BB, let me add that I do not think that the bulge you like is obscene. And your approaches to achieving the look you want are what work for you, letting you have the feelings you want as a proud, healthy and sensual man. I guess the idea of a nude man walking around with a full erection is what I would consider obscene, IF this was going on in an inappropriate location. (IF, however, with other, consenting nude adults...well...
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