Introducing Girlfriend to speedo

[SwimTeamSpeedo]

Hi Speedo1980,

If I were in your situation, I would pack my favorite swimsuits and wear them. I would not make it some big deal, I would not ask her ahead of time, and I would not hide the fact that you like a style of swimwear. She obviously finds you attractive. I also would not worry about wearing some specific color, wear whatever color or print you like. Unless you go swimming together before the trip, when the time came to go to the beach or pool, I would just pop into my swimsuit and be yourself. I would keep the style to a regulat swim brief cut, not too revealing, and certainly not a thong or pouch cut. Be confident and casual, it won't be an issue. Who knows, she might like you in them so much it leads to activities beyond swimming and sunshine.

Have fun.

[speedo1980]

Originally Posted by underwearphil

Hi there

Do not get stressed about wanting to wear your Speedos. You are obviously very comfortable about wearing swimming briefs when you are in the pool at the gym.
You have a month before your vacation so now is the time to start discussing with your girlfriend the clothing that you both will be taking with you, including her bikinis and your Speedos. Complement her on her choice of bikinis and possibly mention that you two will look good together and your swimwear will match.
Depending on your present level of intimacy, you could possibly have dressing up (or dressing down!) games at home when you both put on, and have fun, in your swimwear.
You could discuss about looking forward to getting a nice suntan while in Mexico and you think that getting a suntan line at knee level and having lilywhite thighs looks a bit strange.
How about inviting your girlfriend, as a guest member, to the gym so that you can both get swimming practice before heading off on vacation.
Do not worry, you will not be the only guy in Speedos on the beaches of Cancun or by the resort pools.

Have a great time in Mexico, enjoy wearing your Speedos, and most importantly, both of you enjoy your time together!

Phil

Thanks Phil

That's what I was thinking. I'm going to try to start a dialog soon.

-J

[speedo1980]

Originally Posted by SwimTeamSpeedo

Hi Speedo1980,

If I were in your situation, I would pack my favorite swimsuits and wear them. I would not make it some big deal, I would not ask her ahead of time, and I would not hide the fact that you like a style of swimwear. She obviously finds you attractive. I also would not worry about wearing some specific color, wear whatever color or print you like. Unless you go swimming together before the trip, when the time came to go to the beach or pool, I would just pop into my swimsuit and be yourself. I would keep the style to a regulat swim brief cut, not too revealing, and certainly not a thong or pouch cut. Be confident and casual, it won't be an issue. Who knows, she might like you in them so much it leads to activities beyond swimming and sunshine.

Have fun.

Swimteamspeedo

I wish I had the guts to do that. That is the kind of person I would like to be. But I've always been shy. I have a speedo "the one brief" in navy blue that looks great on, it is extremely flattering, dosen't show too much but just enough. Very sporty looking. I do swim almost every day. So I'm in pretty good shape. To be honest I think even the board shorts or trunk type could be swayed over.

-j

[Bede735]

Am I missing something? If your girlfriend's seen you naked then why would she object to seeing you in brief swimwear?

If that is the case, she must be worried about what other people think. But if you're not bothered, then that shows self-confidence - and that impresses women.

Win-win situation.

[need4speedo]

if you're a lap swimmer, then there's no problem. Just tell her that you'd like to tan in your speedo so you don't have awkward tanlines when swimming at the pool in your speedo. If she doesn't understand why you wear speedos for swimming laps, just tell her that everyone does.

[afewgoodmen]

Tell her that you have been swimming/waterpolo/diving (whichever one applies) since you were a little kid. It's been a thing that you don't even give a second thought to.

Also, tell her that in order for you to "improve on your lap speed", you must wear a speedo/bikini, otherwise the drag factor with basketball shorts (LOL) will not help.

That oughta work.

[Mollyk]

Originally Posted by speedo1980

Hi Everyone,

So I've planned a trip to Cancun this December and I really wanted to wear a speedo. I've been wearing them for years swimming laps at the gum. But my problem is I don't know how open my girlfriend is to the idea. I also don't know how open she is to the idea of a speedo in any situation. The relationship is new and and she doesn't yet know know that I wear a speedo on a almost daily basis. Can I have some tips on how to approach this?

Thanks in advance

J-

If she works out or swims, she probably knows all about mens Speedo suits. At the very least she would have seen them at the sport shop when she was purchasing a bathing costume.