[dorcas3]

I often read about speedo friendliness. Ask yourself are you "speedo friendly? To be a friend of your speedo you have to wear it almost anywhere. Take the pool, beach or backyard. Why shouldn't you wear it around the yard or on your lawn tractor if you want to. At the beach-don't go to a distant more isolated area- find a place in the crowd. Put down your blanket or towel say hi to your neighbors and walk to the water and swim. When you get out engage people near you in conversation-you will start to feel self assured and they will enjoy their speedo guy.At the pool engage the guard in conversation and your lane mates. I guarantee that you soon will feel home with yourself and surroundings and you will be just in your brief suit maybe even with just the beginning of wood-which is not that bad as it leads not only to your increaed confidence but in theirs. Most people like to be around ones that are sure of themselves because that makes them more "daring too" Life's too short to not enjoy your body and it's comfort. You are not the center of the universe after all. Be speedo friendly yourself-just do it. JVT