Whether Gay or Straight, the bikini swimsuit has a sexual expression whether worn by man or woman. Even the one-piece competition suits show the body form and on a woman, contours her mound and may even show her crack. I say this with complete respect for the woman's anatomy.
For us guys on either team, the bikini on a man, features his package, or bulge, for the view of anyone around. I wear the bikini mainly for the support it gives in swimming, and the absence of flapping and distracting material. I certainly do not have a large package that I desire to flaunt, although I do have a specific "look" that I desire my package to present to a viewer.
I would dare say that for us Hetero-guys, looking at a woman in a tight fitting, crotch hugging suit, is as delightful to one as enjoying the bulge on a bikini wearing man.
Let's all face it, we all love looking at another human being's body, especially if it is sleek or well defined. Not a damn thing wrong with that. In various threads, some of us on this board has complimented my suit in a photo, and I suggest my bulge that was ever present. I too, have complimented those that have posted pictures.
I have been wearing this style suit since I was kid. For you that are concerned about the partner approval, I suggest you two talk about it. You should wear what is good looking on your body. If it makes you feel sexy, then it is good. We should all respect each other's swim attire choice.
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