Continues From Above
Back when I was still in grade school, I used to seek out photos of guys wearing snug-fitting swim briefs, while at the same time longing for the day that I could find out first hand ho my penis would “respond” to being in such a snug but somehow very accommodating place. As a young adult, I finally got to experiment on my own and, bluntly put, everything I thought might be possibly happening in a situation like this did. I was psychologically “hooked” on swim briefs. At that point in time the whole psychological world would claim that I somehow was abnormal and suffered from a “disease” called a fetish, which at that point in time meant any inanimate object (like a swim brief) that caused a guy to get aroused. I didn’t want to be labeled as sick or even weird. I was just a guy who had discovered something that was perfectly safe to do and marvelous fun for me at the same time.
This was a little weird because society somehow deems that young adult males “should “ be looking for female partners to have sex with and be engaging in sexual activities that are at least borderline dangerous in various respects if not profoundly so. A basic problem with ejaculating in a swim brief is whether a guy finds doing so to be so much fun that he is unwilling to forego the activity once a sexual partner is found, and what does a guy do with the idea that a guy might not want to give it up just because he is in a relationship with another person. The agony of it all!
Then, something most interesting happened to me. I pulled on that leather look sunga and within the space of a minute or two, I could no longer contain myself. This situation quickly evolved into the strongest and most profound orgasm I had in ages. How could a little suit that didn’t even appear to be that snug and skimpy send me off this way? Good question.
I pulled up the link for that little suit on the Walmart site where I had gotten mine and discovered that now it was out of stock, and worse, there appeared to be no other vendors of that exact suit.
Then I got to searching “leather-look briefs” on both Walmart and Amazon and quickly discovered a bunch of hits. There are many vendors selling stuff along these lines that appear to be made for nothing other than making a guy hard—an entire industry devoted to building stuff that a guy would find profoundly erotic. Take your pick.
Why there appears to be such a market for this stuff remains unclear to me but I will toss out a couple of thoughts. Most of this stuff appears to be coming out of Asian factories, which in part suggests to me that Asian guys may be very much into this garb, in much the same way many of the Asian guys seem to like super low riding and skimpy swim brief, and that Speedo® swimwear destined for sale in places like Japan has a much skimpier cut than what is sold in the US.
Let’s think about this in more detail. Before the advent of on-line shopping, guys would have to go o a bricks-and-mortar retailer to buy clothes, including undergarments. This would normally involve paying for the item using a female clerk. What were the clerk and the other customers standing in line going to think of me sauntering up to pay for an item that was really skimpy? Were they sizing up my sexual orientation based on the garment I was holding in my hand? Was the sales clerk doing the same thing?
I still remember the first swim thong I bought at the local Macy’s store. I remember wanting to complete the transaction and just get out of there with the thong as fast as I could. This was one of the first years that thongs were popular as men’s swim attire, and Macy’s actually carried an entire rack of them.
But with on-line shopping, guys can easily shop for skimpy clothing without fear of anyone else finding out what you are up to or what the ultimate use will be for the garment (unless, maybe, you are married to a female who might wonder just a bit
) Remember, making out online orders for each other was part of a male bonding strategy Dylan and Josh both employed as they also thought about getting to observe each other desperately attempting to hold back what would become an nearly uncontrollable urge to ejaculate into the garment.
So, what conclusions do I reach from this wandering essay. The first conclusion I reach is that the world-wide market for clothing items that guys might find sexually arousing must be quite large, but that most of the growth has occurred in the on-line stores. I have no idea whether or not some of these items show up in male-female sexual activity, but that is certainly a possibility. Many of the descriptions suggest that a specific item is gay-focused whatever that means.
But, I also strongly suspect that many of these items are most commonly as an aid for solo sex, much as I have been doing. Maybe other guys are enjoying just as much the stuff I enjoy doing to myself in private. I keep wondering if the guys no longer in a relationship could benefit from my take on all of this, but then, how would I even go about bringing the subject up. I am in this weird world once again where I know guys love to masturbate but remain as fearful over what would happen if someone else (perhaps even a wife) accidentally. And how is a guy going to navigate a world in which a female partner no longer is there if his other option is to engage in sexual play with himself, swim brief or not?
This is deep stuff to contemplate. Still, in some ways my psychosexual world is a simple and safe retreat compared with the sexual messes other self-described “normal” guys seem to get themselves into.
To be continued…