What to wear?

[sebbie]

Dylan removes his forest green wrestling singlet from the drawer and tosses it over to Josh, who by now has grabbed a dorm room towel to cover his groin area so Bill and Joe will not be able to see that he was wearing only an underwear thong and was, well, shall we say, at least somewhat erect. Josh in something of a slight of hand feat, quickly pulls the singlet up to his waist and into his groin area, and drops the towel. At this point, Josh’s chest is still bare but that is not a big issue. Josh grabs one of his own heather gray tee shirts from his own drawer, and slips that on over his naked chest. After that the singlet arm straps to go up over his shoulders.

Getting everything positioned correctly is not that easy to do. Wrestling singlets, by design, are made to fit really snug not only in the waist and groin area but even over the shoulders. This is complicated by the fact that Josh is wearing the underwear thong underneath, a thong that is pushing his male anatomy front and forward. For Josh to get the singlet straps over his shoulders, he discovers that he must pull the singlet really tight into his groin area. The snugger he can make the singlet fit in the groin area, the easier it is to get the singlet shoulder straps in the proper position.

But the fact that Josh has the thong on underneath makes this all more complicated, in that by pulling the singlet into his groin, the thong wants to cinch itself up even snugger and tighter between his buttocks. Josh had thought that he was taking about as much pressure as both his mind and body could tolerate from the elastic band of the rear of the thong cutting between his buttocks, but this was worse, much worse. Or were the sensations better, much better, with both the thong and the singlet grabbing at his butt the way they were. Josh couldn’t quite decide. That’s the dilemma sometimes. This could be nearly painful, or may fun, depending on a guy’s mindset and how he approaches the situation at hand.

Josh finally gets the shoulder straps in place so they are not twisted and takes a look at himself in the mirror clad in the heather tee shirt and the forest green singlet. Josh thinks he looks like a 120 pound high-school wrestler. He does notice one thing about his appearance, however. The thong is pushing his penis outward to the point where he has quite a little bump on the point where his penis tip is inside the singlet. Not only is there a visible bump, but Josh can see in the mirror that the pre cum he was oozing inside the thong pouch has actually made its way not only to the outside of the thong, but through the forest green nylon-Lycra® material of the singlet, now forming what appears to be a dime-sized spot of gooey wetness on the outside of the singlet right where his penis tip is.

Josh is somewhat apprehensive about this, but he hopes that Bill, Joe and Dylan will not notice what happened, of if they do notice, they will not say anything. Josh thins that perhaps the ooze will dry by the time he gets though the couple block walk to the gym. Maybe his penis will recede a bit as well, but for now, Josh just needs to get through the moment at hand.

Dylan, Bill and Joe all three are clad in compression gear top and bottom, but separate tees and shorts. Given the snug fit, it is easy to see that the other guys are all wearing straps not thongs underneath the compression gear. Each of them is also sporting a bulge in the groin, but it’s shaped somewhat differently from how Josh appears. It quickly becomes apparent that the other three of them are not only wearing straps but also hard cups under the compression gear.

It suddenly dawns on Josh that hard cups are useful for reasons other than protecting a guy’s genitalia. If you are wearing a strap with a hard cup, if you ooze a little pre cum, no one will be able to see that, because it will likely be totally contained within the strap and cup. But in Josh’s situation, just a little ooze and he has a big damp spot right in an “incriminating” location. Josh thinks that maybe the guys who wear cups more or less routinely even when they are not engaged in sport have a good idea for this reason, alone.

Of course, Bill, Joe and Dylan are wearing their cups not because they want to make sure that no one else can see it if they start to ooze, but for a very different reason entirely. This is the one Josh doesn’t quite know about, at least not yet. All three of them have discovered that it can be, well, quite “enjoyable” to get a bit of a hard-on inside a cup, with the cup bearing down and fitting snug against the groin. A properly-sized cup leaves almost no room for expansion, and a guy’s penis quickly “knows” when the available space is limited.

This is tricky stuff. It is difficult if not impossible for most guys to get to the point where they get enough of an erection inside the cup that would lead to a full scale orgasm while still being inside the cup. Still, a lot of the interesting sensations from all the penis nerves “knowing” that the cup confines the space are usually there, and these sensations can be, and often are quite enjoyable. Certainly enjoyable enough to make an otherwise boring gym workout move along quite quickly.

Bill, Joe and Dylan have figured all of this out. If you want to do an otherwise boring workout and make it move along quickly, wear a strap and cup even though whatever it is you are doing doesn’t necessarily call for that. Josh is learning. So, it’s off to the gym for the four of them!

To be continued…

[dm106]

Very interesting, can't wait to see what happens!

[SWIMJIM2]

Hope the wait for new chapter isn't toooo long!!!!

[Swimmboy]

Interesting start to this story. Hoping for the next chapter soon.

[sebbie]

gonna have to wait..traveling next few weeks

[sebbie]

[One more before i leave on my trip]

Of the four of them, Josh is probably the one who is in the most difficult situation right now. Everyone but Bill and Joe know that only a moment ago, before the knock on the door, Josh was playing with himself, inside that little Desmiit® Thong, and having a pretty good time of it all, feeling sensations that he had never before felt, at least not quite in the ways they were happening today.

Most guys more-or-less know what it is like to get interrupted in a situation like this in the middle of it all. As a guy’s rod gets longer and stiffer, the sensations going to the brain pick up seemingly in an exponential fashion. It’s a “high” of sorts, not a drug-related high but a sexual high. A guy’s mind in such a situation tends to focus laser-like on the exact things he is doing to himself and what he is feeling. Coming down from a situation like this becomes a bit of a trick.

To further complicate matters, Dylan has just tossed Josh Dylan’s forest green wrestling singlet, admonishing him to wear it for the gym. That seems innocuous enough on the surface, I guess, but Josh has never before had the “opportunity to wear a wrestling singlet. Now, wrestling singlets are not the easiest clothing items to get into. A properly-fitting wrestling singlet needs to fit almost like a second skin. After all, it wouldn’t work well if a wrestling opponent could get a firm grip on the cloth making up the singlet. The cloth itself is really smooth. Shoulder straps are not very long either, and getting into the singlet usually requires that the guy pull the lower part up into the crotch—in Josh’s case a crotch covered with an equally snug-fitting thong.

So Josh struggles at first getting himself into the singlet, pulling it up as tight as he can into the crotch. By doing that, he is just barely able to get the shoulder straps both over his shoulders, but with difficulty. Josh glances at himself in the little dorm room mirror, and can see that his penis in an up and forward position is clearly visible as an interesting little “lump.”

Josh surreptitiously looks over First at Joe, then at Bill and Dylan. He notices that all three of them have interesting bulges in their groin areas as well. Of course, the other three guys are wearing straps and cups under their outer gear, which, well, makes the shape somewhat different from what Josh is “showing.” Still, the other three guys are certainly not “flat” in the groin area either, and somehow that comforts Josh, if only a little.

Guys, particularly college-age guys like Josh and Dylan, always have an interesting relationship with their penises. Guys grow up essentially being very “scared” of inadvertently getting into a situation where their penises start to perhaps unexpectedly start to grow on them. This is one of the oddest things about being a guy—that is, the whole idea of how something that could potentially be so embarrassing can at the same time be so much fun. The “kick” guys get from touching and rubbing an even partially erect penis is all but indescribably enjoyable. It’s not only the physical sensation but but an emotional high of sorts as well. And, the really weird part is that this often is a great deal of fun even if a guy is not in the presence of a sexual partner, male or female.

None of the four here, Bill, Joe, Dylan or Josh, are admitting to being sexually interested in other guys, as in having a gay or even bisexual side. All four of them are just figuring out ways of obtaining sexual sensations without having to deal openly at least, with the complexities of a sexual partner, male of female. Still, all four of them have managed to get themselves into a place where they are at least a little bit interested in what the other guys are dealing with here, each in his own particular way.

Think about it for a moment. What college age guy would not be interested in seeing how other college age guys his age cope with situations in which an arousal and erection might occur? This is the deepest, darkest secret for guys who are still in high school. The public profile high school guys (straight or even gay) have is all about eroticism relating to females, not what other guys might be struggling with as individuals, but this is different, way different.

At some level, Dylan understands what Josh is struggling with here, and is fascinated with seeing exactly how Josh “copes” with something that has gotten, well, pretty intense to say the least. Of course, Dylan was “messing” with Josh by tossing him the forest green singlet, and in effect, ordering him to put that on over the thong. Dylan secretly realizes he is putting Josh in a very difficult spot, so to speak, but he is fascinated with how Josh’s mind and body will respond in this new situation.

Dylan, of course, has created a situation of his own by putting the strap and cup on under the snug-fitting Tesla gear. But remember, Dylan “learned” what he knows from Bill and Joe, who are similarly clad. Dylan wonders not only how Josh is dealing with his own situation, but how Bill and Joe are “coping” with the situation at hand as well.

But, for now, everyone is off to the gym, wearing what they are wearing. Will the gym workout make things better, or worse for the four of them. I guess that actually depends on how you define the term “better” or worse. But one thing is for certain. The situation that each of the four have gotten themselves into is “interesting”.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

A lot of guys (women too) believe that relationships and sex are inextricably intertwined. What were the words in the old tune “you can’t have one without the other!”? Wait, the tune referred to love and marriage, not relationships and sex as such. That tune was written a very long time ago, when people weren’t nearly as open in talking about sex. So everything was cast in the framework of love and marriage, rather than relationships and sex and how the two ideas were intertwined.

Let me reset the scene for my readers, not that anyone who has been reading this has gotten lost in the sequence of events that got the group of guys to the point they are right now. Four 19-year old college freshmen, none actively involved in what one would call a relationship with a female, or a male for that matter. The four guys are Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh.

College guys often soon discover that the “rules” that applied with respect to a lot of stuff, involving sex or not, that seemed rigid during much of high school, now suddenly seem much looser and easier. Many guys now seem just a bit more open to revealing to each other some stuff that they might have never dared discuss when they were still in high school. For example, in high school, if a guy were to even admit that on occasion he had “fun” with his penis not in the presence of a female partner but on his own, he was in real danger of being socially ostracized, teased and even bullied for the remainder of his high school days.

This is really pretty silly, if you stop and think about it. Every guy was doing “it”, probably quite frequently but if at all possibly, surreptitiously, either under the “cover” of darkness or in a time and place where no one else was around (infrequent, at that age). Since puberty, doing “it” had become a very important if not essential part of a guy’s daily life, yet no one dared say a thing about “what was going on.” This all seems crazy in many respects, but that is the way it was back then.

[Your author, being “well past” his own high school (and college) days, sometimes wonders whether if I could be transported back to the same place and time for a day or two, whether there would be any changes in the old “rules” about all of this and if so, in what ways, but that is not possible unless someone invents a reverse time machine.]

A related problem or issue is that the vast majority of females understand all but nothing about the possibility that a guy could experience sexual feelings and pleasure in the absence of a female partner (or perhaps in this day and age perhaps increasing acceptance of the idea that the partner could be another male). Moms, being largely ignorant of all of this themselves, generally teach their daughters that they as young women are the sole way guys get sexual pleasure.

But guys all know that the “habits” learned at a very young age are often very difficult to break, even as guys enter into relationships with partners. This all comes to a “head” when the female, being studiously taught by their mothers that guys get sexual pleasure only by “interacting” with a female partner, accidently “discovers” her boyfriend engaging in solo sex, say, in the bathroom. The guy is just continuing within the part of himself he always thought was really great fun. The poor guy then has to quickly dream up some “lame” excuse for what he was “up” to so as to not create a confrontation with his woman, who is now sobbing uncontrollably upon discovering that the guy who she thought was her loving partner does not “behave” in exactly the way her mother told her he would and sometimes occasionally (often) seeks out sexual pleasure “on his own”. The horror of it all!

To be continued....

[sebbie]

What does this all have to do with Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh? It turns out, a lot. College freshmen are oftentimes packed two-to-a-room in very modest spaces, say in older double dorm rooms measuring maybe 12 x 15 ft, with small twin beds on either side of the room or perhaps a double over and under bunk bed. Further, there are still many older dorms around where the bathroom is a large room with multiple sinks, stalls, urinals and showers. Sometimes the stalls do not even have doors on them. It’s not quite navy submarine living conditions, but close.

When I first saw this, practically the first thing that crossed my mind was where I was going to be able to continue to masturbate, given that there seemed to be no privacy whatsoever. Worse, many college roommates end up being housed with another male who is a complete stranger at the start of the school year. Something has to give. The roommates have to somehow adapt their personal habits to the situation that they are in. The secrecy that applied in high school about all this stuff simply isn’t going to work under these new conditions and situations. The biggest question, of course, is “if my roommate discovers that I like to masturbate, will my roommate think that I am gay? The roommates both have the same question, of course which makes this all even more interesting.

Bill and Joe both confronted these issues head on, and adapted, fairly quickly as it turns out. In the process they got to do some stuff that they had never dared do before, stuff that did not involve a relationship with a partner as such, but was still really really fun. You can go back and reread exactly what they did and why it was so much fun.

Then Dylan got pulled into this. Since puberty, Dylan had always loved getting aroused in and masturbating to orgasm in snug-fitting clothing. He had also spent a lot of time in his young life figuring out ways to hide this from his parents, siblings and fellow high school students. He has actually been working on this puzzle since the 6th or 7th grade, and had gotten pretty good at it, as most guys somehow do.

But how he dealt with is at home was not going to work in the double dorm roommate situation. Josh would quickly figure this all out. But, was Josh somehow struggling with the same or very similar issues. Turns out, he was.

So, at this point, we have four guys heading off to the gym, ostensibly to work out. But all four of them are “horny as hell” and “feeling the vibe” immensely., three of them, Bill, Joe and Dylan, are wearing really snug fitting compression gear, top and bottom, Dylan his new Tesla® stuff. But it is also clear that the three of them are wearing jock straps and cups, each containing the respective penises and pressing snuggly against their respective groins. Each of them can feel the tension building as their respective penises enlarge just a bit and pressing against the walls of the cups. Part of this is physical, but part psychological. Under this circumstance, glistening clear droplets of pre cum form at the tip of the penis, and collects inside the cup creating an expanding damp area.

Josh, meanwhile, has his own issues. He is still wearing that little thong he was wearing when he was playing with himself up to when Bill and Joe popped into the room. His effort to get off inside the thong was interrupted at that point, and then he needed to pull on something over himself quickly, which is when Dylan tossed Josh his forest green wrestling singlet.

So, the four of them are off to the gym, ostensibly to work out but each more than curious about how the others will deal with the situation each is in, and whether they each will end up at some point blowing. Turns out, it is not that easy to shoot while you are still clad in a strap and a snug-fitting cup, You will often keep feeling hornier and hornier as the psychological and physical pressure builds along with the dampness from the precum, but you might not be able to shoot unless you are somehow able to get your fingers under the cup to provide a few final last strokes. How long the guys can stay at this level of horniness as they also try to work out at the gym remains to be seen.

To be continued….

[sebbie]

I’m certain all of you are following the story line at this point. Four 19-year old college Freshmen, Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh. As life often is, for guys that age, all four of them are feeling quite horny. But, a lot of what is going on for each of them, both physical and mental, has been brought on specifically by things that each of them is doing to himself.

At this point, the more “experienced” Bill and Joe are the “old hands” in this regard. Bill and Joe both discovered an assortment of ways that each of them could enjoy themselves in ways that they had never before experienced. Now this is not a subject that normally comes up among males of any age, even 19-year old college guys. Of course, every 19-year old goes through recurring “moments’ often frequently, where he feels stuff going on “down there” that draws “attention” to the groin area. At age 19, guys are still on the “learning curve” as to exactly how to do with these sensations and feelings, part driven by physical sensations but intermingled with thoughts of various sorts. In this regard, Bill and Joe are not that far “ahead” of Dylan and Josh. This is all complicated stuff, really complicated.

At some level, nearly every guy thinks that the only “socially acceptable” way to have these thoughts and feelings are in the company of a female about his own age. But, as any 19-year-old guy has learned, “stuff’ happens. Complicated stuff. Interesting stuff. Stuff that is almost not to be believed.

Wet dreams, are, of course, very much a part of all of this. Every guy has grown up with the experience of having wet dreams, often frequent wet dreams. These are the dreams that have some sort of a theme related to sex in some form, dreams that seem to happen spontaneously. Sometimes the dream involves a connection with a female, but often not. Guys often tend to get scared when a dream of this sort goes down another, different, trail.

One interesting possibility is a trail that involves a sexual interaction with another guy, even an innocuous one. For example, what happens if a guy has a wet dream in which he is masturbating while another guy is clearly there watching him enjoy himself? What if the fellow who has the wet dream wakes up and he is ejaculating? What does a dream like THAT mean, for goodness sakes? A guy can maintain a sexual orientation in the conscious daytime, but dreams have no bounds in that regard. If the dream wants to go in a direction the conscious mind might not, there are no real bounds here. All sorts of stuff can and does happen.

A second interesting possibility is called the “shopping trip” dream. These dreams tend to highlight various items of snug-fitting clothing that a guy might think could lead to arousal, erection and perhaps an orgasm. The particular items involved probably include some pieces of clothing that the guy THINKS might do this to him, but, for whatever reason, the guy does not owned and has not tried. Examples include items such as particularly snug fitting jeans, snug-fitting swimming briefs, or maybe a wrestling singlet or a jock strap with or without a cup. Male “reactions” of this sort to items such as these are likely very common, but this is not something guys would normally admit to having for sure.

In one version of this wet dream, the guy has embarked on a trip to a department or sporting goods store at a big shopping mall. As the dream progresses, the guy chooses the clothing items from the various racks, but is persuaded to “try them on” in the store’s dressing/changing room. Panic ensues when the guy gets into the dressing room and discovers he has an “out of control erection”. Moments later, he ejaculates all over the item he needs to take up to the checkout counter to buy. Then the tricky part becomes paying for the item at the checkout counter without having the checkout lady “discover” what has just happened.

A variation on this dream is the one involving a coach, a locker room, and a group of male peers engaged in the same sport. The predicament here is that coach is requiring all the guys to wear a particular item that guys have never worn before, an item that just happens to fit very snuggly in the groin area. What item? Well, a racing-style swim brief is the “classic example here, but there are other possibilities as well. Traditional “jock straps” make a lot of guys nervous because of the way they fit in the groin area, with or without a cup. But Wrestling singlets are pretty good at having the same effect on young guys (as Josh is finding out). In this version of the wet dream, a guy wakes up to a visual in which he is ejaculating in front of his same-aged male peers in the locker room—a most embarrassing situation. Of course, when the guy wakes up he is ejaculating in the privacy of his own bed. The guy again does not know whether what happened in the dream indicates that he is gay or not.

But these examples are common for younger guys, not college-age adults. Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh are older, 19-years old, and think that at least to a certain degree are able to control their own bodies, as in believing that somehow now they can determine when they will or will not ejaculate with their minds. To that degree, in walking to the gym, they are “messing” with their own ability to engage in “ejaculatory control”. Not perfect, in this regard, but certainly better than they were able to do when they were younger.

Part of the complexity of developing ejaculatory control for young adult males involves experimentation with respect to exactly what the guy’s body can or cannot “tolerate” without going off. And this involves setting up situations that are successively more and more difficult in which to cope.

The four college freshmen are certainly on that path today. They are discovering sensitivities that they did not fully appreciate that they had, as well as learning how to develop better bodily control over what is happening to them. Three of them, Bill, Joe and Dylan, are each wearing jocks, cups and compression gear. The three of them, by careful observation of the others, have pretty much figured this all out. Jock straps with cups tend to do interesting things in a guy’s groin area. The pressures are only magnified when the jock and cup is held firmly by the compression gear. Each guy will respond to the situation at hand in his own way. There is the purely psychological pressure of having one’s penis and balls contained inside the cup, and this happens whether or not there is a physical sensation bearing down by trap and the walls of the cup.

But, of course, some of the sensation can (and frequently does) quickly turn physical. Penises have remarkable ways of knowing when they are inside of something. Penises “like” being contained in confined spaces. Any guy has discovered this. What begins are purely psychological quickly becomes physical. The penis grows, even a little, and begins to press on the walls of the cup. The guy quickly realizes that some fun things are starting to happen without even touching himself.

This, of course, changes, almost moment-by-moment. Any sort of movement at this stage adds to the complexity at all, say walking to the gym. The cup is not just staying in one position, but lightly brushing against the now increasingly sensitive penis nerve endings. Aaaaaahhhh. The walk to the gym. Each step is, well, most interesting.

Meanwhile, Josh, not wearing a jock and cup but male thong underwear, and a wrestling singlet, is undergoing a somewhat different, although equally interesting experience in the walk to the gym. The thong pouch is containing Josh’s penis and balls, even as the thong back cuts snuggly between Josh’s glutes. These sensations alone are quite enjoyable. But Josh also has Dylan’s wrestling singlet over it all, a singlet that only fits right if it fits snug. Getting the shoulder straps in position involves some effort, because in order the do this the guy needs to pull the singlet up firmly into the groin area, a groin area already under some considerable pressure from the thong, which is pushing the guy’s penis and balls upward and forward under the singlet. Josh is undergoing his own Ahhhhh moment for sure. Will Josh’s clear pre cum show right through the front of the singlet as he walks to the gym? Let’s wait and see.

To be continued…

[sebbie]

Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh are deep into beginning to understand some things about being male that are way interesting, if seldom discussed by anyone. These discoveries relate directly to how guys work as human beings, body and mind. This is complicated stuff we are dealing with here, and not easily or readily understood.

Around puberty, nearly every guy learns that touching his penis can provide some interesting sensations that are enjoyable to experience at a very deep level. Most guys have at that stage have little if any understanding with respect to what exactly is going on in their minds and bodies, except to say that they realize in some vague way that what they are experiencing is somehow related to relationships and sex. Beyond that, these are merely pleasant feelings to be appreciated and enjoyed.

Soon, a guy learns that the sensations become more exciting if the guy is even a little erect, and all of this leads to masturbation experiments of various sorts. Guys spend a lot of time agonizing over all of this. Am I normal? Can or should I tell anyone about what I am doing? Weighty questions like that. These questions quickly evolve into embarrassment in varying degrees in particular because the other guys my age seem to behave as if what is happening to me should only happen in the presence of a female about my age. But here I am having these really sweet, sensational feelings all alone, with luck, in privacy.

So most guys quickly develop a series of schemes that allow them to enjoy themselves without making anyone aware of what is going on, not their parents, and certainly not siblings or friends. But life is becoming more complex, way more complex, in a host of different ways. Guys wander around terrified that they are going to get an erection, or worse, a full-scale orgasm in an inopportune time or place, an inopportune time or place being any instance where someone else is around. This primal fear strikes total terror for most guys this age. They know they aren’t old enough to deal with the implications of having sex with a female, yet these feeling and emotions keep bombarding them.

Somehow, most guys somehow do survive their high school years, but if survey data are to be believed the majority of high school students have not had partner sex with anyone, either male or female.

So what of Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh? As my readers have probably figured out by now, the four of them are college freshman who have not as yet had partner sex with anyone else, either. Still, the fact that they are all a little older does not mean that their bodies aren’t still being bombarded with sexual feelings of various sorts. To be sure, most guys by that age, including our four here, probably discovered some time ago that there are situations where these sexual feelings can emerge in situations whereby a sexual partner is not present.

Guys often have what I would call a “love-hate” relationship with snug-fitting articles of clothing. Most guys probably discover at a quite early age that certain items of clothing can quickly lead to sexual sensations. This, of course, varies from one guy to the next, and for whatever reason some guys seem to be able to “handle” snug-fitting clothing items with fewer “issues” than others. Or so they claim. Some guys like to claim that they only get turned on in the presence of a female partner, and what am I am saying here is not applicable to them.

Still, think about this. Did you get sexually aroused at all the first time you were put into a situation where you would be wearing what appeared to be a too small swim brief? (A snug fit is essential to swim well!), a jock strap with or without a cup? Snug-fitting compression gear? A wrestling singlet? Thong underwear designed to be worn by males? Really snug fitting jeans that fit tight in the groin and buttocks? Not every guy might “respond" to all of these items, but is there something on this list that both terrifies you but at the same time turns you on? Are you going to avoid the item or items, or seek them out as secret-and-safe sources of pleasure?

This is interesting to think about for sure. Would most males be able to somehow “handle’ any of these items without any sort of sexual “response”? Or are the males who claim that they can deal with all of this without any response at all simply lying to their peers?

So now we have Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh walking to the school gym, with each trying to act as if nothing more is going on inside their 19-year old minds and bodies. Each guy is wearing stuff that at some level he finds to be arousing. That alone is interesting. But each guy is also fully aware of the situation each of the other guys is in as well in this regard. Clad in the gear I am wearing, how do I feel about seeing the three other guys I am walking with “suffering” as I am “suffering”? Are the other guys experiencing the same things my own body is experiencing right now. As one of the guys, I’m more or less climbing the walls. I’m obviously not ejaculating, but I am precumming profusely under my gear.

Given that Bill, Joe, and Dylan are all wearing straps with cups, they should be able to continue to pre cum without any external indication. But what of Josh? If Josh is precumming too, isn’t it just a matter of time before he starts to ooze right through the forest green singlet? How will Josh deal with that for goodness sake?

And what does this all have to do with the sexuality of each of the guys? Precumming inside a cup or a thong is great fun, enjoyable and sometimes even exciting? But isn’t part of the psychological fun the implicit knowledge that there are three other guys with you who are likely enjoying the exact same thing you are enjoying? The fact that males are present when all of this is happening is now part of the pleasure, not something to be feared and avoided. Or so it seems? But does that also mean that the four of them perhaps[s aren’t as straight as they once thought they were, despite each of them having no direct sexual contact with any of the others.

Interesting questions all, but tough questions too, to try and answer, really tough questions to deal with. These are not the kinds of questions answered in books written on human sexuality for sure.

To be continued….