Life goes on for Dylan and Josh…
 

Both Dylan and Josh are getting “lessons” on why it is so much fun to be a guy, and, in particular why it is so interesting to be a 19-year old college freshman. Sexual pleasure without a partner is frequently seen by many as a second- or even third-rate form of sexual activity, if it is considered to be a sexual activity at all. A lot of 19-year old guys, maybe guys of any age, are really hung up on this notion. Real sex only happens when penis goes into vagina. Of course, gay guys accept a somewhat broader definition here, but still it all boils down to the idea that the only real sex happens with the active participation of another person.

Dylan and Josh are both in a unique situation right now, with Josh merely watching what Dylan has been doing to himself. Is this a form of partner sex or not, since another guy is present in the dorm room while Dylan is pleasuring himself? That is an interesting question, a question that surely has no simple answer. As Josh watches Dylan play with himself, surely his mind and body is not oblivious to the fact that Dylan is having fun in this sort of play. In fact, what is happening right now is that Josh, as he merely watched Dylan fool around with his penis, Josh is starting to experience his own feelings in his groin area.

At one level, Josh wishes that he wasn’t there at all. Yet, at another level, Josh is fascinated by what he is observing, and Josh’s body has been picking up on this. Now Josh isn’t ready to get off himself, at least not yet. At the same time he is thinking that deep down he would like to be mimicking for himself what Dylan is doing, and the psychological “pressure” is starting to build within Josh’s young mind and body as well. Josh knows all the sensations and feelings in that after all he is 19-years old. Josh doesn’t know quite what to make of all of this. After all, Josh has always thought of himself as being perfectly straight. Yet the situation at hand is really starting to gnaw away at Josh both mind and body.

Dylan too. In his short life, Dylan does not recall an instance in his life where he got up horny in the morning and then stayed as horny as he has been for as long as he has been this morning without getting off. For young Dylan, this is an all new life experience. First off, Dylan was not aware that a guy could even do this for that long. This of course in part was related to the whole notion that when he was younger, he had to find a way to jerk off to orgasm quickly, lest the “nefarious” activity be “discovered by a peer classmate of family member. Younger guys quickly learn to get their bodies adjusted to the notion that they need to jack off quickly.

But this is now different, totally different. It’s like riding a giant wave in the surf, edging closer and closer to being upset, but then regaining stability just a moment before the “wipeout” What Dylan is doing to himself is very much like that. Josh too knows that Dylan has been riding along right on the edge of a huge and powerful orgasm. Everything Josh is observing supports that. Josh is really beginning to wonder how long Dylan can keep this up. Josh has never tried anything quite like this himself, either, and he has concluded that Dylan must be having a fabulous time of it all, mind and body. Josh is fully aware of how good he feels all over when he is at the very edge of orgasm, but thought that there was some “rule” that “required” him to ejaculate immediately after he got to that point. Dylan is teaching by demonstrating to Josh all sorts of stuff about Josh’s own body and mind.

A basic rule here is the longer a guy can remain on the edge of ejaculation without going past the point of no return, so to speak, the more fun the finality will be. The same rule holds in partner sex as it does in solo sex, and whether or not another person is in the room with you. Dylan this morning has gotten quite an “education.” That tiny little thong Dylan is wearing is a useful aid for Dylan and his “journey” this morning. Among other things, the skimpy thong helps him get access to the most sensitive areas of his body, in particular the underside of his penis and his perineum that is chocked full of sensitive nerve endings. And, if Dylan takes a break by stopping the stroking for a bit to regain stability, the thong helps maintain his erection so that he doesn’t go too far in the other direction. That little thong is quite a masturbation tool in this regard. Dylan knows that and appreciates what it does for him and his horny mind and body and figures that Josh has noticed this too.

To be continued...

Dylan comes…finally
 

Dylan, in his young life of only 19 years, does not recall any instance where he has been able to maintain an arousal and erection for as long as he has been able to this morning. At some level, Dylan is beginning to see what has been going on as something of an accomplishment. As a younger teen, he would have been embarrassed, at least primarily so. He would have also had a lot more difficulty with the whole situation whereby another guy his age, in this case Josh, is standing right there observing Dylan in all his “misery”.

Of course, Dylan fully realizes that the events of the past few hours have not been miserable at all, but a wonderful, yes even beautiful thing, something that Dylan had not fully realized until this day. The only embarrassment comes from the whole idea that not everyone else may see this all in quite the same way Dylan is now experiencing for himself.

Dylan thinks to himself that male sexuality is a marvelous thing in its own special way independent of all the partner stuff that seems to overwhelm most guys his age. Dylan wonders how many guys out there can see and experience what Dylan is experiencing this morning. It seems to Dylan that maybe too many guys spend too many of their waking hours chasing down and then having sex with a partner when at age 19 they would be better served by just kicking back and enjoying themselves and their bodies. This may not be the most popular way of looking at life, but who cares? If a guy enjoys himself and appreciates his own body, who are all these others to say that what Dylan is doing to himself is in anyway either wrong or abnormal?

Guys are constructed the way they are constructed, with all that this entails, Dylan thinks to himself. Indeed, the “risks” associated with what Dylan has been doing are all but nonexistent save the possibility of being teased or bullied should all of this somehow be revealed to the wrong person or in the wrong place or time. Getting horny then becomes much more of a burden than a source of joy and pleasure, and for Dylan right now that seems what is wrong not the self-pleasuring that is wrong for a lot of guys.

Then there is Josh who has been quietly watching as Dylan has been pleasuring himself in that skimpy thong in the little dorm room. Josh is now fully fixated on wanting to be himself in the place Dylan is now in, and if that means going out and shopping for his own thong, so be it. But in the entire sequence of events that have transpired, Josh is also getting a new understanding of what it means to be a male and all the joys that come from being just that. This is stuff that Josh has never ever fully thought about before. Josh had simply assumed that getting aroused without a sexual partner (in Josh’s case, a young woman) was, if not abnormal, certainly inferior to having “real” (partner) sex. I have a roommate who really gets into enjoying himself even without a partner! What is wrong with that, anyway?

Every horny guy is going to ultimately seek out a way to have a full-blown ejaculation, and Dylan is certainly not an exception to this “rule” Dylan is on the very edge of the point of no return. His penis is as big and as hard as Dylan can ever recall it being in his young life. Biologically there is a basic reason for this. In essence, what Dylan has been doing to himself is only a slight variation of the so-called “stop-start” method, often prescribed by sex therapists working with couples in which the male partner is struggling with what is referred to as premature ejaculation. The whole idea behind the stop-start method is that when the guy thinks he is on the edge of no longer being able to delay an orgasm, he quickly stops whatever the physical stimulation is at the moment, until things settle down and his body can “take” a little more stimulation without immediate ejaculation. Dylan has been teaching himself this method even as Josh looks on, at least somewhat mystified by it all.

Male arousal is a fascinating subject in all sorts of ways. Initially, the arousal seems disconnected, diffuse and easy to deal with. The guy feels an initial moment of tension in the groin area, without the penis being in any way turgid. This initial moment of tension very early on is usually accompanied by a few tell-tale drops of pre-cum, and the guy can usually sense this has happened because he feels the telltale drop on his underwear at the very tip of his penis. At this point a guy can easily get distracted again and everything goes back to normal. The drop or two of pre-cum is generally not sufficient to create a noticeable damp spot on the guy’s jeans. Dylan, sitting in class this morning, was weaving in and out of being somewhat aroused versus not so much. If a guy wants to settle down, all he has to do is distract his minds from the initial sensations from the groin area, in other words, just think about anything else other than his body.

But, of course, it’s a lot more fun to just keep going, even with the “dangers” involved. If the guy just keeps going, chances are the size of his penis may very well start to increase. And depending on what the guy is wearing, this could become an “issue”. Dylan was wearing his tightest skinny jeans to class, and that choice was certainly not in keeping with a selection that would keep what was going on a secret. But for Dylan, this had become part of the “fun” in concert with his decision to wear that skimpy little thong he had gotten at Amazon ® to class this morning.

Any guy starts out handling initial arousal pretty well, realizing that anything that lead to a few initial drops of pre-cum could be stopped merely by getting distracted, but once an erection gets underway, it has the tendency to cause the poor guy’s mind to increasingly focus on what he is feeling in his groin area. Soon enough, whatever a guy was using to distract himself, such as a boring college lecture, begins to feel less and less important even as the sensations now emanating from the guy’s groin area vie for the guy’s attention. Snug-fitting clothing, in this case together the tight fitting jeans and thong, only make matters worse. Somehow, Dylan got through all of this in class this morning and managed to make it back to his dorm room. And in the dorm room is where we find Dylan now, along with his roommate Josh who has been watching all of this with a great deal of interest and increasingly starting to feel interesting stuff himself.

Enough is enough! Too much is too much! Dylan now breaks over the edge and finds himself in a situation where he can no longer put off ejaculating. Like a surfer going into a wipe out, everything happens all at once. His young body can no longer delay ejaculating the large quantity of semen it has been producing. Dylan’s mind is focused not on where he is or even that Josh is standing there. Dylan’s mind is telling Dylan that the semen must be ejaculated. Every nerve ending in Dylan’s penis now seems more sensitive than Dylan has ever experienced before. Mind-wise Dylan feels as if he is going to go into full scale convulsions. The thong is tugging away and putting upward pressure on his perineum, even as the thong pouch encapsulates every nerve in his penis. The sensation of having the thong back cut between his cheeks is adding to the sensations from another place, a place Dylan before had not realized was as sexually active as it is.

Guys 19-years old experience powerful ejaculations, and Dylan is no exception. Dylan’s young body courses with multiple muscular contractions, each one more interesting and exciting and enjoyable than the previous one. Dylan’s prostate is contracting over and over too, with each contraction pushing more liquid out, and these contractions are only adding to the pulsating pleasure of what is going on. The tiny thong of course is nowhere near big enough to contain all the semen that Dylan is ejecting from his body. The thong pouch is unable to contain the huge penis and ejaculate ends up shooting across the room in those great bubbles of that wonderful creamy-white and sticky fluid. Dylan feels almost as if his entire body is now contained within his sexual organs. In a word “Wow!”. This experience is unlike anything he has ever experienced as a teenager, not that he would have ever had the opportunity to try something like this.

Of course, what Dylan did to himself by maintaining his arousal but delaying orgasm was directly responsible for the outsized orgasm he has just experienced. At some level, Dylan now understands this, at least more of this than he did. Dylan now feels a bit “bushed” as things settle back and Dylan now fully realizes what has just happened to him. Dylan has an entirely new appreciation for how much fun it is to be a guy.

Meanwhile, Josh is still standing there, unsure of exactly what to say after all of this. He blurts out the only thing he can think of which is “Wow that must have been fun, Dylan!” Then one other thing comes to mind. Josh suddenly blurts out “Our dorm room is now quite a mess. Do you want me to give you some help cleaning it up?”

Of course, my readers all know that Josh has other thoughts as well, for now left unsaid.

To be continued…

Epilogue…
 

One thing is for certain, if Dylan had any previous doubts in the matter, Dylan has learned today that solo jerk-off sessions can be fun, as in really, really fun. Dylan no longer thinks that solo sex as an inferior, second-rate method for sexual play. The orgasm Dylan just had was a first-rate, top tier orgasm, and not something that is easily forgotten.

Some guys like to think back and compare orgasms that they have had in the past, and maybe even assign a numerical score from 1-10, with 1 being not that good to 10 being absolutely first rate. Dylan thinks to himself that this one had to rate at least a “9” on a 10-point scale. Some time ago, Dylan decided that he would reserve the full 10 point rating to an orgasm that he had with a female partner. The problem for Dylan is that in his young life he has not yet had an orgasm that he felt merited a “10” on a ten-point scale.

Dylan is more than a little perplexed by all of this—a lot perplexed. “Is this the way it is SUPPOSED to be for guys”, Dylan thinks. It is tough to know, very tough. All sorts of interesting stuff has been going on in the last few weeks.

Dylan knows that from his perspective, this all started that night Dylan ran into Bill and Joe wearing their straps and compression gear in the dorm hallway. From that very moment in time, Dylan somehow knew that something was up, but he was uncertain with respect to exactly what that something was. I guess every guy is familiar with that feeling. Something happens, often visual, and the guy feel this funny sensation of tensing in the groin area. Only as guys get older do they start to associate this initial tensing in the groin area as the very initial point of sexual arousal. The sensation is not unpleasant, in fact it can be quite pleasant. This initial tensing is frequently followed almost immediately by the release of a drop or two of pre cum. Many guys are surprised by this, thinking that any release of liquid is associated with a full blown erection followed by an ejaculation. Young teens are particularly mystified by what is going on.

At age 19, Dylan knows what is going on, at least he thinks he knows. He is still more than a little uneasy. At that very moment in time, just looking at Bill and Joe in their straps and compression gear, Dylan knew where he wanted to be as well—that is, wearing the same type of gear Bill and Joe had. That , in turn led conversations with Bill and Joe and ultimately to the Amazon® order and the various items in it, each one designed to do something to a guy’s psyche.
Dylan has been “messing” with Josh, thinking up ways to reveal each of these items to Josh slowly, or one at-a-time. Initially, Dylan was quite uncertain about how Josh would react to all of this. Maybe Josh would conclude that Dylan has some mental problems related to sex and sexuality, as in operating “a few fries short of a “Happy Meal”.

To the great relief of Dylan, that has not been Josh’s reaction at all, so near as Dylan can tell. Dylan wonders now if Josh is unique among guys their age, but then he thinks back to Bill, Joe, Tony and Donovan and their various “antics” that all seem to have sexual overtones. Indeed, Josh seems mesmerized when watching what Dylan is doing to himself. Not mesmerized enough to yet say “Dylan, I would like to join with you. You are just having too much fun to be doing this all alone!” But Josh is clearly not in any sort of misery, either.

Think for a moment about each of the items in Dylan’s order. Each item was specially selected to generate feelings of arousal, and the various items accomplish this objective very well. Granted, today’s demo was conducted using that little thong, but that by no means suggests that the other items would not be at least as much fun for a guy who wants to try this.

Josh knows that there is more to this, much more, and so does Dylan. There are also lots of concerns as this all goes along. A basic problem is that Dylan is having too much fun to stop, and Josh is getting dragged in as well.

To be continued…

Dylan and Josh engage in a “frank” conversation
 

The necessity to clean up the dorm room after Dylan’s powerful ejaculation while wearing the thong underwear has turned into something of a conversation starter between Dylan and Josh. Dylan is learning some things about himself and how his body responds to different situations it finds itself in for sure. But Josh too in just observing Dylan as Dylan pleasures himself has learned some new things about himself and how his mind and body interact.

I guess that most guys end up being more than a little bit unnerved by the whole situation of getting to observe another guy in self-pleasuring and especially right into ejaculatory mode, as Dylan just did. But wait a second. On line, there are tons of videos that are easily found (and usually free) that show guys masturbating to ejaculation. In this day and age, a male college student would have to be a technology fool to not have uncovered and watched some of these.

But what does this all mean? Is any guy who does this gay not straight? What about the guys who watch these but still claim to be arrow straight? Are they just not being truthful to themselves about their gay or perhaps bisexual feelings. In short, what is going on here? Further, according to sex surveys, a lot of guys who claim to be straight admit to the fact that at some point in their lives, often as a teenager, they engaged in either male mutual masturbation or a so-called circle jerk involving more than two guys their age. Sex therapists usually say that if these represent basically isolated events, they mean almost nothing in terms of whether a guy will ultimately turn out to be straight or gay. In short, a young guy’s interest in seeing other young guys engage in masturbation is not a good predictor of whether or not a guy is ultimately straight or gay.

But then, all of this hinges on an outdated and largely discounted view of sexuality, that guys easily fit into only two rigid categories either entirely straight or entirely gay. No one who is serious about that subject sees sexuality is such simple, rigid terms any more. Whatever the implication of Josh being OK with even being in the dorm room when Dylan was pleasuring himself, too much should not be implied.


Dylan was clearly enjoying himself and so was Josh as an observer. No one caught a VD or was otherwise harmed in any way in the process. As a young teen, had this happened to Dylan, Dylan would have worried a lot about being teased and bullied, but both of them are now college students.

In trying to determine what is going on in Dylan’s head, Josh is also trying to figure out what is going on in his own mind and body.

The conversation goes something like this:

Dylan: “I see now why some guys like to wear thong underwear. The design is really fun to wear.”

Josh: “I noticed that!”

Dylan: “It’s really a combination of interesting stuff all hitting me all at once, the snug fit of the pouch, the upward pressure just behind my balls, and the feel of the elastic back cutting my butt. The combination overwhelms”

Josh: “That is fun? I’m being serious now.”

Dylan: “I know that you are. Well, at first I was apprehensive. I put on the thong and it felt uncomfortable in various places. But, strangely enough, my attention was drawn to my groin area, and the funny part is that almost immediately I started to feel tense, and before I even realized it, I was starting to get hard. But I needed to go to class. I pulled on my skinny jeans and sneakers and headed off to class. I thought the skinny jeans would settle me down some, but they didn’t help one bit. . In fact, they made matters worse. I spent the entire class period thinking about how good I felt in my groin area…Not sure what the lecture was about as my attention was not on the class.”

Josh: “Really? So this has been going on for some time?”

Dylan, looking sullen and staring at his feet: “Unfortunately, yes.”

Josh: “I’m beginning to feel sorry for you and the dilemma you got yourself into.”

Dylan: I ”I’m congratulating myself for making it through the entire class and then walking back to the dorm without ejaculating. But by the time I got to the dorm room I knew that I was desperate to get off, so I quickly stripped off the skinny jeans and started stroking the underside of my penis still inside the thong pouch. I thought I would have some time to do this before you got back from class. That is when you wandered in, back to the dorm for a class that let out early. But I was too far along to stop.”

Josh: “I am beginning to understand how this all happened now.”

Dylan: “I guess at this point that I need to confess to you that I have had this “thing” for various kinds of clothing, especially stuff that fits really snug in the groin. You can see the jeans I like to wear, but there is more.”

Josh: “If getting off this way is that much fun, what really is the harm enjoying your clothing items?”

Dylan:” I used to think that I was the only guy who did this, but then I ran into Bill and Joe, and then Tony and Donovan. All four of them were choosing clothing items that could be errr… erotic at least under some circumstances. So what I do to myself can’t be that uncommon for a lot of guys my age. I keep noticing that more and more bricks-and-mortar retail stores are stocking items that might work, and that guys must be buying it or it would not be in the stores. You can find stuff on line, but, interestingly, also in department stores, even places like Wal mart”

Josh: “You have got my attention. My mind is starting to wander into the same places yours has been. Maybe we need to go on a shopping trip to some stores just to see what is out there, just for fun.”

Dylan: “You got it. I might find some new stuff that I would enjoy wearing too!”

To be continued…

How will I know when I have found something I like? (pt 1)
 

Dylan and Josh agree that they are going to go on a shopping trip this weekend that in part will be a search for clothing items that might prove useful in pleasuring themselves. On line shopping can be interesting in this regard, but there is no substitute for seeing the particular items up close before buying them. Too, Dylan, in his shopping trips, has been noticing some things that seem to be drawing attention to this. Increasingly, items have been showing up in retail stores in recent months that have attracted his attention.

Of course, this isn’t entirely new for sure. Not that many years ago, it was possible to walk into not only a sporting goods store, but also into many mass market retailers and find entire racks of stretchy swimming briefs in a host of different colors and sizes. For guys who found stretchy swim briefs to be a real turn-on, just SEEING these racks of briefs hanging there in a variety of shapes, sizes and colors was a fun turn-on. It was not even necessary to make a purchase, but just being able to look at the snug briefs hanging on the racks in a row and maybe touch a few of them was enough to send a guy’s pre cum making factory into high gear overdrive. Guys knew this

Now, the vast majority of guys who wear swim briefs either as an outer garment or even as an inner garment under board shorts make their purchases on line, and it is rare to find a bricks-and-mortal retailer, even a sporting goods store, that stocks a selection of any number of options, if at all. Usually the selection is limited to branded Speedos ® with 3-inch sides in black or navy blue, if that. Customers who ask for anything more (or less) are usually routed to the on-line version of the store, but in order to make a purchase there, guys would at least need to be old enough to have a credit card, or be secure enough to explain to their parents what they are doing and why. Usually, given the fact that a guy normally likes to keep his interest in such things deeply hidden, the latter probably isn’t going to happen.

Also, not that many years ago, men’s thong underwear was very popular for a short period of time. But at least outside of big urban areas, this has largely disappeared as well. Again, guys who want to wear thong underwear are pretty much dealing with on line retailers. Not that many years ago, Jockey ® carried a line of very brief thong underwear for men, some all cotton but a lot of them made from a very stretchy cotton-Lycra ® fabric in a design that touched all the ‘right’ places. These were readily available at any retail outlet that stocked the jockey brand, and were very fun to wear in all the right (or wrong) ways. Alas, these disappeared from the Jockey ® line a number of years ago.

The same is true for guys who think they might enjoy wearing an “old school” athletic supporter (jock strap) with or without a hard cup. At one time these were most commonly sold at drug stores and sporting goods stores. Drug stores typically sold this gear along side other ‘protective’ gear that stretches, such as elbow, knee and ankle supports. And the sporting goods store would have an entire wall devoted to the items in all sorts of shapes and sizes. A bevy of teen agers convinced their parents that they needed a strap and maybe a cup because the school coach was requiring that they wear one for some physical activity that they were engaging in at school, perhaps as part of a team sport. Perhaps more than a few young guys may have simply made up a story like this simply because they were turned on by the prospect of wearing the gear.

Not only that, the young guy’s peers were probably telling ‘funny’ stories about what might happen if a guy got an erection while wearing a strap, but in particular a strap with a cup too small to hold an erect penis. While these stories may have terrified some young guys, they were also a source of fascination, as guys wondered if their own bodies would react in the specific ways their peers were describing in detail. The poor guy was scared but in an odd way also aroused by the entire prospect of getting to be in a strap and cup. Besides, if it were true that the coach was actually requiring that guys wear these at school, best to run an ‘experiment’ to check this all out at home, alone, in the privacy of your own room to make sure your mind and body can ‘handle’ the situation without something embarrassing happening when you get out and get into this gear with your buddies present. Same deal with swim briefs being required for guys who want to be on the school swim team, exactly.

On the other hand for guys with an interest in snug-fitting clothing of various kinds, the situation has improved in an assortment of ways. Only a few years ago, guys all wore jeans that were very roomy in the crotch and fit baggy, perhaps very baggy, from thigh to ankle. Finding jeans that fit snugger in the butt and crouch and tapering in the thigh to the ankle was very difficult, if not impossible. The narrowest jeans available tapered to 15 inches at the ankle. Anything that fit snugger than that, with a narrower leg was referred to as a ‘girly’ jean and not something that any ‘real’ guy would ever be caught wearing.

Really skinny jeans really got their start in women’s fashion, as women seemed to like the body-accenting look of a slim and tight fit. Women started wearing thong underwear with slim and tight jeans over. For women, slim and tight soon became even slimmer and even tighter. Manufacturers soon discovered that they could only get the look that women wanted and make it possible for women to get in and out of the jeans if they added Lycra® to the denim blend. So, ordinary denim quickly became stretch denim.

Manufacturers making men’s jeans discovered that there might be male customers out there who wanted a slimmer and snigger fit, despite the “girly jeans” issue. The big jeans maker Levis® first introduced the 511® design, with a much slimmer and snugger fit than a traditional Levis 505® design. This was followed by the discovery that there will guys out there who wanted to wear something even snugger and downright tight in the legs, much closer to women’s jeans in cut. A few adventuresome guys had already started to buy women’s jeans to get that fit, although since guys are constructed quite differently from women, this was not a satisfactory solution. The 511® tapered to an approximate 14-inch ankle.

Super Skinny for men was born. In the Levis ® line this was introduced as the 510 ® tapering to only about 13-inch ankle with a still snugger fit in the butt, crotch and thigh as well. These were not that easy to get in and out of because the denim had no stretch.

Initially however, US jeans manufacturers were reluctant to take the step that they had done in women’s designs, specifically, put Lycra ® in the denim blend so it would stretch for a skin tight body fit. But many guys were wearing Lycra® blend skin tight tights for things like running in cold weather, and they did not seem bothered by the argument that what they were wearing was somehow girly. So maybe some guys would accept skinny jeans denim that stretched.

It was the guys in many parts of Southeast Asia that really set the new styling trend for guys in other parts of the world. They liked super skinny jeans very much, and had no reservations about the idea of using a stretch fabric to get the skin-tight look they wanted tapering to a 12-inch ankle (or less). For much of Southeast Asia, super-skinny stretch jeans have become not only a fashion trend but almost a required uniform for young guys. For guys elsewhere who like the look these jeans can be ordered direct from Asia via online retailers like Aliexpress.com (search on ‘men’s skinny jeans’) [A word of warning; These are made for Asian guys who are typically smaller and skinnier than most American guys, and expect the same size to fit way snugger than if you were buying from an American retailer.]

Increasingly, however, western retailers big and small, on line and retail stores, are stocking more and more men’s skinny jeans that are made from denim that contains Lycra. The Asian look in jeans has caught on elsewhere. Dylan likes the skinny jeans he wore to class, very much it seems, and he thinks it would be fun to introduce Josh to them. The problem is that guys, even 19-year olds are not supposed to talk to each other about this stuff.

There is more to this story, much more…

How will I know when I have found something I like ? (pt 2)
 

Dylan, to Josh: “I’ve never said this to anyone before, but I’ve always ‘enjoyed’ wearing clothing with a really snug fit.”

Josh: ‘Errrr… I had kinda sorta figured that out already :-). You actually have not been that good about keeping your ‘secret’ with me.”

Dylan, (sheepishly looking down at his toes and avoiding eye contact with Josh): “Josh, I was afraid you were gonna say that.”

To be sure, Josh didn’t seem the least bit upset about what he had just heard Dylan say. Indeed, Josh was wearing a broad smile as Dylan has just revealed one of his deepest secrets.

Dylan: “The first time I saw the compression gear that UnderArmour ® was selling, I was about to go bananas. I wanted to get my body into that gear sooooooo much.”

Josh “You know what? I kinda got turned on when I saw that for the first time too…I kept thinking how much fun it would be to jack off in gear that fit that fit my body that skin tight. Even the thought of getting into the UnderArmour tee shirt seemed to be exciting. …And the shorts…” Josh’s voice suddenly trailed off. He swallowed hard, and he could feel a slight tensing in his penis just thinking about this all…

Dylan: “Exciting? Even a tee shirt?”

Josh:“ I think you must pretty well know what I am talking about”

At that point Dylan did not dare say anything more. But Dylan had learned something really important: That Dylan was not the only guy in the universe who had thought about such things. Of course, Dylan had pretty much determined that Bill and Joe “suffered” from a similar hang up….and then there was Tony and Donovan…the collegiate rowers he met in the gym… Maybe what Dylan struggled with for most of his young life is actually fairly commonplace, and many guys his age suffer from the same or very similar “problem.”

Dylan had already figured out some stuff. He knew that a lot of his peers in high school wore loose-fitting boxers in high school. He had observed that in the high school gym locker room. But, if guys get turned on by wearing stuff that is snug and tight, why do so many teen guys seem to try and avoid wearing anything that does this?

Dylan pondered that thought for a minute or two. Perhaps these guys were not affected the same way Dylan was when wearing clothing with a snug fit. That was certainly possible, but somehow that explanation did not seem to make a lot of sense. Was Dylan just super sensitive in his groin area? But now Josh was telling him that Dylan was not ‘unique’ in that regard.

Dylan thought some more. Dylan started to think that maybe the answer was that his high school buddies were really fearful of getting into a situation where an erection, or even worse, happened at an inopportune or inappropriate time. What could be worse and more embarrassing than to get a roaring erection when you are with your male buds in the high school locker room?

But, wearing snug and tight stuff is sooooo much fun, Dylan thinks. Were my high school buds just ignorant of all of this?

To be continued…

Dylan thinks back…
 

As the Christmas holidays approach, Dylan invariably starts to think back to when he was a much younger teenager and what his Christmas presents might hold. Ever since puberty, maybe before, Dylan had this affinity for snug-fitting clothing of various sorts, and sometimes he would get pleasantly surprised when he opened his Christmas gifts.

Not that Dylan was somehow different from other boys that age. Dylan loved getting stuff to play with for Christmas, often something in the electric gear category. When Dylan was growing up, this gear was typically all about playing music. The iPod was the one thing many of the boys Dylan’s age most wanted. And one Christmas, Dylan got exactly that. It was a very memorable Christmas for sure. Boys Dylan’s age also wanted their own laptop computer, and one year that happened as well. Thinking back, Dylan had some very good Christmases, from a gear-wise perspective.

It did not take the young Dylan a lot of time to figure out that his Laptop computer could be used to see guys who were wearing various kinds of snug-fitting clothing, guys clad in tight-fitting jeans, swim briefs and stuff that fit even tighter and snugger and more revealing. Dylan basically knew that his peers were using their laptops to get to see the unclothed female anatomy in all its detail. Dylan, however, was not that interested in pursuing that, in part because he didn’t want to upset his parents, but, oddly enough, he wasn’t really that interested in exactly what seemed to be of such interest to his peers. Dylan didn’t quite know what, if anything, that all meant. It was one of those little mysteries that followed Dylan around in his youth.

If Dylan had any interests in “forbidden” Web sites as a young man, it was in getting a chance to see exactly how other guys pleasured themselves. Dylan was particularly attracted to any images that showed exactly how guys played with themselves, in particular guys who were not naked, but instead wearing snug-fitting clothing. Is that somehow weird or oddball? Dylan often wondered about that.

Unlike other guys his age, Dylan never objected to the whole idea of getting clothing instead of stuff to play with for Christmas. But Dylan just being Dylan, of course, hoped for something that would fit him really snug and tight. Somehow, Dylan’s parents figured out what Dylan would like and also not like in this regard. Parents sometimes develop a “sixth sense” in this regard. I don’t know that Dylan’s ‘rents ever put two-and-two completely together, as in figured out that Dylan like to use snug clothing items when he pleasured himself alone, in his room, but that didn’t really matter in the larger scheme of things.

Dylan got to thinking back to that one Christmas when his parents bought him a very narrow-cut pair of jeans. Dylan’s normal underwear was tighty whiteys, FOTL or Hanes® brand, 3-packs in plastic bags. But this year, somehow his parents decided to mix it up and gave Dylan a 4-pack of stretch nylon no-fly bikini briefs. How his parents figured out that Dylan would enjoy a present of that sort is still a great mystery to Dylan, and Dylan has never dared ask them.

Dylan’s parents knew that for young people, getting underwear for Christmas was something of a “standing joke” for an “unsuccessful Christmas,” and Dylan was always stumped by why his parents had “did what they did” that Christmas.

Dylan somehow knew that the new bikini briefs was not something that he would want to wear on gym days at school,..he wasn’t sure what his male classmates would say or do if they saw him wearing them when he was dressing for gym in the locker room. But there was no gym on Tuesdays and Thursdays, so he could “safely” wear them to school on those days.

Of course, what Dylan really wanted to do was see how his penis felt inside those slinky new stretch nylon briefs…somehow the mere thought of slick cloth rubbing against the underside of a guy’s penis can quickly send a guy into self-pleasuring heaven. Dylan remembers this Christmas with very fond memories. Those tight jeans were fun to get into too, especially with the bikini briefs under. In retrospect, Dylan was not at all unhappy that he did not receive a lot of gear to play with that year, not at all upset.

To be continued….

Dylan ponders a lot
 

Whether or not he has some sort of sexual hang-up, Dylan has been gradually coming to terms with himself and his own body. Some days it almost seems as if Dylan’s groin area has a separate “mind” of its own that is leading him to do some wild stuff in certain ways, in large measure entirely for the pure pleasure of it all.

Dylan is a deep thinker. Dylan thinks that this could be part of his own “problem”. Dylan was basically a “good” kid In high school he was never that much interested in doing a lot of the “dumb” things his classmates that age seemed prone to do. This was often the stuff that got his friends and peers into trouble, as in deep trouble. The most obvious example was teen-age drinking that in turn led to really bad things like the night a couple of his classmates got picked up for DWI. Boy was that a mess. They got themselves into a small fender bender accident, after having only recently receiving their driver’s licenses. Thankfully, no one got injured or worse, but they got their licenses taken away from them for 180 days. Their parents were pissed, royally pissed, and vowed to make the 180 day court decision into a one-year suspension.

Then there was the boy who got caught smoking marijuana. That ended up being a big mess too. Then a number of boys that got caught trying to buy cigarettes and beer using faked IDs at a local convenience store. That was a really dumb move because the clerk knew their parents pretty well. Fortunately the clerk didn’t call the police but instead made a quick call to their parents, who immediately came down to the convenience store not being happy at all in getting the call.

Then there was the boy who somehow managed not only to have teenage sex with a girl in the class, but ended up getting her pregnant as well. The funny part about this story is that the two people involved in this were what Dylan might have expected the least likely classmates to end up doing something “dumb” like this. Both the boy and the girl were quiet and shy people, and the boy in particular was definitely not the boisterous athletic type who was into bragging about making sexual conquests. Rather, these were the children of parents who were considered very decent, even noble families in terms of personal behavior. They were quiet conservative churchgoing families, and both families were highly regarded within the community for being both sane and pretty straight-laced.

Then there was the boy in class where rumors had circulated for some time among other classmates that he could be gay, or if not that, at minimum being more interested in other guys than is “normal” for a boy that age. Somehow, these rumors start. Then, one day, interestingly, in that same stupid convenience store-gas station that the guys were trying to buy cigarettes and booze with the fake IDs, this boy, then a 16 y/o Junior and High school got picked up for soliciting sex in the men’s bathroom of the convenience store. Turns out, the guy the boy was soliciting was actually a young cop from a neighboring town, posing undercover as a gay guy after there had been complaints that the convenience store restroom was on occasion being used for that purpose. Wow, this is deep stuff, Dylan thinks, especially from a social perspective for this boy, because no longer will he be able to feign to his classmates that he is actually straight. At some level, Dylan felt for the predicament this classmate had inadvertently gotten himself into. Tough stuff, Dylan thinks. The boy’s parents were appalled that this not only happened but involved their son. Parents often worry that would their kids do will affect their own reputations in the community, and that was a major issue here in this instance. Again, what a mess!

However uncertain Dylan is with respect to his interest in dealing with his fondness for snug-fitting clothing and his penchant for enjoying himself by jerking off wearing something really snug and tight, Dylan realizes that what he is doing to pleasure himself has not gotten him into any of the trouble of the sorts that brought down many of his classmates. Dylan has not done anything wrong or illegal: maybe a little silly, perhaps, at least as viewed by some of his College classmates, but certainly nothing that would that would ever present a legal issue of one sort or another. I suppose if Dylan actually started stroking himself obviously in a public place, he could end up in trouble with the law for public masturbation, but Dylan knew better than to do that.

So far, at least, the most “trouble” Dylan has gotten himself into is jerking off in his own dorm room with the door closed, but not as privately as if he had been completely alone. The twist here is that his roommate Josh had also been in the room for some of this, and had actually seen Dylan ejaculate into the pouch of that skimpy thong Dylan had gotten in the Amazon® order. For Dylan, and interestingly, Josh didn’t seem the least bit concerned about what he was observing up close. Dylan thinks that just maybe Josh kinda “enjoyed” watching Dylan himself, but Dylan is not certain about this at all.

Dylan now keeps wondering to himself if what he did is actually a form of “gay male” behavior, and that if he had done the same thing exactly but in private that this would be a perfectly ‘straight” thing to do. But since Dylan kept stroking himself even after Josh was in the room did that mean that deep down Dylan is either gay or maybe now has a latent gay streak? Indeed, what are the so-called “rules” here with regard to sexual orientation? These are really deep questions, Dylan thinks, and not easily answered.

This all gets really complicated. In high school, Dylan was simply not that much interested in girls or dates, like many of his peers were. Of course, he had been on a few dates, most notably the junior and senior year proms, but he more nearly survived these events than really enjoyed either of them.

So for a long time, Dylan has been jacking off as a sexual release necessary because male hormones have been bombarding his body, relentlessly, and without a release every couple days, this can quickly get overwhelming for a guy Dylan’s age, indeed Dylan thinks maybe for a guy of almost ANY age. The snug-fitting clothing becomes something of a pleasant-and-always-there “retreat” for dealing with the testosterone overload without getting into any difficult social situations. Dylan could of course, go out and find a girl, go on one or more dates, and then make a way for his penis to get into her vagina if he is lucky. A lot of male college freshman pursue that course, relentlessly too. But Dylan keeps thinking that if he tries this, with all the stumbling blocks along the way, Dylan could quickly end up in a situation that he doesn’t want to deal with, at least for now. The girl invariably will want more of a lot of stuff, much more, and at this point Dylan is not at all prepared to deal with that.

So, at this point, jerking off in snug-fitting clothing becomes a convenient way of dealing with life from a sexual perspective. Relative to heavy dating, it’s way cheap, just the one-time cost for the various items. Dylan has all this stuff he got on Amazon® right in his little dorm-room dresser drawer. Dylan starts to think about not only using each item individual to assist himself in jerking off with each item adding its own element in making him feel ”hot and bothered”. Way cool. Dylan starts to daydream. For example, what would happen if he layered each item one over the other. Start with the little Desmiit ® thong that was so much fun. Over that goes the bright compression shorts and tee. Then over the compression shorts goes the strap. Then insert the cup. Dylan is starting to feel like he is getting hard just pondering what might be fun to try.

Dylan thought the super skinny jeans he wore to class over the thong added something really special to all the fun. These fit tight. But recently super tight jeans have started to become available. The super tight jeans have lots of Lycra in the denim blend. A standard super skinny jean tapers to an ankle opining of about 13.5 inches. If they were skinnier than that, a guy would never get his foot through the opening. But with the addition of Lycra, the leg opening can taper to only about 12 inches as the denim stretches like a running tight. This same denim will cling to the calves and thighs almost like a second skin. Not only that, the newest designs are what are called jogging jeans that fit really tight through the calves and thighs and then pull up without a belt but with an elastic waistband like a snug-fitting sweat pant. These can also be worn with a belt and it’s possible to make them appear like an ordinary pair of jeans in every way except one. These jogger jeans have only a fake fly and if a guy wearing them were standing at a urinal, he would have to pull them down to pee. Of course, Dylan, if layered like this is going to have other critical “barriers” in just standing at a urinal to pee. First, the jogger jeans have to come down since they have no fly. Then the strap and cup. Then the compression shorts. Finally, he has to “coax” his penis to come out of the little thong pouch. At minimum, just “unlayering” oneself at the urinal will take time. But it also might attract some attention if other guys wander into the restroom who will wonder what exactly Dylan is doing with all that stuff, at minimum.

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Dylan ponders a lot.....continuation
 

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Dylan decides that he might be smart to get the peeing over before he heads to class and before he gets all his gear in place. Dylan is also convinced that what he wants to add to his collection of jerk off stuff is a pair of those ultra snug-fit jogging jeans. An interesting experiment will be to see if he can wear the jock and cup under the jeans, and, if so, how noticeable the bulge from the cup will be.

Then, what of Josh? Dylan wants to shop for some high-Lycra jogging jeans. Josh could go along on the shopping trips and Dylan could help Josh find some things similar to at least some of the items Dylan got on Amazon. But is Josh really also interested in what Dylan is doing to and for himself? Good Question!

Still, Dylan thinks that Josh’s behavior in the dorm room indicates that Josh is indeed more turned on than turned off by what he saw Dylan doing to himself. But Dylan thinks that he needs to approach the entire subject with Josh very carefully. If there is talking to be done, just let Josh do most of the talking. After all, Josh too seems to be struggling with inner feelings that reside deep down. And Dylan is still trying to figure out how he would deal with a situation where his roommate suddenly discovers that he enjoys pleasuring himself in a similar manner to what Dylan so much enjoys doing to himself. What a dilemma!

To be continued…

Dylan thinks some more,… maybe a bit too much!
 

Dylan’s extraordinary experience masturbating in the thong stuck to his brain as if it were glued in place. Dylan had fun doing this, the most fun he ever recalls having with his own body, and that includes a few close encounters with two different girls his age. None of those encounters ended as Dylan had hope, and somehow, Dylan has pushed the experiences back into a now-dark corner of his brain.

The first thing running through Dylan’s mind is how much he enjoyed merely getting his body parts into the skimpy thong. Now thongs designed as male underwear generally are made to take advantage of the fact that guys have more to contain there than a female does. Still, a correctly-fitting thong should fit snuggly in the pouch. An oversized, loose-fitting pouch would probably work less well than a pouch that is a bit undersized.

Ahhh, but the real fun begins when the pouch is of the correct size for the guy, just big enough to fully hold and contain the penis and balls of a guy who at the start at least is completely flaccid. Of course, that is better said than done. A thong that fits correctly will require some hand adjustment in order to get into the proper position. Dylan did not fully appreciate this until he tried the thong on for the first time. And a guy would have to be brain dead to not get at least a semi-erection as all of this adjusting is going on.

Then there is the matter of the stimulation of the perineum area, that neat little spot just behind the balls. A correctly-fitting thong will tug at that area with an upward pressure, pushing the balls upward and the penis forward. Dylan quickly found this out too. Indeed, just this sensation of the thong pressing firmly against the perineum area taken alone can be a quite enjoyable.

Finally, there is the matter of the thong back, which in a men’s thong, can be as simple as a band of elastic, typically sewn to the thong pouch right at the point that hits the perineum.

So, as arousal proceeds, the guy’s penis is going to grow somewhat in size and strain against the walls of the pouch. As this is happening, something will have to give. As the guy starts to get hard while still inside the pouch, the only reasonable place for the elastic band to go is to stretch up in the buttock crack, bombarding the guy with interesting sensations from yet another “arousal-active” area of his body.

At this point Dylan takes a deep breath and notices that he is pre cumming profusely. Whatever is happening to Dylan right now feels soooo…good. What started as a dime-sized spot of pre cum on the pouch right at the tip of Dylan’s penis has morphed into a quarter-sized wet spot of ooze. And the spot gives every indication of getting still bigger. Already, Dylan has found in a place best called pre cum ”heaven”. Dylan’s entire body is awash with pleasant sensations. Funny how just a little piece of cloth and some elastic can do that to a guy.

The last time this happened, we all know the story of how Dylan found orgasmic ecstasy by simply stroking the underside of his penis from base to glans with his penis still inside the pouch, and that roommate Josh got to watch him do this and coming in a wonderful orgasm of both mind and body, an orgasm so powerful that Dylan thought he was completely losing control over what was happening to him and starting to convulse…terrific fun, even if the who experience was a little scary too. Some of life’s experiences can be both extraordinarily memorable but scary at the same time, and this was one of those.

This time, however, Dylan has the entire dorm room to himself, and wants to try layering some of his duds over the top of the thong. Dylan’s mind is wandering and he is starting to think about layering that little strap and hard cup over the top of the thong. Penises are wonderful pieces of human engineering. They are capable of expanding a good deal, and even stranger, they seem to be happiest doing this if the guy is not trying to direct the activity from his brain. Well, maybe that is not quite what happens.

Dylan’s thoughts right now are most interesting. He’s starting to think that the strap and cup, if worn over his thong, penis and balls, is set up to press inward and downward on his penis just as the thong is pressing upward and forward in the opposite direction. What an interesting dilemma for his body parts to be in, Dylan thinks. How will his body react to the dilemma it is in?

Penises can and do expand under a variety of external conditions, and what Dylan is setting up is one of them. The funny thing is that when the male penis is inside something, it seems to somehow “know” that it is in a confined space, even though it may not be physically in contact with whatever is confining it, at least not yet. So this becomes both a psychological and a physical thing that is taking place. The penis somehow understands that expansion inside a jock cup, while possible may be stopped as soon as it comes in firm contact with the walls of the cup. Dylan pulls the strap and cup over the thong and suddenly becomes aware of what appears to be happening to his body.

Finally, there is the compression gear, both the tee and the compression shorts. Dylan loves the fit and feel of the tee and how he looks in that, how the positions of each of his his upper body muscles are apparent with the tee in place. Dylan pulls the tee first, and then tugs himself into the compression shorts. The compression shorts hold the jock cup firmly in place, limiting Dylan’s ability to pull the cup off the top of his pouch-contained penis, a penis that now desperately wants to get bigger as well as harder but is limited because the walls of the jock cup are firm and hard and only a tiny distance from the now nearly electric condition of the skin of his penis.

At this point, Dylan’s mind is telling him that he is desperate to get off, to get out from under the sensations his body is being bombarded with from a bunch of different locations. At the same time Dylan wants for all of this to be over, he is once again in a thrilling situation, again a situation unlike anything quite like he has ever experienced before. And, of course, given where Dylan’s penis is, he cannot easily rub himself directly enough to speed ejaculation. Dylan is more or less stuck! Might as will just kick back and enjoy all the interesting and wonderful sensations.

Dylan suddenly thinks about that crazy night that he ran into Bill and Joe in the hall restroom, and it now occurs to him that Bill and Joe were wearing all of the gear he is now wearing, or at least very similar gear, layered like Dylan has now layered his own gear.

It now becomes obvious to Dylan exactly what Bill and Joe were doing that night dressed that way, and, more importantly, why they were doing that. Of course, Bill and Joe had yet another scheme, that was crawling into bed and trying to sleep with all the gear in place, with each realizing that the roommate also attempting to sleep only a few feet away was in the same psychological and physical predicament and struggling with the exact same issues.

Would Josh ever get to the point where he would like to try the same thing Bill and Joe were doing, Dylan wonders. The intensity of the entire experience seems to magnify with the knowledge that there is another guy in the room with you who is facing the exact same “problem”. For now, however, its time for Dylan to just kick back and enjoy the entire experience solo.

To be continued…

Dylan has a dream…
 

It can be dangerous to go to bed after trying on and messing around in your gear, in part because whatever experiences that you might have had that were enjoyable tend to get “glued” onto your brain like epoxy. Nearly every human being has had the experience of going to bed and end up dreaming a dream that mixes one or more events of the day in strange and often silly but interesting ways. Even more so if the event involved something that a guy found to be arousing. Whatever it was that happened that got the guy going ends up getting built into an erotic dream in some way, a way that the conscious mind never thought of but seems quite plausible as the story line of the dream moves forward.

Take Dylan and his situation as an illustration of all of this. As I have previously indicated on a number of different occasions, Dylan had always thought of himself as a “bookish” student, and had never gotten involved in any serious high school athletics. Still, at some level, he admired many of the high-school athletes for their toned, muscular bodies and their ability to seemingly effortlessly attract high-school girls. For Dylan, even taking up a conversation with a female was a complex and difficult task.

But Dylan also had some “secrets” buried in the darker coves of his brain. Dylan knew that a lot of athletes, as part of the sport they were into, wore stuff that non-athletes would not normally get to wear, and a lot of this stuff involved items that fit snug against the groin area. Dylan didn’t think about this all that much in high school, but deep inside he always wondered about how this actually worked for the athletes, and how the guys felt wearing the items. Did they get aroused and have erections as a consequence, erections that had to somehow be disguised if they happened in a situation that could prove embarrassing? How did the athletes “handle” these situations if and when they occurred? Was this something that was commonplace among the team members, or rare?

Sometimes the conscious mind does not answer questions like these, but during sleep, the subconscious mind takes over and develops a storyline that is tough for a guy to forget once the guy awakens. As we will see, such was the case for Dylan. Keep in mind also that when Dylan made the Amazon® order for the various gear items made its imprint on Dylan’s brain. The various items had worked almost amazingly well in getting Dylan aroused. Indeed, the experiences that Dylan was having with the various items were sticking to Dylan’s brain as if they were glued in place. As a consequence, it is not at all surprising that Dylan’s dreams quickly evolved in certain ways.

In Dylan’s first dream, Dylan realizes that he is still a College freshman, but in this fantasy world he wants to try out for some intramural team sports. These sports are not like regular college athletic teams, but mainly a way for the various dormitories and fraternities to compete against each other mainly just for fun. But as is often the case, whenever you have guys engaged in any competitive activity, there are always a few guys who want to take whatever it is very seriously.

In Dylan’s dream, Dylan is making an attempt to choose from three intramural sports, swimming, wrestling, and martial arts. Dylan decides to look into the intramural swim team first, and stops by when they are practicing at the intramural swimming pool. This was the pool located in the same gym he was to in real life. But here is the interesting part. The members of the swim team are all wearing swim briefs. Not only that, they are swim brief that in fit and color nearly identical to the Desmiit® brief Dylan had in his dresser drawer from the Amazon® order. That means really skimpy, low-cut, vertical color (blue, yellow or green) blocked with black and, well, quite tight-fitting. Dylan realizes that while they keep the swimmers covered, at least not when wet it is easy for Dylan to make out the shape and outline of the swimmer’s anatomy. Dylan notices that some of the guys have more down there than others. He talks to a swimmer, a guy who looks amazingly like Josh, who explains to Dylan that the team had made a group order for Desmiit briefs, and that wearing one was required if Dylan wanted to be a part of the team. Dylan swallows, but does not say anything in response. Dylan is wondering how he is going to be able to wear such skimpy attire in public. But the swimming guys do look great in their tiny briefs, Dylan thinks.

Next up is the wrestling team, who just happen to be practicing in the same gym on the same day. Oddly enough, all the participants are wearing asics® singlets similar to the one Dylan got in his Amazon order. Too, Dylan can see that all the guys are wearing straps under the singlets, and, Dylan thinks, what must be hard cups, as all the wrestlers have a bulge in the “right” place but a bulge that does not look like a penis but merely a smooth bulge. Dylan talks to one of the wrestlers, a guy who happens to look very much like Josh, and asks the wrestler about the gear Dylan would need to participate in the sport. The wrestler explains that all the guys wear a singlet, but since this is intramural competition, the color is the choice of the wrestler. And, of course, every guy wears a strap and cup too, for “safety” reasons.

Dylan’s last stop is at the martial arts venue where the intramural martial arts team is also practicing. Interestingly enough, the guys there are all wearing compression tees and shorts, shorts that extend about halfway down to their knees. These look way similar to the Tesla gear in my drawer, Dylan thinks. Dylan notices that these martial arts guys are also wearing straps and cups. Dylan talks to a martial arts participant, a guy that looks a lot like Josh. The guy explains to Dylan that in order to participate, Dylan will need the compression tee and shorts, a strap, a cup, and one more item. “What item is that?” Dylan asks. The guy replies, “a pair of thong underwear, of course!” worn under the jock.

Dylan thinks to himself “I certainly prepared well for all of this!”

…to be continued

Dylan’s situation…
 

In thinking about Dylan’s situation, dreaming a vivid dream, two movies come to mind. The first movie is called “Pride” in which the Terrance Howard character coaches an inner city Philadelphia team to compete in swimming. The most unforgettable scene from that movie is when the coach tells that the swim team members, in order to compete, are going to have to wear swimming briefs. Of course, coach has been wearing swim briefs already. The reactions of the swim team members to the idea make for unforgettable movie-making.

Clearly, the swim-team members are more than a little apprehensive about the situation they face. The coach is telling them that wearing the briefs is a basic requirement if they intend to compete against other teams (who will also be wearing swim briefs). The apprehension might be due simply to the “revealing” nature of the clothing. Or, perhaps the team members are secretly worried that they will get erections just getting into the clothing, and what do they do if THAT happens in public?

Whatever the reason for the apprehension, the next scene shows the team all wearing the briefs, so, somehow, they all “survived” the situation at hand.

The other movie is a 2006 film called “Swimming Upstream” that is based on the Tony Fingleton autobiography. Fingleton was an Australian swimmer who competed in the Empire Games in Australia, and later was on the Harvard University swim team. The Fingleton boys competed in swimming and at a very early age and, as the movies shows, wore swim briefs from the very start. This would be a very normal thing for a young guy to do in Australia.

Tony Fingleton, as played by Jesse Spencer in the movie, was quite a handsome guy, and the females of a similar age followed his athletic career a lot, and probably not simply the swimming records. It was clear from the movie that they were fascinated with his looks as a scantily-clad swimmer.

In the scene where Tony is about to board a plane that will take him to the Empire games, a young lady dashes up and asks him to give her one of his swim briefs. Tony is taken aback by this at first, but then reaches into his duffel bag and pulls out a neon green swim brief, and tosses it to her. What does this all mean, anyway?

The young lady gets a treasured “trophy” of sorts, a swim brief that only recently encased Tony’s private parts. So, maybe the idea that young women are somehow turned off seeing guys in swim briefs is a myth. Young ladies may very well get turned on by seeing guys clad this way, though they may be less than forthcoming about it. And, for that matter, guys who wear swim brief may need to realize that it is more than just gay guys who might be “sensitive” to what they are wearing at swimming meets, and this COULD be at least one reason why the sport attracts a following.

So too, now, with Dylan in his dream. Of course, Dylan learned at a very early age that his body parts were “sensitive” to certain kinds of clothing, starting with the tighty whitey underwear he wore as a child. As Dylan got a little bit older, he started thinking up ways so that he could turn himself on, and, for that matter, admiring guys who he thought just might be getting turned on doing the same thing. All of this more or less comes together in high school, where young males are together in a gym locker room, preparing to participate in sports where one or more clothing items might lead to arousal…guys are constantly tilting back and forth between the thrill of the arousal itself and the fear that this could happen in some inopportune or inappropriate place or time, and Dylan is no exception in this regard.

Of course, once a guy is in an erotic dream, all the rules about what should happen go out the window. If Dylan wants to get a hard-on just getting into a skimpy Desmiit® swimming brief, his subconscious is perfectly free to let that happen. If Dylan thinks he will get erect putting on a snug-fitting strap, cup and wrestling singlet, that can happen too. If Dylan “likes” the compression gear that apparently is part of the martial arts apparel, then that is fine as well.

For guys, the best wet dreams are the ones in which the guy wakes up with a huge hard-on, a situation so precarious and unstable that it cannot help but go right into a full-blown orgasm and release that creates a royal mess in the bedclothes and on whatever the guy wore to bed. Then, in a close-quarters double dorm room, the poor guy has to figure out how to get up without alerting his roommate to exactly what had happened. Of course, the guy in the other bed may very well have already or will soon face the same “problem.”

So Dylan is in the middle of a dream involving three different sports, or maybe I should say instead three different ways to create a powerful orgasm. Each of the three sports involves getting into and wearing clothing items that could be quite arousing and the dream will go whatever way it wants to go even as an erection builds while the guy doing the dreaming is fast asleep. Indeed, the dream and the subconscious will make a series of “decisions” seemingly consistent with making it tougher and tougher for the guy to continue watching the dream without creaming all over. That the dream seemingly operates on its own is part of what makes the entire experience so interesting. Characters will move in and out of the storyline as the dream progresses, but seemingly each character builds on what has already happened in such a way to push Dylan’s erection a bit further along.

Then, in just the nick of time, Dylan wakes up only to discover that he is on the very verge of exploding in a powerful orgasm, with enough cream to cover the bedclothes. It is clear in Dylan’s mind that there was one particular sport, and one particular set of clothing items that Dylan was being “forced” to get into in the dream that pushed this entire experience forward to the powerful end.

The entire experience is now glued to Dylan’s brain. Dylan knows that he already has the items that showed up in one way or another in the plot of the dream. Otherwise he would be up for a shopping trip in an effort to closely replicate whatever it was he found himself doing in the dream.

Dylan wonders about Josh. Is the experience Dylan just had more than a little weird or are such experiences commonplace among guys his age? If Josh were “exposed” to the same situations Dylan has been into, would Josh’s body and brain respond in the same or at minimum similar way? Dylan knows that Josh certainly did not object when Josh got to see Dylan masturbating while wearing the thong in the dorm room. But will Josh get really turned on by the same items that seem to work for Dylan? And what role if any might a college-age woman play in all of this? Lots of deep stuff here to be uncovered for sure.

To be continued….

Aaaaaawwwh that fits tight…
 

Dylan is in the middle of his dream…suddenly he starts talking in his sleep, loudly…he frantically says “Aaaaaawwwh that fits tight” Maybe Josh was awake enough to hear Dylan, but maybe not.

What is happening in the dream that is causing Dylan to talk in his sleep? That is an interesting question. In the dream, Dylan is now trying out for the wrestling team, and of course, in order to do that he needs to be in the appropriate gear if he is going to try wrestling with one or two of the other guys in the gym. The proper wrestling gear includes a strap, a cup and a wrestling singlet. Fortunately the guys appear to have stock of each item, presumably the straps and singlets have been freshly laundered. The guys seem to be more than a little bit interested in the fact that Dylan must now get into the wrestling gear in their presence. Maybe they know something about all of this that Dylan doesn’t know.

Dylan then strips. Dylan thinks he is more than a little apprehensive about doing this, but I guess it is required in order to be a part if the intramural team. Oh well, Dylan isn’t going to be standing there completely nude for long. “Hey this strap is smaller than the one I usually wear” Dylan says to no one in particular. “And this jock cup you lent me. Do you expect me to get my stuff into THAT?”

“Well”, one guy on the team explains, “when we are wrestling, everyone watching us can see our bodies, our ENTIRE bodies, and you must realize that if you were to get a noticeable erection when people are watching us, that COULD be really embarrassing. The strap and cup you are wearing is designed to hold everything in place, so the bulge in the singlet looks the same irrespective of whether or not you are, …well,…you know...” At that point the guy’s voice tails off, as if he has said too much, already.

“But,” Dylan protests, “that cup is so small and that jock is so tight, it would be impossible to get an erection wearing it….at least I think that would be the case. I’ve worn a strap and cup before, but not one nearly this small. “

The guy says “Yup Dylan, you just learned something important about intramural wrestling team. All of the guys on the team are in the same ‘predicament’ when they wrestle as you are finding yourself in right now.” As a team, we want to see how you deal with the situation at hand as a potential new member of the team. What you are going through right now is part of a process for determining your “fitness” to join our team.

Dylan is struggling with all sorts of strange sensations coming from his penis and entire groin area right now. His penis is clearly uneasy about being in space that is this confining, and its sending signals back to Dylan’s brain about the situation it finds itself in. These sensations border on being almost painful. But in an odd way they are not painful at all. There is another element to this that Dylan senses is pleasant, oddly enough, very pleasant.

At this point in the dream, Dylan needs to pull a wrestling singlet on to his body and over the strap and cup. In the dream, Dylan thinks this should be relatively easy since he has had experience wearing his forest green asics® singlet.

But the wrestling team singlets are different from what Dylan is used to. For starters, they are made by Russell®, and go up much higher on the chest than the asics® singlets do. They also are more difficult to get into. The arm straps are much shorter. In order to make this all work, the singlet has to be pulled up really snug in the groin area, to the point where the singlet is crawling right into the butt cheek crack.

The guys explain to Dylan that there is a special technique for getting your body into a really snug singlet. The singlet has to fit as if t were a slick second skin because in wrestling you don’t want your opponent to be able to pull you down by grabbing onto any loose fold of cloth, so the tighter and slicker the cloth, the better for keeping your opponent from grabbing you down in a meet. And, of course, the strap and cup should keep your gonads from getting accidentally injured in a wrestling move. Your opponent will be clad similarly, and for the same reasons.

The guys also explain to Dylan that there is a technique for getting into a singlet and getting the shoulder straps in place. That first involves cinching up the singlet into your groin and butt as tight as you can possibly get it, and then getting into the strap for the left arm and shoulder first. Then use your right arm to position the left strap over your shoulder as close to your neck as possible. Finally, wriggle your right arm into the right shoulder strap while positioning that strap with your left arm.

Of course, all of these complicated movements put additional tension on the strap, cup and gonads. Aaaaaawwwh that fits tight, Dylan proclaims out loud in his sleep. Dylan then looks down and sees some tell-tale pre cum stains on the loaner red Russell® singlet. Dylan thought that the strap and cup would contain any initial emissions, but clearly not. Dylan looks down to his groin, and the other guys around him notice the stains too.

“Don’t worry” one of the guys finally says.”A lot of the guys pre cum when they get into their wresting gear, at least when they do it for the first few times. We just act as if the guy is in a tough match and is sweating a lot. Of course, the stains are not sweat, not even close, but that makes for a good story line anyway.

What a dream…suddenly Dylan wakes up and his penis is bone-hard…Dylan is very anxious to get off, and recalling all these erotic moments in the dream is not helping with matters down there at all. Dylan is desperate to get off…truly desperate.

To be continued…

I'm with you on this one. Nothing more erotic for me than to slip into a tiny swim bikini and I frequently go into my swimwear drawer and pose around in front of a mirror with various suits. As you say by the time I've slipped into the 4th or 5th suit that my penis is well firm and causing an obscene bulge. Most suits are of very slight Lycra or spandex and reveal most detail of the head and shaft. Some are so skimpy that the fabric is stretched to the limit. I love wearing as brief as I dare in public even though the fabric doesn't really hide the form, especially in front a female friend(of my wife and I) when using her hot tub. She has nice long nails and the thought of them brushing against my bikini keeps my semi.

I appreciate your kind comments. For me the main issue in continuing to write here is coming up with story lines that my readers can personally relate to...both the dilemmas and the fun.

Again, I appreciate hearing from you and what you enjoy doing.

Sebbie

Dylan's "collection"
 

A collection of “stuff” like Dylan owns can be really fun in all sorts of different ways. Like so many other guys, Dylan is very fond of being just a little aroused, but also maintaining a degree of arousal over long periods of time. Getting the arousal level to the point where it is just right so that it can be successfully sustained over a long period of time even while being engaged in other activities, say, going to class or working out, is the tricky part. How does a guy stay in a semi-aroused state over a long period of time?

Every guy probably knows the exact sensation Dylan is after, that feeling of tightness or tenseness in the groin area and really, in the lower part of the penis that suggests that something is happening there, but not too much of a sensation, at least not enough so that the guy starts to feel compelled to soon ejaculate. The exact sensation is great fun, but also quite subtle. I call it “riding the wave” the wave being sensations that radiate throughout the body when a guy is sexually excited, even just a little bit excited.

What does Dylan’s collection of gear have to do with all of this fun stuff? Isn’t a guy “supposed to go through a series of steps starting with a subtle but still quite pleasant sexual arousal, which quickly leads into something that is, well, “bigger and better”? Well, yes, and, surprisingly, no.

Once arousal is underway, stuff can move in very different directions, and one of these directions does not push forward into a stiffer penis that is accompanied almost invariably by an ever greater urge to ejaculate until ejaculation comes off. What I am talking about is slower and also sweeter. It might not lead anywhere that is harder and stiffer, at least not for some time. And maintaining that semi state is where Dylan’s gear can prove to be, well, quite useful.

College students are often very busy. They are learning new stuff and doing tough and difficult things. For a guy, enjoying one’s own body sometimes gets pushed back even though it is a very enjoyable thing to do. For example, Dylan certainly enjoyed that session where he masturbated with Josh watching him do it right there in the room. But that is not something a College student would or could do in public. What Dylan and Josh were doing is reserved for quieter, private times.

Still, every guy has moments in his life where his groin area feels quite pleasant even if he is not an actively-engaged masturbator. Should a guy just ignore these remarkably pleasant sensations or perhaps even try and help them along?

Everyone reading this knows that Dylan has no qualms whatsoever about enjoying his own body, even if this involves no one else. This is not a bad thing to do, indeed it is a good thing to be able to do this on a regular basis without feeling uncertainty or guilty about it whatsoever. I guess every guy in some manner greatly enjoys masturbation, but the real differences lie in a guy’s ability to feel OK about this. Maybe an infatuation with masturbation is ultimately bad. What if I get to like it too much, in which case I never get motivated to seek out a partner for sex? Is this bad for me? Will I end up being a loner? These are all interesting questions for sure, and maybe too deep to consider for now.

Dylan is a busy guy. He goes to class every day and is doing well, grade wise. He has gotten interested in working out at the gym too, something he never really got into when he was in high school.

Dylan has long been into snug-fitting clothing. This started even before he went through puberty. He loved how snug fitting cotton briefs made his groin area feel. As he grew, he liked to wear jeans and underwear that was nearly too small for him any more. As a senior in high school he graduated to even snugger-fitting skinny jeans.. More and more he liked how all the clothes fit to his groin and to a certain degree emphasized his manhood in the mirror.

This all led to the session where with Bill and Joe he placed the order for that Amazon gear: a strap and a cup, a pair of thong underwear, a skimpy little swim brief, a compression tee and jammer, and a snug-fitting wrestling singlet. It’s occurred to Dylan that any of this gear COULD be worn to class under his skinny jeans and maybe under a sweatshirt on top, and further, any of this gear might keep him going, semi-aroused, even as class is proceeding. He needs to be careful to not get too aroused, just aroused enough to keep the pleasant sensations feeding his brain during the lecture. Picking WHAT to wear to class under the jeans and sweatshirt could pose a bit of a dilemma, but that should be quickly resolved.

How much is just enough arousal, but not too much? Well any guy realizes that is where the drops of pre cum or ooze come in. These ordinarily are tiny enough not to leak and stain into a denim jean. But guys are normally quickly aware of when they are in oozing mode, because they will feel the definite sensation of moistness forming right at the penis tip and on whatever the undergarment happens to be.

Dylan knows. He can’t not know, because he has already been playing this wearing the underwear thong under his skinny jeans to class, and further, he made it through class and back to his dorm without completely going off. That came later, with Josh in the room.

What will Dylan try next to wear to class? Will he still be able to make it through class without embarrassing himself? Dylan is drawn to trying this because it is so much fun. But, what will Dylan try doing to himself and his body next?

To be continued….

Dylan tries on his little swim brief
 

Dylan has been having a lot of fun trying on and wearing the various clothing items that he has purchased. These “experiments” and what has happened to his body by wearing the various items have left an indelible “mark” on his brain, a mark that is not easily overlooked or ignored.

Whenever a guy engages himself in this manner seems to lead to creating a special situation whereby the guy is flooded with the most pleasant sensations and feelings, feelings and sensations that a young guy just wants to relive over and over.

It’s funny how all of this works. Some people seem to associate finding this place containing special feelings and sensations with finding someone that you particularly enjoy being with. But that is not the only mechanism that makes this happen. Relationships of any sort are often fraught with issues and problems not the least of which the whole idea of forming permanent bonds with another person may be more than a little impractical, especially as a 19-year old college freshman. There is too much going on in a guy’s life at that age that doesn’t involve relationship issues.

The basic problem, of course is that testosterone is flooding a guy’s brain at that age, and driving him to perhaps behave in ways that might seem more than a little out of order. Guys quickly get focused on coming up with ways to get their bodies to create these special sensations, but if, for whatever reason, a sexual relationship with another person is impractical or impossible, there might still be other ways of doing it.

For example, Dylan was both surprised and fascinated by how his body so quickly responded when he put on that little Desmiit® Thong. The sensations Dylan experienced are still floating around in his brain as if they had just happened.

Dylan is thinking that this time, he wants to try wearing the little Desmiit® swim brief to class, under his skinny jeans of course. The room is empty except for Dylan, and he pulls the little swim brief out of his dresser drawer.

Previously, Dylan’s attention had been diverted to all of the other items he had, the thong, the strap, the Tesla® gear and the singlet. Dylan had kind of forgotten that he even had the little swim brief. But now it dawns on Dylan that the little brief might work well under his jeans as a substitute for his usual white cotton briefs. But, how will Dylan’s body—and mind—“react to doing this. Dylan decides that it is time to run an experiment to find out exactly what might happen.

For starters, the swim brief is not very big, but Dylan knew that already. Dylan slips on the brief and quickly discovers that the size he bought is barely big enough to contain all of his male anatomy, anatomy that will grow substantially in size if he gets sexually excited. What seems like a snug fit now is going to be even more confining unless Dylan can keep from getting excited.

Of course, just by pulling on the swim brief, Dylan is already somewhat excited, and his penis is already starting to get bigger. That subtle but distinct tenseness at the base of the penis—every guy knows that feeling for sure—is happening too. This is all fun to have happen, but a bit scary as well…Dylan knows all about that particular combination of sensations and feelings.

Dylan looks at himself in the dorm-room mirror, focusing especially on how he looks in the groin area. To Dylan at least, it is obvious that he is at least a little excited already. Mirrors don’t lie. But, there is a more serious problem at hand. The problem Dylan faces is one of finding a position for his penis inside the little suit. Down is workable assuming a guy is completely flaccid. But, if a guy has any degree of erection, the choices are either to one side or the other, or possibly up.

The up position looks cool, but only if a guy wants to show a big bulge, a bulge that might even be obvious wearing skinny jeans over. In class, that could get more than a little embarrassing.

The other option is to position the penis horizontally, with the tip facing either left or right. Dylan has experimented with a sideways position wearing his tighty whitey underwear. Somehow, aiming the tip toward the right always felt uncomfortable to Dylan. Pointing left seemed more “natural” to him. Dylan wonders if guys’ penises are like being left handed or right handed. That is, for some guys it just works better to consistently point one way or the other. Dylan wonders if anyone has researched this topic.

The Desmiit brief is very low-slung, barely covering the entirety of his butt crack when he is completely flaccid. Any growth puts pressure on the brief, and makes it more and more difficult to pull the brief into position to cover the butt crack completely. This could be an issue if Dylan were swimming in the brief, but the sideways position helps a little in this regard, but it is not a big problem given that Dylan will be wearing a snug-fitting pair of jeans over everything.

The other problem is that Dylan has started to pre cum. Would a guy expect anything otherwise given all the experiments with penis positioning and then snugging up the brief to fit tight against the crotch? This is leaving small damp spots of crystal clear ooze on the front of the brief. Three of them have formed already. This too should not be a problem unless Dylan starts precumming sufficiently that it passes on through his denim jeans.

So Dylan takes one final tug on the brief, snugging everything up in place, and pulls on his skinny jeans over. A tee followed by a sweatshirt complete the look, and Dylan, still feeling quite horny, is off to class.

To be continued…

The male anatomy
 

Dylan is now snuggly tucked into his little Desmiit® swim brief, wearing his equally snug-fitting skinny jeans over the top of everything underneath.
Dylan thinks “it’s funny how a guy’s anatomy works.” Dylan’s little swim brief is entirely covered up by the denim in the skinny jeans, denim that, interestingly, has a bit of Elastane (aka Lycra®) in it to make the jeans fit even snugger, but still comfortable to wear. Dylan is certainly OK to go to class the way he is. No one should be the wiser as to what he is actually wearing today.

Still, Dylan’s mind is focused not on his class work, but on where his penis and balls are residing today as he walks to class. This is the funny thing about guys. A guy can very easily get engaged about the ordinary events of the day and a guy’s attention is diverted from any sort of sexual feelings whatsoever. But if a guy’s penis and balls are in a very confined space such as the clothing Dylan is wearing, a guy’s attention is quickly diverted once again to thinking about any sensations from the groin area. Of course, the smooth fit of the little swim brief merely adds to all of this, plus the feeling always there that if a guy somehow is getting into a situation whereby he needs to grow some, will there be adequate space inside the brief to do so, and what might happen if adequate space is not available?

Adding to the dilemma is the skinny jeans with the snug-fitting denim bearing down on everything, which makes the dilemma of “what happens if I start to grow?” even more interesting. Guys are made to greatly enjoy having their male anatomy in places that are very confining. If this weren’t true, human beings as a species would have likely have died out eons ago.

But Dylan, right now is really “messing” with all of this. Sex with a female partner is something completely different, entirely. Indeed, what Dylan is messing with is something that largely only guys even know about. Females, for the most part, are clueless about all of this.

Around puberty, guys learn a lot about how much pure fun it can be just to play with yourself in private. This usually begins with just some basic rubbing and stroking of the penis with your hand from glans to base. This is actually an important learning activity for guys, because in doing this they learn about the touch and feel of various parts of the penis, the extra sensitivity of the underside, the super sensitivity of the glans area around the penis head, and so on. Every individual masturbation experience is also an important learning experience for guys.

But guys soon pick up on the whole idea that there are more fun ways to masturbate than simply running one’s dry fingers along the penis shaft. It doesn’t take a guy long to learn that the entire act is facilitated if these is something in between. Perhaps a hand lotion is used to lubricate everything, but that can quickly get messy.

But what about a piece of cloth instead? A piece of cloth that feels really smooth and slick against the shaft of the penis? Maybe cloth like what is commonly found in a stretchy swim brief?

For guys, there has always been a curious mixture of interest coupled with equal parts of apprehension and anxiety about the whole prospect of wearing a snug-fitting item of clothing made from a stretchy fabric. For those new to the idea the interest comes about from the knowledge that the slick, snug-but-stretchy fabric is made to order for better-quality self-administered sexual pleasure. The apprehension and anxiety is linked to the notion of getting a hard-on at an inappropriate time, say in the locker room, or worse, end up with an explosive orgasm. Still, the fun of being able to wear something that a guy always thought would be a great garment for improving the quality of masturbation cannot be ignored. The guy is thus being tugged in two different directions---a dilemma that is not easily resolved.

Dylan, this morning, is in a relatively “safe” place wearing what he is wearing to class. A bit of a hard-on, if it did occur, should be largely unnoticeable given that he is all tucked inside the jeans as . It is not likely that things will get out of control because if that happens, Dylan is aware that he can simply divert his attention to whatever is going on inside the lecture hall, and that should cool things down just enough to be manageable. Dylan’s body is telling him that he has found himself a place to be that can only be described as “most interesting.”

Still, Dylan knows he is in a “fun” place, body and mind, this morning. Maybe a place the other guys in his class do not know about or appreciate like Dylan does. Or do they? Dylan still isn’t sure where other guys are or could be in this regard, and there is no simple way to find out, either.

Maybe, but maybe not.

To be continued….

Valentine's day at the doctor's
 

Much to my surprise, my physical examination was scheduled in February on Valentine's Day. I wasn't looking forward to my upcoming scheduled plight, but the doctor was a very pretty female and a lovely nurse helping her. I arrived there and signed in at the receptionist's desk. Because it was a very cold day, I was wearing warm snug tan colored overalls with a flannel button up shirt and underneath bright pink long sleeve leotard, tights and speedo style, pink colored briefs under my leotards. I felt very warm and comfortable in my Valentine's day outfit and underwear while sitting in the waiting room, when Called in by the nurse and escorted to a large examination room. The pretty doctor entered and went over the medical paper work with me, while still in my warm Valentine's Day outfit. Both her and noticed the bright pink showing under the flannel shirt and asked what I was wearing under my outfit. I answered that it was my pink Cupid leotards for Valentine's Day day and hoped I wouldn't have to give up my pink underwear for the doctor. I did bring other clothes to put on after my physical. The doctor then told her nurse to have me changed and in a gown, as she left the room with my papers. The lovely nurse would give me a nice smile, while closing the large privacy curtain surrounding me. She would say "okay Cupid everything comes including the pink underwear, and I'll help you if need be." Now I sat on the exam table, when she took off my winter shoes and socks, showing my feet encased in bright pink tights. Now only the sounds of me whimpering like a little boy, overalls being unsnapped "pop,pop" then buttons unfastened with front bib and zippers being opened "unzzzipp", as I squirmed and continued whimpering. Soon she had my warm flannel shirt unbuttoned revealing the bright pink leotards underneath. She was tickling me a lot too. I liked the way she was undressing me, but hoping I could stay in my pink leotard and tights, but to no avail,as the flannel shirt came off, then guiding me off the exam table pulling and tugging the snug overalls down and off. Now only in the pink leotard and tights, she wished me a happy Valentine's Day, saying "but those are coming off too," when the pretty doctor came back into the examination room to see if I was ready to be examined yet. There I was standing only in bright pink leotard and tights trying to cover my full erection well outlined under them. when the doctor said how cute I looked as a pink Cupid. The nurse was holding an awful gown saying "Valentine's Day is over for you Cupid, let's finish getting you readied for your physical," now turning me around, slowly unzipping the long back leotard zipper, when I arched my backed and whined some more, feeling a chill on my upper back, as she unzipped and the opened the leotard. The lovely nurse gently turned me around peeling my arms from the clinging bright pink leotard sleeves. The doctor would watch my medical plight begin, as the nurse continued undressing me with a big smile seeing seeing my now bare upper torso, the doctor then puttting the sthesicope to my bare chest and listening to my excited heart beat. Now the moment of truth came for me when the nurse put her hands around my lower half still snug and secure in three layers of bright pink leotard,tights and speedo briefs and with the doctor's help began peeling them down below my waist despite crossing my legs, squeezing my buns and trying to keep my erect penis from being unsnugged, the feeling of all three layers of clinging pink nylon coming off was beautiful. Both ladies were very gentle and yet professional getting the Cupid out of me. The nurse managed to free up my excited penis, while the doctor gave several gentle tugs getting the still clinging layers of pink unwedgied from my buns, while uncovering and fully exposing my behind. Slowly both nurse and doctor got them down my legs then freed my squirming ankles from all three tangled layers of pink. Finally naked, I was guided back on the exam table where the doctor began doing the physical exam on me. My naked body covered in only a gown, looked like tent city, as the pretty doctor gently groped and probed my naked body, then having me stand up again and with the nurse's help I was given a DR exam. Finally my exam was finished and I passed in good health. Yes once naked, my fully erect penis was measured by the nurse, showing me to be in good health. The doctor and nurse said I was a good patient and liked me being dressed in Cupid pink for Valentine's Day and made their day somewhat brighter. I quickly got dressed again in pink boxers with a warm pink shirt and baggy tan colored polyester trousers. I gave both the pretty doctor and lovely kind nurse a big hug, as they wished me a very Happy Valentine's Day. It was great day,making my medical plight go so much easier.

Interesting, how everything works…
 

It’s interesting, how everything has been working out for Dylan. Actually, Dylan’s case is what I might call typical for young men his age everywhere. Guys obviously wear clothing that ordinarily brushes against their penises without getting sexually excited or erect. They just go about their ordinary day-by-day tasks, in Dylan’s case, going to class, without getting sexually excited in any way.

Of course, this is not quite as simple as it seems. Guys all know that as well. Occasionally, sometimes when one least expects, a guy gets sexually stimulated, the so-called juices start to flow, and its off to the races, so to speak. Every guy Dylan’s age has experienced this too. The situation just “pops up” more or less, and suddenly all a guy can think about is the sensations that he is starting to feel in his male anatomy.

These sensations almost invariably are accompanied by a lot of strange and wonderful things happening. And some of these strange and wonderful things start to happen even before a guy senses that he may get erect. I’ve talked at length about how the flow of pre cum often marks the start of sexual excitement, and this ordinarily gets underway without a significant erection if at all. Technically, pre cum is the output of glands called the Cowpers, located some distance apart from the prostate which is the source of the main fluid in semen. There is still debate going on as to what the exact biological function of the pre cum is in human sexuality, except to say that the female vagina tends to be acidic, chemically low pH, and acids are deadly to semen. Every guy knows that pre cum is slick and smooth. Slick and smooth feeling fluids tend to have high pH, technically OH- not acidic H+ . This theory thus holds that the pre cum has a very useful function biologically in first neutralizing the acidity of the vagina so that the sperm don’t get killed and thus not be able to fertilize the egg.

So much for the science of pre cum manufacturing. Every guy also knows that any time spent oozing pre cum is just a great time to be alive, and illustrates that terrific connection between the body and the brain. Aside from being in the throes of an orgasm, oozing pre cum comes in a close second. If a guy wants to, he can ooze pre cum for literally hours at a time, delaying and delaying any further steps. In a situation not unlike Pavlov’s dog, a young guy usually quickly learns the feel of a wet spot of ooze forming in his undergarment right at the tip of his penis, and it’s not long before that sensation is associated with a very pleasant feeling in the brain as well. This is the exact situation Dylan is in right now as he sits in class quietly oozing pre cum as the lecture proceeds.

Pretty much every guy loves to masturbate, but a basic problem is that most guys aware of these pre cum moments want to quickly take things a step farther, as in stroking ones soon-to-be-erect penis. Dylan used to think that way himself, but he has gradually learned that there is more to being a guy than just seeing how quickly he can get to a point of ejaculation. The real point here is that the longer a guy can remain sexually focused without going into a full-blown erection and ejaculation, the more fun it is going to be to be a guy, and, further, the more fun the ejaculation is going to be when it finally does take place. A lot of guys are into speed in all sorts of ways. But there is more to being a guy than simply seeing how fast you can get it all over with. Much more.

What does that skimpy Desmiit® swim brief and the skinny jeans Dylan is wearing have to do with all of this? Well, this morning, they are something of an aid in helping Dylan focus his mind on his male body parts. Will Dylan get anything out of the classroom lecture this morning? That is an interesting question too. Dylan is wondering if the other guys in the classroom are struggling with all of this as well…these are frequently deep dark secrets guys keep from each other. Except for swimmers of course, competitive swimmers who must wear swim briefs as part of their attire for sport. Do swimmer guys in briefs occasionally surreptitiously check out other swimmer guys to see what their situation is in the pre cum department? You know, a dime-sized stain right at the spot where the tip of the guy’s penis must be located. Given how much fun guys have pre cumming. I don’t see how they could possibly avoid doing so. This is not about being straight or gay. All guys are curious about the question of whether or not other guys have the same issue, and, if so, how other guys cope with it.

To be continued…

It's TIGHT in here..!!
 

I recall very clearly, as a little child, saying that phrase over and over again. I was staring at a picture of a guy wearing some tight fitting clothing. This was back in the 1950s, and I had to have been only four or five years old. This happened WAY before puberty set in. Heck, at that age I was basically clueless about sex or even sexual feelings in any form. I am trying to recall exactly what I was seeing that got me going at that early age. I know it was a picture in a magazine of some sort, a picture of a guy. I know he was wearing a tight-fitting suit of some sort, a rubbery-looking suit that fitted him very snug to the body. I know that for some odd reason I was deeply fascinated looking at his groin area. I didn’t understand at all what was going on in my brain at that point, let alone his. But deep down, I somehow sensed that there was something interesting happening to the guy in the picture. Interesting enough so that it was doing something to my own brain and body.

I did not quite understand any of this, or why the picture of the guy wearing the rubbery-looking really snug-fitting suit was affecting me the way it seemed to be. This for me at that age was really a combination of mystery and wonder. What was there about this situation that made me so excited anyway? I remember my parents hearing me say over and over “It’s tight in here!” They must have thought that I had gone off my rocker, temporarily at least.

Thus began a quest to find clothing items, each one fitting snugger and tighter. Even the search itself, was, of course, well, interesting. Just the thought of being able to go to the stores and look for the right items, something that fit snugger and tighter than anything I had already owned, was somehow arousing. As I got a little older, I would feel a tell-tale damp spot forming on the tip of my penis just by thinking about the possibility of being able to go off on a search focusing on finding something that fit snugger and tighter. Swim briefs were the ultimate in my mind at that time. Longer spandex shorts and so on had not been invented yet. And, of course, the goods were in physical stores, not on line.

As I grew a little older, into puberty and just beyond, bigger and even more interesting things began to happen, body and mind. I started to wonder more and more about the question of whether or not the other guys my age were facing the same problem or dilemma I was facing. Were their experiences similar to mine around snug-fitting clothing, or somehow different? Was there something “wrong” with me, psychologically because I had this “thing” for tight fitting clothing that seemed to be driving me bananas, or was this all “normal” for a guy my age? This was a fascinating question, I always thought, but not one I could easily talk about to anyone and certainly not to any guys my age at school.

So I started reading books, lots of books. I dug into encyclopedias, read encyclopedia articles dealing with human sex and sexuality. I learned a lot of interesting stuff in the process and became an expert on a lot of stuff that my parents did not know I was reading, but nothing that addressed by basic question which was of course, the question of whether or not it was normal for me to simply be so fascinated with wearing snug-fitting clothing, but particularly snug-fitting swim briefs. Why was I so fascinated with all of this? Why did I want more than anything to masturbate to ejaculation wearing as tight and snug-fitting swim brief? Why was this all affecting me so profoundly, anyway? Whenever I pulled on clothing over my groin that fit really tight, I suddenly experienced pleasure almost beyond belief.

The books that dealt with sexual psychology really were of little help at all. They often included chapters on fetishes, and at some level hinted that if I was hung up on something like a little swim brief, and interested in masturbating while wearing it, then I suffered from something that could be considered abnormal called a fetish, which is a sexual attraction not to another person, but to an inanimate object. But that information was really of no help at all. Both sexes are constantly buying clothing designed to look attractive to a potential sexual partner, most often a partner of the opposite sex. What happens if in putting on these clothing items, the person gets aroused himself? It’s OK for the person to get aroused but only if he is thinking “pure thoughts” about having sex with the partner not about how snug and tight the particular clothing item fits? How strange!

I finally concluded that most guys in their early post-pubescent years likely have a part of their personalities that wonders how it would feel to wear clothing that fits extra snug and tight in the groin area. This is all quite normal and natural. The problem is, there are many barriers for young guys in pursuing that. Normally, guys that age are not shopping for clothing on their own. They need their parents to pay for what they are buying, and need their parent’s approval in order to accomplish this. For a guy too explain to dad what is really going on in his head at that point would take great courage and candor, both in short supply at that age. And dad probably would not understand anyway, or worse, misinterpret what was being said. Dad never had these feelings and sensations and longings when he was a young teen or did he?

Worse, parents seem to be fixated on big and loose-fitting, not snug and tight. The guy is going to grow like a weed that age, so everything in the clothing department is purchased at least two sizes too big, because he will grow into it and the item will last for a longer period of time that way. One o the swim team Web sites admonishes parents to definitely not think about buying swim briefs two sizes to big using the “he will grow into those in a year or two” line of reasoning, but parents are seldom challenged on that point.

Many of these questions and issues still frustrate me. Then along came the Internet. Porn sites now include entire sections devoted to videos showing in excruciating detail guys masturbating to ejaculation wearing snug-fitting swim briefs. Maybe my “hang up” is not nearly as rare as I thought. Who watches these anyway? Women? Guys? The subset of guys who label themselves gay? Or is there a broad interest in seeing other guys enjoying themselves that crosses over gender and sexual orientation? An interesting question for sure.

Then there are the Internet retailing sites. One reason you see so few swim briefs being sold in physical stores any more is because guys often are apprehensive and nervous about being seen in public doing so. The on-line retailers provide the needed privacy plus a range of snug-and-tight briefs that go way beyond the more modest briefs that a physical store would carry in the snug-and-tight department. And all of this can be purchased in complete privacy. With on-line retailing, it’s easy to build a collection of physically arousing gear of various sorts, without anyone else knowing.

Then we circle back to Dylan, currently sitting in a college lecture wearing a little Desmiit® swim brief under a snug-fitting pair of skinny jeans. Dylan has a whole collection of interesting snug-fitting stuff he has bought that he is thinking about right back in his dorm room. He feels quite horny, just sitting there is class, trying to listen to the lecture while thinking about this. But horny in a good not problematic sort of way. He knows he is not erect enough to be at the point of uncontrollably shooting while at his classroom desk during the lecture. That did actually happen to him once or twice in high school, but we won’t go into that here. Dylan is gradually learning that is possible for a guy his age to stay in a way-pleasant, horny, aroused state for long periods of time, an hour or more, and enjoying this immensely even without getting off. Dylan thinks that newfound knowledge is, well, way interesting.

Dylan also can’t help but thinking about his roommate Josh, and in particular that episode a little while ago where Josh got to observe Dylan masturbating through ejaculation while wearing that little thong. Dylan thought that Josh would be upset or angered by what Dylan had done, and maybe even start to tease or bully him. But Josh was none of this. In fact, Josh, while seeming a bit surprised by what was happening, seemed also to be, dare we say, interested if not a bit turned on by what he had casually got to observe. What is with Josh, anyway? Does Josh actually admire Dylan’s garb and is thinking that he would like to try wearing some similar stuff? A good question to ponder for sure!

Dylan thinks to himself “It’s TIGHT in here..!!!

To be continued…

Dylan’s class is winding down, but…
 

Dylan’s class is winding down, but Dylan is still feeling pretty horny. Dylan is actually “used” to feeling horny just while sitting in class. Dylan remembers that back in high school, this happened to him pretty regularly too.

Back in high school, of course, Dylan did not have access to a convenient pair of swim briefs that he could wear to class under his jeans. But Dylan always did have a certain “fondness” for snug-fitting brief underwear, which the high school guys referred to as “tighty whiteys”. Dylan first discovered this fondness even before he was old enough to have his first bona fide orgasm, when he was only about 11 years old, maybe even a bit younger. At that age, Dylan did not fully understand what was going on with his body, or the big changes that were on the verge of taking place. All he knew was that he very much liked to wear snug-fitting cotton brief. Wearing them somehow made him feel good. The pleasant feelings were concentrated in his groin area, but sometimes it seemed that they would “pulse” through his entire body in successive “waves” of sheer “pleasantness”.

As Dylan grew older, he went through puberty, with all of the scary but pleasant stuff. Sometimes now his penis would start to grow, especially if he focused on what he was feeling down there. This was quite an experiment. Dylan quickly “discovered” that this was, well, most interesting, pleasant and fun, but particularly pleasant and fun if the briefs he was wearing fit extra snug. Given that Dylan was also growing “like a weed”, he was also at that age where he was quickly growing out of everything that he was wearing. As he grew, the jeans that fit him just right only a year ago were now almost too tight to button. And underwear briefs that fit him perfectly only a year ago now fit a whole lot snugger. Dylan didn’t mind. He thought this was pretty interesting.

Dylan soon discovered that if he could still get into these items, sometimes the “stimulation” he got was, well, interesting, and things got particularly interesting if his penis begin to enlarge, because there wasn’t adequate room to grow, at least not by much. This was that strange combination of fear and fondness guys go through. Fondness for the wonderful sensations, but fear that things might go too far, creating a potentially embarrassing situation. Dylan often wondered if his classmates faced the same “problem,” and if, so, how they handled it so as to not let things get out of hand, so to speak.

Dylan regularly saw his male classmates in high school in the gym locker room, clad only in their underwear. As Dylan got older, it seemed that fewer and fewer of his classmates wore the tighty whiteys Dylan loved so much to wear. What was going on here, anyway. Some guys’ boxer shorts fit very loose, and extended nearly to the knees. Dylan thought that if the guys wearing the baggy shorts did get an erection, it would be pretty easy to cover it with the large folds of cloth. Maybe the guys were so fearful that even the outline of a slightly erect penis would be a disaster, that the big boxer shorts were simply a hiding mechanism. But still, Dylan thought this was more than a little silly, that is, missing out on the fun that Dylan regularly had wearing his snug-fitting cotton briefs. How could the other guys in his class have not “discovered” what Dylan had discovered on his own.

Of course, Dylan knew that when it came to the subject of sex, there were things you could and could not mention to your male classmates. He had learned that it was generally OK for a guy to admit in the locker room that he got turned on by seeing an attractive female classmate, and there was in fact locker room chatter discussing the merits of various females the same age. But any discussion of what a guy might be doing by himself was strictly off-limits as locker room conversation. Anyone who brought any reference whatsoever was in imminent danger of getting teased and bullied. Indeed, mention of solo masturbation in any form was off limits, and something never discussed even with a guy’s male best friends.

Now Dylan is a freshman in college, and he is gradually learning that the “rules” he learned in high school about what can and cannot be discussed with your male friends might have changed if only a little. Some other stuff has changed as well. Dylan quickly discovered that a Lycra® blend swim brief feels a lot smoother and slicker on his penis that his cotton briefs do, and he loves the newly-found sensations. Another thing that has changed since Dylan was in higfh school is that men’s jeans not are made to fit a lot snugger and tighter than what was popular when Dylan was in high school. Dylan has quickly discovered that wearing a snug fitting swim brief under a pair of snug-fitting Lycra® blend jeans was quite a “treat”, the treat being that the two in combination can keep a guy feeling horny for an extended period of time, as in a 50-minute college lecture, but without being so overwhelming a sensation to create other “problems” that would need to be “dealt with” quickly.

So, for Dylan, the “rules” he thought he understood from his high school days are changing. Dylan had never before roomed with another guy. What keeps playing over and over in Dylan’s mind is that odd day when his roommate Josh came back from class early and came into the room just as Dylan was pleasuring himself by masturbating in that little Amazon thong underwear. What was most surprising to Dylan is that Josh did not seem put off by this at all, or the least bit upset over what he was seeing. Josh just stood there watching Dylan have fun, even as Dylan grew bigger and harder. Dylan initially thought that he would not continue after Josh entered the room, but he was too far gone. He was nearly at the so-called “point of no return” and Josh just stood there quietly watching as it as Dylan blew off. Dylan actually thought that it was fun to have Josh watching him.

….To be continued

Josh and Dylan finally have that conversation…
 

Class is over, and Dylan heads back to his dorm room. Once he arrives there, he decides to remove his skinny jeans. What Dylan is really interested in seeing is exactly how his penis fared during the class. Dylan could feel that strange dampness at the very tip of his penis as class was proceeding. This seemed to go on and on, and Dylan was interested in finding out exactly how much he had precummed. Well, the answer was right there to see. There were two quarter-sized pre cum stains on the front of the swim briefs, and another, smaller, dime-sized stain that was more off to the side.

Pre cum is really funny stuff, and Dylan knew that…the product of the Cowpers glands, it’s normally too viscous to ordinarily work its way out past the first layer of swim brief cloth and through Dylan’s denim skinny jeans. Dylan knew that he could pre cum almost indefinitely without creating a tell-tale stain on the jeans, but a snug-fitting swim brief was quite another matter.

Dylan wondered if real swimmers had “issues” with pre cum stains when wearing In particular, was this something that someone wearing a swim brief who wasn’t “used” to doing so would be confronting? How do male swim team members who wear swim briefs “deal” with the issue? If a stain “inadvertently” forms, is the trick to quickly jump into the water, making the entire brief wet, before anyone notices?

Just as Dylan was contemplating all of this, who should walk into the dorm room but Josh? By now, Josh was “used” to seeing Dylan only scantily clad. Josh noticed the pre cum stains on Dylan’s swim brief, but he decided not to say anything. Josh just stood there with a bit of a smile and thinking to himself that he had once again caught Dylan at an inopportune time. Still, Dylan was obviously not as erect as he had been when he wandered into the room with Dylan wearing skimpy thong underwear and very near the point of no return. Josh’s timing was better than the last time, or was it?

So Josh had feelings of amusement in terms of what he was seeing, but the feelings of amusement were combined with equal feelings of interest in the things Dylan was doing to himself. This is strange stuff to contemplate for sure. What should a guy do when he perhaps inadvertently encounters his roommate having “fun” with himself. Is there any “book” on how to handle all of this? And is it “normal” for a guy to NOT be put off by seeing this? What if just watching the other guy do this makes the guy hard? Would that happen to most guys facing the same situation, or is that a clue that the guy might be gay, or at least have something of a gay “streak”?

At first, Josh had no idea of how to approach the entire subject with Dylan, or whether or not he could articulate anything about what he was thinking. However, Dylan seems not unhappy, apprehensive or anxious with respect to anything he has been doing to himself. In fact, quite the opposite.

So Josh decides to indirectly and cautiously approach the entire subject with Dylan. The discussion went something like this.

Josh “that’s a good-looking swimsuit you are wearing, but you aren’t going swimming, are you?”

Dylan: “Naw, I just came home from class. I just wore the suit like a pair of underwear under my jeans.

Josh: “A swimsuit as underwear? Does that work?”

Dylan: “Yah, it works pretty well. Certainly more comfortable than that pair of thong underwear I have.”

Josh: “Oh yah, I remember that pair.”

Dylan: “The brief fits and feels quite differently from that thong.”

Josh “in what way?”

Dylan: “Well the swim brief feels slicker and smoother on my skin…it feels quite nice compared with the cotton briefs I ordinarily wear. I like that.”

Dylan: But the thong is interesting too. For starters the thong is small enough so there is less room for your stuff. With the thong, the tricky part is figuring out just how to get everything to fit inside the pouch. That can take some work.

Josh: “I could see that you don’t have much space, especially if your body starts to grow even a little bit.”

Josh and Dylan are talking in a code that uses euphemisms and avoids words like penis and balls. Somehow it seems “safer” or maybe less raunchy that way.

Dylan: “That is one problem. But that isn’t the only problem. You have to figure out how to deal with that narrow elastic back. I’ve found that it’s easier to get yourself into the pouch if the elastic cinches up really tight between my glutes, but that may lead to other issues as well. This all seemed really uncomfortable for a few moments, but just al of a sudden, it hit me. What momentarily felt uncomfortable suddenly becomes very, very pleasant.

As Dylan spoke, Josh started to feel that something was beginning to happen in his own groin area. Subtle and almost unnoticeable at first, all this talk about self-pleasuring in abstract code was starting to do things to Josh, things that were not really under his control. Suddenly Josh just blurted it out.

“I would like to see if my body would respond the same way to wearing a thong as your body did.”

Dylan, still turned on to a degree himself, said: “Well I did launder my thong, and it’s right in the drawer here.”
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Josh: “Would you mind if I tried it on? I am curious if my body would respond the same way yours did. I will make sure it gets laundered after I wear it.”

So, here is the scene. Two 19-year old college guys, dorm room roommates, sharing a pair of underwear. And not just any underwear, a Desmiit® thong designed to fit snug and tight.

Is this behavior that of two guys who must have a gay streak? Or not? This is certainly not partner sex in any way, shape or form, just one guy borrowing the underwear of another guy.

Dylan: “Josh, my only caution is this. I had more than a little trouble getting myself into the underwear, given how it has to fit. Maybe I can help you a little in this regard, “coach” you a bit.”

Secretly, Josh was feeling a bit excited and slightly apprehensive about the possibility of getting himself into the underwear he had seen Dylan jerk off in a week or so before, but Josh was not about to say that. He had probably said too much already.

….To be continued

Dylan lends his little Desmiit® Thong for Josh to Try on
 

Commentary: Dylan and Josh are getting into something really interesting here, and complicated. Two 19-year old college students. Josh is interested in running an “experiment” with his own mind and body, and Dylan is about to help Josh do this by lending Josh the little thong Dylan wore a few days ago, when Josh “caught” Dylan masturbating in it when Josh accidentally walked into the dorm room at a time when Dylan thought Josh was still going to be in class. josh was a little surprised when he walked in on Dylan stroking himself from glans to base while the thong, but did not seem put off by it all, as Dylan might have expected to happen. Indeed, Josh seemed to be admiring what Dylan was doing to himself.

Guys sometimes lend clothing items to their buddies, but I am led to believe that far less of this goes on between guys Dylan’s age than it does between females Dylan’s age. Plus, there seems to be some “rules” to all of this. Lending a jacket or baseball cap would be considered fine. But what about a buddy who wanted to go swimming with his friends but lacked swimwear. Well, if a guy has an extra pair of swimwear in his gym bag, he might pull that out to lend. But this might also depend on the type of swimwear involved. A pair of board shorts would be less of a leap, than say, a Speedo®. The other option is for the guy to swim in his underwear, but that might be considered unsanitary and underwear has a way of becoming transparent when wet.

Or, what about a guy who was engaging in a sport where the coach is requiring jock straps, with or without hard cups, to be worn? What about the team member who “forgot” his strap, and it’s still back in the family clothes dryer. If another team member has an extra newly-laundered strap in his gym bag, is it OK to lend it to the guy who forgot his?

Indeed what are the appropriate rules here as they apply to guys? Does what is lent or not depend on how “personal an item is? Is a strap more personal than a Speedo®? Is a Speedo® more personal that a pair of longer board shorts? Where do Jammers fit into all of this? These questions are not easily answered.

Dylan, of course, did launder his thong after he engaged in the jerk-off session with Josh standing and watching him. Had that not happened, this would have likely been too personal for either of them to handle. But Josh is curious now, really curious as to how his mind and body will respond to being in Dylan’s little thong. What was Dylan sensing? Will Josh feel the same way? Will Josh immediately get hard and erect like Dylan did? A lot of guys contemplating wearing a thong for the first time probably have the same questions Josh has.

But Dylan is equally curious with respect to Josh. Dylan is wondering right now if he is the only guy in the world who enjoys wearing a thong, getting hard, and then masturbating with it. If the same thing happens to Josh, Dylan then knows that there is at least one other guy who faces the same “problem” that Dylan has.

Actually, it’s a fun problem to face, and Dylan knows that too. As sexual fun goes, this one is really tame-and-safe stuff. There is no bodily contact of any sort, certainly no exchange of body fluids. But that brings up another unresolved issue. Is this some goofy form of gay activity that might suggest that Dylan and Josh both have a gay side that they each have never admitted to themselves, let alone each other? Or, despite this, can they still consider themselves as both being “perfectly straight?” In short, what are the sexual orientation “rules” that apply in what Josh is about to do?

Let’s not worry about that. Dylan has promised to not only lend Josh his little thong, but also “coach” him a bit on how to get into it and wear it in a manner that gives Josh maximum pleasure.

So, Dylan goes to his dresser drawer, pulls out the thong, and hands it to Josh. Josh takes one look at it and concludes that he has never worn something that small and snug-fitting around his penis and balls in his entire life. If Josh wasn’t feeling apprehensive before, he is now. He has a funny feeling in the pit of his stomach: an equally funny feeling of tension right at the base of his penis. Even as he holds the thong in his hands, he realizes he is starting to pre cum.

Josh quickly realizes that he is already too far gone to turn back now. His body is telling him that it wants to find out how Dylan’s thong would fit and feel. Somehow, Dylan realizes that Josh is in this dilemma and wants to proceed.

So, as Josh continues to contemplate all of this, he strips out of his jeans and tee shirt, and is now standing there in front of Dylan in only a pair of somewhat-baggy boxer shorts. Suddenly, he pulls down the boxers, and is now standing there in front of Dylan completely naked. Dylan notices already that Josh is not completely flaccid, but he is not completely erect either. This part gets tricky, Dylan knows, because the closer a guy is to being erect, the more difficult it will be to get into the thing. The thong pouch is made to handle a guy’s parts that are flaccid, or nearly so.

This is why thongs are tricky, and many guys seem scared to wear one. There is a pouch, but certainly not a pouch big enough to contain a fully-erect penis. Then there is the issue of the elastic thong back, a back that normally cinches up between a guy’s buttocks.

There is also the issue of fitting a guy’s balls into the pouch, along with a penis. Dylan explains to Josh that in order to do this it is necessary for a guy to first fit his (hopefully still) semi-flaccid penis into the pouch. After that a guy reaches at the base of the thong, where the elastic back is sewn to the pouch, and pulls that over the balls. The tricky part here is that in order to do that, the guy basically has to put the tie between the pouch and the thong back into the perineum area, directly behind the balls. Many guys do not fully appreciate how sensitive they are at that particular point, and that is part of the “fun” of wearing the thong.

Once the thong is in place that way, the guy is probably going to be more than a little erect. Dylan found that out, and Josh is about to find this out too. But, as a guy grows, the space for the growing erection is becoming more and more limited. Dylan found that out, and Josh is about to. Something has to give. The growing penis is going to do two things: put more and more direct upward pressure on the perineum area, and cause the thong back to cinch up even tighter between the buttocks. A lot of guys don’t realize this, but as they harden, what is happening in their entire groin area becomes more and more apparent.

It is the combination of things that are happening that makes this so much fun, and each of the things feeds the others. The pressure on the perineum area feels really good, but so does the sensation of the elastic thong back cinching tighter between the buttocks and brushing across the anal area. The growing penis not only feels good itself, but makes the sensations from the perineum and between the buttocks more and more intense. A guy’s body responds to all of this by getting still more more erect. Josh is discovering what Dylan learned.

To be continued….

Josh’s Experience
 

Josh is undergoing an experience that he has never before undergone in his short life. Of course, being 19-years old, he is more than experienced in self-pleasuring, despite the fact that this was a topic that he was never able to bring up with his male buddies in high school. Indeed, the entire subject of sex as discussed by males in high school is often treated as if the guy is an innocent, disassociated bystander merely watching the activities of others. The unwritten rules seem to be that a guy normally should not reveal at all if or when he is turned on, but this is especially true if the guy who is turned on is in the presence only of other guys.

But suddenly, with Dylan in the room, these “rules” seem to have changed. Dylan seemed to rewrite the rules about what is OK versus not OK in the presence of another male. But Josh changed the rules as well. Instead of quickly excusing himself once he saw what Dylan was doing to and with himself, Josh just stood there, maybe with a bit of a smile on his face, watching exactly what Dylan was up to in detail.

And, Josh was just as surprised to observe that Dylan made no attempt to immediately cover himself or hide from Josh what he was doing to himself. Indeed, once Dylan got over being startled initially by Josh’s surprise presence, Dylan seemed to appreciate the fact that Josh was there watching him play with himself. And Josh just hung in there, realizing that as Josh watched, Dylan was getting ever closer to blowing his wad. Josh had secretly always wanted to see up close what happens when a guy gets to this point, but he had never before quite had the chance.

Now it was Josh’s turn to have fun. Initially, Josh wondered if he would be able to be as casual about all of this with Dylan right there as Dylan had been when Josh had wandered in. Would Dylan’s mere presence make it difficult for Josh to initiate and then maintain a “strokeable” erection? But Josh needn’t have had any concern. To be sure, the little Desmiit® thong helped the situation along, a lot, as did Dylan’s “coaching” with respect to how to get in the thong and then get the most out of the experience, once inside.

Of course, Josh had the usual concerns and issues about the situation he now found himself, the big question being whether or not what was happening to him made him unique among guys. Of course, Josh knew that Dylan was in much the same “boat” with the thong, arousal-wise.

So, what to do. By now, of course, Josh is feeling quite horny. Not horny enough yet that he could not stop and reverse course, but still quite horny. All the stuff Dylan has been telling him are tugging away, and Josh is experiencing the sensations first hand. Plus, Josh realizes that his male organ is in an interesting position inside the pouch of the Desmiit® thong. Dylan had discovered this too, when he was playing around with himself. The thong was designed with a full awareness of how male anatomy is constructed, and Josh’s anatomy fits the thong to a tee. The lower part of the thong pouch is just big enough to contain Josh’s testicles, with upward pressure just behind his scrotum. That seemed more than a bit uncomfortable initially, but almost all of a sudden, morphed into some really pleasant sensations.

The upward pressure on the perineum tends to push a guy’s penis firmly into the pouch, which in turn means that the guy’s penis is going to be pushed outward and forward, and giving a guy access to the sensitive underside of the penis. This happens even when the guy is only semi-erect. Because of this, Dylan has even learned some special technique that makes for a fun stroking technique, which he shares with Josh. The technique involves forming a “V” shape with your index and middle finger, and then stroking your penis through the thong pouch with your middle finger stroking the underside of the penis anf the index finger stroking the top. Way fun, as Dylan demonstrates the technique, and what is happening makes Josh even more excited than he was. What a special feeling!

Everything is coming together for Josh in much the same way it did for Dylan. Dylan realizes this, and that in itself is part of the fun. Just because Dylan is not actively participating does not mean that Dylan is having no fun just watching Josh struggle with all of this. Dylan realize that the situation for Josh is getting more and more difficult to control, but Dylan also realizes that somehow maintaining control ultimately adds to the pleasure. Dylan wonders how long Josh will be able to deal with what is happening to him without blowing.

Meanwhile, Josh finally fully appreciates what Dylan was experiencing and why Dylan was not able to stop when Josh walked in on him. What is the best part? That is a good question. The feel of your penis being contained and stroked within that narrow, tube-like area at the top of the pouch? The tension being applied to the perineum as the penis grows and pulls the thong upward into the perineum area? The fact that as the penis expands, the rear of the thong has to cinch up ever tighter into the buttock crack and brushing against the anal area? It’s all of this.

One way of looking at this is that Josh is really “suffering” with all of this. Suffering mixed with terrific fun. Almost ready, but not quite ready to shoot.

…To be Continued

Josh is certainly having fun, but so is Dylan!
 

As any guy Josh or Dylan’s age knows, penises at times can be most interesting in their behaviors. Every penis somehow “knows” that it “wants to be in a place that is snug and tight-fitting, and, in particular, penises oftentimes get aroused just “thinking” about that possibility. OK, OK, penises don’t actually “think” on their own, despite the fact that some guys on occasion “behave” as if that were the case. But, for many guys, a simple thought about even the possibility of being able to be inside a confined space is enough to get a guy aroused.

Pre cum is an interesting part of all of this, in that a guy doesn’t even have to be at all erect to start the flow. Josh and Dylan are old enough now to start to realize what is going on whenever just a “flash” of a thought occurs with respect to the possibility of being able to put a penis in a space that is likely to be a little snug and tight.

This story could go in a number of different directions at this point. Any mostly heterosexual guy knows that this fascination with getting one’s penis into a snug-and-tight female vagina drives male-female relationships forward and all of the so-called biological drive for having sex with a woman. Or, the story could go down a parallel track involving two gay males who are engaged in only a slight variation on the same basic idea of having partner sex.

But the situation now faced by Josh and Dylan does not follow either of these paths. They are not having partner sex with women, nor are they having gay sex with each other. They are out in some other space entirely, a space that cannot readily be identified as partner sex at all, gay or straight. Because of this, some of my readers might be tempted to conclude that Josh and Dylan are involved in something that is not that much fun, and perhaps a third-rate alternative to having “real” sex with a partner, straight or gay.

Of course, self-pleasuring, alone or in the presence of another (male or female) has always gotten a “bum rap” so far as sexual pleasure goes. Guys at a very early age learn that stroking oneself, even though quite fun and ultimately physically harmless, is something that should be done alone, maybe in the privacy of a bathroom, or in darkness under the bed covers. Guys are always supposed to be embarrassed if anyone else should accidentaly discover what they are doing to themselves. What will happen if my mom or dad accidentally find out what I have been up to? My brothers or sisters? Or, holy terror, the guys in my class? Wash day always presents something of a dilemma, as there may be tell-tale starchy stains on sheets, pajamas or underwear bottoms. Maybe mom won’t notice, or if she does, maybe she will act as if there is nothing “wrong”.

Somehow, Dylan and Josh have both managed to maneuver through all of this and have made it into college. Both Dylan and Josh knew that the idea of having a male roommate in a not-very-big college dorm room was going to make life, well, interesting, from a self-pleasuring perspective. Have the “rules” that applied to this in grade school and high school with respect to never revealing what you do to another male your age suddenly changed once in college? Is every college guy expected to have a social life that involves not only dating but dating that leads to partner sex with a female at least once a week if not more frequently than that? Is that considered “normal” behavior for college freshmen of both sexes? If so, that puts the dating pair in an interesting situation that could easily end up with responsibilities that most college freshmen are not really ready to take on. The weekly date with sex has complex risks of a lot of different types for college freshmen of both sexes.

But if not that, how does a guy that age deal with his “urges”. Male hormones are flowing that lead to erections at unexpected times and places. Then there is the “stuff”. Many guys, maybe most, go through grade school and high school wondering about certain clothing items that for whatever reason they never got to wear. These are typically items that provide a snug fit, but in particular fit snug around the penis. The list of items commonly are worn by athletes, and includes a bunch of the stuff that Dylan ordered from Amazon® and are now in his dorm room dresser drawer. Guys are generally curious about how their bodies would “behave” wearing any of these items, and in particular if any of these items would prove useful in self-pleasuring, but they are generally very embarrassed about even having these thoughts. These items commonly include swim briefs, athletic supporters of various sorts, with or without hard cups, compression gear including swim jammers, and thongs of various sorts whether made to be worn as swimwear or as male underwear.

A reading of the literature dealing with male sexuality and male arousal does not provide a lot of help. Interestingly, a lot of the authors are female researchers who have difficulty understanding or relating at all to what goes on inside males minds and bodies, and in particular have difficulty relating to the snug-fitting clothing thing or the possibility that guys might “enjoy” pleasuring themselves. Basically, the thinking is consistent with the view that masturbation is hardly a form of sex if at all, and certainly inferior in all respects to real, partner sex.

But a more careful reading of what is often anonymous survey literature reveals some very different conclusions. In particular, that many males, when surveyed anonymously, admit to having stronger orgasms during masturbation than in partner sex. This finding comes as quite a shock to women who are “programmed” to believe that they are the sole source of sexual pleasure for men. What about the husband who regularly masturbates and attempts to hide that fact from his wife in much the same manner as he attempted to hide this from his mom when he was only 12-years old.

And what of the clothing items on the list? The writers on the subject tend to label anything that involves sexual pleasure that is an inanimate object as something of a fetish, and fetishes of any sort, are by definition “abnormal.” So if any guy admits to this, he has a sexual hang-up that perhaps needs “attention” for repair by a “trained psychologist.” This idea reminds me a lot of the idea that any guy who is sexually attracted to another guy has an issue that needs to be repaired by a trained psychologist. We have gotten over that one, pretty much, but the idea that normal guys can and do get aroused by wearing certain clothing items is not that far along. The issue here of course is that the partner should be the sole source of sexual pleasure for a guy, straight or gay, and that anything that falls outside of that norm is somehow “abnormal”.

Tell that to Josh and Dylan. What they are doing in the privacy of their dorm room is somehow, abnormal and psychologically “wrong.”Tell Josh and Dylan that instead of enjoying themselves in this manner that they should be very embarrassed about doing these things, however pleasurable they might individually find them to be. Tell Josh and Dylan that they have no right to enjoy themselves this way, and that they both need to get a better social life.

NOT!!! Josh is enjoying himself immensely inside the thong. He is realizing not that the thong helps him to take self-pleasuring to an entirely new level. Dylan is having fun too, just watching Josh struggle with all the sensations that Dylan knew would be there for Josh to try to deal with. Can something that is so much fun possibly be considered abnormal or wrong? Has anyone been harmed in all of this? What if Josh enjoys all of this too much and as a consequence never develops a partner-focused social life?

To be continued…

Dylan teaches Josh how to enjoy himself
 

Josh is in an interesting situation, but so is Dylan. This is the first time Josh has ever worn a pair of men’s thong underwear in his entire life. To be sure, Josh had some real misgivings about doing this, at least initially. There was a “fear” on his part as to how his body might “react” to being in such a situation, but this was framed with an equal curiosity about the entire situation. Josh was what one could call “apprehensive but curious.”

Then, Josh was still trying to determine if the “rules that applied toi having another person watch you as you engaged in self-pleasuring were somehow different at age 19 than they were at age 15, when Josh was still in high school. Given the “incident” where Josh walked in on Dylan who was engaged in very pleasant solo sex, and Dylan didn’t immediately stop and try and cover himself, Josh concluded that the rules he lived by as a young teen were suddenly not that important now. Josh didn’t quite know what to make of all of this. But Josh knew somehow that he did not object to watching Dylan pleasure himself in a variety of ways. Dare I say it? Josh was a bit “turned on” himself by getting to see this all for the first time in his young adult life. “So be it” Josh thought. This is certainly not “real” sex with another guy, just an observation up close.

Dylan had been learning a bunch of new things too about his own mind and body. This started when Dylan first encountered Bill and Joe who seemed anything but apprehensive about how each of their own bodies were “behaving” in the presence of the other. This, of course, led to Dylan’s Amazon® order and all the stuff he got in that order to “play with”.

Then too, Dylan has been running a series of playful experiments on his own body in attempt to see exactly how much “pressure”, psychological and physical his own mind and body could “tolerate” without get6ting himself into a situation that could prove publically embarrassing. This culminated in him wearing that tight swim brief under equally snug–fitting, jeans and then attempting to make it through a 50 minute class without getting too far gone. Dylan accomplished that, even though he was horny as all get out through the entire class, and in a strange way he was proud of himself for being to do that. This is the essence of developing ejaculatory control, something that is difficult if not impossible to accomplish at age 15 under similar circumstances.

Now, Dylan was the “coach” and Josh was the “student”. Dylan has discovered a lot of stuff about his body that is not only useful but enjoyable as well. The biggest stunt, of course, is how to stay horny for longer periods of time without going off. This is no small stunt, but it is a ‘learned” skill. Dylan knew that now, but Josh, not so much.

Still, Josh was curious about what Dylan now knew and wanted to try and learn for himself. The thong would be useful; in that regard. The tricky part about a men’s thong pouch is that they usually give a guy a little room for his penis to expand. Besides, some guys are bigger than others, even flaccid. So the first time Josh pulls on the thong, he discovers that his penis appears to be in the pouch OK but his balls are still dangling naked below. Dylan tells Josh he hasn’t got the thong on right, and that his balls are supposed to be inside the pouch along with his penis. This leaves less room for a guy’s penis in there, but we will get to that problem later. Dylan explains to Josh that the key is to reach underneath the thong at the base of the pouch and stretch the pouch so his balls will be inside. This is not that easy to do, at least for the first couple of times.

Josh does that, and gets his balls inside the thong, but quickly discovers that he is now feeling a new upward pressure from the thong in the area just behind his balls, technically called the perineum area. This is an entirely new feeling or sensation for josh, but the odd thing is that the upward pressure feels pleasant, very pleasant.

Dylan then explains to Josh that it is better if he just lets the elastic back cinch up between his glutes. This is another new feeling or sensation for gloss. He had never thought of his butt as being sexually erotic before. Interesting for sure!

So, here is Josh, finally in the thong properly for the first time, with Dylan’s coaching instructions. Josn is a little erect by now, but mainly he is oozing out pre cum, stains that started the size of a dime, but quickly growing to the size of a quarter.

Now Dylan explains to Josh that the whole idea is to just stay in that situation, and see how long your body can “take’ it without anything else happening. Josh has options to speed things up or slow it down, and he knows that. Josh certainly has a better understanding of exactly what Dylan has been up to than he did. The weird part is that Dylan’s brain feels really good now too, very pleasant, and becoming more pleasant as he merely thinks about where his body is confined.

To be continued…

Josh...
 

Josh is still feeling apprehensive, but he also realizes that he is beginning to kick back and enjoy some sensations that he had never before realized were there. To further complicate matters for Josh, part of what has made this all so interesting for him is having Dylan right there, “coaching” Josh and offering suggestions on what to do and try next. Josh doesn’t quite know what to make of all of this. All Josh knows is that whatever is going on with him is too much pure fun to stop, at least for now. And, to Dylan’scredit, Dylan doesn’t seem at all put off by all of this. Indeed, Dylan seems to have discovered what Josh has been up to is, well, interesting.

All of this, of course, has absolutely nothing to do with gay sex. For Dylan and Josh, they are simply two college freshman who have found unique ways both to enjoy themselves and the company of each other. This is all pretty simple really. No risks, no relationships that need to be unraveled when they don’t work out the way a guy hopes. It’s a streamlined way of looking at, and to a certain degree, enjoying life at its fullest. Why should that be an issue or a problem with anyone.

Indeed, what could possibly be wrong with any guy enjoying himself, either alone, or in the company of another, male or female? This is obviously something a guy would want to do in private, but a college dorm room fulfills that requirement pretty well. Neither Josh nor Dylan might want to admit to anyone else what they are messing around with. But then, what is the difference between Dylan and Josh’s situation versus what Bill and Joe were doing? Dylan got to see that pretty close too, and what he didn’t actually observe first hand he could have pretty well figured out just by carefully observing their behaviors. So what, for goodness sakes!

Josh is still feeling more than a little apprehensive, however. He has never tried anything like this before. Just getting his penis positioned in the pouch was an interesting puzzle, but things got even more interesting when Josh discovered that he needed to place his balls inside the pouch as well, and the only way to do that was to reach under the thong, and pull the lower part of the pouch away from his body. The pouch snapped back to his body once Josh realized that, and suddenly the sensitivity of the area just behind his balls, the so-called perineum area, became apparent. Then there was the matter of getting the elastic thong back cinched between his glutes, and area Josh did not think was going to be arousing, but it was.

Dylan, of course, had already figured this out, at least most of it. Dylan knew where Josh’s most sensitive spots would likely be, and Dylan somehow wanted to make certain that Josh found out as well. Dylan also knew that given the situation that Josh was in, it was going to be quite difficult for Josh to keep getting more erect. Maybe not that rapidly, but just a steady pressure from all the different things that were going on with Josh’s body.

Part of this is an empirical experiment, so to speak. Dylan did not actually know if Dylan’s body was going to respond in the same ways that Josh’s body had done. Dylan was actually quite curious about this. Male penises are unique and individualized. Still there are several things that likely apply for most guys. One of these is that flaccid, a penis feels not much different from any other skin-covered body part. Rubbing a flaccid penis can be mainly boring. But is a guy gets an erection, even a modest partial one, things can start to change, and often quickly. The sensitivity of the penis nerve endings seems to proceed exponentially as the erection proceeds, and hard penises when stroked or rubbed are a whole lot more fun than soft, flaccid penises. Every guy realizes this, at least to a degree.

But was Josh as sensitive in the perineum area as Dylan found himself to be? Does getting a thong back cinched up between his glutes affect Josh to the degree it affected Dylan? Dylan was curious about all of this,…very curious. If this all works the same way for Josh as it does for Dylan, then much the same might hold for guys everywhere, or at least that is what Dylan is thinking.

To be continued…

Coaching can be fun for both the coach and the student
 

Truth is, Dylan has quickly gotten into this new role of coaching Josh and helping Josh to better understand how his body works better than he had planned. Dylan is quickly discovering that Josh is not only learning things that Dylan has only recently learned about himself, but that Josh seems to be enjoying the entire process of being coached and told about various things he can try on and to himself.

In many ways, this entire sequence of events is unique, Dylan is thinking. Surely, younger teen boys in high school or junior high surely do not form pairs and then advise each other on specific, enjoyable self-pleasuring techniques. They wouldn’t dare do something like this in high school even if they wanted to. There is too much danger of being found out and then teased or bullied for being gay or at minimum a disturbed male masturbator. The rules in high school were definite and unbreakable…the only possible way a guy could admit that he was a human being with sexual thoughts and feelings was in the presence of a girl, and better if the girl was quite attractive and much sought after. The rest of this stuff, like the stuff Dylan and Josh have been exploring, was either off limits or simply not there. Guys don’t have these other feelings. Solo sex is certainly a third-rate and normally deeply-hidden activity compared with the real thing, meaning sex with a girl. MOST guys probably enter college thinking that this is how it is, and this is how it always will be.

Or is it? There is lots of stuff going on here. Complicated stuff. Stuff that seems to defy easy explanation. First, Josh has discovered that despite his initial apprehension and deep uncertainty over the whole idea, deep down he does not object to having Dylan in the room and watching him as he gets aroused while first getting into and then wearing the little thong. Granted, this was quite a shift relative to anything he did in the presence of another guy in high school or junior high, but heck, he is now a young adult.

Dylan is learning about himself at the same time. Initially, Dylan wondered if wearing the thong would have the same impact on Josh’s brain and body as it does on Dylan. Dylan quickly found out that in that regard.

In going from puberty at age 11 or 12 to young adulthood at age 18, every guy develops a set of things he enjoys doing in self pleasuring, and as time progresses these things tend to get more elaborate but also more and more fun. The specifics of what is involved here tend to vary depending on the individual. Oftentimes what works is as unique to the individual as a fingerprint, and what I might enjoy doing to myself. There is the standard stuff, in the olden days the porn magazines with the naked women, or, nowadays porn videos. All of this is considered at least somewhat socially acceptable among guys that age, as the focus is not on the guy pleasuring himself, but on the naked women, which the guy dutifully watches while stroking himself to orgasm. As solo sex goes, this one is at least marginally acceptable.

The clothing items used in conjunction with self pleasuring, however, fall into different categories. A guy might steel female panties from a college dorm room. That is considered OK behavior from a sexual perspective even though it is theft. The female might even be a bit turned on if she somehow now knows that it is her guy who has her panties. Merely fondling the panties, even fondling the panties while getting an erection

Buy if the guy dons the purloined panties, and worse, then masturbates into them to an orgasm, he is thought to have a psychosexual problem of one sort or another. Perhaps he is a cross-dresser who gets aroused by wearing women’s clothing, or perhaps he likes to act out being a woman, in which case he might at minimum be a bisexual who enjoys dressing up in woman’s clothing and then watching another guy masturbate. Who knows, but donning the panties crossed a line of sorts.

Dylan and Josh are off in a completely different space, however. Dylan doesn’t have a collection of women’s clothing items in his dresser drawer, but a collection of items made for men. Dylan’s fascination is with how these items make his own body look and feel. The sensations are fun, way fun, and unlike anything Dylan got to try when he was still in high school.

Granted however, the pair of men’s thong underwear that Dylan lent Josh pushes the envelope in this regard, in that thong underwear is more commonly worn by women than by men. The men’s version is designed to fit the male body, with more room for the male anatomy in the pouch.

Still, Josh does not seem to be concerned about this other than what might be considered to be a natural curiosity about whether or not his body parts will fit, and if, so, how the underwear will look and feel on his body. This could be a bit brutal, so to speak.

Guys often have difficulty dealing with situations where they realize that their male anatomy is about to be confronted with a clothing item that is likely to fit really snug around their male body parts. This is all quite normal, as guys generally realize that their male body parts become more active even as nerves become more sensitive if they are surrounded by anything that fits snug and tight. Worse, the mere thought of soon having to wear something that falls into this category can quickly lead to arousal and the start of an erection. To a certain degree, every guy knows this. Every guy is very fond of the sensations and feelings that almost invariable happen in such a situation, but at the same time terrified that “something embarrassing” will happen in the presence of my male peers, something awful that I will be teased and bullied about for the rest of my school days.

Male clothing items that most often create these situations often involve some time of athletic activity, typically activities where the guy is already apprehensive about being able to accomplish what it is he will be called upon to do. Particularly terrifying items include athletic supporters (jock straps) with or without cups and brief-style swimwear, but can also include things like compression shorts and jammers. Apparently, young males in some high schools are apprehensive about wearing singlets for high school wrestling, and some schools are making an effort to allow students to wrestle in less snug-fitting garb.

Dylan would have been apprehensive about being required to wear any of these items in high school as well, in large measure because he was uncertain as to how his male body parts would respond to the new situation. But now in college, Dylan now has a drawer full of these very items, the items that he would have been apprehensive and uncertain about getting into when he was in high school. Further, instead trying to avoid getting aroused, he is actively using each item in an effort to get at least semi-aroused, not to avoid getting aroused.

Even more interestingly, Dylan’s roommate Josh is figuring this all out too. The thong is not the first or only clothing item Dylan will “lend” to Josh. Dylan thinks that is more than a little interesting to see how Josh’s body is responding to the situation at hand. On the other hand, Josh had concluded that it is actually fun to have Dylan standing there and coaching him on what his body should expect and what to do next. Is that somehow gay? Who knows? Who even cares?

At this point, Josh is aroused, semi-erect, and precumming ooze at the tip of his penis, and this gradually growing spots of wetness is quite visible on the pouch of the thong. Dylan is still fully clothed What Josh doesn’t know, at least not yet, is that Dylan has peen precumming as well, and Dylan can discern that too.

What next? Perhaps Dylan should slip into something “more comfortable”.

To be continued….

Something “unexpected” happens
 

Josh is clearly enjoying himself in his “predicament”, very much, and Dylan realizes this. All of this is getting aroused as well, as Josh keeps asking Dylan to provide him with more detailed instructions with respect to what to try next.

It’s really funny how all of this works sometimes. Dylan is fully clothed, in his tee shirt and jeans, even as he watches Josh struggle in the little thong. Dylan quickly decides that perhaps he is just a touch overdressed for the occasion. Maybe Dylan would be better if he were under a bit more tension and pressure too. So Dylan starts to think about the other items still in the dresser drawer. His mind wanders to the jock strap with the cup, the compression tee and shorts. He quickly strips his jeans and tee off and crawls into the strap, slipping on the cup. Josh’s mind is at least somewhat occupied, and he pays little attention to what Dylan is doing. The strap fits snug, and the cup presses down hard on Dylan’s penis. Dylan realizes that he is feeling very good. He quickly pulls on the Tesla® compression shorts and tee. The shorts ensure that the strap and cup will be held very tightly against Dylan’s groin.

So there is Dylan, penis gripped tightly by a snug-fitting strap and cup, made even less bearable by the compression shorts bearing down on his anatomy, watching Josh cope with the realities of the situation he is in, and on occasion, moaning softly.

“When can I get off, Dylan? I’m getting desperate to blow.” Says Josh. That was frank, for sure.

“Not quite yet, Josh! Not yet!” says Dylan.

As Dylan says this it suddenly dawns on Dylan that his penis is growing inside the cup, and he can now feel the physical sensation of the cup bearing down and making its presence known on three sides of his penis. Dylan isn’t very far from blowing, either. Both Dylan and Josh are way off in another place and time, entirely, maybe somewhere in which time and place do not exist at all.

Suddenly, there is a firm knock at the door. Dylan goes to answer the door. Josh quickly grabs a towel to cover his anatomy (the thong). It’s Bill and Joe, all decked out in their compression gear.

“Joe and I want to go to the gym.” Says Bill Do you and Josh want to join us?

“Well, I guess I could go, But Josh just got out of the shower”, says Dylan.

Dylan, of course, is lying about Josh.

“I’ll tell you what, Josh, let me loan you my green wrestling singlet, and you will be all set to go too.

“OK”: says Josh, “I need to get some exercise.”

So, keep in mind that Josh is still wearing the thong, and the plan is to quickly pull on the green wrestling singlet by using the towel to disguise what Josh will be wearing underneath.

Keep in mind also that both Dylan and Josh were getting really horny and close to blowing when Bill and Joe knocked on the door to invite them along. The unrelieved tensions that both were experiencing at that moment have not exactly gone away.

This could get interesting….

This could be fun
 

Dylan removes his forest green wrestling singlet from the drawer and tosses it over to Josh, who by now has grabbed a dorm room towel to cover his groin area so Bill and Joe will not be able to see that he was wearing only an underwear thong and was, well, shall we say, at least somewhat erect. Josh in something of a slight of hand feat, quickly pulls the singlet up to his waist and into his groin area, and drops the towel. At this point, Josh’s chest is still bare but that is not a big issue. Josh grabs one of his own heather gray tee shirts from his own drawer, and slips that on over his naked chest. After that the singlet arm straps to go up over his shoulders.

Getting everything positioned correctly is not that easy to do. Wrestling singlets, by design, are made to fit really snug not only in the waist and groin area but even over the shoulders. This is complicated by the fact that Josh is wearing the underwear thong underneath, a thong that is pushing his male anatomy front and forward. For Josh to get the singlet straps over his shoulders, he discovers that he must pull the singlet really tight into his groin area. The snugger he can make the singlet fit in the groin area, the easier it is to get the singlet shoulder straps in the proper position.

But the fact that Josh has the thong on underneath makes this all more complicated, in that by pulling the singlet into his groin, the thong wants to cinch itself up even snugger and tighter between his buttocks. Josh had thought that he was taking about as much pressure as both his mind and body could tolerate from the elastic band of the rear of the thong cutting between his buttocks, but this was worse, much worse. Or were the sensations better, much better, with both the thong and the singlet grabbing at his butt the way they were. Josh couldn’t quite decide. That’s the dilemma sometimes. This could be nearly painful, or may fun, depending on a guy’s mindset and how he approaches the situation at hand.

Josh finally gets the shoulder straps in place so they are not twisted and takes a look at himself in the mirror clad in the heather tee shirt and the forest green singlet. Josh thinks he looks like a 120 pound high-school wrestler. He does notice one thing about his appearance, however. The thong is pushing his penis outward to the point where he has quite a little bump on the point where his penis tip is inside the singlet. Not only is there a visible bump, but Josh can see in the mirror that the pre cum he was oozing inside the thong pouch has actually made its way not only to the outside of the thong, but through the forest green nylon-Lycra® material of the singlet, now forming what appears to be a dime-sized spot of gooey wetness on the outside of the singlet right where his penis tip is.

Josh is somewhat apprehensive about this, but he hopes that Bill, Joe and Dylan will not notice what happened, of if they do notice, they will not say anything. Josh thins that perhaps the ooze will dry by the time he gets though the couple block walk to the gym. Maybe his penis will recede a bit as well, but for now, Josh just needs to get through the moment at hand.

Dylan, Bill and Joe all three are clad in compression gear top and bottom, but separate tees and shorts. Given the snug fit, it is easy to see that the other guys are all wearing straps not thongs underneath the compression gear. Each of them is also sporting a bulge in the groin, but it’s shaped somewhat differently from how Josh appears. It quickly becomes apparent that the other three of them are not only wearing straps but also hard cups under the compression gear.

It suddenly dawns on Josh that hard cups are useful for reasons other than protecting a guy’s genitalia. If you are wearing a strap with a hard cup, if you ooze a little pre cum, no one will be able to see that, because it will likely be totally contained within the strap and cup. But in Josh’s situation, just a little ooze and he has a big damp spot right in an “incriminating” location. Josh thinks that maybe the guys who wear cups more or less routinely even when they are not engaged in sport have a good idea for this reason, alone.

Of course, Bill, Joe and Dylan are wearing their cups not because they want to make sure that no one else can see it if they start to ooze, but for a very different reason entirely. This is the one Josh doesn’t quite know about, at least not yet. All three of them have discovered that it can be, well, quite “enjoyable” to get a bit of a hard-on inside a cup, with the cup bearing down and fitting snug against the groin. A properly-sized cup leaves almost no room for expansion, and a guy’s penis quickly “knows” when the available space is limited.

This is tricky stuff. It is difficult if not impossible for most guys to get to the point where they get enough of an erection inside the cup that would lead to a full scale orgasm while still being inside the cup. Still, a lot of the interesting sensations from all the penis nerves “knowing” that the cup confines the space are usually there, and these sensations can be, and often are quite enjoyable. Certainly enjoyable enough to make an otherwise boring gym workout move along quite quickly.

Bill, Joe and Dylan have figured all of this out. If you want to do an otherwise boring workout and make it move along quickly, wear a strap and cup even though whatever it is you are doing doesn’t necessarily call for that. Josh is learning. So, it’s off to the gym for the four of them!

To be continued…

Very interesting, can't wait to see what happens!

Can't wait
 

Hope the wait for new chapter isn't toooo long!!!!

Interesting start to this story. Hoping for the next chapter soon.

gonna have to wait..traveling next few weeks

Of the four of them…
 

[One more before i leave on my trip]

Of the four of them, Josh is probably the one who is in the most difficult situation right now. Everyone but Bill and Joe know that only a moment ago, before the knock on the door, Josh was playing with himself, inside that little Desmiit® Thong, and having a pretty good time of it all, feeling sensations that he had never before felt, at least not quite in the ways they were happening today.

Most guys more-or-less know what it is like to get interrupted in a situation like this in the middle of it all. As a guy’s rod gets longer and stiffer, the sensations going to the brain pick up seemingly in an exponential fashion. It’s a “high” of sorts, not a drug-related high but a sexual high. A guy’s mind in such a situation tends to focus laser-like on the exact things he is doing to himself and what he is feeling. Coming down from a situation like this becomes a bit of a trick.

To further complicate matters, Dylan has just tossed Josh Dylan’s forest green wrestling singlet, admonishing him to wear it for the gym. That seems innocuous enough on the surface, I guess, but Josh has never before had the “opportunity to wear a wrestling singlet. Now, wrestling singlets are not the easiest clothing items to get into. A properly-fitting wrestling singlet needs to fit almost like a second skin. After all, it wouldn’t work well if a wrestling opponent could get a firm grip on the cloth making up the singlet. The cloth itself is really smooth. Shoulder straps are not very long either, and getting into the singlet usually requires that the guy pull the lower part up into the crotch—in Josh’s case a crotch covered with an equally snug-fitting thong.

So Josh struggles at first getting himself into the singlet, pulling it up as tight as he can into the crotch. By doing that, he is just barely able to get the shoulder straps both over his shoulders, but with difficulty. Josh glances at himself in the little dorm room mirror, and can see that his penis in an up and forward position is clearly visible as an interesting little “lump.”

Josh surreptitiously looks over First at Joe, then at Bill and Dylan. He notices that all three of them have interesting bulges in their groin areas as well. Of course, the other three guys are wearing straps and cups under their outer gear, which, well, makes the shape somewhat different from what Josh is “showing.” Still, the other three guys are certainly not “flat” in the groin area either, and somehow that comforts Josh, if only a little.

Guys, particularly college-age guys like Josh and Dylan, always have an interesting relationship with their penises. Guys grow up essentially being very “scared” of inadvertently getting into a situation where their penises start to perhaps unexpectedly start to grow on them. This is one of the oddest things about being a guy—that is, the whole idea of how something that could potentially be so embarrassing can at the same time be so much fun. The “kick” guys get from touching and rubbing an even partially erect penis is all but indescribably enjoyable. It’s not only the physical sensation but but an emotional high of sorts as well. And, the really weird part is that this often is a great deal of fun even if a guy is not in the presence of a sexual partner, male or female.

None of the four here, Bill, Joe, Dylan or Josh, are admitting to being sexually interested in other guys, as in having a gay or even bisexual side. All four of them are just figuring out ways of obtaining sexual sensations without having to deal openly at least, with the complexities of a sexual partner, male of female. Still, all four of them have managed to get themselves into a place where they are at least a little bit interested in what the other guys are dealing with here, each in his own particular way.

Think about it for a moment. What college age guy would not be interested in seeing how other college age guys his age cope with situations in which an arousal and erection might occur? This is the deepest, darkest secret for guys who are still in high school. The public profile high school guys (straight or even gay) have is all about eroticism relating to females, not what other guys might be struggling with as individuals, but this is different, way different.

At some level, Dylan understands what Josh is struggling with here, and is fascinated with seeing exactly how Josh “copes” with something that has gotten, well, pretty intense to say the least. Of course, Dylan was “messing” with Josh by tossing him the forest green singlet, and in effect, ordering him to put that on over the thong. Dylan secretly realizes he is putting Josh in a very difficult spot, so to speak, but he is fascinated with how Josh’s mind and body will respond in this new situation.

Dylan, of course, has created a situation of his own by putting the strap and cup on under the snug-fitting Tesla gear. But remember, Dylan “learned” what he knows from Bill and Joe, who are similarly clad. Dylan wonders not only how Josh is dealing with his own situation, but how Bill and Joe are “coping” with the situation at hand as well.

But, for now, everyone is off to the gym, wearing what they are wearing. Will the gym workout make things better, or worse for the four of them. I guess that actually depends on how you define the term “better” or worse. But one thing is for certain. The situation that each of the four have gotten themselves into is “interesting”.

To be continued….

Relationships matter, but…
 

A lot of guys (women too) believe that relationships and sex are inextricably intertwined. What were the words in the old tune “you can’t have one without the other!”? Wait, the tune referred to love and marriage, not relationships and sex as such. That tune was written a very long time ago, when people weren’t nearly as open in talking about sex. So everything was cast in the framework of love and marriage, rather than relationships and sex and how the two ideas were intertwined.

Let me reset the scene for my readers, not that anyone who has been reading this has gotten lost in the sequence of events that got the group of guys to the point they are right now. Four 19-year old college freshmen, none actively involved in what one would call a relationship with a female, or a male for that matter. The four guys are Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh.

College guys often soon discover that the “rules” that applied with respect to a lot of stuff, involving sex or not, that seemed rigid during much of high school, now suddenly seem much looser and easier. Many guys now seem just a bit more open to revealing to each other some stuff that they might have never dared discuss when they were still in high school. For example, in high school, if a guy were to even admit that on occasion he had “fun” with his penis not in the presence of a female partner but on his own, he was in real danger of being socially ostracized, teased and even bullied for the remainder of his high school days.

This is really pretty silly, if you stop and think about it. Every guy was doing “it”, probably quite frequently but if at all possibly, surreptitiously, either under the “cover” of darkness or in a time and place where no one else was around (infrequent, at that age). Since puberty, doing “it” had become a very important if not essential part of a guy’s daily life, yet no one dared say a thing about “what was going on.” This all seems crazy in many respects, but that is the way it was back then.

[Your author, being “well past” his own high school (and college) days, sometimes wonders whether if I could be transported back to the same place and time for a day or two, whether there would be any changes in the old “rules” about all of this and if so, in what ways, but that is not possible unless someone invents a reverse time machine.]

A related problem or issue is that the vast majority of females understand all but nothing about the possibility that a guy could experience sexual feelings and pleasure in the absence of a female partner (or perhaps in this day and age perhaps increasing acceptance of the idea that the partner could be another male). Moms, being largely ignorant of all of this themselves, generally teach their daughters that they as young women are the sole way guys get sexual pleasure.

But guys all know that the “habits” learned at a very young age are often very difficult to break, even as guys enter into relationships with partners. This all comes to a “head” when the female, being studiously taught by their mothers that guys get sexual pleasure only by “interacting” with a female partner, accidently “discovers” her boyfriend engaging in solo sex, say, in the bathroom. The guy is just continuing within the part of himself he always thought was really great fun. The poor guy then has to quickly dream up some “lame” excuse for what he was “up” to so as to not create a confrontation with his woman, who is now sobbing uncontrollably upon discovering that the guy who she thought was her loving partner does not “behave” in exactly the way her mother told her he would and sometimes occasionally (often) seeks out sexual pleasure “on his own”. The horror of it all!

To be continued....

Relationships matter, well maybe not so much!
 

What does this all have to do with Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh? It turns out, a lot. College freshmen are oftentimes packed two-to-a-room in very modest spaces, say in older double dorm rooms measuring maybe 12 x 15 ft, with small twin beds on either side of the room or perhaps a double over and under bunk bed. Further, there are still many older dorms around where the bathroom is a large room with multiple sinks, stalls, urinals and showers. Sometimes the stalls do not even have doors on them. It’s not quite navy submarine living conditions, but close.

When I first saw this, practically the first thing that crossed my mind was where I was going to be able to continue to masturbate, given that there seemed to be no privacy whatsoever. Worse, many college roommates end up being housed with another male who is a complete stranger at the start of the school year. Something has to give. The roommates have to somehow adapt their personal habits to the situation that they are in. The secrecy that applied in high school about all this stuff simply isn’t going to work under these new conditions and situations. The biggest question, of course, is “if my roommate discovers that I like to masturbate, will my roommate think that I am gay? The roommates both have the same question, of course which makes this all even more interesting.

Bill and Joe both confronted these issues head on, and adapted, fairly quickly as it turns out. In the process they got to do some stuff that they had never dared do before, stuff that did not involve a relationship with a partner as such, but was still really really fun. You can go back and reread exactly what they did and why it was so much fun.

Then Dylan got pulled into this. Since puberty, Dylan had always loved getting aroused in and masturbating to orgasm in snug-fitting clothing. He had also spent a lot of time in his young life figuring out ways to hide this from his parents, siblings and fellow high school students. He has actually been working on this puzzle since the 6th or 7th grade, and had gotten pretty good at it, as most guys somehow do.

But how he dealt with is at home was not going to work in the double dorm roommate situation. Josh would quickly figure this all out. But, was Josh somehow struggling with the same or very similar issues. Turns out, he was.

So, at this point, we have four guys heading off to the gym, ostensibly to work out. But all four of them are “horny as hell” and “feeling the vibe” immensely., three of them, Bill, Joe and Dylan, are wearing really snug fitting compression gear, top and bottom, Dylan his new Tesla® stuff. But it is also clear that the three of them are wearing jock straps and cups, each containing the respective penises and pressing snuggly against their respective groins. Each of them can feel the tension building as their respective penises enlarge just a bit and pressing against the walls of the cups. Part of this is physical, but part psychological. Under this circumstance, glistening clear droplets of pre cum form at the tip of the penis, and collects inside the cup creating an expanding damp area.

Josh, meanwhile, has his own issues. He is still wearing that little thong he was wearing when he was playing with himself up to when Bill and Joe popped into the room. His effort to get off inside the thong was interrupted at that point, and then he needed to pull on something over himself quickly, which is when Dylan tossed Josh his forest green wrestling singlet.

So, the four of them are off to the gym, ostensibly to work out but each more than curious about how the others will deal with the situation each is in, and whether they each will end up at some point blowing. Turns out, it is not that easy to shoot while you are still clad in a strap and a snug-fitting cup, You will often keep feeling hornier and hornier as the psychological and physical pressure builds along with the dampness from the precum, but you might not be able to shoot unless you are somehow able to get your fingers under the cup to provide a few final last strokes. How long the guys can stay at this level of horniness as they also try to work out at the gym remains to be seen.

To be continued….

The Walk to the Gym
 

I’m certain all of you are following the story line at this point. Four 19-year old college Freshmen, Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh. As life often is, for guys that age, all four of them are feeling quite horny. But, a lot of what is going on for each of them, both physical and mental, has been brought on specifically by things that each of them is doing to himself.

At this point, the more “experienced” Bill and Joe are the “old hands” in this regard. Bill and Joe both discovered an assortment of ways that each of them could enjoy themselves in ways that they had never before experienced. Now this is not a subject that normally comes up among males of any age, even 19-year old college guys. Of course, every 19-year old goes through recurring “moments’ often frequently, where he feels stuff going on “down there” that draws “attention” to the groin area. At age 19, guys are still on the “learning curve” as to exactly how to do with these sensations and feelings, part driven by physical sensations but intermingled with thoughts of various sorts. In this regard, Bill and Joe are not that far “ahead” of Dylan and Josh. This is all complicated stuff, really complicated.

At some level, nearly every guy thinks that the only “socially acceptable” way to have these thoughts and feelings are in the company of a female about his own age. But, as any 19-year-old guy has learned, “stuff’ happens. Complicated stuff. Interesting stuff. Stuff that is almost not to be believed.

Wet dreams, are, of course, very much a part of all of this. Every guy has grown up with the experience of having wet dreams, often frequent wet dreams. These are the dreams that have some sort of a theme related to sex in some form, dreams that seem to happen spontaneously. Sometimes the dream involves a connection with a female, but often not. Guys often tend to get scared when a dream of this sort goes down another, different, trail.

One interesting possibility is a trail that involves a sexual interaction with another guy, even an innocuous one. For example, what happens if a guy has a wet dream in which he is masturbating while another guy is clearly there watching him enjoy himself? What if the fellow who has the wet dream wakes up and he is ejaculating? What does a dream like THAT mean, for goodness sakes? A guy can maintain a sexual orientation in the conscious daytime, but dreams have no bounds in that regard. If the dream wants to go in a direction the conscious mind might not, there are no real bounds here. All sorts of stuff can and does happen.

A second interesting possibility is called the “shopping trip” dream. These dreams tend to highlight various items of snug-fitting clothing that a guy might think could lead to arousal, erection and perhaps an orgasm. The particular items involved probably include some pieces of clothing that the guy THINKS might do this to him, but, for whatever reason, the guy does not owned and has not tried. Examples include items such as particularly snug fitting jeans, snug-fitting swimming briefs, or maybe a wrestling singlet or a jock strap with or without a cup. Male “reactions” of this sort to items such as these are likely very common, but this is not something guys would normally admit to having for sure.

In one version of this wet dream, the guy has embarked on a trip to a department or sporting goods store at a big shopping mall. As the dream progresses, the guy chooses the clothing items from the various racks, but is persuaded to “try them on” in the store’s dressing/changing room. Panic ensues when the guy gets into the dressing room and discovers he has an “out of control erection”. Moments later, he ejaculates all over the item he needs to take up to the checkout counter to buy. Then the tricky part becomes paying for the item at the checkout counter without having the checkout lady “discover” what has just happened.

A variation on this dream is the one involving a coach, a locker room, and a group of male peers engaged in the same sport. The predicament here is that coach is requiring all the guys to wear a particular item that guys have never worn before, an item that just happens to fit very snuggly in the groin area. What item? Well, a racing-style swim brief is the “classic example here, but there are other possibilities as well. Traditional “jock straps” make a lot of guys nervous because of the way they fit in the groin area, with or without a cup. But Wrestling singlets are pretty good at having the same effect on young guys (as Josh is finding out). In this version of the wet dream, a guy wakes up to a visual in which he is ejaculating in front of his same-aged male peers in the locker room—a most embarrassing situation. Of course, when the guy wakes up he is ejaculating in the privacy of his own bed. The guy again does not know whether what happened in the dream indicates that he is gay or not.

But these examples are common for younger guys, not college-age adults. Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh are older, 19-years old, and think that at least to a certain degree are able to control their own bodies, as in believing that somehow now they can determine when they will or will not ejaculate with their minds. To that degree, in walking to the gym, they are “messing” with their own ability to engage in “ejaculatory control”. Not perfect, in this regard, but certainly better than they were able to do when they were younger.

Part of the complexity of developing ejaculatory control for young adult males involves experimentation with respect to exactly what the guy’s body can or cannot “tolerate” without going off. And this involves setting up situations that are successively more and more difficult in which to cope.

The four college freshmen are certainly on that path today. They are discovering sensitivities that they did not fully appreciate that they had, as well as learning how to develop better bodily control over what is happening to them. Three of them, Bill, Joe and Dylan, are each wearing jocks, cups and compression gear. The three of them, by careful observation of the others, have pretty much figured this all out. Jock straps with cups tend to do interesting things in a guy’s groin area. The pressures are only magnified when the jock and cup is held firmly by the compression gear. Each guy will respond to the situation at hand in his own way. There is the purely psychological pressure of having one’s penis and balls contained inside the cup, and this happens whether or not there is a physical sensation bearing down by trap and the walls of the cup.

But, of course, some of the sensation can (and frequently does) quickly turn physical. Penises have remarkable ways of knowing when they are inside of something. Penises “like” being contained in confined spaces. Any guy has discovered this. What begins are purely psychological quickly becomes physical. The penis grows, even a little, and begins to press on the walls of the cup. The guy quickly realizes that some fun things are starting to happen without even touching himself.

This, of course, changes, almost moment-by-moment. Any sort of movement at this stage adds to the complexity at all, say walking to the gym. The cup is not just staying in one position, but lightly brushing against the now increasingly sensitive penis nerve endings. Aaaaaahhhh. The walk to the gym. Each step is, well, most interesting.

Meanwhile, Josh, not wearing a jock and cup but male thong underwear, and a wrestling singlet, is undergoing a somewhat different, although equally interesting experience in the walk to the gym. The thong pouch is containing Josh’s penis and balls, even as the thong back cuts snuggly between Josh’s glutes. These sensations alone are quite enjoyable. But Josh also has Dylan’s wrestling singlet over it all, a singlet that only fits right if it fits snug. Getting the shoulder straps in position involves some effort, because in order the do this the guy needs to pull the singlet up firmly into the groin area, a groin area already under some considerable pressure from the thong, which is pushing the guy’s penis and balls upward and forward under the singlet. Josh is undergoing his own Ahhhhh moment for sure. Will Josh’s clear pre cum show right through the front of the singlet as he walks to the gym? Let’s wait and see.

To be continued…

Precumming can be fun, but…
 

Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh are deep into beginning to understand some things about being male that are way interesting, if seldom discussed by anyone. These discoveries relate directly to how guys work as human beings, body and mind. This is complicated stuff we are dealing with here, and not easily or readily understood.

Around puberty, nearly every guy learns that touching his penis can provide some interesting sensations that are enjoyable to experience at a very deep level. Most guys have at that stage have little if any understanding with respect to what exactly is going on in their minds and bodies, except to say that they realize in some vague way that what they are experiencing is somehow related to relationships and sex. Beyond that, these are merely pleasant feelings to be appreciated and enjoyed.

Soon, a guy learns that the sensations become more exciting if the guy is even a little erect, and all of this leads to masturbation experiments of various sorts. Guys spend a lot of time agonizing over all of this. Am I normal? Can or should I tell anyone about what I am doing? Weighty questions like that. These questions quickly evolve into embarrassment in varying degrees in particular because the other guys my age seem to behave as if what is happening to me should only happen in the presence of a female about my age. But here I am having these really sweet, sensational feelings all alone, with luck, in privacy.

So most guys quickly develop a series of schemes that allow them to enjoy themselves without making anyone aware of what is going on, not their parents, and certainly not siblings or friends. But life is becoming more complex, way more complex, in a host of different ways. Guys wander around terrified that they are going to get an erection, or worse, a full-scale orgasm in an inopportune time or place, an inopportune time or place being any instance where someone else is around. This primal fear strikes total terror for most guys this age. They know they aren’t old enough to deal with the implications of having sex with a female, yet these feeling and emotions keep bombarding them.

Somehow, most guys somehow do survive their high school years, but if survey data are to be believed the majority of high school students have not had partner sex with anyone, either male or female.

So what of Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh? As my readers have probably figured out by now, the four of them are college freshman who have not as yet had partner sex with anyone else, either. Still, the fact that they are all a little older does not mean that their bodies aren’t still being bombarded with sexual feelings of various sorts. To be sure, most guys by that age, including our four here, probably discovered some time ago that there are situations where these sexual feelings can emerge in situations whereby a sexual partner is not present.

Guys often have what I would call a “love-hate” relationship with snug-fitting articles of clothing. Most guys probably discover at a quite early age that certain items of clothing can quickly lead to sexual sensations. This, of course, varies from one guy to the next, and for whatever reason some guys seem to be able to “handle” snug-fitting clothing items with fewer “issues” than others. Or so they claim. Some guys like to claim that they only get turned on in the presence of a female partner, and what am I am saying here is not applicable to them.

Still, think about this. Did you get sexually aroused at all the first time you were put into a situation where you would be wearing what appeared to be a too small swim brief? (A snug fit is essential to swim well!), a jock strap with or without a cup? Snug-fitting compression gear? A wrestling singlet? Thong underwear designed to be worn by males? Really snug fitting jeans that fit tight in the groin and buttocks? Not every guy might “respond" to all of these items, but is there something on this list that both terrifies you but at the same time turns you on? Are you going to avoid the item or items, or seek them out as secret-and-safe sources of pleasure?

This is interesting to think about for sure. Would most males be able to somehow “handle’ any of these items without any sort of sexual “response”? Or are the males who claim that they can deal with all of this without any response at all simply lying to their peers?

So now we have Bill, Joe, Dylan and Josh walking to the school gym, with each trying to act as if nothing more is going on inside their 19-year old minds and bodies. Each guy is wearing stuff that at some level he finds to be arousing. That alone is interesting. But each guy is also fully aware of the situation each of the other guys is in as well in this regard. Clad in the gear I am wearing, how do I feel about seeing the three other guys I am walking with “suffering” as I am “suffering”? Are the other guys experiencing the same things my own body is experiencing right now. As one of the guys, I’m more or less climbing the walls. I’m obviously not ejaculating, but I am precumming profusely under my gear.

Given that Bill, Joe, and Dylan are all wearing straps with cups, they should be able to continue to pre cum without any external indication. But what of Josh? If Josh is precumming too, isn’t it just a matter of time before he starts to ooze right through the forest green singlet? How will Josh deal with that for goodness sake?

And what does this all have to do with the sexuality of each of the guys? Precumming inside a cup or a thong is great fun, enjoyable and sometimes even exciting? But isn’t part of the psychological fun the implicit knowledge that there are three other guys with you who are likely enjoying the exact same thing you are enjoying? The fact that males are present when all of this is happening is now part of the pleasure, not something to be feared and avoided. Or so it seems? But does that also mean that the four of them perhaps[s aren’t as straight as they once thought they were, despite each of them having no direct sexual contact with any of the others.

Interesting questions all, but tough questions too, to try and answer, really tough questions to deal with. These are not the kinds of questions answered in books written on human sexuality for sure.

To be continued….