The Japanese Speedo video Story

[sebbie]

Part 1 of a new series

The other day, I was doing a Web search on Google using the terms “Japanese speedo”. One of the earlier hits took me to an X-rated video site, and up popped a lengthy video lasting 20 minutes involving an Asian guy in a skimpy little suit. I am not normally a guy who sits around watching X-rated porn, but after about 30 seconds, this particular video “had” me.

As I continued to watch the video, I got more and more ‘involved” in what I was seeing. The Web site was obviously directed at gays with uploaded amateur videos featuring explicit gay sex, but one of the first things that occurred to me watching this particular video was that much of what I was seeing would apply equally well in all sorts of different sexual-arousal situations. For starters, many of the arousal techniques could be used in solo-sex. A guy could experiment with the specific techniques alone, and only later with a partner. Second, many of the techniques could prove interesting irrespective of the sex of the partner—only in the very late stages does this become specifically gay sex, and it is the earlier parts of the video that sexually are most interesting, anyhow. In other words, women could learn some things here too, not that women frequent gay video sites to learn sexual techniques for their men.

Third, for those of you interested in perfectly-safe yet highly-arousing partner sex involving tiny swimwear, there are lessons that can be learned here. Again, only in the very-late stages do potentially unsafe practices occur, and that is by far definitely not the most interesting part of the video.
The subject in the suit featured in the video takes ejaculatory control to a whole new level. This is always a fascinating topic for me, and I continue to write a lot on the subject. How he manages to hold himself together in this regard with everything that is happening around him is nearly super-human, but that in part is why the video gets a lot of hits.

Now, some of you are going to be probably racing to Google to try and find the video I watched that forms the basis for this, but for now I am going to tease you by NOT giving you the Web address. Hang tight with me and DON’T go rushing to do a Web search and ruin the story line. Instead, I am going to walk you through the video verbally in a series of stories, each adding my own twists to the ideas from the video. For now at least, you do NOT need to have a sexual-partner handy. We will get to that in later chapters. Instead, all you will need is a skimpy, snug-fitting swimsuit of your choosing. I presume that there is no one here who is short of a number of choices in that regard. As you all know, I certainly do!

So, I am assuming that you have pulled on your suit, and it is not only fitting glove-tight all over, but it is leaving you with only a little bit of space to place you equipment. Because of all of this, you are at least a little bit aroused, and you are experimenting with exactly where to place you penis. The easiest fit is to place it horizontally, to the side. I’ve noticed that guys who position themselves to the side usually point themselves to the left not the right. I’m researching the question of whether right-handed guys like to point left, but left-handed guys like to point right. This topic clearly needs further study.

The suit on the guy in the video is blue, and he is pointing left. Your suit could be blue or some other color. You are assumed now have your suit on, pointing left, slightly aroused, and lying down. The outline of your penis is now clearly and increasingly visible under the suit. End of part 1. …To be continued.

[MicroRon]

Seems like I need a virgin muscleskin while I wait for the rest of your postings. Good thing Jupiter is revising his fitting options... thinner and more form fitting should help my erotic anticipation... Thanks for the cheery beginning, Sebbie !!~~!!

[sebbie]

OK so now the Japanese Speedo guy is blindfolded. He is lying down too. There is another guy in the video, plus a cameraman who initially appears to have no role in the video except for holding the camera. I notice that the Japanese guys like to be lubed up with a clear lube all over their bodies—this looks oily but probably is not. This Japanese Speedo guy appears to have clear oil or other clear lube all over his body. Remember, the Japanese Speedo guy is blindfolded. Now the other guy starts to touch the Japanese Speedo guy by lightly-but rapidly moving his fingers all over the guy's body. His fingers are moving rapidly. He stops a bit at the man-tits and caresses those. He moves his fingers around the groin area. He circles around the Japanese Speedo guy's somewhat erect penis, ant touches all the areas right around his penis through the blue swimming brief. But, interestingly, he avoids any direct touching of the penis. He gets very near to it, but circles around it with a light touch of his fingers. He is only there momentarily. After that, me moves back to the guy's inner thighs, then quickly back to the man-tits, which, of course, are also lubed, and then quickly back down to circling around but not touching the penis. The Japanese Speedo guy seems to tense, involuntarily, and he lets out some slight groans of pleasure, as if where the fingers are heading next is unknown and thinking about this uncertainty is aeousing....to be continued.

[sebbie]

There is nothing more arousing than being able to closely watch a guy getting aroused, but then, in particular, fighting off the urge to ejaculate immediately as the psychological and physical sensations combine to cause the pressure persistently build. A lot of the fun of wearing a really snug-and-brief suit is that such a suit almost invariably gives the guy a partial erection, which is quite noticeable if you pay attention (and who, gay or straight does not?) , and the fun here is seeing how other guys cope with the building psychological and physical tension, particularly in a public or semi-public setting.

There is a fairly lengthy front end to this video, all in Japanese, where they ask the guy a series of questions and he comments on what he is about to undergo. Since I do not understand Japanese, I can only imagine what he is saying. I expect, however, that he is telling about the skills he has acquired in developing ejaculatory control, even under the most extreme psychological and then physical pressure to get off. And, the video, running nearly 20 minutes, is this a huge treat to watch to see how he manages the various pressures, psychological and physical, being thrown at him! A lesser guy would be able to last only a minute or two under such intense circumstances.

At this point in the video, just a few minutes in, you can easily tell that the guy is already straining to control his urge to ejaculate. But, keep in mind that the video continues for another 20 minutes or so.
So far, the guy giving him the treatment with the fingers has moved around a lot, and the result of his is that he appears to be tensing up at point, almost convulsing particularly as the fingers touch unexpected places. So far, this has got to be sexually exciting, but not enough to cause an immediate ejaculation.

However, his skills at ejaculatory control are going o be tested more thoroughly, much more thoroughly.

Suddenly, a big electric vibrator appears in the video. I think the cameraman, an as yet unseen third guy involved in the video, is holding this. The vibrator is no wimpy unit running on AA batteries, It is very large, obviously running on AC current, with a head that both rotates and vibrates. As it runs, it emits a loud and low-pitched growl. Remember, our Japanese Speedo guy has been blindfolded through all of this, and can only guess where the loud growl is coming from. They start by hitting his body with the vibrator, but away from his penis and groin area. He must fairly quickly realize that the tool being used on him is a powerful vibrator. As the vibrator first touches his chest and abdomen, you can see his body tensing up and straining to maintain control, and he emits some low-pitched growls of his own. These guys are serious about testing his ejaculatory-control skills, and are not going to let him off easily. And, so far at least, the big vibrator head has not been anywhere ner his suit-clad now more obviously erect penis....to be continued.

[sebbie]

At this point, the urge do ejaculate must be becoming nearly unbearable, but we are only 6 or 7 minutes into what is a 20-minute video. Now, the cameraman guy pulls out a squeeze bottle of a clear gel-like lube, and starts squeezing globs on his blue suit, near to and also on what is clearly the bulge of his long, horizontal penis right under the suit. The poor guy is still blindfolded. He picks up the sensations of what his happening to him but he can't see. The other guy is still fingering and fondling him on various parts of his chest and groin. The cameraman guy applies some more of the gel lube to the business end of the rotating, pulsating vibrator, and proceeds to hit his body at various random places. The guy, being blindfolded, doesn't know where he is going to feel the sensation of the vibrator next...his groin, the inner part of his thighs, his man-tits. Or somewhere else. The vibrator gets closer and closer to his penis-bulge, and hits his penis with an occasional glancing blow. Mostly the cameraman kinda circles his penis, touching all the areas on his leg and thigh all around is thigh, but only occasionally giving him a glancing blow directly on his penis-bulge through the blue suit. So at this point two guys are working him over and hitting him up with a variety of sensations. The loud-and-low growl of the vibrator motor adds to the mystery. He can feel the finglers of the first guy quickly moving over his chest and groin area. He can surely sens the vibrator head circling around his penis and touching his leg and thigh. He certainly felt something in his penis when that lube was applied from the squeeze bottle. After all, he has quite an erection going on under that skimpy-tight blue suit. And there is that occasional glancing blow.

For me, this is all really fun to watch, in part because his groans of pleasure from our Japanese Speedo guy tell me both that he is really enjoying himself, but also that it is becoming more and more difficult for him to struggle with not ending it all and ejaculating at once...a delicious combination of pleasure and agong...the poor guy is fighting the urge to ejaculate while enjoying himself immensely. Heck, this must be great fun for the two guys working him over as well. What new challenges can they think up to make his situation even more difficult? How much of this can he take? Where do we push him from here. The psychological and physical pressure on all three guys must be intense, and by now the two guys working him over must be feeling an intense urge to ejaculate as well. But, the video is by no means over

[a speedo minded guy]

Sebbie,

You have the makings of a good author. Please comtinue your work. Can't wait fo the next episode

[shaulis]

I believe I just watched this video. So far your narrative of the video is spot on. Please continue, I hope at the end I find that I watched the correct one.

[sebbie]

I desperately need to ejaculate! I desperately need to ejaculate! I would do ANYTHING if I could ejaculate! As you are watching this video, it naturally occurs to you that you would like to determine for yourself exactly how difficult it is to do what our Japanese Speedo guy is doing. In other words, faced with a bunch of different psychological and purely physical pressures to ejaculate, and a full-blown erection, can a normal guy somehow maintain his composure, his erection and still not ejaculate. Fortunately, you can run your own experiment relatively easily on your own. Now this will not be exactly the same as the situation faced by the guy in the video, as you will not have two other people working you over. I told you I was going to add my own notes to this, and that involves running my own experiments.

I have a plug-in vibrator that runs on AC current. These are usually a good deal more powerful than the battery-operated units.. The head on it is somewhat different from the head on the vibrator shown in the video. I have a blue suit, too. Watching the opening parts of the video is a good way to get a nice erection going. Meanwhile, I am taking notes on exactly the places the vibrator is going to in the video. All around on the chest, particularly the inner part of the thighs, then just touching the balls, circling around the penis, occasionally hitting a glancing blow along the shaft, and the even more occasional grazing of the tip of the penis under the suit.

So I try a series of these, attempting to duplicate the moves myself. Several observations:

1. The guy's ejaculatory control is even more amazing to watch in the video after having tried these experiments.

2. If you spend too much time hitting the shaft of your penis with the vibrator, you will get to the point whereby you will be in real danger of going off without even being fully erect. In short, unless you are careful you will go into an involuntary ejaculatory-spasm mode with only a semi-erect penis. These semi-hard ejaculations are interesting, if you have never done one before, but ultimately not very satisfying.

3. So, the trick in doing this is that you really need to be able to “read” your brain and body so that you don't push yourself using the vibrator past the point-of-no-return, in which you completely lose it. But this is basic for any guy trying to learn the more subtle points of ejaculatory control.

4. The trickiest part for our Japanese Speedo guy is that with the two other guys “doing” him, he has no control whatsoever over where the vibrator head goes next. Doing this myself, I can simply move the vibrator to another position on my body if I start feeling that ejaculation is on the edge of being imminent.

5. The science and chemistry on this is very interesting, and I've done some more detailed writing on that in the new understanding male sexuality book on Amazon. The short version is that as ejaculation becomes imminent, the brain sends signals to flood the muscles that spasm in ejaculation with nitric oxide. It is the flood of nitric oxide that causes the muscles that result in ejaculation to go into an involuntary ejaculatory spasm. Once the nitric oxide flood occurs, ejaculation cannot be stopped and is only moments away. A guy can learn to slow this process, but some point, the guy can no longer stave off the impending flood of nitric oxide any more, and ejaculation happens.

6. Some guys do not realize that the process that leads to an erection and engorgement of the penis biologically is very different from the process that results in the involuntary muscle spasms of ejaculation. The two processes are ultimately interrelated but quite separate.

7. I first learned about all of this playing around with the jets of a hot tub. Get the underside of the shaft of your penis close enough to the pulsating jet, and you will ejaculate almost immediately, erection or not. The sensation is something like the sensation of having semen vacuumed out of your penis.

8. It is possible to do much the same thing with a hand-held vibrator, even if your penis is contained within a swimsuit. And as your erection builds, you need to be more and more careful so as to not go into immediate and uncontrollable ejaculatory mode. The trick, of course, is moving the vibrator back and forth close to and momentarily on the penis and then quickly to other parts of the body, while you “cool down” a bit. Also, as you get erect, the underside of the head of the penis will be especially sensitive, and at some point just one touch of the vibrator head on the underside of the penis head could send you into an immediate and uncontrollable ejaculation.

9. So, somehow our Japanese Speedo guy has learned how to stave off the flood of nitric oxide, despite the enormous physical and psychological pressures of the moment. You can see that he is literally writhing and groaning in a delicious agony during his efforts to stave off ejaculation, and that is really what makes the video so much fun to watch. His brain is being flooded with naturally-occurring endomorphisms, and psychologically he is having great fun dealing with it all. A lot of the fun of gay sex is getting to see the partner struggle with this up close, and no guy, straight or gay, is going to be able to watch this without himself getting aroused to a cerain degree.

10. There are drugs that have the side effects of delaying ejaculation, generally those of the class of the so-called Seratonin Re-uptake Inhibitors, examples being the drugs commonly used to treat anxiety, depression, panic-attacks and in smoking cessation treatments (trade names such as Prozac and Paxil). As I understand the chemistry here, the Seratonin Re-uptake inhibitors is that they slow or perhaps stop the series of events that have to occur of the nitric oxide that triggers ejaculation to occur.

11. Straight guys taking these drugs sometimes complain that they can engage in penis-vagina sex with their female partners literally for an hour or more without ejaculating, and delayed ejaculation can become a medical problem. (If your erection lasts for more than 4 hours you need to get to the emergency room!)

12. So, given the difficulty I personally have staving off ejaculation with a vibrator I control circulating around and then on my penis, I am not saying this at all for certain, but the Japanese Speedo guy could be taking a Seratonin Re-uptake inhibitor which is to a degree partially shutting down the body chemistry that leads to an uncontrolled ejaculatory spasm, he may be getting a bit of “help” from one of the drugs.

13. YOU can run your own experiments if you want, and post your results here.

[sebbie]

Part 6
OK, the blue ARENA suit our guy is wearing has stretched out elastic around the left leg opening. The camera-man is abe to pull his penis and balls completely out from the suit through the leg opening, while leaving the suit completely in place, and his now fully-erect, fully engorged penis (it looks to be at least 7 inches long (who says Asian guys are undersized!). The guy's penis and balls are completely lubed up with the clear gell lubricant. The cameraman guy starts to stroke the Japanese Speedo guy's penis from tip to shaft. He must realize that the guy is close to coming apart because he doesn't do this for an extended length of time, but in short bursts of activity. The Japanese Speedo guy is really on the edge of ejaculation, but the breaks from the stroking give him an opportunity to regain his composure and cool things down just a bit.

Then that nasty low-pitched buzzing vibrator comes out again. The camera guy first hits him up on the nase of his balls. That must feel really really good. Balls get really sensitive when I guy is in a full-blown erection. Were I the one doing this, I would have hit him up with the vibrator in the perineum area just behind the balls too, an area that also gets extraordinarily sensitive and pleasurable as a guy reaches a full erection.
Meanwhile the other guy is still working him over with his fingers on his chest and abdomen. Now the cameraman starts massaging the tip of the poor guy's penis. Most guys would ejaculate in about 10 seconds if they start getting hit up on the underside of the tip of their penises, if they have not already. The cameraman has a stroking move I had not seen before that involves a fast flicker with the thumb right over the slit of the penis, at the very tip. That's a new move on me in that my focus in terms of sensitive penis areas has always been on the underside of the tip, the so-called frenulum.

The guy is now moaning and groaning with increasingly frantic pleasure. I'm not quite sure what communication is going on with the cameraman, but something must be happening, as the cameraman seems to know just when o stop stroking. Then the vibrator goes up right along the shaft, and takes glancing blows on the frenulum.

There are a lot of important lessons here for maximizing pleasure in solo sex. The vibrator technique in terms of sequencing is useful. The next time you have a full erection try massaging your balls and shaft with a vibrator. What you will probably discover is that the sensation is very pleasant. But then as you near the underside of the tip, the frenulum, you will probably quickly learn that the vibrations there are simply unbearable and you will be spurting semen almost before you realize it. I do not think that even with a good deal of practice, most guys will be able to hold back ejaculation when the vibrator touches the frenulum. Chemistry-wise, the vibrations on the tip must result in a near-immediate production on nitric oxide which floods and trigger the muscles that are the ejaculation pump. If you develop a method for staving off ejaculation when your frenulum on an erect penis is being touched with a vibrator, let me know, because I think it is all but impossible to do.

At his point, this video has been highly instructional for gay guys interested in safe sex while maximizing their partner's pleasure. In some ways, all of this must be almost as much fun for the two guys working him over as it is for the recipient. Keep in mind also that aside from some French kissing, there has been no exchange in bodily fluids. This could easile be absolutely safe. Really it is all about mutual masturbation at its most erotic level. There are important lessons here that would be useful for almost any pair (or trio) of gay guys. At least to this point, there is proof that great gay sex doesnt always mean risky anal or oral sex. That is just super-cool to know.
For that matter, for straight guys, there is also useful information. The techniques used on the guy could be applied by a female partner as well, and drive the guy goofy with pleasure. This is all really about sexual foreplay. This is another one of my book topics. Straight guys are often so fixated on getting penis in vagina that they miss out on all this other deliciously-arousing stuff that could be part of a terrific sexual relationship for both. Gay guys who are fixated on having butt-sex or even oral sex have the same issue, in my mind.

For me, we have now seen the important stuff in this video. The video continues for several more minutes with an anal intercourse sequence, which in my view is boring compared with what we have already observed and also adds some risky elements to the encounter. In a subsequent section I will have some comments on the anal sex sequence, however. For better or worse, my biases on that subject come out...to be continued.

[sebbie]

Part 7

So, I went to bed last might, my mind still fresh with the scenes of the Japanese Speedo guy straining and nearly convulsing to control his urge to ejaculate, even under immense psychological and physical pressures. For me, it was a quiet night. I dug out a pair of bigger (34 inch waist( solid black Speedos with only the little white logo on them, and pulled over my fuzzy plaid sleep pants, adjusted my penis to a comfortable position (even though the suit is pretty big, least as as my suits go, it had been worn only a few times and the fabric fit snuggly all around. I quickly fell asleep.
I did not awaken again till my alarm clock said 3:30 am, and the first thing I did was check to see if I was still positioned the way I had fallen asleep. Indeed, I was still horizontal, pointing right, just like the guy in the video. Not only that, I had a really nice semi going on.

I really like a nice semi. A nice semi is so pleasant to the touch. A couple of ideas I quickly noted. First, although some of you may think Speedo has been eclipsed by some skimpier and sexier designs, they still have something really really good going on with the fabric they use. In my condition, just slight taps with the very tips of my first two fingers is extraordinarily pleasant. It's almost like getting on a lane of something of a sexual pathway superhighway for a wildly pleasant ride. I touch various parts of my shaft with the tips of my fingers, savoring each new moment.

The Speedo fabric acts almost like a gel lubricant, allowing me to move around and enjoy each moment.

I think about everything I have been writing here and in my new books. In particular how the brain and sexual organs are linked almost as if they were a single entity. I tap my penis through the Speedo, then kinda hold it, even caress it. Each new move brings on a new, even-more-pleasant sensation. The images of the Japanese Speedo guy writhing under the stress of containing himself keep running through my mind, over and over.
Interestingly, I discover that other places on my body are sexually-sensitive too. I note particularly the contrast between the coarse-but soft texture of the fuzzy sleep pants, and the super slippery feel of the Speedo. Oddly, its fun to cup my But on either side with the palm of my hand and feel it under the slick fabric of the Speedo. And my balls just feel wonderful under the slick favric.

I fall back into a light sleep while caressing myself.

It's now 5:30 am, and time to get up and do a little writing. I never went into a full-blown ejaculation, but my night was immense fun anyhow. I think about how fortunate I am to be 65 years old and still have a body that can sustain such pleasant sensations. I could have pushed myself over the edge any time I wanted, easily. But I so much enjoy the extended pleasures that accompany maintaining an erection that does not go over the edge. That is an art that a lot of guys seem unwilling to learn or begin to master. You just simply can't be so fixated on ejaculating that you miss out on all the extended fun getting there.

I would have the same advice for couples—same-sex or different-sex. Don't be so fixated on getting off that the sex act that it's all over in a bout a minute-and-a-half. Slow sexual play is good, but languidly- slow sexual play is even better. This is the lesson for guys without a sexual partner as well. There are still plenty of things you can do to make yourself happy, sexually. I have a whole data base of these ideas.

So I get up and pull off my black Speedo. No ejaculate, but I have a stain bigger than a silver doillar from pre-cum. Last night must have been fun. Really, really fun. I need to do that again. And soon. Goodness, the story I could tell to help guys who live alone to enjoy themselves.

I'm thinking about all of this in the context of the video, but also in the context of the guys who claim they would never wear a Speedo, even to bed. For goodness sakes what gives with that? I keep wondering if these guys are scared of their on bodies and what their own bodies are easily capable of doing. Or are they scared because this is not sex involving a partner in a conventional way. Too much of a sexual Speedo fetish perhaps? I keep wondering about his. What drives some guys' fears and apprehension? That self-pleasure using a suit is still somehow wrong or even a little bit abnormal? These are all real sensations. Stay tuned. Your mind and body can go to all sorts of immensely pleasant places....to be continued.