Gay men between 20-30 are very likely to be insecure. They have issues over coming out to family, friends, work mates and the public. They have problems with homophobic bullying that can cause nervous breakdowns and even suicide or being victims of violence or even murder.
Behaviour of men in this age group varies from camp outrageousness to ultra macho self repression.
There is a place for swimwear that becomes see through when wet, but daring or tricking someone into wearing it and then going swimming in a public place is not the way.
Encourage others to wear brief swimwear by your example, because it is comfortable and performs well in water and on the beach/poolside, not through dares and trickery that leaves your "friend" exposed and humiliated.
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