1st time wearing bikini/swim brief in public

[argv02]

Hey Guys,

I'll be going to Vegas next week with the wife and I will be wearing aronik swim briefs with the thin strap and a couple of addicted ones. I've always wanted too but just know got the courage and confidence to do it.. Wanted to know how was your first time exprerience.

Ive worn the trunk style before but these will definitely be shorter. More skin per say.

[lapswimmer]

Today it seems the public is used to things that may be a bit different. I would wear the bikini under athletic shorts through the hotel and onto the pool deck. look around and I bet you see another bikini clad man. Even if you don't, you and the wife find a couple of chairs, drop the cotton, and enjoy the moment.

[Torchwatch]

Passing my driving test and buying my first car meant that I could go to the swimming pool straight from work. I was a runner and I wore the shortest, shiniest, most slit up the sides shorts I could find. I kept getting hip/ hamstring injuries that took ages to recover, years later I discovered that being deaf in one ear I turned my head to one side to hear forwards and this was unbalancing me and causing the injuries. Unable to run I went swimming, I really hated the navy square cuts my mother had bought me for use in the school outdoor pool. The plain black nylon 3" Speedo briefs in the sports shop seemed so much more exciting.
They seemed so light when I tried them on in the shop, so insubstantial, I felt myself rising as I went to the till to pay pretending everything was normal.
I rose again at the pool the first time I wore them, I had to dash from the locker room to poolside and jump in quickly before anyone noticed. Once in the water they just felt so good to swim in.
A few weeks later I got the 2" side black nylon ones with the red and white flashes on the sides.

[need4speedo]

It's nerve racking to get the courage up to slip off your shorts the first time. It will be for a little while until your get used to it. The best advice I can give you is to take off your shorts as soon as you're all set up at your chair. If you wait to do it, it will be more obvious that you're nervous and you might chicken out. Take off your shirt, drop the shorts, and act like it is a normal thing (even though it's completely normal). Keep your head up when going into the pool and display confidence. This is key. Once you go into the water the first time and walk out, it's almost like you want to keep getting up to show off your speedo. Just do it and you're day will be amazing.

[PSDave]

Wearing a speedo around a pool or on the beach shouldn't be cause for distress. Everyone instinctively checks out new arrivals. They are curious as to who is arriving and if they know them, if they are good looking, and your natural self preservation wants to know if they appear to be a threat. In other words, it is natural to be checked out. Its your presence more than your attire. You do it, we all do.
To look and feel more confident when you arrive and are "setting up", first take off your shorts and leave the shirt on. You will be comfortable and the shirt will act as a partial cover of your speedo as you move about. Last thing you do before sitting is remove the shirt. (don't look around - that is a give away you aren't totally comfortable and fearing judgement) If you appear confident, you will feel confident. Remember, you are wearing appropriate attire for your surroundings.
NEVER NEVER spread out your towel then sit or lay on it and slither out of your shorts and shirt. First you look ridiculous, Second it will create more curiosity by onlookers -"why is he doing that?" - "what's he wearing?" You are actually drawing more attention. Lastly, if you can't even stand to reveal the speedos under your shorts -- you aren't ready.

[vega1210]

Originally Posted by PSDave

Wearing a speedo around a pool or on the beach shouldn't be cause for distress. Everyone instinctively checks out new arrivals. They are curious as to who is arriving and if they know them, if they are good looking, and your natural self preservation wants to know if they appear to be a threat. In other words, it is natural to be checked out. Its your presence more than your attire. You do it, we all do.
To look and feel more confident when you arrive and are "setting up", first take off your shorts and leave the shirt on. You will be comfortable and the shirt will act as a partial cover of your speedo as you move about. Last thing you do before sitting is remove the shirt. (don't look around - that is a give away you aren't totally comfortable and fearing judgement) If you appear confident, you will feel confident. Remember, you are wearing appropriate attire for your surroundings.
NEVER NEVER spread out your towel then sit or lay on it and slither out of your shorts and shirt. First you look ridiculous, Second it will create more curiosity by onlookers -"why is he doing that?" - "what's he wearing?" You are actually drawing more attention. Lastly, if you can't even stand to reveal the speedos under your shorts -- you aren't ready.

i disagree with removing the shirt last. if you do remove the shirt last make sure its not a long shirt that covers the entire speedo. If it does this could make it look like you are wearing nothing at all and cause unwanted attention.