[sebbie]

I’m certain all of you are following the story line at this point. Four 19-year old college Freshmen, Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh. As life often is, for guys that age, all four of them are feeling quite horny. But, a lot of what is going on for each of them, both physical and mental, has been brought on specifically by things that each of them is doing to himself.

At this point, the more “experienced” Bill and Joe are the “old hands” in this regard. Bill and Joe both discovered an assortment of ways that each of them could enjoy themselves in ways that they had never before experienced. Now this is not a subject that normally comes up among males of any age, even 19-year old college guys. Of course, every 19-year old goes through recurring “moments’ often frequently, where he feels stuff going on “down there” that draws “attention” to the groin area. At age 19, guys are still on the “learning curve” as to exactly how to do with these sensations and feelings, part driven by physical sensations but intermingled with thoughts of various sorts. In this regard, Bill and Joe are not that far “ahead” of Dylan and Josh. This is all complicated stuff, really complicated.

At some level, nearly every guy thinks that the only “socially acceptable” way to have these thoughts and feelings are in the company of a female about his own age. But, as any 19-year-old guy has learned, “stuff’ happens. Complicated stuff. Interesting stuff. Stuff that is almost not to be believed.

Wet dreams, are, of course, very much a part of all of this. Every guy has grown up with the experience of having wet dreams, often frequent wet dreams. These are the dreams that have some sort of a theme related to sex in some form, dreams that seem to happen spontaneously. Sometimes the dream involves a connection with a female, but often not. Guys often tend to get scared when a dream of this sort goes down another, different, trail.

One interesting possibility is a trail that involves a sexual interaction with another guy, even an innocuous one. For example, what happens if a guy has a wet dream in which he is masturbating while another guy is clearly there watching him enjoy himself? What if the fellow who has the wet dream wakes up and he is ejaculating? What does a dream like THAT mean, for goodness sakes? A guy can maintain a sexual orientation in the conscious daytime, but dreams have no bounds in that regard. If the dream wants to go in a direction the conscious mind might not, there are no real bounds here. All sorts of stuff can and does happen.

A second interesting possibility is called the “shopping trip” dream. These dreams tend to highlight various items of snug-fitting clothing that a guy might think could lead to arousal, erection and perhaps an orgasm. The particular items involved probably include some pieces of clothing that the guy THINKS might do this to him, but, for whatever reason, the guy does not owned and has not tried. Examples include items such as particularly snug fitting jeans, snug-fitting swimming briefs, or maybe a wrestling singlet or a jock strap with or without a cup. Male “reactions” of this sort to items such as these are likely very common, but this is not something guys would normally admit to having for sure.

In one version of this wet dream, the guy has embarked on a trip to a department or sporting goods store at a big shopping mall. As the dream progresses, the guy chooses the clothing items from the various racks, but is persuaded to “try them on” in the store’s dressing/changing room. Panic ensues when the guy gets into the dressing room and discovers he has an “out of control erection”. Moments later, he ejaculates all over the item he needs to take up to the checkout counter to buy. Then the tricky part becomes paying for the item at the checkout counter without having the checkout lady “discover” what has just happened.

A variation on this dream is the one involving a coach, a locker room, and a group of male peers engaged in the same sport. The predicament here is that coach is requiring all the guys to wear a particular item that guys have never worn before, an item that just happens to fit very snuggly in the groin area. What item? Well, a racing-style swim brief is the “classic example here, but there are other possibilities as well. Traditional “jock straps” make a lot of guys nervous because of the way they fit in the groin area, with or without a cup. But Wrestling singlets are pretty good at having the same effect on young guys (as Josh is finding out). In this version of the wet dream, a guy wakes up to a visual in which he is ejaculating in front of his same-aged male peers in the locker room—a most embarrassing situation. Of course, when the guy wakes up he is ejaculating in the privacy of his own bed. The guy again does not know whether what happened in the dream indicates that he is gay or not.

But these examples are common for younger guys, not college-age adults. Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh are older, 19-years old, and think that at least to a certain degree are able to control their own bodies, as in believing that somehow now they can determine when they will or will not ejaculate with their minds. To that degree, in walking to the gym, they are “messing” with their own ability to engage in “ejaculatory control”. Not perfect, in this regard, but certainly better than they were able to do when they were younger.

Part of the complexity of developing ejaculatory control for young adult males involves experimentation with respect to exactly what the guy’s body can or cannot “tolerate” without going off. And this involves setting up situations that are successively more and more difficult in which to cope.

The four college freshmen are certainly on that path today. They are discovering sensitivities that they did not fully appreciate that they had, as well as learning how to develop better bodily control over what is happening to them. Three of them, Bill, Joe and Dylan, are each wearing jocks, cups and compression gear. The three of them, by careful observation of the others, have pretty much figured this all out. Jock straps with cups tend to do interesting things in a guy’s groin area. The pressures are only magnified when the jock and cup is held firmly by the compression gear. Each guy will respond to the situation at hand in his own way. There is the purely psychological pressure of having one’s penis and balls contained inside the cup, and this happens whether or not there is a physical sensation bearing down by trap and the walls of the cup.

But, of course, some of the sensation can (and frequently does) quickly turn physical. Penises have remarkable ways of knowing when they are inside of something. Penises “like” being contained in confined spaces. Any guy has discovered this. What begins are purely psychological quickly becomes physical. The penis grows, even a little, and begins to press on the walls of the cup. The guy quickly realizes that some fun things are starting to happen without even touching himself.

This, of course, changes, almost moment-by-moment. Any sort of movement at this stage adds to the complexity at all, say walking to the gym. The cup is not just staying in one position, but lightly brushing against the now increasingly sensitive penis nerve endings. Aaaaaahhhh. The walk to the gym. Each step is, well, most interesting.

Meanwhile, Josh, not wearing a jock and cup but male thong underwear, and a wrestling singlet, is undergoing a somewhat different, although equally interesting experience in the walk to the gym. The thong pouch is containing Josh’s penis and balls, even as the thong back cuts snuggly between Josh’s glutes. These sensations alone are quite enjoyable. But Josh also has Dylan’s wrestling singlet over it all, a singlet that only fits right if it fits snug. Getting the shoulder straps in position involves some effort, because in order the do this the guy needs to pull the singlet up firmly into the groin area, a groin area already under some considerable pressure from the thong, which is pushing the guy’s penis and balls upward and forward under the singlet. Josh is undergoing his own Ahhhhh moment for sure. Will Josh’s clear pre cum show right through the front of the singlet as he walks to the gym? Let’s wait and see.

To be continued…