the ladies at the club talk about my swimsuits and seem to approve of what they see. I know this because an aerobics instructor works part time with my wife and as typical females they talk a lot... they love seeing toned, athletic bods but prefer otherwise to wear larger swimwear.
I have no idea what guys think of it, I'll estimate about one in twenty wear briefs, another one in twenty wear jammers, the rest are in anything else especially board shorts. But the latter are not actual swimmers by any stretch of the imagination. I do often get into discussions about physical fitness and nutrition which can lead to compliments about my 55 year old bod so I surmise that I am noticed as I notice others.
From what I've learned at this site I presume gay guys want to see all men in a speedo, not being critical of the body shape wearing it. If there were any at our pool wouldn't I be likely to get a comment or glances from them? I don't know, but I wouldn't mind.
I would never wear anything too skimpy there, and it isn't really totally public, it's a members only health club. I have never seen any rules about swimwear.
I agree with those who say, "Wear what you want and don't worry about it" but will add "if you fear people will not like what they see, maybe there's a reason for it, but that is their problem!"
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