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Originally Posted by speedo1980
Hi Everyone,
So I've planned a trip to Cancun this December and I really wanted to wear a speedo. I've been wearing them for years swimming laps at the gum. But my problem is I don't know how open my girlfriend is to the idea. I also don't know how open she is to the idea of a speedo in any situation. The relationship is new and and she doesn't yet know know that I wear a speedo on a almost daily basis. Can I have some tips on how to approach this?
Thanks in advance
J-
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Hi there
Do not get stressed about wanting to wear your Speedos. You are obviously very comfortable about wearing swimming briefs when you are in the pool at the gym.
You have a month before your vacation so now is the time to start discussing with your girlfriend the clothing that you both will be taking with you, including her bikinis and your Speedos. Complement her on her choice of bikinis and possibly mention that you two will look good together and your swimwear will match.
Depending on your present level of intimacy, you could possibly have dressing up (or dressing down!) games at home when you both put on, and have fun, in your swimwear.
You could discuss about looking forward to getting a nice suntan while in Mexico and you think that getting a suntan line at knee level and having lilywhite thighs looks a bit strange.
How about inviting your girlfriend, as a guest member, to the gym so that you can both get swimming practice before heading off on vacation.
Do not worry, you will not be the only guy in Speedos on the beaches of Cancun or by the resort pools.
Have a great time in Mexico, enjoy wearing your Speedos, and most importantly, both of you enjoy your time together!
Phil