In time you will learn what you can wear at your local pools without causing offense or unwanted attention. It must always appear that your choice of swim briefs is made for swimming efficiency, design and colour preferences rather than an intention to startle other swimmers and the lifeguards.
Try to avoid swim briefs that show an excessive bulge, are so low cut they display deliberate tunnelling, that go see through when wet, or where the rear becomes a thong as you swim along.
Lakes and beaches are different, you can walk away from the bucket and spade brigade and find a quieter spot to yourselves. You can find an area where people are already wearing something similar to your more adventurous swimwear and choose a spot near them. Other daring swim brief and bikini wearers converge on your area as the day goes on. Few people are shocked by what other's wear on beaches as if they don't like it they can always walk away.
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