The Japanese Speedo video Story

[sebbie]

Part 1 of a new series

The other day, I was doing a Web search on Google using the terms “Japanese speedo”. One of the earlier hits took me to an X-rated video site, and up popped a lengthy video lasting 20 minutes involving an Asian guy in a skimpy little suit. I am not normally a guy who sits around watching X-rated porn, but after about 30 seconds, this particular video “had” me.

As I continued to watch the video, I got more and more ‘involved” in what I was seeing. The Web site was obviously directed at gays with uploaded amateur videos featuring explicit gay sex, but one of the first things that occurred to me watching this particular video was that much of what I was seeing would apply equally well in all sorts of different sexual-arousal situations. For starters, many of the arousal techniques could be used in solo-sex. A guy could experiment with the specific techniques alone, and only later with a partner. Second, many of the techniques could prove interesting irrespective of the sex of the partner—only in the very late stages does this become specifically gay sex, and it is the earlier parts of the video that sexually are most interesting, anyhow. In other words, women could learn some things here too, not that women frequent gay video sites to learn sexual techniques for their men.

Third, for those of you interested in perfectly-safe yet highly-arousing partner sex involving tiny swimwear, there are lessons that can be learned here. Again, only in the very-late stages do potentially unsafe practices occur, and that is by far definitely not the most interesting part of the video.
The subject in the suit featured in the video takes ejaculatory control to a whole new level. This is always a fascinating topic for me, and I continue to write a lot on the subject. How he manages to hold himself together in this regard with everything that is happening around him is nearly super-human, but that in part is why the video gets a lot of hits.

Now, some of you are going to be probably racing to Google to try and find the video I watched that forms the basis for this, but for now I am going to tease you by NOT giving you the Web address. Hang tight with me and DON’T go rushing to do a Web search and ruin the story line. Instead, I am going to walk you through the video verbally in a series of stories, each adding my own twists to the ideas from the video. For now at least, you do NOT need to have a sexual-partner handy. We will get to that in later chapters. Instead, all you will need is a skimpy, snug-fitting swimsuit of your choosing. I presume that there is no one here who is short of a number of choices in that regard. As you all know, I certainly do!

So, I am assuming that you have pulled on your suit, and it is not only fitting glove-tight all over, but it is leaving you with only a little bit of space to place you equipment. Because of all of this, you are at least a little bit aroused, and you are experimenting with exactly where to place you penis. The easiest fit is to place it horizontally, to the side. I’ve noticed that guys who position themselves to the side usually point themselves to the left not the right. I’m researching the question of whether right-handed guys like to point left, but left-handed guys like to point right. This topic clearly needs further study.

The suit on the guy in the video is blue, and he is pointing left. Your suit could be blue or some other color. You are assumed now have your suit on, pointing left, slightly aroused, and lying down. The outline of your penis is now clearly and increasingly visible under the suit. End of part 1. …To be continued.

[MicroRon]

Seems like I need a virgin muscleskin while I wait for the rest of your postings. Good thing Jupiter is revising his fitting options... thinner and more form fitting should help my erotic anticipation... Thanks for the cheery beginning, Sebbie !!~~!!

[sebbie]

OK so now the Japanese Speedo guy is blindfolded. He is lying down too. There is another guy in the video, plus a cameraman who initially appears to have no role in the video except for holding the camera. I notice that the Japanese guys like to be lubed up with a clear lube all over their bodies—this looks oily but probably is not. This Japanese Speedo guy appears to have clear oil or other clear lube all over his body. Remember, the Japanese Speedo guy is blindfolded. Now the other guy starts to touch the Japanese Speedo guy by lightly-but rapidly moving his fingers all over the guy's body. His fingers are moving rapidly. He stops a bit at the man-tits and caresses those. He moves his fingers around the groin area. He circles around the Japanese Speedo guy's somewhat erect penis, ant touches all the areas right around his penis through the blue swimming brief. But, interestingly, he avoids any direct touching of the penis. He gets very near to it, but circles around it with a light touch of his fingers. He is only there momentarily. After that, me moves back to the guy's inner thighs, then quickly back to the man-tits, which, of course, are also lubed, and then quickly back down to circling around but not touching the penis. The Japanese Speedo guy seems to tense, involuntarily, and he lets out some slight groans of pleasure, as if where the fingers are heading next is unknown and thinking about this uncertainty is aeousing....to be continued.

[sebbie]

There is nothing more arousing than being able to closely watch a guy getting aroused, but then, in particular, fighting off the urge to ejaculate immediately as the psychological and physical sensations combine to cause the pressure persistently build. A lot of the fun of wearing a really snug-and-brief suit is that such a suit almost invariably gives the guy a partial erection, which is quite noticeable if you pay attention (and who, gay or straight does not?) , and the fun here is seeing how other guys cope with the building psychological and physical tension, particularly in a public or semi-public setting.

There is a fairly lengthy front end to this video, all in Japanese, where they ask the guy a series of questions and he comments on what he is about to undergo. Since I do not understand Japanese, I can only imagine what he is saying. I expect, however, that he is telling about the skills he has acquired in developing ejaculatory control, even under the most extreme psychological and then physical pressure to get off. And, the video, running nearly 20 minutes, is this a huge treat to watch to see how he manages the various pressures, psychological and physical, being thrown at him! A lesser guy would be able to last only a minute or two under such intense circumstances.

At this point in the video, just a few minutes in, you can easily tell that the guy is already straining to control his urge to ejaculate. But, keep in mind that the video continues for another 20 minutes or so.
So far, the guy giving him the treatment with the fingers has moved around a lot, and the result of his is that he appears to be tensing up at point, almost convulsing particularly as the fingers touch unexpected places. So far, this has got to be sexually exciting, but not enough to cause an immediate ejaculation.

However, his skills at ejaculatory control are going o be tested more thoroughly, much more thoroughly.

Suddenly, a big electric vibrator appears in the video. I think the cameraman, an as yet unseen third guy involved in the video, is holding this. The vibrator is no wimpy unit running on AA batteries, It is very large, obviously running on AC current, with a head that both rotates and vibrates. As it runs, it emits a loud and low-pitched growl. Remember, our Japanese Speedo guy has been blindfolded through all of this, and can only guess where the loud growl is coming from. They start by hitting his body with the vibrator, but away from his penis and groin area. He must fairly quickly realize that the tool being used on him is a powerful vibrator. As the vibrator first touches his chest and abdomen, you can see his body tensing up and straining to maintain control, and he emits some low-pitched growls of his own. These guys are serious about testing his ejaculatory-control skills, and are not going to let him off easily. And, so far at least, the big vibrator head has not been anywhere ner his suit-clad now more obviously erect penis....to be continued.

[sebbie]

At this point, the urge do ejaculate must be becoming nearly unbearable, but we are only 6 or 7 minutes into what is a 20-minute video. Now, the cameraman guy pulls out a squeeze bottle of a clear gel-like lube, and starts squeezing globs on his blue suit, near to and also on what is clearly the bulge of his long, horizontal penis right under the suit. The poor guy is still blindfolded. He picks up the sensations of what his happening to him but he can't see. The other guy is still fingering and fondling him on various parts of his chest and groin. The cameraman guy applies some more of the gel lube to the business end of the rotating, pulsating vibrator, and proceeds to hit his body at various random places. The guy, being blindfolded, doesn't know where he is going to feel the sensation of the vibrator next...his groin, the inner part of his thighs, his man-tits. Or somewhere else. The vibrator gets closer and closer to his penis-bulge, and hits his penis with an occasional glancing blow. Mostly the cameraman kinda circles his penis, touching all the areas on his leg and thigh all around is thigh, but only occasionally giving him a glancing blow directly on his penis-bulge through the blue suit. So at this point two guys are working him over and hitting him up with a variety of sensations. The loud-and-low growl of the vibrator motor adds to the mystery. He can feel the finglers of the first guy quickly moving over his chest and groin area. He can surely sens the vibrator head circling around his penis and touching his leg and thigh. He certainly felt something in his penis when that lube was applied from the squeeze bottle. After all, he has quite an erection going on under that skimpy-tight blue suit. And there is that occasional glancing blow.

For me, this is all really fun to watch, in part because his groans of pleasure from our Japanese Speedo guy tell me both that he is really enjoying himself, but also that it is becoming more and more difficult for him to struggle with not ending it all and ejaculating at once...a delicious combination of pleasure and agong...the poor guy is fighting the urge to ejaculate while enjoying himself immensely. Heck, this must be great fun for the two guys working him over as well. What new challenges can they think up to make his situation even more difficult? How much of this can he take? Where do we push him from here. The psychological and physical pressure on all three guys must be intense, and by now the two guys working him over must be feeling an intense urge to ejaculate as well. But, the video is by no means over

[a speedo minded guy]

Sebbie,

You have the makings of a good author. Please comtinue your work. Can't wait fo the next episode

[microbikinidave]

Out of curiosity, I googled Daigo Kitazawa and found the video that has been discussed. Try https://www.gayforit.eu/video/215318/Asian-Speedo. Yes, it looks very interesting!

[sebbie]

That's the second of what originally were two videos, tho they are similar. In the first he is in a white or gray suit not blue. It;s fun to see a guy struggle that long without ejaculating. That takes tremendous skill and will power as well as talent.

[sebbie]

Daigo’s videos offer an advanced class on male edging technique as in lessons as to how to get and remain aroused and erect without quickly getting beyond the point where involuntary orgasm and ejaculation occurs. Guys are not all built with the ability to successfully do this for an extended period of time, and the training guys do in this regard often works in the opposite direction as in inadvertently learning how to get off quickly and not at a slow pace.

As a general rule, slow ends up being ultimately a lot more satisfying than fast, alone or with a partner, so it is important to learn the techniques. Daigo was so successful on the first viewing or two I thought the video must have been put together over multiple takes encompassing several hours if not days. But I have since decided that what you see is mostly what happened in one long take, although there are some edging “tricks” involved.

In much of the video, a sleek little swim brief is worn, and at the start, he is already fairly hard with his penis in the “up” position the underside pressed firmly against the smooth, stretchy cloth. As most guys know (I guess) that is a really enjoyable place to be. The underside of the penis is more touch-sensitive than the top side, and the really hot spot, the glans area is very “accessible”. When touched, the glans area feels really really good, so good in fact that a guy will quickly go into into an involuntary orgasm even if he is not hard. The rest of the penis underside is sensitive but should not send a guy immediately into a soft orgasm, even when stroked with a massage vibrator.

If there is a “trick” in keeping Daigo aroused but not ejaculating, note that the guy with the massage vibrator is 1. For the most part at least, passing the vibrator over the penis with the swimsuit covering the penis not bare, and 2. Moving around a lot to places other than the penis underside.

The vibrator he is controlling is a version of what is sometimes called a “Magic Wand”, a classic massage vibrator made by Hitachi that runs $50+ on Ebay. It is not some silly battery-powered penis-shaped unit, but a serious tool for “all parts of the body” that plugs into the wall and runs on standard AC current. A basic move is to touch the vibrator to the underside of the penis base and then slowly move upward toward the glans area. That feels great but should not send a guy into immediate orgasm. The glans can be touched (which feels super-great), but the “trick” you are seeing is that this is only for a half second or so, and then the vibrator is quickly moved to a hot spot away from the penis.

What hot spot? Well, any guy has a number of places, all can be accessed with the swim brief still in place. The ball sac would be a neat place to start. Then work the way to the perineal area and touch nerves just behind the ball sac. Press upward there and the vibrations should reach the prostate. Work all the way back to the anal area which is very sensitive as well.

The guy operating the vibrator knows exactly where to go. He even hits Daigo’s male tits for a bit, then works back to a long pass once again along the entire underside of the penis and giving the glans a nice but only momentary touch. The guy with the vibrator knows all the good spots to hit and also exactly how long he needs to stay in each spot to cause wild pangs of pleasure to race through Daigo’s body without causing him to go into an immediate involuntary ejaculation. Not quite! Every guy can learn from this.

I’m not enthusiastic about pouring lube on top of the swimsuit. If any lube is used I think a better idea is to lube up the penis before the suit goes on.

I “just happen to own” a decent vibrator that runs on 110 v AC current. It doesn’t look quite like the Magic Wand but it is a solid unit with several settings. Since I had figured out some of the moves in the video I decided it might be fun to try some of them out on me. Oh yah, I think this works better if you go with a swim brief that has the lining cut out. I decided to try a pair of stretchy polyester-blend underwear that looked and fit like a swim brief but using thinner material and unlined. Penis up, I was ready to experiment.

Yup, that basic vibrator stroke on the underside feels outlandishly pleasant and I can give my glans a touch which is kind of like a momentary turbocharger boost. I had just a little lube on my penis but I did not pour gobs of it on the brief, in part because I wanted to see if I was oozing precum or not. Then I started spending time in other places (all around my ball sac and in the perineum area, all the way back to vibrating the anal area). I kept going back and forth to the basic move along the underside of the penis, and then along both sides.

It wasn’t long before I could feel that my penis was responding by filling with blood, and more interestingly, the massage was making me ooze a nice drop of precum or two as seen at the very tip through the thin-but-slick briefs. This is a great fun place to be if you have never been there. It falls in the category as certainly one of best places a guy can ever find himself.

I was starting to worry that if I didn’t take a break I was in danger of going into the spasms of orgasm.

So, I stopped cold and put on my penis pump. That was fun too, and somehow the pump seemed to be working better than usual, me having been “pre-treated” with the vibrator. I do that for several minutes then pull the pump off and apply gel soap to my hard penis that has been through these steps. Usually I just keep edging, avoiding going into an orgasm for yet another day. I then suddenly stop and dive into a hot tub of water. Orgasm can be delayed for another day.

If you have a sexual partner (male or female), the trick would be for both of you to learn the nuances of how to effectively utilize the vibrator. There is quite a bit to learn and I have found various videos to be both educational and helpful. And I am ready for another day.

As fun and arousing things to do go, this is all safe, clean and inexpensive fun. A real treat for both the mind and body. Your partner if you have one might think this is a little silly, but I suspect your partner (male or female) will soon be hooked too. Just watching you “suffer” is psychologically enjoyable, and there are always ways for the partner to get in on the action in some way as well.

All the best!

[sebbie]

Basic steps in self pleasuring

1. Select one of your favorite swim briefs from your collection. Choose one that fits snuggly and if your penis points up in the pouch, presses firmly against the cloth pouch. A brief with an oversized pouch will not work as well. Try to find yourself one that applies enough pressure so that your penis even if flaccid or nearly so will still stay pointed up toward the waistband on its own. Though what is about to happen to you alone should be enough to get you at least a bit hard (or more).

2. Make sure the very tip of your penis is pressed firmly against the slick cloth pouch

3. Now dig out your hand held vibrator and apply it to your penis underside starting at the base and working your way to the tip.

4. Be careful around the glans area. It is really fun to touch but a bit too much attention there can cause you to go into uncontrollable ejaculatory spasms in a hurry. If you start to sense that you are nearing that point, you need to quickly back off and move the vibrator to some other place on your body to cool things down a little. You will be dealing with these sensations over and over as you go though these steps so learn when you need to stop.

5. Meanwhile, watching the precum form in crystal clear droplets through the suit is great fun, and if you can keep your penis in approximately the same position you should be able to make some really big ones quickly.

6. I like to apply the vibrator in all sorts of places once I get going. Penis up, moving the vibrator along both sides all along the penis as well, which produces slightly different sensations from the underside massage. Its fun to research this and see exactly how much precum is produced by each area

7. Keep trying various places, At some point you will say you have gotten to the stage where if I continue this any longer I am going to ejaculate. Once that thought occurs to you its time to stop without ejaculating.

8. Pull off the brief, apply a bit of lube (gel soap works fine at least for solo sex) and crawl into your penis pump you bought for $20 on ebay.

9. Try using the vacuum pump to take you to a degree of size and hardness beyond where you got yourself in the brief and using the vibrator.

10. The sensations you get will feel a bit different from what the vibrator gave you. Different but interesting as well. For starters you can’t touch your now elongated penis as its inside the polycarbonate tube. Your penis will look, well, big and red, which is always an interesting place to be.

11. I like to raise and lower the vacuum multiple times. There is a quick vacuum release valve on every pump. As the vacuum increases from pumping you will grow noticeably with every pump stroke. You will get a little smaller with each vacuum release, but if you keep doing this repeatedly you should end up bigger and bigger with each cycle. It’s very difficult to go into an ejaculatory spasm while still in the pump. Guys have been known to do it but the real point is to get you hard enough so you can ejaculate if you want once the pump is off.

12. In prepping the pump the trick is to put a small silicone ring over the sleeve that can be popped right onto your penis as you remove the pump.

13. Remove the pump and sleeve leaving the silicone ring in place. At this point your penis will feel really neat and it’s time to apply a gel soap to your entire penis.

14. Now it is time to see if you can make yourself still harder using your hand and fingers on your lubed up penis. If you feel ready to ejaculate, just stop playing with yourself and cool down a bit before restarting. This is a variation of the classic sex therapist’s exercise for helping guys cope with premature ejaculation

15. What you do next is your choice. The orgasm you could have right now will be really powerful I’m sure, but you could just stop before you quite get to that point and pick up where you left off by repeating the steps the next night.

16. A stunt guys do is to see how many days they can go getting themselves almost to ejaculating but then stopping. Some guys run contests of this sort with themselves. Each night you don’t ejaculate it will become more and more difficult to keep from ejaculating the next night, but that is part of the fun.

17. The guys who can keep from ejaculating after doing this, say, for a full week, claim that the orgasm that does occur finally is right up there with the best they have ever experienced. But that is all up to you. And all of this is clean safe fun without a sex partner. Or maybe with!