@MeSooQuiet sorry you dealt with previous partners who didn’t understand. It’s one thing to feel uncomfortable about being the sole person by the pool/beach in a speedo/thong, but without the support of one’s partner isn’t great. Hope you find someone understanding, supportive and can even partake with you.
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Originally Posted by MeSooQuiet
I too am single and 36 years old. I have dated a few guys in the past that had a slight interest in speedos. They had no problem wearing one or admiring me in my suits in the privacy of closed doors. They would not dare wear one out in public at a pool or beach. They also questioned my suit choice when out in public and so I never wore a speedo with them. I’m to the point now where I do not care anymore what others think. I always wear speedos, thongs, or nude depending on the situation. I think as long as someone I am dating is comfortable being seen with me in public in my suits is all that matters. Just as long as they don’t try to make me wear shorts. Yeah it would be a plus if they shared the same interest in speedos and joined me in wearing them. It’s not a deal breaker if they don’t. Just as long as they are accepting my speedos.
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