[sebbie]

It is clear right now that neither Bill nor Joe seem to know quite how to deal with the situation that they currently are in. They keep trying to figure out a way to fight back at what is happening to them, and that is perhaps often not the best choice.

A guy’s penis is a marvelous organ in all sorts of ways. The feelings and sensations it is capable of producing are not only quite varied, but they frequently seem to change moment by moment. Young guys often think that their sexual feelings are all simply concentrated in the organs that hang outside their bodies in the groin area. Only gradually do they learn that the sensations directly felt in the organs in the groin area are only the start of what can quickly turn into a whole body (or perhaps whole out of body experience) The pangs of sexual tension and pleasure may begin in the sex organs, but soon the entire body (and mind) is involved.

Bill and Joe are both lying in bed and experiencing something that is quite novel to them, a constant and steady sensation of pressure surrounding their penises. Under normal circumstances, a sense of pressure on a guy’s penis happens regularly during the day, and this is no big deal. The pressure of clothing items or whatever is there for a moment and then gone as the guy just moves around during the day. The modest sexual sensations, for what they are at the moment, are fleeting, at best, and a flaccid penis never produces the kinds of sensations that a turgid penis does. This is part of the marvelous real “magic” of male sexuality that the penis nerve endings become so much more sensitive to any sort of touch as the penis even just begins to fill with blood.

But in the case of Bill and Joe, the pressure is quite subtle but steady. Commonly, a guy’s penis will respond to a steady direct pressure from the strap, cup and compression gear. This is a very different sensation to try to deal with than the fleeting moments of pressure on a guy’s sexual organs that routinely happen many times during a normal day. Normally, when a guy senses a steady, direct pressure on his penis, immediately signals move between brain and penis that it is now the time to get bigger and harder. This is an automatic response. If the guy is wearing loose-fitting clothing this is no big deal, so long as he doesn’t get too carried away accidentally enjoying himself. Every guy quickly learns that he can become semi-hard and underneath loose-fitting clothing no one will even notice.

Of course, there can be situations whereby this is not true. Indeed, one of the main fears of guys in wearing snug-fitting swim briefs in public is the whole idea that any penis enlargement in such a garment will immediately be noticed by everyone. These same guys may be quite comfortable wearing snug-fitting briefs as underclothing but the outer garment, say a pair of jeans, will normally hide whatever might be happening underneath. But this is part of the swim brief “terror” in which lots of guys are terrified that others might be able to observe the state that they are in. All of this extends to what guys who have to change clothes and perhaps even shower in locker rooms will or will not do. This fear is very real.

But Bill and Joe have come a long way in this regard, and are now light years ahead of where they were even as students in high school. Think about what they have been doing. Despite claims by both that they are perfectly straight and sexually interested only in girls (ok, I should say college women at this point), the incident with the swim briefs just a day ago basically was mutual masturbation to ejaculation, and somehow they both made it through that experience enjoying their own bodies and without psychological scars of any sort, or at least that is what appears to have just happened. They have not suddenly come apart or concluded that they are not as straight as they once thought they were.

But the very swim brief incident (the very incident that Bill and Joe both enjoyed immensely, by the way) is the exact kind of event that terrifies so many guys. As in, what if I pull on a snug-fitting pair of swim brief and end up getting erect and my male friends are standing there, watching this and relentlessly teasing me for being a “jerk-off” all at the same time. This is a situation that must be avoided at all costs, and the way to avoid the situation is to think up any excuse to avoid wearing the swim brief.

Now Bill and Joe face another and equally complicated set of circumstances. They have both quickly learned that the direct pressures coming from the cups, straps, and compression gear they are wearing in bed is resulting in sexual tension. Further, the sexual tension is not steady and non-varying, indeed, the amount of tension seems to vary moment by moment from one instance to the next. At some moments, the pressures seem relatively easy to tolerate, just there and gone, but at other times the pressures and tension seems all but intolerable, and neither of them can avoid letting out soft moans as the waves of sexual tension course through their entire bodies. Each time this happens to Bill’s and Joe’s brains, their brains become more and more focused on their increased need to ejaculate. I need to ejaculate! I must ejaculate! But them as rapidly as this builds, the tension recedes, if only for a moment, and the situation once again seems to be tolerable.

Both Bill and Joe are tired, very tired. In the moments in which the waves of sexual tension recede just a bit both Bill and Joe start to get drowsy. Will the sexual tension keep them awake still? Well, maybe not. Oddly enough, both Bill and Joe are starting to fall asleep, both with their penises still firmly contained within the straps, cups and compression gear. Bill and Joe are starting to sense that the pressures surrounding their penises can somehow be very comforting as a guy drifts off to sleep. Do not fight the sensations or try to avoid them, just kick back and enjoy the situation you are in and everything will be fine. From a partner sex perspective, this is much like just falling asleep with your partner just holding and lightly caressing your penis as you drift off to visit the sandman.

Of course, drifting off to sleep presents an all new set of issues, as Bill at least already knows for sure.

But for now, Bill and Joe, still both contained within their really snug-fitting cups, straps and compression gear, are getting drowsy,….very drowsy

…...To be continued