

What Bill and Joe have discovered, somewhat by accident is that a hard jock cup can do very interesting thing’s to a guy’s penis. Psychologically, it is, well, interesting for a guy to have his penis confined into an area that is, well, just a little snug. Obviously, this is a key part of what makes partner sex interesting and fun. But without a convenient partner, it still can be really interesting to have your penis in a confined space that will put pressure on a guy’s penis if it expands, if even only a little.

Most guys think of this as being in a precum mode, where glistening individual drops of perfectly clear precum form at the tip of the penis, one by one. Often, this happens to guys involuntarily, and the only thing that needs to happen is for a guy to think about the possibility that his penis will be in a confined space.

So, as Bill and Joe are getting into their straps, cups, compression shorts and tee shirts, a lot of interesting things are happening in their brains and bodies. The direct pressure from the strap and cup (purposely chosen as undersized so that any erection will press against the sides and top of the cup). Then the compression gear makes certain that the cup fits up tight against their respective groins.

Bill and Joe get into their gear as described. Then they each pull on sweatpants and a sweatshirt over for the walk to the gym. Now Joe knows that the gear is starting to make him precum…he can feel a damp spot forming inside the cup near the tip of the penis. Joe feels really good at this point, despite the fact that the walk to the gym and the subsequent workout may lead to more issues. Moving arould is going to cause the penis to slide around inside the cup, with more interesting sensations to be evaluated and enjoyed.

Bill is having the same “problems” in his gear that Joe is having. Bill suspects Joe is “enjoying” himself. Joe suspects that Bill is “enjoying” himself as well. They look at each other but neither says a thing. This is an interesting moment, realizing that a guy next to you is precumming and experiencing something really interesting, sexually. It’s not a gay moment, or is it? What will happen on the walk to the gym? At the workout?

If you stop and think about it, what I am describing here is the same force that drives guys into purchasing all manner of clothing items that puts penises in a confined space. Swim briefs, snug-fitting underwear of various kind, even snug-fitting jeans. Whatever sets off the precumming is what works. Most guys know about his, but few ever discuss it with anyone.

Where will this all lead for Bill and Joe? Keep reading.

…To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe were both starting to feel pretty good. Neither said anything, but whatever it was certainly was starting to happen to their bodies. Most guys know the feeling quite well. They might be just thinking about other things, their daily activities, and all of a sudden it hits them. This can be really subtle, at least at first.

Of course, both Bill and Joe had set themselves up exactly for this to happen, from the first moment they even started to think about dressing for their trip to the student gym. Both Bill and Joe had gone through similar experiences involving complicated but on occasion delicious erotic dreams, brought about in large measure because of what they wore to bed. This seemed a little, well, silly, but there was no denying that the situation they had put their respective bodies into was, well, certainly most interesting.

And how did this all begin? Well, there was that trip to the sporting goods store, where they both ended up buying swim briefs, compression shorts and tees, along with straps holding confining and slightly undersized cups. What motivated that? Well, at some deep level the real motivation was that these items would end up being turn-ons. Straps, in particular, have a way of “getting” to guy’s brains, along with the delicious ‘agony” of having a guy’s penis confined inside a hard cup. Compression gear, not only the shorts but even the tee shirts, "help" with all of this.

I guess the vast majority of guys, if not every guy, knows well the exact sensations I am talking about here. Of course, every guy knows the feeling when his penis hardens and grows in size. But I am talking about something much more subtle than that. It’s a subtle feeling of tension that grabs a guy’s attention well before there is any obvious change in the length and hardness of his penis. It’s subtle, sometimes overlooked, but a very important sensation in the range of feelings and experiences a guy has that involves his male sexuality.

Bill and Joe have been learning the nuances of all of this with a great deal of intensity, lately. There was, of course, the trip to the sporting goods store, and the sensation of feeling a little damp spot on their underwear righ at the tips of their penises even as they were shopping for their gear. This was part of what made the shopping trip so much fun: The discovery of the gear and then the anticipation of how they would feel once they got into the gear.

Now Bill and Joe were doing something different. They were going to be walking to the gym clad in all of their snug-fitting gear, and then, presumably work out in it.

But Bill and Joe were still these “modest” college freshmen, and in order to make the trip to the gym they pulled on their gear but put sweatpants and a sweatshirt over what they were wearing. They were both covered up, but the gear, the compression tee and shorts, straps and cups were still very much there and clinging tightly to their bodies. The tricky part was going to be just walking to the gym in all that stuff. Bill and Joe both knew that would not be easy, and they were likely going to end up precumming, maybe a lot, inside the sug-fitting straps and cups firmly gripping their respective groins because of the tight-fitting compression shorts. Even more interesting, Bill knew pretty well what must be happening to Joe, and Joe knew pretty much what was happening to Bill, and this knowledge made the entire experience even more interesting for both of them.

Guys have this “love-hate” relationship with precumming whenever it happens. They love how they feel psychologically when it happens, but they also live in constant worry that the precumming will soon lead to a full-blown erection with an ejaculation. So guys invariably end up being elated, but at the same time, a little scared. What a weird combination of feelings.

Of course, Bill and Joe have set this up so that when they get to the gy,m there is no law that says they must strip down to their compression gear for their workouts. If this seems too risky, they can always keep their sweat gear on over the top and no one will be the wiser.

The walk to the gym was relatively uneventful as the guys straps and cups rubbed gently against their penises as they walked along the sidewalk to the gym. They opened the door of the gym and greeted some of the other students there. They headed to the locker room and found some spare lockers suitable for their sweat gear. Next time, they needed to bring along their own padlocks to use on these lockers, but everything was quiet and this wasn’t really necessary.

Bill and Joe stashed their sweat gear and looked at themselves in the mirror. Whatever precumming had happened was nicely being contained in the cloth of their straps and there were no quarter-sized damp spots on their compression shorts. That was a relief! Of course, the outlines of the straps and cups were clearly visible under the tight-fitting compression shorts, but just an outline, and no damp spots.

Bill and Joe pop out of the locker room clad in their compression gear and start to head over to some of the gym equipment. And who should they run into but Dylan. You remember Dylan as the dorm mate who ran into them that wild night when they were heading to the dorm bathroom in their compression gear.

Dylan, clad in cotton shorts and a cotton tee said “Nice gear you have there!”

Bill and Joe did not give a verbal response, but simply smiled, a bit uneasily. They had been counting on not running into anyone they knew.

…To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe were very surprised to see someone that they knew, just as they both emerged wearing only their compression gear (straps and cups). But there he was. Dylan, the same guy they had run into wearing their gear when they made the trek from their dorm room to the dorm hall men’s bathroom.

“Good Looking workout gear, guys” Dylan said to them with just a bit of a twinkle in his eye. Truth is, Dylan liked the look of what they were wearing very much, and was wondering how similar gear would look and feel on him. Interestingly, there are a lot of guys out there who secretly have many of the same feelings and thoughts that Dylan has. They see guys dressed in snug-fitting athletic gear. Its not that these guys are gay, necessarily, or even showing their gay side, but they are very much curious as to how their bodies would react if they were put in a situation wearing such gear.

No two guys are exactly the same in this regard. Some guys would probably just take this all in stride and not even give it so much as a second thought. But other guys, well, the outcomes might be different, so to speak. Very few guys are not at least somewhat interested, psychologically, in what happens to their brains when their penises are in a confined space, irrespective of exactly what that space might be. Dylan in this respect is no different from either Bill or Joe or most other guys, except of course that Bill and Joe are wearing the gear to an actual workout. Deep down, in this regard, Dylan admires Bill and Joe and the situation that they are both in. Exactly where this will all lead will likely be interesting to see for sure, except to say that Dylan’s mind is also wide awake in this regard.

Bill and Joe, meanwhile, are surveying the gym area. There is an assortment of workout equipment in the gym, as you can imagine, several treadmills with video screens, four stationary bikes, six weight lifting machines, and even three stationary rowing machines. Down the hall was the 50 meter lap pool. All and all, quite a set of gym equipment available for their use. Bill and Joe are also thinking about how each particular piece of equipment will work in relation to the gear they are wearing, especially the snug-fitting straps and cups. They both know that once a guy gets his penis placed inside a cup, things can seem quite “normal” but only if the cup remains perfectly still in relation to the penis. Any movement of the cup in relation to the penis can set up a situation, well, at least most guys know what I am talking about here.

Part of this is physical, but part is also psychological, as in the knowledge that if the penis expands within the confined space, it may want to enlarge more than the available space permits. Physically, this can be interesting, but it can be psychologically interesting as well. The mere knowledge that the needed space may not be available sets up a psychological situation that can be just a tough chary, but can be quite interesting as well. The poor guy’s penis is bombarded with direct but subtle sensations of confinement and a lack of all the necessary needed space.

Now penises are smart appendages, and they realize that if not all of the desired space is available compromises of sorts will need to be made in order to just fit within the space is available. But the key phrase here is “just fit”.

Then there is the matter of the exercise equipment. Bill and Joe are going to be riding an exercise bike while their penises are tightly within a limited amount of space. With each turn of the cycle, the cup is going to not only press against the penis, but also move slightly in relation to the penis. Exactly how this all sorts itself out in an exercise routine on a stationary bike could prove to be most interesting, to say the least.

Dylan realizes that Bill and Joe are not wearing their compression shorts over just nothing. He can see the clear outline of various parts of the strap under the compression shorts of both guys. He thinks they must be wearing hard cups too, but that is less clear. What Dylan knows is that whatever it actually is that Bill and Joe are wearing has piqued his curiosity, but do remember that Dylan also was curious that night he ran into the two in the dorm as they were wandering out to the hall bathroom.

Bill and Joe soon decide that the first piece of exercise equipment they want to try out are two of the stationary bikes. What will happen. Now keep in mind that their compression shorts and tees are not out of place for at least a somewhat serious bike rider. But do bike riders routinely wear straps with hard cups? Good question!

…To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe were never anything close to being high school athletes, but that doesn’t mean that they are unconcerned about possibly looking like dorks in the college gym. In that regard, an interesting topic is te whole issue of what guys who are wearing compression shorts should wear underneath. I have done a little Web research on that topic. Since Bill and Joe are going to be riding bikes, albeit stationary bikes, an interesting question is whether serious bike riders wear anything under the compression cycling shorts while riding.

Now real cycling shorts have padding, called the chamois, in the butt to help alleviate chafing. The question is whether a guy should wear underwear or maybe a strap underneath. The bike riding guys uniformly say “no”. The underwear will reduce the effectiveness of the chamois as well as the effectiveness of the compression material in wicking sweat away.

But Bill and Joe are not wearing real cycling shorts with padding, but standard compression shorts with no padding. So an additional layer between the butt and the stationary bike seat might prove helpful. The problem is that the strap the guys are wearing has no butt cloth. An interesting question is will the guys still be comfortable on the bike.

Your author routinely wears compression gear both for stationary bike riding as well as for rowing, but I have almost always worn a pair of tighty whiteys underneath, with typically a strap, and often a cup worn over. I’ve found that to be not only comfortable, but often providing some interesting groin area sensations while working out. Maybe if I were outdoors on a real cycle on a hot-and-humid day I would feel otherwise, but this works fine for indoor workouts of the type Bill and Joe are doing.

I will admit that the gear does provide sensations some of which are physical but some psychological. I love the feel of being “contained” snugly within the strap and cup while working out, and the interesting sensations make the workout time speed by. Bill and Joe are presumably discovering many of the same things I have discovered. For guys that are somehow “scared” to experiment this way with their bodies I think you are perhaps missing out on something that could be a real source of pleasure.

I know many of you must think I have forgotten that Bill and Joe have a swimming pool available to them at the Gym, and they both have pairs of swim briefs they bought at the big-box sporting goods store. Both Bill and Joe swim, although not well. What remains to be seen is to whether or not they will dare wear the swim briefs they bought at the pool.

There are certainly lots of unanswered questions here.

….To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe are fooling around with something that is really interesting, and learning things that could be important and useful to both of them in their entire adult lives. One of these things is learning more about exactly what makes them feel, in slang, “feel horny”.

A lot of guys would say that they already completely understand the answer to that. My only response to that is to say ah sure, that is what YOU think!” Even guys just past puberty know that what happens is just a heck of a lot more complicated than that, involving all sorts of weird feelings and sensation that seem to happen at what are seen as “inopportune” circumstances, times and places.

By the time a guy reaches young adulthood, say the 18 or 19 as is the case for Bill and Joe, they have already come to grips with a lot of this. I suspect that every guy, buried in his brain somewhere, has an indelible mental “list” of things that happened involving them and the actions of their penises, often “inadvertently” and the circumstances, place and time when each event happened. At the top of this list are situations where an erection occurred in a public or semi-public place (such as a gym locker room with other guys wandering around) which in turn leads to a full-scale uncontrollable ejaculation complete with a big wet semen stain. For a teen guy, this has to be nearly the most embarrassing event ever and gets etched into the mind forever.

But, by the time a guy gets to be 18 or 19, he has probably learned at least something about ejaculatory control so that these kinds of out-of-control events occur far less frequently, if at all. Bill and Joe at this point in their lives, certainly know SOMETHING about ejaculatory control, that is, delaying a full-scale orgasm until they are in a good “situation” to get off, in the early teen years, with a degree of privacy, or “with a favorite girl”.

Learning ejaculatory control is, well, I’ve often thought, is about as interesting as it gets. This is due in part to the opposing forces at work. It has always seemed to me that the more the mind wants to tell the body that I really do not want to ejaculate right now because this is not an appropriate time or place, the more the body keeps telling the mind “but I really NEED to!” “but I really NEED to!” These opposing forces, the mental effort by the guy to delay orgasm counterbalanced by the building physical sensation on needing to drive many guys absolutely bananas, and are the real source of terror about a guy’s sexual being. It is as if the penis is playing a game of its own with the mind, and the penis is playing to win.

Let us think about Bill and Joe’s situation at their current age versus what would have likely happened had they done the same thing at, say, age12 or 13. Had I been 12 or 13 and been “required” to wear the gear that Bill and Joe are wearing, I would have likely gone into a full-scale erection and orgasm lightning fast. I’m not sure that I would have even been able to get myself into the cup, strap and compression gear at that age before that happened. Think about the gear and the situation. In retrospect, at that age, had I known what I know now, I would have silently been clamoring to get the same gear anyway. That is what is loopy about sexual turn-ons at that age. A guy wants to avoid these situations while quietly seeking them out at the same time. How weird!

But Bill and Joe are obviously young adults and in complete control of their bodies. Yah sure! They both were able to get into their gear and make the short walk to the gym without going into an orgasm. Now they have to confront the various gym machines, not to mention encountering Dylan who seems more than a little “interested” in what the guys are wearing. But more about Dylan and Dylan’s possible “hang-ups” later. For now, Dylan is simply a quiet “observer” of all of this.

Now Bill and Joe are contemplating getting on the stationary bike. The strap and cup are obviously held tightly against the groin with the cup fitting snugly around the top of the penis. Now, with each cycle of the pedals on the bike, that same cup cannot remain stationary. Instead, it is going to have to slide, if even by only a small amount, in relation to the penis securely contained within. Just the THOUGHT of this happening can be a turn-on, without the physical sensation of the cup moving back and forth along the penis. Of course, there will be some physical sensation from all of this as well.

Penises do what penises do. When the penis senses this movement surrounding it, generally there is a response which involves a clear tensing up sensation with increased blood flow which means that the penis is going to gradually press more firmly against the walls of the cup. These sensations all work together, making each cycle of the bike wheel more and more pleasant.

It is at least very difficult, if not impossible, to go into a full-blown orgasm while confined inside of the cup. Part of the problem is that the physical sensations from the cup walls are very subtle. Maybe more important is that there is just not enough room to get into a full-blown erection. Still, the urge to ejaculate keeps building with each pedal cycle. The entire workout can be very enjoyable, to say the least.

….To be continued

[sebbie]

Neither Joe nor Bill were big on working out in high school. The whole idea of going regularly to the student gym is a novel idea for them. But they both decided that developing a regular workout schedule would be helpful in dealing with the pressures of study and daily college life. Why not? Plus, both of their bodies could use the exercise. Not that either Bill or Joe are significantly overweight: they aren’t. But, both of them are carrying a bit more flab than they would like, flab they hope to turn into muscle.

College can be funny. Some of the “rules” guys applied in high school are the same as in college, but many aren’t. With respect to dress for what was known in high school as physical education, or phys ed for short, the males followed what I would call the “herd instinct” rule. For a high school student in a phys ed class, you want to make sure that what you are wearing is identical or nearly identical to what the other guys appear to be wearing. In the high schools Bill and Joe attended, this meant basically cotton or poly-blend shorts, loose-fitting that extended down to cover the knee area. The top was always a loose fitting, oversized tee, often with a logo or silly statement in big lettering on the front.

There are unwritten ‘rules in high school that are rigid as well. Guys wore loose fitting boxer shorts, not quite as long to the knee as the outer garment, but close to that. All the guys wore those. The rule may have been unwritten, but was still very much in place.

In college, Bill and Joe, in wearing their compression tees and shorts, had already “violated” a key rule from high school.

One of the interesting aspects of going to a student gym in part is to see exactly what the other guys are wearing for workouts. Obviously, the “rules” that apply are somewhat different, and maybe looser and more flexible than they were in high school. To be sure, some of the guys are wearing cotton/poly shorts that extend to their knees. A few more are clad in sweat pants.

But there are two guys who are wearing something very different from either of these, what appears to be wrestling singlets, with the white “asics®” logo on the lower left leg. One of these is in black: the other on navy blue. What are these guys, anyway? Freshman members of the college wrestling team?

It turns out no. But they are freshman members of the college ROWING Team. Now the rowing team has their own gym equipment but it is a mile (or more) across campus from the freshman dorm. It turns out, the two rowing team members, Donovan and Tony, live in the same dorm that Bill and Joe live, but on the second, not the first floor.

Appropriate garb for a team rower is very similar to wrestling garb. In fact, many competitive rowers wear wrestling gear for working out. A wrestling singlet fits much the same way as compression shorts like Bill and Joe are wearing, with some key differences. A wrestling siglet is one piece not two piece with straps that pull the singlet snug in the groin area and go up over the shoulders.

Of course, one basic idea in rowing is to attempt to develop muscular and powerful shoulders. To the extent that the workout is successful, the shoulder build will mean that the straps of the singlet will snug the singlet up ever tighter into the groin area and buttocks. Rowing also tends to peal off any fat or flabbiness in the buttocks, resulting in a tighter looking butt not to mention the singlet snugging up in the crack between the buttocks. So the rower soon starts to look quite athletic, broad shoulders, tight butt, strong thighs all accentuated by the wrestling singlet. Joe and Bill are making mental notes of all of this as Tony and Donovan begin their 30 minute workouts on two of the rowing machines.

The stationary bike will accomplish some of this, most notably building muscle n the thigh area. But stationary bikes do nothing for the shoulders. Joe and Bill start to become very interested in what Donovan and Tony are doing. Meanwhile, Dylan is quietly watching all of this too, and taking note of how fit Tony and Donovan are.

….To be continued

[sebbie]

A wrestling singlet makes perfect sense as workout garb for a competitive rower. Unlike what Bill and Joe have been wearing, basically a compression tee along with a separate pair of compression shorts, a wrestling singlet, like the ones Tony and Donavon are wearing is all one piece.

Bill and Joe have always admired the “swimmers build” of young athletes their age, but the path to getting there is not always clear. The so-called swimmers build is common to 19 year old male competitive swimmers. I guess the key characteristics of a swimmers build would be 1. Low body fat, 2. Narrow waist, typically around 30 inches 3. Broad shoulders, 4. Large lateral muscles or lats, giving the chest a distinct triangular shape uncommon in non-athletes, and 5.tight (6-pack) revealing abdominal muscles. Strong swimmers often also have oversized thigh muscles too, although these are most common with competitive divers.

All of this is possible using swimming as the main exercise. But any competitive swimmer nowadays spend nearly as much time working out in the gym and weight room than in the pool. The gym work builds particularly the upper body chest, shoulders and related muscles necessary to swim fast.

A lot of this is the same, pretty much for college-level competitive rowers. Like swimming, competitive rowing is very much a full body exercise, but if anything is even more of a workout for the upper body, shoulders, lats, abs and thigh muscles. Given this, competitive rowing could be a faster and steadier route to a swimmers build than competitive swimming. Rowing really puts the emphasis on building the shoulders and upper body.

Wrestling singlets provide a fun fit, at least as snug as the compression gear that Bill and Joe are wearing, with one important difference. They are one piece, and are held in place via shoulder straps. The rowing exercise builds shoulders, and as shoulder muscles grow, the shoulder straps have to go up over progressively bigger and stronger shoulders. And as this happens, the wrestling singlet is going to. keep pressing up tighter and snugger into the groin area. This is, well, interesting as more and more pressure will be placed on a guy’s private parts, and the more the guy works out, the snugger this is going to get.

A related issue is what, if anything, does a competitive rower wear under the singlet, underwear, a strap or maybe nothing at all. If nothing at all, the singlet is going to be at least as revealing of body parts as any simmers jammer. An interesting topic top research on the Web is what is the recommended wear for under compression gear, whether the gear is shorts, cycling gear, or a wrestling singlet. There seems to be little agreement on this.
What is happening now is that Tony and Donovan are standing there getting ready to do a workout of the stationary rowing machines at the gym. Bill and Joe are engaging Tony and Donovan in a pleasant conversation, but silently checking out what they are wearing and how it fits on their “rowers’ bodies. Both Bill and Joe are thinking exactly the same thing, as in “I want to get myself one of those.” Meanwhile, Dylan too is starting to think that this is exactly where he wants to be too.

None of what is going on is lost on any of the participants. Nor is the “rower’s body” lost on them. Need to make another visit to the big-box sporting goods store. Maybe Dylan would like to go along on the trip.

….To be continued

[sebbie]

It’s funny how all of this works! Guys frequently like to act as if they are completely oblivious as to what clothes other guys are wearing, and this is doubly true when what the other guys are wearing is made of a Lycra/Spandex fabric, and fits really tight. Of course, every guy is keenly aware of anything that fits really snug in the groin area. All of this is learned at a very early age, perhaps before puberty when the guy is only 8 or 10 years old, maybe earlier. Guys just learning that their penises are sensitive to touching and rubbing get this (crazy?) idea that wearing clothing that fits snuggly around their penises, particularly a slick-and-stretchy fabric, might generate some interesting and fun feelings as well. So a lot of guys at a very early age go on a quest to find clothing that will stimulate them in these ways, something as an experiment, of sorts. Of course, guys are also almost invariably reluctant (embarrassed) to admit that they have these interests to their parents or to their peer males of similar age. That is part of what makes the entire situation so interesting but also more than a bit scary.

By the time a guy reaches the age of Bill, Joe, Tony and Donovan, they have already probably had the opportunity to run an assortment of different experiments involving their bodies and snug-fitting clothing of various kinds. Finally away from their parents, college guys have the opportunity to try some stuff that they were likely too embarrassed to try when they were living at home. Sometimes, the idea of having a dorm room roommate there on a constant basis makes college guys reluctant to do as much experimenting with all of this as they might be interesting in doing if they were living alone. Bill and Joe obviously got over this and worked their way out of any inhibitions they might have initially had about revealing all of this to each other as dorm room roommates. A lot of the inhibitions relate to the guy’s often deeply hidden beliefs that these interests might suggest to the roommate that the guy is a closeted gay person.

So, here is the problem or issue. Nearly every guy is deeply curious about the entire issue of whether or not his feelings, and ultimately sexual orientation is the same or not the same as that of his peer males. This rather drives everything a teen male thinks about and does in this regard. One of the key components of all of this is whether or not the other guys get the same or similar sensations and are struggling with the same problems or issues such as erections at inopportune or inappropriate times, the occasional ejaculation as a consequence, etc. etc. The clothing issue relates to whether the other guys are all able to tolerate getting into certain clothing items but I am not…jock straps, brief style swimwear , compression shorts, and now wrestling and rowing singlets. Guys always find it interesting to quietly observe the others guys getting into these kinds of gear in part to determine exactly whether or not the other guys have each resolved the potential problems at hand, in particular, observed evidence of erections, drops of pre cum etc etc. Or does all of this somehow get resolved and as the guy reaches young adulthood, all of this is somehow disappears, attention turns instead to increasing interest in finding a specific partner for sexual stuff. In short, as a guy reaches adulthood, all of this stuff regarding snug-fitting clothing perhaps gradually becomes less and less important.

Maybe, but Maybe not. Bill and Joe were certainly observing Tony and Donovan in their rowing singlets, all of them. Nearly every guy irrespective of sexual orientation has this side of fascination with how the other guy’s penis is faring in snug fitting clothing and what might be happening to the other guy as a consequence, and the rowing singlet is something new, something neither Bill nor Joe in their young lives had ever observed before. Bill and Joe are also wondering about how their own bodies would fare in a rowing singlet.

Bill and Joe are now asking Tony and Donovan where they got their singlets, clearly wondering where they found them. Tony’s response:

“These are tough to find in the sporting goods stores. Mine is an asics branded singlet. They are readily available on Amazon on line.”

Now Bill and Joe need to figure out how to place an Amazon order from their dorm room, and get he singlets put on a credit card, and delivered to their room. Certainly this is not something that either of them would want to mail to their permanent home addresses.

Meanwhile Dylan has been quietly watching all of this, saying nothing. Dylan is no different from any other guy his age with many of the same thoughts and ideas racing through his head. Dylan is “interested” too about what he thinks might be going on with the others, but maybe just a little scared too. But he is also starting to get “ideas” in his head.

…..To be continued

[sebbie]

This is one of those great mysteries of being a human being, and Joe, Bill, Tony and Donovan are finding themselves right in the middle of it. Herein also might be the key to understanding an important element of how human sexuality works at its most basic level, straight, gay or somewhere in between. The picture we have here is of four college-age guys working out at the student gym, all wearing snug-fitting clothing, clothing that might instantaneously reveal what is happening with their anatomy. For each, a significant erection is going to be quite obvious as the outline will clearly show to everyone seeing them at the gym.

Even more fascinating is the idea that without an erection, if the guy is at all sexually focused, drops of precum are going to be forming, drops that have no place to go except to form a wet stain on the snug-fitting Lycra/Spandex garments. No wait, Joe and Bill are wearing their straps and cups under their compression shorts. This should prevent stains from forming even while creating an interesting shape under the Lycra where their penises should be. But what about Tony and Donovan? What, if anything are they wearing underneath their rowing singlets? Good question! This deserves further “research” for sure.

Some guys are perhaps secretly “interested” in all of this and in particular what is going on in the heads and bodies of the other guys wearing snug-fitting garments, but other guys claim not at all. I think that this all has to do with the straight-gay continuum of human sexuality. The guys at the far straight end of the straight side at least claim that what is going on this the guys around them in these respects, and only get sexual pleasure in relation to the female anatomy.

But other guys might not be as certain. How would you react if you had observed that a college buddy wearing a wrestling singlet or compression short was clearly staining them with drops of precum. If you were wearing similar garb, would what you are wearing remain unstained if you KNEW this was happening to your college bud. (How do you react to noticing that your male college bud was masturbating while lying in the dorm bed across the room from you? Is this a turn-on for you or are you somehow offended?) What if both of you are claiming to be straight? Is your reaction to want to go into masturbation mode yourself, or not? Quite a dilemma to deal with, for sure.

Maybe this whole subject of what is straight versus gay versus someplace in between not clear at all. Maybe only a few of the guys who claim to be perfectly straight are truly unaffected by what is going on with the males at the gym around them. Maybe none? Maybe most, if absolutely not every guy, would at least secretly “enjoy” finding themselves in the situation Tony, Donovan, Bill and Joe now find themselves in studying each other and what is happening to their bodies. Maybe nearly every guy has a secret “gay” side in this respect, a side that reveals a sexual fascination in certain aspects of other guys. Meanwhile, I am unable to imagine any guy who claims to be even a little gay not enjoying the situation of the four.

These are not dumb questions for sure. They are profound questions. Ponder them.

To be continued……

[sebbie]

Meanwhile, clad in a loose-fitting tee shirt and equally loose fitting cotton shorts that extend nearly to his knees, Dylan, the dorm mate has been quietly watching all of this, and way feel down starting to wonder a lot about how he might look and feel clad in something more snug and form-fitting. Truth is, the clothes being worn by Tony, Donovan, Bill and Joe are starting to have something of a psychological impact on Dylan. Truth is, Dylan had started thinking about this that night in the dorm when he encountered Bill and Joe wandering down the dorm hallway between the men’s bathroom and their dorm room. The effect of seeing Joe and Bill clad in the snug-fitting compression gear is really subtle, at least at first, but the visual has been growing on Dylan. Somehow, Dylan can’t get out of his mind how he might look and feel wearing similar items.

Dylan had never really thought about this before, at least not for any significant period of time. Like Bill and Joe, Dylan had always considered himself to be ruler-straight, and certainly not at all interested in guys as sexual partners. But suddenly Dylan is caught up in something he did not think could happen to him. His mind keeps wandering over into thinking about how the four other guys at the gym are feeling clad in all of this snug-fitting gear. He is asking himself the question “What is happening to these guys, both physically and psychologically?” Asking himself these questions over and over is doing funny things to Dylan, things that Dylan is not really yet willing to admit are happening. Just looking at the other guys clad in their gear is affecting Dylan’s brain in a funny way, and Dylan is starting to feel something in his groin area now too. This is quickly leading to the idea that Dylan wants to get some of the same kind of workout gear the other guys are wearing. But how is he going to pull this all off? Dylan is starting to explore a side of his being that he did not realize existed before. Specifically, there are instances where supposedly straight guys can get aroused by just seeing other guys.

Meanwhile, Bill and Joe are facing their own dilemma, clad in their compression tees and shorts with their straps underneath. Bill and Joe both quickly realize that the singlets Tony and Donovan are wearing represent another level of what they have been doing with their compression tees and shorts. Tony and Donovan are encouraging Bill and Joe to keep ramping it up, by making some on-line purchases of wrestling/rowing singlets. Bill and Joe think that is, well, at least an interesting idea to pursue. But how?

Another puzzle Bill and Joe are trying to figure out is what Tony and Donovan wear UNDER the singlets. Are they commando? It’s pretty obvious to Tony and Donovan that Bill and Joe are wearing straps underneath their compression shorts. The outline of the leg straps extending diagonally across their butts, and the slight bulges from the cups are pretty obvious to anyone who looks. But Tony and Donovan have no obvious leg straps or cups, yet they do not appear exactly to be commando underneath either. Something is keeping them from having a clear penis outline under the singlets, but what?

Yes, but what? Bill decides that the only way to resolve this one is to simply blurt out “Tony and Donovan, what do you wear under those Singlets?”

Tony responds: “Well, we tried various ideas on that, plain old cotton briefs, a Lycra swim brief, but nothing we tried seemed to work as well as what we finally found.”

Bill: “What was that?”

Tony: “Why, what works the best is a pair of thong underwear for men. The pouch keeps our male anatomy in place and covered , and the single strap in the rear slides right between our glutes. The feel is a great sensation when we are rowing, either on the water or on a machine at the gym. The thong makes our rowing time pass quickly (hee hee).

Dylan is also quietly taking this all in, even as his body seems to be responding as well in funny ways to the information he is learning.

To be continued…..

[sebbie]

Gym exercise programs are difficult for a lot of people to maintain. A large share of the problem is that gym workouts can often be boring as all get out, but especially aerobic workouts that involve an activity for, say, 30 minutes non-stop. There are plenty of examples of these at the gym..the classic example I suppose is the treadmill. Without some diversion, working out for 30 minutes on a treadmill can be really boring.

Another boring workout device is a stationary bike. That is why there has been so much efforts to do things like set up TV screens that mimic what a rider might see on an actual bike ride, which is much less boring.

There are also other boring exercises and machines aimed at exercises that take place over, say a 30 minute period or longer,, things like steppers and stationary rowing machines. Generally speaking, its difficult for guys to maintain their workouts if the exercises are boring. I suppose we should also include simple walking and running as other boring exercises. Where lap swimming fits into all of this is a good starting point for discussion.

Generally speaking, guys tolerate exercises involving muscle building such as weight lifting far better and tend to get less bored with exercises that last a shorter period of time. The problem is that good exercises may very well need to include the boring stuff as well as the not-so-boring stuff in combination.

So what does all of this have toi do with Bill, Joe, Tony, Donovan and Dylan? Well for starters, a good daily exercise routine with a combination of aerobic and non-aerobic exercises, perhaps started in College, is something that a guy will want to maintain for a lifetime. There are many good combinations of the two, and each guy needs to sort out what works best for himself as an individual.

I know many of you are wondering what the “twist” here is going to be. Well, the twist is how boring or enjoyable you find your workout to be in part depends on what you wear to engage in the workout.

Bill and Joe have already sensed this, given what they are wearing. Tony and Donovan are on to this as well, given what they are wearing for their stationary rowing workouts. Dylan, clad in loose-fitting gym shorts and an equally loose-fitting tee shirt, so far at least, has not quite figured this all out.

Making a serious workout more fun and less boring is at least in part dependent on what the guy chooses to wear for the workout. Workout time almost always moves along a little faster for a guy if he is at least a little turned on, as in, feeling at least a little warm in the groin area. I suppose the “classic” example of this is the lap swimmer clad in a Speedo® as the consummate illustration of what I mean, but what is going on here runs parallel to this. Bill and Joe are clad in compression gear with straps and cups underneath. Tony and Donovan are clad in singlets both wearing thongs with cords running snuggly up their respective butts. These four guys are all certainly feeling something that seems erotic, even before beginning to exercise.

Bill and Joe are both planning on first hopping on the stationary bikes for a 30-minute ride. Tony and Donovan are hopping on the stationary rowers for a 30-minute ride as well. All this movement given the items they are wearing, well, could cause more stuff to happen. We will just have to see! Poor Dylan! He seems to know that something is up, but he is not quite sure what, yet. Is there anything somehow “wrong” with all of this? I think not!

…..To be continued.

[sebbie]

It’s funny. A lot of guys think they have learned all there is to know about their own bodies, about sex and sexuality from the start of puberty (probably most commonly around age 12) through high school (usually ending around 18), but, oddly enough, there is a whole lot more to try and understand, and a lot of this seems to happen in the late teens and very early 20s, say in the years from 18 to age 21 or 22.

Part of this, of course, is linked to all of the issues as to who a guy is attracted to from the perspective of another person, straight, gay or something in between. Life would be simple if that were all there was to sexual feelings and sexual turn ons. But guys know that things can be, and often are, much more complicated than that. Interesting, to be sure, but surely more complicated than merely picking a partner.

Here we have four college age guys, Bill, Joe, Tony and Donovan, well, five if we count the really confused Dylan, who are “messing around” with stuff that initiates distinctive sexual feelings and sensations, but this all has little if anything to do with sexual feelings and sensations that are related to finding a sexual partner.

Almost every guy in their teens quickly leans that sexual sensations and responses can readily happen at inopportune times and places, places that have nothing to do with a sexual partner as such. Classic examples are situations where a young new member of a high school swim team first encounters the idea that in order to participate, he will need to get his head (and body) around the idea of wearing a swim brief in front of his team mates and then in public. School sports that require wearing a strap and maybe a hard cup elicit similar fears and potentially complicated bodily responses, even just the thought of having to do so. This is a natural bodily reaction to having one’s private parts placed in a very confined space. Part of the popularity of wearing loose fitting swim shorts, end even jeans has to do with a deep seated fear that the guy will not be able to “control” his “bodily response” in a confined space, and his lack of control will immediately be identified by his fellow classmates and, as a result, he will be teased and bullied.

But by the time a guy reaches college age, he has probably discovered a couple of important things. First, the sensations associated often with merely the thought of having one’s private parts confined in a small space, say the swim brief, strap, or even a pair of snug fitting underwear along with similarly snug-fitting jeans, are terrific fun. Not as much fun as real sex, perhaps, but certainly fun. And further, the guy doesn’t need a partner to enjoy himself this way. Second, if there is an appropriate time and place, there is no reason or a guy to not enjoy one’s body in this regard.

Ok, but guys have generally been enjoying themselves engaging in solo sex, mainly stroking and rubbing their penises to orgasm, probably in private and from shortly after they went through puberty (maybe even before!), so that is certainly nothing new. It’s a little “secret” that most guys at least attempt to keep from their parents, siblings, peers and classmates, though sometimes unsuccessfully for sure. This is a cause for great embarrassment and sometimes teasing and bullying. Guys quickly learn that solo sex is something that should be kept totally private.

Except, of course, that it is so much fun! Here is the interesting part. Guys generally spend most of their teen years thinking that having a quick orgasm, one that happens so fast that the amount of time required to do so and potentially being discovered, is minimum. This is a strategy for self-preservation, maintain an image of not being a jerk-off, and for limiting scolding from parents, or the possibility of teasing and bullying by siblings and peers. Is it not funny that sensations that are so pleasant are associated with fears, teasing and bullying?

Bill and Joe, however, are now finding themselves in a different place entirely. They do not have full erections and hard-ons. They are not near the point of going into a full-blown orgasm. They are clad in their compression gear, straps and cups and trying to engage in a gym workout. But all of this does not mean that they are experiencing no sexual feelings or pleasure whatsoever. Indeed, quite the opposite. After all, their penises are in some very confined spaces, and their brains are sensing that.

What Bill and Joe are experiencing right now is very difficult to describe using words alone, but let me try. Words are basically inadequate to describe what is happening to them both. Bill and Joe are both still quite flaccid, but that does not mean that their bodies are unaware of the situation unfolding. The compelling sensation is one of a slight but very pleasant tensing in the penis, often extending into much of the groin area. And, the production of pre-cum, lots of pre-cum. The guy is sensing this because there is clearly a damp spot that is building right at the tip of the penis. Got it? Maybe just by reading about what is happening to Bill and Joe will get you into the same situation.

Now Bill and Joe are both wearing straps and cups underneath their compression shorts, so it would be nearly impossible to see the damp spot the pre-cum is making at the tip of the penis. That is a relief for sure But how about the situation faced by the new swim team member getting into a swim brief for the first time. Isn’t the same thing going to happen to him? The only solution for this would be to get into the pool water as quickly as possible.

What about Dylan? Well he is thinking about all of this himself, and stuff is starting to happen to him as well underneath those sloppy shorts just thinking about how his body, deep down would like to be wearing the same items Bill and Joe are wearing. So Dylan is actually having a reaction to all of this, a reaction that actually began that night when Dylan saw Bill and Joe in the dorm room hall, clad in their compression gear. Since then, Dylan has not been able to get the gear out of his mind, and how his body is longing to “participate”. At least, Dylan is able to admit this to himself.

And what of Tony and Donovan, the rowers wearing the rowing singlets along with the thong underwear? Well, that is an equally interesting story too, but a story for another day!

…To be continued

[sebbie]

Every guy is a little different, but every guy shares a lot in common, too. This is true for a lot of stuff about guys, but no more true when it comes to sexually arousing turn-ons.

At puberty, guys quickly learn how it feels to get an erection and then an orgasm with a full ejaculation. This is often times a very embarrassing time for a lot of guys going through puberty, as this sometimes happens at inopportune places and times, sometimes when other family members are present, or even worse, when peers are present, say, in a gym locker room, or even more embarrassingly, in a classroom.

And guys at puberty are very concerned about a whole bunch of things. First, no guy at this point wants to be labeled as a jerk-off by his peers. And all of this is interconnected with the possibility that the guy might be an emerging gay not straight. All of this presents major potential problems about when the guy enters junior high, you know, seventh and eighth grade are probably the most difficult, but all of these issues can easily extend well into high school, and perhaps even into college.

Guys have real difficulty admitting to anyone other than themselves that they can be turned on by anything other than a female. The latter is the only thing that is “safe” from the perspective of not being teased or bullied. Guys quickly figure this all out, but this means that they can never engage their male peers in any frank conversations about what is really going on inside their heads and bodies.

Some of all of this may gradually dissipate over time, with maybe college roommates being a bit more open with each other than they would have been in junior high or high school. In the case of Joe and Bill, they have worked their way through all of this. There is still the entire subject matter of what if I can be turned on by seeing/watching another guy. Does the fact that Bill and Joe each got turned on by knowing that the other was experiencing sexual thoughts and feelings in the bed next to each mean anything in terms of their sexuality, and if so, what? Why exactly did both Bill and Joe suddenly decide to wear their snug-fitting compression gear, straps and cups to the student gym, anyway? And where does Dylan, who has been watching this quietly, fit into all of this for goodness sake?

As a guy moves beyond puberty, he may very well discover that sexual feelings and responses are much more complex and interesting than just quickly having an erection and orgasm in some completely private place. There is this whole subject of how to get sexually turned on and aroused without any significant external signs of what is going on, as in lacking a big hard-on.

Tony and Donovan have certainly added a whole new twist to the story, a twist that caught even Bill and Joe completely off guard. For starters, are Tony and Donovan just a pair of straight college rowing team members, or is there something else going on here? Could Tony and Donovan be gay, perhaps even gay partners? That is not clear at this point at all.

When asked about what the pair wore under the rowing singlets, Tony was certainly up front with his answer. Why was he so candid about wearing a thong? What was the point in even revealing that to Bill and Joe? Admittedly, the whole idea of wearing a snug singlet over an equally snug thong sounds sexy as all get out, maybe even sexier than a strap and cup under compression shorts. Something Bill and Joe now would like to try for certain.

At this point, Bill and Joe are certainly feeling aroused, but so far at least, their erections are still under control. They are both dripping clear, viscous drops of pre-cum into their cups under their compression gear. They are both thinking that their next purchases will have to be tight wrestling singlets and thong underwear, stuff not readily available except on line.

Poor Dylan, he is experiencing much the same feelings while clad only in loose-fitting shorts. He is sensing drops of clear, viscous pre-cum forming right at the tip of his penis too, just thinking about the situation unfolding before him. He know, too that he needs to do something about all this, and make some purchases as well. The problem for Dylan is how to reconcile all of these thoughts and feelings with who he is or thinks he is, sexually? This is not simple, at all, for any of them.

…To be continued

[sebbie]

Male sexuality is really interesting. There is always partner sex and a lot of guys really enjoy that. But there are also really interesting situations whereby sexual arousal can occur in the absence of a partner, entirely. Any guy past puberty realizes that. In fact, many guys have probably figured this part out even before puberty. And certain clothing items can, for sure, stimulate this.

Let me review where we are in the story line. We have Bill and Joe who are clearly turned on by and wearing a combination of compression gear and straps, straps with cups. We have introduced Tony and Donovan, college rowing team members who are wearing snug-fitting wrestling singlets with equally snug-fitting thong underwear underneath. Then there is Dylan, who is largely unfamiliar with all of this, wearing loose-fitting shorts and an equally loose-fitting tee. But Dylan is clearly fascinated by what the other guys are wearing, fascinated to the point where he is clearly thinking that he wants to join in. What has been happening in Dylan’s brain and body is typical of what sometime, maybe even often happens when a guys has a first encounter with this sort of thing.

And what is this thing, anyway? Some kind of a weird clothing fetish? This all seems sexy but sexy without a partner. Are guys SUPPOSED to even react this way? That is a good question. No one really seems to know the answer to that one. Some people who call themselves trained psychologists, I guess, would label a sexual interest in a clothing item as a form of abnormal psychology for a guy. I am far more open-minded than this on the entire subject. I think that getting turned on by certain clothing items like this is all quite normal for guys, even though many are very reluctant to admit this. In short, having this happen is not in any way, shape or form weird or even considered a little bit strange or odd.

Let me play with my readers’ brains a little bit. I am going to give you four options each of which goes in a slightly different direction. The whole idea here is for you to determine if your body is interested in any of these options at all, and then, if your body is telling you that you are interested, which of the options would you be most enthusiastic about pursuing. How will you know for sure? Well, if any of the options is for you, you should feel a slight tensing in your groin area just reading about the option, and maybe a familiar wet drop of pre-cum forming at the very tip of your penis.

There actually is a fifth option. That option is that you brain and body is not aroused by any f the other four options. But then, I might ask, why are you reading what I am writing at all? That would seem to make no sense, whatsoever.

Option 1: I would like to try wearing what Bill and Joe are wearing. My body is telling me that I am very interested in wearing a snug-fitting pair of compression shorts along with an equally snug-fitting tee. I like the idea of wearing an old school jock with a cup. I’ve always admired the guys who had to do this, and I have always wondered how one of those would fit and feel.

Option 2: I would like to try wearing what Tony and Donovan are wearing. Getting into a somewhat undersized wrestling singlet would be really fun for me, and I also think it would be most interesting to wear a pair of thong underwear underneath. The idea of having a cord or elastic band cutting between the cheeks of my butt sounds really interesting, especially when paired with the wrestling singlet.

Option 3: What I have always wanted to do is wear a swim brief. But what kind of a swim brief would be the biggest turn-on? A low-cut brief with one-inch sides, one that shows a bit of my butt cheeks? Something slightly bigger and a bit less confining? How do guys deal with unexpected erections while wearing these, anyway?

Option 4: A pair of Asian style jeans. Asian-style jeans are cut really, really snug through the thigh and legs and cup your butt as well. They pair great with thong underwear, too.

So, which of these four options are you most interested in pursuing, as in giving you the strongest reaction in your groin area. Your groin should be telling you the correct answer to this quiz, the answer that is right for you.

Dylan has been pondering these options, too. [Personal note: I am wearing a singlet and thong as I write this. Highly recommended!]

…To be continued

[sebbie]

Most guys probably have determined whether there is “stuff” like this that sends “signals” to their brains and bodies of this sort at a very early age, often right at puberty or just after. Whatever it is that “causes” this to happen is difficult if not impossible to control. Worse, for the post-puberty male, all of this somehow gets messed together with understanding the basics of how post-puberty sexual feelings work, which makes these things even more complicated to deal with. Another aspect of all of this has to do with what this all might or might not have to do with determining one’s sexual orientation, straight, gay or somewhere in between.

For a typical 14-year old, a basic question is how to deal with sexual feelings that are linked to inanimate objects such as items of clothing listed in the previous chapter. The poor guy is stuck probably thinking that he is somehow abnormal and weird if this is happening to him. If one starts reading the on line literature related to this, the entire subject is probably presented as a fetish, perhaps along with stuff related to a sexual fascination with other stuff such as women’s clothing, and this, in turn gets messed together with men who get turned on sexually by wearing female clothing as in transvestite.

But this is all definitely male clothing items: compression gear, straps swim briefs etc. The guys who wear this stuff generally are not aroused by wearing female clothing items. The guy starts to think that perhaps he is just going through some sort of a temporary “phase” which he will eventually either just outgrow as he gets older and starts to have adult-type partner sex feelings and turn ons. At least that is what the guy hopes. For goodness sakes, what do you do with this stuff once you get into a real adult-style relationship? Maybe once that happen, this other stuff will just go away, or so the guy fervently hopes.

Then there is a question as to how unique the guy believes he is. Do other guys my age have this exact same problem? This is a variation on the so-called locker room issue. What happens if I join the high school swim club and the coach insists I wear a swim brief? How do the other swim club members deal with this problem? Once again, am I unique in this regard? Maybe I will quickly get “used” to pulling on a tight fitting swim brief, strap or whatever, and its merely a matter of doing this frequently enough.

Then there is the problem that doing this stuff involving the gear is really fun to the point of being addictive. By the time a guy gets to be about 14, he has probably tried most of the plain ordinary methods of jerking off in the bathroom or under the covers by simply stroking and rubbing his penis. The slick-and snug clothing items introduces a whole new dimension to solo sex, and the guy realizes this all too well. Have the other guys my age figured this all out too? If not are they somehow “different” from me.

The guy typically then goes on a quiet effort to acquire the clothing items that he thinks will be the most sexually exciting to get into. This is tricky for a number of reasons. First, there are lots of subjects that guys feel open with their parents discussing, but this is definitely not one of these. But then how does one manufacture a plausible-sounding “excuse” for obtaining the item for goodness sakes?

Then there is the issue of making attempts to keep what you are interested in doing a secret from your peers of both sexes, but particularly from other males your age. Guys are really curious about what is happening to other guys their age and whether or not they are dealing with the same or similar issues, but this is not a topic appropriate for a conversation, in large measure because the guy bringing up the subject is likely to be labeled as a jerk-off, teased, bullied, or labeled as gay. Best to keep one’s mouth completely shut on the entire subject.

Joe and Bill are not 14 but 19, and have worked their respective ways through some of their inhibitions related to sexual turn-ons and procedures for jerking off. Further, they are now in college, and are able to figure out a way to buy the items they longed to own when they were 14 but could not find a way to do so earlier. That Joe and Bill are as open with each other with respect to what is going on in their respective heads and bodies is a rarity.

Tony and Donovan, the rowing club members at the gym, seem to have reached a level in this regard that Joe and Bill have not yet achieved. They are actively talking about what they are wearing and why it makes their gym workouts. Joe and Bill have not yet determined if Tony and Donovan are gay or not, let alone if they are gay partners. But they both certainly appear to be enjoying themselves immensely just wearing their gear and doing their gym exercises for the rowing team. They seem to have lost any inhibitions if they once had them.

Meanwhile, Dylan is watching all of this, quietly.


… To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe, after all, DID come to the student gym in order to get started on a schedule for working out, doing both aerobic exercises plus some weight lifting and other strength-building exercises.

The exercise bikes being free, Bill and Joe first decide to get on them and plan for about a 30 minute ride, covering the equivalent of about 4 miles at an average, comfortable speed.

But, do not forget that Bill and Joe are wearing straps and cups with compression gear over. They wore all of this on the walk from their dorm room to the student gym, and I might add that the walk over was uneventful” if you understand what I am trying to communicate to you here.

But also keep in mind that both Bill and Joe’s penises are held snugly within very narrow hard cups and the compression shorts are holding the cups firmly in place against their groins. Just walking in all of this can set up a bit of a situation with all of this, but as I indicated, the walk from the dorm room to the gym was uneventful.

The stationary bikes, however, are going to present a new set of issues that need to be accommodated. On the bikes, Bill’s and Joe’s thigh areas (as in the inner portions of the inside part of their legs) are going to be moving a lot more than it was on the simple walk to the gym. This could set up an interesting situation, for certain. The strap and cup are held firmly to the groin from the pressure of the compression shorts bearing down, but the inner thigh needs to move. Can the cup remain in a perfectly stable position with all the movement going on around it? Not likely, even with the compression shorts bearing down.

The cups are probably going to want to slide a little along with the inner thighs with each pedal turn on the bicycle. But remember, these cups fit snugly around the two penises. If the cup is going to move or slide with each pedal stroke, the penises are going to probably immediately “sense” what is happening, with a sense of movement taking place.

The sensations are not strong enough to send the stationary bike rider into an explosive orgasm. They are far more subtle than that. Just strong enough so that the guy’s brain is aware that something is happening down there, and what is happening is subtle but pleasant, very very pleasant.
The penises respond to the situation at hand like they always respond. First, there is an awareness that something interesting is happening. The snugness of the cups is a mixture of physical and psychological…the psychological part can easily be at least as mesmerizing as the physical sensation.

Penises do as penises do…The combination of physical and psychological tension results in that fascinating feeling of tension in the penis that the guys love so much…not a full-blown erection, but just that crazy, wonderful feeling down there of subtle tension that guys just always go goofy over.

Penises do as penises do. Once this is underway it is time to pre-cum. Bill and Joe can sense that there is a dampness forming inside the cup at the very tips of their penises. This sensation is a treat that is combined with the sense of snugness, the sense of movement, and a psychological sense of “this is really enjoyable, as in blow me away enjoyable.

All of this went on throughout the 30-minute stationary bike ride for both Bill and Joe. The 30 minute time span for the rides just sped by. Bill and Joe enjoyed their bike rides immensely, and vowed to do the same thing every time they went to the gym. This has become part of a not-to-be-missed workout schedule for Bill and Joe.

…To be continued

[sebbie]

Tony and Donovan are obviously far more athletic than Bill and Joe, both being regular members of the College stationary rowing team. They both have more athletic builds than Joe and Bill, with broader shoulders, well developed lats that give their chests that wonderful and much-admired triangular shape and six-pack abdominal muscles.

Part of this relates to the fact that rowing is such a wonderful full-body workout, even better than swimming, perhaps. Certainly better than treadmill running and stationary bike riding. The only sport that I think might be better than rowing in this regard is men’s gymnastics, and that one is out of range for the vast majority of guys, even guys in college.

A basic issue is that if you are going to spend time working out, why not pick something that also gets you as quickly as possible to the body shape you are after, and rowing certainly fits the bill in this regard even if it is done only on a stationary machine.

A little “problem” is that rowing on a stationary machine can quickly get a little boring, and especially if done on workouts involving 30-minute sets. This is little different from a 30-minute ride on a stationary bike or 30-minute run on a treadmill in this regard.

So, the trick to making the rowing machine work is to find a way to make each stroke on the rowing machine more enjoyable and less boring. This is where the choice of what to wear for the workout becomes important.

I’ve already indicated on several occasions that most guys past puberty quickly learn how to get aroused, hard and to an orgasm under circumstances where there is a real fear that if they take too long they will be “discovered” jacking off by a sibling, a peer or even one of their parents. By their late teens most guys get very wary of any situation that appears to be even the start of the arousal, hard-on, ejaculation sequence. This WAS pretty much where Bill and Joe were when they entered college, but the past few months have been a learning experience for both Bill and Joe in all sorts of different ways, stuff they are coming to terms with outside of the college classroom.

Tony and Donovan are a little older and a little smarter about these sorts of things. Both Tony and Donovan realize something that guys find difficult to even comprehend in their early teens.. That is, the sensation of arousal need not necessarily immediately lead into an erection or an orgasm. Smart guys can “mess around” with the arousal sensation and make that sensation last for literally hours, if they want to. The trick is to get your mind and body aroused but not so aroused that the full-blown erection becomes the next step.

Messing around with this is something every guy should learn how to do, because in so doing his life will be improved in all sorts of ways in or out of a relationship with a partner. The entire subject is written up in the sex manuals under titles such as chapters dealing with “developing ejaculatory control” such that the guy acquires at least some degree of mind control over when in the process he has an orgasm. Interestingly, getting an erection and getting an orgasm are distinct events, and its possible to get an erection but not have an orgasm and its possible to have an orgasm without having an erection as well, and there are tricks for learning how to do this.

Arousal without an erection or an orgasm is the third part of this puzzle, the part of the puzzle that Tony and Donovan have become masters, and this is interlinked with their interest in college level competitive rowing.

Arousal is a not-to-be missed experience involving both the mind and the body. Arousal is a really fun experience for both the brain and groin area of the body. I suppose that a guy could get aroused by doing things like watching porn, but a more positive way on doing this is to make arousal an integral part of your gym workout.

So, Tony and Donovan are choosing clothing items that will help to get them aroused while working out on the stationary rowing machine. But exactly WHAT clothing items? Well the obvious one is the Lycra® wrestling singlets that “just happen” to fit snug and really tight in the groin area, and tug at the groin area with each rowing stroke.

Underneath, Tony and Donovan have admitted that they are wearing thong underwear, underwear that has an elastic band that cuts between the cheeks of their butts with every rowing stroke. The sensation on the rowing machine is, well, interesting to say the least.

What I haven’t told you yet is that Tony and Donovan are wearing something else between the Wrestling singlets and the thongs, in this case black Adidas with the triple white slashes and about 1 ½ inch sides. Interestingly, the brief’s fit right OVER the thong underwear and no one is the wiser at all.

Tony and Donovan have been known after the stationary rower workouts to strip off their singlets and jump right into the gym pool to cool off, dressed only in their tiny Adidas swim briefs (with their thong underwear cupping their male body parts underneath while protecting their swim brief from pre-cum “stains”.

How does a guy know whether he has found the correct combination of clothing for his personal situation? Well, that is where it becomes important for the guy to pay close attention to what is happening to him pre-cum wise. If you can feel a wet spot of pre-cum forming at the tip of your penis, you have likely found the spot you will want to be in for your workout to speed by.

Tony and Donovan’s respective workouts on the stationary rowing machines, lasting 30 minutes, sped by. They were completely “in the groove” and each stroke was enjoyable fun for some reason not difficult or boring at all…

Joe and Bill still have much to learn…and Dylan, quietly watching, and thinking about himself, his body, and what the other guys are all wearing.

…To be continued

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe learned a lot when they were at the student gym. They enjoyed the “breeziness” of Tony and Donovan and how they seemed to be so comfortable in their own skins, well their own skins covered in wrestling singlets. But what to do now?

Bill and Joe both knew that wrestling singlets were not something easily found at the big box sporting goods store. But Tony and Donovan made an interesting suggestion. Wrestling singlets could be easily ordered on line on Amazon®. Tony and Donovan were both wearing the asics® brand, and that gave Bill and Joe a place to start looking.

But there was one problem. In order to make an on-line purchase, a credit card was needed. But, no problem at all, as Bill had one. Bill could place the order and get the other guys to cover their items using cash.

Dylan wanted in. Dylan wanted some of the same stuff Bill and Joe had plus a wrestling singlet. The asics wrestling singlets came in black, crimson red, royal blue and forest green, and cost $38 USD each. But, what size? Well the whole idea was to wear these quite snug, and maybe down size just a bit. Bill, Joe and Dylan were all about the same size, typically about a men’s Medium. But if these were going to fit snug and tight, why not try downsizing to a Small instead? Tony and Donovan said they undersized a bit. Good idea! Joe went for the royal blue, Bill the Crimson red, and Dylan the Forest green

Dylan also wanted some of the other items that Joe and Bill had, namely compression shorts, tee, and, of course a strap and cup. But those were easily found on the on-line Web site. Dylan found some great- looking Tesla-branded compression shorts for $13 in a variety of colors. Dylan picked the electric green ones in Small. The matching Tesla compression tee was only $10. Then Dylan wanted a strap and cup as well, and he finally settled on the ProForce male supporter and cup set ($12). Sizing these is always tricky, but Dylan settled on the adult “small” for the best combination of fit and feel.

Plus, Dylan wanted to get a Swim brief as well, something he had never owned before. What came up was the Desmit Fashion swim brief ($11) . He ordered the men’s US small in the blue/geen color combination. Bill and Joe each ordered one of these, too.

Finally there was the thong underwear for under the singlets. Desmit also makes a men’s cotton micro thong ($6) that should be perfect in size Small. One for each of the three of them.

This is quite an order! Making an on-line order for stuff like this is always interesting mostly because of getting the sizing and fit right. Obviously, the right fit is a little different concept than it is for ordinary clothing, in part because the properly fitting clothing should be somewhat arousing…and that says snug fit, snugger than a guy might ordinarily wear during the day.

But even in making their selections, the guys’ bodies should be telling them whether or not they have gotten each item right or not. With the correct selection, each guy should be producing a drop or two of pre-cum. If that happens, the selection is probably right!

The order has now been placed, and should arrive in 4-5 days.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

It’s been a few days since Bill, Joe and Dylan placed their Amazon order. I thought some links would be useful so that you can see exactly what each of them ordered. If you want, you can then order something similar. Dylan, Bill and Joe are getting anxious for their package to arrive. I think you know what that means, in this case.

asics red wrestling singlet (Bill)
https://www.amazon.com/ASICS-Unrestrained-Wrestling-Singlet-Medium/dp/B00CG4GMWI/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1467638590&sr=8-1&keywords=asics+red+wrestling+singlet

asics blue wrestling singlet (Joe)
https://www.amazon.com/ASICS-Solid-Modified-Singlet-Medium/dp/B0000C46V8/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1467638940&sr=8-1&keywords=asics+blue+wrestling+singlet

asics green wrestling singlet (Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/ASICS-Unrestrained-Wrestling-Singlet-Forest/dp/B00CG4CVNW/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1467639201&sr=8-1&keywords=asics+green+wrestling+singlet

Tesla Compression short (Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/TM-S17-BKRZ_Medium-Tesla-Compression-Baselayer-Shorts/dp/B01DSU0IDC/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1467639347&sr=8-1&keywords=Tesla+compression+short

Tesla Compression Tee (Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/TM-R13-GRKZ_X-Large-Tesla-Compression-Baselayer-Sleeve/dp/B01ET1OWPY/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1467639475&sr=8-1&keywords=Tesla+compression+tee



ProForce strap and cup (Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/ProForce-Male-Supporter-Cup-Set/dp/B005YNCVIW/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&qid=1467639646&sr=8-4&keywords=ProForce+Athletic+supporter

Desmit fashion swim brief (Bill, Joe and Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/DESMIIT-Mens-Fashion-Briefs-Medium/dp/B0106BMVMW/ref=sr_1_sc_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1467639783&sr=8-2-spell&keywords=Desmit+swim+brief

Desmit thong underwear for under asics singlet (Bill, Joe and Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/DESMIIT-Mens-Mirco-Cotton-Thongs/dp/B00K34PECW/ref=sr_1_29?ie=UTF8&qid=1467640103&sr=8-29&keywords=mens+cotton+thong+underwear

To be continued…

[sebbie]

The three 19-year olds Bill, Joe and Dylan body-wise and mentally are at the age that they are probably most sensitive both psychologically and physically to snug-fitting clothing of the kinds in the big order. This is in part due to the fact that none of them were put into a situation where they were expected to wear any of this stuff, stuff that basically is tied to certain sports pursued by males. Obviously, this is less of a big deal for students who wore this sort of stuff when they were younger. At that age, the guys who do not get to do this often wonder how their own bodies would deal with such a situation, and whether or not they would be able to tolerate the situation without some sort of perhaps “embarrassing” incident happening.

Dylan, in particular, is in the most difficult spot of the three of them. Bill and Joe have their experiences already wearing the compression gear, straps and cups, not only for the gym but during that wild and zany night they both had in the dorm room sleeping wearing the gear during that wild-and crazy dream.

Bill and Joe are having a major psychological impact on Dylan, even though they have openly discussed very little about what exactly has been going on. Dylan sees Joe and Bill in their straps, cups and compression gear and deep down admires very much how they look, while at tyhe same time secretly wondering how Dylan’s own mind and body would respond top being in a similar situation to that.

Then there is all the other stuff that looks and potentially feels interesting too, starting with the wrestling singlets, then the tiny Desmit swimming briefs, and those crazy underwear thongs that are going to make the wrestling singlets even more erotic and fun.

Dylan has not been able to keep his mind on his classes, as his mind keeps wandering over into the territory of thinking over and over about how his body could respond once he gets the order and is able to try the stuff on. Dylan has decided that the “safest” thing to do will be to quietly pick up his items and go to his own room, to try everything on in private.

Bill and Joe, having already been more open with each other about both of their bodies, both realize that part of the interesting fun will be to try getting into the stuff while the other guy is present to watch exactly what happens.

Dylan’s body is responding to all of these thoughts and issues even as he sits in his classes at school. Interestingly, as he sorts through all of this, he can feel a slight tensing in his groin area about where the zipper on his Levis 511 jeans runs. He can feel a distinct dampness on his white underwear briefs too, which seems to be getting bigger the more his mind wanders off in this direction. Dylan is hoping that the spot doesn’t get too big and show through as a quarter-sized damp area right on his Levis jeans.

To be continued....

[sebbie]

Dylan in particular now faces quite a dilemma. He is now clueless as to how his body (and brain) might respond to the new items he just ordered on Amazon. That may actually overstate the situation Dylan is about to face, if only by a little bit. Dylan passed through the early years of post-pubescence much like every other guy did, gradually learning how to appreciate the various sensations and feelings that might emanate from the groin area and resulting in a sensation of euphoria in the brain. Initially at least, guys are at least somewhat mystified as how their brains and bodies can be so interconnected in such interesting and potentially wonderful ways.

Guys that age generally understand that what they are feeling and enjoying has something to do with sex and relationships, but this too remains something of a mystery as exactly how this all fits together. But, of course, at age 14 or 15, the opportunities and advisability of actually engaging in penis-vagina sex with a female partner are not only limited but clearly not advisable. But guys still enjoy the feelings and sensations that are happening to them, even if sex with a partner is not involved.

Not surprisingly, guys soon learn that there are techniques and ways of manipulating themselves to produce these wonderful feelings and sensations even in the absence of a sexual partner. There is, of course, plain ordinary male masturbation, stroking and rubbing your penis to the point whereby it gets big and hard and leads to a wonderful, full-scale orgasm. By the time a guy reaches about 15, most guys have got this technique down pretty well. It is only somewhat later that guys begin to appreciate the idea that a quick masturbation to orgasm is not really all there is, indeed there is more, a whole lot more. Yes, interesting situations available to guys who are not into some sort of a sexual relationship with a partner.

Dylan has known from before puberty that his groin area was quite sensitive when it is touched by anything. Snug-fitting items of clothing that fit tight in the groin area have always been something of a sexual turn-on for Dylan, but this will be the first time that Dylan will get to experiment with this on his own, and away from his parents.

Dylan does not know at this point exactly what his body is going to do when the order arrives and he gets the opportunity to “try on” each of the purchases. Will he go immediately into a firm erection, or not? The various items Dylan selected to purchase will each pose a different “situation” to deal with. In the case of the little Desmit swim briefs will Dylan be able to fit himself into the not very roomy pouch/ How will Dylan position himself?
The strap and cup pose a different dilemma. How will Dylan’s penis respond to a situation of being inside a not-very-roomy had cup with the strap bearing down on him at the same time?

Then there is the thong. How will that feel with the snug elastic strap coursing between the cheeks of his butt? Then what happens if you are pulling over the wrestling singlet over the thong? A correctly-fitting pair of men’s thong underwear pushes the anatomy up and forward. The Singlet presses downward, making the penis appear something like a “button” in profile. That should be interesting for Dylan, to say the least.

Finally, there are those wild green compression tees and shorts Dylan ordered . These might be the most difficult for Dylan’s brain and body to cope with at all.

But coping with all of this is what Dylan somehow must do. Dylan’s mind has been wandering in his classes just thinking about the situations he is about to get himself into once the order arrives. And his body has been responding to the daydreams about all of this. Dylan has been pre-cumming just thinking about all of this, a lot, more than Dylan thought he was even capable of producing.

What fun, just thinking about all of this!

To be continued…

[sebbie]

The big, soft package finally arrives, and Bill and Joe call Dylan to their room in order to open the package and divide the stuff. Dylan has several different items in the package, namely the ProForce strap and cup, the Tesla Compression shorts and Tee in a bright lime green, that little Desmit bi-color swimming brief, the Desmit thong underwear, and, of course, the asics wrestling singlet in forest green. Recall that there are three asics singlets in the package, one in royal blue, a second in crimson red, and Dylan’s forest green one.

The guys decide to divide the stuff according to how they each made their order, and then simply take their time to try everything on “to see how it fits”. This is a particularly “exciting” time for Dylan, who has never owned this kind of stuff before. To be sure, he thought about it, but until he got to college, he had never really had the “opportunity” to act on his interests.

So, Dylan takes his stuff and decides to head back to his room. As you have probably determined by now, the combination of items is going to put a lot of “pressure” on Dylan, some psychological and some physical.

What is really going on here. Once he got past puberty, of course Dylan had experience jerking off. (What guy doesn’t at that age?) But Dylan, like nearly every other guy his age, faced the usual “barriers” to trying stuff. What guys normally learn is how to jerk off in a hurry, that is, go from flaccid penis to orgasm as fast as possible, lest someone ( a sibling, a parent or a peer) discover what you are up to. Now, however, Dylan has a degree of privacy. Dylan’s roommate, John, had gone home for the weekend and Dylan had the room to himself. Dylan looked at all of this as an excellent opportunity to try out some stuff he had always wondered about but never had the opportunity.

So Dylan now has all these items each of with present some real possibilities for fun. So what of this list has got Dylan hooked to try? That is certainly an interesting question to try and answer. But remember, not being a high school athlete, Dylan never had the opportunity to get himself inside a strap, let alone a strap with a hard cup. Dylan had always wondered how the other guys “dealt” with these, the basic question being what happens if you get a hard-on inside the cup, and the cup is not spacious enough to contain you erect? Most guys have certainly at least thought about that one. Its tough to even think about that problem without pre-cumming at least a little. And Dylan has been thinking about that problem ever since he placed the order in fact. Now the strap and cup is right in front of him, waiting to be tried on.Dylan is getting more and more excited.

So, what does Dylan do first? He finds the scissors in his desk drawer and cuts into the clear plastic casing that currently confines the strap and cup. The strap and cup are separate, and some snaps hold the pouch for the cup closed. He loosens the snaps and slips the cup into its correct place in the pouch.

Dylan realizes now that it is time for him to strip down naked and to put the strap and cup on his groin. Dylan’s penis realizes that is where Dylan is too, and the response is a few drops of clear, gooey pre-cum. Dylan is now feeling a clear tingling and tightening sensation right at the base of his penis, too, although he has not really grown any, or at most, only a little. Dylan psychologically is very much aware that his penis is going to soon be in a quite confined space, and what is bugging him is the possibility that the walls of his penis is soon going to be in direct contact with the pouch containing the cup. What happens if, well, Dylan “grows” inside the cup? What does it feel like if the penis walls come in contact with the pouch containing the hard cup? The usual “response” to such direct physical contact, Dylan knows, is for a penis to respond by getting bigger around and longer. But what if the cup doesn’t provide enough room for growth? Quite a dilemma to be sure.

Dylan manages to pull on the cupped strap and get it into position. What an interesting sensation. Psychologically Dylan is very much aware that the strap and cup are there, yes, very much psychologically. But physically he is aware too..he can feel the cup bearing down on the top and sides of his penis. Wow! The net result is a very pleasant “tingly” sensation, different from anything Dylan has ever experienced just doing “normal” jerking off. Dylan doesn’t feel ready to go into a full-scale orgasm, yet he knows he is pre-cumming, profusely. He can feel the inside of the cup getting damp right at the tip of his penis.

This is actually quite a special treat for Dylan, both physically and psychologically. Dylan now realizes that he could be in this “condition” inside the strap and cup for a long period of time, maybe hours. This is certainly not some two-minute jerk-off session for sure. Dylan loves it. Dylan is quite aroused but his penis is still well below the point where it would need to be in order to go into a full-scale orgasm. Something of a predicament of sorts, but a way fun predicament to be in.

But, what next? Dylan decides that what he really wants to do is to pull the asics forest green wrestling singlet over the top of the strap and cup. That should only add to the delicious “agony” Dylan is in.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

“Whew, that cup and strap fits snug” Dylan thinks to himself. Growing up, Dylan had never had the opportunity to be in a strap before, let alone a little hard cup. For Dylan, the sensations he is experiencing are all new, fun but a bit terrifying at the same time.

Dylan is obviously quite aroused, and his brain is sending strong signals that some interesting stuff is happening in his groin area. But his penis is basically confined inside the strap and cup. Dylan would love to rub and stroke himself like he did when he got these feelings in high school, but the interesting part is that the strap and cup acts like a barrier to prevent him from making any direct finger content with his penis as he would very much like to do. But, meanwhile, Dylan’s penis seems to somehow “know” that it is in a confined space, and his penis has expanded to the point where Dylan can sense that it is taking advantage of all of the space that is available inside the strap and cup and somehow “knows” that it is pressing against the walls of the cup.

This is a fascinating predicament for Dylan to be in for the first time. Under ordinary circumstances, Dylan would stroke himself and quickly get to a strong orgasm, but given where he is at, he cannot do this. But his body keeps telling his brain that he is aroused, really aroused, although not quite strongly enough to get off. Dylan is mentally “surfing along” just under an orgasm. This is fun, crazy fun maybe, but way fun for Dylan to experience. Wow! How long can Dylan’s body take this situation? I guess Dylan will find out.

What next? Keep in mind that Dylan is just trying on the stuff he got in his Amazon order, and all he has gotten to so far is just that ProForce strap and cup. But there is more stuff, a lot more stuff. Stuff that Dylan thinks could get even more interesting to put on.

What next? Dylan decides that next he would like to try on his new forest green asics wrestling singlet. He takes the tags off and starts to put it on.

The singlet fits tight too, really tight and snug. The size Dylan got certainly does not leave him any extra room. He pulls the singlet up around his waist and tries to pull the shoulder straps over his shoulders. This is not that easy. The material stretches, but this is heavy-duty stretch material, and does not have much give to it, especially so with a brand new singlet.

What is going on here? Well, a wrestling singlet is made for, well, wrestling. The whole idea is to have a snug-and tight fit so that your wrestling opponent does not have any even slightly loose cloth in the singlet that he can grab during the match. A loose-fitting singlet would defeat the purpose for the sport.

But remember that Dylan is pulling the singlet over his ProForce strap and cup, and then trying to get the shoulder straps in place.

The pressure from the strap and cup alone has been tough enough for Dylan to deal with. But getting the straps over his shoulders poses yet another problem, as in order to do that the singlet needs to be pulled up really snug in the groin area. Good for wrestling, but getting into the singlet will put upward pressure right in the groin area as well, as in right where the cup is now bearing down on Dylan’s penis. Not only that, this is heavy duty stretch material, and once the singlet is in place with the shoulder straps in the proper position, the singlet itself is going to bear down on the strap and cup, pressing it even more snugly against Dylan’s groin area.

Guys who wear straps and cups for sports are aware of the issues Dylan has been experiencing. With something looser-fitting, say a baseball uniform, its common to see guys quietly grab their cups to re-position them a bit in an effort to improve comfort. The problem with this strategy, of course, is that if your penis is already pressing against the cup walls, any movement of the cup is probably going to “encourage” the penis to grow a bit, making matters worse instead of better for the guy who is struggling.

Not to worry! Once Dylan struggled but successfully got into his new singlet, the cup and strap is pressing so snugly against his groin that Dylan can hardly move it with his hand at all.

But Dylan is still aroused, way aroused. Dylan is pre-cumming profusely now, with the pre-cum collecting inside the pouch containing the cup. Dylan can feel the accumulating wetness. Dylan finds the sensation of all that gooey pre-cum that is forming to be interesting to say the least. Its part of the overall sensation of feeling aroused but not ejaculating.

At some point Dylan will have had enough, and will want to quickly pull off the singlet, strap and cup and then stroke himself to a really powerful orgasm. The pressure to do this is building inside of Dylan’s head and body. But for now, Dylan is having too much fun for it to all be over and he discovers all these new sensations and feelings that are suddenly available to him. Dylan now is beginning to appreciate what Bill and Joe have been doing, and what Tony and Donovan were up to is coming into focus for Dylan too.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan is experiencing something quite special in both his body and mind. I guess every guy must be a little different in this regard, but Dylan has really become hooked on the sensations he is now experiencing, perhaps even to a greater degree than Bill and Joe have been hooked.

This all began for Dylan when he first encountered Joe and Bill in the dorm room hallway wearing their compression gear, straps and cups that night awhile back. Something caught Dylan’s attention, something he had not realized even existed before. From that point in time, Dylan somehow knew that he was destined to wear similar gear if he only could. Dylan realized too that the gear was affecting Bill and Joe in what at the time seemed to be strange but subtle ways.

Now Dylan found himself in the middle of all of this, indeed, enjoying himself is ways that he never before realized was even possible. What Dylan was now experiencing certainly had not been taught in his high school health education class.

A still bigger mystery was how all of these experiences were related (or not) to having real sex with a partner. Dylan knew that he was enjoying himself immensely, but he did not know whether what he was doing was ok or not. Maybe he was having too much fun for his own good, and as a consequence would lose any interest in having sex with a partner. That was a weighty thought to ponder, for certain, but maybe an issue that did not need to be resolved for now..

Equally puzzling was the sequence of events that happened as Dylan started to put on the gear. The gear felt, well, just tight and somewhat uncomfortable for sure, but definitely not erotic. And then almost, as if by magic, lightning-bolt like streaks of pure pleasure coursed through his body. But oddly enough, Dylan was not ejaculating when these pleasure pangs developed. He was just standing there, thinking about his penis and where it was located firmly inside the cup, strap and wrestling singlet. The sensations were certainly different from a full-blown orgasm, but equally pleasant if not more so. And they seemed to last a long time, many minutes, not hours. What a weird situation! But Dylan was enjoying himself so much he was not about to quit.

Of course, Dylan had read some of the sex education manuals for guys. The point these manuals made over and over again is that a basic problem in a sexual relationship with a partner is often something called premature ejaculation. That is, getting aroused and erect, entering the partner, and then ejaculating almost immediately once inside. The manuals keep saying that the longer the guy can delay orgasm while maintaining arousal with an erect penis, the more fun sex will be for both the guy and his partner. These comments were very different from what Dylan had learned as a youngster about the need to masturbate and get it done with as quickly as possible so as not to be accidentally discovered by a parent, sibling or peer while he was in jerk-off mode.

Dylan by now was quite aroused and at least partly erect, but no one could tell that because his erection was held tightly inside the cup which was inside the singlet. Furthermore, he was not fully ready to ejaculate, and given where his penis was located he couldn’t stroke it. For that to happen, all the gear was going to have to come off.

But Dylan was not of the mindset that he wanted all of this to end right now, even if the end meant a really powerful orgasm. Better to just kick back and let the tension slowly build on its own, and see how far a guy can take this. No hurry to end all of this for sure.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Clad in his snug-fitting ProForce strap and cup and his equally tight asic wrestling singlet, Dylan absolutely has been enjoying himself immensely. What began for a moment of discomfort, almost pain, as he was getting himself correctly positioned inside his gear has suddenly morphed into some of the most pleasant sensations Dylan has ever experienced in his young life.

“How can this be this good?” Dylan thinks to himself. The sensations are almost like being high on drugs, but at the same time all natural and perfectly safe. Dylan wonders if what he is experiencing happens for other guys as well when their minds and bodies are confronted with similar circumstances. That is an interesting question for sure. Is what Dylan experiencing right now unique or commonplace? And how do all these sensations Dylan is experiencing relate to having physical sex with a partner? Is this somehow an alternative or replacement for that, or is Dylan leaning things about how his mind and body reacts to being put into snug-fitting situations that could ultimately prove useful to understand in a real partner-focused relationship?

Dylan keeps thinking to himself about what other guys who wear various kinds of snug-fitting clothing might or might not be experiencing in their own minds and bodies as well. Are these guys undergoing a similar experience to the one Dylan is now enduring? For example, what of Tony and Donovan, the college rowing team members who admitted to wearing thong underwear under the singlets they were wearing for rowing practice. Could there be something interesting going on for them too, Dylan wonders. Dylan has discovered that he is somehow strangely fascinated just thinking about all of this and pondering what other guys might or might not be experiencing when their bodies are subjected to being inside snug-fitting clothing of various kinds.

Dylan has been rolling all of this over and over in his mind ever since that accidental encounter he had with Bill and Joe wearing their compression gear while walking down the dorm hallway. Somehow, seeing Bill and Joe that night set off some lights and alarm bells in Dylan’s brain…lights and alarm bells that he somehow could not seem to extinguish or stop. From that night on, Dylan knew exactly what he wanted to do too, and the Amazon order gave him the opportunity to try a bunch of different ideas.

To be sure, Dylan always thought he was a bit weird when it came to the entire subject of snug-fitting clothing, and this part of him he had never dared reveal to his peers, let alone his parents or siblings. Dylan has always known that somewhere there was a special place that happened whenever he got into a situation where he could (or was perhaps forced) to wear snug-fitting clothing of all sorts. Dylan had always been a tighty whitey briefs (not boxers) kind of a guy. He liked how cotton briefs gripped his male anatomy and that experience served as something of a tamer introduction to what he was going through right now.

It didn’t take him long to learn that the snugger his briefs fit the better he felt down there. So he would sometimes sort through the briefs in his dresser drawer to find the smallest pair. He often did this as a prelude to jerking off in his room late at night, long after everyone else in the house was asleep. He would sometimes crawl under the covers wearing only his favorite briefs and stroke himself to a heavy-duty ejaculation. Dylan had frequently wondered if other guys his age did the same thing or something similar, jerk-off in the tightest pair of briefs they could find in their dresser drawers. Somehow, loose-fitting boxers did not work for this, and Dylan wondered why so many of his friends seemed to wear boxers almost exclusively. Did the other guys simply not know about this, or were they somehow avoiding such a situation to keep this from happening?

Dylan has a brother who is three years younger than him, Jason. When Dylan was 14, Jason was 11. As is commonplace, sibling males usually end up wearing the same style of underwear, but, of course, Jason at 11 was considerably smaller than Dylan at 14. Dylan recalls thinking about this. As Jason was just entering puberty, Dylan wondered a lot about what was going on with Jason’s mind and body, but interestingly, male siblings never dare ask the questions to each other that are important to them. Jason had a lot of questions he would have liked to have asked Dylan, and Dylan would have liked to better understand what Jason was going through, but none of these questions ever get asked or answered, as both parties are too embarrassed.

But one night at age 14 Dylan was feeling particularly horny. At that point in time Dylan was wearing tighty whiteys boys size 18 which are nearly as big as the men’s size SM. Dylan knew that Jason’s briefs were such smaller, boys sizes 12 and 14. After all, Jason was only 11. Dylan snuck into Jason’s dresser drawer and “borrowed” a pair of Jason’s briefs. He found a pair labeled boys size 12. Dylan rationalized this all of the basis that Jason was undergoing puberty, and had probably outgrown what looked to be overly tiny white cotton briefs anyway.

That night, Dylan struggled to get himself into the tiny boy’s briefs, but somehow he managed to accomplish this. Dylan suddenly felt really, really horny, and he knew he was going to have to get off, and soon. Two things were going on here. First, the briefs Dylan had borrowed from Jason were really tight, and at least at first, uncomfortable. Secondly Dylan was pondering what it made him feel like to wear another guy’s briefs, even if the other guy was his little brother Jason. Dylan got hard and was ejaculating into the briefs in only a very short period of time.

The only thing Dylan had to figure out was how to get those cum-stained briefs into the weekly laundry loads. He figured the simple solution was top just mix them in with his own wash which included several pairs of white cotton underwear although a larger size. If his mom discovered the cum-stained size 12 briefs, briefs that belonged to Jason, she might only conclude that Jason was making “real progress” in becoming a man. No issues here for sure, as mom was not about to do research on whether the cum stain belonged to Jason or to Dylan.

From that night on, Dylan knew that both his mind and body loved snug-fitting clothing, and that in some ways he was hooked on the entire experience. Now a 19-year old and in college, Dylan increasingly had been wondering whether his experiences with clothing as a young teenager were at all like the experiences his college buddies had as young teenager.

Growing up, Dylan also had a thing for really skinny undersized jeans to the point where he almost never threw out jeans that had obviously gotten too small for him as his body grew. But the events there are a story for another day.

These are questions relating to stuff normal college guys do not ask each other, but Dylan had already learned a lot just by quietly watching Bill, Joe, Tony and Donovan and how they seemed to be reacting to various things. Maybe Dylan was not quite as weird about all of this as he only recently thought he was. Maybe these sensitivities to clothing for guys are not rare but indeed quite commonplace, and maybe a lot of guys like to set up situations where they expect to get horny but are not able to ejaculate in order to release the building pressure. Maybe Dylan is fine. Maybe Bill, Joe, Tony and Donovan are just normal guys who like to enjoy themselves too, just like Dylan does.

Meanwhile, Dylan’s body has filled the cup to the point where Dylan has no more space to expand into, but Dylan still can’t get off. The cup is pressing on three sides of his penis, and the snug singlet makes the cup bear down and press against Dylan’s groin. It doesn’t help that Dylan has been thinking about all of this, stuff that happened to him when he was in high school and stuff his college buddies are doing now.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan keeps thinking back about events that occurred when he was a few years younger in high school. Dylan has always thought that his body and in particular his groin area was particularly sensitive to all sorts of different kinds of snug-fitting clothing, and as an adolescent, he was always figuring out ways that took full advantage of his sensitivities. This situation first became apparent to Dylan when he was only about 11, at the very dawn of puberty. Actually, Dylan had already discovered some of these feelings and sensitivities far earlier than that, maybe when he was as young as 7 or 8 years is all.

By the time Dylan was 14, he had developed a list of clothing items that he thought might be fun to wear and had started developing strategies that would allow him to obtain the items that he thought would be interesting and fun to try wearing, as well as a developing a “plan of attack” for doing this. For a 14-year old, none of this was that easy. Dylan wondered if the other boys his age were coping with the same or similar thoughts and problems. The first problem was identifying the specific items that he thought would be fun. Problem 2 was obtaining those items, and this often involved convincing his parents that he needed these things that seemed a bit odd and that they would make sense for him. The third problem was finding a time and place at that age where he could run some “experiments” with the various items.

Parents can often time be a little difficult in these efforts. Boys at 14 are growing rapidly in all sorts of places. Often times a major consideration for parents is buying clothes for their boys that will last a while and thus are oversized. If what they are buying is loose-fitting and sloppy, at least initially, so be it. That is just a “price” paid to get ‘longer wear” out of the pieces of clothing being purchased.

But loose and sloppy-fitting was and is not where Dylan’s mind was going at that age, not at all. Dylan at age 14 was thinking snug and tight, and the snugger and tighter the better. Already, Dylan had discovered that Dylan was very sensitive to snug and tight, and just thinking about this produced some very enjoyable sensations both in his groin area and mind. Dylan wanted more. A lot more. The more Dylan thought about this and what was happening to how he felt, the more excited he got. Further, the more his parents denied Dylan the items he sought the more interested he got in wanting to go exactly there. So, inadvertently, Dylan’s parents in their actions were making Dylan ever more interested in pursuing this.

What were the items? Dylan has been pondering this entire question for at least 5 years. There were several items. We can assume that anything on Dylan’s list might be a useful aid to jerking off For example, we know that Dylan really loved very snug-fitting cotton briefs. Indeed, anything that ends up ultimately getting nicely cum-stained probably can go right to the top of the list. But the cotton briefs are just the start.

Dylan also knew that he liked a lot of different kinds of sports gear that fits close to his body, compression shorts and tees, athletic supporters and similar. Then there are the jeans. For a long time in Dylan’s short life, Jeans were only sold that fit really loose in the butt, leg and thigh, and these were anything but a turn on. But when Dylan turned 16, about three years ago, this started to change in a hurry, and slim-fitting, or shall I say, snug-fitting jeans almost overnight became really popular. Once Dylan discovered that jeans fitting snug in the butt, thighs and legs, there was a little signal that suddenly went off in Dylan’s brain that this was where his brain and body wanted him to go.

What was happening to Dylan? Dylan wasn’t entirely certain, but he really knew he wanted a pair of skinny jeans. But, convincing his parents that he had to have a $40 pair of Levi’s 511® skinny jeans was not going to be easy. (Dylan actually really wanted the Levis 510® super-skinny jeans, but they were $58 so that one went from difficult to totally impossible.)

Of Course, Dylan’s parents still followed the old decision rule that said buy clothes oversize because then the boys (Dylan and Jason) can grow into them and wear the clothing for more than a year or so.

Dylan at 16 knew he had not yet finished growing, so jeans, even 511 jeans, that seemed a little loose now, were going to get snugger and tighter as Dylan added body muscle over time.

Dylan still has this pair of 511’s, a sand-colored pair that he had gotten when he was 16, and this pair of jeans went along with him to college. The same jeans that once fit a little loose when his parents bought them for him at 16, were gradually fitting snugger and tighter over time. Dylan still loved to “try on” these jeans, particularly when he was feeling a little horny. He would try them on and look at himself in the dorm room mirror. He loved it that the mirror revealed that even though he was wearing jeans, it was still quite apparent in the mirror that he was a guy. And he loved the ever snugger fit in the butt, thigh and even through his calf muscles, which were now filling out the lower part of the legs of the skinny jeans. The combination of a pair of tighty-whiteys and the jeans felt really good to Dylan.

But today, Dylan had gone to another place entirely. The items he got out of the Amazon® order were many things that Dylan could have never purchased even with his own money, when he was in high school, because Dylan knew his parents would have objected or would have started asking questions that Dylan would have been too embarrassed to try and answer (“Dylan, why do you NEED a jock strap?” Dylan could have hardly said to his parents “Because I think it might be fun to try masturbating into!”) You see what the problem would have been. No guy dares openly tell his parents that he wants specific clothing items because he thinks these items are a turn-on to help him masturbate more powerfully. That is just too blunt, but Dylan also suspects that other guys have these same or very similar thoughts and interests, and are in the same boat in dealing with their parents. Guys try their best, and manage to get what they can while trying all along to leave the appearance that nothing is going on in their brains and bodies.

But now as a young adult and off to college, Dylan was able to pursue getting the exact items he always thought would be fun to wear. Dylan’s experience hanging out with Bill, Joe, Tony and Donovan at the school gym was a real eye opener. The Amazon order became the list of stuff Dylan would have loved to have access to as a 16-year old, but could not. And remember where Dylan is right now, clad in a snug-fitting forest green asics wrestling singlet, strap and cup. The sensations Dylan is experiencing now are nothing short of amazing, and something is bound to happen. Maybe that something is already happening.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan has been pondering everything that has happened to him from the point in time when he was very young. His initial discovery of and experiments with the sensitivity of his body (and mind) to snug-fitting clothing, experiment frequently done on the sly.

To be sure, turning these thoughts over and over in Dylan’s mind was not “helping” his current situation, clad in the ProForce athletic supporter and cup and forest green asics wrestling singlet at all. As these thoughts go over and over in Dylan’s mind, the tension in his groin area seems to be building. Dylan is now firmly aware of the walls of the cup bearing down on the top and both sides of his penis. How can something that is on the verge of being painful also be so much fun.

The mere knowledge of the cup being there makes Dylan horny. Horny enough to feel increasingly strong urges to get off. These urges to get off radiate through Dylan’s body almost like miniature bolts of lightning. For a brief moment, they come on strong, and then just as suddenly subside a little to the point where Dylan thinks he can cope for at least a little while longer without ejaculating. A tough dilemma for Dylan’s young mind and body to be in, for certain, but an interesting place to be, too, psychologically and physically. Dylan is also realizing that he is having the time of his life as his young mind and body is forced to cope with the situation such as it is.

Dylan has now grown about as big as he can be given that the cup limits to a significant degree the space available to grow. He has filled all of the available area to grow, and any additional growth will just cause the cup to bear down harder on his penis. Dylan can cope with all of this for a few minutes, but soon he decides that he needs a little relief from the situation he is facing.

Dylan now realizes that the only way he can get some momentary relief is to pull down the asics singlet, exposing the strap and cup. He can then pull the strap pouch and cup outward, away from his groin, and releasing some of the pressure that bearing down on his penis from the cup and strap.

Dylan does this, with the idea of releasing his penis from its confinement for a minute or so to provide some relief. But then Dylan wants to get himself right back inside the strap and cup and see if he can cope with this along with the singlet a while longer still without going into a full-blown ejaculation. This is certainly an interesting experiment to see how much tension and pressure he can stand but still without ejaculating. Dylan is starting to wonder what his limits are in this regard. He has already discovered that it is possible to stay horny and at least semi-hard while continuing to delay going into an orgasm much longer than he realized.

But, soon the time comes for Dylan to get back into the strap, cup and singlet. During its freedom from confinement, Dylan’s penis got a little harder and bigger than was possible when it was inside the cup. As Dylan releases the cup once again, after having pulled the cup and pouch away from his body for some moments, the elastic of the wide waist band snaps back tightly against his groin quickly. Pangs of immense pleasure, almost pain, radiates through Dylan’s entire body as his penis has to readjust to the confines of the strap and cup bearing down once again. “What a wild sensation!” Dylan thinks. It is immensely pleasant but at the same time on the verge of being almost painful. Dylan’s penis is revolting against the whole idea of being back inside such a confined space. Pulling the singlet back into place simply adds more tension to the entire situation.

Dylan now fully realizes that he will not be able to hold off ejaculating for much longer. There is just too much happening down there. His situation right now is driving him bananas, making him want more and more to get off.

To be continued…

[dm106]

Sebby, just wanted to let you know that I've been following this story. It's really good. Do you think Dylan wants to have the other guys seem him in his gear?

[sebbie]

Dylan is really struggling with his gear and what is happening to him in private...first things first!

[sebbie]

By the time guys turn 16, most guys have been experimenting with self-pleasuring for three or four years, and are moving more and more into the idea of engaging in partner sex. This may come as a shock to many parents, but it is true. These passing years become increasingly difficult for a lot of guys to successfully navigate, in large measure because the guy is physically and sexually mature, but generally not in any situation that would make sex with a partner acceptable behavior at all.

For guys who think of themselves as straight, the whole idea of regularly being able to engage in partner sex with a girl presents a lot of problems and issues. There is, of course, the emotional attachment issue and the whole notion that girls generally are more into emotional attachment first with physical sex coming later. Of course, a lot of guys are not wired that way either emotionally or physically, but even if they were there would still be a host of knotty issues to resolve at that age in order to get to the partner sex part.

I have often thought about the same question as it would apply to the typical 16-year old male who has been thinking about the possibility that he might be gay. The whole navigation process for this 16-year old is every bit as difficult for the 16-year old who is considering the possibility that he might be gay as it is for the guy who believes he is straight. The first step in this process is definitely not having partner sex with another guy, any more than the first step for a 16-year old straight guy is to rush out and have partner sex with a girl. There are messy emotional issues to deal with regardless of the gender the guy is pursuing. For the potentially gay guy, this gets all messed together first with the issues of self-acceptance but then the question of possibly coming out to peers, parents and siblings, and how doing so might affect one’s daily life and future plans.

Then there is another problem that not every 16-year old guy neatly fits into one box or another of being either straight or gay. A lot of guys fall somewhere in between the two categories. Look at Bill and Joe to see what I mean here. Both consider themselves to be straight, and have a sexual interest in women. But for two completely straight guys, they have been certainly having a lot of fun in the company of each other in their dorm room, even though what they have been doing with each other in the dorm room has not involved any direct physical connection (aka gay sex) with each other. Are Bill and Joe both really straight arrows, or could things be a lot more complicated that both had realized? Does Bill get turned on just by realizing Joe is turned on? Does Joe get turned on when he realizes that Bill is enjoying himself? If this is happening, what does this mean for their sexuality? This is a most interesting issue that will be developed further in coming chapters.

Dylan, of course, is the quiet one and, if you haven’t guessed yet, something of a loner. Dylan has never engaged in partner sex with anyone. Not that he hasn’t thought about it for sure. Does it come as any surprise that Dylan has always been somewhat confused about his own sexuality? Dylan has never admitted that he was confused about this, even fully to himself.

Seeing Joe and Bill wandering down the dorm hall that night wearing their straps, cups and compression gear set off some bells in Dylan’s head. This started Dylan’s thought process to go in some new and interesting ways. The whole process was reinforced when he ran into Bill and Joe wearing their gear at the gym, and then had the conversation with Tony and Donovan who were clad in their rowing gear of choice, essentially a really snug wrestling singlet and men’s thong underwear. Then coming back from the gym, Bill and Joe hatched this scheme to order wrestling singlets, thong underwear and maybe some other stuff on line. Dylan at that moment in time knew he had to have in as well.

But Dylan is still this quiet, somewhat confused loner that Dylan has always been. One big advantage to sophisticated self-pleasuring techniques is that generally they ramp up the fun index safely without having to confront all of the complicated emotional and physical issues related to partner sex in any form either with a woman or with a guy. That is a huge advantage and is not to be discounted. Dylan can still very much enjoy his body without having to confront stuff he would rather not have to confront right now. What Dylan is doing with himself is absolutely perfect for a shy and somewhat confused loner.

And wow is Dylan having fun. This is the most fun Dylan has ever had pleasuring himself, by far. At the end of the previous chapter I left Dylan in a situation where he was nearly “climbing the walls” desperate to get off because of the pressure bearing down on his penis from the strap, cup and singlet.

“Wow this stuff is tight” Dylan keeps saying over and over, under his breath. Dylan’s brain is now telling him louder and louder that he needs to get off and bring this to a conclusion. Dylan knows that he has been experiencing the most exciting self-pleasuring sequence he has ever been in.

“What is all this stuff about guys knowing everything there is to know at age 16 about masturbating?” Dylan thinks to himself.”

Dylan can stand it no longer. He rips down the singlet and pulls off the strap and cup, with the inside of the pouch now being nearly completely soaked in an ocean of pre-cum. Dylan had no idea that he was able to pre-cum in that quantity. But all the evidence is right there.

Dylan presses on his balls with the tips of his fingers, and discovers that even his balls are sensitive to the touch and feeling really good. Not surprisingly, Dylan’s penis is now very long and very hard. Dylan can hardly believe what he is seeing down there. Dylan can’t resist. He starts stroking his penis from base to glans using only a facial tissue as a barrier. Dylan notices that the underside of the tip of his penis, the glans area, is now extremely sensitive to his fingertips, and producing some fascinating sensations now.

Once the glans of a fully-hardened penis gets fondled, a powerful orgasm is only moments away. Dylan starts shooting a creamy cum with powerful muscular contractions that go way beyond what has ever happened to him before. He tries to “control” these powerful bursts of cum by covering the tip of his penis, but some still escapes and shoots way across the room (Good Dylan’s roommate, Joshua, went home for the weekend!).

“Wow that was fun!” Dylan says to himself. Dylan knew he had managed to take self-pleasuring to a whole new level for sure. Maybe finding a partner for sex isn’t quite the priority it was, at least not for now.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

It took Dylan awhile to come down from where he was only a couple minutes ago, both psychologically and physically. Dylan felt really drained now, both literally and figuratively. Dylan kept rolling over and over in his head the events that had transpired, from that first encounter seeing Bill and Joe in the Dorm hallway in their gear, to all of the stuff that had transpired since then, with each of the events seemingly playing a role that ultimately led to the most powerful orgasm Dylan had ever had.

And the orgasm happened not in some partner sex contact, either straight or gay, but while Dylan was just there alone in his dorm room. This is not how any book that Dylan had ever read on the subject portrayed how it was supposed to be. The books Dylan read said that solo sex, aka “masturbation” was something little kids, like kids maybe 12 or 13 years old, did when their parents and siblings weren’t looking to have a little fun until they were old enough for a real emotional relationship with a sexual partner. These books always portrayed masturbation in any form as an inferior alternative to “real” sex, something done maybe by young boys during and immediately after puberty, and maybe older boys who were socially challenged with respect to relating to others, nerdy older boys who were not capable of making successful emotional binds with a real person.

Then there are the teen-age stories and bullying that link masturbation with a young boy being gay. If a guy is discovered masturbating by a peer male, he is frequently teased and bullied as being a gay jerk-off. No guy at 13 or 14 wants to be labeled this way in school, and hence the secrecy young guys have about their masturbation habits, despite the fact that increasingly practically every young male deep down believes that practically all of his male buds are probably doing the same thing on the sly. Why? Because it is simply too much fun to NOT be doing it! Young guys just don’t exchange any information about this practice because there are too many personal risks involved, and any exchange of information would reveal too much personal information.

A guy often thinks about what would happen if, perhaps accidentally, he discovered a male friend jerking off. This becomes a particular issue for two males in a double dorm room. Clearly, no college student is going to be able to make it through 4 years of college without ever getting off. That is unrealistic. College men like to convey the impression that they are having regular sex with female dates on Friday and Saturday nights, and that this sexual release is more than enough for them. And perhaps some of them are accomplishing this, but 95 percent likely are not. That would be a lot of partner sex, and only a small percentage of college males are prepared to get that involved with a female partner at that stage in their lives.

So, college males must be masturbating too, and probably a lot. It is simply unrealistic to think otherwise, unless you assume that college males are brain-dead or that 19-year old guys universally do not love jerking off.

What exactly is going on in each dorm room containing two males is not exactly clear. I suppose one possibility is that both guys masturbate surreptitiously under the covers in the middle of the night, but is it even possible to keep secret what a guy is up to if his roommate is in a bed only a few feet away? This in an interesting puzzle to try and unravel for sure. The solution might be very well different in each of the dorm rooms as the roommates cope with their urges in the face of not having significant privacy.

In our story, so far we have seen two ideas. Dylan waited till his roommate Joshua (Josh) went home for the weekend and then took advantage of the dorm room privacy. But Josh will be back to the Dorm room in time for Monday’s classes. Is Dylan going to reveal anything about what he has been doing? And what if Josh should accidentally see one or more of Dylan’s “play items.” How will Dylan answer the obvious questions? Did Dylan get all the cum stains washed off the dorm room floor?

Bill and Joe have long been in a much different situation. Bill knows what Joe likes to do and Joe is well aware of at least some of what Bill enjoys doing. That situation alone is almost incomprehensible for male high school buddies where secrecy is the key to survival. We can assume also that Bill and Joe are each more than a little turned on by this realization, and further, that neither of them are opposed to seeing the other in an obvious state of arousal. But what makes this really interesting is that both Bill and Joe think of themselves as straight. Determining the meaning of all of this for both Bill and Joe is an interesting puzzle.

Then there is Tony and Donovan, the rowing team members. Bill, Joe and Dylan have been thinking that there was at least a possibility that Tony and Donovan are also a gay couple. Tony and Donovan share an enthusiasm for exercise, physical fitness, and in general looking really good in tight-fitting clothing, and their rowing team membership enhances that. From Bill and Joe’s perspective, physically, Tony and Donovan are everything Bill and Joe would like to be. But in addition, Tony and Donovan also seem completely at ease and casual with each other and their bulging muscles and groin areas. This ease has affected Dylan to a degree as well.

And what of my readers? Why are you still reading these chapters, anyway? As mature audience literature goes, there has not been a single instance of sex with a partner. There is a rule somewhere that says every piece of adult literature should include a partner-focused sexual encounter described in detail every 5-7 pages. This is not that at all. Mainly this story is about guys who are struggling with new adulthood in an assortment of ways. To the extent that my writing is successful, I suspect it is because of two things. First, I’m covering complicated issues for guys that have almost never been addressed elsewhere. Secondly, my fervent hope is that in reading all of this, you will get to experience some of the sensations my characters are experiencing in your own minds and bodies, but particularly in your own groin area. If I accomplish this, I am successful, and the story must continue.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Just like Dylan, Bill and Joe are excited about and interested in trying on the stuff they got in the big Amazon order. Unlike Dylan, however, Bill and Joe have already had some active experience with trying on and then wearing snug-fitting clothing (remember the long dream sequence wearing the compression gear, straps and cups many chapters back. If you do not remember these chapters, they are good for you to read before following the continuing story now.)

Men’s thong underwear has always been something of a mystery item for Bill and Joe. Bill and Joe, of course, both knew that thongs were very popular with women their age and even with many of the girls in high school. Bill and Joe would have to be brain-dead to not realize this.

But for men, thong underwear was something of a 180 degree U-turn. Guys in high school almost uniformly had abandoned even white cotton briefs in favor of loose-fitting patterned boxers. Tighty whiteys were for the little boys. But little boys who started out in colorful Superman-patterned cotton briefs soon abandoned them too in favor of Superman patterned boxers. This is a little weird, because as any 6-year old knows, Superman did NOT wear boxers, but instead really snug-fitting red briefs on the OUTSIDE of equally snug-fitting royal blue tights and top with the big-S superman logo. If a guy wants to play like Superman, boxer briefs are NOT what a guy should be wearing for sure.

Anyhow, Superman did not wear a thong either, but a lot of small boys learned about the basics of adult male anatomy by observing Superman’s male bulge in the super-tight red briefs.

In the case of men and from the unique male anatomy, thong underwear is, well, interesting in an assortment of ways, presuming the guy can get his head around the notion that a thong was not designed for a young woman but are also interesting as men’s apparel, or that only gay men would ever be caught wearing a thong designed to the male anatomy.

Every pair of thong underwear fits and feels a little different, and finding the correct-fitting thong underwear can take a bit of research. The male anatomy is better suited to a thong than is the female anatomy. Guys often are squeamish about having the rear band of the thong cut between their butt cheeks, but for guys, getting one’s head around that is a big part of the fun. Thongs are made with three basic designs. The most readily available ones typically use a wider band of elastic that is designed, more or less, to ride over the butt crack, not between the butt cheeks. These are popular in large measure because the thong doesn’t feel that much different from standard briefs, except of course, that the guy’s butt cheeks are bare.

The second design males the thong back out of a narrow round elastic cord, sometimes still covered in cloth. These thongs are definitely designed so that the round cord cuts between the butt cheeks, brushing against the anal area. With this design, the guy will never forget he is wearing something unique. The cord disappears as it cuts between the butt cheeks, and as the guy moves around and walks, there is a feather touch-like feeling in the anal area that perhaps is sexually arousing for guys, though some guys don’t realize this could happen until they get themselves into the thong and start moving around.

The third design makes the back from a narrow band of elastic, not cord, maybe only a quarter-inch wide. This version is also designed to cut between the butt cheeks and disappear in between in the lower part of the butt. To me, this design provides the best overall experience for the wearer, in part because the band presses firmly and less gently in the anal area than a light cord would.

Sizing matters as well. A size SM thong is going to have a shorter band or cord of elastic than a larger thong, and the small size will cut more firmly between the butt cheeks providing a more interesting and exciting overall experience.

But there is another thing going on here as well. The band making up the back of the thong is obviously connected to the front pouch in some way. Oftentimes there is also some double or triple stitching here, which creates something of a lump right where the elastic attaches to the pouch.

The location of where these stitches occur with respect to the male anatomy is very interesting, because it hits exactly the spot in the male anatomy known as the perineum. The perineum is directly behind the scrotum, between the scrotum and the anus. The slang term for this area is the taint. The perineum is a really interesting spot for guys. First of all, a ton of nerves terminate there, making the area extremely sensitive to touch and pressure. But also, in guys the taint is directly below the prostate gland. Anything that puts pressure on or massages the prostate is sexually exciting in unique ways, sensations a guy is likely not to forget any time soon.

So, put the combination of the male anatomy with a slightly undersized thong (so the almost too-short band cuts deeply between the butt cheeks while brushing firmly against the anal area) along with an bit of sewing that happens right at the taint, pressing upward and providing an indirect prostate massage right where all the nerve endings terminate, and you have a real recipe for fun. Think about what Tony and Donovan are experiencing wearing thongs under singlets while working out on a stationary rowing machine, and you will start to better understand what is going on with them and with their workouts.

Bill and Joe know nothing of all of what I have just told you. Unless a guy is somehow sexually brain-dead, the combination of the anal touch and the upward pressure on the perineum should be more than stimulating enough to cause pre-cum to flow in copious amounts even if the guy is not yet significantly hard just getting into the thong.

So, Bill and Joe begin by getting into their new thongs and that is exactly what happens. The upward pressure of the thong from directly behind the scrotum tends to push the male anatomy upward and forward. This means that when Bill and Joe top their thongs with the wrestling singlets they just got, their penises, even only slightly erect, are going to show as a bump in the front of the singlet. But both Bill and Joe already are oozing pre-cum, so they should not only quickly see a bump in an interesting place in their new Crimson red (Bill) and Navy blue (Joe) singlets, but at the very center of the bump should be a growing spot of pre-cum, first just a really-neat, viscous, crystal-like clear drop or two that guys normally delight in making, but quickly morphing into a wet area that is quarter-sized, then half-dollar sized, and even silver dollar sized. Any guy would have to be brain-dead sexually to not start oozing after getting into a thong for the first time.

Bill and Joe say absolutely nothing to each other. What is happening right now is obvious to both of them. It’s best to just keep quiet and enjoy the moment and the tremendously pleasant sensations their bodies are giving both of them, while increasingly recognizing now that part of the fun is very much linked to the realization of what the other guy is experiencing and doing. Some of life’s experiences are just too pleasant for words and talk. This is a great moment in time for both Bill and Joe. Dylan will learn about all of this too, but in his own time. Bill and Joe now think they understand at least partly why Tony and Donovan seemed so happy and full of life at the gym a few days ago. The male body is really, really fun in all sorts of ways. Something new and exciting every day.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe are both enjoying themselves, immensely. The new gear has resulted in an entirely different set of sensations for both of them, sensations that before they got into the gear they did not realize were possible. For starters, the upward pressure of the thong at the point where the pouch meets the rear of the elastic band that makes up the rear of the thong is, well, interesting to say the least.

Bill and Joe are not that knowledgeable about the nuances of male anatomy, in particular, they have been used to leaving the impression with their friends that they knew a lot about everything there was to know, but, as it turns out, some rather interesting parts got left out. For example, most 19-year old guys are probably only vaguely aware that their prostates are sensitive to touch and that this sensitivity can be sexually exciting coming from a very different place in the anatomy than the penis. They probably know that a lot of older guys are squeamish about having a physical that involves a digital prostate exam (these instances where guys have to do this play over and over on TV comedies) but the real reason for the squeamishness is less clear, that the guy undergoing a physical, having his prostate digitally examined, might also ejaculate in the doctor’s office almost instantly. Thankfully, physicals that include a digital prostate exam are rare for 19-year old guys. That is something that is a long way off.

Then there is the entire subject of gay butt sex and the nuances of that. At age 19, a lot of guys who think of themselves as straight are still wondering if this can possibly be comparable to having sex with a woman. What can be fun about that? But of course, the key here is the sexually-exciting prostate massage since the prostate is located directly beside the rectum. Hence the reason the digital prostate exam works, at least to a certain degree.

Now what Bill and Joe are doing is a little different. Obviously these two seemingly straight guys are not engaging in butt sex. But they are both wearing these skimpy thongs that are putting a lot of direct upward pressure in the perineum, rubbing externally right up against the prostate. For guys who haven’t discovered this yet, sexually this can turn out to be quite interesting, and doubly so with the wrestling singlet in place.

In this situation, guys usually do not immediately become way erect. The various pressures and sensations can be subtle at best, at least initially. This is like a lot of sexual feelings and sensations—they sneak up on you and take their own time about capturing your full attention. The usual response is only to get slightly erect, but to quietly start oozing crystalline clear drops of pre-cum. These droplets are usually viscous enough to stay as drops—growing up at that age I always thought they were fun to watch form as individual droplets. If the guy has a singlet over the top of the thong, the drops are so viscous that if the guy is careful, they will continue to form as funny-looking individual clear droplets on the outside of the singlet. And depending on exactly where the guy is psychologically, this process can continue, almost indefinitely.

Bill says to Joe “Wouldn’t it be fun to wear this gear to bed?” Joe says nothing, but nods approvingly. Keep in mind that part of the fun here for Bill is enjoying not only what is happening to his own body as the pre-cum oozes, but also at the same time getting to observe close up what is happening to Joe as he undergoes a situation with the same pressures and sensations. Of course, Joe is oozing pre-cum rather heavily by now too, and Joe is having fun just observing Bill and watching exactly how Bill is coping with the situation at hand as well.

Could this be considered a gay sexual encounter between Bill and Joe? That is certainly an interesting question, and not a question that can be resolved in a few sentences. Bill and Joe are certainly both enjoying themselves and what they are experiencing, and part of the enjoyment is directly related to observing close up what is happening to the other. Dylan would love to be where either Bill or Joe are right now but for now he is too shy and uncertain. Does this mean that Bill and Joe are gay and only masquerading as straight guys? Do both Bill and Joe still think they would be having more fun if they were in direct sexual contact with a female (in which case they could still with straight faces claim to be straight)? If part of the fun for Bill and Joe is just watching each other struggle do they both still fit on the far straight end of the scale?

And is this all “normal” or not? Maybe this entire situation is merely a fetish that Bill and Joe both happen to have. Some sexual psychologists might label this as such given that the clothing items are stimulating the sexual responses. But this is not fantasy or in any way imaginary. The pressures and sensations Bill and Joe are feeling are quite real even though specific items of clothing are involved. If this is indeed some sort of fetish, then a lot of guys must “suffer” with the same “problem.”

More generally, how many guys out there would not have any sexual reaction if they were given an opportunity to be in Bill’s or Joe’s situation right now? How many guys out there would perhaps secretly delight in being able to be in exactly that situation right now? There is still a lot about male sexuality that a lot of the researchers apparently understand hardly at all.

Meanwhile, Bill and Joe need to pee and this need to get down the hallway to the bathroom. Both of them now have silver-dollar sized damp spots of pre-cum on their singlets. This will be tricky. First, they will need to navigate the hallway without anyone noticing the pre-cum stains. Then, once they get to the urinals, they will need to pull down their singlets and pull out their penises from the thong pouches. With the singlets down it will be perfectly clear to any guy walking by that their butts are, well, baby-butt bare as they stand at the urinals. Another “little” problem of a physical nature is that when a guy starts to pre-cum, the prostate immediately shuts off the urine flow, biologically necessary because any trace of urine in the urethra would immediately kill the sperm in the semen, not great for reproduction.

So, if Bill and Joe are pre-cumming profusely, as we know they have been, they are probably going to have to stand at the urinal for a while before they can have any hope of peeing, which increases the likelihood that some other guys are going to wander into the bathroom and see everything, bare butts, singlets, thongs and all.

Bill and Joe wander into the hallway, hoping that no one will be out there and in particular notice the pre-cum stains.

But who should suddenly pop out of a side hallway but Josh, Dylan’s roommate, just back from his weekend home. And there are Bill and Joe both clad in cum-stained asics singlets, Bill’s crimson red and Joe’s blue. Josh is a more outgoing, friendly sort, and he greets Bill and Joe in a very friendly manner, pretending not to even notice the damp spots of pre-cum. Of course, Josh did notice. He just didn’t say anything.

Bill and Joe have not yet made it to the urinals, let alone to bed. However, they both have been enjoying themselves (and each other) a lot.

To be continued..

[sebbie]

As any heterosexual guy has come to realize at age 19, navigating the path to penis-vagina sex with a female can be difficult. There are all sorts of bumps in the road, starting with the notion that sex with a female is most often tied not only to emotional attachment (bad enough alone for a lot of guys) but to, (horror of horrors), long-term commitment! And, not surprisingly, most 19-year olds are not ready to get into big time emotional attachments let alone commitments that at least in the story books are supposed to last forever (remember the “until death do you part” stuff). All of this is just scary for most (dare I say nearly all) 19-year old guys.

Let’s say it right now. A lot of women, maybe most, are wired very differently when it comes to sex than the guys are wired. Generally speaking, the women worth getting serious about from the standpoint of emotional and perhaps permanent commitment are most often the ones that see sex as the logical last- step in a process that begins with emotional attachment.

Guys usually are wired differently. The hormones are flowing and the tension in the groin area is happening. Guys sometimes (often?) see this tension not as simply a very enjoyable experience but as a “medical condition” that needs to be dealt with one way or another. They often think that the best and most socially-acceptable way to deal with this is real sex with a woman, but for a host of reasons, this may not either be possible or even desirable in the larger scheme of things, given where the guy is school-wise (a freshman in college) or otherwise (a reluctance to make a long-term emotional commitment).

Let’s be blunt here. For guys who think of themselves as straight, this is frequently not a happy time, sex-wise.

What about the guys who think of themselves as gay, and attracted to other men their age? Isn’t casual sex with another guy considered the norm for gay guys? Another guy is not going to be wired like the typical woman is wired, where everything seems connected to making a firm emotional commitment first and the sex part comes later, maybe far later. Gay guys in theory are all about casual (aka one-night) sex without emotional bonds or commitments. Or are they? Maybe this is one of those great myths that heterosexual guys generally believe.

Let’s think back: In the pre-HIV days, prior to the 80s, maybe the casual sex thing was indeed the norm for gay men, and the long term commitment thing was more-nearly the exception than the rule. As everyone knows, HIV changed the behavior of gay guys with respect to casual sex in major ways. Casual sex by definition was not sex with a guy who you have first gone through a detailed list of all the previous sexual partners. Casual gay sex involving methods in which bodily fluids were exchanged became potentially life-threatening sex, and interest in coming up with ways that were safe(r) became a new key element. For starters, no one got HIV when engaging in a solo jerk-off session nor by watching another guy jerk himself off. Problem solved! Well, at least sort of problem solved. What I am getting at here is the idea that gay guys suddenly became interested in engaging in activities that at once were sexually exciting to them and yet posed no risks.

I suppose we could debate the issue of whether the safe activities are as enjoyable as the risky ones, but let me leave that topic alone for now. Perhaps you can decide that one for yourself as you read the story line relating to Bill and Joe, Tony and Donovan, Dylan and (now) Josh.

Other forces are at work too. Politically the whole gay movement has evolved to the point where the major theme is “gay couples, male or female, are no different than straight couples other than gay couples have same-sex partners.” Gay couples find each other, establish emotional bonds, make commitments, get married, take on employment in every imaginable field, raise kids, and in general do everything that a straight couple would do. Acceptance of gays in the larger society largely hinges on the notion that we are no different from you. In particular, we do not engage in casual sex in public restrooms. All of those old gay stereotypes from the 1950s about gays and sex are flat-out wrong or at least completely obsolete.

All of this is endlessly fascinating commentary, and worthy of more discussion, but for now let me circle back to the 19-year olds Bill and Joe, and the situation they currently face. Bill and Joe have discovered a bunch of stuff that a lot of 19-year olds would be clueless about. First off, both Bill and Joe love snug-fitting clothing, clothing that seems to get them aroused in a bunch of different ways. Would this be common among 19-year olds, or more nearly some sort of abnormal “fetish” Bill and Joe both just happen to have? I do not know for certain, but I think that what Bill and Joe discovered is probably very commonplace for guys and quite normal. The issues are two-fold, however. If a guy were to be open and admit to this, he might be teased or bullied, called a fag, or whatever. So most guys are not even willing to entertain the possibility in their own minds for fear of what the possible consequences might be. College life is more open than what it was like living with your parents and in high school, but still a lot of college students would still be very uneasy about admitting what they like to themselves let alone their male friends, particular what they like that involves solo sex activity involving anything they think could be interpreted by others as abnormal.

Somehow, without saying much to each other, Bill and Joe have managed to at least to a degree worked their respective ways around this. Bill and Joe are not ready to make emotional commitments to anyone, having nearly four years of college to navigate first. But that doesn’t mean that they can somehow deep-six their sexual feelings and sensations for that amount of time. So the activity involving the clothing items at this point serves a very useful purpose and release given the limits on the other options right now, and where other options might quickly go.

The third part of the puzzle, however, gets trickier. What if I, a guy, gets aroused watching you, a guy, get aroused perhaps with the aid of the snug-fitting clothing items such as those that have been described? Does that make me gay, or at least have a gay side to my personality?

What if YOU suddenly discover that YOUR arousal gets more intense with the realization that I am watching you do this? Does that mean that YOU are somehow gay and now disinterested in ever having sex with a female partner? Or what? Is this just a curious form of male bonding, or is there something more complicated going on here? If I enjoy watching you struggle with your sensations inside the thong and singlet, and similarly, you think it is fun to watch me struggle with the same feelings and sensations, exactly where does that leave the situation between you and me right now?

Maybe part of the problem is that the thongs and singlets are actually working TOO WELL and are therefore too good of a substitute for the sensations of real penis-vagina sex, in if this is true isn’t that going to eventually mean the end of reproduction (and the human race)? Maybe I shouldn’t even think about that for now.

So, as we leave this chapter, Bill and Joe have wandered down the hall in their thongs and singlets, and into the process had an encounter with Josh, Dylan’s roommate. Josh thought what they were wearing was, well, interesting for sure, but did not say anything that would indicate a degree of surprise.

Bill and Joe are now at the urinals, attempting to pee, which because of basic biology is not that easy to if they have been pre-cumming profusely very recently. The singlets have to come off the shoulders, and the singlets have to come off the shoulders and get pulled down so the pouch and their butts are exposed. Then the penises have to come out of the cotton thong pouches. Then a guy waits, sometimes a long time. If any other guy wanders into the bathroom right now, he is going to see two bare butted guys standing beside each other at the urinals, attempting to pee. Whoever wanders in might get the wrong idea about what is happening. But Bill and Joe both seem to think that is also part of the fun they are having with themselves (and with each other).

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Lots of interesting stuff going on here. Bill and Joe have discovered that if you are a guy who is pre-cumming, its tough to get a urine stream started. This is more than just having a “bashful kidney”. Given the arousal and all the pre-cum, Bill and Joe’s bodies are telling them that a stream of urine right now would really mess things up. The male body has a lot of different self-protects built in, almost like a modern automobile. And of course, very important in the scheme of things is the idea of maintaining the species into future generations. So with a common pipe for urine and sperm/semen, a system had to be made that would ensure the sperm emerged healthy and ready to go. This is it!

If you wait long enough at the urinal, things will probably switch back, but there are Bill and Joe, bare-butted, singlets dropped to their knees, waiting for something to happen.

Then there is Josh, who just got back to the dorm after a weekend home. Dylan is in their room. Josh has just encountered Bill and Joe in the hallway, both of them wearing their wrestling singlets (with thongs under). Josh greets Bill and Joe warmly but thinks what he just saw is a little, well, weird.

Josh pops into the dorm room and says to Dylan. “I just saw Bill and Joe in the hallway. They both looked great, but they were both wearing colorful wrestling singlets. Bill’s was red and Joe’s was navy blue.”

The really interesting question is how Dylan will decide to respond to what Josh has just said.

There are two options: Option A is to say nothing about his own gear that he has been experimenting with this weekend, as in his in forest green singlet, strap and cup.

Option B is to say to Josh. “Oh, I bought one of those too, but mine is a dark green color.”

If Dylan goes with Option A, then he has the additional problem of trying to hide the gear from John, and Josh will likely eventually see something on Dylan’s side of the room. The strap and cup is more easily hidden in the bottom of the in-closet dresser drawer, but eventually Josh is probably going to see the wrestling singlet Dylan bought, if buy accident.

But Dylan knows that if he responds with option B, Josh is probably going to start asking some questions. A question might be as simple as “What gives, Dylan?”

At this point Dylan gets to think up an answer. Obviously, there are various ways to handle this. Dylan is too shy to tell Josh anything about what exactly he has been doing all weekend long. Nope, a more believable answer goes something like this.

“Joe, Bill and I have started going to the student gym for exercise. Some of the guys there are wearing singlets as gym wear. Bill, Joe and I thought this was not a bad idea, so we each ordered one on Amazon. Mine is dark green. Josh, you need to join us at the gym. It has been fun, and we are meeting some guys who are better athletes than we are!”

Josh thinks this response is at least plausible. Dylan avoids having to go into what could be embarrassing details of his messing around all weekend long. The explanation for the wrestling singlets may not be completely satisfactory, but at least it is a start.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Dylan and Josh have both crawled into bed. Dylan especially felt particularly “drained” and beat for some odd reason, but Josh was tired too, after his trip home and long (250-mile) car ride back to campus. Both Josh and Dylan are wearing their sleepwear of choice, plaid, loose-fitting cotton boxers, Dylan’s in a medium Blue and Josh in various shades of gray.

Strangely enough, Dylan is still wide awake, and in his mind he seems to be replaying the events that took place over the weekend. Dylan really enjoyed himself inside the strap and cup and wearing the singlet over. Guys generally don’t easily forget this kind of enjoyment, for some strange reason. I think the reason this stuff gets “glued” into a guy’s brain might have something to do with basic biology. What makes this situation a little different, however, is that in this case, attraction to another person is not an element.

Dylan keeps thinking to himself that if Josh weren’t in the bed in the room right beside him, already he would be up getting into the strap, cup and singlet and see how long he could “tolerate” another round of self-pleasuring. Dylan finds this thought a little weird, but also arousing. The fact that he can’t just get up and do this right now is in itself strangely arousing, and as this stuff rolls over and over in Dylan’s mind, Dylan is starting to feel that pleasant tension in his groin area and particular at the base of his penis. Dylan doesn’t quite know what exactly to make of this. Dylan has had erotic fantasies in the past that led to the same sensations happening, but never quite this way. What is happening now to Dylan is that the erotic fantasy is based on his own self-pleasuring that happened only a few hours ago. The events of the recent past are having an impact all over again on Dylan’s brain and body.

As all of this happens, Dylan goes into a very natural but nearly autonomous response. At first he just touches his penis by simply pressing his fingertips on the underside at the base. “Yup, I am starting to get a little hard” Dylan says to himself, even though he is only wearing loose-fitting boxer shorts. Fortunately, Dylan’s “activity” is hidden under the bed covers, and Josh, if he is awake at all, cannot see what Dylan is doing to himself. The situation Dylan was in with the strap, cup and singlet keeps getting replayed over and over in his mind, almost as if it were a short YouTube ® video that somehow repeats endlessly. As this happens, Dylan starts to grow and get harder and harder. Dylan is now helping the process along in that what started out as just light fingertip pressing has morphed into what at first is gentle stroking. The stroking quickens a little as the tension in Dylan’s penis becomes greater. Dylan keeps thinking to himself that the strap, cup and singlet are fun even when a guy is NOT wearing them, because the events morph into such a neat self-pleasuring fantasy.

Dylan is confused too. Do these events have anything to do with Dylan’s sexual orientation? Is what Dylan is doing to himself and his penis right now the trademark behavior of a gay-leaning jerk-off, or if nearly ANY guy were placed into the same sequence of events over the weekend would end up in basically the same place right now. Dylan has no idea, except to say that this is a concern that pops into Dylan’s mind.

Dylan also wonders that if the strap, cup and singlet were that much fun, what about the other items he bought? What about those Desmiit® swim briefs? What will happen if Dylan gets into those and then “covers up” with the bright lime green Tesla® compression shorts? These accumulating thoughts are too much for Dylan’s young brain (and body) to handle. Dylan just touches the underside of the glans of his now really-hard penis and he starts to shoot semen in a series of powerful contractions. “I hope Josh is fast asleep” Dylan says to himself. “I hope I don’t need to pee after this” he says, realizing that he can hardly jump up and head down the hall to the bathroom right now, given that his boxer shorts are now covered with semen. Dylan, of course, has masturbated to ejaculation in bed before. Any young teen learns techniques for hiding this early on in life. But this ejaculation was really powerful and heavy, creating quite a mess for sure. Hiding what happened from Josh is going to be difficult, if not impossible.

Meanwhile, Bill and Joe have now both made it back from the hall bathroom and into the room. They are both thinking about continuing to wear their singlets and neat-fitting thongs to bed. Pressures and tensions down there which are readily manageable during the day when there are distractions quickly become more powerful at night, when the brain tends to want to focus on the sensations coming from the groin area. That is part of what makes life so interesting for guys.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

For many if not most guys, the first year of college is a huge learning experience in all sorts of ways, and it goes without saying that not everything a 19-year old guy learns happens inside the classroom. Out on their own for the first time, most college freshmen are delighted to have some additional freedom to do things that they would have not felt comfortable doing when living with their parents and siblings.

We all know what is traditionally on this list. College freshmen frequently get into a lot of trouble with teen-age drinking, DWI etc etc, plus things like sex with maybe not entirely willing females. A lot of this can quickly turn into stuff that ends up being illegal and results in a lot of issues and problems.

But Dylan, as you might have already expected, is none of this. Dylan is the shy, quiet type, and would never even think about getting involved in doing anything that would get himself into trouble with the law. Dylan is basically a “nice kid”, sometimes called a “sweet young man”. He is so laid back in terms of his behavior that he sometimes almost just blends into the background. He was famous for NOT engaging in the stuff in high school that the “rowdier” kids did, and his behavior in this regard has not significantly changed once he got to college. Dylan is still a sweet young man, affable, but not even that talkative.

Having said that, this does not mean that Dylan also lacks the drives and urges the other college guys have. Dylan has often felt the urge to beat off, sometimes in what would be considered unexpected times and places, but as a high school student, Dylan quickly learned that he needed to be able to control his “base instincts.”

Now in College, however, Dylan is starting to feel a bit more open about all of this. Dylan is not in any sort of a partner relationship though he is starting to think that this is something that he would eventually like to at least try to engage in at some point. As a consequence, Dylan has no reputation as a ladies’ man, but neither does he have any sort of reputation as a guy’s man, either or that he is somehow attracted to guys. Sexual orientation-wise, Dylan just blends into the background.

As I have suggested before, Dylan has long been aroused just thinking about the possibility of wearing snug-fitting clothing, and the idea of making the Amazon® order was in some ways a real break though for Dylan’s shyness. This was something he would have never tried doing had he still been living at home. And Dylan himself did not know exactly where this would lead. He soon found out.

Need I also mention one more time that the college living arrangements in freshmen dorms usually involve twin rooms, and oftentimes a guy does not know who his male roommate is going to be until they both move in. Two male roommates, living together in very tight quarters, can easily have drastically different habits, behaviors and views. (Would a college knowingly pair two gay guys in the same dorm room if they knew both of the guys were gay males?) Could two sexually-involved gay males get a double room in a men’s dorm without question, and sexually cohabit as roommates? I see no reason how the system could prevent this from happening. A lot of this old system still assumes that every guy in the dorm is straight no matter how silly that is. The key point here is that college roommates frequently have no clue about the sexual orientation of the roommate until after school starts.

It goes without saying that Dylan thoroughly enjoyed himself over the weekend when Josh went back home. Dylan has discovered a whole bunch of stuff about himself and his body that turned out to be terrific fun. He has never before had so much fun pleasuring himself, and these special self-pleasuring moments ended up getting replayed in his brain over and over again, which in turn ended with another powerful under-the-covers orgasm in bed when he was not even wearing any of the special stuff in the Amazon® order, just thinking about the possibilities wearing some of this. Plus Dylan still has a bunch of other stuff in the order he has not yet even tried on, let alone played with.

As a learning experience, all of this has been moving at a very rapid pace for Dylan. The entire experience has been so much fun that deep down, Dylan thinks he would like to shout out what he did and exactly what happened. Well, maybe not stand up and explain all of this in some public forum, but perhaps (????) share a little of this with his roommate Josh. Now Dylan and Josh are well-paired as roommates. Both good students, they are both quiet and somewhat shy with others, particularly with members of the opposite sex. Josh is a sweet guy too. The problem is that if Dylan starts to discuss any of what he has been up to with Josh, Josh might begin to take it the wrong way, especially perhaps start to assume that Dylan, at minimum, has a gay side, and that the discussion about singlets, jocks etc is the start of some sort of gay “come-on.” That is the real down side of having any sort of discussion. There are risks that it could all go quickly the wrong way, and college guys like to avoid roommate battles at least until late in the school year.

At the same time, Josh is not brain-dead. Ergo, he must engage in self-pleasuring (masturbation) too. Assuming this is true, Josh must be facing some of the same issues Dylan is dealing with in having a male roommate, and trying to maintain the “image” for Dylan’s benefit that he never ever masturbates. As the semester drags on, this gets tougher and tougher to do. But Dylan knows that he has taken all of this a step beyond where he thinks Josh is. Dylan has had this “thing” for snug-fitting clothing that goes all the way back to before puberty. Dylan is clueless as to whether this thing he has is widespread among 19-year old college roommates, and, if it isn’t, whether or not Josh would get uncomfortable knowing a little more about Dylan than he really wanted to know.

What a dilemma! Best to take this slow with Josh and proceed at a measured pace, if at all. What can Dylan comfortably share with Josh? Well, Josh already knows about Dylan’s forest green wrestling singlet and is, well, wondering what exactly is up with that. Josh is stumped. For starters, Josh knows Dylan is NOT a college wrestler.

Meanwhile, in the other dorm room, Joe and Bill have crawled into bed wearing their thongs and singlets. They are both having fun, and feeling pretty good. Bill knows that Joe in the bed a few feet away is enjoying himself clad that way. Joe knows that Bill in the bed a few feet away is also experiencing some pleasurable moments. The night is young. Can Bill and Joe make it through the night OK? More than OK? We will see.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Just as Dylan has issues, Bill and Joe have issues too. Bill and Joe have both crawled into bed wearing their new thongs and their new wrestling singlets, Bill’s in crimson red and Joe’s in navy blue. The new thongs feel really good to them, in large measure not so much because of the general snugness of the fit, but because for the first time, they are both experiencing exactly what significant upward pressure in the perineum area, that little spot right behind the scrotum, does to their bodies (and minds).

Exactly why that pressure in the thongs feels so good is not entirely clear, except to say that it must be a combination of all the nerve endings that terminate there that pleasantly respond to the pressure, plus the fact that the thong is putting indirect external pressure on the prostate gland located just inside. Bill and Joe had known nothing about this. The combination of these two events happening together is, well, interesting. Actually, the sensations are more than interesting. They are normally not strong enough to give a guy a firm erection right off, but the sensations are enormously satisfying in a host of other ways.

These sensations generated by the thong and the upward perineum pressure generally will quickly send a guy into a heavy pre-cum mode, despite the penis still being flaccid, or at best only semi-erect. And the pre-cumming will almost surely be profuse. Think not only dime-size spots of that crystal-clear, viscous, somewhat sticky fluid, but soon nickel-sized, then quarter-sized, then half-dollar-sized and even silver-dollar sized spots of pure pre-cum. Guys get fascinated with just watching the pre-cum accumulate in what are successive small but persistently accumulating individual droplets.

Bill and Joe both lie in bed pretending to be asleep, but at the same time having great fun with themselves. Further, Bill knows what is happening to Joe and Joe knows what is happening to Bill, and the mere knowledge that there is another guy in the bed a few feet away enjoying this in much the same way makes the entire sequence of events even more fun. All of this is a not-to-be-missed educational experience for 19-year old male college roommates housed in a freshman dorm.

The title of the story today indicated that Bill and Joe faced a dilemma, and they do, sort of. Let me explain in detail the specifics of the“problem.” Despite the snug fit of the thongs, their penises are much freer to move around than they were when they were contained in the straps and hard cups. Access is better. But remember, both Bill and Joe are wearing wrestling singlets that also fit snugly over the thongs, and these wrestling singlets cover their lower chests and are held in place via shoulder straps.

First off, as the pre-cum accumulates inside of the thong pouch, some of it is going to leak through, staining the singlet on the outside, right above the penis tip. This means a wet spot will soon be appearing on the outside of the singlet, a wet spot that will grow in size on the singlet as the pre-cum accumulates drop-by-drop.

Second, as all of this pre-cumming proceeds, at some point Bill and Joe are both going to feel increasing urges to stroke their penises from glans to base. This is tricky with the singlets in place. They can try stroking themselves from the outside of the singlet. Another approach would be to reach down inside the singlet and do the stroking from there. Keep in mind also that as all of this is happening the psychological pressure to go into full-scale ejaculation mode is building, and especially so if stroking is going on.

What then? I suppose Bill and Joe could ejaculate under the covers with the singlet still in place, but if these guys are now as horny as I think they are, this is going to leave a huge cum-stain on the singlet. Another approach would e to hop out of bed at some point, pull down the singlet shoulder straps, pull the singlet down and then ejaculate into the thong, or perhaps right into the air. But this is going to create a real mess, too.

Then there is the question of timing. Are both Joe and Bill going to get to the point whereby they can delay ejaculation no farther at about the same moment in time, or is one of them ahead of the other in this regard. Joe is thinking that it would be, well, interesting to watch Bill struggle doing this. Bill is thinking the same thing. What does this mean, for goodness sakes?

So, we leave Bill and Joe with a real dilemma. They had not expected to mess up their new singlets so soon after they got them, but for the turn of events as they discovered for themselves what Tony and Donovan were experiencing.

Meanwhile, back in Dylan and Josh’s room, we still have Dylan lying in bed in his damp, cum-stained boxers. This is, well, uncomfortable, but Dylan does not know quite what to do at this point. He could get up and slip on a clean pair, but that would awaken Josh, no doubt, who is now fast asleep. Alternately, he could just lie there and hope that the cum-stains dry by morning. But then there will be all those starchy-like yellowish stains on his boxers, so Dylan will have to be careful in figuring out a way to somehow discard the stained boxers into his laundry bag (an old pillowcase) and get into a fresh pair somehow without alerting Josh to what happened.

Ahh,…the real problems facing male college frosh males living in twin-bed dorm rooms are not simple at all. More of this great fun with self-pleasuring intermingled with terror.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

This is the first time either Bill or Joe has ever worn male thong underwear. For that matter, this is the first time either of them has ever worn a wrestling singlet. A situation like this always sets up maybe a bit of apprehension for guys. More bluntly put, some guys might be scared to death. No, not really. But normally guys do get a little apprehensive when they are getting into clothing items that will fit tight in the groin area and also snugly around their genitals. This is quite normal in a situation like this where everything is new and snug.

As I have indicated in various ways in past posts, every brand of thong fits a little differently. This is also true for specific sizes within the various brands. The fit and feel of the thong mostly depends on three factors. I have already mentioned in detail that exactly how the cord or band that makes up the rear of the thong is attached to the pouch greatly affects the feel. How the thong is constructed there can either give a strong” kick” in the perineum area, or a much more subtle kick. The strong kick is the most fun, but a thong that does this might feel somewhat uncomfortable at first, before everything settles down a bit.

The length and specific design of the back also determines how the thong is going to fit and feel. The narrower and shorter the back, the more likely it is to quickly ride between the butt cheeks. For thongs with a short and narrow back, when walking, the feel is something like the feel of a feather being passed over your butt crack. This may or may not take some getting used to, as it is not a sensation guys ordinarily feel. If you do not feel you are getting enough of a kick in the perineum, try pulling the thong upward and cinching the back so it disappears completely between the buttocks. That should do it.

The size and shape of the pouch matters too with respect to the fit and feel as well, but not as much as the first two factors. Getting the pouch into the proper position is sometimes a bit of a struggle for guys. The pouch is in the proper position when both of your balls and your penis are inside of this. Check to make sure this is happening.

Going to bed wearing a thong, as Bill and Joe are doing, is a unique and interesting experience because all the sensations tend to be more intense at night, when your mind isn’t distracted. By this time, most guys are likely pre-cumming, usually a lot of pre-cum and guys like to watch the individual droplets as they slowly form.

Bill and Joe are doubling the fun by adding the wrestling singlets to the mix. Thongs generally press the male anatomy upward and forward, even as the wrestling singlet bears down on the same area. The guy’s anatomy is very obvious with this, although not in an obscene-looking way. The bulge will look almost like a large circular button, certainly there in front. Unless, of course, the guy at this point already is getting a hard-on. Then these observations are off.

What is happening under the covers in Bill and Joe’s situation is not entirely clear at this point. Maybe they are still flaccid with large quantities of pre-cum. Maybe they are both helping things along and at least starting to get hard. Whatever they are both experiencing right now should be quite pleasant, to say the least. A guy can easily get hopelessly “hooked” on doing this, or something similar. Guys quickly discover that they do not want to go to bed unless they have set up a situation that they can enjoy in this manner.

What if their peers see them in this garb? The correct answer should be “so what!” You see how it went with Dylan at the gym for sure.

Practically every guy has the potential to enjoy themselves in a manner similar to what Bill and Joe are doing right now. A lot of these guys either don’t know about this stuff, or, to the extent that they do, are scared or perhaps too embarrassed to try. That is unfortunate, and somewhat sad.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe have both discovered several weeks ago that while orgasms are fun (they discovered that at puberty), the key to a really enjoyable orgasm is to remain aroused for as long as possible while resisting the ever-more-powerful physical and psychological urges to get off as soon as possible. These urges to ejaculate seem to come in a series of powerful waves, a sequence of events where the pressure to get off becomes almost unbearable, then backing off for a bit to a tolerable level, and then building the urges and pressures back up again right to the edge of going into a full-scale ejaculation.

For guys, it’s quite enjoyable to simply spend time practicing how to do this. Arousal, accompanied with drops of viscous pre-cum, can continue for an indefinite period of time, if a guy does not want to bring himself farther along than that. But, in that phase, there is always an intense psychological pressure to go farther, first, to get semi-erect, and then on to a full-scale erection.

The thongs and singlets that Bill and Joe are wearing are helpful in maintaining their bodies and minds at the what could be called the pre-cum level of arousal. From this point, of course, they can always ramp it up a little, just by lightly stroking their own penises with their fingers from base to tip. This should quickly send the erection process into high gear. Biologically, once the erection process gets fully underway, the pre-cumming will typically stop, and often rather abruptly.

Once the erection is underway, a guy needs to be really careful such to not go into a full-scale orgasm more rapidly than desired. There are particular techniques and approaches that Bill and Joe need to be aware of, and these techniques and approaches are not widely known.

First, penises are oval tubes that get hard from increased blood flow, but all parts of the penis are not equally sensitive to touch. If I were giving lessons on self-pleasuring to Bill and Joe, the first piece of information that I would share is that not all sides of the penis are equally sensitive to touch, and in particular the underside is most sensitive. So, if you want to get off quickly pay the most attention to the underside of your penis while stroking. But, if you want a longer experience (in more than one way!) , alternate your stroking between the underside, the top and the sides.

Some guys, probably Bill and Joe, think the way you get off is to stroke by gripping your penis all around by holding it with the palm of your hand, and then stroking from base to tip. This is something of a “traditional” masturbation method, but it is not the best technique, unless for some reason (as in your sister is calling that she needs to use the bathroom) you are forced into a situation where you need to get this over in a real hurry. Certainly these situations do arise, but being in a hurry here is not the best approach for enjoyable solo sex.

There are more complicated, but ultimately far more satisfying ways to pleasure yourself. Why should Bill and Joe learn about these, for goodness sakes? Isn’t the ultimate goal to find a mate to have sex with, and then maybe all this training on technique will be wasted.

Perhaps the most powerful and important part with respect to sex with a partner is communication. Not any old communication, mind you, but rather communication specific to what works for both of you sexually. Straight guys have a disadvantage here, because they are communicating with a female with very different plumbing and wiring. A lot of straight guys never quite figure this all out, and they muddle through life being sexually unhappy most of the time. This is all sad, but if you understand the nuances of what you like, that gives you a heads up on understanding the nuances of what she like, and if you and she are lucky,…very lucky,…sexual bliss.

Gay guys have an advantage here in that the basic plumbing and wiring are the same, or nearly so. If you discover something that is particularly enjoyable, at least there is a good possibility that your partner will enjoy the same thing, or at least something very similar. By each learning more about yourselves in this regard, you can also teach each other stuff the other one didn’t know, and once again perhaps find sexual happiness.

Then too, sometimes it’s nice to just be alone and to not have a partner around, and this is true whether you are straight or gay. A lot of women in straight relationships have a great deal of difficulty dealing with the basic idea that their man still enjoys solo sex in a relationship. Some nearly go to pieces if they accidently discover their man pleasing himself alone. I wish this were not true, but it is. The proper response for a women who discovers her male partner masturbating should be “May I help you?” and in particular to not run out of the room, crying. Just because a guy enjoys solo sex is not an indication that he does not love her or that she has been doing something wrong. After all, the guy pleasured himself regularly long before he met her.

Again, gay guys as partners have an advantage, in part because most gay guys would be far more tolerant of their other half engaging in solo sex. Indeed, in the initial stages of the relationship, watching the other guy pleasure himself while you pleasure yourself may be an important key to the relationship.

Too, none of the ideas Bill and Joe have been enjoying involve an exchange of bodily fluids. Heck, Bill and Joe have not even admitted that they enjoy being around each other, and certainly they have not admitted that watching each other masturbate and pre-cum is interesting fun. They both know that, of course, but their desire to maintain their images as perfectly straight guys inhibits all of this.

It is tough to tell how all of this is going to turn out, nor to tell what is going to happen with Dylan and Josh in the other dorm room. All of these guys have learned a lot of stuff they never knew when they were in high school.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

It’s early morning now, and, believe it or not, Bill and Joe have spent the entire night enjoying themselves and their garb without getting quite to the point where they had to ejaculate, which would have then shut everything down for both of them. This has been an interesting night though for both of them.

For starters, sleep occurred only sporadically. It’s funny how that upward pressure from the thong on the perineum affects a guy’s sleep-wake patterns. At first a guy says to himself that his body cannot tolerate that sensation and still drift off to sleep, but then, somehow, it happens.

Now, most 19-year olds do not consider themselves to be experts in the entire subject of ejaculatory control. Part of this issue relates to the fact that as a young teenager guys quickly acquire the skills necessary to ejaculate quickly, getting to “the big, fun payoff” as fast as possible, in part because guys at that age are genuinely terrified of being discovered by friends or family members doing it, and the more time you take the greater the odds of being accidentally discovered.

So, what Bill and Joe are learning is how to develop ejaculatory control in the face of a combination of intense psychological and physical pressures to get off. Accomplishing this, delaying orgasm in the face of these intense feelings takes practice, lots of practice.

What exactly is going on here, and why is this so tough to do? When a guy is asleep, and particularly a 19-year old guy, penises still go through often multiple phases in which night-time erections take place, and then dissipate, sometimes without an orgasm, but often with. These nighttime cycles of erection and flaccidity are natural occurrences and any 19-year old has already experienced “wet dreams” many times over. These ejaculations are often accompanied by interesting dreams with a sexual theme, frequently involving other people of either sex. Straight guys often have wet dreams with a same-sex theme, though they seldom, if ever, admit to this. Gay guys probably occasionally have wet dreams with themes involving female partners too. Dreams can go anywhere in this regard.

So, Bill and Joe are lying in their twin dorm room beds, each clad in a thong which is putting a strong upward pressure on the perineum area. Their penises and balls are held closely to their bodies inside the thong pouch. Then over all of that they are wearing their new red or navy wrestling singlets. Just getting into all of this was not easy. Joe kind of quietly gulped as he felt the thong pressure on his perineum for the very first time. He had no clue before that his body was as sensitive as it is right there. Initially, he wanted to respond by stroking his penis from base to tip with his hand, but he thought the better of that idea. Joe uneasily had crawled into bed uncertain about what would happen.

Of course, what did happen is that both Bill and Joe quickly were as horny as all get out. They both really wanted to ejaculate but they thought the better of it. Now guys can drift off into somewhat of a troubled sleep, but they might only sleep for an hour or two, and then wake up still feeling very horny. These wake-sleep cycles happened to both Bill and Joe several times during the night. There was a degree of comfort for each of them in just knowing that the other guy there was struggling in the same situation down there.

But now it was early morning, and nearly time to get up and get ready to head off to class. Bill rises first. He pulls down his red singlet and notices it is quite damp where the tip of his penis had been. Bill thinks joe is still asleep, but Joe has one eye open, watching exactly what Bill is doing. Bill has now pulled off his thong and is standing there, completely nude, and semi-erect. Joe quietly smiles, as that is about the same way Joe is feeling too.

Now finally “free” of the pressure in the perineum from the thong, Bill examines what the inside of the thong pouch now looks like. It is now nearly covered with clear, viscous pre-cum fluid. Bill wonders if he could have ejaculated at some point during his sleep, and if so, there the inside of the pouch would be creamy-white, but the fluid is all clear and viscous. Bill still feels quite horny. He will have to deal with that in his classes today.

Suddenly Joe pops out of bed too, and he goes through the same steps tp prepare for class. Joe is thinking how amazing all of this has been. Joe is still quite horny too, and realizes now that this has been a real lesson in ejaculatory control. Joe’s thong pouch is filled with pre-cum stains as well. Joe wonders if he has just discovered something other guys his age already know.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Fortunately, Josh has an early (8 AM) class, by Dylan’s first class this morning does not happen until later. So Josh was up at 7 AM, and he headed right off to the hall men’s bathroom. That give’s Dylan a moment or two and hop out of his now heavily cum-stained plaid cotton boxers, and quickly get them into his pillow-case laundry bag.

Josh was thinking all night long about the stuff in his Amazon order. Part of this was reliving over and over again the experience of being inside the strap, cup and Forest Green asics wrestling singlet. “Wow was that fun! thought Dylan. “Bill and Joe certainly knew what to order.” Now Dylan’s mind is wandering over to the thought that perhaps Bill and Joe knew exactly what they were doing in placing the Amazon order, and that they were enjoying themselves in much the same way that Dylan had enjoyed himself.

Dylan’s thought was strangely erotic, and as he thought about all of his, he could feel a tell-tale drop or two of pre-cum forming right at the tip of his penis as he thought about Bill and Joe getting into a place where they could very well be enjoying themselves in the same way too. Dylan had never been quite aware of this sensation of little drops of pre-cum forming just because of a thought like this before. Indeed, he felt a little embarrassed when he realized that this was happening not because of thoughts relating to some female he had seen, but rather thoughts related to what Bill and Joe might be doing to themselves and how their bodies may be reacting.

For Dylan (and probably for a lot of other guys), this all seems a bit weird. Is this an indication that Dylan might not be as straight as he always thought he was? Dylan had always thought that men masturbate by looking at pictures and videos of naked females doing things, but never quite like this. Dylan thought this was all a little weird, and he had better keep it all to himself, lest this ultimately lead to the conclusion that his person had a hidden gay side. Dylan certainly started to wonder about what it meant if he was getting turned on just thinking about seeing other guys jerk off. What could that possibly mean, for goodness sakes? A heavy thought for a 19-year old for certain!

Are the other guys pre-cumming too every time they think about getting to see another male jerking off, or perhaps even thinking about another guy wanting to jerk off by getting into a strap, cup and singlet? What gives, anyway? How would Dylan ever be able to start to answer this question without raising it with other guys? And if Dylan asks the question, would any “apparently straight” guy answer the question truthfully, or would they just lie or laugh it all off. What a dilemma! Digging deep into the male sexuality psyche is difficult. Dylan is asking himself some of the same questions sexuality researchers would like to know the answers for, too.

Suddenly, Dylan hears the room door open, and Josh pops back into the room. He says he is going to have a coffee and a roll before his class and wonders if Dylan wants to come along. Dylan says “no”.

Dylan knows he will be alone in the room for now, as Josh will head from the cafeteria right off to class. Dylan has been thinking about the other items in his Amazon order. Dylan heads off to the bathroom to clean up for the morning. When he gets back, the room is empty, and Dylan, almost robotically, sorts through the other items in the Amazon order. He looks at the Desmiit® swim brief, the Tesla compression gear, but what really captures his attention is the Desmiit® thong. Dylan thinks to himself that there was probably some reason why Bill and Joe ordered the thongs.

Soon, Dylan has pulled off his tighty whities, and pulled the tags off the thong. Dylan is in the thong in an instant, but he notices that his balls are still outside the thong pouch. He says to himself “that can’t be right.” As he reaches down to reach under the pouch and work his balls inside along with his penis. There is barely enough room for both inside the pouch, but with a bit of struggling, he finally gets everything inside.

Suddenly the pressure of the thong on his perineum and cutting between his butt cheeks hits Dylan. This just feels uncomfortable at first, but this all suddenly morphs into the strangest and most wonderful set of sensations Dylan has ever experienced. Dylan pre-cums a little at first, but that soon stops and Dylan is now rapidly getting big and hard, very big and very hard, (remember, at 19, Dylan is at his peak, sexually). Dylan desperately wants to get off. He does not even need to stroke his penis to do this, every fingertip touch on any part of his penis feels terrific to Dylan. All those penis nerve endings have suddenly come alive, and moreover, his balls are very sensitive to the touch. Not to mention those wonderful sensations coming from the balls and from the thong back in Dylan’s anal area, a body part Dylan had never before thought about as being sexually “active” until this all in combination.

Dylan quickly reaches orgasm level inside the thong and cums from the combination of all these sensations bearing on his mind and body. He ejaculates a huge amount of cum (both the strength of the orgasm and the amount of cum was somewhat surprising to Dylan, since he had gotten off in his cotton boxers only hours ago). Huge fun for Dylan for sure! “It’s really great to be a guy!”, Dylan thinks to himself.

Dylan soon cools down, and at that point he says to himself, “I will need to do laundry today, for sure!”

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Time out: some questions for my readers.

1. If you could be one of the characters in my story, which one of the characters would you choose to be, shy and insecure Dylan, Bill, Joe, Tony, or Donovan, or perhaps Josh, who knows almost nothing about what is going on, at least so far?

2. Are you “affected” by what the characters are doing to themselves with the various gear they are getting into? If so, what particular gear item or items, affect you the most? If you consider yourself to be straight, if you have been affected by the story line, were you surprised that happened. I could explain farther about the definition of the term “affected”, but if you have read this far, you already know.


3. If you are a gay guy, do these stories give you any ideas for having fun with a partner? No one ever picked up an STD by engaging in solo sex, or for that matter, just by watching another guy engage in solo sex. As sexual activity goes, this is as safe as it gets.

4. Of the items in the Amazon orders, which would you most like to own? Based on the story line, are you contemplating making any specific purchases? If so, what items?


5. How would you deal with the dilemmas and issues now faced by Dylan, Joe and Bill? What, if anything would you say to Josh regarding what you have been doing with yourself? If Dylan says something to Josh, will Josh likely think Dylan is suddenly three fries short of a Happy Meal?

6. Pre-cum is a really interesting bodily fluid, about as interesting as it gets. Watching drops of the clear, viscous liquid form and then drip off the tip of the penis in long stringy strands is endlessly fascinating to watch, in part because what is happening there seems completely outside of any sort of mind control. Generally, you cannot “will” your body to pre-cum, nor can you will your body NOT to pre-cum. It just happens under the “right” or maybe “wrong” set of circumstances. Is just reading about other guys pre-cumming uncontrollably the “right” for you? Understanding the circumstances under which you pre-cum is basic to understanding how you are put together, sexually.


7. Even pre-cum collecting in the pouch of a thong or strap is way interesting. You may think it would disappear entirely when it dries, but it leaves a white stain very different from the starchy stains cum leaves. What happens exactly is easier to see on a darker-color pouch than on a white pouch. The stain seems almost plastic-like. I wore a black cotton thong to bed last night. The stain after the pre-cum dried was quite distinctive and about the size of a quarter dollar. Have you ever studied your own pre-cum stains?

8. Many of the sex and marriage manuals outline specific techniques for dealing with premature ejaculation, a common problem for guys. Generally, this means learning how to tolerate being sexually excited while not immediately getting off in a full orgasm. The items in the story are helpful in “training yourself” to deal with premature ejaculation. A few guys claim they never pre-cum? Do you claim to be one of these?


9. I already own many of the items nearly the same as I am writing about in the stories, but I am thinking of placing an order myself containing the exact same items, red singlet, Desmiit ® swim brief and thong, ProForce® strap and cup, Tesla® compression top and bottom in the same color Dylan chose. I already own an asics singlet in Forest green, so I have that one covered. I am hoping that this will help me in continuing the story line here.

Sebbie…

[sebbie]

Dylan finally manages to pull himself together after the events of the last couple of days and heads off to his 11 AM class, which is a medium-length walk (about ¾ of a mile) from the dorm. Truth is, Dylan’s mind only occasionally is focused on his class work for the day. Instead, Dylan keeps going over in his mind over and over the events of the past few days.

Dylan knows that there are still items in the Amazon order that he has made no attempt to even get into. He thinks to himself that Bill and Joe would not have been enthusiastic about ordering these items unless something (but what?) was up. Dylan thinks that Bill and Joe had an almost uncanny ability to find items on line that, for whatever reason, are going to be fun to wear.

Then another thought crosses Dylan’s mind. Dylan knew how to swim a little, but on his best days he considered himself to be only a fair swimmer. If he got tossed into a pool, Dylan could probably keep his head above water and keep from drowning, but that was about it.

Somewhere deep down in Dylan’s psyche, however, was a deep-seated fascination with male swimmers and divers, the real pool athletes. From an early age, maybe only 8 or 9, he was particularly fascinated by the guys who wore brief-style swimwear, and how that swimwear fit on their bodies. Of course, Dylan noticed what he thought was a rather large male bulge when these guys were in their suits. This bulge was exactly where Dylan’s penis and balls were, but, of course, at that age Dylan was much smaller.

A couple years later, when Dylan was in the midst of puberty, he discovered that the underside of his penis was much more sensitive to anything touching it there than was the top and sides. Dylan was starting to put two-and-two together, and along with this he noticed that some of the male swimmers he admired so much were clearly filling out all of the available space in their pouches, and, in order to make enough room, they were finding it necessary to place themselves in the “up” position.


Dylan soon had somehow figured out that if a guy is wearing a snug-fitting brief and positions his male anatomy that way, the stretchy-but-soft swimsuit material is going to be rubbing constantly across the guy’s penis underside. Dylan concluded that it would be difficult for any guy to deal with this, because by his own experiments, Dylan had learned how sensitive the underside of his penis was to anything touching or even brushing against it. To be sure, Dylan had pretty much concluded that the guys who did this looked to be already semi-erect. Dylan wondered how these guys kept from pre-cumming, leaving a what could quickly turn into an embarrassing quarter-sized (or even bigger) spot of pre-cum moisture on the front of the brief exactly where the tip of the guy’s penis appeared to be. All the more an issue given that these guys were wearing these suits in full public view. Maybe they just made their way into the pool water as soon as possible. A tricky situation to be sure, especially in public view.

No, Dylan’s mind today was wandering off in all sorts of places and certainly not on his class work with his usual intensity.


Normally, Dylan is a serious (A- or better) student, and intense about whatever he gets himself into. But today his mind was drifting back to the little Desmiit® brief in his dresser drawer in the dorm room. For the first time, Dylan was actually going to get to test out for himself some of his theories about how these other guys he admired coped with being in a skimpy swim brief, and exactly what would happen to his own body. But what would he do if Josh wanders in on him when he is trying on the brief? What would Josh say? For that matter, what would Dylan say? What kind of an explanation would at least sound a bit plausible? How would Josh react to all of this?


Part of what makes this interesting is that Dylan’s fascination with all of this, studying the male swimmer anatomy and all, might say something about Dylan’s own sexuality. If Josh sees Dylan wearing the little swim brief, will Josh immediately conclude that Dylan could very well be gay? There are all sorts of risks here for Dylan. But some questions that have been on Dylan’s mind for ages might ultimately soon get answered, too.


To be continued…

[sebbie]

At a very early age, maybe even before puberty, Dylan discovered that he had this “thing” for snug-fitting clothing of all kinds. At age 12, with puberty well underway, Dylan did not understand what this thing he had really was. He thought whatever it was, it was probably at least a little weird, and certainly nothing that he would share with his buddies that age. Sometimes he figured he might “outgrow” it, whatever it was. There was no practical way of finding out if his situation was unique to him or not. All he knew is that this thing was there. Dylan, however enthusiastic he was about getting his body inside of snug-fitting clothing, this was something that he needed to keep secret from everyone around him, parents, siblings, peers, lest any knowledge by anyone else would cause him problems of various sorts. The strangest part of this was that Dylan may have been right about his decision to keep this all to himself.


To be sure, Dylan’s options at age 14 were pretty limited, though by age 14 Dylan was old enough so that he was fully able to stay at home alone whenever his parents and siblings wanted to go out shopping or whatever and he said he had no reason he needed to go along.


But at age 14, Dylan didn’t have much in the way of snug-fitting clothing suitable for a quality jerk-off session. Dylan had learned a few stunts. At age 14, Dylan’s body was starting to grow rapidly, and he was quickly outgrowing clothing items that had fit him fine only 18 months ago. Dylan had always worn white cotton briefs, and he purposely kept a few pair in the bottom of his dresser drawer that were boys size 12 and that he had comfortably worn only 18 or 24 months ago. There were jeans he still had too that were now quite undersized.


When Dylan’s family was out and about, Dylan liked to pull these “secret “ items out of his dresser, and try them on. In reality, he was running “experiments” with the snug fit and feel. You can pretty well guess where these experiments led. At age 14, Dylan was soon erect and hard just getting into these items, and it wasn’t long before the items were stained with cum. Dylan was somehow intensely fascinated by all of this. The funny part was that the snugger the briefs quit, the more excited Dylan got. The cum-stained items needed to go somewhere, and they ended up in the little basket for laundry he had in his closet drawer. At first, mom still did the laundry. He wondered what his mom thought about this and if she noticed the starchy stains on the items when she sorted the laundry, but to his mom’s credit, she never said a word about all of this to Dylan. But soon, Dylan started using the family washing machine and dryer himself, so that eliminated the possibility that his mom would be alerted to what Dylan was actually doing to himself when he was home alone. Dylan’s undersized white cotton briefs became real masturbation “friends” for Dylan when he was growing up.

When Dylan first encountered Bill and Joe wearing their compression gear (not to mention the straps and cups) in the Dorm hallway that night, alarm bells went off. It suddenly dawned on Dylan that there were items out there that would be far more “satisfying” to wear that undersized white cotton briefs. That is why Dylan jumped at the opportunity to be a part of the Amazon order when the opportunity presented itself.


But, now back to the present. Dylan is trying on his little Desmiit® brief, the two-color blue-and green one that was part of the Amazon® order. Dylan knew that there was going to be little space for his stuff in that suit even if the waist size was OK, but that was part of the appeal. Dylan had just gotten into the swim brief and was looking at himself in the mirror. He had hoped that his penis could be in the “down” position but that wasn’t going to work. With penis in the down position, the back of the suit went way lower, revealing a bit of a butt crack at the center top of the back. That was definitely not going to work. Dylan needed to make adjustment. But worse, with all of this going on, Dylan felt himself starting to get hard and erect. So as he tried to adjust himself, what he needed to make space for was gradually getting bigger, creating ever more of a problem. Dylan managed to put himself in an “up” position, and that felt really good to Dylan, with the underside of his penis rubbing up against the slick suit material, certainly better and more interesting than anything he had ever experienced wearing undersized cotton briefs. Dylan had managed to work himself up to the point where he would soon no longer be able to hold back on the urge to come. All of this was messing with Dylan’s body and mind.


But at that very moment, Dylan hears the dorm room door lock click, and suddenly Dylan’s roommate Josh is back in the room, staring at him.


Josh was taken aback, seeing Dylan clad only in that tiny Desmiit brief, penis up, and obviously at least somewhat erect. On seeing Dylan clad this way, Josh’s mouth dropped wide open.


Josh was wondering what he should say. The only thing he could think of saying was “That’s a nifty pair of skivvies you have on there, Dylan”


Dylan thought this comment was funny. Who uses the word “nifty” any more let alone, “skivvies”?


Dylan needed to respond some way. The only thing he could think os saying was “These are not underwear. This is a swimming suit.”

Josh responded: “Not much room for your ‘stuff’ in there, is there?”


Dylan at this point had a tiny gleam in his eyes, and he smiled and said “I guess not, I’m finding that out and that is part of my ‘problem’!”

To be continued…

[sebbie]

If the truth be known, Josh felt a little bit uncomfortable accidentally walking into the dorm room with Dylan in the situation he was in. It wasn’t as if Josh walked in on Dylan completely nude and masturbating (now that would have been very embarrassing for Dylan and certainly uncomfortable for Josh), but still, there was a bit of that element going on. Dylan certainly did not expect that Josh would be showing up as soon as he did, but one of Josh’s classes had a short lecture.


Teenage boys growing up quickly learn how to be experts at figuring out when they will be completely alone, and schedule what they want to do in an effort to minimize the possibility that someone will pop in on them unexpectedly. Usually this all works very well (good parents realize that teen males need their times of privacy), but this can also become a difficult issue.


If you think the situation Dylan is in right now is, well, interesting, Josh is in an equally interesting situation, in part because he does not know if he should just watch Dylan and try a conversation as if nothing at all is going on with Dylan, or whether he should think up some dumb excuse for leaving the room for a while longer in which case Dylan would have time to get out of the suit and back into his regular jeans and tee.


Josh quickly decides to stay and simply carry on a conversation with Josh as if nothing is the least bit strange or odd, but just a normal situation that happens to roommates in the dorm room. After all, Josh has seen Dylan fully unclothed in the room and in particular in the shower many times, and that was ok. The dorm, like many aging college dormitories built in the 1960s and 70s that still provide relatively cheap housing for beginning undergraduates, and still have what are basically open gang showers with multiple shower heads in a big bathroom way down the hall, and no semi-private bathroom provisions connected to a more modern suite of 2 or 3 rooms. Guys see each other nude in the showers every day, and quickly get to the point where they think absolutely nothing of it, or so it may seem. (But this also means that any opportunity for jerking off in the shower is limited too! All of this casual male nudity comes as a bit of a surprise for freshman students who, when they were in high school, were afraid to shower nude in the locker room after their high-school gym class). In these male college dormitories, university housing simply assumes that every male living there is completely straight and quite OK with being nude in the presence of other male students.


Josh quickly realizes, of course, that Dylan is in a slightly different “condition” than he is ordinarily, but Josh thinks the best strategy is to just act as if he hadn’t noticed this.

Josh begins a conversation with Dylan even as he can see that Dylan is still struggling with how to position his penis in a now not-very-accommodating swim brief pouch.


Josh: Do you intend to wear that suit down at the pool at the gym up the street?


Dylan: That was what I was thinking, but I need to see if the suit fits me at all, first!


Josh dives right in…: “What is your problem with that, Dylan?”


Dylan: “Can’t you see? I’m having difficulty fitting all my stuff into the suit. There is not a lot of room in here at all. This is embarrassing!”


Of course, Josh could see very well what the problem was. Josh could also clearly see that if Dylan were not quite so erect and hard, it would be far easier for him to fit his stuff comfortably into his suit as the suit pouch is constructed. A basic problem Dylan has is that his stuff would fit into the suit much more easily if he was not so sexually aroused, and he definitely needs to breathe deeply and just calm down for this to all to begin to work.


But remember, the idea just trying on a skimpy swim brief has been a fantasy for Dylan going all the way back to when he was only 11 or 12 years old, a fantasy that he was never able to play out in real life until now. Dylan thinks that other guys may very well have similar issues to what he is now having. But maybe similar fantasies about wearing snug-fitting swim briefs are rare for guys. Dylan just doesn’t know. All Dylan knows is how his own brain and body is reacting to the situation at hand. Dylan doesn’t quite know what to make of having Josh right there watching his struggle under the circumstances.


Why did Josh stick around? That is an interesting question. Like Dylan, Josh had always thought of himself as perfectly straight, and sexually interested only in girls (or women, now that Josh is in college.) But when Josh saw what Dylan was doing, or at least attempting to do, something in Josh’s brain said “I want to see this!”. Is that a gay response? Who knows! What is happening may be evidence to support the claim that nearly every perfectly-straight guy has buried somewhere, some situations that involve at least observing another male in a sexually aroused state, and the situation Dylan was in certainly fit that, at least for Josh.


What are the specifics of that? Nearly every guy understands that the underside of his penis is the especially sensitive side. Further, putting a penis in the “up” position in a snug swim brief exposes the underside of the penis to the slick-feeling material of the brief, which, of course, feels really good.


Even more interesting is that as a guy gets a little hard in this position, the underside of his glans area at the very tip of the penis is also quite apparent inside the brief. The vast majority of guys this age already realize that from the standpoint of getting off, this is a hugely sensitive little spot, great fun to touch and stroke, and that the sensations quickly become quite intense, almost unbearably so.


Seeing Dylan obviously in this condition inside the little swimming brief is having its affect on Josh’s brain and body. Josh, being straight, is not thinking about touching Dylan there, but merely thinking that if he were in the situation Dylan is in, he would be dealing with the same or at least very similar issues.


Josh, in his street clothing just watching Dylan in the situation he is in and standing there observing Dylan, is now starting to have issues of his own. Josh first suddenly feels a slight sensation of tension in his own groin area. This is quickly followed by a slight feeling of wetness in his underwear right at the tip of Josh’s own penis. Dylan, of course, sees none of this. Josh is wondering what this all means. Josh realizes that he is starting to get aroused just watching another guy who is apparently aroused and struggling with his arousal.


Deeply buried is that Josh is greatly envious of Dylan and his situation right now. The fact that Dylan is clearly aroused is having its affect on Josh. What could this all mean, for goodness sakes? Is Josh still a normal straight guy, or would other normal straight guys have the same issue in a situation like this?


To be continued…

[dm106]

Sebbie, you got me so hot - wish there was more here to read!! Please keep it up. I remember those days like yesterday.

[sebbie]

From Dylan’s perspective, getting his body into a tiny swim brief has been even more interesting and fun that as a teenager he had thought it would be. He found himself getting hard almost instantly, but so far at least, he has managed to maintain enough ejaculatory control so that he has not created a mess in the brief by ejaculating in powerful bursts all over the place. Deep down, Dylan sees his ability to do this is something of an accomplishment, while still having a lot of questions about how the serious lap swimmers can manage to do this while wearing skimpy swim brief out at public pools. Dylan continues to still have a lot of questions about all of this.


In some ways, Dylan was lucky that Josh just happened to pop in the room when he did. Josh’s sudden appearance distracted Dylan just a bit with respect to thinking about the predicament Dylan’s penis was in as he adjusted himself and the location of his penis in the brief. Guys are really interesting, because once they are erect and hard, without any distractions, the urge to ejaculate quickly reaches a critical level, the level at which the urge becomes unbearable, and suddenly the ability being able to stop or even delay the ejaculation becomes impossible.


But a mental distraction, any distraction (say the clicking sound of a key being inserted into a door lock) can easily be enough of a distraction such that the immediate urge to ejaculate subsides as quickly as it happened. So Josh’s arrival in the room when he did ended up delaying or even stopping for now something that may have almost certainly occurred, otherwise.


Most teen guys believe that part of being straight means not being sexually aroused just seeing another guy his age in an obviously aroused state let alone masturbating or ejaculating. Josh thought that being straight meant that he would not be aroused just seeing another guy in that state. In fact, his male classmates in high school seemed to believe that if he ever got in a time or place where he inadvertently saw another guy who was aroused or masturbating, he should find looking at the other guy to be downright sickening and very much a sexual turn-off (now watching a woman in that state is another matter entirely!). To be sure, Josh had never actually been in a real situation like this involving another male in his entire life, and Josh therefore had no actual knowledge about how his mind and body would react, that is, until he accidentally wandered in on Dylan.


Josh quickly figured out what was going on, and more interestingly, Josh was not in the least bit uncomfortable with what he was quietly observing with regard to Dylan’s current condition. In fact, quite the opposite. Josh quickly realized that Dylan was clearly enjoying himself in a sexual way, and the fun that Dylan was having getting into the brief was infectious. As Josh studied Dylan’s situation and couldn’t help but thinking about what was happening, Josh’s own body autonomously started to respond as well. Josh thought this was more than a little strange. After all, Josh was not getting into a snug swim brief himself, but merely standing there in his jeans and tee shirt. Nothing sexy about that, and yet Josh could definitely feel his penis starting to act up. There were sensations Josh was familiar with, a slight sensation of tensioning or tightening in the groin area, plus a tell-tale few drops of pre-cum forming in his underwear right at the tip of his penis, though nothing that showed on his jeans, at least not immediately. Josh was thankful for that, as he was concerned how Dylan would react if Dylan knew that Josh was starting to get aroused just watching Dylan.


Dylan, however, was in worse shape in this regard. It was obvious to Josh now that Dylan had been pre-cumming, and not in small amounts. There were several small damp stains running up the center of Dylan’s new swim brief in the exact places where his penis tip is, or had recently been. Josh knew full well what had happened to Dylan, in part because the same thing was now happening to Josh, but inside his jeans and underwear.


Maybe my readers are expecting for Dylan to soon ejaculate with powerful bursts of semen, with Josh following Dylan inside his jeans while Josh was still fully clothed. But that is not what happened.


What actually happened was that Dylan calmed down without even getting off. Dylan quickly slipped out of the swim brief and into a loose-fitting pair of cotton boxer shorts. The pressure and urge to ejaculate almost immediately dissipated. Josh too calmed down almost as soon as he realized that for now at least, Dylan had reverted back to being an ordinary college freshman. So nothing actually happened.


Well, not quite. For Dylan, the experience of the last 45 minutes created a situation that would be replayed countless times in Dylan’s head as daydreams, and likely as part of the plot of nighttime dreams as well.


And Josh got to thinking that maybe it was not such a bad idea to own a swim brief like Dylan had. Owning one of these can be interesting fun even if you never intend to swim, or even be seen wearing one outside your dorm room!


To be continued…

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe had both crawled into their dorm room twin beds wearing their new thongs with their snug-fitting wrestling singlets over. They were both dressed like what the College rowing team members Tony and Donovan were wearing when they were working out on the stationary rowing machines over at the College gym.

To be sure, Bill had never before worn thong underwear, and like a lot of American guys, he was quite apprehensive about how he would react to the rear of the thong cinching up snugly between his butt cheeks. This is very different underwear from the boxer shorts or boxer briefs most American males wear, and Bill knew that.

Turns out, initially on getting into the thong Bill did think that the sensations he was feeling, particularly from the thong back, were somewhat uncomfortable. Not to mention the issues he initially had in getting both his penis and balls inside of the thong, which can be tricky especially for first-time thong wearers. After a bit of a struggle, Bill did get himself into what he thought was the correct position inside the thong. Of course, adding the wrestling singlet over the top makes all of this more, well, interesting for sure. For starters, the thong tends to push the guy’s male body parts upward and forward, even as the singlet bears down on the same area. Some guys would find this to be quite uncomfortable. Bill examined himself in the mirror and it was very clear from what Bill saw where his anatomy was positioned inside the singlet. Bill remembered Tony and Donovan looking much the same way over at the gym.

I guess that most guys prefer a loose fit around their anatomy as their sleepwear. Why this seems to be true has to do with male biology. Every 19-year old guy, Bill included, knows that his penis goes through natural cycles of erection and flaccidity during the night. For young dudes more than a single cycle is commonplace if not the norm. These erection cycles often seem to be fed by very active dreams usually with a sexual theme. Exactly what happens to a 19-year old guy on any given night is tough to predict. The term “wet dream” suggests that young guys often conclude one of these erection cycles that happen at the night with a powerful orgasm, even while the guy is still sound asleep. Whatever the plotline was in the dream precipitates the orgasm. The guy doesn’t wake up until after the orgasm has happened, messing up the boxer shorts and sheets. If all of this happens towards morning, then the guy has the problem of how to get out of bed with wet cum-stains all over his boxers. Tricky stuff for sure.

But, guys who frequently have wet dreams quickly learn that it is a lot more fun to wake up at some point and just enjoy the orgasm. Maybe even grab a facial tissue to collect the semen in an effort to make less of a mess on the boxer shorts and sheets. The tricky part is figuring out how to do this without drawing attention to yourself by your roommate who is supposedly sleeping only a few feet away. But meanwhile your roommate, unless he is brain dead, is probably facing a very similar problem. Nighttime erection cycles seem to occur over and over, and the only way to make them stop for awhile is to get off. That calms everything down, at least somewhat.

To make things ever worse, (or, depending on your mind set, better), both Bill and Joe are messing with what their bodies will do during these normal wet dream cycles by wearing the thongs and singlets to bed, and then trying to sleep in something that is quite snug-fitting. As the penis becomes erect, something has to give for sure. All the cloth bears down on the now-erect penis, and the penis does what penises love to do, just enjoying the moment of being contained inside all of this stuff and responding by getting still bigger and longer.

Under this situation the guy is probably not going to stay sleeping. There is just too much interesting stuff going on. A guy’s balls are going to seem especially sensitive and fun to touch, just by pressing lightly using the fingertips. The penis is having an interesting time for sure just trying to find enough space inside the pouch to expand. And the expansion of the penis inside the pouch tends to cinch up the rear of the thong even tighter, putting more upward pressure on that ultra-sensitive perineum area. All of this inside the singlet seems maybe a bit.

At some point, Bill starts to wonder if Joe in the bed only a few feet away is experiencing the same things that Bill is enjoying, and Bill is wondering also if Joe is enjoying the entire situation as much as Bill is enjoying himself. Suddenly, what Tony and Donovan were doing at the gym becomes completely clear.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

I wanted Dylan to experience some of the same sensations that I have enjoyed over the years wearing a snug-fitting athletic supporter and cup as part of his sleepwear. A basic problem I faced is that it is becoming more and more difficult to find an appropriate old school strap and cup similar in design to the ones I have found to be fun to wear over the years. So I did some on-line searching and found something that looked very close to the old school designs, from a company called ProForce® that caters to a martial arts clientele. This strap and cup is also relatively inexpensive as protective groin gear goes ($12 for the cup and strap). I was curious if I had ordered the right one so I had to order the same as Dylan would have ordered.

A lot of young males just past puberty, are very fearful of being in a situation where they are required to wear a strap and cup. The two common sports would be Pee-Wee baseball and anything involving martial arts. While being wear of the need for groin protection in these sports, deep down the guys are worried about how their bodies will react to being confined inside a cup and strap. “What happens if I start to get hard inside of that?” is the common question that none of the guys dare to even articulate.

Jock-strap manufacturers, realizing this issue affects sales, have responded to all of this with a variety of products designed to address the issue, starting with the bigger “banana style cups” that are roomy enough so that your anatomy, even somewhat erect, has ample space to grow. We also see compression shorts with pouches for cups etc. all designed deep down to allay fears regarding what will happen if I have to wear a snug-fitting traditional strap with an equally snug-fitting cup. Traditional (old-school) strap sales have been declining for ages, probably largely because of increasing apprehension by teen-agers about wearing one and what might happen.

What Dylan discovered in a previous chapter is the same thing that I discovered years ago, which, simply put, is having your penis and balls inside a snug-fitting cup and strap can be a fun thing, assuming you aren’t trying to keep your mind focused on a baseball game or a martial arts competitive event.

Penises do what penises do. Penises seem to have almost a mind of their own with respect to understanding when they are in a confined space, space that limits the ability to grow and get hard at the same time. At age 19, Dylan has discovered this too. But penises are also capable of providing the guy with the most wonderful sensations imaginable once they are in that situation. So a strap and cup like the ProForce can become a wonderful toy for playing with yourself and also learning how your mind and body responds to having your penis in a confined space. Attempting to sleep in one of these gets you into a situation where your penis will go into its normal phases of erection and flaccidity during the night. Combine this with a dream with sexual overtones and the guy quickly gets into a situation like Bill and Joe were in a number of chapters ago. This is all great fun, but I can also see where it could be a bit scary for a young teen-age male. Dylan right now is just working his way through all of that.

Me? I long ago lost my fears, and I like to undersize the strap and cup, for maximum sensations. I went with the “Youth Large” size rather than the “Men’s Small” in large measure because the Youth cups are smaller and therefore more confining. I usually get the best results with the Youth-sized cups.

If you are new to all of this, the ProForce ® is a great strap for someone just beginning to experiment with his body. In the process, a guy will learn a lot about developing ejaculatory control as well, useful when you face all sorts of different partner-related situations in later life. You can learn as Dylan learns. Will this work for my readers? That is a good question, but I would not be writing this if I did not believe it would!

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan has been learning a lot of really interesting stuff lately about his own body and how his body responds in a sexual way to various situations it is experiencing. Some of what Dylan has been experiencing seems all but outside the control of his own brain, and Dylan finds this most surprising, to say the least. The experiments Dylan has been running have been both fun and interesting from a perspective of pure science and how guys are wired from a sexual perspective. Dylan’s only real concern is that he is not sure whether he dares say anything about what he has been doing with and to himself.

When Dylan was 12, he worried a lot about somehow “damaging” himself by playing around in this fashion. Practically every guy that age probably has these worries and concerns at that age. But now that Dylan is 19, and technically an adult, these concerns have evaporated. Of course, as a young high school student, the entire subject of engaging in solo sex (jerking off or masturbation) was strictly off limits, not only from the perspective of being embarrassed about saying anything, but more importantly, being labeled as a “jerk-off” is a key element of teasing and bullying for young males. So the entire subject is off limits for young teens, teens who quickly learn that if they are going to enjoy themselves in this way, they had better do it in secrecy for a bunch of different reasons.

Dylan, now 19 and a college freshman with a male roommate, Josh, is not quite sure if or how the rules he followed as a young teenager with respect to masturbation still apply, or if things have gotten a bit looser overall in this regard. Some college freshmen males still brag about their conquests on weekend dates with females, just as the more sexually aggressive males did in high school. Though for others, this seems to be changing too, especially for the college guys who have paired up with a specific someone as opposed to just engaging in partner sex on the weekends. But this change does not mean that college freshmen now comfortable getting together with each other to compare masturbation techniques, either.

Still, the events of recent weeks have affected Dylan in profound new ways, that is for certain. This started that evening when Dylan run into Bill and Joe wandering down the dorm hallway to the men’s room clad in their Lycra gear with straps and cups underneath. Dylan could hardly believe what was right in front of him. Why were Bill and Joe doing this? More importantly, how could Bill and Joe be wearing gear like this WITHOUT getting aroused and hard? An if that was indeed what was happening, how were Bill and Joe coping with the sensations they were experiencing, the sensations that nearly had to be happening given what they were wearing.

Then there was that encounter at the student gym where Bill and Joe were wearing the same gear and seemed to be enjoying themselves immensely. Then the discussion with the rowers Tony and Donovan wearing their rowing singlet, and, they admitted, thongs underneath. Then there was the big Amazon® order that Dylan was a part of. One way of looking at this was that Bill and Joe simply needed some new gym gear. But that way ignores what had been becoming increasingly obvious to Dylan: The items were chosen not simply because of the need for gym gear, but instead they were picking out specific items that would be fun to wear as part of experiments in solo sex.

Of course, Dylan’s brain was very much geared to the same thing. Since even before puberty, Dylan had been fascinated with snug-fitting clothing and especially clothing that felt pleasant against his penis. Dylan knew that very well: In fact, it was part of his very being, as in who Dylan was as a guy. But until he got to college, Dylan had never really had the opportunity to act on a lot of this. Bill and Joe provided Dylan with an opportunity to pursue this at a level that he had not been to before, and for that Dylan was very thankful in a host of different ways.

Dylan was still struggling with respect to what he could reveal about all of this to his roommate Josh. Josh could be operating under the old High School “rules” with regard to the entire subject of solo sex. Josh might see any interest in solo sex on Dylan’s part as an indication that he somehow ended up with a gay roommate. Or maybe not! At the other end of the spectrum, Josh might be just as interested in playing with himself in this way as Dylan is. In which case, he would be looking not only to being more open with Dylan on the entire subject, but perhaps even building his own collection of items along the lines that he is seeing Dylan have.

Still, Dylan realizes very clearly that while solo sex may present some issues, these are very different issues and often less complicated and messy issues than those that must be dealt with by college students in partner sex. Dylan thinks that sometimes sex can be really fun and enjoyable without having to worry about a partner and partner issues.

Now Dylan’s mind is sorting through the items that he obtained in the Amazon® order. Dylan was particularly fascinated by how that little ProForce® strap and cup looked and felt on him. The other big item that Dylan had yet to try was The bright lime yellow Tesla® gear, both the snug-fitting compression tee, and, of course, those Tesla shorts. Josh is off to class, and Dylan decides to fit himself into the strap and cup once again. He pulls on the tee, and then the tight compression shorts over the strap and cup.

Ahhhhh, Dylan says, what a feeling of that hard cup brushing up against his penis, firmly held in place by the compression shorts. Already, Dylan can sense the pre cum forming inside the cup at the tip of his penis. Dylan glances at himself in the dorm room mirror. The compression shorts are transparent enough, and tight enough such that Dylan can easily see the leg straps and the cup under the sexy yellow-green shorts. It’s a look and fell Dylan has never before experienced, and Dylan loves it.

Suddenly, Dylan hears the click of a key in the dorm room lock. It’s Josh, back from a class that let out a few minutes early. And there is Dylan, standing there in his lime yellow compression tee and shorts, with the strap and cup clearly visible underneath. Dylan is going to need to figure out something to say to Josh, and in a hurry!

To be continued…

[sebbie]

On first opening the door and seeing Dylan standing there is his snug-fitting lime yellow Tesla® compression gear, Josh’s mouth dropped wide open. Of course, this was not a complete surprise in part because Josh had already seen Dylan in the dorm room clad in his forest green wrestling singlet. Josh had figured out that Dylan was at least a bit fascinated with snug-fitting gear like the wrestling singlet Josh saw him wearing the other day.

But this was at least a little different. First, there was the bright Lime yellow Tesla color, certainly there to be noticed. But, if anything, the Tesla gear fit even tighter and snugger than the forest green asics singlet. But the material was different too, as in more transparent. To see that Dylan was wearing a strap and cup under the singlet took some doing as that was not obvious. But with the semi-transparent Tesla color, it was quite (perhaps painfully) apparent to Josh that Dylan was wearing a strap and cup (and ONLY a strap and cup) underneath the gear. Plus, Josh thought Dylan looked, well, fabulous in this gear, maybe even “cute”.

For Josh, that thought was more than a little bit scary. Josh wasn’t quite sure how he should deal with his thoughts at this point. Was this some kind of a deeply buried gay streak smoldering inside Josh? Or, would nearly any normal guy react the same way, or similarly, to seeing Dylan clad in his new gear. And what, for goodness sakes, was going on in Dylan’s mind?

Josh really had two choices. He could either quickly duck out of the room, immediately feigning some excuse with Dylan about the need to run an errand, or he could stick the situation out, and see in more detail what Dylan was doing. A lot of guys, maybe most guys, would have made option number 1. A lot of guys get just terrified of any situation, however innocent, that could be construed in any way to lead into homosexual thoughts. Interestingly, Josh chose the latter route, to stick it out, and that decision alone tells the reader a lot about Josh. Whatever his sexual feelings about guys versus women, buried or not, Josh’s choice was not to simply run away from the situation at hand.

Josh is not brain dead for sure. At some level Josh had to realize that what Dylan was doing was a form of solo-sex play of some sort. Josh couldn’t believe that Dylan was not at some level sexually aroused in the tight-and snug gear he was wearing. The strap and cup just added to the “mystery” of what might really be going on in Dylan’s mind and body right now. This is a most interesting situation. Many, perhaps most guys have been in situations where they had to realize that another guy was sexually turned on and aroused. How guys deal with that realization is always interesting.
A lot of guys probably get aroused themselves when they realize what is happening to the other guy, and that is where the decision is often made to make a quick exit, for fear that whatever is happening is a latent “gay” response. The male reader at this point might ask himself what he would do under a similar circumstance to the one Josh is in right now. Would you run away as quickly as possible, or step back and “enjoy the moment” along with Dylan?

Josh has to know that Dylan’s penis is completely contained inside the snug-fitting hard cup. Josh can see through the semi-transparent Tesla compression gear. And Josh is fully aware of what would happen to his own penis faced with similar circumstances.

Josh chooses to start the conversation:

Josh: “Great-looking gear you have on there, Dylan. You look great!”

Dylan: “These are a couple more items from the Amazon® order I hope to wear to the gym. I really like the fit and feel.”

Josh: “I can see you are wearing a strap and cup underneath.”

Dylan: “Is that obvious? Truth is, Bill and Joe got me on to that idea as they were wearing straps and cups under their compression gear.”

Josh: “But isn’t that, well, somewhat confining?”

Dylan “But that is part of the fun, so to speak”

Josh “What do you mean?”

Dylan; “I could explain what is going on with me in detail, but promise me you won’t be offended if I get blunt with you.”

Josh: “OK, tell me, and I promise to not get offended.”

Dylan: “Well, I’m sure you must realize that penises do not always stay the same size. They can easily get bigger or smaller.”

Josh “Yes, I know that :-)”

Dylan: “But hard jock cups do not adjust and simply stay the same size no matter what. This means that if my penis gets bigger for some reason inside the cup, it will just press harder against the sides of the cup.”

Josh: “But your compression shorts are holding the cup firmly against your groin, so there is no room for expansion.”

Dylan: “You certainly have got that one figured out.”

Josh: “But, doesn’t that quickly become uncomfortable?”

Dylan: “Well no, not really :-)”

Josh: “You mean, the sensations you get are enjoyable fun?”

Dylan: “Yup. Bill and Joe are the guys who taught me that part. They seem to be the real experts on the subject. They have been playing around with this themselves for several weeks. The stories they can tell!”

At this point Dylan is streaming sticky, viscous drops of pre-cum inside his jock cup. But more interestingly still, Josh has started to produce pre-cum as well inside his white cotton briefs., just thinking about the details of the situation Dylan was in, mind and body.

Josh finally gets the nerve to blurt out: “Dylan, I would like to try exactly what you are doing.”

Dylan: “But first, Josh, you will need some gear, specifically a strap, a cup, and some snug compression shorts.”

Now here is the dilemma. Dylan COULD lend Josh his gear. The compression shorts or wrestling singlet might not be that big of an issue, but for maximum fun, Josh needs to be wearing a strap with as small a cup as his body can reasonably “tolerate”. Dylan COULD remove his strap and cup and give it to Josh to “try on”, but, for the moment at least the pouch is stained with Dylan’s viscous, sticky pre-cum. Sharing Dylan’s strap and cup with Josh right now may be just too “gay” of a move for either of them at this point. Dylan wonders if he has perhaps already stepped “over the line” in his conversation with Josh.

Still, far from being angry with Dylan, Josh seems more than a little enthusiastic and maybe potentially turned on just by the thought of being in the situation Dylan was enjoying. What does this all mean, for goodness sakes? Would not many, if not most guys act just like Josh has been acting? Or is this some sort of latent gay behavior that has suddenly come alive in Josh’s being?

Dylan says to Josh: “ can see I need to take you on a shopping trip, much like Bill and Joe helped me along in the process.”

Josh: “Dylan, I would like that. At least I THINK I would like that!”

Josh’s initial anxiety about the entire situation seems to have largely evaporated.

To be continued…

[dm106]

Very cool - please continue!

[sebbie]

Josh and Dylan have very obviously moved a step forward in how they see each other both as roommates and as friends. Indeed, just being a college freshman puts guys in all sorts of situations that were considered off-limits as under age high school students. Of course, some high schoolers do end up engaging in activities that their parents, teachers and other adults would consider to be off limits for an underage teenager. All sorts of stuff falls into the category of things that teenagers might do without their parent’s knowledge or approval…Sexual activity of various sorts involving a teenage girl might be one example, but we could also list things like alcoholic beverage consumption and other activities teenagers are not supposed to be doing.

But Josh and Dylan are both 19, and now considered to be young adults, and further, young adults considered responsible enough such that their parents are not observing their every move. Having said that, they have managed to get off into territory that they themselves (and most other high school males) would have considered to be strictly off limits as younger teenagers. For starters, most teenage males guard carefully anything that would suggests to any of their peers that they ever engage in solo sex. To leave any indication otherwise in this regard is to leave yourself open to near instant teasing and bullying.

Related to this is the basic idea that the only teen male socially acceptable indication a guy can provide to peers is the basic idea that he is turned on by a certain girl his age. But then, whoever the girl is might become very upset if she manages to learn somehow that a guy is talking about her in this manner to his male peers in high school. So guys quickly learn that the best strategy is to say absolutely nothing at all about anything sexual at all, whether or not a girl is involved, but in particular if whatever it is involves some sort of a solo sex activity.

That is part of what makes the situation for Josh and Dylan so intriguing right now. Obviously, the various clothing items Dylan picked out were chosen specifically because they have a good chance of making Dylan feel horny and needing desperately to jerk off. And, I might add, the various items have been doing a pretty good job of exactly that. Some of this is obviously physical, but some of this has a psychological component as well. Heck,

Dylan doesn’t like to admit this, but he got turned on by just seeing Bill and Joe in their gear wandering down the dorm hallway a few weeks ago. Dylan has been uneasy about this in part because he is unsure if this arousal that came about from observing other males was, in essence, a “gay” response, and that this could mean that he is not as straight as he only recently thought he was.

Heck, Bill and Joe went through this stage as well and maybe are still going through it. There has been something both psychological and physical that has been “pulling” Dylan along. After all, Dylan jumped at the chance to participate in the big Amazon® order with Bill and Joe, and he had to know that they were choosing items that were being picked out in large measure because they would be a turn-on for solo sex. Goodness! This would have NEVER happened in high school for sure. But Dylan is now wondering where all of this fits in the entire scheme of adult male sexuality.

What happens if Dylan subsequently meets a girl he likes a lot? Does this mean he will no longer get aroused when he gets into his special gear? And what if this special girl discovers, perhaps inadvertently, about this aspect of Dylan’s sexual behavior? How will she react? In anger? In amusement? A lot of girls grow up thinking that they are and will be the only source of sexual pleasure their guy could ever want or need, and if a guy is caught pleasuring himself solo in any way that is a negative mark on them as a female and their own sex appeal. This can easily get to be very messy stuff both emotionally and psychologically. It almost can become just another version of what the guy went through in high school with both his parents and peers.

Anyhow, Josh has pretty well already figured out what Dylan is up to with his various clothing items. There is no need to Dylan to explain this in more detail using words, even if Dylan could get up the nerve to do so. Josh knows because his body is telling him how he would respond (or maybe responding) to the situation Dylan is in. Dylan has already volunteered to help Josh with some shopping, and Josh has indicated that he is more than OK with that. All of this other weighty stuff that needs to be sorted through can wait for another day. Josh and Dylan remain roommates and buddies, closer now than before, given the entire sequence of events.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

There was one more item in Dylan’s Amazon order that he had not yet explored, a tiny plastic envelope packet that had come directly from China, several days after the main order. Dylan had been having so much fun trying on and then masturbating while wearing the other items, that he had almost forgotten about the little packet now in his possession and at he very bottom of his closet dresser drawer. He hadn’t even cut open the packet yet, to reveal the contents. Dylan knew the packet contained a pair of thong underwear under the Desmiit® brand label, but otherwise he didn’t know quite what to expect. After all, he had never before owned or worn a pair of thong underwear before. This is certainly not something a high school student, living at home, would ever have in his possession. But Dylan was now 19 years old, and living away from home.

Dylan cut open the mail packet, and examined the thong. The first thing he noticed is that the thong was not very big at all, indeed tiny. Dylan had tried on the Desmiit® swim brief, and he pretty much thought that was about as small as this sort of stuff ever got for a guy, but he was surprised to discover that the thong was even smaller than the swim brief, a lot smaller, and with basically no back at all except for a narrow elastic back.

Then Dylan noticed something else about the thong that was unlike the swim brief. The front of the thong had a pouch, a quite large pouch, at least in comparison with the size of the rest of the thong. The cut of the cotton pouch was, well, interesting, to say the least, quite interesting.

By now, Dylan was at least somewhat erect just thinking about all of this and how his body might fit wearing the thong with its outsized pouch. There was something driving Dylan at this point that made him want to get into the thong just to see what the fit and feel would be like. It had to be unlike anything Dylan had ever worn before.

Dylan pulled off his clothes and pulled on the thong. Once he was inside the thong, he quickly discovered why many guys are fascinated with wearing something like this. The situation he was in seemed uncomfortable at first. A lot of guys, Dylan included, are invariably apprehensive about having the back of a thong cut between their glutes in what ends up being a quite sensitive area, and Dylan was certainly no exception in this regard. Dylan managed to take a deep breath and went for it. He quickly “settled down,” at least in that regard.

But there were other feelings and sensations for which to contend. Of course, a properly-fitting thong puts upward pressure on the perineum area, a very sensitive, often erotic spot with lots of nerve endings terminating just behind the scrotum. And the Desmiit® thong feels quite good in this regard. Proper positioning on the thong on Dylan’s body will push Dylan’s scrotum up and forward. Once again, this can at first feel uncomfortable not erotic, but these initially-uncomfortable sensations quickly morph into something quite pleasant and erotic.

Then, there is the pouch itself. The pouch needs to be just big enough to contain Dylan’s penis and balls, but not too big or loose. On the Desmiit thong, the pouch is sewn in a most interesting way, designed not only top hold the entire scrotum, but also just the right amount room so that the penis is worn forward not up, down, or sideways.

Let’s assume that Dylan by now is at least semi-erect as a consequence of getting into his new thong, (which, unless he is completely brain-dead, he will be by now. So Dylan’s penis at this point is at least somewhat hard and pointing straight forward in the thong, even as Dylan is feeling the sensations of the thong back cutting between his glutes and the upward pressure of the thong just behind his scrotum as well. The more erect Dylan gets, the more the thong pulls between the glutes and upward in the perineum area. Those sensations while getting bigger and bigger is part of the fun for sure.

The thong pouch pushes Dylan’s penis so it is pointing nearly straight forward from inside the thong. Even more interesting, the underside of Dylan’s penis is quite accessible, if Dylan decides that he needs to stroke or otherwise play with the sensitive underside of his penis. This is a terrific “predicament for a guy’s most sensitive parts to be in for sure. This is just a great opportunity for a guy to enjoy the sensations his mind and body are capable of producing. Dylan is certainly no exception in this regard. In fact, Dylan is completely “hooked” on what he is experiencing in his mind and body right now. It occurs to Dylan that it would be fin to put his Tesla® compression shorts on right over the thong. With Dylan’s penis being as hard as it is, and pressing forward against the short, it should appear as a really neat “button”. Dylan pulls on the Tesla® shorts and looks at himself in the mirror. WOW!

To be continued…..

[sebbie]

Dylan has been doing a lot of thinking lately, both about where his live has gone as a guy so far and where it appears to be headed now that he is officially a young adult in college.

Ever since the dawn of puberty, maybe even a bit before, Dylan was always fascinated by clothing that fit him snug in the groin. It is at puberty that most guys quickly learn that rubbing and stroking their penises feels really good, and this quickly morphs into a situation whereby a guy discovers that there are a nearly endless variety of pleasant sensations that are possible. Dylan quickly tended to look at this somewhat philosophically, in that a guy’s penis is capable of giving back an entire lifetime of ever new and fascinating sensations. Dylan had always thought that his understanding of all of this must be unique among his male friends the same or similar age. Dylan noticed that most of his guy friends at age 13 or 14 quickly become focused on girls their age. But in Dylan’s case at least he did not exactly feel what must have been a strong tug that was affecting how his male friends acted and what their interests appeared to be.

Dylan had always been a quiet, studious and serious kid and some of the things that his buddies were talking about, and if they dared, doing, didn’t seem to have that much appeal to him. But Dylan’s groin area was capable of giving him back some very powerful sensations under certain circumstances, circumstances that Dylan had kept quiet about during all of his high school years.

It’s funny how all of this has developed for Dylan. Once a guy figures out the pleasure to be had just by rubbing and stroking one’s own penis, a guy quickly figures out that there are certain items of clothing that can “accidentally” help along with the same thing. I suppose the first clothing item that guys that age soon discover is snug-fitting cotton brief underwear, often known as “tighty whiteys”. Dylan loved wearing these, but also as a teenager constantly worried that if he got too “carried away” so to speak, he would end up with an erection in a place where for a host of different reasons, it was not appropriate to have an erection. As a young high school student, Dylan noticed at the gym that most of the guys his age had switched over to wearing loose-fitting cotton boxers. Dylan surmised that this was because his male buddies were equally concerned about the possibility of ending up with a giant erection at some inopportune place or time, and that the snugger the fit, the greater those odds were. Dylan surmised that this was what was really going on in the heads of his buddies, but, like nearly all guys his age, Dylan never dared raise the subject with them for fear of the consequences should they take what he was asking the wrong way.

Of course, growing up, Dylan’s body was growing as well, which meant that the clothing Dylan had worn comfortably only a year or so ago was suddenly fitting quite snug. This particularly applied to his cotton briefs. Interestingly, Dylan had a special spot in a bottom dresser drawer back home where he kept pairs of tighty whiteys that, quite frankly, he realized he had outgrown. Dylan at an early age discovered that these were still quite useful to keep around, as the pairs with the tightest and snuggest fit were helpful “aids” in jerking off. So Dylan had what might be called a special collection of clothing items that he enjoyed masturbating into. Dylan surmised that his buddies might be enjoying the same ideas or at least something similar, but, of course, he never dared ask.

Then there were the jeans. Dylan knew that a snug-fitting pair of jeans could have some of the same effects, and, indeed, the combination of an overly snug pair of tighty whiteys could be, well, really fun. Dylan loved to look at himself in the mirror as he pulled on his favorite pair of old briefs, along with a pair of jeans that only recently fit him OK. The combination of the two really sent him off into another world.

So, now Dylan is a 19 y/o college student. Dylan has discovered something that up until now he had only speculated about—that guys actually go out and make purchases of specific snug-fitting clothing items with an eye toward finding the specific items that would be most fun to jerk off in. Dylan has gotten a huge “education” about all of this from Bill and Joe, and for that matter, from Tony and Donovan. What Dylan purchased in the Amazon® order was a huge move forward (or perhaps, backward) in this regard. There is suddenly all sorts of stuff going on in Dylan’s brain and body that Dylan had not experienced as a lowly high school student.

Dylan is excited, if you know what I am saying, but also a little scared. For starters, how much of this has Josh figured out with respect to exactly what is going on? Is Dylan messing around with stuff that is basically “gay” or can a guy continue to claim to be straight even as he enjoys all this stuff? What is Josh REALLY making of all of this? Is Josh starting to interpret this all as a form of gay behavior? Does Josh find it in some way interesting to see Dylan wearing his new garb? Josh SEEMS OK with what Dylan is doing, but is that really the case? What happens if Dylan ends up enjoying himself “too much”? Does that mean he is no longer straight?

And what if Josh buys some clothing items of his own? Can Dylan in any way admit to being turned on by helping Josh to do that? Bill and Joe are pretty obviously each turned on simply by observing what the other one is doing, but should that mean that Bill and Joe are actually gay and somehow no longer even interested in dating girls? And what about if Josh decides to try on his new items in the dorm room right front of Dylan? Should Dylan run and hide instead? Will Josh be OK with Dylan watching him? What happens if Dylan starts to get an erection just watching Josh?

Lots of interesting and complicated questions that need to be answered, for sure.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan has been doing a lot of thinking lately, both about where his live has gone as a guy so far and where it appears to be headed now that he is officially a young adult in college.

Ever since the dawn of puberty, maybe even a bit before, Dylan was always fascinated by clothing that fit him snug in the groin. It is at puberty that most guys quickly learn that rubbing and stroking their penises feels really good, and this quickly morphs into a situation whereby a guy discovers that there are a nearly endless variety of pleasant sensations that are possible. Dylan quickly tended to look at this somewhat philosophically, in that a guy’s penis is capable of giving back an entire lifetime of ever new and fascinating sensations. Dylan had always thought that his understanding of all of this must be unique among his male friends the same or similar age. Dylan noticed that most of his guy friends at age 13 or 14 quickly become focused on girls their age. But in Dylan’s case at least he did not exactly feel what must have been a strong tug that was affecting how his male friends acted and what their interests appeared to be.

Dylan had always been a quiet, studious and serious kid and some of the things that his buddies were talking about, and if they dared, doing, didn’t seem to have that much appeal to him. But Dylan’s groin area was capable of giving him back some very powerful sensations under certain circumstances, circumstances that Dylan had kept quiet about during all of his high school years.

It’s funny how all of this has developed for Dylan. Once a guy figures out the pleasure to be had just by rubbing and stroking one’s own penis, a guy quickly figures out that there are certain items of clothing that can “accidentally” help along with the same thing. I suppose the first clothing item that guys that age soon discover is snug-fitting cotton brief underwear, often known as “tighty whiteys”. Dylan loved wearing these, but also as a teenager constantly worried that if he got too “carried away” so to speak, he would end up with an erection in a place where for a host of different reasons, it was not appropriate to have an erection. As a young high school student, Dylan noticed at the gym that most of the guys his age had switched over to wearing loose-fitting cotton boxers. Dylan surmised that this was because his male buddies were equally concerned about the possibility of ending up with a giant erection at some inopportune place or time, and that the snugger the fit, the greater those odds were. Dylan surmised that this was what was really going on in the heads of his buddies, but, like nearly all guys his age, Dylan never dared raise the subject with them for fear of the consequences should they take what he was asking the wrong way.

Of course, growing up, Dylan’s body was growing as well, which meant that the clothing Dylan had worn comfortably only a year or so ago was suddenly fitting quite snug. This particularly applied to his cotton briefs. Interestingly, Dylan had a special spot in a bottom dresser drawer back home where he kept pairs of tighty whiteys that, quite frankly, he realized he had outgrown. Dylan at an early age discovered that these were still quite useful to keep around, as the pairs with the tightest and snuggest fit were helpful “aids” in jerking off. So Dylan had what might be called a special collection of clothing items that he enjoyed masturbating into. Dylan surmised that his buddies might be enjoying the same ideas or at least something similar, but, of course, he never dared ask.

Then there were the jeans. Dylan knew that a snug-fitting pair of jeans could have some of the same effects, and, indeed, the combination of an overly snug pair of tighty whiteys could be, well, really fun. Dylan loved to look at himself in the mirror as he pulled on his favorite pair of old briefs, along with a pair of jeans that only recently fit him OK. The combination of the two really sent him off into another world.

So, now Dylan is a 19 y/o college student. Dylan has discovered something that up until now he had only speculated about—that guys actually go out and make purchases of specific snug-fitting clothing items with an eye toward finding the specific items that would be most fun to jerk off in. Dylan has gotten a huge “education” about all of this from Bill and Joe, and for that matter, from Tony and Donovan. What Dylan purchased in the Amazon® order was a huge move forward (or perhaps, backward) in this regard. There is suddenly all sorts of stuff going on in Dylan’s brain and body that Dylan had not experienced as a lowly high school student.

Dylan is excited, if you know what I am saying, but also a little scared. For starters, how much of this has Josh figured out with respect to exactly what is going on? Is Dylan messing around with stuff that is basically “gay” or can a guy continue to claim to be straight even as he enjoys all this stuff? What is Josh REALLY making of all of this? Is Josh starting to interpret this all as a form of gay behavior? Does Josh find it in some way interesting to see Dylan wearing his new garb? Josh SEEMS OK with what Dylan is doing, but is that really the case? What happens if Dylan ends up enjoying himself “too much”? Does that mean he is no longer straight?

And what if Josh buys some clothing items of his own? Can Dylan in any way admit to being turned on by helping Josh to do that? Bill and Joe are pretty obviously each turned on simply by observing what the other one is doing, but should that mean that Bill and Joe are actually gay and somehow no longer even interested in dating girls? And what about if Josh decides to try on his new items in the dorm room right front of Dylan? Should Dylan run and hide instead? Will Josh be OK with Dylan watching him? What happens if Dylan starts to get an erection just watching Josh?

Lots of interesting and complicated questions that need to be answered, for sure.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan got up this morning, feeling, well, more than a little horny. What exactly was going on with his body last night seems to be in something of a foggy haze. He slept through the night OK, pretty much, but this morning he recalls, if somewhat vaguely, moments (he thinks might have been around 2:30 AM) where he had what can only be described in his mind as a massive male erection. He doesn’t recall ejaculating at all during the night, and there are no tell-tale stains either on his bed-time clothing or the sheets that would provide any sort of clear evidence that he did. Despite having a big hard-on during the night, he must have held everything in.

Now Dylan knows all about the so-called nocturnal emissions, often referred to as wet dreams. But Dylan had neither a nocturnal emission nor, as he can recall, anything like a wet dream during the night. Still, Dylan knew that something was going on inside his body last night, something that could end up being embarrassing, but also offering him up a whole lot of pleasant feelings and sensations.

Dylan has had these experiences before. He has learned that in the morning, he feels one way if, during the night, he ejaculated in his bed, but psychologically quite different if there was just one or more erections, maybe big erections that did not somehow conclude with puddles of ejaculate. If the ejaculation happened during the night, usually Dylan wakes up in the morning feeling anything but horny. If anything, he awakens feeling a little tired. Maybe a better term would be exhausted. But, if the one or more serious erections occurred during the night that did not lead to ejaculation, he wakes up feeling horny, and seemingly his mind is almost totally preoccupied thinking about his private parts. Dylan always has thought that these two experiences were more than a little odd, but since he went into puberty, he has somehow learned a little about how to deal with all of this.

Dylan realizes that a nocturnal emission is actually something of a tension reliever the next morning, but somehow he wakes up not quite feeling as energetic as he does if the ejaculation did not happen. Dylan at some level also realizes that a lot of guys in his “unresolved” condition will wake up very focused on thinking about females, and in particular female private parts. But Dylan, at least this morning, is not there to the degree that he senses that some of his male friends get when faced with the exact same situation. Dylan is more nearly focused on his own private parts.

But there is more going on in Dylan’s brain than that. Ever since he got the Amazon order with all the stuff in it, he cannot help thinking about how his body would feel wearing each of the various items.

Dylan has a rather slender body, and he owns a couple pairs of the currently fashionable skinny jeans that he likes to wear to his classes. One of the pairs fits particularly tight and snug on Dylan’s frame. The waist size is 29 inches on those, an inch smaller than Dylan normally wears. But the jeans fit Dylan well, quite snug through his thighs and over his butt, with a nice low rise too. Dylan starts to pre cum just thinking about all of this. If Dylan is pre-cumming already just thinking about those jeans, that is more than ample evidence that he is feeling pretty horny.

Dylan starts to thinking about all the items he has from the order, and whether this might be the morning to wear one of the items to class under the skinny jeans, of course. A horny condition as Dylan is in with the lack of resolution during the night makes Dylan think about this possibility more and more intently. But which item?

Well, the strap with the cup is certainly a possibility. Dylan likes the strap and cup a lot but worries that this option may be a little too over the top at least on the first day of trying this scheme. For starters, the jeans may fit so tight that it would be obvious to others that there is something, namely the cup, right under the jeans. And what if he needs to pee? How does he deal with the cup standing at the urinal in the men’s restroom?

Naw, the first time at this needs to be a bit more subtle. The tiny little Desmiit swim brief, maybe? That is certainly a possibility, but maybe that is going overboard in the opposite direction of being a bit two subtle given how Dylan is feeling this morning.

A third possibility is the little Desmiit thong. Dylan knows that the thong is good at pressing his private parts up and forward. That outline under the jeans may make it appear that Dylan is “well endowed”, but not oddly so. And, at the restroom urinal he can just pull his penis out over the waistband of the little thong. Then there is that little strap between his butt cheeks which is certainly going to “capture his attention” in various ways as he walks off to class.

Dylan grabs the thong and puts it on. He pulls on those snug little jeans over. Wow! A great feeling with both items taken together. Dylan does not want the horny sensations to be so strong that he goes into full-scale ejaculation mode while listening to the classroom lecture. But he does not want to lose that terrific horny feeling that has occupied his mind and body since he awakened this morning either. This combination seems perfect.

Dylan pulls on tee shirt with a sweatshirt over. And he is off to class, still feeling horny as all get out.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Dylan makes it to class, and finds his seat in the lecture hall, but he finds it difficult to keep his mind focused on the lecture in front of him. Dylan begins to think that it might have not been the brainiest idea to go off to class in the state of horniness he was in, without relieving himself first. Still, had he done that so late in the morning, he knew he would have likely felt sluggish and drained all day long. If you must relieve yourself, better to do that just before bedtime, so you have the night to recover.

Dylan’s choice of clothing to wear to class only makes his struggle with himself that much worse to bear. To be sure, Dylan is enjoying himself, very much so, but he is facing a problem not unlike what he faced when he was much younger, only 13 or 14 years old. At that point in time he was in near constant agony over the prospect of going into a full-scale ejaculation mode at a very inopportune time, place or both. Of course, that worry is nearly a constant source of agony for guys that age, but Dylan realizes that he is 19 years old now, and his mind and body should be far enough along in development such that he has developed enough control such that the problem is no longer a big concern, if at all.

Dylan has reached a point in his life where he greatly enjoys playing with his body in this regard, but what he did is, at least to a degree, pushing the limits for him. In some ways, Dylan thinks it is fun to try and press the limits right up to the edge, and then figuring out exactly when and how he needs to back off from going over the edge. However interesting this is, Dylan on occasion has been known to not always have his timing down exactly. The urge to ejaculate, on occasion, can be overwhelming, especially if a guy is messing around with himself on the very edge of going off. Sometimes, it is no longer possible to back off, even if the guy thinks he has developed a high degree of control over when he ejaculates that he did not have only a few years earlier.

Dylan has no one to blame but himself for the situation he now finds himself in. The thong underwear he chose to wear under those snug-fitting skinny jeans poses an interesting problem. The guys who wear thong underwear regularly, if not every day, probably eventually get “used” to the unique thong sensations from the snug pouch, the perineum area just behind the scrotum, and the rear band riding up between the butt cheeks, but for Dylan, having only tried on the underwear a time or two before, and in the privacy of his dorm room, all these sensations are still quite new and what might best be termed, “novel” to Dylan’s body. Dylan’s mind keeps getting dragged into what he is feeling and experiencing down there as the thong tugs on all sorts of places Dylan never knew before were sensitive and, for want of a better word, sexually “active.”

In this kind of a situation, Dylan’s body parts react to these new feelings and sensations the only way they know how. Furthermore, it didn’t help for Dylan to wear his tightest and snuggest pair of skinny jeans over the thong. Dylan is primarily concerned now that

1. The thong pouch is tiny compared to the pouch and absorbent cloth in any of his other non-thong underwear. So if he does go over the edge, there is little cloth to absorb any of the ejaculate, which is going to end up on his jeans.

2. The snug fit of the jeans that fit tightly against the pouch of the thong only add to the dilemma, making it all almost certain that there is going to be a very large wet spot right on the fly of his jeans.

At this point Dylan must avoid going over the edge and into full-scale ejaculation mode if at all possible, because the downside of a full-blown ejaculation is just too messy to even contemplate. I suppose one way of dealing with the situation at hand is to try and focus his mind on the lecture if he possibly can. But Dylan is now at the point where he is once again experiencing the same sensations, feelings and fears as he did as a 14-year old.

Penises do what penises do. Penises greatly enjoy being in confined spaces, and when they are in such a situation, they reward their owners with the most wonderful feelings and sensations. Penises have a remarkable ability to work their magic in whatever space they are given to expand. Penises love to grow in size to the point where they are pressing against all sides of whatever contains them. Dylan knows that, and part of Dylan’s fascination with the thong underwear and, for that matter, with the skinny jeans both of which give Dylan’s penis only a very limited space. As the penis comes in contact with the walls of what is confining it, it emanates the most sensational of feelings in Dylan’s brain. Dylan knows this, and that in large measure is how he got himself in the predicament he is now in.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan is thinking about all sorts of weighty stuff related to exactly what it means to be an adult male. Taking on a serious relationship with partner sex has many issues for any guy of any age, but particularly has a lot of down-sides for a 19-year old college freshman. But what is a guy like Dylan supposed to do? Practical solutions are few and far between to the problem of male hormones circulating and intentional and unintentional erections occurring, sometimes seemingly almost relentlessly, not only at night (aka wet dreams) but often during the day as well.

Males learn at a very early age that penises greatly enjoy being contained within a confined space, and oftentimes the snugger, the better. It is only somewhat later in life that it probably occurs to them that this is largely because the female vagina is the ultimate confined space for a male penis to be confined in, at least for straight guys. Dylan, at age 19, fully realizes all of this. It’s a basic biological issue not only for all humans, but for virtually all mammals in general. A driving force of nature focused on continuing the species. If a male of any species has any interest in sex at all, its all about getting the penis into a snug-fitting contained space. Dylan realizes that this is not only his problem or issue, but that each 19-year old college freshman is attempting to navigate while dealing with this erotic desire in his own way. Dylan also fully realizes that some of the guys have worked out paths that seem to be more successful in the short term than others, while others just seem to be just muddling along in trying to deal with their thoughts and feelings. The world for 19-year old college freshmen is pretty weird in this regard.

Any post-pubescent teen has, of necessity, developed a plan for dealing with these new-found sensations and feelings, a plan that typically involves solo sex (aka masturbation) on a regular basis. Guys quickly learn that this is something they should not be done in the view of family members, let alone, male peers, and in order to do this, at least during waking hours, requires a degree of privacy. Getting the necessary privacy for any significant length of time can be very difficult. What if a family member should wander in while you are “doing it”? This would be very embarrassing and difficult for a teen male. Young teen guys quickly learn how to move from an initial arousal state to ejaculation in a short period of time in order to limit the possibility of being “discovered”.

But being a college freshman in a not-very-roomy double room with another 19-year old male presents an all-new set of issues for Dylan. A 19-year old guy’s masturbation scheme is usually as closely guarded as any piece of personal information can be guarded. But now Dylan is dealing almost constantly with Josh, a good guy, but in the room a lot of time. How does Josh deal with the same issues as those affecting Dylan? Some college males seem to think that their roommates will be much more socially and sexually active with females and have male-female partner sex on weekend “dates that typically occur on Friday and Saturday nights. Then, presumably, the roommate can somehow make it through another week without masturbating. Dylan knows this is a foolish assumption on all sorts of levels. A 19-year old guy is a whole lot hornier than that and needs to “relieve himself” on a much more frequent basis than once every weekend, but, under the circumstances, how and when?

Dylan has learned a lot from Bill and Joe relating specifically to the entire issue of how the right pieces of clothing can make solo sex a lot more fun than plain old masturbation. As Dylan sits in his lecture wearing his male thong and skinny jeans, he is experiencing some of this first hand. Let’s assume that Dylan makes it through the lecture without ejaculating, however tough that might be. His situation sitting in the classroom is quite interesting. Remember that young teens lean to go from initial arousal to ejaculation quickly was a learned skill. But now Dylan is into a situation where he is way horny, and he is trying as best he can to keep everything under control.

Of course, Dylan remembers two incidents in high school where a male classmate was aroused and erect and wasn’t able to contain his ejaculation. Those guys suffered from a lot of post-ejaculation teasing and, indeed, bullying afterword, both being labeled as jerk-offs and worse. Dylan wonders how males handle situations like this as college freshman, and assumes that most college freshmen have more control over the situation in the groin area now than they did as high school teen. But that is an assumption.

Of course, Dylan has been learning that staying aroused at a level just below ejaculation is quite enjoyable, and with a bit of luck, sustainable for what might be an indefinite period of time. Still, Dylan is really horny, and he knows that as soon as he gets back to the dorm room the first thing he needs to do is to relieve himself. But Dylan kind of set himself up for this by choosing the thong and his tightest skinny jeans to wear to class. This is an interesting puzzle because Dylan is in large measure doing this to himself.

What if, when Dylan returns to the Dorm room, Josh is there? Or what if Josh wanders in just when Dylan is entering the final step? How is this all going to work after class, anyway?

Here is the complication. Dylan has started to believe that he is not unique or special, at least in one regard. The whole issue relates to how males react to being around other males who are clearly horny, erect, and masturbating to ejaculation. Dylan knows that if he were to wander into the dorm room where Josh was horny and masturbating, Dylan might be surprised, but he would be anything but upset. Dylan knows that just seeing Josh in this state would be arousing for Dylan as well.

The puzzle relates to how commonplace Dylan’s response to Josh’s arousal is? Does this mean that Dylan is actually gay not straight? Dylan assumes that gay guys his stage would love to be in a situation where they got to watch their male partners masturbate themselves. (And perhaps ask “May I help you?”) But are straight guys by definition never aroused by seeing another guy in an aroused state? Good question. Do any sex researchers know the answer to this question?

So, in terms of our story, what exactly is happening here? Joe and Bill helped Dylan make the Amazon order that they had to know was at some level going to put all their penises into more confined spaces than they were used to. Bill and Joe were OK with that, and Bill and Joe both seemed quite comfortable being around each other when they both knew that each other were horny. In fact, the mere knowledge that the other guy was struggling with a situation that was arousing was in itself a turn-on. Bill and Joe had to know that by helping Dylan place the order, they were putting Dylan into the same predicament that they were in wearing their snug-fitting stuff. The mere knowledge of this had to be a turn-on for Bill and Joe.

But now what of Dylan and Josh? When Josh accidentally wandered in on Dylan who was “trying on” some of his new gear, Josh seemed more than a little surprised, but he also did not seem at all upset. It took Josh only a minute or two to put two and two together and figure out what Dylan was doing to and with himself. Josh quickly responded that he would like to have some of the same or similar gear.

Dylan has to know that if he helps Josh “shop” for gear, he is setting up Josh in much the same way that Bill and Joe set Dylan up. Dylan is starting to think that it would be fun to get to watch Josh try on his gear as well, especially to see how Josh’s body and mind “reacts” to the new situation. Dylan starts to wander if this is a weird gay response on his part, a response that is not leading into gay partner sex, at least not now, but still psychologically and sexually interesting.

For right now, horny Dylan is still finishing the lecture in the lecture hall. He is aroused as all get out but has not ejaculated. He is hoping he can endure the situation at hand until he gets back to the semi-privacy of his dorm room. Tension builds, on all sorts of levels!

…To be continued

[sebbie]

I know a lot of readers have been very much focusing on the situation Dylan got himself into when he chose to wear that little Desmiit Thong to the classroom and the lecture this morning, and more generally, how the various items in the Amazon order were each playing a role in getting Dylan feeling horny. That is fine with me and I would not discourage either Dylan nor my readers from having some fun just thinking about all the various items, the little thong, the skimpy little swim brief, the Tesla compression tee and jammer-style shorts in that neon yellow-green color, the forest green wrestling singlet, and, of course, not to forget that wonderfully snug-fitting strap and cup. This collection of items makes a very good “shopping list” for any guy who gets turned on by being contained within snug-fitting clothing or is curious about that entire idea.

Now I fully realize that not every guy out there is going to experience the “reaction” to these items that Dylan appears to be experiencing. Maybe there are some guys out there who could wear any of these items without experiencing any physical (psychosexual) reaction at all to any of them. What makes all of this even more interesting is that each guy in terms of his response to all of this might be as unique as his own fingerprint. Some guys might find the whole idea of getting aroused simply by wearing various items of clothing to be silly or perhaps even distasteful.

Then too, some guys might find the whole idea of getting aroused just wearing a clothing item from this list as being something of a fetish, which would be just a variation on being a transvestite, which of course who are the males that get sexually aroused by wearing specific items of women’s clothing. To be sure, thong underwear is far more commonly worn by women than men, and this might be tied into some of the hesitation many males have toward the whole idea of wearing a thong designed for a male body. These guys might think that if they are going to wear something that skimpy, they might as well just “go commando.”

At least the items we are talking about are intended to be worn by males. Even the little thong is cut quite differently than a thong for females to accommodate the larger male anatomy. Whether or not the guy gets turned on when he wears them is a different issue, entirely. It used to be that the sexual psychologists claimed that any attraction a person had to an inanimate object such as an item of clothing was a fetish and any fetish was a form of abnormal sexual behavior that somehow needed to be stopped or corrected. Indeed, up until the early 1970s, the main body of psychologists claimed that the only non-abnormal way for a guy to get aroused had to be centered on having sex with a female partner. Being gay and any form of gay sex was certainly abnormal sexual behavior as was any sexual attraction to an inanimate object.

Heck, at least into the 1960s, psychologists and medical doctors even felt that any form of solo sex such as masturbation should be strongly discouraged. I reached puberty in the mid 1950s. I do not recall a lot of the details around something that happened to me shortly thereafter, but I do recall that at some point I was in a doctor’s office. I think I described to him in detail what I had done or been doing. If I recall correctly, the doctor’s response was “That’s OK and you are a normal boy your age, but I would certainly discourage you from doing that insofar as you can!”

OK, knowing me, I probably surprised the doctor at least a little by outlining in somewhat graphic detail what I had been doing. But I still recall walking out of the office thinking that the doctor’s response was really strange and unhelpful. If I wasn’t damaging my body, and I was completely normal boy my age, then exactly what was wrong with what I was doing and why should I stop? I am still wondering about the same thing.

But Dylan is not living in 1955 but in 2016. Sex with either a same-sex or an opposite-sex partner is now considered to be entirely normal. Oddly enough, masturbation, especially doing it too much, whatever that amount is, is still considered to be at least a little abnormal. The guys who masturbate a lot are, at minimum, social outcasts who lack the interpersonal skills necessary to have real partner sex, whether gay or straight. Then to, there is the purported link between a guy being discovered masturbating by a male peer who is then teased or bullied, called a jerk-off or a queer by his male peers (who are all also engaging in regular masturbation as well, but haven’t been caught by their peers, as of yet.)

All of this is suddenly really complicated. The only way the guy can survive with his peers on the subject of sex is to claim that he is only ever aroused by a female of about the same age. But bragging about this behavior creates a host of issues too not only for guys, but the females who are the objects of all the male attention.

For 19-year-old Dylan, the rules that applied in high school have broken down, if only a little. For starters, Bill and Joe seem comfortable admitting to each other that they can get turned on rather easily by wearing various snug-fitting clothing items. So too with the rowing team members Tony and Donovan, who seem to have something more complex going on than only being teammates on a college rowing team. Exactly what is going on with or between Tony and Donovan is not completely clear.

For Dylan, his biggest unanswered question is something about Bill and Joe. While it is completely clear to Dylan that both Bill and Joe are easily aroused just by wearing their snug-fitting clothing, and certainly Dylan is not the only guy out there who does this. The far more interesting question for Dylan is the question of whether Bill gets aroused just watching Joe getting into his own snug-fitting clothing, and the same for Joe’s response when he watches Bill do the exact same thing. Are all the guys who have such an arousal response somehow gay or bisexual, or would this be common for most guys whether they claim to be straight or gay?

If Dylan can find the answer to this question, he might also be able to better understand Josh’s reactions to what Dylan has been doing, and how much of this Dylan might dare to share with Josh. Dylan knows that Josh did not react at all like Dylan might have expected when Josh wandered in on Dylan trying on some of Dylan’s new gear. Dare Dylan take this all a step farther or not? Josh has already indicated that he might want to obtain some items of his own.

Oh, I was going to say something about Dylan’s funky jeans. All of my readers know that Dylan has liked snug-fitting clothing from even before puberty. The really snug-fitting jeans are interesting especially when worn in combination with some of the other items, they can create some interesting, even erotic sensations. Up until a few years back, men’s skinny jeans fit less snug that women’s jeans did. This was in large measure due to the fact that the Denim used in women’s jeans contained 2-percent stretchy Spandex, so the denim had a bit of stretch. At first, the jeans manufacturers did not know how men would react to denim containing Spandex. But one-by-one the manufacturers discovered that men like a bit of stretch in the denim, too, and started introducing Skinny jeans with a bet of stretch. This meant that men’s jeans could be as slim and as tight as the designers wanted to be, too. With that, the sloppy, oversized jeans were suddenly out of style, and the so-called Asian style, as in really skin-tight jeans, became increasingly popular for men. Nowadays men can even buy formal black suits with a Skinny, athletic look.

Dylan has surely figured all of this out. Dylan has one pair of jeans that fit him really skinny and tight. They are made of denim laced with Spandex ® fibers. That is the pair he wore to class today, over the little thong. And the jeans are part of the reason Dylan is feeling so horny. To be sure, Dylan pretty much knew all of this was going to happen and he went ahead anyway.

In Dylan’s mind, the ideal pair of skinny jeans
1. Fits really snug in the lower leg, with barely enough room to contain his calf muscles.
2. Fits like a second skin over Dylan’s thighs
3. Fits very snug in the butt and through the entire groin area
4. The waist of the Spandex ®-laced denim stretches, so Dylan can and does wear a 29-inch waist in his ultra-skinny jeans instead of his usual 31 without any undue problems
This describes well the jeans Dylan wore to class today.

So, the class is (finally) over. Dylan is still feeling horny as all get out, and his urge to ejaculate is getting more and more powerful. Dylan is headed back to his dorm room, fully knowing that the first thing he needs to do is deal with his now all but overwhelming need to get off. But what if Josh is there? What if Josh should wander in at a most inopportune moment? Dylan clearly can’t hold off for much longing. All morning has been a struggle, a struggle that Dylan knew he would ultimately “lose” (or perhaps win, depending on your perspective on all of this).

At the same time, Dylan has been enjoying himself immensely. His body is capable of making him feel great in ways he had never dreamed of before. I am not the least bit sorry for the situation he is in. At some level Dylan knows that as well. Dylan still has all the questions as outlined in this chapter, but that certainly is not the entire story. There is more, far more to the story than that!

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan has managed to make it through class and is walking back to his dorm room. Class was a struggle to get through in an effort to not get to the point where ejaculation could not be delayed, but somehow Dylan has managed. Dylan, by his choice in underwear and jeans, set himself up for this both physically and psychologically. Dylan is now 19-years old, of course, and he has a bit more control over his body and groin area than he did when he was, say, 13 or 14 years of age. But getting even to this point has not been an easy or simple path.

Every guy who is growing up from puberty to being a college freshman faces much the same issues. On one hand, getting aroused and erect to the very edge of ejaculation feels terrific, and it doesn’t take a post-pubescent guy much time to figure this all out. The real issue becomes what does a guy do if he slips over the edge, (which is certainly easy enough to do if you aren’t really in control)? Still, the sensations that come from playing around this way at the very edge of having gone too far forward to delay ejaculation further are just too much fun to not pursue. But where, and when?

As I have already indicated, Dylan has brought a lot of this on himself by his choice of items to wear to class. Dylan knew that he would be pushing the arousal and ejaculation envelope, and he chose to go ahead anyway. The “game” that Dylan has been playing with his own mind and body is very different as a college freshman than what he did as a high school teenager. As a young teen, the objective was to learn how to masturbate as quickly as possible in the privacy of a bathroom so as to not be “caught” by a peer or family member, and then, once this was over and done with, just act nonchalant as if nothing had happened. The whole idea of having special clothing items that would increase the arousal level was a non-starter, of course.

As a young teen, night-time erections and ejaculations have their own problems, the main one being that the wet stains on your sleepwear or bed sheets would be “discovered” by a peer (say, at camp or in an overnight sleepover) or by family member, Mom’s raising young teen boys (apparently) adapt to what is happening fairly quickly and learn not to ask questions about starchy stains showing up on sheets or sleepwear, but peers and other family members might not be so kind or gentle in this regard for sure.

So here is Dylan, still desperate to get off, still containing what is now a near-full hard-on inside his thong and super skinny jeans. The thong is particularly odd-feeling, at this point. When Dylan initially put it on this morning, he thought to himself that wearing it to class was no big deal, psychologically or sexually, but as Dylan started to get more and more aroused, and harder and harder, his expanding penis started to feel more and more confined within the thong pouch. The snug fit of the jeans helped to keep his penis from pointing straight out as it grew, but there were other sensitivity issues. From the moment Dylan pulled the thong on, he could feel the upward pressure in the sensitive perineum area, even though the rear of the thong was more or less laying on top of his butt crack, not cutting between the butt cheeks. Any well-fitting thong pushes a guy’s scrotum and penis upward and forward. Some guys like this, but other guys think that this would more nearly be uncomfortable than sexually arousing.

As the penis gets bigger and bigger, the thong pouch still contains it, or at least makes a fervent attempt to do so. But the “problem” is that the bigger the penis gets, the more upward pressure the thong is going to be put on the perineum area, and as the penis occupies more and more of the pouch space, the back of the tong will increasingly seize up between the butt cheeks. Unless a guy is somehow brain-dead (unlikely), what is happening will continue to feed the whole system driving the erection in the first place. This might be uncomfortable, but more than likely in a horny state anyway, the sensations are way fun.

So Dylan is back to the dorm, desperate to ejaculate. He heads to his room. The room provides privacy UNLESS Josh happens to wander in on him. Remember, the men’s bathroom is way down the hall. Dylan enters the dorm room. Luckily, Josh is not there. Josh pulls down his jeans, and begins to “examine” himself in the mirror. He sees that he has really filled out the thong pouch, with damp quarter-sized pre cum spots on the pouch as well. Dylan thinks he looks quite sexy. Desperate to ejaculate, Dylan starts to run his fingers along the underside of his penis along its full length, enjoying the “moment” immensely. His penis, still inside the thong pouch, quickly responds by growing s little longer still. Dylan is about to go into full-scale ejaculation mode, and he knows it!

Suddenly, Dylan hears that familiar click of a key entering a door lock. Josh must be back from class. His class must have gotten over a little early today.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan thought he had the dorm room to himself, as it was more than 20 minutes until Josh would be back from his morning class. Dylan was really focused on his own sensations and feelings, and was desperate to get off, given how the morning had evolved. Dylan was standing there in the room, literally butt-naked, wearing only that little Desmiit ® thong and a tee shirt over the top. Dylan knew that the only other person with a key to the room was Josh, so it had to be Josh with the key in the lock.

As a teen-ager, Dylan had gotten quite good at figuring out when he was likely to have some privacy, and had found ways to take advantage of that knowledge for determining his schedule for engaging in “self abuse.” Teen boys gradually become more and more independent of the rest of the family in this regard, and Dylan had been part of a process that was considered by everyone to be “quite normal.” Dylan had gradually gotten to the point whereby his parents (and siblings) did not “need” to know what Dylan was up to at every moment during the day. This is all part of just growing up for a teen boy, but, conveniently, it is also part of a “learning process” related to identifying the best and “safest” ways for “pleasuring oneself”.

Some parents of teen boys probably understand this process of giving them some of their “own space” quite well, but maybe others not so much. Many parents worry about all of the stuff that might be going on inside the heads of guys that age. Dads are worried that their teen boys are dealing with psychosexual issues as complicated as they were for them. These are difficult navigational waters for sure. But what is going on is also a very necessary part of growing up for a teen male.

Even so, the “situation” Dylan now faces, with Josh about to open the door of the dorm room, with Dylan dressed and in the condition he is now in is unlike anything Dylan has encountered in his short life. There is nowhere for Dylan to run and hide. Dylan has only himself to blame for the “predicament” he is now in.

Dylan has been stroking his penis from the outside of the thong, and he has gotten as big and hard as Dylan ever recalls feeling. This feels great! Actually, a better term would be “fabulous.” Of course, the pressure that has been building on Dylan, sexual and psychological, all morning along, deserves much of the “blame”. As Josh enters the room, there is no way for Dylan to somehow hide what he has been doing and the condition he is in.

Josh enters the room, and is taken aback by what he has accidentally walked into. Actually, Josh is flabbergasted by what he is seeing close up. Of course, Josh knows that guys self-pleasure and in his teen years he has accidentally encountered situations whereby he was pretty certain that a peer had been only recently masturbating himself. But he has never before walked in on a guy quite in the obvious state of arousal that Dylan is currently in.

Dylan doesn’t quite know what to do or say either. Perhaps the best strategy is to just continue to stroke himself, and acting as if Josh is not even there. After all, the proverbial “cat is out of the bag” now, so to speak. It is quite clear to Josh that Dylan likes to pleasure himself while wearing a skimpy little thong. Besides, Dylan is all but certain that Josh will not tease or bully Dylan under the circumstances or that what Josh is seeing be shared with any of their friends. College students as a rule are smart enough not to do that. But still Dylan realizes that the entire situation is more than a little embarrassing even as the sensations are extra pleasant. What a dilemma of mixed thoughts and feelings!

It takes a moment for Josh to regain his composure given what he is observing. Josh struggles to say anything, even after regaining some of his composure. The only thing Josh can think of saying is “Don’t let me disturb you, Dylan!”

Strangely enough, Dylan is so desperate to ejaculate that he keeps right on stroking the underside of his penis from base to glans through the little Desmiit ® thong. All of a sudden, the seemingly crazy thought occurs to Dylan that having Josh in the room watching Dylan pleasure himself is a bit of a turn-on not a turn-off. The realization that having another guy in the room obviously watching him masturbate could be a psychosexual turn-on was an all new thought to Dylan. What does THAT imply, for goodness sakes?

Meanwhile, Josh is having some psychosexual issues to deal with as well. At a very basic level, Josh is starting to “admire” the situation Dylan is in and doing to himself. Josh has always had a deeply-buried “curiosity” with respect to wanting to know more about exactly what happens to other guys when they get aroused, erect, and in a situation of having a desperate desire to ejaculation. Depending on your view, Josh walked in on Dylan at just the right moment (or perhaps wrong moment, depending on your perspective on the events at hand) to observe all of this real life first-hand. Weirdly, Josh is starting to think that it would be most interesting to be in the place that Dylan is in right now. What a strange (but oddly wonderful) thought!

Josh wonders if the thoughts he is now having are common for guys his age or not.

How would other guys deal with the situation that currently confronts Josh? Are the thoughts that Josh is having suggestive of the possibility that Josh has a deep-seated gay streak? Given the situation at hand, would most guys Josh’s age who think of themselves as straight have quickly made an exit to allow Dylan to continue to jerk off in privacy, or would many guys be curious enough about the psychosexual behaviors of other males their own age to stick around?

Same with Dylan. Dylan could have made a quick attempt to stop the masturbation fun and get himself covered in a pair of baggy shorts as soon as he heard the key go into the door lock, but he somehow chose not to. Does that mean that Dylan must somehow have a gay streak too? And what of that thought that crossed Dylan’s mind that it was actually arousing to have Josh in the room watching Dylan jerk off. Dylan suddenly wonders what that thought might or might not have to do with Dylan’s sexuality deep down.

What concerns Josh the most is that Josh is suddenly feeling arousal rumblings in his own groin area as he observes Dylan stroking himself in the state he is in. What in the world is that all about anyway? Maybe it’s a clue that Josh would really like to have his own little thong to help him pleasure himself. Oddly, that is an easier and “safer” rationale than to go down the trail of concluding that watching Dylan stroke himself while in a very aroused state is in itself arousing for Josh.

Josh has long thought deep down that he wanted to see exactly how other guy’s bodies respond when they get very aroused and are traveling along near and perhaps over can’t stop now point of ejaculation. Now that he is in this situation, he is discovering that his own body responds as well in a situation like this.

This chapter has raised a lot of fascinating questions and provided only unclear answers, if at all. What would my readers have done if they found themselves in either Josh’s or Dylan shoes right now? (But Dylan is not even wearing shoes right now!)

To be continued…

[swim suit eddie]

I had an appointment with the dermatologist, when my doctor found a cancerous mole in my lower right leg. Iv'e never had to deal with such a frightful medical situation. I felt very nervous and somewhat scared going there, but to offset my anxieties, I wore my favorite snug and warm clothes, soft button up flannel shirt, with my favorite snug denim overalls and leotard, tights and Speedo style microfiber briefs underneath and of course a change of loose clothing and baggy underwear to wear after my treatment. It was a very cool October day, I arrived at the specialist's, office that afternoon feeling fearful of what will happen to me, yet glad I was glad to be wearing wearing my warm and snug outfit, while still dressed. After waiting a while and filling out a lot of forms, I handed them to the receptionist, when called in by the nurse. She took me to a large examination room with a lot of new technical equipment. The doctor then came into the examination room, as I sat on the exam table, a very pretty female doctor. She explained what will be done starting with a complete body scan for any other malignet moles, then cutting out any possible remaining infection. It'll take a few hours and you'll have to be completely undressed through the process and covered by a gown. The nurse then came back with the big white gown, when both her and the doctor said I could take my time undressing, as I'm the last patient for the day. I was helped off the exam table by the nurse, seeing me in my warm and snug clothes. I was so nervous and blushing somewhat, when asked what I had on under the overalls, as all my clothes have to come off. Between the secure feeling of the snug overalls and leotards underneath, then the nurse offering to help me undress if needed, gave me an erection, not yet not noticable under all my warm clothes. I did accept her offer to help me in a shy like manner. The doctor stayed in the examination room preparing and setting up the highly technical medical equipment, as the nurse partially closed the privacy curtain surrounding me. My anxiety was so high now, despite the nurse and doctor reassuring me not to be so fearful. It will not be as bad as I fear and will be fine after the examination and treatment, then having me take off my sneakers and socks,covering my feet still encased in the tights underneath. There I stood,like a sad little boy about to loose his warm and snug security blanket, closing my eyes and crossing my legs, hearing snaps opening , bib and straps on the snug overalls being unfastened by the nurse. She told me not to be embarrassed or ashamed being naked and hard, as this a normal happening for a man going through a medical exam. I did feel a little better, as she gently unbuttoned my flannel shirt with the overalls shoulder straps and bib dangling at my waist with the overalls still snug in my lowers. She was very professional and gentle with me and now I began enjoying being undressed by her. Yes, the doctor was still in the room, glancing every so often to see how the nurse and I were progressing, getting me ready for examination and leg surgery. Now the nurse guided me onto the exam table, where I would be totally naked, for at least one hour, while the doctor and nurse did the proceedure on me. Now she pulled off my shirt, gently folding it and placing it on a chair. I was feeling very aroused, knowing my snug clothes will be off me very soon. The nurse stepped asked how I was feeling, again reassuring me to to be so fearful. She then finished unbuttoning the overalls side buttons, lifting my leotard clad body, lower torso, pulling and tugging them down and off me. it certainly tickled and did make me feel some what less fearful of what was about to happen, but I still couldn't finish undressing, so she continued undressing me. Now the last extra snug and secure last protective clothing was coming off, leotard, tights and Speedo style briefs. It was a long and slow process, getting them off, but she didn't mind, being the medical surgery will take her and the doctor a lot more time and care. I have to admit, I did like having all my clothes being taken off, especially my leotard, tights and the Speedo briefs, with her getting totally naked for the operation. The doctor looked back again,then came over to the exam table, as the nurse peeled off my last protective layers, tights and briefs, then covering me in the gown, looking like tent city. Once, I was naked, laying on the exam table, I did savor having my favorite snug outfit taken off piece by piece, while the doctor would examine all my body for any other possible cancer bearing moles. Soon the pain reducing needle took effect and Wasn't feeling any real pain and really relaxed now, but still glad I wore my favorite snug clothes to the dermatologist. I wasn't happy wearing my baggy clothes home, yet wearing and having my warm snug overalls and leotards with sexy Speedo style briefs having to come off, certainly made a long day at a doctor's office go a lot better.

[sebbie]

et’s face reality here. 19-year old college guys, dorm roommates, talk about a lot of stuff. As anyone who lived under the circumstances of a college dorm. There is a wide variation with respect to how roommates fare living with each other. I guess the young college women face a lot of the same issues and concerns, but for guys, the struggle to find a workable way of navigating through the process with a male roommate frequently seems even more difficult.

Male buddies are oftentimes very good friends, and they talk about a lot of stuff and share information about what they know or have recently learned. This sharing of information is particularly important for teen boys just past puberty, when they suddenly become very interested in understanding anatomical details that they had little interest in prior to reaching puberty. For most young guys this involves uncovering the details of female anatomy and in particular the details of how sex works with a female partner.

A classic “coming-of-age” movie from the the 1970s is one called “Summer of ‘42” where Hermie, a young teen boy, encounters and then falls for a much older woman, a woman who lost her husband in World War II. A lot of the movie follows Hermie and his male buddies as they together learn about female anatomy and how to have sex with a woman from old books they secreted away. The “climax” of the movie is when Hermie actually has sex with the older woman.

Coming-of-age movies involving young teen guys who think they are gay are far rarer, and I am not aware of any movies that deal with that topic in the same way coming of age movies exist involving straight males. Gay teens obviously learn stuff about other guys in some manner, but the entire path is less clear and perhaps more complicated than the one depicted involving coming-of-age encounters for straight males.

So, where things get complicated for teen males irrespective of whether they think they are straight or gay has to do with the fact that while guys talk about a lot of stuff with their male buddies, the discussions usually center on some third party, presumably a female, as it did in the “Summer of 42” movie.

This means that any talk about what happens to a guy as he becomes aroused and how a guy responds sexually is off limits unless that discussion focuses on what is happening during a sexual encounter with a female partner, and guys vary a lot even on how they treat this.

In this regard, some guys are braggadocios, that is, when they have a sexual encounter with a female, they like to brag about it to their male friends. Even male adults who should be old enough to know better still do this, which is more than a little odd for sure.

A basic problem with the bragging is that whatever the guy said ends up circling back to the girl involved, and at that point all hell breaks loose. A guy quickly learns that if he has any sincere feelings for the girl then need to keep his mouth completely shut on what happened in the encounter, and that includes a completely closed mouth even to his closest male buddies.

Encounters involving other males for guy with, shall we say, have gay leanings get even trickier, because if that information should ever get back to a straight male, it sets the guy up for teasing, bullying, and worse. But the entire set of rules here are really complicated here in part because teen males learn a lot of stuff from their buddies, but the entire topic of what happens to a guy involved either in solo sex or in having some sort of an encounter with a male partner his age are strictly off-limits topics.

Now we circle back to Josh and Dylan and the activities going on right now in the dorm room. Josh and Dylan are both 19, and should know a lot more about sex in all its forms than they did as young teen boys. Further, in college, the general threats of being teased and bullied are less than they would have been as a young teen. For any number of reasons, Josh is not the kind of guy who is going to dash out into the hallway and tell any guy who might listen to him all the details of what he observed in the dorm room. At some level, Dylan fully understands that too. So, if this is a secret event, the secret is safe between the two.

Still, there are tons of unanswered questions. Let me raise the issues one by one. First, initially taken aback by the sound of Josh’s key in the dorm room lock, Dylan has quickly gotten to the point where there is something that he sort of likes about the idea of having Josh there watching him jerk off and observing the nuances of what he is doing to himself at every moment. Take note that Dylan did not suddenly stop stroking himself from base to glans (nor, for that matter, suddenly lose his erection) the moment Josh wandered into the room. This brings up thoughts that maybe many guys, however actively they attempt to hide their masturbation, might in fact find it arousing to being accidentally “discovered.” But, of course, that depends by whom.

Second, with Josh standing there, the sexual sensations, indeed the stiff erection itself, seems to be getting stronger and stronger, which is particularly interesting because Dylan has been riding along at near the point of ejaculation all morning long. Dylan has been having the “advanced course” in ejaculatory control for sure.

Third, Josh had always thought he would be “turned off” by seeing another guy his age erect and masturbating, and this turn-off was simply part of the whole deal of being a straight guy. But aren’t straight guys supposed to only be turned on in encounters with women? Indeed, when a guy finds a female partner, he is suppose to discard or simply leave all of his psychosexual interest in solo sex behind and never engage in solo sex again. Or, maybe not! Josh is not so sure at this point. But that is not how Josh feels right now at all, definitely not.

Fourth, Josh is having issues of his own right now and these issues are centered in his groin area. Josh just observing Dylan is feeling the tell-tale rumblings of sexual arousal himself, rumblings that cannot be ignored. At some level, Josh is thinking that would be a lot of fun to be in Dylan’s shoes right noy, except that Dylan is not wearing any shoes. Josh is trying to determine what exactly is causing his body to respond the way it is. Part of could be that skimpy thong Dylan is wearing, putting pressure on his perineum, and pushing Dylan’s penis and balls both up and forward. By Dylan has never tried on a thong, so he has no first-hand experience with these sensations. Josh at some point has already decided that he wants to try wearing a thong too, but that is not where he is this morning.

For Josh, what’s scarier still is the idea that he seems to like to watch Josh jerk off, and this gets more and more fun to watch as Dylan gets closer and closer to shooting. At some level, Josh understands this.

But what does all of what is going on this morning suggest for the subject of the sexuality of Dylan and of Josh? Can they both still think of themselves as perfectly straight? Josh and Dylan are both wondering about the same “crazy question.” Of the college guys in the dorm, how many would be turned off by what is happening versus turned on? Does being turned on at all mean that deep down, at some level, you are a gay guy? This is a good question for sure, and a question where there is no easy or simple response.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Both Dylan and Josh are in a most interesting situation right now. As I have indicated a number of times already, since the dawn of puberty, Dylan gas been fascinated with snug-fitting clothing of various sorts. There is a lot of interesting stuff and mysteries about human male sexuality. The first mystery facing young guys entering puberty is how sensations that occur stroking or even just touching one’s own penis can feel so remarkably good way up in a guy’s brain.

More details regarding how the sexual turn-on system works come into focus as a guy gets into his teen years, with each “experiment” yielding more new “information”, information that might ultimately prove to be not only useful, but quite frankly, enjoyable.

Dylan learned at a very early age that the nerve endings in his penis do not seem to behave the same way no matter what. Indeed, if he is not in any way sexually aroused or turned on at all, Dylan’s penis feels almost like any part of his body, at least pretty much so. But any sort of arousal, even that occurring in a brief moment, makes his penis suddenly feel way different and more interesting, almost immediately. It’s almost as if his penis has some sort of strange built-in “trigger mechanism” that somehow “knows” what is happening that is sexually arousing even before the guy is consciously aware of it. This all gets very, very complicated in a hurry. Part of what makes this complicated is that the arousal mechanism often is simply visual, or perhaps mainly physical, or perhaps a screwball mix of the two. Whatever is happening in the arousal department seems to be a curious mixture of what is considered socially acceptable (seeing a pretty girl, perhaps) and socially “unacceptable” (as in seeing a handsome guy) and then all that screwball stuff that is in uncharted territory (such even thinking about having sex with yourself, or perhaps getting to wear tight-fitting clothing).

Nature could have certainly been kinder to guys and made sure that turn-ons only happen if whatever is doing the turn on is socially acceptable, but there is all this other dumb stuff that seems to be there only to confuse things for the guy who is just trying to muddle through life without getting teased or bullied. How come human biology messed all of his up so badly, for goodness sakes?

Human penises really love being in confined spaces, and they show their love to the guys who put them there by providing the most wonderful and interesting sensations. Human penises love being in confined spaces so much that they sometimes can’t resist getting all excited if the guy even THINKS about putting his into a confined space. Penises are so sensitive that they like to respond to ANY indication that the space enveloping them is confining, even if it is psychological as opposed to direct physical content. To further muddy the waters, if the penis thinks it could be in a confined space, but the space it is now in is not quite snug enough, it has the remarkable ability to grow in length and girth just enough so it fits exactly into the available space. At once, the guy is driven bananas by all of this, but at the same time is enjoying the sensations immensely.

What is going on here anyway? Well, this is the “dumb” scheme nature figured out so the species will continue. If the species is to reproduce and sustain itself, copulation has to be fun, a lot of fun for both sexes. And it is. Otherwise humans wouldn’t be that interested in doing it and the species would quickly die off.

But, the vast majority of male orgasms do not lead directly to reproduction. Yet they happen anyway. Nature had to know that this would go on—guys pleasuring themselves with the “seed” falling in places where reproduction cannot occur, etc etc. This stuff is fun for a guy too, maybe not as much fun as “real” sex, but still a lot of fun. (There is actually a lot of debate on that point, by the way, and, if you ask a sex researcher, they are less convinced than they once were even that most guys find sex with a partner more enjoyable than plain old solo masturbation. The thoroughly modern view on this topic is that for most guys at least, there is a place for both. Masturbation for sexual pleasure no longer has second-tier status as it did years back.)

At this point, many of my readers probably think that I have completely forgotten about Dylan and Josh, and what is happening right now in the dorm room. I have not forgotten at all. Dylan is having so much fun I thought I would just let him have at it stroking himself in that tiny thong underwear, with Josh looking on. (What is happening surely is not gay sex in any form, or is it?)

As a young teen Dylan has always been fascinated with how snug-fitting clothing triggered a response by his body. The items that “did” this for Dylan included a number of different things, and a lot of them he acquired in that order he placed with Bill and Joe. The little thong Dylan is using today is just one of those items, all of which Dylan knows will set him off, arousal-wise.

Dylan has long wondered if he was unique among guys in his ability to get turned on simply by wearing (or even think about wearing) snug fitting jeans, underwear, compression wear, swimming briefs, thongs, wrestling singlets) and what if masturbation occurred while he was wearing this stuff. Is this part of partner sex or a replacement for partner sex or something way off in some uncharted and undefined territory.

As a high school teen, raising issues like this with even close peer males was really totally off limits as the danger of getting teased, bullied, called a faggot or whatever was just too great.

Dylan got quite an “education” from Bill and Joe even though he didn’t ask them directly any of these questions. Dylan was able to quickly put two and two together and figure out that something way important was driving their “interest” in owning all the gear. Tony and Donovan filled in some more blanks in this regard.

So Dylan understands what he is doing to himself, even if he doesn’t understand the answers to all the “Why” questions that have been bouncing around in his mind lately. And Dylan is learning a lot from Josh as Josh just stands there taking everything in that Dylan is doing to himself. Not only does Josh not appear to be put off by all of this, Josh seems to be rather enjoying himself even though he is not actively participating in what he is seeing. That is a very different response than Dylan ever imagined.

Dylan certainly has that figured out right. For the moment, Josh’s little “secret” is that Josh’s body is responding to what Josh is seeing, even though that might not be at all obvious, especially given that Josh is fully clothed. Josh doesn’t quite know how to “read” his body in that regard, but he is subconsciously getting turned on by just seeing Dylan stroking himself in that tiny thong to near the point of orgasm. Josh is thinking to himself that he is getting to see something he has never before seen in real life, that being getting to see how another guy’s body behaves as it goes past the point of no return and into a full-blown orgasm.

College is an educational experience in all sorts of ways. This is one of them!

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Both Dylan and Josh are getting “lessons” on why it is so much fun to be a guy, and, in particular why it is so interesting to be a 19-year old college freshman. Sexual pleasure without a partner is frequently seen by many as a second- or even third-rate form of sexual activity, if it is considered to be a sexual activity at all. A lot of 19-year old guys, maybe guys of any age, are really hung up on this notion. Real sex only happens when penis goes into vagina. Of course, gay guys accept a somewhat broader definition here, but still it all boils down to the idea that the only real sex happens with the active participation of another person.

Dylan and Josh are both in a unique situation right now, with Josh merely watching what Dylan has been doing to himself. Is this a form of partner sex or not, since another guy is present in the dorm room while Dylan is pleasuring himself? That is an interesting question, a question that surely has no simple answer. As Josh watches Dylan play with himself, surely his mind and body is not oblivious to the fact that Dylan is having fun in this sort of play. In fact, what is happening right now is that Josh, as he merely watched Dylan fool around with his penis, Josh is starting to experience his own feelings in his groin area.

At one level, Josh wishes that he wasn’t there at all. Yet, at another level, Josh is fascinated by what he is observing, and Josh’s body has been picking up on this. Now Josh isn’t ready to get off himself, at least not yet. At the same time he is thinking that deep down he would like to be mimicking for himself what Dylan is doing, and the psychological “pressure” is starting to build within Josh’s young mind and body as well. Josh knows all the sensations and feelings in that after all he is 19-years old. Josh doesn’t know quite what to make of all of this. After all, Josh has always thought of himself as being perfectly straight. Yet the situation at hand is really starting to gnaw away at Josh both mind and body.

Dylan too. In his short life, Dylan does not recall an instance in his life where he got up horny in the morning and then stayed as horny as he has been for as long as he has been this morning without getting off. For young Dylan, this is an all new life experience. First off, Dylan was not aware that a guy could even do this for that long. This of course in part was related to the whole notion that when he was younger, he had to find a way to jerk off to orgasm quickly, lest the “nefarious” activity be “discovered by a peer classmate of family member. Younger guys quickly learn to get their bodies adjusted to the notion that they need to jack off quickly.

But this is now different, totally different. It’s like riding a giant wave in the surf, edging closer and closer to being upset, but then regaining stability just a moment before the “wipeout” What Dylan is doing to himself is very much like that. Josh too knows that Dylan has been riding along right on the edge of a huge and powerful orgasm. Everything Josh is observing supports that. Josh is really beginning to wonder how long Dylan can keep this up. Josh has never tried anything quite like this himself, either, and he has concluded that Dylan must be having a fabulous time of it all, mind and body. Josh is fully aware of how good he feels all over when he is at the very edge of orgasm, but thought that there was some “rule” that “required” him to ejaculate immediately after he got to that point. Dylan is teaching by demonstrating to Josh all sorts of stuff about Josh’s own body and mind.

A basic rule here is the longer a guy can remain on the edge of ejaculation without going past the point of no return, so to speak, the more fun the finality will be. The same rule holds in partner sex as it does in solo sex, and whether or not another person is in the room with you. Dylan this morning has gotten quite an “education.” That tiny little thong Dylan is wearing is a useful aid for Dylan and his “journey” this morning. Among other things, the skimpy thong helps him get access to the most sensitive areas of his body, in particular the underside of his penis and his perineum that is chocked full of sensitive nerve endings. And, if Dylan takes a break by stopping the stroking for a bit to regain stability, the thong helps maintain his erection so that he doesn’t go too far in the other direction. That little thong is quite a masturbation tool in this regard. Dylan knows that and appreciates what it does for him and his horny mind and body and figures that Josh has noticed this too.

To be continued...

[sebbie]

Dylan, in his young life of only 19 years, does not recall any instance where he has been able to maintain an arousal and erection for as long as he has been able to this morning. At some level, Dylan is beginning to see what has been going on as something of an accomplishment. As a younger teen, he would have been embarrassed, at least primarily so. He would have also had a lot more difficulty with the whole situation whereby another guy his age, in this case Josh, is standing right there observing Dylan in all his “misery”.

Of course, Dylan fully realizes that the events of the past few hours have not been miserable at all, but a wonderful, yes even beautiful thing, something that Dylan had not fully realized until this day. The only embarrassment comes from the whole idea that not everyone else may see this all in quite the same way Dylan is now experiencing for himself.

Dylan thinks to himself that male sexuality is a marvelous thing in its own special way independent of all the partner stuff that seems to overwhelm most guys his age. Dylan wonders how many guys out there can see and experience what Dylan is experiencing this morning. It seems to Dylan that maybe too many guys spend too many of their waking hours chasing down and then having sex with a partner when at age 19 they would be better served by just kicking back and enjoying themselves and their bodies. This may not be the most popular way of looking at life, but who cares? If a guy enjoys himself and appreciates his own body, who are all these others to say that what Dylan is doing to himself is in anyway either wrong or abnormal?

Guys are constructed the way they are constructed, with all that this entails, Dylan thinks to himself. Indeed, the “risks” associated with what Dylan has been doing are all but nonexistent save the possibility of being teased or bullied should all of this somehow be revealed to the wrong person or in the wrong place or time. Getting horny then becomes much more of a burden than a source of joy and pleasure, and for Dylan right now that seems what is wrong not the self-pleasuring that is wrong for a lot of guys.

Then there is Josh who has been quietly watching as Dylan has been pleasuring himself in that skimpy thong in the little dorm room. Josh is now fully fixated on wanting to be himself in the place Dylan is now in, and if that means going out and shopping for his own thong, so be it. But in the entire sequence of events that have transpired, Josh is also getting a new understanding of what it means to be a male and all the joys that come from being just that. This is stuff that Josh has never ever fully thought about before. Josh had simply assumed that getting aroused without a sexual partner (in Josh’s case, a young woman) was, if not abnormal, certainly inferior to having “real” (partner) sex. I have a roommate who really gets into enjoying himself even without a partner! What is wrong with that, anyway?

Every horny guy is going to ultimately seek out a way to have a full-blown ejaculation, and Dylan is certainly not an exception to this “rule” Dylan is on the very edge of the point of no return. His penis is as big and as hard as Dylan can ever recall it being in his young life. Biologically there is a basic reason for this. In essence, what Dylan has been doing to himself is only a slight variation of the so-called “stop-start” method, often prescribed by sex therapists working with couples in which the male partner is struggling with what is referred to as premature ejaculation. The whole idea behind the stop-start method is that when the guy thinks he is on the edge of no longer being able to delay an orgasm, he quickly stops whatever the physical stimulation is at the moment, until things settle down and his body can “take” a little more stimulation without immediate ejaculation. Dylan has been teaching himself this method even as Josh looks on, at least somewhat mystified by it all.

Male arousal is a fascinating subject in all sorts of ways. Initially, the arousal seems disconnected, diffuse and easy to deal with. The guy feels an initial moment of tension in the groin area, without the penis being in any way turgid. This initial moment of tension very early on is usually accompanied by a few tell-tale drops of pre-cum, and the guy can usually sense this has happened because he feels the telltale drop on his underwear at the very tip of his penis. At this point a guy can easily get distracted again and everything goes back to normal. The drop or two of pre-cum is generally not sufficient to create a noticeable damp spot on the guy’s jeans. Dylan, sitting in class this morning, was weaving in and out of being somewhat aroused versus not so much. If a guy wants to settle down, all he has to do is distract his minds from the initial sensations from the groin area, in other words, just think about anything else other than his body.

But, of course, it’s a lot more fun to just keep going, even with the “dangers” involved. If the guy just keeps going, chances are the size of his penis may very well start to increase. And depending on what the guy is wearing, this could become an “issue”. Dylan was wearing his tightest skinny jeans to class, and that choice was certainly not in keeping with a selection that would keep what was going on a secret. But for Dylan, this had become part of the “fun” in concert with his decision to wear that skimpy little thong he had gotten at Amazon ® to class this morning.

Any guy starts out handling initial arousal pretty well, realizing that anything that lead to a few initial drops of pre-cum could be stopped merely by getting distracted, but once an erection gets underway, it has the tendency to cause the poor guy’s mind to increasingly focus on what he is feeling in his groin area. Soon enough, whatever a guy was using to distract himself, such as a boring college lecture, begins to feel less and less important even as the sensations now emanating from the guy’s groin area vie for the guy’s attention. Snug-fitting clothing, in this case together the tight fitting jeans and thong, only make matters worse. Somehow, Dylan got through all of this in class this morning and managed to make it back to his dorm room. And in the dorm room is where we find Dylan now, along with his roommate Josh who has been watching all of this with a great deal of interest and increasingly starting to feel interesting stuff himself.

Enough is enough! Too much is too much! Dylan now breaks over the edge and finds himself in a situation where he can no longer put off ejaculating. Like a surfer going into a wipe out, everything happens all at once. His young body can no longer delay ejaculating the large quantity of semen it has been producing. Dylan’s mind is focused not on where he is or even that Josh is standing there. Dylan’s mind is telling Dylan that the semen must be ejaculated. Every nerve ending in Dylan’s penis now seems more sensitive than Dylan has ever experienced before. Mind-wise Dylan feels as if he is going to go into full scale convulsions. The thong is tugging away and putting upward pressure on his perineum, even as the thong pouch encapsulates every nerve in his penis. The sensation of having the thong back cut between his cheeks is adding to the sensations from another place, a place Dylan before had not realized was as sexually active as it is.

Guys 19-years old experience powerful ejaculations, and Dylan is no exception. Dylan’s young body courses with multiple muscular contractions, each one more interesting and exciting and enjoyable than the previous one. Dylan’s prostate is contracting over and over too, with each contraction pushing more liquid out, and these contractions are only adding to the pulsating pleasure of what is going on. The tiny thong of course is nowhere near big enough to contain all the semen that Dylan is ejecting from his body. The thong pouch is unable to contain the huge penis and ejaculate ends up shooting across the room in those great bubbles of that wonderful creamy-white and sticky fluid. Dylan feels almost as if his entire body is now contained within his sexual organs. In a word “Wow!”. This experience is unlike anything he has ever experienced as a teenager, not that he would have ever had the opportunity to try something like this.

Of course, what Dylan did to himself by maintaining his arousal but delaying orgasm was directly responsible for the outsized orgasm he has just experienced. At some level, Dylan now understands this, at least more of this than he did. Dylan now feels a bit “bushed” as things settle back and Dylan now fully realizes what has just happened to him. Dylan has an entirely new appreciation for how much fun it is to be a guy.

Meanwhile, Josh is still standing there, unsure of exactly what to say after all of this. He blurts out the only thing he can think of which is “Wow that must have been fun, Dylan!” Then one other thing comes to mind. Josh suddenly blurts out “Our dorm room is now quite a mess. Do you want me to give you some help cleaning it up?”

Of course, my readers all know that Josh has other thoughts as well, for now left unsaid.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

One thing is for certain, if Dylan had any previous doubts in the matter, Dylan has learned today that solo jerk-off sessions can be fun, as in really, really fun. Dylan no longer thinks that solo sex as an inferior, second-rate method for sexual play. The orgasm Dylan just had was a first-rate, top tier orgasm, and not something that is easily forgotten.

Some guys like to think back and compare orgasms that they have had in the past, and maybe even assign a numerical score from 1-10, with 1 being not that good to 10 being absolutely first rate. Dylan thinks to himself that this one had to rate at least a “9” on a 10-point scale. Some time ago, Dylan decided that he would reserve the full 10 point rating to an orgasm that he had with a female partner. The problem for Dylan is that in his young life he has not yet had an orgasm that he felt merited a “10” on a ten-point scale.

Dylan is more than a little perplexed by all of this—a lot perplexed. “Is this the way it is SUPPOSED to be for guys”, Dylan thinks. It is tough to know, very tough. All sorts of interesting stuff has been going on in the last few weeks.

Dylan knows that from his perspective, this all started that night Dylan ran into Bill and Joe wearing their straps and compression gear in the dorm hallway. From that very moment in time, Dylan somehow knew that something was up, but he was uncertain with respect to exactly what that something was. I guess every guy is familiar with that feeling. Something happens, often visual, and the guy feel this funny sensation of tensing in the groin area. Only as guys get older do they start to associate this initial tensing in the groin area as the very initial point of sexual arousal. The sensation is not unpleasant, in fact it can be quite pleasant. This initial tensing is frequently followed almost immediately by the release of a drop or two of pre cum. Many guys are surprised by this, thinking that any release of liquid is associated with a full blown erection followed by an ejaculation. Young teens are particularly mystified by what is going on.

At age 19, Dylan knows what is going on, at least he thinks he knows. He is still more than a little uneasy. At that very moment in time, just looking at Bill and Joe in their straps and compression gear, Dylan knew where he wanted to be as well—that is, wearing the same type of gear Bill and Joe had. That , in turn led conversations with Bill and Joe and ultimately to the Amazon® order and the various items in it, each one designed to do something to a guy’s psyche.
Dylan has been “messing” with Josh, thinking up ways to reveal each of these items to Josh slowly, or one at-a-time. Initially, Dylan was quite uncertain about how Josh would react to all of this. Maybe Josh would conclude that Dylan has some mental problems related to sex and sexuality, as in operating “a few fries short of a “Happy Meal”.

To the great relief of Dylan, that has not been Josh’s reaction at all, so near as Dylan can tell. Dylan wonders now if Josh is unique among guys their age, but then he thinks back to Bill, Joe, Tony and Donovan and their various “antics” that all seem to have sexual overtones. Indeed, Josh seems mesmerized when watching what Dylan is doing to himself. Not mesmerized enough to yet say “Dylan, I would like to join with you. You are just having too much fun to be doing this all alone!” But Josh is clearly not in any sort of misery, either.

Think for a moment about each of the items in Dylan’s order. Each item was specially selected to generate feelings of arousal, and the various items accomplish this objective very well. Granted, today’s demo was conducted using that little thong, but that by no means suggests that the other items would not be at least as much fun for a guy who wants to try this.

Josh knows that there is more to this, much more, and so does Dylan. There are also lots of concerns as this all goes along. A basic problem is that Dylan is having too much fun to stop, and Josh is getting dragged in as well.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

The necessity to clean up the dorm room after Dylan’s powerful ejaculation while wearing the thong underwear has turned into something of a conversation starter between Dylan and Josh. Dylan is learning some things about himself and how his body responds to different situations it finds itself in for sure. But Josh too in just observing Dylan as Dylan pleasures himself has learned some new things about himself and how his mind and body interact.

I guess that most guys end up being more than a little bit unnerved by the whole situation of getting to observe another guy in self-pleasuring and especially right into ejaculatory mode, as Dylan just did. But wait a second. On line, there are tons of videos that are easily found (and usually free) that show guys masturbating to ejaculation. In this day and age, a male college student would have to be a technology fool to not have uncovered and watched some of these.

But what does this all mean? Is any guy who does this gay not straight? What about the guys who watch these but still claim to be arrow straight? Are they just not being truthful to themselves about their gay or perhaps bisexual feelings. In short, what is going on here? Further, according to sex surveys, a lot of guys who claim to be straight admit to the fact that at some point in their lives, often as a teenager, they engaged in either male mutual masturbation or a so-called circle jerk involving more than two guys their age. Sex therapists usually say that if these represent basically isolated events, they mean almost nothing in terms of whether a guy will ultimately turn out to be straight or gay. In short, a young guy’s interest in seeing other young guys engage in masturbation is not a good predictor of whether or not a guy is ultimately straight or gay.

But then, all of this hinges on an outdated and largely discounted view of sexuality, that guys easily fit into only two rigid categories either entirely straight or entirely gay. No one who is serious about that subject sees sexuality is such simple, rigid terms any more. Whatever the implication of Josh being OK with even being in the dorm room when Dylan was pleasuring himself, too much should not be implied.


Dylan was clearly enjoying himself and so was Josh as an observer. No one caught a VD or was otherwise harmed in any way in the process. As a young teen, had this happened to Dylan, Dylan would have worried a lot about being teased and bullied, but both of them are now college students.

In trying to determine what is going on in Dylan’s head, Josh is also trying to figure out what is going on in his own mind and body.

The conversation goes something like this:

Dylan: “I see now why some guys like to wear thong underwear. The design is really fun to wear.”

Josh: “I noticed that!”

Dylan: “It’s really a combination of interesting stuff all hitting me all at once, the snug fit of the pouch, the upward pressure just behind my balls, and the feel of the elastic back cutting my butt. The combination overwhelms”

Josh: “That is fun? I’m being serious now.”

Dylan: “I know that you are. Well, at first I was apprehensive. I put on the thong and it felt uncomfortable in various places. But, strangely enough, my attention was drawn to my groin area, and the funny part is that almost immediately I started to feel tense, and before I even realized it, I was starting to get hard. But I needed to go to class. I pulled on my skinny jeans and sneakers and headed off to class. I thought the skinny jeans would settle me down some, but they didn’t help one bit. . In fact, they made matters worse. I spent the entire class period thinking about how good I felt in my groin area…Not sure what the lecture was about as my attention was not on the class.”

Josh: “Really? So this has been going on for some time?”

Dylan, looking sullen and staring at his feet: “Unfortunately, yes.”

Josh: “I’m beginning to feel sorry for you and the dilemma you got yourself into.”

Dylan: I ”I’m congratulating myself for making it through the entire class and then walking back to the dorm without ejaculating. But by the time I got to the dorm room I knew that I was desperate to get off, so I quickly stripped off the skinny jeans and started stroking the underside of my penis still inside the thong pouch. I thought I would have some time to do this before you got back from class. That is when you wandered in, back to the dorm for a class that let out early. But I was too far along to stop.”

Josh: “I am beginning to understand how this all happened now.”

Dylan: “I guess at this point that I need to confess to you that I have had this “thing” for various kinds of clothing, especially stuff that fits really snug in the groin. You can see the jeans I like to wear, but there is more.”

Josh: “If getting off this way is that much fun, what really is the harm enjoying your clothing items?”

Dylan:” I used to think that I was the only guy who did this, but then I ran into Bill and Joe, and then Tony and Donovan. All four of them were choosing clothing items that could be errr… erotic at least under some circumstances. So what I do to myself can’t be that uncommon for a lot of guys my age. I keep noticing that more and more bricks-and-mortar retail stores are stocking items that might work, and that guys must be buying it or it would not be in the stores. You can find stuff on line, but, interestingly, also in department stores, even places like Wal mart”

Josh: “You have got my attention. My mind is starting to wander into the same places yours has been. Maybe we need to go on a shopping trip to some stores just to see what is out there, just for fun.”

Dylan: “You got it. I might find some new stuff that I would enjoy wearing too!”

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan and Josh agree that they are going to go on a shopping trip this weekend that in part will be a search for clothing items that might prove useful in pleasuring themselves. On line shopping can be interesting in this regard, but there is no substitute for seeing the particular items up close before buying them. Too, Dylan, in his shopping trips, has been noticing some things that seem to be drawing attention to this. Increasingly, items have been showing up in retail stores in recent months that have attracted his attention.

Of course, this isn’t entirely new for sure. Not that many years ago, it was possible to walk into not only a sporting goods store, but also into many mass market retailers and find entire racks of stretchy swimming briefs in a host of different colors and sizes. For guys who found stretchy swim briefs to be a real turn-on, just SEEING these racks of briefs hanging there in a variety of shapes, sizes and colors was a fun turn-on. It was not even necessary to make a purchase, but just being able to look at the snug briefs hanging on the racks in a row and maybe touch a few of them was enough to send a guy’s pre cum making factory into high gear overdrive. Guys knew this

Now, the vast majority of guys who wear swim briefs either as an outer garment or even as an inner garment under board shorts make their purchases on line, and it is rare to find a bricks-and-mortal retailer, even a sporting goods store, that stocks a selection of any number of options, if at all. Usually the selection is limited to branded Speedos ® with 3-inch sides in black or navy blue, if that. Customers who ask for anything more (or less) are usually routed to the on-line version of the store, but in order to make a purchase there, guys would at least need to be old enough to have a credit card, or be secure enough to explain to their parents what they are doing and why. Usually, given the fact that a guy normally likes to keep his interest in such things deeply hidden, the latter probably isn’t going to happen.

Also, not that many years ago, men’s thong underwear was very popular for a short period of time. But at least outside of big urban areas, this has largely disappeared as well. Again, guys who want to wear thong underwear are pretty much dealing with on line retailers. Not that many years ago, Jockey ® carried a line of very brief thong underwear for men, some all cotton but a lot of them made from a very stretchy cotton-Lycra ® fabric in a design that touched all the ‘right’ places. These were readily available at any retail outlet that stocked the jockey brand, and were very fun to wear in all the right (or wrong) ways. Alas, these disappeared from the Jockey ® line a number of years ago.

The same is true for guys who think they might enjoy wearing an “old school” athletic supporter (jock strap) with or without a hard cup. At one time these were most commonly sold at drug stores and sporting goods stores. Drug stores typically sold this gear along side other ‘protective’ gear that stretches, such as elbow, knee and ankle supports. And the sporting goods store would have an entire wall devoted to the items in all sorts of shapes and sizes. A bevy of teen agers convinced their parents that they needed a strap and maybe a cup because the school coach was requiring that they wear one for some physical activity that they were engaging in at school, perhaps as part of a team sport. Perhaps more than a few young guys may have simply made up a story like this simply because they were turned on by the prospect of wearing the gear.

Not only that, the young guy’s peers were probably telling ‘funny’ stories about what might happen if a guy got an erection while wearing a strap, but in particular a strap with a cup too small to hold an erect penis. While these stories may have terrified some young guys, they were also a source of fascination, as guys wondered if their own bodies would react in the specific ways their peers were describing in detail. The poor guy was scared but in an odd way also aroused by the entire prospect of getting to be in a strap and cup. Besides, if it were true that the coach was actually requiring that guys wear these at school, best to run an ‘experiment’ to check this all out at home, alone, in the privacy of your own room to make sure your mind and body can ‘handle’ the situation without something embarrassing happening when you get out and get into this gear with your buddies present. Same deal with swim briefs being required for guys who want to be on the school swim team, exactly.

On the other hand for guys with an interest in snug-fitting clothing of various kinds, the situation has improved in an assortment of ways. Only a few years ago, guys all wore jeans that were very roomy in the crotch and fit baggy, perhaps very baggy, from thigh to ankle. Finding jeans that fit snugger in the butt and crouch and tapering in the thigh to the ankle was very difficult, if not impossible. The narrowest jeans available tapered to 15 inches at the ankle. Anything that fit snugger than that, with a narrower leg was referred to as a ‘girly’ jean and not something that any ‘real’ guy would ever be caught wearing.

Really skinny jeans really got their start in women’s fashion, as women seemed to like the body-accenting look of a slim and tight fit. Women started wearing thong underwear with slim and tight jeans over. For women, slim and tight soon became even slimmer and even tighter. Manufacturers soon discovered that they could only get the look that women wanted and make it possible for women to get in and out of the jeans if they added Lycra® to the denim blend. So, ordinary denim quickly became stretch denim.

Manufacturers making men’s jeans discovered that there might be male customers out there who wanted a slimmer and snigger fit, despite the “girly jeans” issue. The big jeans maker Levis® first introduced the 511® design, with a much slimmer and snugger fit than a traditional Levis 505® design. This was followed by the discovery that there will guys out there who wanted to wear something even snugger and downright tight in the legs, much closer to women’s jeans in cut. A few adventuresome guys had already started to buy women’s jeans to get that fit, although since guys are constructed quite differently from women, this was not a satisfactory solution. The 511® tapered to an approximate 14-inch ankle.

Super Skinny for men was born. In the Levis ® line this was introduced as the 510 ® tapering to only about 13-inch ankle with a still snugger fit in the butt, crotch and thigh as well. These were not that easy to get in and out of because the denim had no stretch.

Initially however, US jeans manufacturers were reluctant to take the step that they had done in women’s designs, specifically, put Lycra ® in the denim blend so it would stretch for a skin tight body fit. But many guys were wearing Lycra® blend skin tight tights for things like running in cold weather, and they did not seem bothered by the argument that what they were wearing was somehow girly. So maybe some guys would accept skinny jeans denim that stretched.

It was the guys in many parts of Southeast Asia that really set the new styling trend for guys in other parts of the world. They liked super skinny jeans very much, and had no reservations about the idea of using a stretch fabric to get the skin-tight look they wanted tapering to a 12-inch ankle (or less). For much of Southeast Asia, super-skinny stretch jeans have become not only a fashion trend but almost a required uniform for young guys. For guys elsewhere who like the look these jeans can be ordered direct from Asia via online retailers like Aliexpress.com (search on ‘men’s skinny jeans’) [A word of warning; These are made for Asian guys who are typically smaller and skinnier than most American guys, and expect the same size to fit way snugger than if you were buying from an American retailer.]

Increasingly, however, western retailers big and small, on line and retail stores, are stocking more and more men’s skinny jeans that are made from denim that contains Lycra. The Asian look in jeans has caught on elsewhere. Dylan likes the skinny jeans he wore to class, very much it seems, and he thinks it would be fun to introduce Josh to them. The problem is that guys, even 19-year olds are not supposed to talk to each other about this stuff.

There is more to this story, much more…

[sebbie]

Dylan, to Josh: “I’ve never said this to anyone before, but I’ve always ‘enjoyed’ wearing clothing with a really snug fit.”

Josh: ‘Errrr… I had kinda sorta figured that out already :-). You actually have not been that good about keeping your ‘secret’ with me.”

Dylan, (sheepishly looking down at his toes and avoiding eye contact with Josh): “Josh, I was afraid you were gonna say that.”

To be sure, Josh didn’t seem the least bit upset about what he had just heard Dylan say. Indeed, Josh was wearing a broad smile as Dylan has just revealed one of his deepest secrets.

Dylan: “The first time I saw the compression gear that UnderArmour ® was selling, I was about to go bananas. I wanted to get my body into that gear sooooooo much.”

Josh “You know what? I kinda got turned on when I saw that for the first time too…I kept thinking how much fun it would be to jack off in gear that fit that fit my body that skin tight. Even the thought of getting into the UnderArmour tee shirt seemed to be exciting. …And the shorts…” Josh’s voice suddenly trailed off. He swallowed hard, and he could feel a slight tensing in his penis just thinking about this all…

Dylan: “Exciting? Even a tee shirt?”

Josh:“ I think you must pretty well know what I am talking about”

At that point Dylan did not dare say anything more. But Dylan had learned something really important: That Dylan was not the only guy in the universe who had thought about such things. Of course, Dylan had pretty much determined that Bill and Joe “suffered” from a similar hang up….and then there was Tony and Donovan…the collegiate rowers he met in the gym… Maybe what Dylan struggled with for most of his young life is actually fairly commonplace, and many guys his age suffer from the same or very similar “problem.”

Dylan had already figured out some stuff. He knew that a lot of his peers in high school wore loose-fitting boxers in high school. He had observed that in the high school gym locker room. But, if guys get turned on by wearing stuff that is snug and tight, why do so many teen guys seem to try and avoid wearing anything that does this?

Dylan pondered that thought for a minute or two. Perhaps these guys were not affected the same way Dylan was when wearing clothing with a snug fit. That was certainly possible, but somehow that explanation did not seem to make a lot of sense. Was Dylan just super sensitive in his groin area? But now Josh was telling him that Dylan was not ‘unique’ in that regard.

Dylan thought some more. Dylan started to think that maybe the answer was that his high school buddies were really fearful of getting into a situation where an erection, or even worse, happened at an inopportune or inappropriate time. What could be worse and more embarrassing than to get a roaring erection when you are with your male buds in the high school locker room?

But, wearing snug and tight stuff is sooooo much fun, Dylan thinks. Were my high school buds just ignorant of all of this?

To be continued…

[sebbie]

As the Christmas holidays approach, Dylan invariably starts to think back to when he was a much younger teenager and what his Christmas presents might hold. Ever since puberty, maybe before, Dylan had this affinity for snug-fitting clothing of various sorts, and sometimes he would get pleasantly surprised when he opened his Christmas gifts.

Not that Dylan was somehow different from other boys that age. Dylan loved getting stuff to play with for Christmas, often something in the electric gear category. When Dylan was growing up, this gear was typically all about playing music. The iPod was the one thing many of the boys Dylan’s age most wanted. And one Christmas, Dylan got exactly that. It was a very memorable Christmas for sure. Boys Dylan’s age also wanted their own laptop computer, and one year that happened as well. Thinking back, Dylan had some very good Christmases, from a gear-wise perspective.

It did not take the young Dylan a lot of time to figure out that his Laptop computer could be used to see guys who were wearing various kinds of snug-fitting clothing, guys clad in tight-fitting jeans, swim briefs and stuff that fit even tighter and snugger and more revealing. Dylan basically knew that his peers were using their laptops to get to see the unclothed female anatomy in all its detail. Dylan, however, was not that interested in pursuing that, in part because he didn’t want to upset his parents, but, oddly enough, he wasn’t really that interested in exactly what seemed to be of such interest to his peers. Dylan didn’t quite know what, if anything, that all meant. It was one of those little mysteries that followed Dylan around in his youth.

If Dylan had any interests in “forbidden” Web sites as a young man, it was in getting a chance to see exactly how other guys pleasured themselves. Dylan was particularly attracted to any images that showed exactly how guys played with themselves, in particular guys who were not naked, but instead wearing snug-fitting clothing. Is that somehow weird or oddball? Dylan often wondered about that.

Unlike other guys his age, Dylan never objected to the whole idea of getting clothing instead of stuff to play with for Christmas. But Dylan just being Dylan, of course, hoped for something that would fit him really snug and tight. Somehow, Dylan’s parents figured out what Dylan would like and also not like in this regard. Parents sometimes develop a “sixth sense” in this regard. I don’t know that Dylan’s ‘rents ever put two-and-two completely together, as in figured out that Dylan like to use snug clothing items when he pleasured himself alone, in his room, but that didn’t really matter in the larger scheme of things.

Dylan got to thinking back to that one Christmas when his parents bought him a very narrow-cut pair of jeans. Dylan’s normal underwear was tighty whiteys, FOTL or Hanes® brand, 3-packs in plastic bags. But this year, somehow his parents decided to mix it up and gave Dylan a 4-pack of stretch nylon no-fly bikini briefs. How his parents figured out that Dylan would enjoy a present of that sort is still a great mystery to Dylan, and Dylan has never dared ask them.

Dylan’s parents knew that for young people, getting underwear for Christmas was something of a “standing joke” for an “unsuccessful Christmas,” and Dylan was always stumped by why his parents had “did what they did” that Christmas.

Dylan somehow knew that the new bikini briefs was not something that he would want to wear on gym days at school,..he wasn’t sure what his male classmates would say or do if they saw him wearing them when he was dressing for gym in the locker room. But there was no gym on Tuesdays and Thursdays, so he could “safely” wear them to school on those days.

Of course, what Dylan really wanted to do was see how his penis felt inside those slinky new stretch nylon briefs…somehow the mere thought of slick cloth rubbing against the underside of a guy’s penis can quickly send a guy into self-pleasuring heaven. Dylan remembers this Christmas with very fond memories. Those tight jeans were fun to get into too, especially with the bikini briefs under. In retrospect, Dylan was not at all unhappy that he did not receive a lot of gear to play with that year, not at all upset.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Whether or not he has some sort of sexual hang-up, Dylan has been gradually coming to terms with himself and his own body. Some days it almost seems as if Dylan’s groin area has a separate “mind” of its own that is leading him to do some wild stuff in certain ways, in large measure entirely for the pure pleasure of it all.

Dylan is a deep thinker. Dylan thinks that this could be part of his own “problem”. Dylan was basically a “good” kid In high school he was never that much interested in doing a lot of the “dumb” things his classmates that age seemed prone to do. This was often the stuff that got his friends and peers into trouble, as in deep trouble. The most obvious example was teen-age drinking that in turn led to really bad things like the night a couple of his classmates got picked up for DWI. Boy was that a mess. They got themselves into a small fender bender accident, after having only recently receiving their driver’s licenses. Thankfully, no one got injured or worse, but they got their licenses taken away from them for 180 days. Their parents were pissed, royally pissed, and vowed to make the 180 day court decision into a one-year suspension.

Then there was the boy who got caught smoking marijuana. That ended up being a big mess too. Then a number of boys that got caught trying to buy cigarettes and beer using faked IDs at a local convenience store. That was a really dumb move because the clerk knew their parents pretty well. Fortunately the clerk didn’t call the police but instead made a quick call to their parents, who immediately came down to the convenience store not being happy at all in getting the call.

Then there was the boy who somehow managed not only to have teenage sex with a girl in the class, but ended up getting her pregnant as well. The funny part about this story is that the two people involved in this were what Dylan might have expected the least likely classmates to end up doing something “dumb” like this. Both the boy and the girl were quiet and shy people, and the boy in particular was definitely not the boisterous athletic type who was into bragging about making sexual conquests. Rather, these were the children of parents who were considered very decent, even noble families in terms of personal behavior. They were quiet conservative churchgoing families, and both families were highly regarded within the community for being both sane and pretty straight-laced.

Then there was the boy in class where rumors had circulated for some time among other classmates that he could be gay, or if not that, at minimum being more interested in other guys than is “normal” for a boy that age. Somehow, these rumors start. Then, one day, interestingly, in that same stupid convenience store-gas station that the guys were trying to buy cigarettes and booze with the fake IDs, this boy, then a 16 y/o Junior and High school got picked up for soliciting sex in the men’s bathroom of the convenience store. Turns out, the guy the boy was soliciting was actually a young cop from a neighboring town, posing undercover as a gay guy after there had been complaints that the convenience store restroom was on occasion being used for that purpose. Wow, this is deep stuff, Dylan thinks, especially from a social perspective for this boy, because no longer will he be able to feign to his classmates that he is actually straight. At some level, Dylan felt for the predicament this classmate had inadvertently gotten himself into. Tough stuff, Dylan thinks. The boy’s parents were appalled that this not only happened but involved their son. Parents often worry that would their kids do will affect their own reputations in the community, and that was a major issue here in this instance. Again, what a mess!

However uncertain Dylan is with respect to his interest in dealing with his fondness for snug-fitting clothing and his penchant for enjoying himself by jerking off wearing something really snug and tight, Dylan realizes that what he is doing to pleasure himself has not gotten him into any of the trouble of the sorts that brought down many of his classmates. Dylan has not done anything wrong or illegal: maybe a little silly, perhaps, at least as viewed by some of his College classmates, but certainly nothing that would that would ever present a legal issue of one sort or another. I suppose if Dylan actually started stroking himself obviously in a public place, he could end up in trouble with the law for public masturbation, but Dylan knew better than to do that.

So far, at least, the most “trouble” Dylan has gotten himself into is jerking off in his own dorm room with the door closed, but not as privately as if he had been completely alone. The twist here is that his roommate Josh had also been in the room for some of this, and had actually seen Dylan ejaculate into the pouch of that skimpy thong Dylan had gotten in the Amazon® order. For Dylan, and interestingly, Josh didn’t seem the least bit concerned about what he was observing up close. Dylan thinks that just maybe Josh kinda “enjoyed” watching Dylan himself, but Dylan is not certain about this at all.

Dylan now keeps wondering to himself if what he did is actually a form of “gay male” behavior, and that if he had done the same thing exactly but in private that this would be a perfectly ‘straight” thing to do. But since Dylan kept stroking himself even after Josh was in the room did that mean that deep down Dylan is either gay or maybe now has a latent gay streak? Indeed, what are the so-called “rules” here with regard to sexual orientation? These are really deep questions, Dylan thinks, and not easily answered.

This all gets really complicated. In high school, Dylan was simply not that much interested in girls or dates, like many of his peers were. Of course, he had been on a few dates, most notably the junior and senior year proms, but he more nearly survived these events than really enjoyed either of them.

So for a long time, Dylan has been jacking off as a sexual release necessary because male hormones have been bombarding his body, relentlessly, and without a release every couple days, this can quickly get overwhelming for a guy Dylan’s age, indeed Dylan thinks maybe for a guy of almost ANY age. The snug-fitting clothing becomes something of a pleasant-and-always-there “retreat” for dealing with the testosterone overload without getting into any difficult social situations. Dylan could of course, go out and find a girl, go on one or more dates, and then make a way for his penis to get into her vagina if he is lucky. A lot of male college freshman pursue that course, relentlessly too. But Dylan keeps thinking that if he tries this, with all the stumbling blocks along the way, Dylan could quickly end up in a situation that he doesn’t want to deal with, at least for now. The girl invariably will want more of a lot of stuff, much more, and at this point Dylan is not at all prepared to deal with that.

So, at this point, jerking off in snug-fitting clothing becomes a convenient way of dealing with life from a sexual perspective. Relative to heavy dating, it’s way cheap, just the one-time cost for the various items. Dylan has all this stuff he got on Amazon® right in his little dorm-room dresser drawer. Dylan starts to think about not only using each item individual to assist himself in jerking off with each item adding its own element in making him feel ”hot and bothered”. Way cool. Dylan starts to daydream. For example, what would happen if he layered each item one over the other. Start with the little Desmiit ® thong that was so much fun. Over that goes the bright compression shorts and tee. Then over the compression shorts goes the strap. Then insert the cup. Dylan is starting to feel like he is getting hard just pondering what might be fun to try.

Dylan thought the super skinny jeans he wore to class over the thong added something really special to all the fun. These fit tight. But recently super tight jeans have started to become available. The super tight jeans have lots of Lycra in the denim blend. A standard super skinny jean tapers to an ankle opining of about 13.5 inches. If they were skinnier than that, a guy would never get his foot through the opening. But with the addition of Lycra, the leg opening can taper to only about 12 inches as the denim stretches like a running tight. This same denim will cling to the calves and thighs almost like a second skin. Not only that, the newest designs are what are called jogging jeans that fit really tight through the calves and thighs and then pull up without a belt but with an elastic waistband like a snug-fitting sweat pant. These can also be worn with a belt and it’s possible to make them appear like an ordinary pair of jeans in every way except one. These jogger jeans have only a fake fly and if a guy wearing them were standing at a urinal, he would have to pull them down to pee. Of course, Dylan, if layered like this is going to have other critical “barriers” in just standing at a urinal to pee. First, the jogger jeans have to come down since they have no fly. Then the strap and cup. Then the compression shorts. Finally, he has to “coax” his penis to come out of the little thong pouch. At minimum, just “unlayering” oneself at the urinal will take time. But it also might attract some attention if other guys wander into the restroom who will wonder what exactly Dylan is doing with all that stuff, at minimum.

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[sebbie]

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Dylan decides that he might be smart to get the peeing over before he heads to class and before he gets all his gear in place. Dylan is also convinced that what he wants to add to his collection of jerk off stuff is a pair of those ultra snug-fit jogging jeans. An interesting experiment will be to see if he can wear the jock and cup under the jeans, and, if so, how noticeable the bulge from the cup will be.

Then, what of Josh? Dylan wants to shop for some high-Lycra jogging jeans. Josh could go along on the shopping trips and Dylan could help Josh find some things similar to at least some of the items Dylan got on Amazon. But is Josh really also interested in what Dylan is doing to and for himself? Good Question!

Still, Dylan thinks that Josh’s behavior in the dorm room indicates that Josh is indeed more turned on than turned off by what he saw Dylan doing to himself. But Dylan thinks that he needs to approach the entire subject with Josh very carefully. If there is talking to be done, just let Josh do most of the talking. After all, Josh too seems to be struggling with inner feelings that reside deep down. And Dylan is still trying to figure out how he would deal with a situation where his roommate suddenly discovers that he enjoys pleasuring himself in a similar manner to what Dylan so much enjoys doing to himself. What a dilemma!

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan’s extraordinary experience masturbating in the thong stuck to his brain as if it were glued in place. Dylan had fun doing this, the most fun he ever recalls having with his own body, and that includes a few close encounters with two different girls his age. None of those encounters ended as Dylan had hope, and somehow, Dylan has pushed the experiences back into a now-dark corner of his brain.

The first thing running through Dylan’s mind is how much he enjoyed merely getting his body parts into the skimpy thong. Now thongs designed as male underwear generally are made to take advantage of the fact that guys have more to contain there than a female does. Still, a correctly-fitting thong should fit snuggly in the pouch. An oversized, loose-fitting pouch would probably work less well than a pouch that is a bit undersized.

Ahhh, but the real fun begins when the pouch is of the correct size for the guy, just big enough to fully hold and contain the penis and balls of a guy who at the start at least is completely flaccid. Of course, that is better said than done. A thong that fits correctly will require some hand adjustment in order to get into the proper position. Dylan did not fully appreciate this until he tried the thong on for the first time. And a guy would have to be brain dead to not get at least a semi-erection as all of this adjusting is going on.

Then there is the matter of the stimulation of the perineum area, that neat little spot just behind the balls. A correctly-fitting thong will tug at that area with an upward pressure, pushing the balls upward and the penis forward. Dylan quickly found this out too. Indeed, just this sensation of the thong pressing firmly against the perineum area taken alone can be a quite enjoyable.

Finally, there is the matter of the thong back, which in a men’s thong, can be as simple as a band of elastic, typically sewn to the thong pouch right at the point that hits the perineum.

So, as arousal proceeds, the guy’s penis is going to grow somewhat in size and strain against the walls of the pouch. As this is happening, something will have to give. As the guy starts to get hard while still inside the pouch, the only reasonable place for the elastic band to go is to stretch up in the buttock crack, bombarding the guy with interesting sensations from yet another “arousal-active” area of his body.

At this point Dylan takes a deep breath and notices that he is pre cumming profusely. Whatever is happening to Dylan right now feels soooo…good. What started as a dime-sized spot of pre cum on the pouch right at the tip of Dylan’s penis has morphed into a quarter-sized wet spot of ooze. And the spot gives every indication of getting still bigger. Already, Dylan has found in a place best called pre cum ”heaven”. Dylan’s entire body is awash with pleasant sensations. Funny how just a little piece of cloth and some elastic can do that to a guy.

The last time this happened, we all know the story of how Dylan found orgasmic ecstasy by simply stroking the underside of his penis from base to glans with his penis still inside the pouch, and that roommate Josh got to watch him do this and coming in a wonderful orgasm of both mind and body, an orgasm so powerful that Dylan thought he was completely losing control over what was happening to him and starting to convulse…terrific fun, even if the who experience was a little scary too. Some of life’s experiences can be both extraordinarily memorable but scary at the same time, and this was one of those.

This time, however, Dylan has the entire dorm room to himself, and wants to try layering some of his duds over the top of the thong. Dylan’s mind is wandering and he is starting to think about layering that little strap and hard cup over the top of the thong. Penises are wonderful pieces of human engineering. They are capable of expanding a good deal, and even stranger, they seem to be happiest doing this if the guy is not trying to direct the activity from his brain. Well, maybe that is not quite what happens.

Dylan’s thoughts right now are most interesting. He’s starting to think that the strap and cup, if worn over his thong, penis and balls, is set up to press inward and downward on his penis just as the thong is pressing upward and forward in the opposite direction. What an interesting dilemma for his body parts to be in, Dylan thinks. How will his body react to the dilemma it is in?

Penises can and do expand under a variety of external conditions, and what Dylan is setting up is one of them. The funny thing is that when the male penis is inside something, it seems to somehow “know” that it is in a confined space, even though it may not be physically in contact with whatever is confining it, at least not yet. So this becomes both a psychological and a physical thing that is taking place. The penis somehow understands that expansion inside a jock cup, while possible may be stopped as soon as it comes in firm contact with the walls of the cup. Dylan pulls the strap and cup over the thong and suddenly becomes aware of what appears to be happening to his body.

Finally, there is the compression gear, both the tee and the compression shorts. Dylan loves the fit and feel of the tee and how he looks in that, how the positions of each of his his upper body muscles are apparent with the tee in place. Dylan pulls the tee first, and then tugs himself into the compression shorts. The compression shorts hold the jock cup firmly in place, limiting Dylan’s ability to pull the cup off the top of his pouch-contained penis, a penis that now desperately wants to get bigger as well as harder but is limited because the walls of the jock cup are firm and hard and only a tiny distance from the now nearly electric condition of the skin of his penis.

At this point, Dylan’s mind is telling him that he is desperate to get off, to get out from under the sensations his body is being bombarded with from a bunch of different locations. At the same time Dylan wants for all of this to be over, he is once again in a thrilling situation, again a situation unlike anything quite like he has ever experienced before. And, of course, given where Dylan’s penis is, he cannot easily rub himself directly enough to speed ejaculation. Dylan is more or less stuck! Might as will just kick back and enjoy all the interesting and wonderful sensations.

Dylan suddenly thinks about that crazy night that he ran into Bill and Joe in the hall restroom, and it now occurs to him that Bill and Joe were wearing all of the gear he is now wearing, or at least very similar gear, layered like Dylan has now layered his own gear.

It now becomes obvious to Dylan exactly what Bill and Joe were doing that night dressed that way, and, more importantly, why they were doing that. Of course, Bill and Joe had yet another scheme, that was crawling into bed and trying to sleep with all the gear in place, with each realizing that the roommate also attempting to sleep only a few feet away was in the same psychological and physical predicament and struggling with the exact same issues.

Would Josh ever get to the point where he would like to try the same thing Bill and Joe were doing, Dylan wonders. The intensity of the entire experience seems to magnify with the knowledge that there is another guy in the room with you who is facing the exact same “problem”. For now, however, its time for Dylan to just kick back and enjoy the entire experience solo.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

It can be dangerous to go to bed after trying on and messing around in your gear, in part because whatever experiences that you might have had that were enjoyable tend to get “glued” onto your brain like epoxy. Nearly every human being has had the experience of going to bed and end up dreaming a dream that mixes one or more events of the day in strange and often silly but interesting ways. Even more so if the event involved something that a guy found to be arousing. Whatever it was that happened that got the guy going ends up getting built into an erotic dream in some way, a way that the conscious mind never thought of but seems quite plausible as the story line of the dream moves forward.

Take Dylan and his situation as an illustration of all of this. As I have previously indicated on a number of different occasions, Dylan had always thought of himself as a “bookish” student, and had never gotten involved in any serious high school athletics. Still, at some level, he admired many of the high-school athletes for their toned, muscular bodies and their ability to seemingly effortlessly attract high-school girls. For Dylan, even taking up a conversation with a female was a complex and difficult task.

But Dylan also had some “secrets” buried in the darker coves of his brain. Dylan knew that a lot of athletes, as part of the sport they were into, wore stuff that non-athletes would not normally get to wear, and a lot of this stuff involved items that fit snug against the groin area. Dylan didn’t think about this all that much in high school, but deep inside he always wondered about how this actually worked for the athletes, and how the guys felt wearing the items. Did they get aroused and have erections as a consequence, erections that had to somehow be disguised if they happened in a situation that could prove embarrassing? How did the athletes “handle” these situations if and when they occurred? Was this something that was commonplace among the team members, or rare?

Sometimes the conscious mind does not answer questions like these, but during sleep, the subconscious mind takes over and develops a storyline that is tough for a guy to forget once the guy awakens. As we will see, such was the case for Dylan. Keep in mind also that when Dylan made the Amazon® order for the various gear items made its imprint on Dylan’s brain. The various items had worked almost amazingly well in getting Dylan aroused. Indeed, the experiences that Dylan was having with the various items were sticking to Dylan’s brain as if they were glued in place. As a consequence, it is not at all surprising that Dylan’s dreams quickly evolved in certain ways.

In Dylan’s first dream, Dylan realizes that he is still a College freshman, but in this fantasy world he wants to try out for some intramural team sports. These sports are not like regular college athletic teams, but mainly a way for the various dormitories and fraternities to compete against each other mainly just for fun. But as is often the case, whenever you have guys engaged in any competitive activity, there are always a few guys who want to take whatever it is very seriously.

In Dylan’s dream, Dylan is making an attempt to choose from three intramural sports, swimming, wrestling, and martial arts. Dylan decides to look into the intramural swim team first, and stops by when they are practicing at the intramural swimming pool. This was the pool located in the same gym he was to in real life. But here is the interesting part. The members of the swim team are all wearing swim briefs. Not only that, they are swim brief that in fit and color nearly identical to the Desmiit® brief Dylan had in his dresser drawer from the Amazon® order. That means really skimpy, low-cut, vertical color (blue, yellow or green) blocked with black and, well, quite tight-fitting. Dylan realizes that while they keep the swimmers covered, at least not when wet it is easy for Dylan to make out the shape and outline of the swimmer’s anatomy. Dylan notices that some of the guys have more down there than others. He talks to a swimmer, a guy who looks amazingly like Josh, who explains to Dylan that the team had made a group order for Desmiit briefs, and that wearing one was required if Dylan wanted to be a part of the team. Dylan swallows, but does not say anything in response. Dylan is wondering how he is going to be able to wear such skimpy attire in public. But the swimming guys do look great in their tiny briefs, Dylan thinks.

Next up is the wrestling team, who just happen to be practicing in the same gym on the same day. Oddly enough, all the participants are wearing asics® singlets similar to the one Dylan got in his Amazon order. Too, Dylan can see that all the guys are wearing straps under the singlets, and, Dylan thinks, what must be hard cups, as all the wrestlers have a bulge in the “right” place but a bulge that does not look like a penis but merely a smooth bulge. Dylan talks to one of the wrestlers, a guy who happens to look very much like Josh, and asks the wrestler about the gear Dylan would need to participate in the sport. The wrestler explains that all the guys wear a singlet, but since this is intramural competition, the color is the choice of the wrestler. And, of course, every guy wears a strap and cup too, for “safety” reasons.

Dylan’s last stop is at the martial arts venue where the intramural martial arts team is also practicing. Interestingly enough, the guys there are all wearing compression tees and shorts, shorts that extend about halfway down to their knees. These look way similar to the Tesla gear in my drawer, Dylan thinks. Dylan notices that these martial arts guys are also wearing straps and cups. Dylan talks to a martial arts participant, a guy that looks a lot like Josh. The guy explains to Dylan that in order to participate, Dylan will need the compression tee and shorts, a strap, a cup, and one more item. “What item is that?” Dylan asks. The guy replies, “a pair of thong underwear, of course!” worn under the jock.

Dylan thinks to himself “I certainly prepared well for all of this!”

…to be continued

[sebbie]

In thinking about Dylan’s situation, dreaming a vivid dream, two movies come to mind. The first movie is called “Pride” in which the Terrance Howard character coaches an inner city Philadelphia team to compete in swimming. The most unforgettable scene from that movie is when the coach tells that the swim team members, in order to compete, are going to have to wear swimming briefs. Of course, coach has been wearing swim briefs already. The reactions of the swim team members to the idea make for unforgettable movie-making.

Clearly, the swim-team members are more than a little apprehensive about the situation they face. The coach is telling them that wearing the briefs is a basic requirement if they intend to compete against other teams (who will also be wearing swim briefs). The apprehension might be due simply to the “revealing” nature of the clothing. Or, perhaps the team members are secretly worried that they will get erections just getting into the clothing, and what do they do if THAT happens in public?

Whatever the reason for the apprehension, the next scene shows the team all wearing the briefs, so, somehow, they all “survived” the situation at hand.

The other movie is a 2006 film called “Swimming Upstream” that is based on the Tony Fingleton autobiography. Fingleton was an Australian swimmer who competed in the Empire Games in Australia, and later was on the Harvard University swim team. The Fingleton boys competed in swimming and at a very early age and, as the movies shows, wore swim briefs from the very start. This would be a very normal thing for a young guy to do in Australia.

Tony Fingleton, as played by Jesse Spencer in the movie, was quite a handsome guy, and the females of a similar age followed his athletic career a lot, and probably not simply the swimming records. It was clear from the movie that they were fascinated with his looks as a scantily-clad swimmer.

In the scene where Tony is about to board a plane that will take him to the Empire games, a young lady dashes up and asks him to give her one of his swim briefs. Tony is taken aback by this at first, but then reaches into his duffel bag and pulls out a neon green swim brief, and tosses it to her. What does this all mean, anyway?

The young lady gets a treasured “trophy” of sorts, a swim brief that only recently encased Tony’s private parts. So, maybe the idea that young women are somehow turned off seeing guys in swim briefs is a myth. Young ladies may very well get turned on by seeing guys clad this way, though they may be less than forthcoming about it. And, for that matter, guys who wear swim brief may need to realize that it is more than just gay guys who might be “sensitive” to what they are wearing at swimming meets, and this COULD be at least one reason why the sport attracts a following.

So too, now, with Dylan in his dream. Of course, Dylan learned at a very early age that his body parts were “sensitive” to certain kinds of clothing, starting with the tighty whitey underwear he wore as a child. As Dylan got a little bit older, he started thinking up ways so that he could turn himself on, and, for that matter, admiring guys who he thought just might be getting turned on doing the same thing. All of this more or less comes together in high school, where young males are together in a gym locker room, preparing to participate in sports where one or more clothing items might lead to arousal…guys are constantly tilting back and forth between the thrill of the arousal itself and the fear that this could happen in some inopportune or inappropriate place or time, and Dylan is no exception in this regard.

Of course, once a guy is in an erotic dream, all the rules about what should happen go out the window. If Dylan wants to get a hard-on just getting into a skimpy Desmiit® swimming brief, his subconscious is perfectly free to let that happen. If Dylan thinks he will get erect putting on a snug-fitting strap, cup and wrestling singlet, that can happen too. If Dylan “likes” the compression gear that apparently is part of the martial arts apparel, then that is fine as well.

For guys, the best wet dreams are the ones in which the guy wakes up with a huge hard-on, a situation so precarious and unstable that it cannot help but go right into a full-blown orgasm and release that creates a royal mess in the bedclothes and on whatever the guy wore to bed. Then, in a close-quarters double dorm room, the poor guy has to figure out how to get up without alerting his roommate to exactly what had happened. Of course, the guy in the other bed may very well have already or will soon face the same “problem.”

So Dylan is in the middle of a dream involving three different sports, or maybe I should say instead three different ways to create a powerful orgasm. Each of the three sports involves getting into and wearing clothing items that could be quite arousing and the dream will go whatever way it wants to go even as an erection builds while the guy doing the dreaming is fast asleep. Indeed, the dream and the subconscious will make a series of “decisions” seemingly consistent with making it tougher and tougher for the guy to continue watching the dream without creaming all over. That the dream seemingly operates on its own is part of what makes the entire experience so interesting. Characters will move in and out of the storyline as the dream progresses, but seemingly each character builds on what has already happened in such a way to push Dylan’s erection a bit further along.

Then, in just the nick of time, Dylan wakes up only to discover that he is on the very verge of exploding in a powerful orgasm, with enough cream to cover the bedclothes. It is clear in Dylan’s mind that there was one particular sport, and one particular set of clothing items that Dylan was being “forced” to get into in the dream that pushed this entire experience forward to the powerful end.

The entire experience is now glued to Dylan’s brain. Dylan knows that he already has the items that showed up in one way or another in the plot of the dream. Otherwise he would be up for a shopping trip in an effort to closely replicate whatever it was he found himself doing in the dream.

Dylan wonders about Josh. Is the experience Dylan just had more than a little weird or are such experiences commonplace among guys his age? If Josh were “exposed” to the same situations Dylan has been into, would Josh’s body and brain respond in the same or at minimum similar way? Dylan knows that Josh certainly did not object when Josh got to see Dylan masturbating while wearing the thong in the dorm room. But will Josh get really turned on by the same items that seem to work for Dylan? And what role if any might a college-age woman play in all of this? Lots of deep stuff here to be uncovered for sure.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Dylan is in the middle of his dream…suddenly he starts talking in his sleep, loudly…he frantically says “Aaaaaawwwh that fits tight” Maybe Josh was awake enough to hear Dylan, but maybe not.

What is happening in the dream that is causing Dylan to talk in his sleep? That is an interesting question. In the dream, Dylan is now trying out for the wrestling team, and of course, in order to do that he needs to be in the appropriate gear if he is going to try wrestling with one or two of the other guys in the gym. The proper wrestling gear includes a strap, a cup and a wrestling singlet. Fortunately the guys appear to have stock of each item, presumably the straps and singlets have been freshly laundered. The guys seem to be more than a little bit interested in the fact that Dylan must now get into the wrestling gear in their presence. Maybe they know something about all of this that Dylan doesn’t know.

Dylan then strips. Dylan thinks he is more than a little apprehensive about doing this, but I guess it is required in order to be a part if the intramural team. Oh well, Dylan isn’t going to be standing there completely nude for long. “Hey this strap is smaller than the one I usually wear” Dylan says to no one in particular. “And this jock cup you lent me. Do you expect me to get my stuff into THAT?”

“Well”, one guy on the team explains, “when we are wrestling, everyone watching us can see our bodies, our ENTIRE bodies, and you must realize that if you were to get a noticeable erection when people are watching us, that COULD be really embarrassing. The strap and cup you are wearing is designed to hold everything in place, so the bulge in the singlet looks the same irrespective of whether or not you are, …well,…you know...” At that point the guy’s voice tails off, as if he has said too much, already.

“But,” Dylan protests, “that cup is so small and that jock is so tight, it would be impossible to get an erection wearing it….at least I think that would be the case. I’ve worn a strap and cup before, but not one nearly this small. “

The guy says “Yup Dylan, you just learned something important about intramural wrestling team. All of the guys on the team are in the same ‘predicament’ when they wrestle as you are finding yourself in right now.” As a team, we want to see how you deal with the situation at hand as a potential new member of the team. What you are going through right now is part of a process for determining your “fitness” to join our team.

Dylan is struggling with all sorts of strange sensations coming from his penis and entire groin area right now. His penis is clearly uneasy about being in space that is this confining, and its sending signals back to Dylan’s brain about the situation it finds itself in. These sensations border on being almost painful. But in an odd way they are not painful at all. There is another element to this that Dylan senses is pleasant, oddly enough, very pleasant.

At this point in the dream, Dylan needs to pull a wrestling singlet on to his body and over the strap and cup. In the dream, Dylan thinks this should be relatively easy since he has had experience wearing his forest green asics® singlet.

But the wrestling team singlets are different from what Dylan is used to. For starters, they are made by Russell®, and go up much higher on the chest than the asics® singlets do. They also are more difficult to get into. The arm straps are much shorter. In order to make this all work, the singlet has to be pulled up really snug in the groin area, to the point where the singlet is crawling right into the butt cheek crack.

The guys explain to Dylan that there is a special technique for getting your body into a really snug singlet. The singlet has to fit as if t were a slick second skin because in wrestling you don’t want your opponent to be able to pull you down by grabbing onto any loose fold of cloth, so the tighter and slicker the cloth, the better for keeping your opponent from grabbing you down in a meet. And, of course, the strap and cup should keep your gonads from getting accidentally injured in a wrestling move. Your opponent will be clad similarly, and for the same reasons.

The guys also explain to Dylan that there is a technique for getting into a singlet and getting the shoulder straps in place. That first involves cinching up the singlet into your groin and butt as tight as you can possibly get it, and then getting into the strap for the left arm and shoulder first. Then use your right arm to position the left strap over your shoulder as close to your neck as possible. Finally, wriggle your right arm into the right shoulder strap while positioning that strap with your left arm.

Of course, all of these complicated movements put additional tension on the strap, cup and gonads. Aaaaaawwwh that fits tight, Dylan proclaims out loud in his sleep. Dylan then looks down and sees some tell-tale pre cum stains on the loaner red Russell® singlet. Dylan thought that the strap and cup would contain any initial emissions, but clearly not. Dylan looks down to his groin, and the other guys around him notice the stains too.

“Don’t worry” one of the guys finally says.”A lot of the guys pre cum when they get into their wresting gear, at least when they do it for the first few times. We just act as if the guy is in a tough match and is sweating a lot. Of course, the stains are not sweat, not even close, but that makes for a good story line anyway.

What a dream…suddenly Dylan wakes up and his penis is bone-hard…Dylan is very anxious to get off, and recalling all these erotic moments in the dream is not helping with matters down there at all. Dylan is desperate to get off…truly desperate.

To be continued…

[Schoolspeedo]

Let me suppose that you want to learn more about how your body reacts to situations that are (largely) outside your conscious control. Let me assume that you own at least a half-dozen swim briefs of various sizes. A basic stunt involves taking these out of the drawer, examining each one and checking its condition.

Next, it is fun to line these up in order, from least skimpy/confining to most skimpy/confining. It is always interesting to include in the group a new suit, one you have recently purchased but have not yet tried on.
Then, what you are going to do is try on each suit in private, but in front of a mirror, starting with the least confining of the suits you have selected for the experiment, and only gradually moving toward the more restrictive-and confining suits. In my case, the least confining suits often have a 32- or even 34- inch waist, and I gradually work my way down to something with a 24- or 26- inch waist.


As you try on each suit, do more than simply stare at yourself in the mirror. Examine exactly how each suit fits you, and what position for your penis in each suit looks best and feels best for you. How does your penis feel when confined in each successive suit? Also, as you pull yourself into each suit, are you starting to feel the tightening sensation that typically occurs at the very beginning of each erection. As you pull each successive suit in position, are you starting to
get bigger? Explore different locations for your penis. Does one of the suits just feel better and more exciting than others?

Unless you are completely brain dead, the process of getting out of and then into a successively smaller suit is probably going to result in significant precumming, perhaps profusely. Take mental notes of all of this. Specifically, what was the suit that first got you there? Are we talking dime-sized precum spots, quarter-sized, or even larger? Take mental notes!


It will get increasingly difficult to try on, examine and adjust each successive suit. By the time you make it to the sixth suit in the row, you will probably be longing and clamoring more and more to have a full-scale orgasm. That is fine and to be expected as you near the end of the sequence of suits. Just take note that messing around like this probably not only taught you some things you did not know about your body and how it responds to what initially.


This is a great way to enjoy yourself and your suit collection when you are alone, but the same iea might work even better with a partner who is attempting to do the same thing in sequence. As you do this there is something hugely erotic about the simple realization that there is someone else near you who is experiencing much the same most interesting sensations and feelings.


Sebbie

I'm with you on this one. Nothing more erotic for me than to slip into a tiny swim bikini and I frequently go into my swimwear drawer and pose around in front of a mirror with various suits. As you say by the time I've slipped into the 4th or 5th suit that my penis is well firm and causing an obscene bulge. Most suits are of very slight Lycra or spandex and reveal most detail of the head and shaft. Some are so skimpy that the fabric is stretched to the limit. I love wearing as brief as I dare in public even though the fabric doesn't really hide the form, especially in front a female friend(of my wife and I) when using her hot tub. She has nice long nails and the thought of them brushing against my bikini keeps my semi.

[sebbie]

I appreciate your kind comments. For me the main issue in continuing to write here is coming up with story lines that my readers can personally relate to...both the dilemmas and the fun.

Again, I appreciate hearing from you and what you enjoy doing.

Sebbie

[sebbie]

A collection of “stuff” like Dylan owns can be really fun in all sorts of different ways. Like so many other guys, Dylan is very fond of being just a little aroused, but also maintaining a degree of arousal over long periods of time. Getting the arousal level to the point where it is just right so that it can be successfully sustained over a long period of time even while being engaged in other activities, say, going to class or working out, is the tricky part. How does a guy stay in a semi-aroused state over a long period of time?

Every guy probably knows the exact sensation Dylan is after, that feeling of tightness or tenseness in the groin area and really, in the lower part of the penis that suggests that something is happening there, but not too much of a sensation, at least not enough so that the guy starts to feel compelled to soon ejaculate. The exact sensation is great fun, but also quite subtle. I call it “riding the wave” the wave being sensations that radiate throughout the body when a guy is sexually excited, even just a little bit excited.

What does Dylan’s collection of gear have to do with all of this fun stuff? Isn’t a guy “supposed to go through a series of steps starting with a subtle but still quite pleasant sexual arousal, which quickly leads into something that is, well, “bigger and better”? Well, yes, and, surprisingly, no.

Once arousal is underway, stuff can move in very different directions, and one of these directions does not push forward into a stiffer penis that is accompanied almost invariably by an ever greater urge to ejaculate until ejaculation comes off. What I am talking about is slower and also sweeter. It might not lead anywhere that is harder and stiffer, at least not for some time. And maintaining that semi state is where Dylan’s gear can prove to be, well, quite useful.

College students are often very busy. They are learning new stuff and doing tough and difficult things. For a guy, enjoying one’s own body sometimes gets pushed back even though it is a very enjoyable thing to do. For example, Dylan certainly enjoyed that session where he masturbated with Josh watching him do it right there in the room. But that is not something a College student would or could do in public. What Dylan and Josh were doing is reserved for quieter, private times.

Still, every guy has moments in his life where his groin area feels quite pleasant even if he is not an actively-engaged masturbator. Should a guy just ignore these remarkably pleasant sensations or perhaps even try and help them along?

Everyone reading this knows that Dylan has no qualms whatsoever about enjoying his own body, even if this involves no one else. This is not a bad thing to do, indeed it is a good thing to be able to do this on a regular basis without feeling uncertainty or guilty about it whatsoever. I guess every guy in some manner greatly enjoys masturbation, but the real differences lie in a guy’s ability to feel OK about this. Maybe an infatuation with masturbation is ultimately bad. What if I get to like it too much, in which case I never get motivated to seek out a partner for sex? Is this bad for me? Will I end up being a loner? These are all interesting questions for sure, and maybe too deep to consider for now.

Dylan is a busy guy. He goes to class every day and is doing well, grade wise. He has gotten interested in working out at the gym too, something he never really got into when he was in high school.

Dylan has long been into snug-fitting clothing. This started even before he went through puberty. He loved how snug fitting cotton briefs made his groin area feel. As he grew, he liked to wear jeans and underwear that was nearly too small for him any more. As a senior in high school he graduated to even snugger-fitting skinny jeans.. More and more he liked how all the clothes fit to his groin and to a certain degree emphasized his manhood in the mirror.

This all led to the session where with Bill and Joe he placed the order for that Amazon gear: a strap and a cup, a pair of thong underwear, a skimpy little swim brief, a compression tee and jammer, and a snug-fitting wrestling singlet. It’s occurred to Dylan that any of this gear COULD be worn to class under his skinny jeans and maybe under a sweatshirt on top, and further, any of this gear might keep him going, semi-aroused, even as class is proceeding. He needs to be careful to not get too aroused, just aroused enough to keep the pleasant sensations feeding his brain during the lecture. Picking WHAT to wear to class under the jeans and sweatshirt could pose a bit of a dilemma, but that should be quickly resolved.

How much is just enough arousal, but not too much? Well any guy realizes that is where the drops of pre cum or ooze come in. These ordinarily are tiny enough not to leak and stain into a denim jean. But guys are normally quickly aware of when they are in oozing mode, because they will feel the definite sensation of moistness forming right at the penis tip and on whatever the undergarment happens to be.

Dylan knows. He can’t not know, because he has already been playing this wearing the underwear thong under his skinny jeans to class, and further, he made it through class and back to his dorm without completely going off. That came later, with Josh in the room.

What will Dylan try next to wear to class? Will he still be able to make it through class without embarrassing himself? Dylan is drawn to trying this because it is so much fun. But, what will Dylan try doing to himself and his body next?

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Dylan has been having a lot of fun trying on and wearing the various clothing items that he has purchased. These “experiments” and what has happened to his body by wearing the various items have left an indelible “mark” on his brain, a mark that is not easily overlooked or ignored.

Whenever a guy engages himself in this manner seems to lead to creating a special situation whereby the guy is flooded with the most pleasant sensations and feelings, feelings and sensations that a young guy just wants to relive over and over.

It’s funny how all of this works. Some people seem to associate finding this place containing special feelings and sensations with finding someone that you particularly enjoy being with. But that is not the only mechanism that makes this happen. Relationships of any sort are often fraught with issues and problems not the least of which the whole idea of forming permanent bonds with another person may be more than a little impractical, especially as a 19-year old college freshman. There is too much going on in a guy’s life at that age that doesn’t involve relationship issues.

The basic problem, of course is that testosterone is flooding a guy’s brain at that age, and driving him to perhaps behave in ways that might seem more than a little out of order. Guys quickly get focused on coming up with ways to get their bodies to create these special sensations, but if, for whatever reason, a sexual relationship with another person is impractical or impossible, there might still be other ways of doing it.

For example, Dylan was both surprised and fascinated by how his body so quickly responded when he put on that little Desmiit® Thong. The sensations Dylan experienced are still floating around in his brain as if they had just happened.

Dylan is thinking that this time, he wants to try wearing the little Desmiit® swim brief to class, under his skinny jeans of course. The room is empty except for Dylan, and he pulls the little swim brief out of his dresser drawer.

Previously, Dylan’s attention had been diverted to all of the other items he had, the thong, the strap, the Tesla® gear and the singlet. Dylan had kind of forgotten that he even had the little swim brief. But now it dawns on Dylan that the little brief might work well under his jeans as a substitute for his usual white cotton briefs. But, how will Dylan’s body—and mind—“react to doing this. Dylan decides that it is time to run an experiment to find out exactly what might happen.

For starters, the swim brief is not very big, but Dylan knew that already. Dylan slips on the brief and quickly discovers that the size he bought is barely big enough to contain all of his male anatomy, anatomy that will grow substantially in size if he gets sexually excited. What seems like a snug fit now is going to be even more confining unless Dylan can keep from getting excited.

Of course, just by pulling on the swim brief, Dylan is already somewhat excited, and his penis is already starting to get bigger. That subtle but distinct tenseness at the base of the penis—every guy knows that feeling for sure—is happening too. This is all fun to have happen, but a bit scary as well…Dylan knows all about that particular combination of sensations and feelings.

Dylan looks at himself in the dorm-room mirror, focusing especially on how he looks in the groin area. To Dylan at least, it is obvious that he is at least a little excited already. Mirrors don’t lie. But, there is a more serious problem at hand. The problem Dylan faces is one of finding a position for his penis inside the little suit. Down is workable assuming a guy is completely flaccid. But, if a guy has any degree of erection, the choices are either to one side or the other, or possibly up.

The up position looks cool, but only if a guy wants to show a big bulge, a bulge that might even be obvious wearing skinny jeans over. In class, that could get more than a little embarrassing.

The other option is to position the penis horizontally, with the tip facing either left or right. Dylan has experimented with a sideways position wearing his tighty whitey underwear. Somehow, aiming the tip toward the right always felt uncomfortable to Dylan. Pointing left seemed more “natural” to him. Dylan wonders if guys’ penises are like being left handed or right handed. That is, for some guys it just works better to consistently point one way or the other. Dylan wonders if anyone has researched this topic.

The Desmiit brief is very low-slung, barely covering the entirety of his butt crack when he is completely flaccid. Any growth puts pressure on the brief, and makes it more and more difficult to pull the brief into position to cover the butt crack completely. This could be an issue if Dylan were swimming in the brief, but the sideways position helps a little in this regard, but it is not a big problem given that Dylan will be wearing a snug-fitting pair of jeans over everything.

The other problem is that Dylan has started to pre cum. Would a guy expect anything otherwise given all the experiments with penis positioning and then snugging up the brief to fit tight against the crotch? This is leaving small damp spots of crystal clear ooze on the front of the brief. Three of them have formed already. This too should not be a problem unless Dylan starts precumming sufficiently that it passes on through his denim jeans.

So Dylan takes one final tug on the brief, snugging everything up in place, and pulls on his skinny jeans over. A tee followed by a sweatshirt complete the look, and Dylan, still feeling quite horny, is off to class.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan is now snuggly tucked into his little Desmiit® swim brief, wearing his equally snug-fitting skinny jeans over the top of everything underneath.
Dylan thinks “it’s funny how a guy’s anatomy works.” Dylan’s little swim brief is entirely covered up by the denim in the skinny jeans, denim that, interestingly, has a bit of Elastane (aka Lycra®) in it to make the jeans fit even snugger, but still comfortable to wear. Dylan is certainly OK to go to class the way he is. No one should be the wiser as to what he is actually wearing today.

Still, Dylan’s mind is focused not on his class work, but on where his penis and balls are residing today as he walks to class. This is the funny thing about guys. A guy can very easily get engaged about the ordinary events of the day and a guy’s attention is diverted from any sort of sexual feelings whatsoever. But if a guy’s penis and balls are in a very confined space such as the clothing Dylan is wearing, a guy’s attention is quickly diverted once again to thinking about any sensations from the groin area. Of course, the smooth fit of the little swim brief merely adds to all of this, plus the feeling always there that if a guy somehow is getting into a situation whereby he needs to grow some, will there be adequate space inside the brief to do so, and what might happen if adequate space is not available?

Adding to the dilemma is the skinny jeans with the snug-fitting denim bearing down on everything, which makes the dilemma of “what happens if I start to grow?” even more interesting. Guys are made to greatly enjoy having their male anatomy in places that are very confining. If this weren’t true, human beings as a species would have likely have died out eons ago.

But Dylan, right now is really “messing” with all of this. Sex with a female partner is something completely different, entirely. Indeed, what Dylan is messing with is something that largely only guys even know about. Females, for the most part, are clueless about all of this.

Around puberty, guys learn a lot about how much pure fun it can be just to play with yourself in private. This usually begins with just some basic rubbing and stroking of the penis with your hand from glans to base. This is actually an important learning activity for guys, because in doing this they learn about the touch and feel of various parts of the penis, the extra sensitivity of the underside, the super sensitivity of the glans area around the penis head, and so on. Every individual masturbation experience is also an important learning experience for guys.

But guys soon pick up on the whole idea that there are more fun ways to masturbate than simply running one’s dry fingers along the penis shaft. It doesn’t take a guy long to learn that the entire act is facilitated if these is something in between. Perhaps a hand lotion is used to lubricate everything, but that can quickly get messy.

But what about a piece of cloth instead? A piece of cloth that feels really smooth and slick against the shaft of the penis? Maybe cloth like what is commonly found in a stretchy swim brief?

For guys, there has always been a curious mixture of interest coupled with equal parts of apprehension and anxiety about the whole prospect of wearing a snug-fitting item of clothing made from a stretchy fabric. For those new to the idea the interest comes about from the knowledge that the slick, snug-but-stretchy fabric is made to order for better-quality self-administered sexual pleasure. The apprehension and anxiety is linked to the notion of getting a hard-on at an inappropriate time, say in the locker room, or worse, end up with an explosive orgasm. Still, the fun of being able to wear something that a guy always thought would be a great garment for improving the quality of masturbation cannot be ignored. The guy is thus being tugged in two different directions---a dilemma that is not easily resolved.

Dylan, this morning, is in a relatively “safe” place wearing what he is wearing to class. A bit of a hard-on, if it did occur, should be largely unnoticeable given that he is all tucked inside the jeans as . It is not likely that things will get out of control because if that happens, Dylan is aware that he can simply divert his attention to whatever is going on inside the lecture hall, and that should cool things down just enough to be manageable. Dylan’s body is telling him that he has found himself a place to be that can only be described as “most interesting.”

Still, Dylan knows he is in a “fun” place, body and mind, this morning. Maybe a place the other guys in his class do not know about or appreciate like Dylan does. Or do they? Dylan still isn’t sure where other guys are or could be in this regard, and there is no simple way to find out, either.

Maybe, but maybe not.

To be continued….

[swim suit eddie]

Much to my surprise, my physical examination was scheduled in February on Valentine's Day. I wasn't looking forward to my upcoming scheduled plight, but the doctor was a very pretty female and a lovely nurse helping her. I arrived there and signed in at the receptionist's desk. Because it was a very cold day, I was wearing warm snug tan colored overalls with a flannel button up shirt and underneath bright pink long sleeve leotard, tights and speedo style, pink colored briefs under my leotards. I felt very warm and comfortable in my Valentine's day outfit and underwear while sitting in the waiting room, when Called in by the nurse and escorted to a large examination room. The pretty doctor entered and went over the medical paper work with me, while still in my warm Valentine's Day outfit. Both her and noticed the bright pink showing under the flannel shirt and asked what I was wearing under my outfit. I answered that it was my pink Cupid leotards for Valentine's Day day and hoped I wouldn't have to give up my pink underwear for the doctor. I did bring other clothes to put on after my physical. The doctor then told her nurse to have me changed and in a gown, as she left the room with my papers. The lovely nurse would give me a nice smile, while closing the large privacy curtain surrounding me. She would say "okay Cupid everything comes including the pink underwear, and I'll help you if need be." Now I sat on the exam table, when she took off my winter shoes and socks, showing my feet encased in bright pink tights. Now only the sounds of me whimpering like a little boy, overalls being unsnapped "pop,pop" then buttons unfastened with front bib and zippers being opened "unzzzipp", as I squirmed and continued whimpering. Soon she had my warm flannel shirt unbuttoned revealing the bright pink leotards underneath. She was tickling me a lot too. I liked the way she was undressing me, but hoping I could stay in my pink leotard and tights, but to no avail,as the flannel shirt came off, then guiding me off the exam table pulling and tugging the snug overalls down and off. Now only in the pink leotard and tights, she wished me a happy Valentine's Day, saying "but those are coming off too," when the pretty doctor came back into the examination room to see if I was ready to be examined yet. There I was standing only in bright pink leotard and tights trying to cover my full erection well outlined under them. when the doctor said how cute I looked as a pink Cupid. The nurse was holding an awful gown saying "Valentine's Day is over for you Cupid, let's finish getting you readied for your physical," now turning me around, slowly unzipping the long back leotard zipper, when I arched my backed and whined some more, feeling a chill on my upper back, as she unzipped and the opened the leotard. The lovely nurse gently turned me around peeling my arms from the clinging bright pink leotard sleeves. The doctor would watch my medical plight begin, as the nurse continued undressing me with a big smile seeing seeing my now bare upper torso, the doctor then puttting the sthesicope to my bare chest and listening to my excited heart beat. Now the moment of truth came for me when the nurse put her hands around my lower half still snug and secure in three layers of bright pink leotard,tights and speedo briefs and with the doctor's help began peeling them down below my waist despite crossing my legs, squeezing my buns and trying to keep my erect penis from being unsnugged, the feeling of all three layers of clinging pink nylon coming off was beautiful. Both ladies were very gentle and yet professional getting the Cupid out of me. The nurse managed to free up my excited penis, while the doctor gave several gentle tugs getting the still clinging layers of pink unwedgied from my buns, while uncovering and fully exposing my behind. Slowly both nurse and doctor got them down my legs then freed my squirming ankles from all three tangled layers of pink. Finally naked, I was guided back on the exam table where the doctor began doing the physical exam on me. My naked body covered in only a gown, looked like tent city, as the pretty doctor gently groped and probed my naked body, then having me stand up again and with the nurse's help I was given a DR exam. Finally my exam was finished and I passed in good health. Yes once naked, my fully erect penis was measured by the nurse, showing me to be in good health. The doctor and nurse said I was a good patient and liked me being dressed in Cupid pink for Valentine's Day and made their day somewhat brighter. I quickly got dressed again in pink boxers with a warm pink shirt and baggy tan colored polyester trousers. I gave both the pretty doctor and lovely kind nurse a big hug, as they wished me a very Happy Valentine's Day. It was great day,making my medical plight go so much easier.

[sebbie]

It’s interesting, how everything has been working out for Dylan. Actually, Dylan’s case is what I might call typical for young men his age everywhere. Guys obviously wear clothing that ordinarily brushes against their penises without getting sexually excited or erect. They just go about their ordinary day-by-day tasks, in Dylan’s case, going to class, without getting sexually excited in any way.

Of course, this is not quite as simple as it seems. Guys all know that as well. Occasionally, sometimes when one least expects, a guy gets sexually stimulated, the so-called juices start to flow, and its off to the races, so to speak. Every guy Dylan’s age has experienced this too. The situation just “pops up” more or less, and suddenly all a guy can think about is the sensations that he is starting to feel in his male anatomy.

These sensations almost invariably are accompanied by a lot of strange and wonderful things happening. And some of these strange and wonderful things start to happen even before a guy senses that he may get erect. I’ve talked at length about how the flow of pre cum often marks the start of sexual excitement, and this ordinarily gets underway without a significant erection if at all. Technically, pre cum is the output of glands called the Cowpers, located some distance apart from the prostate which is the source of the main fluid in semen. There is still debate going on as to what the exact biological function of the pre cum is in human sexuality, except to say that the female vagina tends to be acidic, chemically low pH, and acids are deadly to semen. Every guy knows that pre cum is slick and smooth. Slick and smooth feeling fluids tend to have high pH, technically OH- not acidic H+ . This theory thus holds that the pre cum has a very useful function biologically in first neutralizing the acidity of the vagina so that the sperm don’t get killed and thus not be able to fertilize the egg.

So much for the science of pre cum manufacturing. Every guy also knows that any time spent oozing pre cum is just a great time to be alive, and illustrates that terrific connection between the body and the brain. Aside from being in the throes of an orgasm, oozing pre cum comes in a close second. If a guy wants to, he can ooze pre cum for literally hours at a time, delaying and delaying any further steps. In a situation not unlike Pavlov’s dog, a young guy usually quickly learns the feel of a wet spot of ooze forming in his undergarment right at the tip of his penis, and it’s not long before that sensation is associated with a very pleasant feeling in the brain as well. This is the exact situation Dylan is in right now as he sits in class quietly oozing pre cum as the lecture proceeds.

Pretty much every guy loves to masturbate, but a basic problem is that most guys aware of these pre cum moments want to quickly take things a step farther, as in stroking ones soon-to-be-erect penis. Dylan used to think that way himself, but he has gradually learned that there is more to being a guy than just seeing how quickly he can get to a point of ejaculation. The real point here is that the longer a guy can remain sexually focused without going into a full-blown erection and ejaculation, the more fun it is going to be to be a guy, and, further, the more fun the ejaculation is going to be when it finally does take place. A lot of guys are into speed in all sorts of ways. But there is more to being a guy than simply seeing how fast you can get it all over with. Much more.

What does that skimpy Desmiit® swim brief and the skinny jeans Dylan is wearing have to do with all of this? Well, this morning, they are something of an aid in helping Dylan focus his mind on his male body parts. Will Dylan get anything out of the classroom lecture this morning? That is an interesting question too. Dylan is wondering if the other guys in the classroom are struggling with all of this as well…these are frequently deep dark secrets guys keep from each other. Except for swimmers of course, competitive swimmers who must wear swim briefs as part of their attire for sport. Do swimmer guys in briefs occasionally surreptitiously check out other swimmer guys to see what their situation is in the pre cum department? You know, a dime-sized stain right at the spot where the tip of the guy’s penis must be located. Given how much fun guys have pre cumming. I don’t see how they could possibly avoid doing so. This is not about being straight or gay. All guys are curious about the question of whether or not other guys have the same issue, and, if so, how other guys cope with it.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

I recall very clearly, as a little child, saying that phrase over and over again. I was staring at a picture of a guy wearing some tight fitting clothing. This was back in the 1950s, and I had to have been only four or five years old. This happened WAY before puberty set in. Heck, at that age I was basically clueless about sex or even sexual feelings in any form. I am trying to recall exactly what I was seeing that got me going at that early age. I know it was a picture in a magazine of some sort, a picture of a guy. I know he was wearing a tight-fitting suit of some sort, a rubbery-looking suit that fitted him very snug to the body. I know that for some odd reason I was deeply fascinated looking at his groin area. I didn’t understand at all what was going on in my brain at that point, let alone his. But deep down, I somehow sensed that there was something interesting happening to the guy in the picture. Interesting enough so that it was doing something to my own brain and body.

I did not quite understand any of this, or why the picture of the guy wearing the rubbery-looking really snug-fitting suit was affecting me the way it seemed to be. This for me at that age was really a combination of mystery and wonder. What was there about this situation that made me so excited anyway? I remember my parents hearing me say over and over “It’s tight in here!” They must have thought that I had gone off my rocker, temporarily at least.

Thus began a quest to find clothing items, each one fitting snugger and tighter. Even the search itself, was, of course, well, interesting. Just the thought of being able to go to the stores and look for the right items, something that fit snugger and tighter than anything I had already owned, was somehow arousing. As I got a little older, I would feel a tell-tale damp spot forming on the tip of my penis just by thinking about the possibility of being able to go off on a search focusing on finding something that fit snugger and tighter. Swim briefs were the ultimate in my mind at that time. Longer spandex shorts and so on had not been invented yet. And, of course, the goods were in physical stores, not on line.

As I grew a little older, into puberty and just beyond, bigger and even more interesting things began to happen, body and mind. I started to wonder more and more about the question of whether or not the other guys my age were facing the same problem or dilemma I was facing. Were their experiences similar to mine around snug-fitting clothing, or somehow different? Was there something “wrong” with me, psychologically because I had this “thing” for tight fitting clothing that seemed to be driving me bananas, or was this all “normal” for a guy my age? This was a fascinating question, I always thought, but not one I could easily talk about to anyone and certainly not to any guys my age at school.

So I started reading books, lots of books. I dug into encyclopedias, read encyclopedia articles dealing with human sex and sexuality. I learned a lot of interesting stuff in the process and became an expert on a lot of stuff that my parents did not know I was reading, but nothing that addressed by basic question which was of course, the question of whether or not it was normal for me to simply be so fascinated with wearing snug-fitting clothing, but particularly snug-fitting swim briefs. Why was I so fascinated with all of this? Why did I want more than anything to masturbate to ejaculation wearing as tight and snug-fitting swim brief? Why was this all affecting me so profoundly, anyway? Whenever I pulled on clothing over my groin that fit really tight, I suddenly experienced pleasure almost beyond belief.

The books that dealt with sexual psychology really were of little help at all. They often included chapters on fetishes, and at some level hinted that if I was hung up on something like a little swim brief, and interested in masturbating while wearing it, then I suffered from something that could be considered abnormal called a fetish, which is a sexual attraction not to another person, but to an inanimate object. But that information was really of no help at all. Both sexes are constantly buying clothing designed to look attractive to a potential sexual partner, most often a partner of the opposite sex. What happens if in putting on these clothing items, the person gets aroused himself? It’s OK for the person to get aroused but only if he is thinking “pure thoughts” about having sex with the partner not about how snug and tight the particular clothing item fits? How strange!

I finally concluded that most guys in their early post-pubescent years likely have a part of their personalities that wonders how it would feel to wear clothing that fits extra snug and tight in the groin area. This is all quite normal and natural. The problem is, there are many barriers for young guys in pursuing that. Normally, guys that age are not shopping for clothing on their own. They need their parents to pay for what they are buying, and need their parent’s approval in order to accomplish this. For a guy too explain to dad what is really going on in his head at that point would take great courage and candor, both in short supply at that age. And dad probably would not understand anyway, or worse, misinterpret what was being said. Dad never had these feelings and sensations and longings when he was a young teen or did he?

Worse, parents seem to be fixated on big and loose-fitting, not snug and tight. The guy is going to grow like a weed that age, so everything in the clothing department is purchased at least two sizes too big, because he will grow into it and the item will last for a longer period of time that way. One o the swim team Web sites admonishes parents to definitely not think about buying swim briefs two sizes to big using the “he will grow into those in a year or two” line of reasoning, but parents are seldom challenged on that point.

Many of these questions and issues still frustrate me. Then along came the Internet. Porn sites now include entire sections devoted to videos showing in excruciating detail guys masturbating to ejaculation wearing snug-fitting swim briefs. Maybe my “hang up” is not nearly as rare as I thought. Who watches these anyway? Women? Guys? The subset of guys who label themselves gay? Or is there a broad interest in seeing other guys enjoying themselves that crosses over gender and sexual orientation? An interesting question for sure.

Then there are the Internet retailing sites. One reason you see so few swim briefs being sold in physical stores any more is because guys often are apprehensive and nervous about being seen in public doing so. The on-line retailers provide the needed privacy plus a range of snug-and-tight briefs that go way beyond the more modest briefs that a physical store would carry in the snug-and-tight department. And all of this can be purchased in complete privacy. With on-line retailing, it’s easy to build a collection of physically arousing gear of various sorts, without anyone else knowing.

Then we circle back to Dylan, currently sitting in a college lecture wearing a little Desmiit® swim brief under a snug-fitting pair of skinny jeans. Dylan has a whole collection of interesting snug-fitting stuff he has bought that he is thinking about right back in his dorm room. He feels quite horny, just sitting there is class, trying to listen to the lecture while thinking about this. But horny in a good not problematic sort of way. He knows he is not erect enough to be at the point of uncontrollably shooting while at his classroom desk during the lecture. That did actually happen to him once or twice in high school, but we won’t go into that here. Dylan is gradually learning that is possible for a guy his age to stay in a way-pleasant, horny, aroused state for long periods of time, an hour or more, and enjoying this immensely even without getting off. Dylan thinks that newfound knowledge is, well, way interesting.

Dylan also can’t help but thinking about his roommate Josh, and in particular that episode a little while ago where Josh got to observe Dylan masturbating through ejaculation while wearing that little thong. Dylan thought that Josh would be upset or angered by what Dylan had done, and maybe even start to tease or bully him. But Josh was none of this. In fact, Josh, while seeming a bit surprised by what was happening, seemed also to be, dare we say, interested if not a bit turned on by what he had casually got to observe. What is with Josh, anyway? Does Josh actually admire Dylan’s garb and is thinking that he would like to try wearing some similar stuff? A good question to ponder for sure!

Dylan thinks to himself “It’s TIGHT in here..!!!

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan’s class is winding down, but Dylan is still feeling pretty horny. Dylan is actually “used” to feeling horny just while sitting in class. Dylan remembers that back in high school, this happened to him pretty regularly too.

Back in high school, of course, Dylan did not have access to a convenient pair of swim briefs that he could wear to class under his jeans. But Dylan always did have a certain “fondness” for snug-fitting brief underwear, which the high school guys referred to as “tighty whiteys”. Dylan first discovered this fondness even before he was old enough to have his first bona fide orgasm, when he was only about 11 years old, maybe even a bit younger. At that age, Dylan did not fully understand what was going on with his body, or the big changes that were on the verge of taking place. All he knew was that he very much liked to wear snug-fitting cotton brief. Wearing them somehow made him feel good. The pleasant feelings were concentrated in his groin area, but sometimes it seemed that they would “pulse” through his entire body in successive “waves” of sheer “pleasantness”.

As Dylan grew older, he went through puberty, with all of the scary but pleasant stuff. Sometimes now his penis would start to grow, especially if he focused on what he was feeling down there. This was quite an experiment. Dylan quickly “discovered” that this was, well, most interesting, pleasant and fun, but particularly pleasant and fun if the briefs he was wearing fit extra snug. Given that Dylan was also growing “like a weed”, he was also at that age where he was quickly growing out of everything that he was wearing. As he grew, the jeans that fit him just right only a year ago were now almost too tight to button. And underwear briefs that fit him perfectly only a year ago now fit a whole lot snugger. Dylan didn’t mind. He thought this was pretty interesting.

Dylan soon discovered that if he could still get into these items, sometimes the “stimulation” he got was, well, interesting, and things got particularly interesting if his penis begin to enlarge, because there wasn’t adequate room to grow, at least not by much. This was that strange combination of fear and fondness guys go through. Fondness for the wonderful sensations, but fear that things might go too far, creating a potentially embarrassing situation. Dylan often wondered if his classmates faced the same “problem,” and if, so, how they handled it so as to not let things get out of hand, so to speak.

Dylan regularly saw his male classmates in high school in the gym locker room, clad only in their underwear. As Dylan got older, it seemed that fewer and fewer of his classmates wore the tighty whiteys Dylan loved so much to wear. What was going on here, anyway. Some guys’ boxer shorts fit very loose, and extended nearly to the knees. Dylan thought that if the guys wearing the baggy shorts did get an erection, it would be pretty easy to cover it with the large folds of cloth. Maybe the guys were so fearful that even the outline of a slightly erect penis would be a disaster, that the big boxer shorts were simply a hiding mechanism. But still, Dylan thought this was more than a little silly, that is, missing out on the fun that Dylan regularly had wearing his snug-fitting cotton briefs. How could the other guys in his class have not “discovered” what Dylan had discovered on his own.

Of course, Dylan knew that when it came to the subject of sex, there were things you could and could not mention to your male classmates. He had learned that it was generally OK for a guy to admit in the locker room that he got turned on by seeing an attractive female classmate, and there was in fact locker room chatter discussing the merits of various females the same age. But any discussion of what a guy might be doing by himself was strictly off-limits as locker room conversation. Anyone who brought any reference whatsoever was in imminent danger of getting teased and bullied. Indeed, mention of solo masturbation in any form was off limits, and something never discussed even with a guy’s male best friends.

Now Dylan is a freshman in college, and he is gradually learning that the “rules” he learned in high school about what can and cannot be discussed with your male friends might have changed if only a little. Some other stuff has changed as well. Dylan quickly discovered that a Lycra® blend swim brief feels a lot smoother and slicker on his penis that his cotton briefs do, and he loves the newly-found sensations. Another thing that has changed since Dylan was in higfh school is that men’s jeans not are made to fit a lot snugger and tighter than what was popular when Dylan was in high school. Dylan has quickly discovered that wearing a snug fitting swim brief under a pair of snug-fitting Lycra® blend jeans was quite a “treat”, the treat being that the two in combination can keep a guy feeling horny for an extended period of time, as in a 50-minute college lecture, but without being so overwhelming a sensation to create other “problems” that would need to be “dealt with” quickly.

So, for Dylan, the “rules” he thought he understood from his high school days are changing. Dylan had never before roomed with another guy. What keeps playing over and over in Dylan’s mind is that odd day when his roommate Josh came back from class early and came into the room just as Dylan was pleasuring himself by masturbating in that little Amazon thong underwear. What was most surprising to Dylan is that Josh did not seem put off by this at all, or the least bit upset over what he was seeing. Josh just stood there watching Dylan have fun, even as Dylan grew bigger and harder. Dylan initially thought that he would not continue after Josh entered the room, but he was too far gone. He was nearly at the so-called “point of no return” and Josh just stood there quietly watching as it as Dylan blew off. Dylan actually thought that it was fun to have Josh watching him.

….To be continued

[sebbie]

Class is over, and Dylan heads back to his dorm room. Once he arrives there, he decides to remove his skinny jeans. What Dylan is really interested in seeing is exactly how his penis fared during the class. Dylan could feel that strange dampness at the very tip of his penis as class was proceeding. This seemed to go on and on, and Dylan was interested in finding out exactly how much he had precummed. Well, the answer was right there to see. There were two quarter-sized pre cum stains on the front of the swim briefs, and another, smaller, dime-sized stain that was more off to the side.

Pre cum is really funny stuff, and Dylan knew that…the product of the Cowpers glands, it’s normally too viscous to ordinarily work its way out past the first layer of swim brief cloth and through Dylan’s denim skinny jeans. Dylan knew that he could pre cum almost indefinitely without creating a tell-tale stain on the jeans, but a snug-fitting swim brief was quite another matter.

Dylan wondered if real swimmers had “issues” with pre cum stains when wearing In particular, was this something that someone wearing a swim brief who wasn’t “used” to doing so would be confronting? How do male swim team members who wear swim briefs “deal” with the issue? If a stain “inadvertently” forms, is the trick to quickly jump into the water, making the entire brief wet, before anyone notices?

Just as Dylan was contemplating all of this, who should walk into the dorm room but Josh? By now, Josh was “used” to seeing Dylan only scantily clad. Josh noticed the pre cum stains on Dylan’s swim brief, but he decided not to say anything. Josh just stood there with a bit of a smile and thinking to himself that he had once again caught Dylan at an inopportune time. Still, Dylan was obviously not as erect as he had been when he wandered into the room with Dylan wearing skimpy thong underwear and very near the point of no return. Josh’s timing was better than the last time, or was it?

So Josh had feelings of amusement in terms of what he was seeing, but the feelings of amusement were combined with equal feelings of interest in the things Dylan was doing to himself. This is strange stuff to contemplate for sure. What should a guy do when he perhaps inadvertently encounters his roommate having “fun” with himself. Is there any “book” on how to handle all of this? And is it “normal” for a guy to NOT be put off by seeing this? What if just watching the other guy do this makes the guy hard? Would that happen to most guys facing the same situation, or is that a clue that the guy might be gay, or at least have something of a gay “streak”?

At first, Josh had no idea of how to approach the entire subject with Dylan, or whether or not he could articulate anything about what he was thinking. However, Dylan seems not unhappy, apprehensive or anxious with respect to anything he has been doing to himself. In fact, quite the opposite.

So Josh decides to indirectly and cautiously approach the entire subject with Dylan. The discussion went something like this.

Josh “that’s a good-looking swimsuit you are wearing, but you aren’t going swimming, are you?”

Dylan: “Naw, I just came home from class. I just wore the suit like a pair of underwear under my jeans.

Josh: “A swimsuit as underwear? Does that work?”

Dylan: “Yah, it works pretty well. Certainly more comfortable than that pair of thong underwear I have.”

Josh: “Oh yah, I remember that pair.”

Dylan: “The brief fits and feels quite differently from that thong.”

Josh “in what way?”

Dylan: “Well the swim brief feels slicker and smoother on my skin…it feels quite nice compared with the cotton briefs I ordinarily wear. I like that.”

Dylan: But the thong is interesting too. For starters the thong is small enough so there is less room for your stuff. With the thong, the tricky part is figuring out just how to get everything to fit inside the pouch. That can take some work.

Josh: “I could see that you don’t have much space, especially if your body starts to grow even a little bit.”

Josh and Dylan are talking in a code that uses euphemisms and avoids words like penis and balls. Somehow it seems “safer” or maybe less raunchy that way.

Dylan: “That is one problem. But that isn’t the only problem. You have to figure out how to deal with that narrow elastic back. I’ve found that it’s easier to get yourself into the pouch if the elastic cinches up really tight between my glutes, but that may lead to other issues as well. This all seemed really uncomfortable for a few moments, but just al of a sudden, it hit me. What momentarily felt uncomfortable suddenly becomes very, very pleasant.

As Dylan spoke, Josh started to feel that something was beginning to happen in his own groin area. Subtle and almost unnoticeable at first, all this talk about self-pleasuring in abstract code was starting to do things to Josh, things that were not really under his control. Suddenly Josh just blurted it out.

“I would like to see if my body would respond the same way to wearing a thong as your body did.”

Dylan, still turned on to a degree himself, said: “Well I did launder my thong, and it’s right in the drawer here.”
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Josh: “Would you mind if I tried it on? I am curious if my body would respond the same way yours did. I will make sure it gets laundered after I wear it.”

So, here is the scene. Two 19-year old college guys, dorm room roommates, sharing a pair of underwear. And not just any underwear, a Desmiit® thong designed to fit snug and tight.

Is this behavior that of two guys who must have a gay streak? Or not? This is certainly not partner sex in any way, shape or form, just one guy borrowing the underwear of another guy.

Dylan: “Josh, my only caution is this. I had more than a little trouble getting myself into the underwear, given how it has to fit. Maybe I can help you a little in this regard, “coach” you a bit.”

Secretly, Josh was feeling a bit excited and slightly apprehensive about the possibility of getting himself into the underwear he had seen Dylan jerk off in a week or so before, but Josh was not about to say that. He had probably said too much already.

….To be continued

[sebbie]

Commentary: Dylan and Josh are getting into something really interesting here, and complicated. Two 19-year old college students. Josh is interested in running an “experiment” with his own mind and body, and Dylan is about to help Josh do this by lending Josh the little thong Dylan wore a few days ago, when Josh “caught” Dylan masturbating in it when Josh accidentally walked into the dorm room at a time when Dylan thought Josh was still going to be in class. josh was a little surprised when he walked in on Dylan stroking himself from glans to base while the thong, but did not seem put off by it all, as Dylan might have expected to happen. Indeed, Josh seemed to be admiring what Dylan was doing to himself.

Guys sometimes lend clothing items to their buddies, but I am led to believe that far less of this goes on between guys Dylan’s age than it does between females Dylan’s age. Plus, there seems to be some “rules” to all of this. Lending a jacket or baseball cap would be considered fine. But what about a buddy who wanted to go swimming with his friends but lacked swimwear. Well, if a guy has an extra pair of swimwear in his gym bag, he might pull that out to lend. But this might also depend on the type of swimwear involved. A pair of board shorts would be less of a leap, than say, a Speedo®. The other option is for the guy to swim in his underwear, but that might be considered unsanitary and underwear has a way of becoming transparent when wet.

Or, what about a guy who was engaging in a sport where the coach is requiring jock straps, with or without hard cups, to be worn? What about the team member who “forgot” his strap, and it’s still back in the family clothes dryer. If another team member has an extra newly-laundered strap in his gym bag, is it OK to lend it to the guy who forgot his?

Indeed what are the appropriate rules here as they apply to guys? Does what is lent or not depend on how “personal an item is? Is a strap more personal than a Speedo®? Is a Speedo® more personal that a pair of longer board shorts? Where do Jammers fit into all of this? These questions are not easily answered.

Dylan, of course, did launder his thong after he engaged in the jerk-off session with Josh standing and watching him. Had that not happened, this would have likely been too personal for either of them to handle. But Josh is curious now, really curious as to how his mind and body will respond to being in Dylan’s little thong. What was Dylan sensing? Will Josh feel the same way? Will Josh immediately get hard and erect like Dylan did? A lot of guys contemplating wearing a thong for the first time probably have the same questions Josh has.

But Dylan is equally curious with respect to Josh. Dylan is wondering right now if he is the only guy in the world who enjoys wearing a thong, getting hard, and then masturbating with it. If the same thing happens to Josh, Dylan then knows that there is at least one other guy who faces the same “problem” that Dylan has.

Actually, it’s a fun problem to face, and Dylan knows that too. As sexual fun goes, this one is really tame-and-safe stuff. There is no bodily contact of any sort, certainly no exchange of body fluids. But that brings up another unresolved issue. Is this some goofy form of gay activity that might suggest that Dylan and Josh both have a gay side that they each have never admitted to themselves, let alone each other? Or, despite this, can they still consider themselves as both being “perfectly straight?” In short, what are the sexual orientation “rules” that apply in what Josh is about to do?

Let’s not worry about that. Dylan has promised to not only lend Josh his little thong, but also “coach” him a bit on how to get into it and wear it in a manner that gives Josh maximum pleasure.

So, Dylan goes to his dresser drawer, pulls out the thong, and hands it to Josh. Josh takes one look at it and concludes that he has never worn something that small and snug-fitting around his penis and balls in his entire life. If Josh wasn’t feeling apprehensive before, he is now. He has a funny feeling in the pit of his stomach: an equally funny feeling of tension right at the base of his penis. Even as he holds the thong in his hands, he realizes he is starting to pre cum.

Josh quickly realizes that he is already too far gone to turn back now. His body is telling him that it wants to find out how Dylan’s thong would fit and feel. Somehow, Dylan realizes that Josh is in this dilemma and wants to proceed.

So, as Josh continues to contemplate all of this, he strips out of his jeans and tee shirt, and is now standing there in front of Dylan in only a pair of somewhat-baggy boxer shorts. Suddenly, he pulls down the boxers, and is now standing there in front of Dylan completely naked. Dylan notices already that Josh is not completely flaccid, but he is not completely erect either. This part gets tricky, Dylan knows, because the closer a guy is to being erect, the more difficult it will be to get into the thing. The thong pouch is made to handle a guy’s parts that are flaccid, or nearly so.

This is why thongs are tricky, and many guys seem scared to wear one. There is a pouch, but certainly not a pouch big enough to contain a fully-erect penis. Then there is the issue of the elastic thong back, a back that normally cinches up between a guy’s buttocks.

There is also the issue of fitting a guy’s balls into the pouch, along with a penis. Dylan explains to Josh that in order to do this it is necessary for a guy to first fit his (hopefully still) semi-flaccid penis into the pouch. After that a guy reaches at the base of the thong, where the elastic back is sewn to the pouch, and pulls that over the balls. The tricky part here is that in order to do that, the guy basically has to put the tie between the pouch and the thong back into the perineum area, directly behind the balls. Many guys do not fully appreciate how sensitive they are at that particular point, and that is part of the “fun” of wearing the thong.

Once the thong is in place that way, the guy is probably going to be more than a little erect. Dylan found that out, and Josh is about to find this out too. But, as a guy grows, the space for the growing erection is becoming more and more limited. Dylan found that out, and Josh is about to. Something has to give. The growing penis is going to do two things: put more and more direct upward pressure on the perineum area, and cause the thong back to cinch up even tighter between the buttocks. A lot of guys don’t realize this, but as they harden, what is happening in their entire groin area becomes more and more apparent.

It is the combination of things that are happening that makes this so much fun, and each of the things feeds the others. The pressure on the perineum area feels really good, but so does the sensation of the elastic thong back cinching tighter between the buttocks and brushing across the anal area. The growing penis not only feels good itself, but makes the sensations from the perineum and between the buttocks more and more intense. A guy’s body responds to all of this by getting still more more erect. Josh is discovering what Dylan learned.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Josh is undergoing an experience that he has never before undergone in his short life. Of course, being 19-years old, he is more than experienced in self-pleasuring, despite the fact that this was a topic that he was never able to bring up with his male buddies in high school. Indeed, the entire subject of sex as discussed by males in high school is often treated as if the guy is an innocent, disassociated bystander merely watching the activities of others. The unwritten rules seem to be that a guy normally should not reveal at all if or when he is turned on, but this is especially true if the guy who is turned on is in the presence only of other guys.

But suddenly, with Dylan in the room, these “rules” seem to have changed. Dylan seemed to rewrite the rules about what is OK versus not OK in the presence of another male. But Josh changed the rules as well. Instead of quickly excusing himself once he saw what Dylan was doing to and with himself, Josh just stood there, maybe with a bit of a smile on his face, watching exactly what Dylan was up to in detail.

And, Josh was just as surprised to observe that Dylan made no attempt to immediately cover himself or hide from Josh what he was doing to himself. Indeed, once Dylan got over being startled initially by Josh’s surprise presence, Dylan seemed to appreciate the fact that Josh was there watching him play with himself. And Josh just hung in there, realizing that as Josh watched, Dylan was getting ever closer to blowing his wad. Josh had secretly always wanted to see up close what happens when a guy gets to this point, but he had never before quite had the chance.

Now it was Josh’s turn to have fun. Initially, Josh wondered if he would be able to be as casual about all of this with Dylan right there as Dylan had been when Josh had wandered in. Would Dylan’s mere presence make it difficult for Josh to initiate and then maintain a “strokeable” erection? But Josh needn’t have had any concern. To be sure, the little Desmiit® thong helped the situation along, a lot, as did Dylan’s “coaching” with respect to how to get in the thong and then get the most out of the experience, once inside.

Of course, Josh had the usual concerns and issues about the situation he now found himself, the big question being whether or not what was happening to him made him unique among guys. Of course, Josh knew that Dylan was in much the same “boat” with the thong, arousal-wise.

So, what to do. By now, of course, Josh is feeling quite horny. Not horny enough yet that he could not stop and reverse course, but still quite horny. All the stuff Dylan has been telling him are tugging away, and Josh is experiencing the sensations first hand. Plus, Josh realizes that his male organ is in an interesting position inside the pouch of the Desmiit® thong. Dylan had discovered this too, when he was playing around with himself. The thong was designed with a full awareness of how male anatomy is constructed, and Josh’s anatomy fits the thong to a tee. The lower part of the thong pouch is just big enough to contain Josh’s testicles, with upward pressure just behind his scrotum. That seemed more than a bit uncomfortable initially, but almost all of a sudden, morphed into some really pleasant sensations.

The upward pressure on the perineum tends to push a guy’s penis firmly into the pouch, which in turn means that the guy’s penis is going to be pushed outward and forward, and giving a guy access to the sensitive underside of the penis. This happens even when the guy is only semi-erect. Because of this, Dylan has even learned some special technique that makes for a fun stroking technique, which he shares with Josh. The technique involves forming a “V” shape with your index and middle finger, and then stroking your penis through the thong pouch with your middle finger stroking the underside of the penis anf the index finger stroking the top. Way fun, as Dylan demonstrates the technique, and what is happening makes Josh even more excited than he was. What a special feeling!

Everything is coming together for Josh in much the same way it did for Dylan. Dylan realizes this, and that in itself is part of the fun. Just because Dylan is not actively participating does not mean that Dylan is having no fun just watching Josh struggle with all of this. Dylan realize that the situation for Josh is getting more and more difficult to control, but Dylan also realizes that somehow maintaining control ultimately adds to the pleasure. Dylan wonders how long Josh will be able to deal with what is happening to him without blowing.

Meanwhile, Josh finally fully appreciates what Dylan was experiencing and why Dylan was not able to stop when Josh walked in on him. What is the best part? That is a good question. The feel of your penis being contained and stroked within that narrow, tube-like area at the top of the pouch? The tension being applied to the perineum as the penis grows and pulls the thong upward into the perineum area? The fact that as the penis expands, the rear of the thong has to cinch up ever tighter into the buttock crack and brushing against the anal area? It’s all of this.

One way of looking at this is that Josh is really “suffering” with all of this. Suffering mixed with terrific fun. Almost ready, but not quite ready to shoot.

…To be Continued

[sebbie]

As any guy Josh or Dylan’s age knows, penises at times can be most interesting in their behaviors. Every penis somehow “knows” that it “wants to be in a place that is snug and tight-fitting, and, in particular, penises oftentimes get aroused just “thinking” about that possibility. OK, OK, penises don’t actually “think” on their own, despite the fact that some guys on occasion “behave” as if that were the case. But, for many guys, a simple thought about even the possibility of being able to be inside a confined space is enough to get a guy aroused.

Pre cum is an interesting part of all of this, in that a guy doesn’t even have to be at all erect to start the flow. Josh and Dylan are old enough now to start to realize what is going on whenever just a “flash” of a thought occurs with respect to the possibility of being able to put a penis in a space that is likely to be a little snug and tight.

This story could go in a number of different directions at this point. Any mostly heterosexual guy knows that this fascination with getting one’s penis into a snug-and-tight female vagina drives male-female relationships forward and all of the so-called biological drive for having sex with a woman. Or, the story could go down a parallel track involving two gay males who are engaged in only a slight variation on the same basic idea of having partner sex.

But the situation now faced by Josh and Dylan does not follow either of these paths. They are not having partner sex with women, nor are they having gay sex with each other. They are out in some other space entirely, a space that cannot readily be identified as partner sex at all, gay or straight. Because of this, some of my readers might be tempted to conclude that Josh and Dylan are involved in something that is not that much fun, and perhaps a third-rate alternative to having “real” sex with a partner, straight or gay.

Of course, self-pleasuring, alone or in the presence of another (male or female) has always gotten a “bum rap” so far as sexual pleasure goes. Guys at a very early age learn that stroking oneself, even though quite fun and ultimately physically harmless, is something that should be done alone, maybe in the privacy of a bathroom, or in darkness under the bed covers. Guys are always supposed to be embarrassed if anyone else should accidentaly discover what they are doing to themselves. What will happen if my mom or dad accidentally find out what I have been up to? My brothers or sisters? Or, holy terror, the guys in my class? Wash day always presents something of a dilemma, as there may be tell-tale starchy stains on sheets, pajamas or underwear bottoms. Maybe mom won’t notice, or if she does, maybe she will act as if there is nothing “wrong”.

Somehow, Dylan and Josh have both managed to maneuver through all of this and have made it into college. Both Dylan and Josh knew that the idea of having a male roommate in a not-very-big college dorm room was going to make life, well, interesting, from a self-pleasuring perspective. Have the “rules” that applied to this in grade school and high school with respect to never revealing what you do to another male your age suddenly changed once in college? Is every college guy expected to have a social life that involves not only dating but dating that leads to partner sex with a female at least once a week if not more frequently than that? Is that considered “normal” behavior for college freshmen of both sexes? If so, that puts the dating pair in an interesting situation that could easily end up with responsibilities that most college freshmen are not really ready to take on. The weekly date with sex has complex risks of a lot of different types for college freshmen of both sexes.

But if not that, how does a guy that age deal with his “urges”. Male hormones are flowing that lead to erections at unexpected times and places. Then there is the “stuff”. Many guys, maybe most, go through grade school and high school wondering about certain clothing items that for whatever reason they never got to wear. These are typically items that provide a snug fit, but in particular fit snug around the penis. The list of items commonly are worn by athletes, and includes a bunch of the stuff that Dylan ordered from Amazon® and are now in his dorm room dresser drawer. Guys are generally curious about how their bodies would “behave” wearing any of these items, and in particular if any of these items would prove useful in self-pleasuring, but they are generally very embarrassed about even having these thoughts. These items commonly include swim briefs, athletic supporters of various sorts, with or without hard cups, compression gear including swim jammers, and thongs of various sorts whether made to be worn as swimwear or as male underwear.

A reading of the literature dealing with male sexuality and male arousal does not provide a lot of help. Interestingly, a lot of the authors are female researchers who have difficulty understanding or relating at all to what goes on inside males minds and bodies, and in particular have difficulty relating to the snug-fitting clothing thing or the possibility that guys might “enjoy” pleasuring themselves. Basically, the thinking is consistent with the view that masturbation is hardly a form of sex if at all, and certainly inferior in all respects to real, partner sex.

But a more careful reading of what is often anonymous survey literature reveals some very different conclusions. In particular, that many males, when surveyed anonymously, admit to having stronger orgasms during masturbation than in partner sex. This finding comes as quite a shock to women who are “programmed” to believe that they are the sole source of sexual pleasure for men. What about the husband who regularly masturbates and attempts to hide that fact from his wife in much the same manner as he attempted to hide this from his mom when he was only 12-years old.

And what of the clothing items on the list? The writers on the subject tend to label anything that involves sexual pleasure that is an inanimate object as something of a fetish, and fetishes of any sort, are by definition “abnormal.” So if any guy admits to this, he has a sexual hang-up that perhaps needs “attention” for repair by a “trained psychologist.” This idea reminds me a lot of the idea that any guy who is sexually attracted to another guy has an issue that needs to be repaired by a trained psychologist. We have gotten over that one, pretty much, but the idea that normal guys can and do get aroused by wearing certain clothing items is not that far along. The issue here of course is that the partner should be the sole source of sexual pleasure for a guy, straight or gay, and that anything that falls outside of that norm is somehow “abnormal”.

Tell that to Josh and Dylan. What they are doing in the privacy of their dorm room is somehow, abnormal and psychologically “wrong.”Tell Josh and Dylan that instead of enjoying themselves in this manner that they should be very embarrassed about doing these things, however pleasurable they might individually find them to be. Tell Josh and Dylan that they have no right to enjoy themselves this way, and that they both need to get a better social life.

NOT!!! Josh is enjoying himself immensely inside the thong. He is realizing not that the thong helps him to take self-pleasuring to an entirely new level. Dylan is having fun too, just watching Josh struggle with all the sensations that Dylan knew would be there for Josh to try to deal with. Can something that is so much fun possibly be considered abnormal or wrong? Has anyone been harmed in all of this? What if Josh enjoys all of this too much and as a consequence never develops a partner-focused social life?

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Josh is in an interesting situation, but so is Dylan. This is the first time Josh has ever worn a pair of men’s thong underwear in his entire life. To be sure, Josh had some real misgivings about doing this, at least initially. There was a “fear” on his part as to how his body might “react” to being in such a situation, but this was framed with an equal curiosity about the entire situation. Josh was what one could call “apprehensive but curious.”

Then, Josh was still trying to determine if the “rules that applied toi having another person watch you as you engaged in self-pleasuring were somehow different at age 19 than they were at age 15, when Josh was still in high school. Given the “incident” where Josh walked in on Dylan who was engaged in very pleasant solo sex, and Dylan didn’t immediately stop and try and cover himself, Josh concluded that the rules he lived by as a young teen were suddenly not that important now. Josh didn’t quite know what to make of all of this. But Josh knew somehow that he did not object to watching Dylan pleasure himself in a variety of ways. Dare I say it? Josh was a bit “turned on” himself by getting to see this all for the first time in his young adult life. “So be it” Josh thought. This is certainly not “real” sex with another guy, just an observation up close.

Dylan had been learning a bunch of new things too about his own mind and body. This started when Dylan first encountered Bill and Joe who seemed anything but apprehensive about how each of their own bodies were “behaving” in the presence of the other. This, of course, led to Dylan’s Amazon® order and all the stuff he got in that order to “play with”.

Then too, Dylan has been running a series of playful experiments on his own body in attempt to see exactly how much “pressure”, psychological and physical his own mind and body could “tolerate” without get6ting himself into a situation that could prove publically embarrassing. This culminated in him wearing that tight swim brief under equally snug–fitting, jeans and then attempting to make it through a 50 minute class without getting too far gone. Dylan accomplished that, even though he was horny as all get out through the entire class, and in a strange way he was proud of himself for being to do that. This is the essence of developing ejaculatory control, something that is difficult if not impossible to accomplish at age 15 under similar circumstances.

Now, Dylan was the “coach” and Josh was the “student”. Dylan has discovered a lot of stuff about his body that is not only useful but enjoyable as well. The biggest stunt, of course, is how to stay horny for longer periods of time without going off. This is no small stunt, but it is a ‘learned” skill. Dylan knew that now, but Josh, not so much.

Still, Josh was curious about what Dylan now knew and wanted to try and learn for himself. The thong would be useful; in that regard. The tricky part about a men’s thong pouch is that they usually give a guy a little room for his penis to expand. Besides, some guys are bigger than others, even flaccid. So the first time Josh pulls on the thong, he discovers that his penis appears to be in the pouch OK but his balls are still dangling naked below. Dylan tells Josh he hasn’t got the thong on right, and that his balls are supposed to be inside the pouch along with his penis. This leaves less room for a guy’s penis in there, but we will get to that problem later. Dylan explains to Josh that the key is to reach underneath the thong at the base of the pouch and stretch the pouch so his balls will be inside. This is not that easy to do, at least for the first couple of times.

Josh does that, and gets his balls inside the thong, but quickly discovers that he is now feeling a new upward pressure from the thong in the area just behind his balls, technically called the perineum area. This is an entirely new feeling or sensation for josh, but the odd thing is that the upward pressure feels pleasant, very pleasant.

Dylan then explains to Josh that it is better if he just lets the elastic back cinch up between his glutes. This is another new feeling or sensation for gloss. He had never thought of his butt as being sexually erotic before. Interesting for sure!

So, here is Josh, finally in the thong properly for the first time, with Dylan’s coaching instructions. Josn is a little erect by now, but mainly he is oozing out pre cum, stains that started the size of a dime, but quickly growing to the size of a quarter.

Now Dylan explains to Josh that the whole idea is to just stay in that situation, and see how long your body can “take’ it without anything else happening. Josh has options to speed things up or slow it down, and he knows that. Josh certainly has a better understanding of exactly what Dylan has been up to than he did. The weird part is that Dylan’s brain feels really good now too, very pleasant, and becoming more pleasant as he merely thinks about where his body is confined.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Josh is still feeling apprehensive, but he also realizes that he is beginning to kick back and enjoy some sensations that he had never before realized were there. To further complicate matters for Josh, part of what has made this all so interesting for him is having Dylan right there, “coaching” Josh and offering suggestions on what to do and try next. Josh doesn’t quite know what to make of all of this. All Josh knows is that whatever is going on with him is too much pure fun to stop, at least for now. And, to Dylan’scredit, Dylan doesn’t seem at all put off by all of this. Indeed, Dylan seems to have discovered what Josh has been up to is, well, interesting.

All of this, of course, has absolutely nothing to do with gay sex. For Dylan and Josh, they are simply two college freshman who have found unique ways both to enjoy themselves and the company of each other. This is all pretty simple really. No risks, no relationships that need to be unraveled when they don’t work out the way a guy hopes. It’s a streamlined way of looking at, and to a certain degree, enjoying life at its fullest. Why should that be an issue or a problem with anyone.

Indeed, what could possibly be wrong with any guy enjoying himself, either alone, or in the company of another, male or female? This is obviously something a guy would want to do in private, but a college dorm room fulfills that requirement pretty well. Neither Josh nor Dylan might want to admit to anyone else what they are messing around with. But then, what is the difference between Dylan and Josh’s situation versus what Bill and Joe were doing? Dylan got to see that pretty close too, and what he didn’t actually observe first hand he could have pretty well figured out just by carefully observing their behaviors. So what, for goodness sakes!

Josh is still feeling more than a little apprehensive, however. He has never tried anything like this before. Just getting his penis positioned in the pouch was an interesting puzzle, but things got even more interesting when Josh discovered that he needed to place his balls inside the pouch as well, and the only way to do that was to reach under the thong, and pull the lower part of the pouch away from his body. The pouch snapped back to his body once Josh realized that, and suddenly the sensitivity of the area just behind his balls, the so-called perineum area, became apparent. Then there was the matter of getting the elastic thong back cinched between his glutes, and area Josh did not think was going to be arousing, but it was.

Dylan, of course, had already figured this out, at least most of it. Dylan knew where Josh’s most sensitive spots would likely be, and Dylan somehow wanted to make certain that Josh found out as well. Dylan also knew that given the situation that Josh was in, it was going to be quite difficult for Josh to keep getting more erect. Maybe not that rapidly, but just a steady pressure from all the different things that were going on with Josh’s body.

Part of this is an empirical experiment, so to speak. Dylan did not actually know if Dylan’s body was going to respond in the same ways that Josh’s body had done. Dylan was actually quite curious about this. Male penises are unique and individualized. Still there are several things that likely apply for most guys. One of these is that flaccid, a penis feels not much different from any other skin-covered body part. Rubbing a flaccid penis can be mainly boring. But is a guy gets an erection, even a modest partial one, things can start to change, and often quickly. The sensitivity of the penis nerve endings seems to proceed exponentially as the erection proceeds, and hard penises when stroked or rubbed are a whole lot more fun than soft, flaccid penises. Every guy realizes this, at least to a degree.

But was Josh as sensitive in the perineum area as Dylan found himself to be? Does getting a thong back cinched up between his glutes affect Josh to the degree it affected Dylan? Dylan was curious about all of this,…very curious. If this all works the same way for Josh as it does for Dylan, then much the same might hold for guys everywhere, or at least that is what Dylan is thinking.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Truth is, Dylan has quickly gotten into this new role of coaching Josh and helping Josh to better understand how his body works better than he had planned. Dylan is quickly discovering that Josh is not only learning things that Dylan has only recently learned about himself, but that Josh seems to be enjoying the entire process of being coached and told about various things he can try on and to himself.

In many ways, this entire sequence of events is unique, Dylan is thinking. Surely, younger teen boys in high school or junior high surely do not form pairs and then advise each other on specific, enjoyable self-pleasuring techniques. They wouldn’t dare do something like this in high school even if they wanted to. There is too much danger of being found out and then teased or bullied for being gay or at minimum a disturbed male masturbator. The rules in high school were definite and unbreakable…the only possible way a guy could admit that he was a human being with sexual thoughts and feelings was in the presence of a girl, and better if the girl was quite attractive and much sought after. The rest of this stuff, like the stuff Dylan and Josh have been exploring, was either off limits or simply not there. Guys don’t have these other feelings. Solo sex is certainly a third-rate and normally deeply-hidden activity compared with the real thing, meaning sex with a girl. MOST guys probably enter college thinking that this is how it is, and this is how it always will be.

Or is it? There is lots of stuff going on here. Complicated stuff. Stuff that seems to defy easy explanation. First, Josh has discovered that despite his initial apprehension and deep uncertainty over the whole idea, deep down he does not object to having Dylan in the room and watching him as he gets aroused while first getting into and then wearing the little thong. Granted, this was quite a shift relative to anything he did in the presence of another guy in high school or junior high, but heck, he is now a young adult.

Dylan is learning about himself at the same time. Initially, Dylan wondered if wearing the thong would have the same impact on Josh’s brain and body as it does on Dylan. Dylan quickly found out that in that regard.

In going from puberty at age 11 or 12 to young adulthood at age 18, every guy develops a set of things he enjoys doing in self pleasuring, and as time progresses these things tend to get more elaborate but also more and more fun. The specifics of what is involved here tend to vary depending on the individual. Oftentimes what works is as unique to the individual as a fingerprint, and what I might enjoy doing to myself. There is the standard stuff, in the olden days the porn magazines with the naked women, or, nowadays porn videos. All of this is considered at least somewhat socially acceptable among guys that age, as the focus is not on the guy pleasuring himself, but on the naked women, which the guy dutifully watches while stroking himself to orgasm. As solo sex goes, this one is at least marginally acceptable.

The clothing items used in conjunction with self pleasuring, however, fall into different categories. A guy might steel female panties from a college dorm room. That is considered OK behavior from a sexual perspective even though it is theft. The female might even be a bit turned on if she somehow now knows that it is her guy who has her panties. Merely fondling the panties, even fondling the panties while getting an erection

Buy if the guy dons the purloined panties, and worse, then masturbates into them to an orgasm, he is thought to have a psychosexual problem of one sort or another. Perhaps he is a cross-dresser who gets aroused by wearing women’s clothing, or perhaps he likes to act out being a woman, in which case he might at minimum be a bisexual who enjoys dressing up in woman’s clothing and then watching another guy masturbate. Who knows, but donning the panties crossed a line of sorts.

Dylan and Josh are off in a completely different space, however. Dylan doesn’t have a collection of women’s clothing items in his dresser drawer, but a collection of items made for men. Dylan’s fascination is with how these items make his own body look and feel. The sensations are fun, way fun, and unlike anything Dylan got to try when he was still in high school.

Granted however, the pair of men’s thong underwear that Dylan lent Josh pushes the envelope in this regard, in that thong underwear is more commonly worn by women than by men. The men’s version is designed to fit the male body, with more room for the male anatomy in the pouch.

Still, Josh does not seem to be concerned about this other than what might be considered to be a natural curiosity about whether or not his body parts will fit, and if, so, how the underwear will look and feel on his body. This could be a bit brutal, so to speak.

Guys often have difficulty dealing with situations where they realize that their male anatomy is about to be confronted with a clothing item that is likely to fit really snug around their male body parts. This is all quite normal, as guys generally realize that their male body parts become more active even as nerves become more sensitive if they are surrounded by anything that fits snug and tight. Worse, the mere thought of soon having to wear something that falls into this category can quickly lead to arousal and the start of an erection. To a certain degree, every guy knows this. Every guy is very fond of the sensations and feelings that almost invariable happen in such a situation, but at the same time terrified that “something embarrassing” will happen in the presence of my male peers, something awful that I will be teased and bullied about for the rest of my school days.

Male clothing items that most often create these situations often involve some time of athletic activity, typically activities where the guy is already apprehensive about being able to accomplish what it is he will be called upon to do. Particularly terrifying items include athletic supporters (jock straps) with or without cups and brief-style swimwear, but can also include things like compression shorts and jammers. Apparently, young males in some high schools are apprehensive about wearing singlets for high school wrestling, and some schools are making an effort to allow students to wrestle in less snug-fitting garb.

Dylan would have been apprehensive about being required to wear any of these items in high school as well, in large measure because he was uncertain as to how his male body parts would respond to the new situation. But now in college, Dylan now has a drawer full of these very items, the items that he would have been apprehensive and uncertain about getting into when he was in high school. Further, instead trying to avoid getting aroused, he is actively using each item in an effort to get at least semi-aroused, not to avoid getting aroused.

Even more interestingly, Dylan’s roommate Josh is figuring this all out too. The thong is not the first or only clothing item Dylan will “lend” to Josh. Dylan thinks that is more than a little interesting to see how Josh’s body is responding to the situation at hand. On the other hand, Josh had concluded that it is actually fun to have Dylan standing there and coaching him on what his body should expect and what to do next. Is that somehow gay? Who knows? Who even cares?

At this point, Josh is aroused, semi-erect, and precumming ooze at the tip of his penis, and this gradually growing spots of wetness is quite visible on the pouch of the thong. Dylan is still fully clothed What Josh doesn’t know, at least not yet, is that Dylan has peen precumming as well, and Dylan can discern that too.

What next? Perhaps Dylan should slip into something “more comfortable”.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Josh is clearly enjoying himself in his “predicament”, very much, and Dylan realizes this. All of this is getting aroused as well, as Josh keeps asking Dylan to provide him with more detailed instructions with respect to what to try next.

It’s really funny how all of this works sometimes. Dylan is fully clothed, in his tee shirt and jeans, even as he watches Josh struggle in the little thong. Dylan quickly decides that perhaps he is just a touch overdressed for the occasion. Maybe Dylan would be better if he were under a bit more tension and pressure too. So Dylan starts to think about the other items still in the dresser drawer. His mind wanders to the jock strap with the cup, the compression tee and shorts. He quickly strips his jeans and tee off and crawls into the strap, slipping on the cup. Josh’s mind is at least somewhat occupied, and he pays little attention to what Dylan is doing. The strap fits snug, and the cup presses down hard on Dylan’s penis. Dylan realizes that he is feeling very good. He quickly pulls on the Tesla® compression shorts and tee. The shorts ensure that the strap and cup will be held very tightly against Dylan’s groin.

So there is Dylan, penis gripped tightly by a snug-fitting strap and cup, made even less bearable by the compression shorts bearing down on his anatomy, watching Josh cope with the realities of the situation he is in, and on occasion, moaning softly.

“When can I get off, Dylan? I’m getting desperate to blow.” Says Josh. That was frank, for sure.

“Not quite yet, Josh! Not yet!” says Dylan.

As Dylan says this it suddenly dawns on Dylan that his penis is growing inside the cup, and he can now feel the physical sensation of the cup bearing down and making its presence known on three sides of his penis. Dylan isn’t very far from blowing, either. Both Dylan and Josh are way off in another place and time, entirely, maybe somewhere in which time and place do not exist at all.

Suddenly, there is a firm knock at the door. Dylan goes to answer the door. Josh quickly grabs a towel to cover his anatomy (the thong). It’s Bill and Joe, all decked out in their compression gear.

“Joe and I want to go to the gym.” Says Bill Do you and Josh want to join us?

“Well, I guess I could go, But Josh just got out of the shower”, says Dylan.

Dylan, of course, is lying about Josh.

“I’ll tell you what, Josh, let me loan you my green wrestling singlet, and you will be all set to go too.

“OK”: says Josh, “I need to get some exercise.”

So, keep in mind that Josh is still wearing the thong, and the plan is to quickly pull on the green wrestling singlet by using the towel to disguise what Josh will be wearing underneath.

Keep in mind also that both Dylan and Josh were getting really horny and close to blowing when Bill and Joe knocked on the door to invite them along. The unrelieved tensions that both were experiencing at that moment have not exactly gone away.

This could get interesting….

[sebbie]

Dylan removes his forest green wrestling singlet from the drawer and tosses it over to Josh, who by now has grabbed a dorm room towel to cover his groin area so Bill and Joe will not be able to see that he was wearing only an underwear thong and was, well, shall we say, at least somewhat erect. Josh in something of a slight of hand feat, quickly pulls the singlet up to his waist and into his groin area, and drops the towel. At this point, Josh’s chest is still bare but that is not a big issue. Josh grabs one of his own heather gray tee shirts from his own drawer, and slips that on over his naked chest. After that the singlet arm straps to go up over his shoulders.

Getting everything positioned correctly is not that easy to do. Wrestling singlets, by design, are made to fit really snug not only in the waist and groin area but even over the shoulders. This is complicated by the fact that Josh is wearing the underwear thong underneath, a thong that is pushing his male anatomy front and forward. For Josh to get the singlet straps over his shoulders, he discovers that he must pull the singlet really tight into his groin area. The snugger he can make the singlet fit in the groin area, the easier it is to get the singlet shoulder straps in the proper position.

But the fact that Josh has the thong on underneath makes this all more complicated, in that by pulling the singlet into his groin, the thong wants to cinch itself up even snugger and tighter between his buttocks. Josh had thought that he was taking about as much pressure as both his mind and body could tolerate from the elastic band of the rear of the thong cutting between his buttocks, but this was worse, much worse. Or were the sensations better, much better, with both the thong and the singlet grabbing at his butt the way they were. Josh couldn’t quite decide. That’s the dilemma sometimes. This could be nearly painful, or may fun, depending on a guy’s mindset and how he approaches the situation at hand.

Josh finally gets the shoulder straps in place so they are not twisted and takes a look at himself in the mirror clad in the heather tee shirt and the forest green singlet. Josh thinks he looks like a 120 pound high-school wrestler. He does notice one thing about his appearance, however. The thong is pushing his penis outward to the point where he has quite a little bump on the point where his penis tip is inside the singlet. Not only is there a visible bump, but Josh can see in the mirror that the pre cum he was oozing inside the thong pouch has actually made its way not only to the outside of the thong, but through the forest green nylon-Lycra® material of the singlet, now forming what appears to be a dime-sized spot of gooey wetness on the outside of the singlet right where his penis tip is.

Josh is somewhat apprehensive about this, but he hopes that Bill, Joe and Dylan will not notice what happened, of if they do notice, they will not say anything. Josh thins that perhaps the ooze will dry by the time he gets though the couple block walk to the gym. Maybe his penis will recede a bit as well, but for now, Josh just needs to get through the moment at hand.

Dylan, Bill and Joe all three are clad in compression gear top and bottom, but separate tees and shorts. Given the snug fit, it is easy to see that the other guys are all wearing straps not thongs underneath the compression gear. Each of them is also sporting a bulge in the groin, but it’s shaped somewhat differently from how Josh appears. It quickly becomes apparent that the other three of them are not only wearing straps but also hard cups under the compression gear.

It suddenly dawns on Josh that hard cups are useful for reasons other than protecting a guy’s genitalia. If you are wearing a strap with a hard cup, if you ooze a little pre cum, no one will be able to see that, because it will likely be totally contained within the strap and cup. But in Josh’s situation, just a little ooze and he has a big damp spot right in an “incriminating” location. Josh thinks that maybe the guys who wear cups more or less routinely even when they are not engaged in sport have a good idea for this reason, alone.

Of course, Bill, Joe and Dylan are wearing their cups not because they want to make sure that no one else can see it if they start to ooze, but for a very different reason entirely. This is the one Josh doesn’t quite know about, at least not yet. All three of them have discovered that it can be, well, quite “enjoyable” to get a bit of a hard-on inside a cup, with the cup bearing down and fitting snug against the groin. A properly-sized cup leaves almost no room for expansion, and a guy’s penis quickly “knows” when the available space is limited.

This is tricky stuff. It is difficult if not impossible for most guys to get to the point where they get enough of an erection inside the cup that would lead to a full scale orgasm while still being inside the cup. Still, a lot of the interesting sensations from all the penis nerves “knowing” that the cup confines the space are usually there, and these sensations can be, and often are quite enjoyable. Certainly enjoyable enough to make an otherwise boring gym workout move along quite quickly.

Bill, Joe and Dylan have figured all of this out. If you want to do an otherwise boring workout and make it move along quickly, wear a strap and cup even though whatever it is you are doing doesn’t necessarily call for that. Josh is learning. So, it’s off to the gym for the four of them!

To be continued…

[dm106]

Very interesting, can't wait to see what happens!

[SWIMJIM2]

Hope the wait for new chapter isn't toooo long!!!!

[Swimmboy]

Interesting start to this story. Hoping for the next chapter soon.

[sebbie]

gonna have to wait..traveling next few weeks

[sebbie]

[One more before i leave on my trip]

Of the four of them, Josh is probably the one who is in the most difficult situation right now. Everyone but Bill and Joe know that only a moment ago, before the knock on the door, Josh was playing with himself, inside that little Desmiit® Thong, and having a pretty good time of it all, feeling sensations that he had never before felt, at least not quite in the ways they were happening today.

Most guys more-or-less know what it is like to get interrupted in a situation like this in the middle of it all. As a guy’s rod gets longer and stiffer, the sensations going to the brain pick up seemingly in an exponential fashion. It’s a “high” of sorts, not a drug-related high but a sexual high. A guy’s mind in such a situation tends to focus laser-like on the exact things he is doing to himself and what he is feeling. Coming down from a situation like this becomes a bit of a trick.

To further complicate matters, Dylan has just tossed Josh Dylan’s forest green wrestling singlet, admonishing him to wear it for the gym. That seems innocuous enough on the surface, I guess, but Josh has never before had the “opportunity to wear a wrestling singlet. Now, wrestling singlets are not the easiest clothing items to get into. A properly-fitting wrestling singlet needs to fit almost like a second skin. After all, it wouldn’t work well if a wrestling opponent could get a firm grip on the cloth making up the singlet. The cloth itself is really smooth. Shoulder straps are not very long either, and getting into the singlet usually requires that the guy pull the lower part up into the crotch—in Josh’s case a crotch covered with an equally snug-fitting thong.

So Josh struggles at first getting himself into the singlet, pulling it up as tight as he can into the crotch. By doing that, he is just barely able to get the shoulder straps both over his shoulders, but with difficulty. Josh glances at himself in the little dorm room mirror, and can see that his penis in an up and forward position is clearly visible as an interesting little “lump.”

Josh surreptitiously looks over First at Joe, then at Bill and Dylan. He notices that all three of them have interesting bulges in their groin areas as well. Of course, the other three guys are wearing straps and cups under their outer gear, which, well, makes the shape somewhat different from what Josh is “showing.” Still, the other three guys are certainly not “flat” in the groin area either, and somehow that comforts Josh, if only a little.

Guys, particularly college-age guys like Josh and Dylan, always have an interesting relationship with their penises. Guys grow up essentially being very “scared” of inadvertently getting into a situation where their penises start to perhaps unexpectedly start to grow on them. This is one of the oddest things about being a guy—that is, the whole idea of how something that could potentially be so embarrassing can at the same time be so much fun. The “kick” guys get from touching and rubbing an even partially erect penis is all but indescribably enjoyable. It’s not only the physical sensation but but an emotional high of sorts as well. And, the really weird part is that this often is a great deal of fun even if a guy is not in the presence of a sexual partner, male or female.

None of the four here, Bill, Joe, Dylan or Josh, are admitting to being sexually interested in other guys, as in having a gay or even bisexual side. All four of them are just figuring out ways of obtaining sexual sensations without having to deal openly at least, with the complexities of a sexual partner, male of female. Still, all four of them have managed to get themselves into a place where they are at least a little bit interested in what the other guys are dealing with here, each in his own particular way.

Think about it for a moment. What college age guy would not be interested in seeing how other college age guys his age cope with situations in which an arousal and erection might occur? This is the deepest, darkest secret for guys who are still in high school. The public profile high school guys (straight or even gay) have is all about eroticism relating to females, not what other guys might be struggling with as individuals, but this is different, way different.

At some level, Dylan understands what Josh is struggling with here, and is fascinated with seeing exactly how Josh “copes” with something that has gotten, well, pretty intense to say the least. Of course, Dylan was “messing” with Josh by tossing him the forest green singlet, and in effect, ordering him to put that on over the thong. Dylan secretly realizes he is putting Josh in a very difficult spot, so to speak, but he is fascinated with how Josh’s mind and body will respond in this new situation.

Dylan, of course, has created a situation of his own by putting the strap and cup on under the snug-fitting Tesla gear. But remember, Dylan “learned” what he knows from Bill and Joe, who are similarly clad. Dylan wonders not only how Josh is dealing with his own situation, but how Bill and Joe are “coping” with the situation at hand as well.

But, for now, everyone is off to the gym, wearing what they are wearing. Will the gym workout make things better, or worse for the four of them. I guess that actually depends on how you define the term “better” or worse. But one thing is for certain. The situation that each of the four have gotten themselves into is “interesting”.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

A lot of guys (women too) believe that relationships and sex are inextricably intertwined. What were the words in the old tune “you can’t have one without the other!”? Wait, the tune referred to love and marriage, not relationships and sex as such. That tune was written a very long time ago, when people weren’t nearly as open in talking about sex. So everything was cast in the framework of love and marriage, rather than relationships and sex and how the two ideas were intertwined.

Let me reset the scene for my readers, not that anyone who has been reading this has gotten lost in the sequence of events that got the group of guys to the point they are right now. Four 19-year old college freshmen, none actively involved in what one would call a relationship with a female, or a male for that matter. The four guys are Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh.

College guys often soon discover that the “rules” that applied with respect to a lot of stuff, involving sex or not, that seemed rigid during much of high school, now suddenly seem much looser and easier. Many guys now seem just a bit more open to revealing to each other some stuff that they might have never dared discuss when they were still in high school. For example, in high school, if a guy were to even admit that on occasion he had “fun” with his penis not in the presence of a female partner but on his own, he was in real danger of being socially ostracized, teased and even bullied for the remainder of his high school days.

This is really pretty silly, if you stop and think about it. Every guy was doing “it”, probably quite frequently but if at all possibly, surreptitiously, either under the “cover” of darkness or in a time and place where no one else was around (infrequent, at that age). Since puberty, doing “it” had become a very important if not essential part of a guy’s daily life, yet no one dared say a thing about “what was going on.” This all seems crazy in many respects, but that is the way it was back then.

[Your author, being “well past” his own high school (and college) days, sometimes wonders whether if I could be transported back to the same place and time for a day or two, whether there would be any changes in the old “rules” about all of this and if so, in what ways, but that is not possible unless someone invents a reverse time machine.]

A related problem or issue is that the vast majority of females understand all but nothing about the possibility that a guy could experience sexual feelings and pleasure in the absence of a female partner (or perhaps in this day and age perhaps increasing acceptance of the idea that the partner could be another male). Moms, being largely ignorant of all of this themselves, generally teach their daughters that they as young women are the sole way guys get sexual pleasure.

But guys all know that the “habits” learned at a very young age are often very difficult to break, even as guys enter into relationships with partners. This all comes to a “head” when the female, being studiously taught by their mothers that guys get sexual pleasure only by “interacting” with a female partner, accidently “discovers” her boyfriend engaging in solo sex, say, in the bathroom. The guy is just continuing within the part of himself he always thought was really great fun. The poor guy then has to quickly dream up some “lame” excuse for what he was “up” to so as to not create a confrontation with his woman, who is now sobbing uncontrollably upon discovering that the guy who she thought was her loving partner does not “behave” in exactly the way her mother told her he would and sometimes occasionally (often) seeks out sexual pleasure “on his own”. The horror of it all!

To be continued....

[sebbie]

What does this all have to do with Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh? It turns out, a lot. College freshmen are oftentimes packed two-to-a-room in very modest spaces, say in older double dorm rooms measuring maybe 12 x 15 ft, with small twin beds on either side of the room or perhaps a double over and under bunk bed. Further, there are still many older dorms around where the bathroom is a large room with multiple sinks, stalls, urinals and showers. Sometimes the stalls do not even have doors on them. It’s not quite navy submarine living conditions, but close.

When I first saw this, practically the first thing that crossed my mind was where I was going to be able to continue to masturbate, given that there seemed to be no privacy whatsoever. Worse, many college roommates end up being housed with another male who is a complete stranger at the start of the school year. Something has to give. The roommates have to somehow adapt their personal habits to the situation that they are in. The secrecy that applied in high school about all this stuff simply isn’t going to work under these new conditions and situations. The biggest question, of course, is “if my roommate discovers that I like to masturbate, will my roommate think that I am gay? The roommates both have the same question, of course which makes this all even more interesting.

Bill and Joe both confronted these issues head on, and adapted, fairly quickly as it turns out. In the process they got to do some stuff that they had never dared do before, stuff that did not involve a relationship with a partner as such, but was still really really fun. You can go back and reread exactly what they did and why it was so much fun.

Then Dylan got pulled into this. Since puberty, Dylan had always loved getting aroused in and masturbating to orgasm in snug-fitting clothing. He had also spent a lot of time in his young life figuring out ways to hide this from his parents, siblings and fellow high school students. He has actually been working on this puzzle since the 6th or 7th grade, and had gotten pretty good at it, as most guys somehow do.

But how he dealt with is at home was not going to work in the double dorm roommate situation. Josh would quickly figure this all out. But, was Josh somehow struggling with the same or very similar issues. Turns out, he was.

So, at this point, we have four guys heading off to the gym, ostensibly to work out. But all four of them are “horny as hell” and “feeling the vibe” immensely., three of them, Bill, Joe and Dylan, are wearing really snug fitting compression gear, top and bottom, Dylan his new Tesla® stuff. But it is also clear that the three of them are wearing jock straps and cups, each containing the respective penises and pressing snuggly against their respective groins. Each of them can feel the tension building as their respective penises enlarge just a bit and pressing against the walls of the cups. Part of this is physical, but part psychological. Under this circumstance, glistening clear droplets of pre cum form at the tip of the penis, and collects inside the cup creating an expanding damp area.

Josh, meanwhile, has his own issues. He is still wearing that little thong he was wearing when he was playing with himself up to when Bill and Joe popped into the room. His effort to get off inside the thong was interrupted at that point, and then he needed to pull on something over himself quickly, which is when Dylan tossed Josh his forest green wrestling singlet.

So, the four of them are off to the gym, ostensibly to work out but each more than curious about how the others will deal with the situation each is in, and whether they each will end up at some point blowing. Turns out, it is not that easy to shoot while you are still clad in a strap and a snug-fitting cup, You will often keep feeling hornier and hornier as the psychological and physical pressure builds along with the dampness from the precum, but you might not be able to shoot unless you are somehow able to get your fingers under the cup to provide a few final last strokes. How long the guys can stay at this level of horniness as they also try to work out at the gym remains to be seen.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

I’m certain all of you are following the story line at this point. Four 19-year old college Freshmen, Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh. As life often is, for guys that age, all four of them are feeling quite horny. But, a lot of what is going on for each of them, both physical and mental, has been brought on specifically by things that each of them is doing to himself.

At this point, the more “experienced” Bill and Joe are the “old hands” in this regard. Bill and Joe both discovered an assortment of ways that each of them could enjoy themselves in ways that they had never before experienced. Now this is not a subject that normally comes up among males of any age, even 19-year old college guys. Of course, every 19-year old goes through recurring “moments’ often frequently, where he feels stuff going on “down there” that draws “attention” to the groin area. At age 19, guys are still on the “learning curve” as to exactly how to do with these sensations and feelings, part driven by physical sensations but intermingled with thoughts of various sorts. In this regard, Bill and Joe are not that far “ahead” of Dylan and Josh. This is all complicated stuff, really complicated.

At some level, nearly every guy thinks that the only “socially acceptable” way to have these thoughts and feelings are in the company of a female about his own age. But, as any 19-year-old guy has learned, “stuff’ happens. Complicated stuff. Interesting stuff. Stuff that is almost not to be believed.

Wet dreams, are, of course, very much a part of all of this. Every guy has grown up with the experience of having wet dreams, often frequent wet dreams. These are the dreams that have some sort of a theme related to sex in some form, dreams that seem to happen spontaneously. Sometimes the dream involves a connection with a female, but often not. Guys often tend to get scared when a dream of this sort goes down another, different, trail.

One interesting possibility is a trail that involves a sexual interaction with another guy, even an innocuous one. For example, what happens if a guy has a wet dream in which he is masturbating while another guy is clearly there watching him enjoy himself? What if the fellow who has the wet dream wakes up and he is ejaculating? What does a dream like THAT mean, for goodness sakes? A guy can maintain a sexual orientation in the conscious daytime, but dreams have no bounds in that regard. If the dream wants to go in a direction the conscious mind might not, there are no real bounds here. All sorts of stuff can and does happen.

A second interesting possibility is called the “shopping trip” dream. These dreams tend to highlight various items of snug-fitting clothing that a guy might think could lead to arousal, erection and perhaps an orgasm. The particular items involved probably include some pieces of clothing that the guy THINKS might do this to him, but, for whatever reason, the guy does not owned and has not tried. Examples include items such as particularly snug fitting jeans, snug-fitting swimming briefs, or maybe a wrestling singlet or a jock strap with or without a cup. Male “reactions” of this sort to items such as these are likely very common, but this is not something guys would normally admit to having for sure.

In one version of this wet dream, the guy has embarked on a trip to a department or sporting goods store at a big shopping mall. As the dream progresses, the guy chooses the clothing items from the various racks, but is persuaded to “try them on” in the store’s dressing/changing room. Panic ensues when the guy gets into the dressing room and discovers he has an “out of control erection”. Moments later, he ejaculates all over the item he needs to take up to the checkout counter to buy. Then the tricky part becomes paying for the item at the checkout counter without having the checkout lady “discover” what has just happened.

A variation on this dream is the one involving a coach, a locker room, and a group of male peers engaged in the same sport. The predicament here is that coach is requiring all the guys to wear a particular item that guys have never worn before, an item that just happens to fit very snuggly in the groin area. What item? Well, a racing-style swim brief is the “classic example here, but there are other possibilities as well. Traditional “jock straps” make a lot of guys nervous because of the way they fit in the groin area, with or without a cup. But Wrestling singlets are pretty good at having the same effect on young guys (as Josh is finding out). In this version of the wet dream, a guy wakes up to a visual in which he is ejaculating in front of his same-aged male peers in the locker room—a most embarrassing situation. Of course, when the guy wakes up he is ejaculating in the privacy of his own bed. The guy again does not know whether what happened in the dream indicates that he is gay or not.

But these examples are common for younger guys, not college-age adults. Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh are older, 19-years old, and think that at least to a certain degree are able to control their own bodies, as in believing that somehow now they can determine when they will or will not ejaculate with their minds. To that degree, in walking to the gym, they are “messing” with their own ability to engage in “ejaculatory control”. Not perfect, in this regard, but certainly better than they were able to do when they were younger.

Part of the complexity of developing ejaculatory control for young adult males involves experimentation with respect to exactly what the guy’s body can or cannot “tolerate” without going off. And this involves setting up situations that are successively more and more difficult in which to cope.

The four college freshmen are certainly on that path today. They are discovering sensitivities that they did not fully appreciate that they had, as well as learning how to develop better bodily control over what is happening to them. Three of them, Bill, Joe and Dylan, are each wearing jocks, cups and compression gear. The three of them, by careful observation of the others, have pretty much figured this all out. Jock straps with cups tend to do interesting things in a guy’s groin area. The pressures are only magnified when the jock and cup is held firmly by the compression gear. Each guy will respond to the situation at hand in his own way. There is the purely psychological pressure of having one’s penis and balls contained inside the cup, and this happens whether or not there is a physical sensation bearing down by trap and the walls of the cup.

But, of course, some of the sensation can (and frequently does) quickly turn physical. Penises have remarkable ways of knowing when they are inside of something. Penises “like” being contained in confined spaces. Any guy has discovered this. What begins are purely psychological quickly becomes physical. The penis grows, even a little, and begins to press on the walls of the cup. The guy quickly realizes that some fun things are starting to happen without even touching himself.

This, of course, changes, almost moment-by-moment. Any sort of movement at this stage adds to the complexity at all, say walking to the gym. The cup is not just staying in one position, but lightly brushing against the now increasingly sensitive penis nerve endings. Aaaaaahhhh. The walk to the gym. Each step is, well, most interesting.

Meanwhile, Josh, not wearing a jock and cup but male thong underwear, and a wrestling singlet, is undergoing a somewhat different, although equally interesting experience in the walk to the gym. The thong pouch is containing Josh’s penis and balls, even as the thong back cuts snuggly between Josh’s glutes. These sensations alone are quite enjoyable. But Josh also has Dylan’s wrestling singlet over it all, a singlet that only fits right if it fits snug. Getting the shoulder straps in position involves some effort, because in order the do this the guy needs to pull the singlet up firmly into the groin area, a groin area already under some considerable pressure from the thong, which is pushing the guy’s penis and balls upward and forward under the singlet. Josh is undergoing his own Ahhhhh moment for sure. Will Josh’s clear pre cum show right through the front of the singlet as he walks to the gym? Let’s wait and see.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh are deep into beginning to understand some things about being male that are way interesting, if seldom discussed by anyone. These discoveries relate directly to how guys work as human beings, body and mind. This is complicated stuff we are dealing with here, and not easily or readily understood.

Around puberty, nearly every guy learns that touching his penis can provide some interesting sensations that are enjoyable to experience at a very deep level. Most guys have at that stage have little if any understanding with respect to what exactly is going on in their minds and bodies, except to say that they realize in some vague way that what they are experiencing is somehow related to relationships and sex. Beyond that, these are merely pleasant feelings to be appreciated and enjoyed.

Soon, a guy learns that the sensations become more exciting if the guy is even a little erect, and all of this leads to masturbation experiments of various sorts. Guys spend a lot of time agonizing over all of this. Am I normal? Can or should I tell anyone about what I am doing? Weighty questions like that. These questions quickly evolve into embarrassment in varying degrees in particular because the other guys my age seem to behave as if what is happening to me should only happen in the presence of a female about my age. But here I am having these really sweet, sensational feelings all alone, with luck, in privacy.

So most guys quickly develop a series of schemes that allow them to enjoy themselves without making anyone aware of what is going on, not their parents, and certainly not siblings or friends. But life is becoming more complex, way more complex, in a host of different ways. Guys wander around terrified that they are going to get an erection, or worse, a full-scale orgasm in an inopportune time or place, an inopportune time or place being any instance where someone else is around. This primal fear strikes total terror for most guys this age. They know they aren’t old enough to deal with the implications of having sex with a female, yet these feeling and emotions keep bombarding them.

Somehow, most guys somehow do survive their high school years, but if survey data are to be believed the majority of high school students have not had partner sex with anyone, either male or female.

So what of Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh? As my readers have probably figured out by now, the four of them are college freshman who have not as yet had partner sex with anyone else, either. Still, the fact that they are all a little older does not mean that their bodies aren’t still being bombarded with sexual feelings of various sorts. To be sure, most guys by that age, including our four here, probably discovered some time ago that there are situations where these sexual feelings can emerge in situations whereby a sexual partner is not present.

Guys often have what I would call a “love-hate” relationship with snug-fitting articles of clothing. Most guys probably discover at a quite early age that certain items of clothing can quickly lead to sexual sensations. This, of course, varies from one guy to the next, and for whatever reason some guys seem to be able to “handle” snug-fitting clothing items with fewer “issues” than others. Or so they claim. Some guys like to claim that they only get turned on in the presence of a female partner, and what am I am saying here is not applicable to them.

Still, think about this. Did you get sexually aroused at all the first time you were put into a situation where you would be wearing what appeared to be a too small swim brief? (A snug fit is essential to swim well!), a jock strap with or without a cup? Snug-fitting compression gear? A wrestling singlet? Thong underwear designed to be worn by males? Really snug fitting jeans that fit tight in the groin and buttocks? Not every guy might “respond" to all of these items, but is there something on this list that both terrifies you but at the same time turns you on? Are you going to avoid the item or items, or seek them out as secret-and-safe sources of pleasure?

This is interesting to think about for sure. Would most males be able to somehow “handle’ any of these items without any sort of sexual “response”? Or are the males who claim that they can deal with all of this without any response at all simply lying to their peers?

So now we have Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh walking to the school gym, with each trying to act as if nothing more is going on inside their 19-year old minds and bodies. Each guy is wearing stuff that at some level he finds to be arousing. That alone is interesting. But each guy is also fully aware of the situation each of the other guys is in as well in this regard. Clad in the gear I am wearing, how do I feel about seeing the three other guys I am walking with “suffering” as I am “suffering”? Are the other guys experiencing the same things my own body is experiencing right now. As one of the guys, I’m more or less climbing the walls. I’m obviously not ejaculating, but I am precumming profusely under my gear.

Given that Bill, Joe, and Dylan are all wearing straps with cups, they should be able to continue to pre cum without any external indication. But what of Josh? If Josh is precumming too, isn’t it just a matter of time before he starts to ooze right through the forest green singlet? How will Josh deal with that for goodness sake?

And what does this all have to do with the sexuality of each of the guys? Precumming inside a cup or a thong is great fun, enjoyable and sometimes even exciting? But isn’t part of the psychological fun the implicit knowledge that there are three other guys with you who are likely enjoying the exact same thing you are enjoying? The fact that males are present when all of this is happening is now part of the pleasure, not something to be feared and avoided. Or so it seems? But does that also mean that the four of them perhaps[s aren’t as straight as they once thought they were, despite each of them having no direct sexual contact with any of the others.

Interesting questions all, but tough questions too, to try and answer, really tough questions to deal with. These are not the kinds of questions answered in books written on human sexuality for sure.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

It’s hard to describe in only words what is going on in the minds and bodies of the four college freshmen, Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh, but things have certainly changed since high-school days. Throughout high school (and before) guys develop elaborate techniques for concealing but still engaging in self-pleasuring. Part of this involves developing methods for ensuring that they can bring themselves to orgasm in a hurry in an effort to limit opportunities for detection. Further, even admitting any interest in self-pleasuring is something off limits, for fear of being teased, bullied, or accused of being gay.

Somehow, however, all these carefully-developed “rules" are rapidly disappearing. For guys the age of the four college students, this is, well, to put it mildly, an interesting development to be sure.

Here is what is new and different. The four guys thought they had learned all there was to know about self pleasuring based on “experiments” run before they got to college. The “big payoff” was orgasm, and the goal was to get to that point as quickly as possible in an attempt to avoid detection. Further, guys would go to great lengths to try and avoid any situation that might lead to something embarrassing happening in a non-private situation.

This quickly gets complicated for guys. Guys rapidly learn that the only socially accepted place to have an erection is in privacy with a female partner, but of course, that is not quite how male bodies work. Guys quickly discover that there can be many instances where erections just seem to happen spontaneously, for no apparent reason whatsoever. And then there are situations guys encounter whereby something specific occurs not with a partner that can do the same thing.

For many teenage males who want to participate in swimming as a sport, this may be merely the thought of being clad in a skimpy team-required swimming brief. Some guys go into full-scale panic on this one, as in what happens if I get an erection inside the brief and all the people watching me swim at the pool sees that. Or worse, How would I ever deal with a full-blown orgasm in such a situation like this? Holy terror for sure.

And snug-fitting jammers are little better in this respect. A properly-fitting jammer too reveals a lot about the shape of the male anatomy at any moment, and an erection or orgasm would be every bit as obvious.

Then there are the jock straps, cups, compression gear and wrestling singlets. All scary in their own way.

But still, nearly every guy loves to pleasure himself. By age 19, self-pleasuring has become almost an addiction of sorts, if a “safe” and “harmless” one. Few if any guys have not discovered this by age 19.

So what is new for our college students now? Well, the whole idea that guys might actually seek out specific garments that they know will lead to arousal and erection, indeed the very items that would have been terrifying in their high school days for the reasons I have outlined above. When Bill, Joe and Dylan made that Amazon® order many chapters ago, they all knew exactly what they were seeking to do, even if they did not make any overt statements. The whole idea was to find the specific items that they thought each of their bodies would be most “sensitive’ to wearing.

For guys to even get together and do this as a group of three represents a significant change. As high school students, none of them would have had the courage to do this as a group, even though they all understood as individuals what they were doing and why they were doing it. To admit this openly would have undoubtedly subjected themselves to the potential of being teased, bullied, called gay, or worse.

Penises are interesting organs. Guys touch their penises every day, and wear clothing that touches their penises every day, and nothing in the arousal or erection department happens. So why does arousal and erection happen under certain circumstances? What is it about the situation at hand that makes this happen under some circumstances but not others? What is is about specific items of clothing that seem to affect some males more than others in this regard?

Those are not easy questions to answer, not at all. The fit of the clothing? Snug and tight works “better” (or worse, depending on your perspective at the moment) than loose and floppy? (That would explain the fascination many guys have with wearing the smallest and slickest swim brief they can find!) The feel of the material (slick and stretchy works best)? The psychological experience of putting one’s penis into what is clearly a confined space? A space that is obviously not big enough to contain a full-blown erection. That would explain why some guys “fear” jock cups, but then suddenly decide that it is really fun to be contained inside of one. The mere possibility that a guy could be in a situation wearing one or more of these items is a potential turn-on for many guys.

The other complicating factor here ts that the four college students are wearing items such as these in the presence of each other, while maintaining the appearance that they are just going to the gym to engage in gym workouts of various sorts. Yet, none of our four college guys are brain-dead. Even if they do not know for certain that their friends are stuck in the same psychosexual box, surely each of them suspects that. And this is the part that gets really dicey and complicated. It’s fun to try these ideas on your own and see how your body responds to the situation at hand. But this fun is surely magnified if you are with other guys who you know are doing the same things to each of their own bodies. Is this something of a gay response? That is a fascinating question too, and one that I will not attempt to answer right now.

For our four guys, we are deep into precum time. Enjoy the oozing!

To be continued….

[swim suit eddie]

I have a college age friend who like going to the gym an swimming at our men's health club. One day as he arrived at the gym with me, he had a call from his doctor to please come the office for updating important medical information and records. He decided to go to see the doctor and asked me to go with him. I agreed, as he was thinking this was just an important update for his insurance. He was still wearing his favorite snug blue singlet under jeans with French lycra briefs. After a short time in the waiting room he was called in by the nurse, when told he would have to take a full medical examination. Soon the doctor(female) entered the exam room and apologized for the last minute call up. Before the doctor left, she said he will have to completely undressed, when he said to me his outfit was getting him hard underneath, now feeling a lot of anxiety, he was feeling somewhat embarrassed being naked with a woman doctor, but glad I was there with him. The nurse now returned with a large gown for him and said she would help him out of his snug sports attire. While I sat in the seat in the exam room and him sitting on the exam table, the nurse partially closed the large privacy curtain and I could now see what would happen with him. He took off his jeans and shirt, then handed them to me. He was in only the tight blue singlet that revealed all his assets including his full erection . The nurse gave him a big smile, telling him not to be embarrassed having an erection, as she readied the various medical equipment for his unscheduled physical exam. The nurse told him he had to completely undressed, as he blushed. He asked me to help him get ready. The nurse left the room as I lowered the shoulder straps on his clinging singlet, slowly peeling it down and seeing how hard he was underneath. He would act like a little boy squirming, trying to cover his well outlined hard on and began enjoying having stripped it off. I kept my composer and liked getting his firm college age body naked in such a different situation. I was getting hard too and glad I was still in my tight Speedo. Once I got his upper torso bare, I hoped the nurse would come back to take his blood pressure and weight, but she didn't, so I said he should finish stripping it off, but he still wanted me take it off, so I began unsnuging both the still clinging singlet and tight French briefs underneath. He was certainly very excited feeling the two layers of lycra slowly slip free from his hard penis. I was having some fun with him too, while turning him around a few times, then bending him over with his now freed up erection bouncing and pointing upward. Fortunately he didn't ejaculate, but had a lot of pre cum in his singlet. It was a bit time consuming, yet very enjoyable for both of us, as his all of his lower assets were freed and exposed. He was finally naked with me freeing his ankles and feet from both the tangled singlet and French briefs. Soon the nurse returned to the exam room while he was putting the gown on and I left the exam area with his singlet and undies. The doctor then entered the examination room finishing finishing his physical exam. it was somewhat a time consuming examination for him and later said he wished he had gone to the Health club instead and so did I, but was glad to have been there getting him out of his snug blue singlet and briefs. I was happy helping him get through his medical plight

[sebbie]

:-) swimsuit Eddie you need to pull your chapters together into a separate series of posts so people can read them in sequence. This is easy to do. Just a series of copies and pastes.

[sebbie]

It’s strange as to how the male anatomy works, but also very interesting. Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh are learning things about themselves that they have never explored before. Sexual arousal works in strange and wonderful ways, but especially sexual arousal in which another person is not specifically involved.

I suppose that some guys might argue that what I am talking about here is unimportant relative to the “real thing” of sex involving a partner. Yet, even here there is much to be discovered and savored. Sexual arousal is a lot of fun even in instances where a sexual partner is not involved. The many Internet videos showing guys engaging in solo sex attest to that. An interesting question is what is really going on inside the heads of guys who not only engage in solo sex, but who also are willing to put the experience up on an Internet video for all to see. But notice that in most of these videos, the face is discretely hidden. This probably goes back to the old idea that guys who admit to engaging in masturbation are at least to a degree embarrassed by that fact, as in masturbation is not to be confused with real, partner sex.

Any guy who admits to enjoying solo sex risks a very real possibility of being teased and bullied, or worse. An admission like this is even more dangerous if a young woman finds out. Young women are generally taught by their moms that the female is the sole source of pleasure for men, and that is the end of the subject. If a guy is caught engaging in solo sex then somehow the female is inadequate in playing her role.

But young males at a very early age develop masturbation habits that are frequently all but impossible to simply discard even in a relationship. Any guy in a relationship ends up dealing with these old habits in his own way, some more successfully than others.

The situation Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh find themselves in, wearing clothing that in various ways fits snug enough to almost certainly lead to arousal, is slightly different. I suppose a psychologist would argue that each of them to a degree has a sexual fetish for snug-fitting athletic clothing. By calling this interest a fetish allows psychologists to label what the four of them are doing right now as something of a psychosexual abnormality. Not a dangerous abnormality, but becoming of concern particularly if the interest in the clothing limits a guy’s interest and interaction with a potential sexual partner.

The same “experts” who up until they early 1970s labeled being gay as a psychological abnormality, now are content to label any sexual activity that doesn’t involve a partner as somehow abnormal or at minimum, clinging inappropriately to adolescence.

That seems really unfair to guys. Sometimes guys just want to enjoy themselves without getting into the complexities of a partner relationship of any sort. As a consequence, the activities are generally harmless fun, if on occasion a bit embarrassing when discovered.

That is what makes the situation Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh find themselves in today as they walk to the gym clad in their gear. Nothing is said, but it is quite clear to each of them what the others are doing and why they are doing it. This is a shared experience, an experience they would have never dared participate in only a few years ago.

So it goes.

To be continued…..

[sebbie]

Wrestling singlets similar to the Forest Green asics® one Josh is wearing pose some interesting issues for guys. Think about this for a moment. A wrestling singlet is designed for a specific purpose: That is, to provide a garment for wrestling another guy. Think about the requirements for that sport. The last thing a wrestler would want to wear for wrestling would be something loose-fitting that would provide a place for the opponent to get a firm grip on you in any place. Smooth and slick Lycra® based or similar fabrics fit this requirement well.

But it is not only the fabric, but also the fit. Wrestling singlets have to conform to the body exactly, and again particularly not be oversized in any place, and, of course, be one-piece not two piece, as any break at the waist would give the opponent a piece of cloth to grab onto. A properly-designed wrestling singlet has to fit really tight and snug, with shoulder straps that just barely are long enough to fit over the shoulders, and front chest coverage that fits nearly to the neck in order to not create another place where the opponent could get a grip in a match.

For guys, this poses something of a dilemma, because the properly fitting shoulder straps do not have enough stretch to them to create another possible grip point. If the guy is going to successfully get into the singlet, in order for the shoulder straps to be in a proper position the singlet has to be pulled up into the crotch and groin area to ease getting into the shoulder straps.

No doubt, many guys find all these necessary gyrations just to get into the wrestling garment more than a little “stimulating,” and that poses yet another dilemma for guys. The dilemma of course is “what happens if I get even a semi-erection as I am getting into this. The issue becomes harder to deal with by the fact that once a guy is in a singlet, for better or worse, his male body parts are where they are. The front of the singlet fits high to the chest. Guy’s are used to making “adjustments” to their male equipment once a snug-fitting garment is in place, but given how the singlet fits, there is no path to being able to do this without taking off the entire garment. So the poor guy’s male body parts are stuck in whatever position they happen to be in once the garment is tugged into place and the shoulder straps have been pulled into position.

Of course, this also is linked to what the guy is wearing around his male body parts before the singlet gets tugged into place. An old school jock strap would seem to make some sense here, with or without a cup. Wearing nothing at all underneath could set up a physically dangerous situation if the opponent decides to surreptitiously grab onto a male body part momentarily away from the view of the referee. A strap without a cup may make this a bit less painful, but adequate protection really calls for a protective cup. But that idea of packing yourself into a strap and cup and then pulling the singlet over poses its own issues. Interesting issues to be sure. Pleasant? Unpleasant? A guy won’t know until he tries the combination.

But now, think about Josh and the dilemma he is currently in. Keep in mind he is wearing that Desmiit® thong underwear underneath the singlet that he quickly got into thong that provides minimal room for key male body parts, especially for any expansion. The singlet went on over, and the Desmitt® thong ended up going wherever it wanted to go. Worse, Josh faces the dilemma of having to sustain the situation he is in with the key parts of the thong wherever it ended up once the singlet straps got in place. Here is hoping that his penis and balls somehow still remain inside the thong pouch, a pouch that is pushing his male body parts upward and forward, which must be creating an interesting bulge on the front of the singlet. The rear of the thong is now really cinching up in Josh’s crack as well, with no way to adjust here either. And Josh is now going to attempt to exercise at the gym wearing this stuff?

What a dilemma! Interesting? Sure! Painful? Possibly! Fun? Well, that remains to be seen. I keep thinking it would certainly be fun to be in Josh’s “shoes” right now given the “issues” he now faces. No wait: in Josh’s SINGLET right now. The pump has certainly been “primed” for Josh, and Josh knows that too! Josh is precumming, and a quarter-sized damp spot has already formed on the front of the singlet. Maybe no one will notice, Josh thinks.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Bill and Joe have, at least to a degree, become “expert” at making the most from each of their bodies with the assistance of various items of snug-fitting clothing. At least, they are farther along a learning curve on how exactly to do this, and what works or doesn’t work for them than Dylan and Josh are.

The basic idea Bill and Joe are employing is an interesting one, and one that probably doesn’t even occur to take advantage of by most guys their age. Every guy spends considerable time and energy learning the nuances of how to self-pleasure (masturbate) using a variety of techniques. But, for an assortment of reasons, guys mainly learn how to masturbate with the whole idea of getting off as quickly as possible. In this brave world, quicker is better. And quicker means not getting to savor all those wonderful moments that occur “along the journey” that leads to orgasm so to speak.

The sad part about all of this is that once guys get to the point where they are having sex with a partner, they bring what they think are skills in knowing how to get off in a hurry right into the relationship. Pick up almost any book or sex manual that attempts to help couples have a better sexual relationship, and there will be a large quantity of material related to the male problem called “premature ejaculation” and how males can learn specific techniques for remaining aroused but delaying orgasm as long as possible. Sex therapists have made entire careers around this particular sexual problem.

The basic psychosexual problem is that once a guy gets aroused, he somehow believes that he must then proceed to orgasm, and worse, that the quicker he is able to do that, somehow, the “more of a male” he is. This is silly, of course, and the “Slow Hand” song ‘subtly deals with all of this as a male sexual problem. The whole idea being to slow down and enjoy the moments along the journey as opposed to getting to the destination as quickly as possible.

The situation Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh currently are in has some parallels to all of this. The complicating part about all of this is that they are four guys, not two heterosexual couples. Still, they are dealing with the same sensations and urges that affect relationships between couples. The four of them at this point certainly know that because of what each of them are wearing that the others must be at least somewhat aroused. Does that knowledge contribute to making the entire situation at hand more erotic for each of them, and perhaps even somewhat “gay?” That is a very interesting question. Does nearly every guy get aroused by knowing that he is with one (or more) other guys who is in the same situation, or is that only part of what would make a guy a gay male?

So, what are Bill and Joe doing to themselves that is putting both of them into a state of at least mild arousal? Both are wearing straps with cups under their compression gear. Not big, floppy straps with oversized cups, but small, snug-fitting straps with cups small enough to only fit well if they are completely flaccid. These are the very kinds of gym wear that used to terrify them when they were, say 14 years old.

Back then, many of the guys used to cope with the situation they were facing by not putting the strap and cup over their completely nude body, but instead first put on a snug-fitting pair of FOTL briefs and then put the strap and cup on over. The FOTL brief, especially if undersized (the pair you grew out of two years ago still in the back of your dresser drawer). The cotton briefs helps to keep the penis from migrating into the pouch and cup of the strap and in particularly getting semi aroused with the penis brushing firmly against the walls of the cup. A useful approach if you are 14 years old.

But Bill and Joe are no longer 14 but 19 years old, and are interested in trying some stuff they would not have dared try some years earlier. In this respect, male thong underwear worn under a cup and strap can make for a lot more interesting sensations than the old FOTL idea in that the thong fit requires the penis (and balls to be positioned inside the pouch. The thong generally puts a lot of tension on a guy’s perineum area as well, and this can feel quite erotic on its own. The thong will tend to push a guy’s male body parts upward and forward. If worn under a strap and cup, the thong will tend to push the penis right into the cup with three sides of the penis quickly pressing against the hard walls of the cup. Just thinking about what is happening here can be quite erotic and fun, a combination of physical sensations and psychological pressures all working at the same time.

The strap itself provides a snug fit, and will make almost no movement to accommodate an erection. But then, by putting the compression shorts over, they help hold everything in place such that the room to grow is minimal. So, the thongs feel good in that they are pressing up on the guy just behind his balls. The penis is being pushed upward and forward so that it is coming in contact directly with the walls of the cup. The guy is gradually getting harder but the room to grow is quite limited. He reaches down and strokes the exterior walls of the cup with the palm of his hand, and maybe surreptitiously attempts to move the cup away from his body for a moment in an attempt to get some “relief” from the situation. Maybe just a moment or two of some extra penis space.

This quickly backfires, however because once the cup snaps back into position, the penis has taken advantage of the situation by becoming just a bit bigger. Think snugger and tighter fit in a situation that was already quite snug and tight.

Bill has to know that what Joe is struggling with all of this. Joe has to know what Bill is struggling with. And the whole idea is that clad in this gear the four of them are headed off to the gym to exercise. Maybe the gym will take their minds off of what they are wearing. Maybe not.

And what of Dylan’s situation? Dylan is not wearing a thong under his cup and strap, but rather he put on that little Desmiit® swim brief with the strap and cup as well. Dylan’s mind and body are in a dilemma too, but it is a little different from the ones Bill and Joe are in.

The three of them attempt to make the situation more bearable by trying to adjust the position of their cups, but this only seems to make matters worse, not better.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh are off to the gym, a city block or so away from the dorm where they are living. Each guy is a little different in how each copes with the situation at hand which is creating sexual tension, and as a consequence, the techniques each guy employs to cope will not all be the same.

Two of the guys, Bill and Joe, are wearing snug-fitting thongs under their straps and cups. These thongs tend to hold the penis firmly in place and pressed against the inside of the strap pouch and cup. This is fine so long as the guy can avoid getting into an erection mode while all of this is going on, but that is not the easiest thing to avoid under the circumstance. Somehow, the penis seems to “know” that there are walls of the plastic up nearby, and it seeks to “respond” accordingly.

Just walking to the gym under such a circumstance can cause issues, because as the guy walks, the strap ouch and cup will want to slide back and forth with each step the guy takes. This can quickly get, well, interesting, particularly if the guy attempts to provide a moment of relief by attempting to move the cup into a slightly different position, a technique that almost never works as intended.

Dylan is wearing a swim brief under his jock and cup. That may seem at first to be a “saner” choice than what Bill and Joe are wearing. The problem for Dylan is that the slick smooth feel of the swim brief cinched snuggly near his penis presents its own set of issues given that the cup will still be sliding rhythmically back and forth as Dylan walks along the street. A little different from what Bill and Joe are experiencing, but no less interesting, for sure.

Then there is Josh, the “newcomer” to all of this, wearing just the thong and Dylan’s borrowed Forest Green wrestling singlet. Josh’s basic problem is that he is still wary of how his body will respond to wearing the thong. He can feel that pressure of the thong on his perineum, an area of his body that he never before quite realized was sexually active as it appears to be. What seemed at first to be almost painful is quickly morphing into something quite enjoyable. This is a body-AND-brain kind of thing. The body responds to all of this by precumming, but with the thong holding Josh’s penis forward and up, the tip is pressed against the singlet. Any precum Josh oozes is going to quickly make itself known on the front of the singlet, right where the penis tip is. This is already happening, and Josh is hoping the other guys won’t notice. The precum the other guys are oozing is, at least for now, safely “contained” within their respective jock cups. Josh now realizes that perhaps one reason why athletes still wear cups is to hide such discharges in public settings. Swimmers who get this way wearing little briefs tend to hop into the water quickly in an effort to hide the evidence, so to speak.

Somehow the four of them manage to all make it to the gym, precumming notwithstanding, and they start to check out the exercise equipment available. The college rowing team uses this gym for indoor practice, and there are several first class stationary rowing machines there in a long row, just down from the series of stationary bikes and treadmills. There is also a smaller indoor pool, not a pool really designed for a competitive swimmer, but a smaller, short lap and water exercise one. Of the four, Dylan, by removing his compression gear along with his strap and cup, the only one dressed to take a swim. Dylan is drawn to this option.

Bill and Joe, meanwhile, are drawn to the stationary bikes, secretly thinking that they would like to see how their cups and thongs would do under the relentless pressure of the cyclical movement of the cycle, not to mention the issue of how the back of the thong copes with the pressure from the bike seat at the same time. Bill and Joe in their compression gear actually look the part of a cyclist in training, and Josh in the singlet looks the part of a rower in training. So, all is well for now at least.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

On their first encounters with a jock strap containing a cup, most guys are probably even more than apprehensive. This in part because of the fear nearly every guy has about getting his gonads into a snug-fitting place. By the time guys get the age of the four college students, I suppose that most guys have had the opportunity to find ways to cope with and perhaps even overcome these fears that seem often to be all but overwhelming at a younger age.

Bill, Joe, Dylan and even Josh, are absolutely no different than any other guy their age. Growing up, guys often seem interested in wearing very loose-fitting, not snug-fitting clothing, probably out of fear that something embarrassing could happen if they approached the problem at hand in any other way. The idea of going “juicy” in such a circumstance is too unbearable to even contemplate in this regard.

But for the four of them, things are suddenly becoming more and more complicated. In the case of the three wearing the straps and cups, this is especially true, whether the strap and cup is over a thong (Bill and Joe) or over a swimming brief, like Dylan is wearing.

To be effective “protection” a strap and cup should fit closely around the genitalia, but this creates other issues that need to be confronted. For starters, a snug-fitting cup will almost certainly make its presence known to the guy, often in what seems to be uncomfortable if not almost painful ways.

Then there is the practical problem of space needed versus space available. A guy never knows for sure exactly how much space his body is going to need in any particular situation, and certainly not a situation whereby a snug-fitting cup is playing a significant role in what is happening. The guy usually thinks that too much space must be preferable to too little space, and it’s the limited space circumstances that will be most problematic.

Oddly enough, the penis seems to somehow “sense” how much space is available and make appropriate adjustments such that the available space is not overwhelmed. Still, penises love to play little games in this regard on guys, making use of the available space to the absolute maximum. Under the circumstance at hand, guys frequently find this all uncomfortable, at least initially, if not downright painful to endure. But strangely enough, what initially seems at least less than satisfactory abruptly morphs into something completely different, something that provides sensations which can only be described as exquisite.

So now we have the four of them at the gym and making their initial selections as to which gym machine each of them they are going to try first. Since the gym is also the place where the college rowing team does indoor workouts, Josh is immediately drawn to one of those stationary machines. I should mention here that the combination of a wrestling singlet along with a thong underneath makes for very good rowing attire, Josh is wearing is very similar to the once the college rowing team wears. What is going to happen to the thong underneath in the strenuous back and forth movement accompanying each rowing stroke should be most interesting. Josh is enthusiastic, but at the same time somewhat apprehensive about the situation he will be facing.

Dylan, meanwhile, hops on one of the big treadmills. Dylan is going to be doing a back-and-forth motion both slow and fast, and Dylan wonders how what he is wearing is going to accommodate the movement—the swim brief, but also the strap and cup. Dylan has been eyeing the little swimming pol as well, and he is the only one who could quickly be dressed for a swim

Bill and Joe are headed to the stationary bikes. That amounts to a different kind of back-and-forth movement. Bill and Joe know that it will be all but impossible to make the cyclical bicycle motion while wearing the straps, cups, thongs and compression gear without having some sensations resonate throughout their bodies, but that was part of the plan all along for the two of them. They both knew this was going to be tricky but possibly really fun and the uncertainty about how their bodies are going to cope with the situation they are about to pursue is part of what makes the experiment worth pursuing.

So the four of them are beginning their respective exercise regimens, each a bit apprehensive, but curious.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

To be sure, Josh has never before ridden a stationary rowing machine. This is an all-new experience for him, and one that he will not likely soon forget. Clad in the forest green asics singlet “on loan” from Dylan, Josh looks the part of a college rower. Of course, he doesn’t yet have the muscles of a competitive college rower, but that is where the machine comes in.

Stationary rowing is an interesting exercise in all sorts of different ways. The college rowing team looks at stationary rowing as simply a way to build strength and muscle in the absence of being able to actually get out on the water and participate in an intercollegiate sport. As exercises go, rowing, either on a machine or on the water, has a lot top recommend it. Much like swimming in this regard, it is a full-body workout, capable of building both strength and stamina. And, for the indoor rowers, you don’t need water or a pool in order to get a good workout.

There are Web site devoted to comparing various forms of exercise and their benefits to the athlete-participant. Swimming is very good, of course, on a variety of different levels, but so is rowing, stationary or on the water. Each form of exercise yields particular benefits. Distance runners tend to burn a lot of fat and end up with very low Body Mass Indices (BMI). But distance running is tough on the feet, ankles, and even sometimes leading to stress cracks near the ball of the hip. Cyclists tend to develop huge quadriceps, but cycling, being largely an exercise done with the legs, does little to build upper body strength. Swimmers develop both the upper and the lower body. But for building a triangular chest and upper body, rowing is really tough to beat. The combining of strength-building and aerobic exercise is tough to beat. And rowing in general will not damage your feet or ankles like running can.

Is there a down side or caution to rowing as an exercise? The biggest problem is that rowers starting out frequently end up injuring their lower backs? Why? Largely because they have not yet built up enough shoulder strength and musculature, and, as a consequence, they start by making the resistance too strong. (guys have a tendency to do that in any sport involving strength, and this is a bug problem/issue for young weight lifters.). What happens is what should be handled by a guy’s shoulder muscles ends up getting transferred to the lower back.

Worse, in order to cope with the resistance, the guy just starting out will often bend backward in the lower back, putting stress on lower back muscles. The poor guy will wander around for three days bent over with severe lower back pain and unable to stand straight. Fortunately, the pain usually subsides in about 3 days.

The solution to avoiding this is to use only light resistance when you start to row, and to not make each stroke equivalent to lifting too much weight. Then, with lighter resistance, Josh can work on getting his form down, in particular, not pulling each stroke using the muscles of his lower back. If you have to use your lower back muscles with each stroke, you have the resistance set up too high.

Deep down, guys like to go for any exercise that involves repetitive back-and-forth strokes, ans stationary rowing is made to order for this. It helps also to wear clothing that stretches and moves with you on each stroke. The wrestling singlet that Josh is wearing is a near ideal garment for stationary rowing.

Of course, Josh has not forgotten the little Desmiit® thong he is wearing UNDER the singlet. That felt good from the moment he first put it on. Josh is becoming accustomed to the feel of the thong back cinching securely between his glutes, and the feel of his penis and balls being securely contained within the pouch. The upward pressure on his perineum which is pushing vital organs upward and forward just adds to the sensations he is experiencing. This is then combined with the repetitive strokes of the rowing machine. Josh thought this all might be boring, but the entire experience is turning out to be anything but boring.

Now Josh is neither really big nor really hard. He is just far enough along such that each stroke of the rowing machine is just a bit more “interesting” than the last one. What fun! One of the secrets to not getting bored engaging in any exercise is to make sure that you are at least a little horny while you are doing it. Josh is in that situation right now for sure.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Ahhhhh that’s tight! Bill and Joe, the more knowledgeable of the four of them, have been having a grand time just walking to the gym. Bill and Joe have had considerably more “experience” than either Josh or Dylan, and, as a consequence, are at least a little more “confident” with respect to how their bodies are going to respond to the situation that they are in. Of course, Bill and Joe have “shared” these experiences before.

The situation for both Bill and Joe is still quite interesting, given how the two of them are clad in layers. The layers start with a snug-fitting men’s thong underwear, in itself something of a challenge to wear because of the various sensations that are created, as the thong at the same time pushes a guy’s male parts both upward and forward. The straps and cups Bill and Joe bought fit just perfectly in that they are ideally sized to just fit over their male body parts, flaccid, and contained within the pouch of the thong layer.

Of course, what makes this all so interesting is that the portion of the guy’s anatomy contained within the pouch and cup somehow “know” that the space inside the cup is going to be very limited, giving little if any “room for growth.” A lot of guys have a series problem just getting into a situation like this whereby psychologically they know that the available space for expansion is going to be quite limited. Some guys think this situation is positively scary, and want no part of being in a situation like this.

Bill and Joe, however, have benefited for their past experiences. What seemed to be more than a little scary the first time they tried it has now morphed into something quite enjoyable if not exiting to experience.

For Bill and Joe, the top layer of all of this is a pair of snug-fitting compression shorts, shorts that are going to keep the strap and cup in close contact with the groin area no matter how they move. Bill and Joe have been here before…snug-fitting thong, snugger-fitting jock strap and cup, compression shorts holding everything firmly in place. Arousal, even a slight arousal, tends to snug everything up a little more. Perhaps uncomfortable at first, the penis somehow knows that it is in a situation it “wants” to be in.

Bill knows that Joe is in the same situation. Joe knows what Bill is undergoing as well, and this, far from being a concern, seems to add to the sensations. Both of them somehow “know” that their penises are liking the situation that they are in.

Now add the exercise equipment, keeping in mind that Bill and Joe are both about to ride a stationary exercise bicycle clad this way. What is going to happen? That’s the part that is unpredictable.

Now both on the guys realize that they are likely not going to go into a full blown orgasm while clad this way. But bicycle riding requires repetitive leg movements. Movements that are likely to repeatedly cause the cup to slide back and forth with each stroke or turn of the cycle. This could be, well, painful, or nearly so. Or the cyclical movement could turn out to be quite enjoyable as their confined bodies “adapt” to the repeated motions of the cycles.

Whatever happens in a situation like this, happens, and it is for Bill and Joe to determine whether the situation they face is enjoyable or not. Clearly, the time on the stationary bikes is going to pass more quickly than would have been the case had both of them simply worn loose-fitting cotton gym shorts.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Some of you by now may think I have completely forgotten about Dylan, the fourth member of the group. And Dylan has been rather quiet and things of various sorts have been going on around him. The funny thing is that it is sometimes the quietest guy who ends up enjoying himself the most, even if the others around him do not for whatever reason do not fully understand or appreciate all of this.

To be sure, Dylan is a sweet guy, and it is not in his character to be loud or obnoxious or say or do things that other guys might find objectionable. Just because Dylan is at the gym does not mean that he has suddenly changed, personality wise or otherwise.

Those of you who have followed Dylan in this story can perhaps relate to how quiet-and-sweet Dylan thinks and feels. At least since puberty, Dylan has always been very fond of his own body and in particular how it feels. Growing up in his family with very little privacy and the feeling that he needed to always be the “good” kid did have its issues however. You see, Dylan has always had these “hang-ups” relating to snug-fitting clothing of various sorts, hang-ups that he felt that he could never be able to reveal to anyone else around him, male or female. Getting into and then wearing snug-fitting clothing of many different kinds always made Dylan somehow feel good inside, but it was the type of goodness that Dylan thought he would never be able to share with anyone else of either sex.

Now Dylan is in college, and gradually Dylan has discovered that he could be a little more open with respect to his innermost thoughts and interests when with at least some of his male friends than he ever thought he might have been when he was younger. The really odd thing is that Dylan has discovered that for at least three of his male friends, his gym buddies, the friends seem to not find what Dylan likes to be strange or even a bit odd at all. Dylan is still concerned that his inner thoughts and feelings might be the ramifications of a “gay streak”, but, if that is the case, then maybe Dylan’s three buddies also suffer from the same or a very similar “problem.”

Somehow, Dylan knows that his friends Josh, Bill and Joe are doing ome stuff they would not be doing if they didn’t share some of Dylan’s thoughts and interests. This is weighty stuff, tho, and perhaps should not be dug into too deeply.

So, where is Dylan right now? We have left Dylan clad in several items each of which in its own way are making sweet sensations and feelings. Dylan has always loved slick feeling swim briefs, and the snugger and skimpier the better. Dylan never dared reveal that to his parents or siblings, let alone his male friends in high school. So no one really knew that, and the possibilities for purchasing such a garment were also very limited. But now, in College, he was freer to do what he wants in this regard. Dylan loves the fact that his groin area is neatly contained in his little Desmiit® swimming brief, snugger, skimpier and tighter fitting than anything he has ever gotten the opportunity to wear before. Dylan’s penis and balls just feel good in that environment. What a sweet place for a guy to be!

The other items Dylan is wearing only add to the sweet sensations. It’s the mix that works so well: The feel of his penis inside the swim brief: The feel of the jock and cup bearing down on his slickly-encased penis. And, of course the compression shorts that are holding everything securely in place.

Dylan really wants top get hard. Psychologically, he knows that. Yet the fit of the various items constrains his ability to grow. His penis seens to sense what is around it, and why a full-scale hard-on might not be the best thing under the circumstances. Still, Dylan is feeling pretty good right now. He is with his buds who must be somehow attempting do deal with very similar thoughts and issues. He is wearing the articles of clothing he could only dream about (and he did have dreams containing them) when he was younger.

What to do? Why hop on the treadmill and start running. Maybe the exercise will divert his mind from thinking about his male body parts so much. Or, maybe the exercise will simply add to the fun or possible make matters worse, depending on what your mindset might be.

So, sweet Dylan, filled with sweet thoughts, is off for a run on the treadmill. While wondering whether his buds at the gym are having to deal with something similar. These are moments to be savored, regardless of what might be going on. Complicated stuff for sure. But stuff not to be missed, either.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

In case there are any readers who have not yet fully grasped this, what the four of them—Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh are doing is running experiments to see how much pressure, both physical and psychological, each of them can tolerate before being overwhelmed by the urge to ejaculate right now. I suppose that the typical guy would engage in such an experiment with the involvement of a girl friend or female partner. While such an experiment might be, well, interesting, there are numerous issues with all of this, starting with the issue of whether or not there is a female friend out there somewhere who is sufficiently attracted to you to be a willing participant in such an experiment.

For college freshmen, there are all sorts of complicated issues with this. You don’t just go out and verbalize with any girl you might meet or perhaps even be attracted to that you are in need of running an experiment aimed at determine how much psychological and sexual pressure you might be able to tolerate without immediately ejaculating in her lap (or “wherever”). I suppose girls think about guys and their feelings and what is going on in their heads, but what they think they understand about guys in this regard is usually way off from reality. A lot of girls think they learned stuff like this from their mothers—as in that guys see females as the single source of sexual pleasure and that any guy who appears to enjoy solo sex (aka masturbation) is a social outcast who would be avoided as a potential partner. That was part of what mama taught you about guys. After all, that is how it works with the girl’s father, or is it. There are sometimes deep secrets hidden inside marriages bubbling up just under he surface that no one ever verbalizes. One of these being “dad likes to masturbate whenever he gets the chance of doing so without being discovered”. But, if that is true, then maybe male sexuality is a whole lot more complicated than mama realized.

Most mothers raising sons gradually learn that guys past puberty (and maybe before) not only can but do masturbate, and perhaps a lot. Sometimes they end up in situations where they get caught, and that can prove quite embarrassing not only for the guy, but for whoever discovers him, not to mention the issues that occur when the discoverer is a male peer. So as guys get a little older, the quick masturbation becomes the usual method to limit the chance of discovery by family members or peers.

But now, here we have four guys, Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh, who are not only doing things to themselves that make them aroused and horny, but they have basically admitted to each other that is really what is motivating them right now. That situation is, well, interesting. At an earlier age, they would be too embarrassed to admit to someone else their age irrespective of gender that they were actually experimenting with schemes that feel good let alone keeping hidden a collection of clothing that is helpful with the task at hand. This gets complicated in part because the guys are essentially admitting to each other that this is the case even though each of them probably knew this as individuals already. It’s just that once in college, things are a little more flexible in this regard than was the case when they lived at home.

The fact that each of the guys are engaging in this in the presence of three other guys is in itself interesting. To illustrate, a guy would not dare tell a girlfriend that he really gets turned on just getting into and wearing a snug-fitting swim brief. Such a girlfriend would have to be really open-minded if a guy were going to try to be truthful here. But, for whatever reason, admitting this to a group of three other college-age guys seems somehow less daunting than explaining this to the female partner thing.

The only unanswered question is whether or not the behavior of the four guys in being more open with admitting to each other what they are really up to represents some sort of gay behavior. In particular, what role does the knowledge that there are three other guys with you who are doing the same thing to their bodies and struggling in much the same manner psychologically with all of the fun tensions and sensations play in the overall level of sexual excitement for each individual? Is this group masturbation in some strange form? And, if so, is this somehow a gay activity since only other peer males are involved?

I suppose that one response might be just for guys having fun with themselves and with each other. This is less about gay sex than it is about just another form male bonding. Now males bond in all sorts of ways, usually involving shared activities they all enjoy. One way of looking at what is going on here is that it is just four college freshmen getting involved in an exercise program at the school gym. Whatever else might be happening or not, is kept hidden for now.

But, psychological and physical pressures have been building for each of them for some time now. No one can deny that. As the various exercise routines progress, all four of them are probably feeling horniier and hornier, and the focus of their attention increasingly is placed on the sensations and feelings, which seem to not only vary, but get more and more intense almost moment–by-moment.

How long can each of the guys tolerate the situation he is in, and what happens after they get back to the dorm?

To be continued….

[sebbie]

The experiences that Josh, Bill, Joe and Dylan are having right now represent really interesting places for each of them to be in on a host of different fronts. An interesting question to pose is whether or not nearly all guys, if given the opportunity, would long to be in the situation each of the guys now finds himself to be in.

This thought begs the larger question—the question that looms over this entire series of chapters and stories like some giant elephant. That question, of course, is how any guy their age might respond (or not, ha ha) if the same opportunity faced by the four guys were available to them. This is not an easy question to try and answer, but is certainly a question worth posing and discussing here. I hope my readers understand exactly what I am trying to say here without having to provide additional detail. But none of you would be reading this if you did not have an appreciation for what I am suggesting, at least at some level.

In addition to this elephant-sized question, there is a still bigger question that looms large. That question is so big and so general that it can almost be summarized with the question “What is male sexuality all about, anyway?” Heck, maybe we should ask the question “What is human sexuality all about, anyway?”

Now I know that some of my readers see male sexuality as being completely intertwined with the idea of having partner sex. That male sexuality is really all about engaging in physical sex with a partner, straight or gay. Sexual pleasure for two closely connected people is all about getting the most, and giving the most, to the partner. In this world, the partner is the central focus for everything that provides sexual pleasure in the relationship.

In such a world, it is all but impossible to separate sexual pleasure from the idea of a relationship between two people, and all that idea entails, good or, shall I say, difficult. EVERY relationship has its ups and downs, periods of great pleasure sexual and otherwise, and, well, periods where everything didn’t go quite as planned. This is the normal part of being a human being.

But, Josh, Bill, Joe and Dylan have wandered into a crazy but wonderful place whereby they can enjoy themselves in a very special way without having to get into the complexities of a relationship-focused partner sex. For some of my readers, this may seem unbelievable. For others, maybe the larger question is whether ANY 19-year-old college freshman, if so motivated to do so, could find (and enjoy) this special place.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Why has all of this remained hidden and secretive? Why can’t guys simply go to a bookstore (or look on line) and learn what they need to know about all of this? There are an enormous number of myths surrounding all of this, starting with the masturbation myths, going all the way back to early Boy Scout manuals.

1. Masturbation defined as any release of sexual tension that does not involve a partner, is evil, sinful, or worse.
2. Anyone who masturbates is immature automatically lacks basic social skills necessary to find a partner in order to have “real sex”.
3. If a guy masturbates, that’s an indicator that he is gay not straight.
4. Masturbation is something that might be tolerable for guys aged 11-14, but by age 15 he should be getting sexual pleasure from interacting with a partner. It’s all just part of growing up. As a guy gets older, interest in masturbating should dissipate as partner-sex takes over his life. If this does not happen, say, by the time a guy becomes the age of a college freshman, the guy has psychosexual issues and has not “matured” properly. (This myth forces many older teens into relationships they don’t really want or need at that stage in their lives.)


Then there is an equally complicated set of issues that involve sexual tension in part brought on by wearing snug-fitting clothing of various sorts. The so-called sex experts seem to not want to deal with this possibility at all, or if they do, it goes down as part of abnormal psychology in the category “fetish” which is loosely defined as any sexual response to an inanimate object such as a piece of clothing, never mind whether the item comes in contact with the penis or not. The experts seem to want to toss all of this into the same box—that anything that does not directly involve being turned on by a partner is somehow weird, abnormal and sick.

Guys know better, but they generally haven’t told the sex experts about what they are doing to (and for) themselves. In part, they are too embarrassed, given the low opinion most of the sex experts have of guys having sexual pleasure in the absence of a partner. Such an idea can’t be “real” sex, or can it?

This in turn all gets bogged down in the question of what is or is not real sex? “Real” is a synonym for partner? Is oral sex real sex? Must real sex involve a penis being contained by another human being? This all gets really complicated to define.

So, at an early age, guys learn that touching and rubbing their penises induces some very pleasurable sensations, sensations that are great fun so long as the activity can be done without anyone else discovering what they are doing, which is embarrassing and a whole lot more.

Not long after that, many, perhaps most guys learn that there are certain items of snug-fitting clothing that feel really good if they come in contact with their penises. So good, in fact, that they result in stuff happening that the guy was conditioned to think would happen only in the presence of a sexual partner. Psychologically and sexually, this is deep stuff. Guys are not only amazed to discover this, but generally terrified at the same time once they discover this

Generally speaking, any piece of snug-fitting clothing could set this all off, but it helps if the fit is quite snug and the fabric quite smooth.

The classic example here of a garment that does this is the Lycra® blend swim brief. Snug-fitting? Absolutely! Fits especially snug right on the penis? For sure!

But this quickly becomes complicated. I suspect that a lot of guys, maybe most, would like to own a snug-fitting swim brief just to “play around in” but not necessarily to appear in public or swim in, but they don’t know how to pull this off without getting detected as to what they are really up to.

If the guy is 14 years old, the first thing the guy would need to do is explain to his parents why he would want to own such a garment assuming he is not a member of the high school swim team.

Then there is the problem that if he does get to purchase such a garment, what exactly happens to his body as a consequence. For swim team members ‘trying on” swim briefs for the first time in the gym locker room, something terrible might happen—as in an out-of-control erection or worse. This is all uncharted territory. Better to experiment at home first, in front of a mirror, bedroom door closed. But what if it turns out that the guy really likes the brief, and putting it on becomes his favorite way to masturbate? Good luck with that one, for certain.

In my view, most guys have something of a love-hate relationship with skimpy swim briefs. Many guys would like to try wearing one just to see how it feels and how their bodies might respond to the new situation, but they can’t figure out a way to pull this off without embarrassing questions being asked about what they are doing and why.

As guys get older but still single, opportunities increasingly present themselves to try some things, say, as a college freshman, that they thought might be interesting but they didn’t dare attempt before they got to college. A great myth is that most male college freshmen are in a relationship with a female partner involving sex, and that provides everything they “need” in that regard. Nothing could be further from the truth in that regard. Junior or Senior, maybe, but most freshmen are still finding in their way in the relationship department, if at all.

Which brings us back to Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh. The four of them have been experimenting with stuff that has been interesting but does not involve partner sex. A lot of this involves snug-fitting items of clothing in various ways. The twist here is that each of the four of them at some level understands not only what the experiment is and that the others in the group are at some level involved in a very similar experiment.

The four of them have also discovered that nothing each of them is doing is bad or dangerous in any way. The whole idea of enjoying oneself in a special way is a wonderful part of being a guy, and to somehow feel that one needs to keep this as a closely guarded secret is no longer essential.

Do these four guys have a relationship or series of relationships going on under these circumstances? Are the four guys deep down each gay not straight at some level? Or would many if not most guys like to be in the situation each of them is currently experiencing?

All of these are really interesting questions for sure.

To be continued…..

[Lap Counter]

My observation is that many more guys seem to own Speedos than are willing to admit it.

[sebbie]

I suppose that nearly every guy learns at a very early age, shortly after puberty if not before, how wonderful penis are as organs of the male anatomy. Just touching or rubbing the penis can give what seem to be some very strange but also very pleasant sensations. The complicated part of course is the exact linkage between the strange and wonderful sensations and the appearance and size of the penis. Oddly enough, sometimes the strange but wonderful sensations and feelings happen even as the penis seems to be doing nothing at all, size or hardness-wise. At other times, everything seems to be focused on getting bigger and harder to the extent that the other stuff going on gets pushed into the background. What gives here anyway? Is this all normal and commonplace, or is every guy unique? How would any guy go about finding the answer to that question?

Guys are frequently stumped by what is happening to themselves and their bodies. For starters, when a guy gets an unintended erection often at an unexpected and inconvenient time or place and starts to feel pressure in his brain to jerk off, is it a good idea to find a private place, say a stall or a locked bathroom, and relieve himself. Or should the guy simply try as best he can to try to ignore the situation in the fervent hope that the problem will simply go away if he directs his attention to some non-sexual thoughts or intentionally tries to take his mind off the obvious? Younger guys always keep wondering if their male classmates or roommates encounter the same problem but never quite dare ask something that personal.

Snug-fitting clothing of the various kinds I have mentioned in this story add a new and complicated element for a lot of guys. By the time a guy gets to a point in his life where he wants or needs to wear some of these items, he has no doubt already discovered that a. his penis is quite sensitive to touching and rubbing, and b. Smooth and snug fitting (commonly Lycra® blend fabrics merely sliding against the exterior walls of the penis can on their own induce some warm and wonderful sensations. Nearly every guy probably wonders if he is the only guy in the world who has discovered this, or whether it is common for guys to face the same “problem”. On one hand, this is neat, because these clothing items are usually and snug enough to induce some sensations that the guy had previously only felt by overtly rubbing his penis from glans to base.

But this quickly becomes very complicated. If the particular clothing item is a little swim brief or even a pair of snug-fitting jammers, if these sensations are happening basically without any touching at all, what happens if, well, a guy quickly ends up with what be known in slang as a serious boner or hard on? First off, these garments are made to fit snug and tight. Swimmers need minimum drag in the water. Wrestlers need to wear garments that give the opponent minimal opportunity to get a hold, and loose-fitting cloth would work against that for sure. But, that being the case, if a guy gets a boner wearing any of these it is going to be immediately apparent to anyone around, and particularly swimming or wrestling in a public contest in front of a bleacher audience. Worse, what if the boner quickly turns into a giant wet spot of slimy semen dribbling all over the garment swim brief, jammer, wrestling singlet etc.? This does not ordinarily happen in public sport, at least not frequently, which suggests that most guys who wear clothing like this for sport probably fairly quickly get “used” to the feeling or are able to hide their urges, but still.

Then there is the matter of the old school jock straps, aka athletic supporters. A lot of guys are terrified the first time they get into one of these because they have no real clue as to how their anatomy will “react” to being placed in such a confined space. Just the thought of being forced to wear one of these for sports sends many guys into a something of a new situation. The hard protective cup adds a new dilemma for a lot of guys. By the time a guy needs to try this he pretty well knows how big he is both flaccid and fully erect. Some guys assume that the trick is to find a cup big enough to contain the maximum sized anatomy, As in, pick the XL size. But giant cups are not the best for protecting the anatomy. A well fitting cup will be just large enough to contain the guy’s flaccid anatomy. After all, during a contact sport the guy’s mind should be focused on the game not on his own body, anyway. Coaches would certainly think that way.

But that begs the question of what happens if and when a guy’s anatomy gets just big enough to barely fit inside the contained space. The poor guy is not likely to break the hard cup with a still bigger and harder erection. Besides, a lot of guys discover that it is really tough to ejaculate inside a hard cup even if the guy wanted to do this. The cup” protects the penis from being stroked. Still, with the penis gently pressing against the walls of the cup, it is also sending some very pleasant sensations back to the brain. Wearing a snug-fitting strap and cup can be a most enjoyable experience for a lot of guys, even if they are not involved in a sport that specifically requires one. The sensations can be fascinating and fun…maybe an enjoyable way to spend a leisurely afternoon or evening. One could try doing this for an afternoon, and then follow that up with a private masturbation self-pleasuring session to orgasm, for example, as one approach.

I have not forgotten about the four guys Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh, who are now involved in playing with all of this on their own and simply enjoying what is happening to themselves and their bodies. But the four of them have also been having some fun times together. At this point, each of them must know something of what the others have been up to in this regard.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Guys generally see all of this with mixed reactions amazement coupled with a bit of uncertainty, fear and befuddlement. What I have been talking about is not found in college courses dealing with human sexuality nor in any of the commonly seem sex therapist manual. Even studies that claim to have exhaustively analyzed male sexuality in all its forms generally come up short.

Maybe things are simpler then I am making them out to be. Maybe guys past puberty have sexual encounters with females, and this supplies them with the sexual outlet that they need at that point in life. Maybe guys buy the time they reach college age are having sex so regularly with a favorite partner that anything else (commonly known as solo sex) simply gets pushed out of the entire picture, never to again return. Is it really like that?

Maybe guys never pleasure themselves in their cramped dorm rooms, or, if they do, this only happens when it is certain that the roommate has gone home for the weekend. Maybe these subjects never come up between male college students. But guys in their late teens and early 20s sometimes do things that they might not do either earlier in life or later. Is this not just one of the items on the list? Are the rules that apply in this regard the same ones that applied in high school, or are they now more flexible? These are all interesting questions to ponder.

Let’s see, where were we? Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh getting to wear various clothing items that fit really snug, and are surely bound to lead to arousal and erection assuming they have not completely lost the sensations coming from their groin area. Chances are, each of them has surreptitiously experimented with this long before they got into college. The tricky part about these experiments is in figuring out a way to run the experiments without being detected by a parent, sibling or, god-forbid, a peer class member.

What is the exact “problem” here, the universal problem all post-pubescent guys must face? Shortly after puberty, guys learn from various sources that the only time and place considered acceptable to be aroused is in a relationship with a partner, and from the standpoint of most, a partner of the opposite sex. Anything else that might happen with respect to this is considered to be in some manner unacceptable, unacceptable to the point of the guy being teased and bullied.

But every post pubescent guy is fully aware of the fact that “stuff happens”, and stuff happens in times, places and in situations that do not involve a female partner. Besides, what is a young teenager doing getting involved sexually with a partner as a young teen anyway? More problems and dilemmas to face.

It is surprising that most guys make it through puberty with as few psychosexual scars as they do. It does not take long for every guy to find out that sexual arousal, erection and then the big event, orgasm, are all fun, really fun, the kinds of events that make being a guy such an unbeatable experience. (Can young girls POSSIBLY be having this much fun with THEIR bodies at the same age?)

Then there is the matter of all the goofy fluids. Guys quickly figure out what an orgasm (creaming) is and exactly what the sensations are that lead to orgasm. Understanding this is necessary learning if a guy is ever going to have a degree of control over when and under what exact circumstances he ejaculates. Guys quickly learn that ejaculate is a creamy off-white fluid, not clear and to associate that with having an orgasm, getting a girl pregnant, and all of that.

But then there is the matter of precum, and what that all means and why it happens the way it does. Guys might notice that sometimes a clear, viscous fluid forms in drops at the very end of the penis, but particularly when a sexual thought crosses the mind. This seems really strange, as if a guy, perhaps sexually a bit tense but not erect at all, starts to drip viscous drops of clear fluid. Initially, guys associate this occurrence with the initial stages of an erection leading to orgasm (creaming). But guys soon learn that they can precum for a long period of time without going into erection or orgasm.

Precumming (aka juicing) just seems to happen without conscious control of any sort. Something triggers it, of course, and what that something is might be is the most interesting part. Guys fully dressed can usually tell in an instant whether or not they are precumming because the damp spot forming on whatever undergarment they are wearing will be a quite noticeable. Usually not enough precum forms to stain the fly of, say, a pair of jeans, though some guys worry about this possibility too.

This brings me back around to the guys wearing snug-fitting clothing of various kinds, especially for the first time. Obviously a snug fitting Lycra® (blend) item (Swim brief, Jammer, Wrestling singlet) is going to present more issues in this regard than, say an outer garment such as a pair of jeans. Any precum stain when a guy is wearing one of these items might immediately show up as a stain in exactly the “wrong” place. What if the guy is in public when this happens. It’s not as if the guy can shut down precumming at will, and this in itself poses a dilemma.
Even worse, perhaps, the guy has probably discovered that the sensations that happen when he is precumming are certainly sweet, if not quite as mind blowing as a full-scale orgasm, still certainly worthy of paying attention to and enjoying.

Then there is the problem that specific clothing items that seem to “stimulate” all of this, that is, getting into a mode whereby the guy is precumming, perhaps profusely. Lycra® blend swim briefs are certainly number one on this list, at least for most guys. I maintain that the fear of wearing swim briefs for a lot of guys is not so much out of the fear of immediately getting a firm and big erection leading right to orgasm (well, maybe for only the FIRST time), but the fear that the guy will start to precum leaving quarter-sized and larger damp stains right at where the tip of his penis resides in the brief. The sheer HORROR of this possibility drives guys away from wearing the garment.

The same goes for the fear of snug-fitting wrestling singlets and jammers. Guys think they have a degree of control over when they get hard and ejaculate, but the precumming ooze seems to be completely outside of conscious control. This scares guys.

WHICH clothing items “do” this to (or for) a guy? That is an interesting question, and one that probably varies from one guy to another. The other complicating factor is that precumming is a lot of fun, and if there are garments that help to keep the fun going, there will be at least some guys interested in finding and on occasion wearing these garments. If guys were truthful to themselves, they already know which specific clothing items “do it” for them. The mere thought of shopping for or ordering the garment should start the precum flowing, collecting in whatever undergarment the guy is wearing. The sheer fun of buying and then getting into a garment the guy pretty much knows is going to do this to him cannot be underestimated.

This brings us back to Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh, who have been messing around with this exactly, and, in a sense, playing with their own bodies and psychology in ways that they would have never dared or had the occasion to try when they were still in high school. Their willingness to push forward in this regard should be applauded, even as they discover new ways to enjoy themselves and the company of each other in ways they had not previously experienced.

All is well with the four of them.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

As any guy in his teens probably knows, in your late teens it is entirely possible to get an erection leading into a full scale orgasm without any physical touching or rubbing happening. Furthermore, it is easy for this to happen in an unexpected or difficult-to-explain situation, say a situation that does not involve fantasizing, say, about having sex with a female partner. Every guy knows and probably has had dreams involving a sexual situation that leads to an erection during the night and probably an orgasm.

Dreams are very strange, oftentimes. What a guy thinks about during the day is constrained within conscious thought, but in dreams, all the “rules” suddenly come apart. For example, a guy who thinks he is “perfectly straight” during the day, at least, may very well end up being involved sexually with another guy within a dream. Dreams simply do not follow the rules that apply when a guy is awake.

The fact that dreams can go anywhere and do not abide by the daytime “rules” makes many guys very uncomfortable. They start to think that what happens in dreams, out-of-control or not, communicates the “truth”, for example, about sexual orientation. A guy who “acts” straight when awake may be focused on other guys partly or exclusively during a nighttime dream, and worse, whatever same-sex interest may very well end with the guy suddenly awake and having a powerful orgasm.

Do these dreams mean the guy whereby this happens is actually gay not straight, and is actually fooling himself as well as others when he claims to be perfectly straight? That is a most interesting question, I think, and one that I have never been able to satisfactorily answer. The only thing I can conclude is that dreams are sometimes, perhaps often, built around story lines that represent what a guy would like to try to do sexually but for whatever reason cannot.

Dreams with a sex-related storyline are commonplace for nearly every guy. Nearly every guy worries if dreams turn out to follow an unanticipated story line and in particular a story line that others (peers, siblings) might not approve. But these others aren’t going to know anything if a guy keeps his mouth shut about what just happened.

Then there is the issue of story lines that are erotic, leading to an erection and a “nocturnal emission” (I love that term, as it sounds so clinical), but the story line has nothing to do with engaging in sex with a partner, male or female. What is with these dreams, anyway?
One example would be a guy who in a dream decides to go out to a store and purchase a skimpy little swim brief for his first time. The dreamer finds a rack of swim briefs in a sporting goods store and starts to sort through the sizes, colors and sizes. As the dream proceeds, the dreamer sees a particular swim brief that is particularly skimpy and colorful. He decides that before he purchases the brief, which the price tag says $28, he had better at least try it on. So he locates and goes into the store changing room, and removes his clothing in a tiny space lined with mirrors. At this point he is not only feeling way horny, the size of his penis says that he is near an orgasm, and he hasn’t even gotten the brief on. He is already worried about how to get in and out of the brief without creating a total mess, but it is way too late. He pulls the brief on, takes one look at himself and how his penis looks and there is no stopping a powerful orgasm spilling semen all over the new swim brief. Suddenly the dreamer wakes and, still in bed, he bursts into a most powerful orgasm. The dreamer has the emotions of unbridled sexual fun, pure enjoyment, accompanied by total terror.

What does this dream mean, anyway? Worse, what if this is one of those dreams that happens frequently, say, every week or so? Should the guy be somehow concerned that the dream doesn’t contain a “proper” storyline involving having sex with a female partner? Is this dream the basics of something the guy would like to try doing in real life? What gives, anyway?

Or, what about the locker room athletic supporter “jock strap” dream. In this dream, the dreamer is just starting to participate in a contact sport that requires a strap and cup (Coaches orders). The plot line thickens, because in the dream the first time the guy is going to get a chance to be in the strap and cup will be in the guy’s locker room at the next practice. The school is actually buying the straps and cups for the players and coach will be passing them out for wear at the next practice. The complicating thing about this dream is that all the guys, the dreamer’s peers, will be in the locker room basically doing the same thing—that is, trying on a little jock strap with a cup in the clear view of all the other guys in the locker room. A lot of guys who are having difficulty with this situation realize that their peers might also be facing the same “problem”. The problem, of course is how can the dreamer keep from getting erect in this novel situation, and what happens to me once the cup is (firmly) in place? Dare the dreamer take furtive glances at the groins of the other guys in an effort to see what is happening to them under similar circumstance and what difficulties they might be facing? If the dreamer finds himself doing this, taking furtive glances at his peers and their respective groin areas, does that mean he is actually gay not straight?

As might be expected, a teen guy with a full-scale erection forcing himself into a seemingly undersized strap and cup is not going to be able to hold back a powerful orgasm for very long. The dreamer suddenly awakens and discovers that he is just at the start of a powerful “spontaneous” orgasm (nocturnal emission), an orgasm that was not spontaneous at all but a direct consequence of the story line with what turns into a path that is quite erotic. What does this all mean for the dreamer, anyway?
This brings the story back to the four college freshmen, Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh. Maybe the four of them are getting their first real opportunities to act out events that occurred on a recurring basis in their dreams, dreams that may have started at puberty, or even before. Maybe the items that they purchased or ordered online are very similar to items that played a recurring role in dreams with plots similar to those outlined above. None of this involves partner sex, at least not directly, but that is part of what makes it all so interesting.

Are dreams and fantasies like these commonplace among guys, or relatively rare? If a guys interested in seeing how my male peers might respond to wearing a swim brief or a jock strap with a cup and exactly what happens to their bodies, does that mean the guy deep down is gay not straight, or is this interest commonplace for the vast majority of guys who find it interesting to see how other guys cope with the situation at hand.

These are big questions, and questions that are difficult to answer with any degree of certainty.

To be continued…
 

[sebbie]

Guys are very fortunate, in many ways far more fortunate than they realize. There are many parts of the male body that are more sensitive/sexually active/erotic than many guys realize, and this often becomes a learning experience that can last an entire lifetime.

Most guys at puberty are in a situation where they know almost nothing about all of this. Early on they have but a vague understanding that when certain body parts are stroked or even touched, the sensations feel very good. Only gradually do guys begin to put together an understanding of the complexities of the system. But learning about all of this is the key to enjoying yourself as a guy.

There are a few male body parts not on the penis proper that stand out for me as being both important in this regard and missed or underestimated as erotic hot spots by a lot of guys. I’ve often thought that the urge to/enjoyment from getting a big hard-on coupled with a powerful orgasm is so overwhelming for a lot of guys that they never quite learn to appreciate the more subtle aspects of male eroticism. This same information applies to a situation whereby you are having sex by yourself or with a partner.

Some of you may be just a bit bothered by the fact that I just put experiments with solo sex up there in the same league as experiments with partner sex. I know that this may seems strange or odd to some if not most of you as you are coming from a frame of reference that says there is no way masturbation can be put on equal footing with partner sex from the standpoint of pure erotic enjoyment: That is the relationship with another person is the real key to the sheer enjoyment of sex.

Let me hold that thought for a bit, and perhaps I can come back to it in a later chapter. For now, I want my readers to think about the best solo sex experience that you have ever had, and, more importantly , what in your own mind made that particular solo sex experience so profound?

Then, think about the four characters in the story, Josh, Dylan, Bill and Joe and what each of them have been doing to their bodies while claiming that they were just engaging in a workout at the gym.

Let me start with Josh, first. Let me see, what was Josh wearing? That’s right, the little Desmiit ® thong with the forest green wrestling singlet over.
The perineum area of the male body, located between the scrotum and the anus, is a real hot spot sexually for guys, but this is one of these things a lot of guys do not learn until they are older, if at all. The beauty of a properly fitting male thong of the correct size is that it should put a lot of direct upward pressure on the exact spot that feels so good when the direct pressure is applied. With a thong that fits correctly, the back, be it an elastic cord or a narrow band of elastic, will tend to cinch up between the glutes. Guys who have never tried this soon discover that the entire area between the glutes is what I would characterize as being sexually active.

Combine this with a stationary rowing machine at the gym, which requires guys to engage iin strokes. With each stroke of the rowing machine, the thong gives an exquisite tug that applies a little additional pressure to the perineum area even as the thong back cinches itself a bit deeper between the glutes. Each stroke of the rowing machine becomes a not-to-be-missed erotic experience.

Or think about Dylan’s “predicament “of being contained inside a skimpy swim brief. This may seem at first to be less erotic than the situation Josh is facing, but Dylan also has to face the sensations from a strap and cup bearing down at the same time on his swim brief contained penis. Penises like to grow to the exact space that they have available, which means that shortly, the cup will be bearing down on three sides of Dylan’s penis. Dylan’s penis quickly becomes “aware” of the confining situation it finds itself in, but likes the slick feel of the swim brief within the confined space.

Or consider both Bill and Joe, each wearing thongs that are doing interesting things to the perineum, getting hit by the sensations of the thong back wedging itself between the glutes. Then each is also wearing a jock with a cup bearing down at it all, with everything cinched up even snugger because of the compression shorts, while each of them is attempting to run on treadmills.

As the afternoon wears on, all of this is liable to get tougher and topugher to deal with, but gradually also provide more and more erotic fun. As events proceed, a guys mind being subjected to one of these combinations becomes more and more focused on the need to get off. But, of course, this is impractical given where each of the guys is. Getting off may have to wait some more. The unrelieved pressure to ejaculate just keeps building and building.

Now, what happens to a guy psychologically when he starts to realize that there are three other guys who are in a very erotic predicament like this that is very similar to the one he is in? Does this knowledge add to the fun? Back in High school the four of them would have been terrified to try something like this. Outcomes are just too uncertain. But now, the four of them are in college, and the rules that apply seem to have changed. This is terrific fun with equal parts mixed sheer sexual torment.

I assume many of my readers would be open to trading places with one of them, but the interesting question is “Which one”?

To be continued…

[sebbie]

As any guy has probably quickly learned, exciting sexual tension involves a combination of the psychological (thoughts) and the physical (touching). Furthermore, guys quickly learn that the psychological frequently involves not only what will happen, sexually, but even what could possibly happen.

The human brain, male and female, seems to be equipped with an early warning system that springs into action very quickly, in the case of a guy, often long before any even partial erection takes place. A lot of guys seem mystified with respect to how male bodies work in this regard, but still confront this on a regular basis, perhaps as frequently as several times a day. Guys frequently have difficulty dealing with this if it involves thoughts relating to a potential female partner. Coming of age movies generally are built around plots that deal with exactly this.

For gay males, this becomes even more difficult in part because the guy may not want to admit to himself that he has these male-centered erotic thoughts, let alone come out and explain what is going on to others, perhaps the most terrifying being how non-gay male peers might react. It doesn’t help that many males are terrified of the possibility of a sexual encounter with another male (perhaps because they have a gay streak, themselves) and outcomes in this regard are quite unpredictable. This is why gay males have to be very careful when other males of unknown sexual orientation are nearby.

Complicating all of this still further is the widely held belief by some (claimed as macho) males that any guy who engages in solo sex, if not gay, is certainly a social outcast who will never find a female sexual partner. This leads to ”I saw you masturbating and told all my friends what I saw you doing “teasing and bullying. This to me is one of the saddest aspects of male sexuality as it exists in most societies.

I know that some of my readers are wondering what is with Dylan, Josh, Bill and Joe, anyway? Are these four guys who will never be with a female partner, or, horror of horrors, enjoying their own bodies along with their swim briefs, thongs, straps, cups, wrestling singlets and compression gear more than they ever would than having a sexual encounter with a partner. What gives with these four guys anyway? From a writer’s perspective, keeping this possibility going is part of the fun of setting up the reader.

A central theme of this entire story has been the idea that guys can have a lot of fun sexually and psychologically without having to deal with the additional complications that partner sex brings on, and this is true irrespective of whether you think you are straight, gay or of a sexual orientation in which you are uncertain.

If you stop and think about it what I have just said is quite profound. I think I just said that sexual pleasure is something that every guy can tap into and enjoy irrespective of whether or not the guy has a partner.

But all of this goes even deeper than that. By the time a guy reaches the age of a young college student such as the four of them in the story, he has probably experienced a number of instances, perhaps many, whereby sexual arousal (to orgasm or not), occurred in the absence of any thoughts about being with a partner. Again, many guys are reluctant to admit that their personal sexual wiring works that way. In the case of the “straight” male there is this (macho) view that the only acceptable psychosexual thought are those that relate directly to being with a female partner, and any thoughts that lead elsewhere need to be banished. Many gay males seem to operate with a variation of this, in the belief that real sex involves a direct physical encounter with another male.

But, if this were true for both straight and gay males, what of four college students who go shopping at a big-box sporting goods store for items that they know are going to be tough to wear without getting aroused in and soon after a hard on? Are these guys somehow deviant from a sexual perspective? Or what of four college guys who start ordering items on line that they are pretty sure are going to be difficult to wear without getting aroused? And then, what happens, once the items arrive to the dorm rooms? Is getting into these items a solo activity or can your male roommate be present? Will the male roommate be put off by this if he watches, or will he perhaps secretly think that he would love to be able to do exactly the same thing? What if a guy enjoys playing with himself in this way “too much”, and never progresses to a physical relationship with a partner? Is this a real problem or issue?

And what of all this talk about the notion that it is important for a guy who is sexually aroused be able to restrain himself from going into full-scale orgasm mode? A general truth is that the longer a guy can remain aroused without blowing, the more enjoyable the entire situation is going to be, and the more exciting, powerful and enjoyable the orgasm will be when it finally does happen.
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The problem, of course, is that guys grow up learning how to go into full-scale orgasm mode quickly, so as to minimize the probability that the guy will be discovered and end up in a potentially embarrassing situation. Many guys quickly become experts in rapid covert masturbation. But the four college guys appear to be at least be past that idea.
Then there is the problem of sex in relationships, whereby slower steaminess is almost invariably better sex than anything that happens in a hurry. But guys up until that point were focused on speedy solo sex. All of that has to be somehow unlearned, and quickly, for the sake of the relationship lasting, be it straight or gay.

One way of visualizing what the four college guys have been doing is that they are unlearning a lot of what they learned masturbating in a hurry when they were younger. Unless the four guys are completely brain dead, there is no way the four guys are not each going to be somewhat aroused given what they are wearing, but even for a guy to admit that can be somewhat unnerving.

Still, the male body is brilliantly set up with an early warning system programmed to provide the necessary information even if the guy is nowhere near being erect and hard. That is all the precumming and Cowper’s gland stuff. If precum is forming a damp spot on the tip of a guy’s erect penis, something important sexually is happening. This could possibly quickly lead to an erection and maybe an orgasm, or the entire situation could just sit and “simmer” for many minutes, perhaps hours. Just simmering there oozing viscous clear drops of precum is a very enjoyable sexual experience, not one to be denied. Where each of them takes this after they get back from the gym to the dorm rooms is unclear, except to say that the urge to ejaculate has been slowly but steadily building even as the guys engage in their respective exercise programs as arousal is helped along in happening by wearing the various garments.

And, assuming that each of the four is going to want to engage in partner sex, this “simmering” experience is going to work to undo the damage done as younger guys learned how to get this over quickly to minimize the possibility of being discovered masturbating. So what is happening here is important from a future partner sex perspective even if what has been going on does not now involve sex with a partner.

Female partners do not normally complain to their guy that he needs to get to the orgasm part more quickly. Indeed, quite the opposite. For gay males, the challenges in this regard cannot be different. Would a gay male prefer a partner who gets off quickly, or one who can tolerate a lot of stimulation while still holding back an orgasm? So, straight or gay, this works for both in partner sex.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

I have always been fascinated with the exact science underlying the male sexual arousal system and how sexual arousal works in a unique way for every guy. I have often thought that if males were all attracted to exactly the same things, they would all end up seeking out and attempting to have sex with the exact same partner. But, male sexual arousal and response can’t work that way at all, nor can female sexual response, for that matter. Each of us is unique as our own fingerprints in that regard, and sexual arousal and response therefore has to be processed differently by each of us. The long term survival of humanity depends on that.

Some guys seem to think that any sort of sexual response that does not directly involve a female partner is somehow abnormal or, at minimum, a personality weakness. Still, guys fantasize about situations that involve sexual arousal all the time. Well, perhaps not all the time, but certainly most of the time. :-) Reality has a whole series of barriers as to what can and cannot be done from a sexual-arousal perspective. Oddly enough, the fantasy world has no such barriers. Guys are perfectly free to fantasize about anything that turns them on, whether what it is they are fantasizing about would be considered OK in reality or not. That is part of the fun of the fantasy world—a guy can simply just let his mind wander to wherever it wants to go.

Fantasizing about stuff that is a sexual turn-on might better be called daydreaming with a sexual theme. Think about a daydream in which a guy is fantasizing about having sex with a female that he finds to be particularly sexy and attractive. Now this most often probably is not possible for any number of reasons, but that does not stop a guy from fantasizing about it. Much the same can be said for a gay guy who likes to fantasize about some sort of sexual interaction with another male he finds particularly attractive from a sexual perspective as well. There may be all sorts of practical barriers to acting this out too, starting with a real possibility that the guy he is fascinated by is straight not gay and would not be interested in having a sexual encounter with another male.

MOST sexual fantasies probably are not acted on, and that is probably a good not bad thing. Guys tend to remember and carry with them the best sexual fantasies, the ones that over time seem most arousing. The less arousing ones tend to be gradually discarded.

Sexual fantasies often become the raw material that guys use when they have wet dreams. Like non-sexual dreams, chunks of what might have been fantasized about in the daydream get worked into the story line of a wet dream, as the guy not only replays events in dreams that contain plot lines from what was arousing sexually during the day into a story line that keeps going into the details of what the guy would have liked to have happened in reality during the day, but of course did not. There is no real limit to how the story line develops once the guy is asleep, except to say that the best story lines will give the guy a huge hard-on while still asleep which, for a “normal” 19-year old college guy (such as the four guys in the story) concludes with one terrific orgasm. Somehow the guy USUALLY wakes up just in time to realize what is on the verge of happening. The dream content got just exactly to the point whereby the guy could no longer keep the orgasm from happening even if he wanted to.

What does this all have to do with Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh? Well, for starters the four of them are each encountering a variety of daytime experiences that each of them finds sexually arousing from their own individual perspectives. This is a very normal thing to happen for each of them. Each of them carries whatever was picked up during the day that was sexually arousing into their sleep time, and how the brain processes this stuff each night is always interesting. Actually, it’s a not-to-be-missed experience, even if it sometimes means that whatever the guy wore to bed will need to be laundered, let alone the sheets:)

But what happens if the daytime sexual fantasies involve something that is not about having sex with a partner, male or female, but about something else? Suppose a guy gets aroused by what I call the “swim brief shopping trip fantasy” or the “first attempt at putting on a jock strap in the locker room fantasy”. Worse, what if the guy gets aroused just seeing another guy wearing a really skimpy swim brief? Is it the guy or the swim brief that is turning him on? Is this so intertwined that the answer to the question impossible to determine? Are guys who are turned on by skimpy swim briefs perhaps closeted and frustrated gay guys, or is it possible for a guy to get sexually aroused by the mere thought of getting to wear a skimpy swim brief and all of this has basically nothing to do with sexual orientation?

Same with the jock strap story. Maybe the guy is interested in seeing the straps being tried on and worn by his peer males in the gym locker room. Do guys give furtive glances at other guys clad in their snug-fitting straps? Is this merely curiosity as in “I’m wondering if the other guys are struggling with wearing this without getting a hard-on like I am struggling with this” or is this more complicated still? Is it the tight little strap and cup that is causing me to get erect, or is it the fact that I am getting to see my peers struggling with this too that is making me hard? A tough call for sure!

Guys are routinely uncomfortable in even starting to openly deal with all of this. Generally, guys have determined that having wet dreams can be really fun, and the right sexual dream can be a nearly unforgettable experience. Never mind the mess and the need to try to “explain” what happened come morning . This is more of the male sexuality stuff involving about equal parts terror and unbridled good feelings.

A sexually arousing moment during the day sets a guy up for the possibility at least of having a really powerful wet dream that night. In this regard, the “arousing partner “ story line probably does not work any better than a dream replaying the “shopping trip for a swim brief” or “trying on the straps at the gym” experience. Of course, every guy is going to process the various events of the day a little differently for sure. Some guys may build wet dreams around partner-sex themes, while these other fantasies might play a bigger role for other guys.

Finally, there is the issue of whole role of snug-fitting garments in channeling wet dreams in certain ways. The guy who was turned on by the swim brief shopping trip fantasy might consider, for example, the possibility of actually wearing a skimpy swim brief to bed. The guy who found the jock strap at the gym fantasy to be arousing might try spending the night in a strap and cup, the snugger-fitting the better.

Guys know that during the night, the male penis goes through alternate cycles of expansion and contraction, and if the penis during the expansion phase is cofined within a snug-fitting garment, something will probably have to give as the now-activated nerves in the penis come up against something slinky smooth (the swim brief) or immovably hard (the hard cup in the pouch).These ideas could make for more frequent and better wet dreams too, leading to stronger orgasms.

Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh have figured this all out, pretty much.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

It doesn’t take long after puberty for guys to learn how much sheer fun sexual arousal and then to an orgasm really is, but there are lots of issues with which to deal. But with this comes a series of issues or problems that every guy faces One of the things about this that a guy learns very early on is that the only socially acceptable time and place to get aroused and have an orgasm is in the context of a relationship with another person, usually a female, but guys are obviously doing stuff long before they are old enough to assume a relationship with another person let alone have partner sex.

All of this presents quite a dilemma for guys, with the basic problem being that they enjoy engaging in solo sex (masturbation) very much, but if anyone else should find out about this fondness for jerking off, they will be subject to teasing, bullying, being labeled as a social outcast or worse. So a guy quickly leans that whatever he does with or to himself in this regard must be done on the sly. How can something so enjoyable be treated in such a sloppy way for goodness sakes?

And every guy soon determines that he is not the only male peer struggling with this same complicated is, that is, of discovering a real enjoyment playing with himself, but it must be that the other guys his age are doing things by themselves and normally not engaged in doing the very things they are comfortable bragging about relating to sexual encounters with female partners. It would be a rare instance if at all, that a guy would talk about his solo-sex activities with even a close male friend, in part because such a discussion would perhaps incorrectly imply that the guy is interested in a sexual encounter with another male. So all of what guys actually do to themselves is the deepest, darkest secret there ever was. Guys are generally not willing to admit doing any of this.

All of these struggles dealing with solo sex gets carried into young adulthood and maybe into older adulthood as well. Guys in their teens (sex experts too) seem to think that as guys get into their twenties, whatever interest they had in playing with themselves will dissipate as “real sex” with a partner assumes a more and more important role.

Guys often assume that when they were living at home there were huge barriers to engaging in solo sex because of the living situation they are in. one would not want to have your parents realize what you are doing to yourself, let alone siblings or male friends for goodness sakes.

The problem of course is that the real world doesn’t work in this regard like the sex experts think it should, and generally most guys retain a lot more interest in solo sex activities as they move into young adulthood. Masturbation techniques that were fun at age 12 are probably still enjoyable at age 20, and without the complexities of having to deal with the host of issues relating to a partner for sex.

A lot of guys assume that once they get into college, life will be a lot simpler than it was when in high school, singe the guy is normally off on his own. In the case of roommates Bill and Joe and roommates Dylan and Josh, roommates who only met for the first time at the start of the school year, there are additional issues. Living together as two college guys in a cramped 200 sq. ft. dorm room is going to pose some special challenges if a guy wants to get off on his own, to say the least.

One approach for two college roommates in such a situation is to try to approach masturbation the same way they commonly did in high school. This probably means masturbating in bed at night under the covers and the darkness. Is my roommate going to quickly figure out I am doing this? Is my roommate trying to cope with the same issue while not revealing to me what he is up to? How is all of this going to work as the semester wears on and we get more familiar with each other? What issues are going to happen if my roommate discovers that I “do it” perhaps every night or two?

Guys learn a variety of techniques for masturbating in bed when they are still living at home. Oddly enough, if starchy and damp spots are “discovered”, the easiest way out of the box is probably for the guy to claim he had a wet dream, and the orgasm was not something he could control as he was asleep when it all happened. Providing that explanation to your parents ordinarily seems to work quite well.

But, of course, as any guy knows, most of the orgasms that happen in bed are anything but the consequence of an uncontrollable wet dream. If wet dreams are fun, encouraging an orgasm while still awake might be even more fun, depending on how horny the guy is. If wet dreams are really fun, why not simply help things along a little in the darkness and under the coves?

Then, of course, there are the clothing items that might even help the process along, in particular the ones that Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh have been experimenting with. Now, practically every young guy is going to have real issues in coming clean with the idea that certain clothing items can easily lead to sexual arousal, but perhaps most every guy by the time he reaches young adulthood, say the age of Dylan, has “discovered” a number of different clothing items that seem to do this. Usually the clothing items that do this are very slick and smooth (ie Lycra®) or fit very snuggly (such as an athletic supporter or maybe even a favorite pair of snug-fitting jeans.
As a teenager guys are old enough to be left at home alone for perhaps an afternoon, and a lot of guys see this as an excellent opportunity to run some “experiments”. The guy has often stashed the items that do this to (or for) him, and out they come as soon as everyone else leaves the house. Guys quickly get into a masturbation routine in which each of the times he is left alone turn into an opportunity to run some more sexually-focused“ experiments.”

Guys carry these experiments along with them into college. But things may actually be more not less difficult, as the guy waits for his roommate to “go home for the weekend” in order to have a clear path to some solo sex play without interruption.

Dylan, Josh, Bill and Joe have more or less taken a step beyond that in that each of them has pretty well now determined what the other guys must be up to in the solo sex department. Watching your roommate masturbate while wearing a thong really puts a whole new view of all of this in place. Still there are the complicating issues that relate to the possibility that both Dylan and Josh have a gay side to their personalities in this regard. And what about Bill and Joe in this regard too?

I guess there are two possible consequences here. Either a guy is repulsed by seeing his male roommate masturbating, and will run and hide. In which case the guy who is repulsed by this must be straight, or at minimum sees the idea of being repulsed by this consistent with the idea of being straight.

The other possibility is that the guy doing the watching thinks its interesting (fun, and perhaps arousing) to see his roommate masturbate himself, especially using “helper” clothing items. This is a place most guys do not normally get to be let alone study in detail. But, does this then mean that the guy doing the watching (and likely the guy doing the masturbating) actually is gay but perhaps still hasn’t admitted this to himself let alone to others?

These are complicated questions that are not at all easy to answer.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

Curiosity is at the core of sexual arousal. This is true whether you are male, female straight, gay or of an as yet undetermined sexual orientation (but more about that part later).

Think of all the coming-of-age movies that you have seen in your lifetime. In a classic coming-of-age movie, the centerpiece of the storyline is often a group of guys who are obviously all feeling very horny and focused on losing their virginity, in a straight coming of age movie, usually with some female of females that they find particularly attractive. Almost invariably, the guys are still quite naïve about not only female anatomy. Lots of the movie is spent with the guys discussing exactly what female body parts they would like to touch and grope, and as the story line develops it becomes clear that some of the guys have never actually seen a naked female, or, if they had, it was only in a book or magazine somewhere. “Dirty” magazines or books recounting the details of human sexuality from a “clinical” perspective are often a key part of the plot. And the audience is drawing into the story line that “properly” ends with the shyest guy in the bunch having the greatest success on the intercourse-with-a-female front. This unexpected outcome always invariably drives the boorish, noisy guys bonkers.

Now think about coming of age movies set in the present or near past. MOST coming-of-age movies are set in the distant past. Take “Summer of ‘42”, for example, perhaps the best coming-of-age movie ever. When I saw this movie for the first time in the early 1970s I thought it was the sexiest movie I had ever seen. And it was, too. A lot of the coming-of-age movies go forward to a setting the 1950s and 1960s, but movies set in the present are rare indeed unless you count some movies I do not think of as true coming-of-age movies. A proper coming-of-age movie features horny teen guys in search of their first real partner-sex conquest.

Why is this plotline no longer a movie staple? Maybe its because in this modern age, there are fewer unknowns or things to be curious about in the world of human sexuality. Nowadays by the time a male reaches puberty, he has probably already been exposed to the small details of naked female anatomy if not from books, from places on the Internet or even on TV, parental controls notwithstanding. If any guy hasn’t discovered this yet, it’s interesting to go into Wikipedia with a list of words that describe parts of the male or female body that have something to do with human sexuality and the anatomy of the reproductive system, and just sit and read the articles one by one. Parents aren’t likely to complain if a guy is simply reading Wikipedia articles in his room on his computer. It’s the ultimate “cover.” Then just a simple search in Google might quickly get you into Sebbie’s writings on the subject, writings that might open the eyes of males and maybe some females in part because your author loves to write about stuff going deep into topics no other author seems to dare go. Part of what makes a coming-of-age movie fun is the discovery of ideas about human sexuality that the guy was previously unaware of.

Curiosity invariably leads to the discovery of things about your own body and a potential partner’s body that you didn’t know before and it is the discovery process itself that is frequently the most sexually arousing. I know some of my readers are put off by the fact that I discuss partner sex so infrequently, perhaps even hinting that I see partner sex is in fact an inferior alternative to solo sex. I do not believe this, except to say that for having really enjoyable sex with a partner, you have to first understand the nuances of how your own body works and responds to sexual s stimuli. Keep in mind that the same idea applies to a sexual partner, male or female. The really great sex only happens when the two partners only fully understand how their own bodies, and each other’s bodies, work from a sexual arousal perspective. Somehow in a good relationship this all comes together in a bunch of different ways.

In this context it’s good to know that the best solo-sex experiences can either simply be really fun as stand-alone activities, or also be the great fodder as a starting point for mind-blowing partner sex. If a partner fully understands what is really great fun when you are doing it alone. Then that is well on the way to understanding what will be mind blowing in a relationship, and guys need to get over the idea of not daring to reveal to their partners how this all works for them in a solo-sex context.

So let me walk you through some thoughts about how all of this might work for guys in the story. There are four guys, each wearing different clothing items and getting horny doing so while fervently attempting to refrain from going into the full-scale ejaculatory mode. Of course, this keeps getting tougher and tougher to do. Guys are wired that way. What begins as merely a subtle version of sexual arousal many very quickly go into a situation whereby the urge to ejaculate becomes overwhelming and soon unstoppable.

How is all of this going to work in partner sex? That is an interesting question. If a straight guy has not developed a degree of ejaculatory control, he is likely to explode even before his penis finds its way into a vagina. That’s no fun. For gay guys, things can get more unpredictable as I am less certain at predicting what the end game will be, except to say that a male partner would likely be sexually happier if the guy could remain aroused but delay going into a full scale orgasm for as long as possible.

How does a guy lean how to do all of this? Getting yourself to the point whereby you are quickly quite aroused but can still deal with your sexual tensions without blowing is no small trick to do, Indeed, there are specific techniques for doing this, marketed in the sex therapist books clinically as “treatments for premature ejaculation.” Generally, these treatments are involved with the guy experimenting on his own (aka masturbation techniques that get a guy aroused but not quite to blowing and being able to do this for an extended period of time). If you have read my stories this far, you probably realize that certain clothing items can cause a male to get really horny in a hurry. Generally, females have no clue about this, or if they do they can’t relate to it at all.

For example, what if a guy likes to masturbate while donning a slick and skimpy swim brief? What if wearing the swim brief constitutes a favorite way to get off, and the guy has been playing with himself using the swim brief since he was, say, 12 or 13? What if the guy carries this particular fondness into young adulthood? What about an encounter with a female who is seen as a potential sexual partner? When they first have sex together, what if he is still thinking about all the fun times he had with the swim brief? Does the poor guy simply discard all of that now that he has a female to satisfy him? What if this is not so easy to do? Does the guy eventually tell the female partner about what he loves to do, and how is she going to respond? This idea of jerking off while wearing a specific clothing items has no direct parallel in the female sexual world. Women primarily wear skimpy clothes primarily as an effort to first attract and then turn males on, not as aids in solo female masturbation. At least I think this is one of the key differences that separates the sexes.

But what if the guy sees himself as a gay male? Perhaps then there could be at least one other gay male in the universe of gay males who loves wearing a skimpy swim brief and particularly enjoys playing with himself while wearing it. The two guys may have perhaps found partners for life. If I enjoy jerking off in a skimpy swim brief and so do you, maybe we are compatible not only in this but in many other ways. Perhaps you share some of my other interests as well, such as an interest in enjoying wearing jock straps, cups, compression gear, or even particularly snug fitting (i.e. thong) underwear or jeans. Knowing that there is but one other guy out there who shares some of the interests I have is important and all this secrecy associated with what to do with all of this in the context of trying to explain it all away to a female partner suddenly no longer applies.

I keep writing chapter after chapter here in an effort to try to explain some stuff that I don’t think has ever been explained before, but I end up asking more questions than I am able to answer.

I have found that wearing snug-fitting clothing tends to “stimulate” my ability to at least write on the subject. Today, I decided that in order to write I would need to first get myself into a mode that makes me a little horny as a writer. I suspect that this is a path many writers of erotic literature pursue. So, what did it for me today was a little pair of jockey briefs, a compression tee, topped by a forest green wrestling singlet, Asics, size Small. I love how shoulder straps of the almost too-tight-to-imagine singlet keeps tugging in interesting ways way down in my groin and pubic area. I hope Josh in my story at the gym has discovered that as well, and is enjoying the same experience I am having now.

If what I write gives my readers some ideas for enjoying yourselves as you are reading this, so be it!:)


To be continued (of course)…

[petrus]

How can you know what is in my brain so well? it is like Legilimency in Harry Potter.

[sebbie]

I appreciate your kind comments. Enjoy yourself!

[sebbie]

I have raised a lot of interesting questions for my readers to think about, often questions that have no simple or easy answers. Today I got to thinking about what I would like to tell a guy, maybe a guy about the age of the four college guys in my story, as to what advice I would give if you are just starting out thinking about all of this and how it all might work your own life.

A lot of guys, even guys who might be open-minded about a lot of things, are still very apprehensive when the subject of self-pleasuring comes up. Aside from a widespread belief that masturbation is not “real sex, and only sex with a partner can be called “real sex”, masturbation gets a bad name because of the association with social outcasts, as in people who have difficulty making friends in the real world. That issue about masturbators being socially challenged does not seem to be a problem for Dylan, Josh, Bill and Joe, however. But we still do not know if each of them might indeed have issues making friends with other individuals, male and female, who could eventually turn into partners for having “real” sex.

At this point I would make the following arguments. How can a guy (how can ANY person?) possibly expect to be successful in dealing with partner sex if he doesn’t fully understand how his own body works within the broad context of sexual feelings and sensations that are possible? In this regard, I’ve often thought that gay guys ultimately have it easier than straight guys working from the basic idea that they know something about how their own body works in terms of sexual feelings, and this knowledge should broadly apply to another male in a relationship. The female body introduces all sorts of complexities that I will not go into here at this point, but many males probably spend most of their adult lives trying to figure out exactly how this complex arrangement all works. (Many just give up on this and say it’s simply beyond ANY male to fully understand what they should know in a male-female relationship!)

My intent is to not go into a marriage counseling role today, but to merely help my readers who psychologically think masturbation is great fun (if not, why have you been reading this stuff, anyway?) but somehow not right within the larger scheme of things. And of course, introducing the idea of various snug-fitting pieces of clothing creates new pleasure opportunities, but probably also new pangs of guilt, as in “is this somehow not OK?” and “would my friends all leave me if they knew I did this”? What if I uncover something that is really fun but then want to get into a sexual relationship with a partner, does a guy simply discard and forget about this stuff and move on? If not, then what?

For the time being, I will leave my readers to ponder these questions. What I want to discuss today are some thoughts I have been having about helping a guy who is serious about leaning advanced techniques for self pleasuring, but needs some guidance.

I think a lot about the issue of why some guys seem to like to wear swim briefs and others do not. The answer to this question is either really complicated or simple to understand. Even prior to puberty, guys are not devoid os sexual feelings and sensations emanating from the groin area. They are too young to associate these good feelings and sensations with sex and all it entails, but they are still sexual feelings. I think I first started to notice the sensations and begin to appreciate this when I was only 5 or 6, perhaps even earlier.

Moms buy underwear for their boys that age. The first pair of real underwear a guy gets just out of diapers is probably cotton brief, probably a brief that fits quite snug. It is not long before the guy learns that the brief touches some body parts that feel good and the mere act of dressing has some fun but unexpected elements to it.

As a guy gets older, mom may buy the boy cotton briefs in a larger size, still snug-fitting, but in a larger size to fit the growing body. (It’s always fun for a young guy to put an older, smaller pair of cotton briefs in your dresser drawer and wear those instead). But then, around 11 or 12, puberty sets in, and there is the additional “problem” that any clothing item that fits snug in the groin area like a cotton brief could quickly lead to a potentially embarrassing erection (or, soon, worse). This is, of course, great fun, but also very dangerous at an assortment of levels. Some solution must be found, and that solution is a loose-fitting boxer short, something far less likely to come in contact with and stimulate the penis. A guy showing up in the gym locker room quickly discovers that all his buds have all transitioned from cotton briefs to loose-fitting boxer shorts. The next week, the one guy who was still wearing a “diaper like” childish cotton brief is now wearing a loose-fitting boxer too, and the guy has gone through a “rite of passage” with his peer males.

After that, it is not likely that any growing male will wear a snug-fitting clothing item, in part because of the consequences if that item stimulates his body in the wrong (or is it right?) way. Anyhow, guys are normally quite watchful of getting themselves into a situation where they get erect in a place that is not right to be erect in, so that concern leads to a banning of any clothing item where there is a chance of something like that happening.

Still, the guy’s experiences of the fun he had at an early age wearing snug-fitting cotton briefs has left an indelible psychological imprint on his brain. A small minority of guys never make the expected transition from briefs to boxers at puberty, and continue to wear cotton briefs as daily underwear. The guys who transitioned into boxers at puberty continue to steer clear of any clothing item that has the potential to stimulate the groin area, and this explains the strong preference for loose fitting swimming attire such as board shorts. The guys who somehow continued to wear standard cotton briefs past puberty and into high school probably see this as being less of an issue, and have gotten “used” to wearing clothing that fits closer to the groin and penis. Making the transition from cotton brief underwear to a skimpy Lycra® swim brief is much less of a transition for these few guys, and doing this does not necessarily get the guy wearing the swim brief into an erection issue. The guy at some level is now “used” to having clothing that fits close against the penis, having worn cotton briefs routinely all along.

The funny thing about all of this is that the guys who transitioned first from cotton briefs to loose-fitting boxer shorts and then to board shorts for swimming and other recreational activities all likely have indelible early imprints on their brains where they recall how much fun it was to wear a brief that fit close to the body and accidentally rubbed on their penises in unanticipated but interesting ways. The Lycra® swim brief does the same thing the cotton brief did, except about ten times over given that the swim brief is smaller, snugger, and with smoother, slicker material. The guys wearing the board shorts have a mixture of curiosity and admiration for the one guy in the Lycra® swim brief.

The curiosity comes from wondering if the guy in the swim brief will soon get a big, noticeable erection clad the way he is, or, if not, how the guy copes with the sensations his body has to be experiencing inside the brief so as to not get into an embarrassing situation.

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[sebbie]

So, what is today’s instructional advice? For guys who are just starting to learn how to mess around like this, if you have been wearing loose-fitting boxers since puberty, now that you are a young adult, perhaps its time to go out and buy yourself a snug-fitting package of three cotton briefs, of the same style and fit that you wore when you were only 11. A related stunt is once you get your body re-educated as to what your groin area feels like in a pair of cotton briefs you bought in your “right” size. You can see what happens if you downsize the cotton brief, one size smaller, two sizes smaller, etc. Cotton briefs stretch a lot. Or you can make another leap to transition into skimpy colored bikini briefs. Keep thinking up ways for putting more and more pressure on your mind and body at each step and purchase, and don’t let off. From there it should be an easy transition into a “real” swim brief. What happens to your body then is entirely up to you.

What happens if you end up blowing at one of these steps along the way? Do not despair. You have found where your limits are, sexually, at least for the moment. Just kick back and enjoy the fun, the very stuff you never got to try doing when you were 13. You will recover from all of this and tomorrow is another day.

From the swim brief you can transition yourself into the various items Dylan has been trying in the story. Some of these items may work better for you than others on the list. That doesn’t matter. What you are really learning is exactly which of the items get you off the best, and later on, can I wear this item yet delay ejaculation for a long time?

All of this is a lot of fun and many of you are probably still wondering whether any of this is useful in or could even ever be brought into a relationship with a partner. The particular concern is in a heterosexual relationship in that your partner might just think you have somehow completely lost it.

Still, learning the nuances of what the male body is capable of doing and keeping from doing is always useful in any partner relationship. The techniques for doing this are, well, quite enjoyable even if they seem to be hard lessons at times. And there is always a hope of bringing the partner right along for the fun, though I admit that this will likely be easier in a gay than in a straight relationship.

To be continued….

[dm106]

Curious, Sebbie, are cut vs uncut guys going to experience things differently? Very interesting work, by the way.

[sebbie]

I don't think that would make any difference, tho each guy is unique.

[sebbie]

Experiences a guy has at a very early age involving sexual feelings and sensations frequently stick in a guy’s brain like glue, even experiences that happen at a very early age.

Think back if you can remember how old you were when you first realized that there were body parts in your groin area that felt really good when they were touched, groped or fondled, and the circumstances under which you might have first taken note of this. About how old were you? What were the exact circumstances? Were you mainly surprised, pleased or apprehensive when you discovered this?

It is normal to be somewhat scared and apprehensive, even if the sensations are very pleasant. A lot of guys worry that they have “broken” something.

Do you recall at all what you were wearing when this happened to you? A snug-fitting item of clothing? Something else?

I assume that this happened to you well before the point in time when you had your first real orgasm. How old were you when that happened? Were you surprised, pleased or perhaps terrified? What were the circumstances when that happened? Were you alone? Were you wearing a clothing item that fitted close to the groin like a swimsuit?

For many guys the exact situation when your first orgasm happened is an unforgettable moment in time. Nowadays, most guys probably mature sexually (I love that term) and have their first real orgasm around age 11. Within a year or two, most guys have probably already mastered some of the finer points of jerking off in private, along with the wet dreams and all. These are learned techniques that evolve gradually. But, given the early sexual maturity, guys end up with more and more time where they are not likely to be seriously involved with a sexual partner. This, of course, presents a host of issues. Some high school students are having sex with a partner, but certainly fewer than brag about it for sure. And casual sex with a partner in high school presents a host of messy and complicated issues that go way beyond where a guy is, emotionally, financially and otherwise.

The solution? Why masturbation of course. These years are excellent ones in terms of learning about yourself and your body and what makes you happy sexually, without all the additional complications of having to deal with a partner, male or female. These are learned techniques and not something a guy is going to necessarily master all at once. Some of the methods are so enjoyable that a guy might bring what he has learned into young adulthood. Take Dylan and Josh, or even Bill and Joe, as examples here.

This sounds like a great solution. Male hormones keep bombarding a guy relentlessly, and keep drawing his attention back to his penis. Yet, masturbation is not exactly a topic of conversation for guys with their siblings, peer classmates or even parents. Best if this all be done surreptitiously and even under the cover of darkness, lest your parents (one level of concern), siblings (a second level of concern) or peer classmates (a third, and most important level of concern), put two and two together to figure out what you have been doing to yourself, where and when.

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[sebbie]

At some level this is all unfortunate. A guy may be learning to master a great method for jerking off alone that he really enjoys, but the focus cannot be solely on that given this huge requirement also to hide what he is doing. Still, hidden from others or not, this all does go on, and somehow guys manage to cope with all of the requirements that still allow him to breathe comfortably when with his peers and family members. Ahh, the difficulties of just growing up for a male!

Given the amount of time a guy has to practice, at least from age 12 to 18 and maybe well into college age, some of these solo jerk-off methods may get increasingly complex and ever more enjoyable, at least for the guy who dreamed them up. The classic coming-of-age movie often has a horny teen-age boy who ends up jerking off while reading a magazine containing photos of naked women, or even purloining a doctor’s manual that describes the sex act in minute detail. With the rise of the Internet and every kid has to have a computer, the idea of seeing and learning about sex by reading paper copy has become antiquated. Better to find what a guy needs to see on the Web.

So, by the time most guys reach young adulthood, they have uncovered a host of different ways to jerk off without having to be with a partner, and probably more than a few ways that they are really fond of. Whether or not some of these methods involve snug-fitting items of clothing and how common that is among boys in general is an interesting question that does not have any solid research to clarify. Sex researchers seem to commonly not know the questions to ask, and responses would get into stuff that guys normally want to keep deeply hidden for a bunch of different reasons.

However, once a really fun jerk-off method is developed, a guy is likely going to be very reluctant to discard that even after he gets into a relationship with a partner. This can get to be an issue even when a guy is getting a little older but not in a relationship. Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh are still just male college buddies, and not sexual partners in any way. Yet at this point each of them pretty much knows what the others are up to and why they are doing what they are doing. Where this all goes from here is unclear. If they were pairing off in gay relationships, the outcome might become more nearly clear. Most gay males probably at some level are comfortable with the whole idea of sharing favorite jerk-off methods with their partners and assume that, at minimum, the partner will enjoy at least watching the fun if not being actively engaged himself in one way or another. Finding a compatible male partner might very well entail finding another male who shares interests and enjoys the exact same thing or similar. If I love to get off while wearing a skimpy swim brief, a compatible partner might be a guy who not only likes to watch me do that, but also enjoys doing the same thing as I watch him play with himself inside the brief. As sex in male-male partner relationships go, this is really tame stuff.

But, now assume I am a straight male, a male who also learned to love to get off in a skimpy swim brief. Just because I have gotten into a relationship with a female doesn’t mean that I can or should abruptly abandon a favorite jerk-off method employing a skimpy swim brief. What is fun sexually is fun, relationship with a female or not. But the question then becomes how to deal with my wonderful jerk-off method within a relationship involving a female.

For starters, females are generally educated (by their moms) that the female is the central source of sexual pleasure for the guy, and anything else he might be doing to pleasure himself that does not include her is irrelevant to the relationship. Anything sexually occurs that does not put the female in the center of the male action is clearly bad and wrong, and further, the female is somehow not fulfilling her obligations to her male partner.

The problem, of course is the guy still loves his solo-sex methods and techniques, and the most daring guys try to keep them going inside the relationship with a woman. Then the woman discovers that the guy is still masturbating and she comes completely unglued. Divorce occurs shortly. A lot of guys decide to stay out of marriage in part because they are fearful that this is exactly how this would likely all go down. Even in marriage, many guys still need their private (solo sex) space though far fewer dare openly admit that.

Where is this whole story headed from here? I’ll be doggoned if I know. There are several possible paths. Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh could open up some more about exactly what they have been up to and why it works. They could pair off two by two as male partners. Or, they could decide that they are each straight and start dating college-age women. Or they could get involved in a more open male foursome, traditionally called a circle jerk. But if they do that, they are going to have to openly admit to each other at least that they are each not as straight as we were initially led to believe. Figuring this all out is part of the fun.

We know that each of them is really having fun wearing the various clothing items and getting horny while wearing them. Each of them has been developing their skills at remaining aroused for long periods of time without quite blowing. This theme overlays the entire story line in all the chapters. I do know it would be fun to hang with Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh just to see how they each find a path and come up with ways to cope with all of the crazy sexual tension going on right now.


To be continued, I think…:)

[sebbie]

Once many guys reach young adulthood, they begin to believe that enjoying your own male body and being in a relationship with a “loving partner” are as inseparable as, say macaroni and cheese or even ham and eggs. That leads guys who are not so fortunate into bouts of psychological depression in thinking that there are other guys who, because they are in a loving relationship, are simply enjoying life (not to mention their own sexual bodies) to a far greater degree.

Of course relationships in human sexuality matter. Were that not the case, the human race would have gone extinct long ago. But if there is any recurring theme to these chapters, it is that there is a lot more to male sexuality and human sexuality than only that, and it is possible to find safe and enjoyable sexual outlets that involve no personal risks or the complexity of working things out on a steady basis with a steady-and-willing partner.

If you stop and think about what I said, it is quite profound. What I just said is that a guy can be happy and sexually fulfilled even without having sex regularly with a willing partner. Straight, gay or of undetermined sexual orientation, that matters not at all in the interpretation of this statement.

I have been known to study, porn sites, but always only for research purposes.:-) One of the things I have been looking at is the popularity of various kinds of pornography. The classic heterosexual porn site has a lot of videos showing a male and a female getting it on. The classic gay porno site shows either two guys getting it on, or two women commonly masturbating each other using their fingers, or, less commonly, a strap-on dildo. I have always been somewhat amazed by how popular the two-women masturbation porn seems to be with heterosexual male porn viewers. I conclude that a lot of otherwise straight males find that watching this to be quite arousing.

These classic porn videos are only the starting point for an array of other videos of all sorts. Another common one is the so-called two-on-one videos that most commonly involve two women working over one guy, another heterosexual male fantasy, apparently. The opposite--two guys with one woman, is far less common.

Solo sex, as in a guy bringing himself to orgasm without the help of a partner, exist in large numbers as well. Some of these videos involve guys doing this naked, but the more interesting videos more commonly have a guy doing this while wearing a skimpy swim brief or slick-looking pair of brief style underwear. There is an audience for this type of porn. An interesting question of course, is whether the audience for this consists largely of gay males, straight males, perhaps curious women, or some mix of the three groups.

I hope you can see where I am going with all of this. I think that there is almost a universal curiosity on the part of males with respect to how other males cope with sexual feelings, arousal, and the path to ejaculation. This is not a straight or gay issue as such. This curiosity begins at puberty, or even before, and it extends into adulthood, perhaps through adulthood. Guys figure out what feels good at a very early age, and are curious as to whether other guys have discovered something similar, and if so, how they cope. As I have indicated earlier, this sexual tension of sorts is the fodder for most coming-of-age movies where horny guys typically try to act on what they have learned. But oddly enough, a scene involving solo masturbation, even a scene in which the guy is wearing a swim brief as this is happening, is still considered too rough to be presented in an R-rated movie for a mass audience. Despite R-rated movies showing practically everything that goes on between couples sexually, male masturbation rarely occurs in non-porn movies, and if it does, everything is usually implied (say, showing the face but not the body of the masturbator) and not presented with any detail.

So, solo sex is treated as if it is raunchier than most forms of partner sex. There is something really bad, unacceptable or dirty about male masturbation that goes beyond the raunchiness or regular sexual intercourse.

The reality of being a guy is quite the opposite. Partner sex carries all the real risks associated with being a sexual human being: Solo sex generally is a perfectly safe and readily available alternative.

Even more complicated is the situation for the guy who has discovered that he greatly enjoys getting aroused by and then getting off while wearing, say ,a swim brief or a skimpy jock strap, with or without a cup. The sex researchers have already labeled this poor guy as a person who is on the abnormal side of sexual psychology, and stuck with a fetish, as in a sexual attraction to an inanimate object. Never mind that the garment helps him get to some of the best orgasms he has ever experienced. The sex researchers like to simply ignore that, as they are fixated on the idea that partner sex is the only true way to sexual happiness for a guy.

But keep in mind that for a long time, these same sex researchers thought penis and vagina was the only real sex, and that whatever gay males did either with or to each other was somehow abnormal too. The thinking on that subject has changed a lot, and gays are no longer treated as if they were part of the chapter on abnormal sexual psychology.

Will male masturbation ever be treated by sex researchers as more than only a substitute sexual release that is important to guys early in life and perhaps late in life, when a real partner for sex is no longer available, but an inferior sexual release used primarily by the socially-challenged and otherwise unfortunate at all other points during a lifetime.

An even more complicated question is whether or not the use of a garment as a way to drastically improve the quality of male masturbation such as a swim brief or jock strap will ever get a billing that no longer places this in the category of just another abnormal or oddball male fetish. I confess that I love to watch how other guys respond to a situation in which their body parts are contained in a garment that simply provides little if any room to expand should the need for more room manifest itself. This, I think is a natural curiosity on the part of most males extending from puberty onward, and not something only guys who believe themselves to be gay are interested in observing and doing.

When Dylan watches Josh masturbate himself in that tiny little Desmiit® thong, Dylan is drawn into not repulsed by what he is seeing. And for Josh, having Dylan there watching him adds a new psychosexual element to the total experience for Josh, something that he might have daydreamed about, but could never actually try earlier in life. This moves to yet another level as the four guys engage in various gym workout activities while being clad in various items of snug-fitting clothing. All of them should be now reentering their dorm rooms after the workout experience, really ready to blow in what turned out to be a sexually tense series of moments at the gym as has ever occurred in each of their young lives.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

What exactly is it about a skimpy Lycra® blend swimming brief, anyway, that makes guys so interested in them and yet so apprehensive about wearing one, at least for a lot of guys?

That is an interesting question, and a question that in all this time has not been adequately studied. Videos aimed primarily at a gay male audience frequently feature two guys, both clad in skimpy swim briefs, and doing various things to each other. Sometimes the actors begin with more clothes on over the swimming briefs, but they soon strip down to just the briefs, and a lot of the action sequences in the videos occurs with the briefs still in place.

I have noticed something. Almost invariably, the penises of the guys in the videos, tho fully covered by the briefs, almost invariably put in the “up” position.

As any swim-brief wearer knows, finding a place for your penis to comfortably be is one of the more interesting aspects of wearing a swim brief. Bluntly put, some guys are bigger than other guys flaccid, and the big guys are going to probably have more difficulty with this than the smaller guys will have.

There are three basic positions, down, to the side (R or L) and up. Down, if you can fit, is by far the most conservative, least attention grabbing position, if you are small enough so that the position does not cause you undue discomfort. And remember, swim briefs are intended for swimming and perhaps other athletic endeavors, so a guy needs to have a freedom of movement without discomfort, and that is much easier for the little guys

The second option is to one side or the other, and that works for some of the bigger guys who find the down position uncomfortable. The problem with this position is that it makes a guy look lopsided and bigger on one side or another. And even a slightly erect penis sideways is quite noticeable, tho you see guys positioned this way in photos such as swim team pictures.

That lease up as the swim brief penis position of choice for most guys wearing swim briefs. That gives the guy a good-looking bulge in the groin area, as seen in the Superman or Batman movies. Some guys think this is a cool look: for others, that is where the apprehension starts.

If a guy positions his penis upward in a swim brief, he needs to be at least a little erect to pull off “the look”. But the more interesting aspect of this is that the position places the sensitive underside of the penis outward against the slick Lycra nylon pouch. Anyone looking closely at the swimmer will be able to see the sensitive underside of the swimmer’s penis pressed against the fabric, and probably be able to also make out at least an outline of the guy’s sensitive glans area just beneath the not-very-thick fabric.

This is the part where many guys start to get really apprehensive. Guys reach puberty at age 11 or 12. By age 13 they have likely determined that not all parts of the male penis are equally sensitive when touched or rubbed. Guys quickly learn that the entire underside of the penis produces more interesting and powerful sensations than the top side. And that glans area is a real “hot spot” that if touched or rubbed will send a guy into an orgasm perhaps within seconds. Such is the workings of the male anatomy.

The sites that store photos for use by the public generally have issues in dealing with this. Generally, a photo of a guy clad in a swim brief would not be labeled pornographic. Some photos of a guy wearing a swim brief in which it is obvious that the guy’s penis is there and pointing upward would not be deemed pornographic either. And, as I have indicated, if a guy is pointed up he usually has at least a bit of a hard-on going on.

But for the photo site, where do you draw the line between a swim brief clad guy that is OK for general viewing versus pornographic. Obviously if the swim brief clad guy has a major upward pointing hard-on that photo get treated as pornographic even if the guy’s erection is fully covered. But what about partial but fully covered erections? There is no hard and firm (no pun intended) rule here:), and what is called pornographic depends on someone at the photo site calling it that or not.

Still, if on-line photos are any indication ranging from simple swimmer and swim team photos all the way to the porn videos, the up position is by far the most popular way to go. Never mind that this is part of the reason for all the fear and apprehension among new swim-brief wearers. They are troubled by the entire thought of exposing the sensitive underside and super sensitive glans area to the rest of the world in this manner, even if fully covered. Yet at another level they see other guys doing this and somehow managing. I guess if I were a young swimmer trying this for the first time I would be somewhat nervous too. What if wearing my brief with my penis in that position leads me to get more of a hard on, perhaps things escalate and I blow off with the tip of my penis in that position, creating a wet sticky mess for everyone else to see. That is the apprehension or sheer terror about the whole idea of wearing a swim brief in public. Better to put the brief on for the first time at home, in your bedroom, door locked and looking at yourself in front of a mirror.

But, back to Dylan and Josh. When I last left Dylan and Josh, they were walking home from the gym after a workout, Dylan clad in a skimpy swim brief with compression shorts and a tee over: Josh in a skimpy pair of thong underwear with a tight-and snug forest green wrestling singlet over, the one josh ad borrowed from Dylan just for the occasion. By now, my readers must realize that Josh and Dylan have been feeling quite horny, and have been ever since they started this trip to the gym. Guys their age may not go off, but are leaking pre cum on a steady basis.

One of the interesting aspects of the porn videos featuring two guys in swim briefs is in seeing what stuff two guys can and do to themselves and each other clad this way, semi-hard, penis up inside the brief. Every guy knows that being in this situation even without anything happening from the outside can prove quite arousing. I suppose it would be the politically correct thing to say is that only a gay guy would be interested in seeing another guy in this condition. But, I think the interest of other guys in observing this and “enjoying” what they are observing is all but universal. In other word, this fascination with how other guys wear swim brief and how they position their penis within the pouch is a near universal male curiosity, in part because every guy somehow knows that the guy who is being observed has to be at some level “enjoying” the situation he is in and that is a universal curiosity.

But how far does this go. Are guys who like to look at and study other guys in such a situation straight or gay? Is ANY interest in such a situation strictly a gay thing or not.

The porn videos can be instructive here. First we see two, apparently well acquainted guys just touching each other on parts of the body not considered to be particularly sexual. But they soon work their way to each other’s penis up bulges and start touching and fondling that area briefs till on. Each emits low growls of sexual pleasure (you know how great that area of the penis feels when rubbed through the brief. After that, what happens varies. In some videos, a guy brings out a small electric vibrator, and the two guys end up swiping the underside of each other’s penises with the head of the vibrator. This, of course, feels great, and the two guys groan in a combination of pleasure and sexual agony.

So, Dylan and Josh are now back from the gym and in their private dorm room. Dylan has stripped off his compression gear and is now down to his swim brief, penis somewhat hard still and pointing up. Josh is now out of his forest green wrestling singlet, though that was a bit more of a struggle, given how wrestling singlets are made. Keep in mind that both Dylan and Josh have been feeling quite horny all afternoon. Because of this, they are both getting increasingly desperate to get off, and they both know that because of all of this they are each likely to bow with a most intense orgasm once it finally does happen.

The safest and most acceptable way for each of them to do this is to somehow find private space to get off, a strategy they might have used in their younger years. But here they are, both horny as all get out and both stuck together in the little dorm room. Dylan has to be enjoying seeing Josh stuck in this predicament. Josh the same with Dylan. Both of them know exactly what is going on, or at least so they think.

So what now? Hosh and Dylan could each engage themselves in solo masturbation. The pressure of the thong pushing up on his perineum with the thong back pressing between his glutes is, quite frankly at the point where it is driving Josh bananas in a sexual sensations way. Josh’s engouged penis is positioned upwards as well inside the thong pouch and the emlargement keeps putting more and pore pressure both on the sensitive and sexually active perineum area and between the glutes.

Dylan is faring hardly better in his little swim brief, the slick material rubbing nicely across the most sensitive parts of the penis.

At this point, in the gay porn videos, each guy would attempt to extend a hand or finger to help the other guy out in his current predicament. That means not only pleasuring yourself, but fondling the other guy’s erect and sensitive penis in ways he might not expect.

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[sebbie]

But, Josh and Dylan have always regarded themselves as “perfectly straight” and interested only in women in a sexual way. Does “extending a helpful hand” in a situation like this somehow “cross the line” making Dylan and Josh gay or perhaps bisexual and not as straight as they once thought they were. And what would other guys in this situation do? Don’t situations like this occur regularly in twin dorm rooms occupied by males at colleges and universities all around the country? And what of college males who know that they are gay? Is there a rule somewhere that says that two gay guys, out or not, cannot room together in a twin room in a college dorm?

All of this is confusing, at best, even if it is a wonderful part of being a guy.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

I have been thinking a lot about Dylan and Josh’s dilemma and the options that are available to them. That got me to thinking about my own college days, and rooming in a single-sex all male dorm. I had the opportunity to move into a then brand new high rise building at the start of my third year in college. The interesting thing about this dorm is that most of the rooms were set up as doubles, but there were a few single rooms available, nine total to be exact. So, if a guy wanted a single room, he had to move quickly on the day the rooms were assigned.

Even then I was always thinking about the issues involved in pairing up with a male roommate and whether that was going to interfere with my ability to engage in a most favored activity, solo masturbation. A private room would solve a lot of problems and potential issues in this regard.

The dorm setup was in the new suite-type style, A suite consisted of two double rooms, and a hallway containing sinks, a toilet with a door on it, and a walk in shower. These facilities were shared by the four guys in the two rooms. This setup was quite different from the old-style dorm setup where the bathroom was way down an open hall a long way from many of the individual rooms. A marked improvement from the old setup, I thought.

Most of the suits had two rooms each with 2 beds and two occupants, but nine of the suites had a 3rd room that was only big enough for one occupant. That is where I wanted to see. I would share the common facilities with my suitemates and deal with them as roommates otherwise when I wanted, or not. If I felt like masturbating (which happened regularly) that was simple: I would just close the door to my room and jerk off to my hearts content. I picked out the single on the 9th, top floor, and I was lucky enough to get it. Never mind that this posed an issue when the fire alarm went off and I would have to go 9 floors down the stairs. That was but a minor issue given the private (masturbation) space the single gave me.
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So, here is the picture. I’m the single, a nerdy, scholarly guy (me) who seemed mainly about studying and getting good grades. Then there were four other guys: Bruce and Brian, brothers in one of the twin rooms, and Cedric and his roommate in the other. Cedric’s roommate was one of these guys who spent almost no time in the dorm room. I saw him so seldom that I do not even remember his name. Mainly he used his closet in the dorm room to store booze of various kinds, surreptitiously. Now keeping a stash of alcoholic beverages in your dorm room was strictly against University and University run dorm rules. After all most of the guys were under 21 and could not drink legally. But that didn’t stop a lot of guys, and there was a crackdown only if things were starting to get out of hand, say complaints from your roommate.
So, Cedric had nearly a single room because his roommate was seldom around.

Bruce and Brian were brothers. Bruce was a serious student and starting out a path that would get him a professional degree. Bruce warned us that his brother Brian was a bit weird in a lot of different ways. Brian seemed to be the kind of guy who probably got into trouble with his teachers in high school on many occasions. He was constantly thinking up stunts that, while not in any way were mean toward the rest of us, but still more than a little weird and funny. Generally he seemed able to avoid conflicts with the laws, and if he had an arrest record at all, it was not for any serious offenses. He was rather outgoing, however. Whenever a guy came back from a date his favorite question would be “does she suck?” This was funny but only for the first few times.

Now Cedric played varsity football. This was a big deal at school in part because the team vas very highly regarded and seldom lost a game. But Cedric was only a freshman, so he wasn’t that far along football wise.

Somehow Cedric and Bryan liked each other very much and became good friends. I think to a degree Cedric was fascinated by Bryans ability to get by saying and doing things that might press the envelope just a bit and cause others to say “what is with this guy, anyway?”

One day I wondered home from class, and surely something weird is happening. Cedric and Bryan were both lying crosswise on Cedric beds, backs to their butts flat on the mattress, both with their legs completely propped up against the wall next to the bed in an “L” shape.

Both of them were clad only in a pair of cotton briefs, and maybe a tee. My first reaction was what were these two guys doing dressed this way and propped up this way? But it didn’t take me long to determining that they were together engaging in masturbation. Both of them were playing with their penises hanging downward from the upward position that their legs were in. They would stroke their own penises for a minute or two and then each of them would reach over and stroke the other guy’s penis. So this was something of a mutual masturbation. The room door was wide open and Bruce was there watching all of this, seemingly not the least bit repulsed by what was happening, but fascinated by the dumb stuff his brother got into doing. Bruce invited me right in to watch the proceeds underway. Cedric and Bryan seemed not the least bit unhappy to have a suite mate audience. In fact, having the audience of two more guys just watching them do this to themselves and each other seemed to turn them on even more.

They did this at least a couple more times that year that I was aware of. Maybe they did this as a pair more often than I knew. I have never quite determined why they seemed to favor what seemed to me to be such an oddball masturbation method. Of course, given that I had a convenient and private room, I tried the method of propping myself up the same way and then playing with myself, but I never quite saw what made the method so attractive or fun. The nerdy scholar had other, more erotic and interesting schemes in mind. Were both Bryan and Cedric gay or bisexual? That has always been an interesting question. Brian appears to now have a wife (a female). I‘m not sure what happened to Cedric.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

What do Dylan and Josh have to do with Cedric and Brian? It turns out, quite a lot. Writing about Cedric and Brian got me to thinking some more about what was going on in my own brain and body when I was that age. Male hormones are bombarding a guy’s brain relentlessly, and yet a guy does not fully understand how he is supposed to deal with this. At some level, a guy knows that all of this has something to do with forming a relationship with a partner, most commonly female, but even at 19, a lot of guys are not going to be prepared to deal with the consequences of penis-vagina sex. But the hormones relentlessly keep the guy feeling horny, more or less constantly, unless he can figure out a way to get some periodic relief from this situation.

What kind of relief? Well, you can guess. This need and urge to jerk off is all but universal among college-age males, never mind all of the elaborate schemes guys work out in order to attempt to do this on the sly, under the cover of darkness. Partner sex is fun, but jerking off on your own is terrific fun too. That is, if you can only figure out a way to do this secretly. Or, maybe not.

Now, the thing you need to know about Brian and Cedric was that they both fell into the category of pranksters. They loved to do things that, as Bruce, Brian’s brother, would call “grossing out” their friends just to see how they would react. In this case, masturbation with the other roommates watching was just another prank to them. And of course, just the idea of Brian jerking of Cedric and Cedric jerking off Brian brought the prank to a whole new level on the “gross out” scale. The two of them were having just as much fun seeing how Bruce and I would react to them jerking off themselves and each other as we watched them doing something “really gross” as they were jerking off.

One way of looking at this I suppose was that it was my first encounter with the idea of a gay sexual act. Brian and Cedric both knew that, and that did not stop them in the least. I admit that I was pretty naïve, sexually. I loved jerking off but my list of techniques for doing this was, well, candidly, rather limited. I was very curious as to whether the other guys my age had mastered skills in this department that I had not yet acquired, and what Brian and Cedric were each doing to themselves and each other certainly added to my information set in this regard. But was I observing first hand a couple guys who, if not gay, were at least bisexual? That was an interesting question. Neither of them was dating a woman so far as I knew, at least not steadily.

Well, what happened was that both of them graduated from college. I lost track of Cedric, but Brian married and raised a family. There has been quite a bit of research by sex researchers on the whole subject of male-male sexual conduct that might be seen as one form of gay sex and its link to ultimate sexual orientation. A quick summary of that research says that perhaps 40 % of males who eventually marry have, at some point in their lives, had a sexual encounter with another male that led to an orgasm for one or both. The sex researchers seem less concerned about the meaning of all of this in relation to whether or not an occasional male-male sexual encounters means the guy is gay or bisexual than the public at large. The public at large seems to think that if this has happened at all the guy therefore must be at minimum bisexual if not “entirely” gay.

This gets into some really tricky stuff and into things about human sexual behavior that are not at all fully understood. First, let me say that I am as open minded as all get out on the entire subject of sexual orientation, and a proponent of the “whatever floats your boat” school of thinking on this. But I find it endlessly fascinating to try and better understand how guys get to the point where they eventually end up in this regard.

I’ve read all the stuff related to the science that says sexual orientation is ultimately determined by one’s genes. This perspective is the one promoted by the gay community--that a guy has no choice at all in the matter of sexual orientation but is stuck with whatever his genes say he should be.

But then, I keep thinking that in real life, sexual orientation determination is not nearly so simple and clear cut as this. People fall all over the five point scale from straight to gay and basically everything in between. At some point a guy might form a partnership that involves sex with another person, and that person will be either male or female. So the decision at that point is more or less 0-1. But then you have true bisexuals who like having sex with partners of either sex, and they do not fall neatly into one category or another.

I further conclude that guys who might ultimately live out their lives in a straight relationship may also have enjoyed engaging in some sort of sexual activity with a male partner. At the end of the day, the preference is still for being with a female, but that doesn’t discount the possibility that the male encounter perhaps was really fun sexually too. Seeing either sex as being absolutely equal in this regard (as a “true“ bisexual) is likely rare but certainly possible. At some point, most guys are going to get to the point where they at least prefer having a physical partner of one sex over the other, and, based on this most guys seem to ultimately be able to determine if they are actually gay or straight. At least, I think that is what is going on.

There have been many movies where the plot line involves a married man who has a gay male encounter, and what that means for a marriage. Sometimes males divorce wives and take up with a gay male. Sometimes females divorce husbands and move into a lesbian relationship. I’ve seen all of this up close in real life too. My only observation is that in general for both males and females, they seem to me to mostly be happier after the heterosexual breakup than before. I don’t want to ever judge people male or female in this regard based on what they choose to do. I’m not walking in their shoes, except to say that sexual orientation might be a bit more fluid than some of the gay rights advocates might care to admit given the effort made to promote the idea that sexual orientation is written in the genes and unwavering otherwise. Is this all somehow written genetically, or could circumstances matter and feelings about sexual orientation in one direction or another evolve in one direction or the other over time?

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So, what does all of this have to do with modern-day Dylan and Josh, horny college roommates stuck together in a cramped dorm room? As you might imagine, there are parts of both Dylan and Josh who remind me a lot of myself when I was their age. I was a nerdy 110 lb weakling. At that age, I was getting erections too, relentlessly, and seemingly for no obvious reason. I was always in search of a degree of privacy so I could jack off without interruption.

The various clothing items of course play a role in the two of them feeling horny as all get out. They were able to wear items that I could have only dreamed and fantasized about of wearing in that regard at that age. The complicated part of this story has now arrived. Josh has already seen Dylan masturbating in the room. Josh was not repulsed by this, and Dylan didn’t stop just because Josh had accidentally wandered back from class a little early. I guess a “real” straight guy is supposed to somehow be repulsed by being able to observe close up another guy jerking off. At least, that is how this would likely have all played out in high school. But Josh and Dylan are young adults now and the rules on this might have changed.

If Josh somehow gets aroused himself in part by watching Dylan engage in solo sex, does that mean that Josh has a gay or bisexual streak to his personality? Now Josh not Dylan has been wearing that magnificent thong underwear. And then there is Dylan, wearing that little Desmiit® swim brief. Can you imagine Dylan, penis pointed up in the brief pouch, with the underside clearly rubbing against that super slick fabric? Can you imagine josh getting even more turned on just by looking close up at how Dylan has all those sensitive male body parts positioned? What if one thing leads to another, and the two of them decide they would like to touch or grope each other’s penises while still contained in the swim brief or thong?

And what of their buds Bill and Joe, also horny but wearing different items, straps, cups and compression gear? Wouldn’t Bill end Joe greatly “enjoy” watching Dylan and Josh messing around with themselves and each other? Bill and Joe have been good friends to Dylan and Josh, teaching them a few things about clothing items and their potential for making masturbation more exciting. It seems a shame not to invite Bill and Joe into their dorm room to watch all of this, Just as Bruce and I were keen observers of what Brian and Cedric were up to, alone or with each other even as we acted as if what they were seeing was repulsive.

And why does any of this need to have anything to do with determining if each of the four is ultimately gay or straight? For now the four of them are just college buddies who get horny and are trying their best to cope with what is happening to them in the male hormone department. The rest of it can wait. These are moments in a guys live to be savored, not repulsed. Or so it seems.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

A lot of guys shortly after puberty sets in discover that their penises don’t always behave like a guy might expect. Generally penises like to become tense, hard and erect when a guy thinks about or encounters something he regards as sexually exciting. Not long after, guys learn that there are situations that other guys think are OK to get hard-on. Generally, these involve an encounter with a female regarded as sexy pretty. But other instances where a penis gets hard and erect are not considered socially acceptable.

Still, a guy soon determines that male sexually is not anywhere near this simple. For starters, sometimes guys have “reactions” just thinking about stuff. While sometimes these daydreams (or night dreams) may involve a female, sometimes this stuff may go off in many other directions, the scariest direction being a situation that involves no female at all. Young gay guys may daydream or night dream about an encounter with another guy, and these dreams may parallel to a large degree those that straight guys have, except for the gender, of course. My objective today is not to go down that trail, but instead head down a different trail.

Nearly every guy at some point in his life has gotten into a situation where he has gotten an erection at a time and in a situation that he deems inappropriate, or at least his male peers would think is inappropriate. A lot of these happen in instances where there is no partner present at all. A lot of guys are really embarrassed by all of this, and think that there is something wrong simply because the guy’s head is saying one thing and the guy’s body is clearly saying something different. It’s this old problem of getting aroused in a situation where the guy thinks he isn’t supposed to be aroused.

No better example of this problem that a guy who gets aroused whenever he wears snug-fitting clothing, or even thinks about wearing snug-fitting clothing. Now there is nothing unsafe or illegal about wearing snug-fitting clothing. The only real problem is that if the other guys discover that I like to do this, I will likely get teased or bullied, unless, of course, there are other guys out there who also think its fun to get aroused wearing snug-fitting clothing.

So, what is the problem with all of this, then? Erections are fun. Really fun. Now the sad part is that there are lots of issues and dangers associated with having an erection in partner sex, whether the partner is male or female. The girl could get pregnant. An STD may get transmitted, Gonorrhea or Herpes, or even HIV. I can think of a dozen reasons why a guy might not want to have full-scale sex with a partner. Yet, erections keep happening, and something has to give, and probably on a regular basis.


I’ve talked a lot about male masturbation here. This has been a nearly constant theme. Now, I would be the first to admit that there is nothing at all wrong if a guy simply wants to rub or stroke himself to orgasm in the privacy of his own bedroom or bathroom. Oftentimes his must be done in a hurry, so as to not tip off to others what the guy is up to.

But what if a guy discovers that masturbation is a whole lot more fun by wearing (being contained in) certain clothing items? If a guy enjoys masturbating more if he wears something that fits snuggly around his penis, and feels smooth to the touch, does that somehow make a guy weird, a freak of sorts? Well, only if he admits to doing that to his peers :) ?

Every guy who discovers this thinks he must be the only guy who does this, lest some of his peers would have mentioned this at some point. Yet, this has got to be one of the deepest, darkest secrets a guy normally keeps to himself.

Except for Dylan, Josh, Bill and Joe, of course, college freshman who have gotten pretty casual about all of this, first with themselves, and then, at least to a degree, with each other.

What kinds of clothing items do guys particularly like for this purpose? For the most part, the entire list is fairly short.

Brief-style swimwear perhaps tops the list of clothing items leading to male arousal in this respect. I’m convinced that a lot of the fear guys have of wearing swim briefs is linked directly to the fear that they will get an erection just putting a swim brief on, and one thing will lead to another. There is no greater fear a guy has than being seen in public not only with a an erection, but scarier still, a cum-stain on the front of the brief.

Jock straps are probably only slightly less scary in this regard than swim briefs.
 
Men’s thong underwear are right up there too in this regard, though most guys worry less about this as they believe that if they are wearing thong underwear they will be covered by something else, say a pair of shorts or jeans, so the danger of being seen erect but uncovered is less.

Then there is the whole category of compression gear, the tees but particularly the shorts, which will do a good job of revealing a guy if he is at all erect. Swimming jammers are actually an offshoot of compression shorts. Some guys wear these instead of a swim brief in the mistaken belief that if they get erect it will be less noticeable that they are in this condition. But that is largely a myth.

Wrestling singlets are made like swimming jammers but with a twist. Since the singlet is but one piece, there is a top with shoulder straps that like to tug at a guy’s groin area as he moves. Depending on your outlook, this can either be a feature or a potential problem.

A related increasingly popular item is snug fitting full tights designed for outdoor running.

The last item on this list has to include skinny jeans, once again hugely popular for guys. With the multi-stretch Spandex denim, some of these are becoming nearly as snug-fitting as a jammer or running tight. Good luck getting in and out of these without getting an erection.

It used to be, guys would occasionally get their nerve up for going to the shopping mall to find one or more of these items. But now, with on-line shopping, it is sometimes advantageous to make on line purchases. The selection and options will be greater, too.

How will a guy know if he has found an item that interests him at an on line retailer? Well, the male body is set up to do just that. That is where the cowpers gland and the precum sets in. If a guy starts precumming, just thinking about buying a certain item of interest, this is probably something he should try ordering. Beats getting yourself into a potentially embarrassing situation at the local store, and avoid the potential embarrassment associated making the purchase with a real sales clerk. That’s what Bill, Joe and then Dylan found out.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

I presume my readers would not still be following my stories if they did not see something of themselves in the story characters. In other words, my readers would not be here reading this were it not for the likely fact that there is an arousal mechanism at work just hearing about the escapades of the guys in the stories getting aroused by wearing various items of snug-fitting clothing. OK, so reading these stories is at least a bit of a turn-on for you. If otherwise, why have you read this far.

But, let me suppose that you are new to all of this. You have discovered that you suddenly get turned on by the very thought of being in the situation that Dylan, or Josh, or Joe or Bill have been facing, but, where to start, anyway?

Well, if you have not ever actually tried doing some of the things that the four college guys have been enjoying, you do need a place to start. And the logical starting point would be with (surprise!) a swim brief.

Here, I may surprise some of you, because I am going to suggest not the smallest, tightest, skimpiest swim brief you can find on an on line store, but instead, something pretty basic and purposeful. And something that could be worn for swimming at practically any pool without any concern.

What is that, exactly? Interestingly, I come back to what is perhaps the most basic of all swim briefs. A simple “standard-cut Speedo®” with approximately 3-inch sides in a very common and ordinary, color, one that has been out there for ages, Royal Blue! And, I am suggesting that you purchase one of these in your normal waist size, say a 30, 32 or even a 34-inch waist if that is what you think you need.

Some of you are probably wondering what gives here anyway? Bill, Joe, Josh and Dylan don’t each have one of these. Can this clunky a swim brief somehow still be sexy and arousing? Could this possibly get me turned on in the manner these stories have been describing? Isn’t this more than a little old fashioned?

Well, yes to all of that. But, consider, one of the sexiest moments in all of swim brief wearing occurred in Season 6 of the long-Running “Dallas” nighttime soap. A then-young Christopher Atkins had this thing for the much older wife of J.R. Ewing played by a then still relatively young Linda Gray. Christopher plays a camp counselor for the Ewing boy. Numerous scenes are shot near a pool either at the camp or at the pool on the Ewing ranch.
What you will want to do is Google “Christopher Atkins Blue Speedo” and then do a Google Image search on that. You will see multiple photos of Atkins wearing the same Royal Blue brief with a Speedo logo. There is one thing that is basically the same in all of these multiple photos of Chris in his Royal Blue Speedo with three-inch sides. That thing is what appears to be an at least somewhat erect penis clearly in the “up” position, and pressing tightly against the slick confines of the blue Speedo.

The producers of Dallas probably had a plan in mind when they let Christopher dress that way. They had to know that the camera would pick up the outline of the underside of Christopher’s penis underside pressing up against the slick blue Speedo®.

But, I would argue that this same visual had to affect men, straight, gay or in-between as well. As many of you know, I have been stressing the idea that the underside of a guy’s penis is a whole lot more sensitive to tough than the top side. Any guy who looks at these photos has got to realize that Christopher must be feeling quite good when those photos were taken in all sorts of different ways.

From here, it is only a short leap to a guy wanting to try this himself, understanding now full well with a guy who is wearing a classic Royal Blue Speedo ® with 3 inch sides is likely going to feel quite horny, and especially so with a semi-erect penis pointing “up” inside the Speedo® Indeed, any guy would have to be brain dead in all sorts of ways to not want to try the same thing himself.

I may suggest to Josh and Dylan that perhaps they might want their own old school Royal Blue Speedo with three inch sides. There is something about all of this that makes even guys who thought they were somehow “immune” to getting turned on by this idea to suddenly change their minds.

So, see where you come out on all of this by following the instructions, above. The classic blue Speedo is the place to start in your quest.

To be continued…

[dm106]

Linda Gray (not Linda Evans) was on Dallas. Linda Evans was on Dynasty. Great story, and I never realized that he might be semi in Dallas until I did look at the photos. Some are there of him nude as well but not from Dallas.

[sebbie]

I corrected that... Been watching Big Valley reruns, which included a young Linda Evans. It was Linda Gray's leg in the famous poster for "The Graduate"not Anne Bancroft's. :-)

[sebbie]

The Internet photos showing Christopher Atkins wearing a royal blue Speedo® swim brief pose a whole series of interesting questions. The first of these issues relates to the fact that what you are seeing are stills from a network television show, albeit when TV was not being broadcast in HD. Still, that Atkins’ male anatomy under the shiny blue swimsuit was readily visible could not have been lost on the show’s producers.

Network television is highly regulated not only with respect to foul language, but also barring anything that would be considered a bit pornographic. Maybe the censors simply assumed that any detail here would be on the screen for just a second or two quickly gone (this is TV, for goodness sakes), or would be completely lost in the low definition of broadcast TV then.

At the time the Dallas show aired, Christopher Atkins already had quite a reputation for his sexual escapades in the movie, “the Blue Lagoon”, and that movie had been very successful at the box office, largely on the looks and bodies of the two stars, Brook Shields and Christopher Atkins, marooned and cavorting in and out of their clothes on a deserted tropical island. That movie was released in 1980, and Atkins probably had just turned 18 when it was filmed (although he looked somewhat younger than that).

The Dallas episodes featuring Atkins (Played as a character named Peter Richards, a fine name choice given the Speedo photos. Also, the Atkins character in the Blue Lagoon had a first name of Richard, so somehow the name “Peter Richards” seemed completely logical and fitting) aired in 1984. Atkins (Peter Richards) was probably 22 years old when the Dallas episodes were filmed.

One would not have expected Dallas to hire Atkins with the idea that he would now be fully clothed in all the episodes, and the story line making Peter Richards a camp counselor who taught the young campers how to swim was perfect. Besides, Network TV is all about getting the ratings, and presumably seeing Peter Richards, clad only in a blue Speedo and a semi hard-on, would send the (mainly female) viewers into a frenzy. That had to be good for the show’s ratings. And, six years into its run, a lot of the Dallas plot lines had already been explored. J.R. Ewing, had already had affairs with most of the rest of the female cast, usually a different cast member in each episode, but the idea of Sue Ellen, JR’s wife and Linda Gray’s character, having an affair with the young and semi-erect and Speedo-clad Peter Richards was just too good to pass up.

The stills of the episodes showing Peter Richards in his semi-enlarged condition on the Internet have all been captured and preserved for posterity. I have no idea whether or not females still find these photos to be sexually arousing. I would think so, but I do not know that for a fact.

The other question is what do the guys think of these photos, and, in particular, do guys find them in any way interesting and perhaps even arousing? I suppose that many of my readers think that the answer to that question would depend on whether the guy seeing the photos is straight or gay, with gay guys finding them arousing but straight guys not.

That would be a simple analysis, but I think that oversimplifies to the point of being inaccurate. If you have been reading my stories this far, you no doubt realize that I am very aware of the fact that the underside of a guy’s penis is almost invariably more sensitive to touch than the other sides, and as a guy gets erect this effect only increases. Second, the slick fabric of the royal blue swim brief touching the penis underside should only increase the sensations, but especially so if the guy is semi-erect, as Peter is in the photos.

Finally, there is something really interesting seeing another guy in this condition and position wearing a swim brief. One might think that this would clearly be a “gay thing”. In other words, gay guys might think this is arousing but straight guys, being perfectly straight, would not This is some of the same stuff Josh and Dylan have been trying to cope with in the story. A particular item of clothing such as a bright blue swim brief, semi-hard, penis pointed up, might be sexually arousing for me, but if I know you, my buddy, in a similar condition, similarly clad, is also experiencing something similar that must be equally arousing for him, the fun for both of us is doubled, tripled, or even quadrupled.

Is this just a gay male thing, or does this somehow also apply to most guys who claim to be straight? That is a fascinating question to pose. I hold the view that this is all nearly universal among all guys, but I cannot prove it. If my view is right, this is not just a gay thing at all. There is a lot more going on here than that. If I could figure this all out, I would be able to find the answer to the basic question as to why guys are often attracted to the idea of wearing a swim brief and yet very fearful. Does a guy worry that he will somehow look like Peter Richards and then what? Does this fear turn into repulsion? Women who object to men wearing swim briefs seem to really have a core objection to seeing the covered male anatomy under the brief. But are they being turned on at the same time, and is the turn-on that they find at once fun and exciting but somehow repulsive?

Complicated questions, all.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

I was thinking of continuing on a theme focusing on Royal Blue Speedos® and the great fun a guy can have with his penis in an “up” position pressed against the slick blue cloth, but, every once and awhile I need to stop and instead try some ideas to make certain that they work as well as my stories say they do.

I have been writing at length about Dylan, Josh, Bill and Joe and the items of clothing that they have been wearing that lead to a sweet place of arousal, the kind of arousal that does not quickly culminate in an orgasm. If you stop and think about it, this is the theme of all of these stories, stories that focus on the basic idea that the longer a guy can remain aroused without getting off, the more fun the overall experience will be, and the more enjoyable the orgasm will be when the guy finally does reach that point.

I guess a lot of guys do not think in these terms, I’ve noted over and over the pressure guys are under to get any masturbation over as quickly as possible so as to minimize the chance of being “discovered” doing it, and how this need for speed works against the pure enjoyment a guy should be having from being aroused

Of course, a guy’s mind is very much a part of all of this. Once a guy is aroused, the urge to ejaculate does not simply remain constant or stable. Indeed, a guy’s brain is being bombarded with signals from his body of the imminent urge to ejaculate. Simply coping with all of this becomes something of a struggle, though a very interesting struggle to be sure.

Now, a guy wearing a royal blue Speedo® at a pool or in another public setting, even in a semi-erect, penis-up situation, is also in a situation whereby he cannot get off without creating a potentially very embarrassing situation, and he knows that. Feeling that slick blue Speedo rubbing against the underside of your penis is terrific fun, but not the kind of fun that can be readily relieved. Somehow, the guy, while enjoying himself, still has to cope with the external situation he is in. And the mere act of learning how to cope is in itself part of the fun.

Anyone who has been following my stories here realizes that while I enjoy wearing Swim briefs, this is not the only situation I find fun to be in. As you might suspect by reading about Bill and Joe, another long time favorite of mine involves a snug fitting pair of men’s thong underwear, and an athletic supporter with a little hard cup. And, of course, over the top of all of this comes a pair of compression shorts. Some of you will probably say that was the same thing Bill and Joe wore when they went to bed in their dorm room. And Dylan and Josh have been experimenting with some of these items too.

What is it about these items that somehow “do it” for me (and for my story characters)? I guess I have long known that I have a “thing” for an assortment of snug-fitting clothing items. But is that all this is about, or is there more going on here? I’ve thought a lot about that. Is this just me, or would other guys likely be similarly “affected”? Well, guys do not normally talk to each other about such stuff.

So, today I decided to mess around a little and run some experiments. What I especially like about thong underwear is the way the best thongs not only push my penis upward and forward, but also provide a special “kick” in the perineum area that is directly below a guy’s prostate just behind his balls. Then there is the feel of the thong back cutting between the glutes. What might seem initially more than a little uncomfortable suddenly morphs into a wonderful combination of erotic sensations—sensations not to be missed, in my view.

Then, over the thong, its tough to beat a slightly undersized old school athletic supporter complete with an undersized hard jock cup. The neat thing about this is that the thong wants to push a guy’s penis forward and up, while the snug fitting cup wants to press inward and downward. The only way this can resolve itself is for the penis to press up against the largely immovable hard cup.

Penises can be a little weird. They want desperately to take up whatever space is made available to them, yet they seem to somehow know exactly where the limits are. In this case, of course, the penis cannot expand beyond the walls of the hard cup. Yet it doesn’t find where these walls are without getting just big enough to find out exactly where the walls of the cup are located.

Then of course, a pair of compression shorts hold everything in place co the cup can be moved around only a little in an effort to find a more “comfortable place to be.

So today, I decided to run some experiments, starting with a little cotton thong, covering that with a neat Franklin® strap with a cop small enough to barely accommodate my male anatomy, just the right size in my view. Then I found my old pair of Nike Compression shorts, which nicely held the cup in place just where I wanted it to be.

Then, of course, I had to go through my exercise program involving 30 minutes on a stationary rower, weights and then another 30 minutes on the stationary bike. I was feeling horny through the entire workout, but sometimes more so. The neat thing about all of this is that my overall arousal level remained high, although I did not get to a point where ejaculation was imminent. The workout time flew. An exercise workout CAN be quite enjoyable if you can figure out a way to stay horny but unrelieved through the entire workout I still have another 30 minutes to go on a different stationary rower…I’m feeling really really horny just thinking about all of this, but I want to stay with that and be unrelieved for now at least.

Would you find this fun too? Good question.

To be continued…

[dm106]

I can tell you from my swim team days as a teen, pointing up in the speedo did to me exactly what you are describing to the tee. Very hard to maintain control but I was several years younger than these guys in your story.

[sebbie]

Sometimes I don’t quite realize or appreciate what I have accomplished and whether or not what I am doing was successful or not until the next day, and such was the case for the events that transpired yesterday. I would be the first to admit that sexual arousal involves a crazy mixed up combination on the sheer physical sensations and the psychological, and without both in place it becomes difficult if not impossible for a guy to enjoy himself (his body). Now exactly what the specific combination involves is different for each guy and may involve a sexual partner, or not. I admit that I am always seeking out highly enjoyable schemes for playing with myself that do not involve all of the additional complexities of dealing with a partner for sex. I see nothing wrong with that at all, and indeed, that is part of the pure pleasure of the situation.

If the same or similar ideas work in a partner relationship, with both participants enjoying themselves and each other, I am all for that. But, I would argue that what I enjoy doing is available to every guy whether he has a sexual partner or not.

I woke up this morning with my mind fixated on how much fun I had yesterday and also looking forward to doing it all again and as soon as possible. One of the issues with the whole idea is that you have to have a significant block of time where you are not likely to be distracted with non-sexual thoughts and feelings. I would be the first to admit that some days are simply too busy for me in dealing with normal issues and problems that I would be unable to focus on the sheer intensity of what I was doing yesterday.

I am also a firm believer (no pun intended) that every guy should develop a routine that includes some physical form of exercise. I tend to approach this in the same manner I approach everything else. Part of what works for me is that my exercise does not involve playing in sports in competition with other guys…from the standpoint of sexual pleasure the idea of playing a competitive sport becomes merely a distraction that would not permit my mind to be in the places where I know I want it to be.

So, my daily workouts nowadays involve two thirty-minute sessions on two quite different stationary rowing machines, 30 minutes on a stationary bike, plus lifting weights on a machine (only about 10 minutes of the daily workout. This steady plan day after day could easily get to be boring, except, of course a couple of things. The first idea is that I have a TV I can watch during the longer periods. But, even on cable, some of the shows can get pretty boring.

That’s where the “gear” comes in. Wearing the proper gear, specifically the kind of stuff I know is certain to make me feel horny as I row and bike, my entire exercise routine is much more pleasant and non=boring. I am always on the prowl for gear that will work for my routine but will also do this to me in new and perhaps unexpected ways.

Yesterday’s experiment, the thong, the strap, the cup, and those snug Nike compression shorts worked extremely well. My penis was gently pressing against the walls of the cup through the entire workout, and the thong made its presence known in delightful ways with every stroke I made on the rowing machine and every turn of the cycle. I was mesmerized. The workout proceeded as if there was no time at all, even as the TV played in the background. My mind was not on the TV at all, but on what I was sensing and feeling with each stroke of the rower and turn of the cycle wheel. The combination of machine, exercise and just-the-right clothing mix was delightful in all sorts of different ways.

So, I’m fixated this morning on how much I want to go again, as in do it all over. Yesterday I accumulated a lot of pre cum in my thong and jock, and I decided to wash that out in my bathtub last night. I hung everything up and I hope it all will be dry before I am set to have at it again today. I know I have hit on something really neat if all I can think about is how much I want to do it all again.

A lot of guys complain they would love to get into a rigorous and consistent exercise program, but they are unable to keep it up (so to speak). Well, maybe part of the problem only lies in finding the right gear for exercise, gear that works for your specific mind and body. It is an interesting theory, for sure.

And so it goes….

To be continued..

[sebbie]

Every guy goes through natural cycles that occur in which sometimes he feels quite horny and sometimes not so much. Guys start to become aware of these natural cycles around puberty, but seem to get more noticeable in the late teens, around the age of Josh, Dylan, Bill and Joe. Every guy knows that sometimes he feels more horny, that is, more easily sexually aroused at some times rather than others. There are various explanations for this, one being the idea that testosterone levels do not remain steady, but are also cyclical with peaks and valleys. Guys often blame whatever is happening to them on the basis of male hormone levels at every moment in time.

But like lots of other things, blaming arousal levels on testosterone is an oversimplification of some very complicated things---things involving thoughts and ideas in addition to the body’s own chemistry. Most guys quickly learn that they cannot remain aroused or interested in sex if the mind is in any way distracted or working on a non sex-related problem. And, of course, there are all sorts of distractions that can easily derail sexual thoughts and feelings. For a guy to be able to enjoy his own body along with his own sexual thoughts and feelings requires a degree of focus on what is happening, or might soon happen sexually.

And here is the weird part: The ANTICIPATION of something that could happen with the ending being an orgasm might be nearly as enjoyable as the actual event, or the orgasm itself. That may seem like a strange thing to say, but it is true. Sexual arousal at its best takes time. A lot of guys somehow think that the faster they can get to the big payoff, the orgasm, the happier they are going to be, sexually, but quite the opposite is true. In this regard I am starting to sound like a sex therapist or marriage counselor, but that is fine.

What does all of this have to do with the story line involving “aids” like shiny royal blue Speedos® anyway, and employing such items to assist during sexual arousal. Now I am perhaps beginning to sound almost too “clinical” for my own good.

Let me bring this all back by getting you to think about the possibility of buying a royal blue Speedo, a basic swim brief with 3-inch sides. Perhaps you have never owned a swim brief before, but you have long admired the guys who seem to be able to wear a royal blue Speedo seemingly with confidence.

Sometimes in life, the anticipation of an event occurring ends up being more difficult to deal with than the event itself. For example, suppose you got into a situation where the only swimming gear that was available was a bright blue Speedo, but you didn’t know that was going to be the case until moments before you were going to enter the pool. In other words, you didn’t have a lengthy period of time to think about what you were going to do: you just got into the Speedo and hopped into the pool.

Now think about a situation where the swim coach says “all of the guys on the swim team will be expected to wear swim briefs. The correct gear has already been ordered and I will be passing this out for each of you to wear at practice a week from now.” Suddenly, this has become a very different and potentially much scarier situation for most guys. Each of the guys has a week to contemplate how the swim brief will fit and feel and how his body might “respond” on its own to the situation that will be occurring only a week away. Now, some of the guys may have worn swim briefs in the past, and may be less apprehensive about the whole situation. They know that, and so do you.

A complicating factor in all of this is that part of being a guy is all about maintaining control of a situation and being in charge of what is happening no matter what. But part of what makes the male sexual system so endlessly fascinating is the real possibility that a guy’s body could “respond” (as in a growing and hardening penis) even when the guy is attempting to make a conscious effort to tell is penis to quit doing that. Just more of this autonomic sexual response and the feeling of being out of control that scares guys so much. What am I going to do if I change into a swim brief and suddenly discover I have a big hard-on? What are my swim team buddies going to think if this happens? Am I gay? How can I cope with all of this? Of course, the more a guy thinks about this and agonizing over what could happen, chances are, the more likely it is for the event to occur. So contemplating and stewing over everything that might happen for an entire week is definitely not the best strategy.

Still, wearing a swim brief can generate a lot of horny fun sensations and feelings, and guys normally figure that out too, even at an early age. Having your penis in a slick=feeling and confined space such as what the swim brief provides can be a fun place for a guy to be, provided that you don’t get too horny or too aroused. Guys generally do not want to admit to that however. Still most guys would probably be at least a little curious to say the least.

All of this leads back to the love-hate relationship a lot of guys have with swim briefs. The possibility that a guy would uncontrollably blow while wearing a swim brief in a semi-public or public setting is a terrifying thought. But the thought of having your most sensitive male body part confined inside of a slick, snug fitting swim brief is in itself a very enjoyable thought. So which is it? For a lot of guys, the potential for sheer terror overrides the potential for something that is pure pleasure or fun. Truly, a complicated place to be in!

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan has known for a long time that he was “sensitive" to various kinds of snug-fitting clothing. It’s funny, because around puberty everything seems to be focused on the whole idea that a guy is likely going to start getting a real erection (and maybe an orgasm) in the presence of a girl. This is the way a guy like this is “supposed” to be. The whole idea of a guy possibly getting an erection and maybe having an orgasm too without being with a female partner is never discussed by anyone, but certainly not by Dylan’s parents or peer males in school. Everything seemed to be focused on the whole idea that the only reason there could be for a guy to get an erection is a female partner. And, of course the possibility that this could happen in the presence of another male was completely off the discussion lists.

So, Dylan has long been navigating uncertain waters entirely on his own. There was basically no one to talk about what had been happening to him with anyone, siblings, parents, or peers.

What exactly had been happening to Dylan and why did this end up being such a super secret topic, anyway. Well, like any “normal" post pubescent male Dylan had been getting erections, but sometimes for what appeared to be the strangest times and reasons. These were not situations where Dylan was with a girl. For that matter, these were not situations where Dylan was with another guy his age. Dylan had pretty well convinced himself that he wasn’t gay, but he was not certain that what was happening to him was exactly what was happening to other straight guys, you know, guys who made jokes about what had happened on a date with a girl.

Dylan thought of himself as being shy and nerdy, and certainly not the type to talk about what had happened to him and his body when he was in the presence of a girl. Some of the other guys semed to almost delight about providing too much information in that regard, and for Dylan this just dod not fit his personality at all.

Still, Dylan got erections pretty regularly, but in situations that his peer friends might quickly label as odd, or perhaps even gay. That was part of the problem, of course, that Dylan had no one to confide in.

What kind of situations? Well, I probably do not even need to explain this is detail, but just in case a few of my readers haven’t guessed about this part, there was this first time Dylan saw this picture of a guy wearing a snug-fitting swim brief, and the guy’s penis was clearly visible as an upward pointed bulge in the front of the swimsuit. The swimsuit was pretty much a standard sized brief, bright royal blue, a shiny polyester/Spandex blend. The brief was not even that skimpy, as skimpy swim briefs go. But, when Dylan saw that photo, it was like something big went off in both his mind and body. Dylan knew from that “brief” moment that this is the place he wanted for his own penis to be. Seeing the underside of a guy’s penis pressing against that slick-and-shiny material was almost too much for Dylan’s young brain to tolerate. That one photo provided an enormous amount of psychological pressure that permeated Dylan’s brain and body, and just thinking about that situation was the fodder for countless jerk-off sessions that extended all through Dylan’s high school days.

The great puzzle or Dylan was whether or not what had happened to him was “normal” for lots of guys his age. Dylan had no clue, and no one to ask that question to. It was too, well, embarrassing. Dylan kept thinking that because he got an erection just by looking at a guy wearing a blue swim brief, that might mean that he was gay, but simply was not willing to come to terms with that.

Now, a freshman in college, the old rules seemed to have loosened, if only a bit. Guys seemed a bit less apprehensive about fessing up to what they were doing by themselves. Particularly so with two guys packed into an undersized dorm room lacking its own plumbing. But still, this was complicated stuff. Dylan still has not quite figured out what the new rules are. Am I the only guy in the world who gets turned on by seeing another guy’s covered penis pointed up in a shiny blue swim brief, or is this commonplace? This question had haunted Dylan almost since puberty, and it was still troubling him. And with Josh, Bill and Joe, the answers to questions such as this seemed to get more not less complicated, although the other three seemed to be starting to become more open about their “fondness” for snug-fitting clothing of various sorts. If these items are an “aid” in self-pleasuring, what is wrong with that? No one is being harmed, for sure.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan has always “enjoyed” wearing snug-fitting clothing of various kinds. Early on, Dylan didn’t fully understand what exactly was going on in his mind or his body with respect to this, but it was certainly very real, and he quickly realized that this was not something that he was somehow going to “outgrow’ or completely go away once he got older and as he got more interested in girls. Dylan kept this all hidden from everyone, of course, his parents, sibling and, most certainly, his male peers.

Of course, there were still questions bouncing around in Dylan’s mind. Many questions. The biggest question, of course, was whether or not there were other guys his age who were facing the same “problem” as he was having. Is this commonplace among young guys his age or is it rare.

Dylan was not completely naïve on what his peer males were thinking and doing. He had learned that other guys his age certainly masturbate, and perhaps quite frequently. Still, any talk of this usually involves an imaginary female who is revealing herself to the guy as he strokes himself. The part that is missing is the notion that a guy might more successfully pleasure himself, fantasy female or not, when wearing a snug-fitting clothing item, an item like a shiny royal blue swimming brief with three-inch sides. That is the part that had always remained a real mystery to Dylan with respect to all of this.

The other complicating problem is that Dylan was not always equally enthusiastic about wearing snug-fitting clothing items like the aforementioned royal blue brief, but his interest in doing so tended to rise and fall in cycles, or at least had its high points and low points. Plus, in addition to swim briefs, Dylan was gradually discovering that there were other snug-fitting clothing items that were real turn-ons. More interestingly, just spotting one of these items and thinking about getting to wear it could send Dylan off into this other place. Dylan discovered that he might not be thinking about jerking off at all and then suddenly he would see something or even imagine something and his mind was almost instantly focused on jerking off. Strange stuff, huh? So strange in fact that Dylan could hardly believe that anyone else might have the same “problem.”

As they say in computer programming, one person’s programming “bug” might instead be a program “feature”. Maybe Dylan didn’t have a psychosexual “problem” or “issue” so much as he had a quite useful “feature” that most other guys had simply not “discovered” to be fun. After all, Dylan enjoyed himself immensely when he did these things. And, Dylan knew enough to know that what he was doing was not in any way “harming” himself, nor anyone else. Even without a sexual partner Dylan was having great fun with his “feature” and certainly faced none of the complicating problems other guys invariably have when they get involved in a sexual relationship with a partner. With masturbation in a royal blue swim brief no one gets an STD, Herpes, pregnant or anything else that can happen when bodily fluids are exchanged. And even though masturbation might not be the psychosexual equal of sex with a partner (but is that absolutely for certain?) it still is a great deal of fun. With essentially no down side, what can be wrong with that. Still, throughout Dylan’s high school years, these questions kept bouncing around in his head, over and over.

Then Dylan got to college, and had that strange encounter in the dorm with Bill and Joe many chapters ago in which he encountered Bill and Joe in the men’s bathroom wearing all the snug-fitting clothing items they had recently purchased at the big-box athletic store. It was like a light went off in Dylan’s head. Here were two guys who obviously enjoyed wearing snug-fitting clothing, just as Dylan did, and they had actually “pressed the envelope” in this specific regard farther than Dylan had dared to do.

One thing led to another. Bill and Joe never did quite verbalize to Dylan exactly WHAT they were doing with the various items, but Dylan had pretty much figured that out himself. The rest is history, as all of this led to the big Amazon order, the one with the swim briefs, thongs, jock straps with cups, wrestling singlets, compression gear etc. When Dylan was growing up, getting to wear any of these items was all a psychosexual “fantasy world,” but now Dylan could not only have it all, so to speak, but also get a chance to watch other guys do (struggle with doing) the exact same thing. What fun! This was a real eye opener for Dylan. Ahhh, to only be in Dylan’s shoes.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Dylan certainly knew at a very early age that he was always aroused by the thought of wearing snug-fitting clothing. Of course, Dylan’s first thoughts in that regard related to snug-fitting swim briefs. Dylan has known that something was up in this regard at puberty if not sooner. Dylan at first was not at all certain about exactly what it was about a even seeing a swim brief that made him feel so strange, different at least, but some little “voice” inside of him kept “calling” him and saying to Dylan that he wanted to be in there. It was almost like there was something in his unique genes—Dylan didn’t know quite what—that kept dragging his mind in that direction.

Dylan has had a somewhat tough time figuring this all out. What happened to Dylan growing up gets at the very core of who he was becoming as a sexual human male with all of the complicated issues and feelings that goes along with that. Early on, Dylan was more than “bothered” by all of this. Dylan know that he would sometimes quickly get the same funny feeling every time he even looked at or even so much as saw a photo of a swim brief that was made for a guy. And Dylan knew that he was not much of a swimmer, let alone a competitive swim-team type of swimmer who would wear such an item for, say, a high school swim meet. What in the world was going on here anyway, and why did Dylan feel this way to the point where he was always in the back of his mind looking at swim briefs whenever he could?

Dylan was also bothered by the fact that he sometimes at least also liked to see other guys wearing swim brief, even in a photo, but in particular in real life. Dylan didn’t know what all to make of this interest either. Did that mean that Dylan was really more interested in guys than in girls? As Dylan grew older thins seemed to get more not less complicated. Did Dylan’s interest in observing guys wearing swim briefs mean that he was somehow interest in guys more so than girls, as in being at least a “little bit” gay not straight. Dylan always thought of himself as being a straight guy, but he was dealing with some complicated issues, feelings and sensations. Why could Dylan growing up never quite cope with the idea of wearing a swim brief? After all, growing up Dylan had worn cotton brief underwear, and doing that did not seem to have the same effect on his mind and body as the swim brief did. What in the world about the swim brief that suddenly made Dylan feel so “different” anyway?

Did other guys have the same “problem” that Dylan had? Dylan often wondered about this, but he had no one he dared talk to or ask such a blunt question. Dylan did know that some of his male peers seemed to also be having some “difficulties” in not wanting to wear certain items of clothing at the gym. The biggest issue seemed to be when the phys ed instructor wanted all the guys to wear straps, but Dylan suspected that the guys who went out for swimming were somehow having trouble confronting the entire idea of wearing a swim brief as well. Dylan just didn’t know exactly what was going on, but certainly something was going on with some of the other guys in this regard as well, or so Dylan at least thought.

And what were these crazy feelings Dylan was having at even the thought of being able to get and then try wearing a swim brief anyway? I guess Dylan was like a lot of other guys his age who tend to think that everything that goes on in the groin area tends to somehow stay in the groin area, and that somehow a guy’s mind is strangely powerful enough to overcome and cope with any sensations and feelings that emanate from the groin where the snug-fitting swim brief would be. But that is not the way it worked for Dylan, at least not entirely. Once Dylan started feeling any amount of tension in his groin, somehow his young mind all but immediately started to focus on the groin-area sensations as if there are heavy duty wires that link the mind and the groin. What was in charge here anyway, he brain or the sexual organs? Dylan could not figure this out, except to say that what happened even at the thought of being inside a swim brief tended to send things off into a special place that Dylan did not understand but knew that is where he wanted to be. And of course Dylan was stumped by what this all meant from the perspective of being straight, gay or someplace in the middle of it all, orientation-wise.

And those sensations and feelings Dylan was having were weird in themselves. Dylan knew that guys were supposed to get turned on by females and the thought of getting inside a female body in a special way, but what was happening to Dylan was nothing like that. Dylan would just see a swim brief on a rack in a sporting goods store and he could feel pre cum forming on the tip of his penis and dampening his underwear right there. And Dylan knew that whenever this happened he suddenly felt very good in his brain as well, even though he was not anywhere near the stage of having a hard-on and surely not at the point of having an orgasm. What could this all mean, anyway? That was the puzzle Dylan was trying to cope with. Is all of this somehow connected to being straight, gay or is this something else entirely, or is this a problem that is all but universal among the younger guys at least?

To be sure, a lot of swim brief manufacturers seem to almost “delight” in making this all tough on guys who are, quite frankly, struggling to cope with all of this. They tend to do this by making briefs that are small enough and snug-fitting enough to almost certainly quickly send a guy into this other world that is this curious mixture of sheer delight and total terror. How can a guy ever wear THAT swim brief without almost certainly getting a severe hard-on, not to mention an orgasm happening in a public setting like at a swimming pool? Dylan was wondering whether other guys were thinking the same thing or not, Maybe all of the other guys were so focused on having sex with a girl that this stuff caused them no difficulty at all. Maybe, or maybe not, or so Dylan was thinking to himself.

This story must continue…

[sebbie]

How snug is snug enough? That is an interesting question. This is actually the first installment of a two-part series, the second part being the question “How skimpy is skimpy enough?” the latter of which I will discuss in a separate chapter. But the question “how snug is snug enough?” provides an excellent starting point for more than one essay on the subject.

What does all of this have to do with the guys in the story, but especially Dylan, whose mind tends to be often focused on such a silly “concern”? Well, that too is an interesting question.

Let me start at the beginning, if I may. I know my readers would not be along with me at this point if each of them did not to at least a degree share some of the interests and feelings of the four guys in my story. Were you as a reader disinterested, you would not be looking up the latest story installment and you would have ignored all of this long ago. But, if you are still reading this after all these chapters, there must be “something” that you are able to “glean” from the discussion.

That is the way it is with Dylan, who has gradually become the focus of the story, too. Dylan’s thoughts and feelings must in some way mirror the thoughts and feelings of the guys who want to read about what Dylan thinks and feels. Dylan LOVES swim briefs. But the readers here are devoted to the same thing. That in itself is, well, more than a bit curious.

Maybe I shouldn’t be saying it all this bluntly, but a basic question might be what is it specifically that Dylan loves about swim briefs? I think all of you actually already know the answer to that. First Dylan loves how they look and feel on his 19-yeear old body. The look and feel is somehow special, something unique, fun or even playful. Dylan keeps wondering if other guys in the same situation wearing a little swim brief somehow manage to end up in the same place Dylan is in when he wears one. The answer to this question, though not yet certain, has been gradually becoming a little clearer.

Of course there is more, much more. Dylan knows that, and he now suspects that some other guys might know that too. Dylan loves to jerk off while wearing a swim brief. Not sure exactly what it is that gets him horny, aroused and hard. Could it be the look, the feel, or something else even more difficult to ascertain. Dylan is not certain, but whatever that something is, it is certainly there, big time. Dylan suspects that other guys might be similarly “affected” but that is part of the as yet unresolved mystery. Certainly guys are usually loath to “admit” to this under all but extraordinary circumstances. So this becomes a very private “secret” that is not easy to share with anyone.

There are swim briefs and there are swim briefs. Any guy who shares Dylan’s interests certainly knows that. Some swim briefs have wider sides than others. An old=school “standard” swim brief has 3-inch sides and provides quite a bit of coverage to the buttocks. Some guys might think this is the least sexy swim brief out there, as in the brief least likely to lead to arousal and “inadvertent” ejaculation, but there is more to the story than that.

It is pretty common nowadays to find swim briefs with narrower sides, 2-inch, 1-inch and narrower and briefs that provide less coverage to the buttocks than a so-called standard swim brief, usually on line not in a physical store. I want to delay any discussion about whether these briefs tend to get sexier and more likely to lead to arousal and ejaculation until a later chapter.

For now, I want to return to simply a standard old school swim brief like you might still find hanging on a men’s swimsuit rack at a bricks-and-mortar sporting goods store, not something briefer sold by an on-line vendor.

A simple brief from a major manufacturer with 3-inch sides can be quite sexy (as in erotic leading to arousal) but especially so for a guy who has never worn one before. This is the heart of all that relating to guys being scared to wear ANY swim brief in public. How does a guy control his “urges” that he knows he will have just getting his body inside a standard swim brief? This terrifies a lot of guys. It is also a source of pure delight in a good not a bad way, but somehow it is often difficult to separate the terror from the sheer pleasure.

So, guys wearing standard swim briefs in a public situation, say at a swimming pool, somehow learn to get their urges under control, and at some point end up in a situation mentally and physically where they no longer worry that the urge to ejaculate will overwhelm in a public or even a semi-public (guy’s locker room) situation.

Still, at this point a guy may still be thinking that that slick feeling swim brief would be way more fun to masturbate in than by traditional ways. Not long after, the so called “urge to downsize” sets in.

For now, at least, downsizing does not mean finding a brief in a different skimpier style from a different manufacturer. Downsizing merely means buying a brief a couple inches smaller in the waist than the current one. Let’s say a guy’s first swim brief has a 32-inch waist. Downsizing might mean buying one with a waist size 2 inches smaller, or 30 inches. Even more daring might be a 28-inch waist for a guy who thinks of himself as a 32.

Lycra-blend fabrics are wonderful in that they are able to stretch a lot. That means that a guy who ordinarily would war garments with a 32-inch waist can pretty easily get into something smaller, perhaps much smaller. A smaller waist size means the entire brief is cut smaller overall. But it will stretch. A 32-inch brief has a certain amount of space to accommodate a guy’s male organs. As the waist size decreases, this space will become, well, snugger. Not that the fabric wont stretch, it will, but as the waist size gets smaller the fabric will need to fit snugger over a guy’s sensitive body parts. Some guys might be in agony over this, but the snug fit in the groin is actually part of the fun.

And the sides of the brief, being stretched horizontally, will look as if they have become narrower (OK, and they also are in part because a 3-inch side probably for a nominal 32-inch waist, and a 28 inch brief will be below 3 inches. Plus the brief with the smaller waist is going to provide a snugger fit on the buttocks.

So, all of this downsizing can be fun in a very “special way” for guys who are so inclined. The fun part comes if coach REQUIRES the swim team to downsize for a big meet on the grounds that a smaller suit means a faster time. This could cause some significant “apprehension” for some team members. Too, the outline of a guy’s gonads is going to be more obvious in the downsized brief, which provides less “room to grow.” All of this can be a bit disconcerting, but especially so if the guy is not that confident about his abilities at ejaculatory control.

So, let’s assume that Dylan nominally has a 32-inch waist. That would mean that normally he would probably want to choose a swim brief with a 30-inch waist. But a first level of downsizing for Dylan would be a 28-inch brief. Depending on his “curiosity” about all of this, he might try a 26-inch brief of the same style, and if he is really adventuresome, he probably could squeeze himself into a 24-inch brief.

What happens after all the tugging and squeezing is completely up to Dylan. Tucked in like that both Dylan’s brain and body will quickly be working overtime, I can assure Dylan that he is going to enjoy himself immensely just getting himself into this special place.

To be continued…