My ex wife liked it when I wore speedos or bikinis in our pool or on vacation in Hawaii or the Caribbean. However, if we went to a pool party or where she would have people she knew she wanted me in more conventional suit. (I wore a pair af very short trunks) It seems that when she showed pics of a pool party we had when I was wearing speedos to someone in her office she looked and asked who the gay guy was in the banana hammock. From then on she said that she knew the truth but didn't want her friends thinking or gossiping that I was gay. So in the pool house I had two drawers of swimwear --speedos and trunks. Oddly enough none of my male friends ever brought up the speedo/gay thing since they knew I had swam in high school and college.
After the divorce I wear what I damn well please!
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