What to wear?

[sebbie]

Both Dylan and Josh are getting “lessons” on why it is so much fun to be a guy, and, in particular why it is so interesting to be a 19-year old college freshman. Sexual pleasure without a partner is frequently seen by many as a second- or even third-rate form of sexual activity, if it is considered to be a sexual activity at all. A lot of 19-year old guys, maybe guys of any age, are really hung up on this notion. Real sex only happens when penis goes into vagina. Of course, gay guys accept a somewhat broader definition here, but still it all boils down to the idea that the only real sex happens with the active participation of another person.

Dylan and Josh are both in a unique situation right now, with Josh merely watching what Dylan has been doing to himself. Is this a form of partner sex or not, since another guy is present in the dorm room while Dylan is pleasuring himself? That is an interesting question, a question that surely has no simple answer. As Josh watches Dylan play with himself, surely his mind and body is not oblivious to the fact that Dylan is having fun in this sort of play. In fact, what is happening right now is that Josh, as he merely watched Dylan fool around with his penis, Josh is starting to experience his own feelings in his groin area.

At one level, Josh wishes that he wasn’t there at all. Yet, at another level, Josh is fascinated by what he is observing, and Josh’s body has been picking up on this. Now Josh isn’t ready to get off himself, at least not yet. At the same time he is thinking that deep down he would like to be mimicking for himself what Dylan is doing, and the psychological “pressure” is starting to build within Josh’s young mind and body as well. Josh knows all the sensations and feelings in that after all he is 19-years old. Josh doesn’t know quite what to make of all of this. After all, Josh has always thought of himself as being perfectly straight. Yet the situation at hand is really starting to gnaw away at Josh both mind and body.

Dylan too. In his short life, Dylan does not recall an instance in his life where he got up horny in the morning and then stayed as horny as he has been for as long as he has been this morning without getting off. For young Dylan, this is an all new life experience. First off, Dylan was not aware that a guy could even do this for that long. This of course in part was related to the whole notion that when he was younger, he had to find a way to jerk off to orgasm quickly, lest the “nefarious” activity be “discovered by a peer classmate of family member. Younger guys quickly learn to get their bodies adjusted to the notion that they need to jack off quickly.

But this is now different, totally different. It’s like riding a giant wave in the surf, edging closer and closer to being upset, but then regaining stability just a moment before the “wipeout” What Dylan is doing to himself is very much like that. Josh too knows that Dylan has been riding along right on the edge of a huge and powerful orgasm. Everything Josh is observing supports that. Josh is really beginning to wonder how long Dylan can keep this up. Josh has never tried anything quite like this himself, either, and he has concluded that Dylan must be having a fabulous time of it all, mind and body. Josh is fully aware of how good he feels all over when he is at the very edge of orgasm, but thought that there was some “rule” that “required” him to ejaculate immediately after he got to that point. Dylan is teaching by demonstrating to Josh all sorts of stuff about Josh’s own body and mind.

A basic rule here is the longer a guy can remain on the edge of ejaculation without going past the point of no return, so to speak, the more fun the finality will be. The same rule holds in partner sex as it does in solo sex, and whether or not another person is in the room with you. Dylan this morning has gotten quite an “education.” That tiny little thong Dylan is wearing is a useful aid for Dylan and his “journey” this morning. Among other things, the skimpy thong helps him get access to the most sensitive areas of his body, in particular the underside of his penis and his perineum that is chocked full of sensitive nerve endings. And, if Dylan takes a break by stopping the stroking for a bit to regain stability, the thong helps maintain his erection so that he doesn’t go too far in the other direction. That little thong is quite a masturbation tool in this regard. Dylan knows that and appreciates what it does for him and his horny mind and body and figures that Josh has noticed this too.

To be continued...