[swim suit eddie]

i can see the fear of a possible gay friendship, which to me is a private matter. He may have really liked how that black speedo swimsuit looked on you, well fitting and looked snug and sexy on you, he may have been just having male fantasies wanting to strip it off you in the shower and hopefully not having serious gay thoughts. It's not easy in these times, not being confused as another guy's sexuality. If you do get together again having a few drinks, let him talk about wearing speedos, yet letting him know your'e not into having a gay private relationship with another guy, but if he just has a fantasy stripping you out of your speedo, then enjoy it and if you do feel comfortable with his company, just let it happen, wearing your sexiest, snuggest speedo swimsuit, other than the black one and enjoy the feeling of that tight wet lycra nylon slowly being peeled off you. You both might be happy, yet respecting one another's sexuality.