Facts and acceptance

[louis]

I hear many say not to pay attention if a beach or pool, or lac or river is Speedo friendly or not, just wear what you are comfortable in and never mind what outhers wear.
Well, permit me to say that with all due respects to those that have this state of mind, that is easy to say but not that easy to do.
Heres a few examples why I say this.
First of all suppose you go to a beach (Especially in the US and in one of the bible belt states for example)for sure all eyes will be focused on YOU, with very evident dissaprouving features, would you not feel very uncomfortable, I often hear say (IF YOU CANT BEAT THEM JOIN THEM )
I remember a few years ago going to Old Orchard beach Main with a friend weaing very short short tenniis shorts and it was very evident that all eyes were focussed on US, we feld like as we were aliens that just landed from Mars, we indeed felt very unconfortable and since we had only skimpy type and apparel (Shorts and Swimwear) we had to do some shopping to buy less skimpy clothing to be part of the crowd.
Here in Montreal we had very warm weather lately 34 degrees cl yesterday and 33 degrees today, so I went at the corner cafe terrace for a light meal and stay d therefor a full two hours watching the people go by (HUNDREDS OF THEM) and ALL were wearing long below the knees cargo or baggy shorts, not a single person did I see in short shorts above the knees.
Well guys I just cant ubderstand it yet on the internet hundreds of firms are selling speedo type swimwear and very short shorts.
The question is who buys them and were do they wear them.
Its very evident that speedo type of suits are definitely not out of style yet as some swimmers and divers still were them for competitions and such.
Yet its impossible that all these firms only sell there skimpy apparel to only swimmers and divers, would they not go out of busness.
Unfortunetely boldness is not an attribute that ALL we speedo lovers have.
I hear some say it takes only one single guy to pull on a speedo and many outhers will follow, it would be fun to hear stories from guys that have bene witnesses to that. Fortunetely here in Montreal we still see one or two speedos or short shorts wene we go to local pools and beaches so its ok to also wear one as we will not be alone, but such is not the case everywhere.
Some allso say that short shorts and speedos will come back in style well perhaps, but never the less the stores are still jammed with long baggy below the knees shorts swimwear.
Hopefully lets hope that if waht we like best do come back in etyle we will still be young enough to wear them or anyway stay in excellent shape as we get older.
My humble apologies for my poor spelling and the quality of my composition , I am a Canadian frncophone from Quebec, and english is a second language to me.
permit me to close by adding that I fully respect your opinion if contrary and dont agree with this message SPEEDO ON......

[Torchwatch]

It's still cold in England, it has been raining for months, very few people walking about are wearing shorts.
Since the rain didn't fall today a lot of cyclists are about, many of them in lycra shorts.

A new fashion started over the winter, drainpipe trousers in brown or mustard yellow. The teenagers started the fashion and it is catching on. Not ashamed to show off the shape of their bodies they will want something different to long baggy shorts when the sun comes out.
When teenagers get into a fashion style it spreads fast, all ages adopting it, shops selling off unwanted gear cheap and bringing in stocks of the new fashion fast. The momentum builds ....

Euro 2012 football is starting in June. What will the teams be wearing for summer football this time?

The Olympics are coming to London later in the summer, all kinds of sports wearing all kinds of kit. If sports gear looks good and is available the teenagers will want to wear it. Hopefully some will choose short shorts.

Don't worry Louis, all those short shorts and speedos hidden away in cupboards will start to come out when the sun begins to shine in Europe, and spread around the world.

[louis]

Good excellent, wonderfull, very positive reply Torchwatch.

[California Dolphin]

I posted a comment on this subject on another board:

http://www.swimmersexuality.com/view... c76251d57af0

Just this morning, I noticed that about 1/2 (yes I said 1/2, not 1/4, not 1/8) the guys on the jogging path around the waterfront here in San Francisco were wearing short "Marathon" shorts. It was like a trip back in time and I thought I was living in the pre 90's era!!!

Regarding the fact that most of the "main stream" stores are still carrying only the long & baggy stuff, keep in mind that the general public is not known for innovative thinking and without any real choice, they will continue to pick up anything that's an off-the-shelf product -no matter how dorkey and stupid it looks.

It's kinda like people re-electing lousy politicians over and over again because there's no real choice in who to vote for.

CD

[Byron]

Thanks CD - you made me look at that interesting DE speedo forum to which I see you have made a few posts.
You had put up some wrestler pics I believe and their singlets do seem to be changing when viewing some more recent bouts. The longer thigh-coverage ones are still around but it's good to see the guys appearing more and more with square-cuts to the crotch (or even a few speedo-like high leg cuts too).

There was an amusing contrast however. An Italian speedo lover posted some good pics of himself and said how much he liked his muttandinas (minislips) - BUT, looking at the beach scene, the young guys all around him were wearing boardies !

[California Dolphin]

Here's a practical idea:

If you can't find speedo style swim suits or short running shorts in the main stream outlets (Like Macy's, Sears, Old Navy, Gap, etc.) try sending them an email that your looking for something else other than the long & baggy stuff and you would be happy to patronize their store if they would offer some real choice.

Every store has a "Contact" link on their home page and it's an easy way to voice your opinion about what you do and don't like about their product line. If they get enough complaints about the lack of choice, they'll probably start offering something more than the status quo.

CD

[Torchwatch]

Went for a long bike ride today, now have cycle shorts tan lines. On route I saw a few guys in well above the knees shorts, mostly older shorts brought out of cupboards.
On the beach there were younger people paddling in the sea in their boxer briefs (same design as a square cut swimwear), although they arrived at the beach in longer shorts they had stripped off to swim. If this catches on then swimming in the sea in underwear to save getting "day shorts" wet will bring back square cut swimwear.
The sun only started shining here on Wednesday, it seems to have been too much for some, there were emergency ambulances rushing to calls throughout the day, lights flashing and sirens wailing.
As I left the beach it appeared that something was going on in the Thames Estuary, the Police were supporting Coastguards who were staring out to sea, more Coastguards were rushing to the scene in their 4 wheel drives. I never found out what was happening.

[Byron]

LOL - wonder if the thigh-high guy was out on his roller skates in Paris too.

[notmyj]

As you guys know from my other thread, I have been "pushing the limits" by wearing girls bikini bottoms. More this year than last and this year has just begun. I have been in my bikini bottoms for 3 days straight and so far not one person has made a comment about it, positive or negative. I think the theory of acceptability is in the mind of the person wearing the swimsuit, whether is be a speedo or a bikini bottom. I simply wore my bikini all weekend as if nothing was amiss. I didn't draw attention to myself, I didn't mention it or make a big deal about it, and.guess what? No one else made a big deal about it either.

The only mention of it was when my gf's sister and I were discussing diets, and I made the comment that I need to find one that works if my gf wants me to keep wearing these swimsuits. She mentioned a diet I should try because of the work I do and the schedule I keep. I opened the door for her to make comment about the bikini but she brushed it off and kept the conversation on topic. So far 100% acceptance with no comments.

I feel the acceptance is there. I plan to be at the public pool next weekend, so I will update then. As of right now, we are getting ready for another pool party and bbq. And once again I will be in my bikini. I will report back tonight or tomorrow.

[PSDave]

I personally don't think that when everyone looks up when a guy in a speedo walks on the beach it is a look that implies disapproval. I think that is perceived only by the person wearing the speedo. The fact is that when anyone walks across the beach everyone looks at them -- not because of what they are wearing. It is just the fact that another person has entered. It is the same as when entering a restaurant or theatre -- people look out of curiosity. Could be they wonder if the know the person or are just bored and it is something else to look at. People may make note that you are wearing a speedo, just as they would make note of your board shorts. Disapproval -- highly unlikely. Think of it as what it is - a swim suit. One of many styles worn, but still just a swim suit and appropriate attire for the beach or pool. Chances are there are many other people there and their fascination with your arrival is momentary, they will be back in their own world having forgotten you before you get to your chaise.

One thing though. If you arrive on the beach in a pink see thru bikini prancing around like you are in a Pride parade - then yes. The looks you get are disapproval and not only from conservatives but even from gays that hate your adding to the stereotype of speedos=gay.