Riding the wave: Joe gets increasingly desperate to ejaculate
 

Joe was getting in increasingly desperate shape. His penis had become tumescent enough so that Joe was getting the sensation of a steady pressure on the top and sides bearing down on him by the cup. This is a loopy sensation to be sure. It’s a sensation that initially at least does not seem to be that difficult to deal with in part because keeps bouncing back and forth from being a tad uncomfortable to a sensation of pure pleasure. Whenever the pleasure point of the cycle sets in, Joes brain starts concentrating on his penis and the predicament it has gotten itself into by being surrounded so close by the cup, and the valves that let blood into Joes penis gives his penis as bit more tumescence still and the pressure and urge to ejaculate slowly, incrementally but still steadily builds.

Joe lies in bed, thinking about all of this and that his urge to ejaculate and just get this situation all over is getting stronger and stronger as the steady pressure on his penis by the walls of the cup keeps getting more and more apparent. Joe is now starting to get desperate in thinking that he needs to quickly f@#k himself to orgasm, and he is actively thinking about his options at the point. Of course, one option is to simply get up out of bed and pull his shorts, strap and cup off and then quickly f@#k himself to orgasm by simply stroking his penis from base to glans with his hand. However, there is a little voice in Joe’s head that is speaking to him and telling him that this situation is at the same time getting more and more fun, and the longer that Joe can manage to tolerate wearing the cup the more fun this is all going to be. Joe is beginning to understand what Sebbie had said in his “cup” paper.

Somehow, Joe backs off from that plan. For starters, getting up and doing so would create a disturbance in the room, perhaps awakening his roommate Bill, who Joe thinks by now has probably fallen asleep. The dorm-room accommodations without a separate bathroom for privacy would make the f@#k- yourself option difficult to pull off unless Joe is comfortable with the idea of ejaculating with Bill right there. This did happen the day before when Joe and Bill were trying on their Solar® swimsuits, but then, both of them were actively engaged and perhaps were equally embarrassed about how everything developed. Besides, Joe doesn’t want to admit to Bill that he has less ejaculatory self-control than Bill has, and Bill seems to be lying in bed and dozing off.

Joe decides that it would be far safer to simply remain in bed and “suffer” with the dilemma such as it is. So, Joe sees the other option is to simply fall back into bed and if it becomes necessary, simply ejaculate right into the cup that is still in its position confining his penis. He starts to think that he might be able to stroke himself to orgasm simply by pressing on the outside of the cup and sliding his fingers back and forth along the top of the cup. Joe can feel the pressure on his penis as he presses the cup even more solidly against his groin. Joe can also sense movement as he slides his fingers back and forth across the top of the cup. These sensations are sufficient to give the Joe the sensation that still more blood is being pumped into his penis, but still not quite the pressure Joe needs to ejaculate. Joe knows that what gets him off quickly has always been touching and stroking the head and glans on the underside of the head of his penis, once his penis is hard. The problem here is that the head of Joe’s penis is buried deep inside the super-confined space deep inside the cup, and not the least bit accessible by merely stroking the cup on the outside.

Sebbie talked repeatedly about doing something called “riding the wave” in solo sex. The “wave” is a psychological and physical place to be where the guy is on the very edge of ejaculating but not yet quite there. “Riding the wave” simply involves maintaining the highest degree of arousal that is possible without going over the edge and immediately ejaculating. Guys often have difficulty learning how to ride the wave for extended periods of time because they are so fixated on the pure (but quite short-lived) fun of a super-powerful orgasm. Sebbie has often said that the longer a guy can ride the wave, the more powerful and ultimately satisfactory the orgasm will be at the end. The pressure and sexual tension builds gradually, and the longer this goes on the more fun the final orgasm will be. In solo sex, Sebbie talks about only a 7- or 8-point orgasm versus a mind-and-body blowing 10-point orgasm.

Anyhow, with respect to Joe’s current situation, Joe has now “found the wave” and is somehow now successfully riding it. This has been a learning experience. Try as he might, Joe has been unable to ejaculate inside the cup, even as the pressure to do so keeps getting stronger, even if only a little at a time. Joe presses on the cup, but this is not enough. He strokes the cup from top to bottom and his penis senses the movement, but again, this sensation is just not quite sufficient for Joe to blow.

The sexual tension affecting Joe’s brain is now so unbelievably powerful and Joe is on the very edge of physically convulsing. Joe starts to pound the mattresses with his right fist over and over, all the while softly muttering “I need to ejaculate! I want to ejaculate! I must ejaculate!” over and over to himself. The pressure and tension Joe is feeling from the hard cup is on the very edge of being unbearable, and Joe’s brain is now just as much involved in what is occurring as his penis is. Still, Joe is unable to bring himself to the ejaculatory point of-no-return while still inside the cup. Joe thinks to himself that college is providing some opportunities to learn things that were never covered in high school, or when he lived at home for sure.

Joe thinks Bill is sound asleep. Of course Bill is not sound asleep, but has been quietly listening to everything that has been happening in the bed next to him. Bill knows Joe has a real problem that he is trying to deal with and somehow cope. But then Bill has problems of his own, in part brought about by the fact that he has stayed awake and has been listening attentively to Joe’s struggles and soft moans.

……..To be continued

Bill has his own set of “issues” to deal with….
 

Bill has been lying in bed quietly, not moving at all, but interested in the sounds he has been hearing from Joe’s dorm room bed, only a few feet away from him. Bill thinks that Joe’s situation is interesting, if not a little amusing as well. Joe is clearly involved with some of the sensations that Bill has been experiencing as well.

But meanwhile, Bill has his own set of issues. It is important to understand a little about the physical builds of both Joe and Bill. Joe is actually quite skinny, almost gaunt-looking as if he were just a tad undernourished. Bill, though not overweight, has more of what is sometimes called a “stocky” build. Although neither Joe nor Bill were team athletes in high school, Bill loved to ride bicycle both in grade school and in high school. The consequence of all of this means that Bill is built more solidly than Joe is particularly through his upper thigh area. Even though Bill and Joe are now wearing compression shorts of the same brand and size, the fit for each is rather different.

Bill has to struggle quite a bit to simply get himself into the compression shorts as they are difficult to pull up over his upper thighs and waist. It is not that the shorts fail to fit properly, but simply getting them in place requires more effort on Bill’s part than on Joe’s part. Bill also has a bit more upper body development than Joe does, particularly over Bill’s shoulders and through to his biceps, so Bill’s compression tee also fits more snugly than it does on Joe even though both are the same brand and size.

A third important difference is that Bill is bigger in the groin area extending back though Bill’s glutes, which are bigger than Joes as well. So Bill’s strap of the same size is simply going to fit more snugly everywhere than Joe’s strap does but in particular the two leg straps are going to exert more sideways and upward pull at the bottom of the pouch. This upward pull is interesting given that it tends to put intense pressure on the perineum area just behind the scrotum where a bunch of really sensitive nerve endings terminate.

Bill is fully aware of the situation he is in, with the cup bearing down on the top and sides of his penis, in part brought about because the compression shorts are pressing the cup strongly against his groin, even as the strap itself is pressing upward on his perineum area. All of this can simply be uncomfortable at first, but Bill already knows that what starts out as mere discomfort can morph into something uniquely pleasurable. Some of this is psychological but some of it is also physical discomfort. Bill, having already experienced this two nights ago, is now traveling along right on the very edge between physical discomfort and physical pleasure. It is a strange place to be, one of not quite knowing whether a situation is uncomfortable or pleasant, and in fact the situation seems to switch back and forth between the two feelings almost moment-by-moment.

Of course, the sounds emanating from Joe’s bed only adds to the entire situation Bill now faces. Bill fully realizes exactly what Joe must now be experiencing and why Joe now appears to be struggling with it all. This is not about being gay versus being straight. Having another guy in the room a few feet away who is clearly aroused and struggling because of that is clearly arousing for Bill as well. Bill thinks that must be true for practically any guy who would somehow end up in a situation where another guy across the room is struggling to deal with arousal sensations. That situation certainly did not ever get discussed in the health education class in high school for sure.

But what possible harm of any sort is in all of this? Bill and Joe have not had any direct sexual contact with each other for sure. They have certainly not even talked about any contact as an option. From the perspective of either, they are simply engaging in commonplace solo sex. It is just that neither has tried doing this openly at the same time another guy is doing the same. This is not gay, just two straight guys having a little fun as freshmen in college.

Bill keeps thinking about this. As Bill ponders all of this, his penis very slowly but steadily fills with blood. As Bill lies awake he is definitely feeling more tumescent moment by moment. What began as discomfort is morphing into some very pleasant sensations, much as what had happened to Bill just two nights ago. Bill thinks about what Joe must be going through right now and how Joe must be dealing with it all. Joe thinks about Bill in the dorm room bed right next to Joe’s bed, but has been thinking (well, maybe just hoping) that Bill must have fallen asleep some time ago. As a consequence of all of this, Bill is now moving around in bed, and Joe suddenly realizes that Bill is not asleep.

…..To be continued

Delicious frustration, really delicious frustration…
 

Bill and Joe are both frustrated with respect to the current situation they are in, but at the same time they are both enjoying themselves immensely. Maybe I should be using a stronger word than frustration here to describe the situation Bill and Joe currently find themselves in, because they are at a place, both physically and psychologically, that is really, really complex, and not easily understood.

Let me start at the beginning. As teenagers, and probably shortly after puberty sets in, a guy almost invariably get themselves into situations whereby an erection happens but the guy is not at a time or in a place where he can easily or conveniently bring himself to have an orgasm. This could even happen when the guy is just sitting in a classroom, and not thinking sexual thoughts at all. Another place where this is common is in a vehicle, particularly a vehicle traveling down the road, such as in a school bus, a bus that might jiggle and vibrate as it goes along a road. Even a little vibration can easily set a guy into erection mode. A third well-known possibility is in a gym locker room, but particularly in an instance where the guy will be wearing something that fits snug against the groin for the first time in order to participate in a sport, the obvious one being any sport that would require a strap and cup as undergarments for physical protection, but the other obvious ones are swim coaches who pass out racing briefs and so on.

Part of being a male teenager entails learning exactly how to cope with each new situation that comes up that could be arousing such that he does not embarrass himself. It doesn’t help that the other guys are facing the same or very similar issues with their own bodies, and that all the guys are attempting to employ coping strategies as well. Coping strategies vary in their success rates, and most guys do not make it through their teen years without one or more incidents that proved to be embarrassing given the time and place where the “accident” occurred. Depending on the exact nature of the accident, these accidents can often lead to permanent psychological scars that a guy ends up dealing with for his entire life.

Teen males quickly go into a mode where they begin to think that it is ok if they have an erection if they are with a girl their age, but not ok if this happens under any other circumstance. Many teen girls quickly learn that their desirability as a female by the guy they are dating can be measured by how quickly they can bring the poor guy to the point where he has a full erection, and this can quickly become a game for them.

Teen males who are not entirely confident with respect to their own sexual orientation face a particular set of unique issues, especially in situations where the guy has an erection at a time or in a place where only other guys are around. Assuming that the teen male is not “out” as a gay teen male, the guy who is not confident that he can control his erections in times and in places where an erection would appear to make no sense at all faces particular problems.

As a consequence, a lot of guys, irrespective of their sexual orientation, quickly learn that if they are going to engage in solo sex they need to figure out a way so they do not draw attention to themselves or what they are doing, especially by other males their age. This often means doing so in privacy, at home in a bathroom or at school in a secure bathroom stall, perhaps. However, the guy also quickly learns that spending too much time in places such as this can easily lead to questions that the guy does not want to answer, at least not truthfully answer. Some guys even begin to think that the best sex must therefore be the sex that happens most quickly, maybe only a minute or two from initial arousal to ejaculation. Some guys might even begin to think that they are “more of a male” based on the speed at which they can move from initial arousal state to a full-blown ejaculation.

Some of you are probably now wondering what this long story has to do with dorm roommates Bill and Joe and the current predicament that they are finding themselves in. The answer to this question is very simple. Joe and Bill are getting their first real experiences in dealing with the issues their bodies face if they make a concerted effort to maintain and even build upon their respective arousals while delaying orgasm as long as possible. One way of looking at the gear both of them are wearing (the straps, the cups and the compression gear) are all simply inexpensive aids to help them build skills in maintaining arousal levels for long periods of time, an hour or longer, without ejaculating.

As teenagers, most guys end up learning a lot about their penises and what parts specifically need to be stroked or touched in order to go into ejaculatory mode. Generally, the information goes something like this as a sort of beginner’s guide to the best solo sex.

1. Long strokes along the top and sides from the penis base to the head of the penis are enjoyable and get more pleasant as the penis fills with blood and becomes firmer.

2. Long strokes along the underside of the penis are generally more pleasant still than stroking the top or sides under the same circumstances, as in general the underside of the penis is more sensitive to the touch than the top or sides are.

3. Neither 1 or 2, however enjoyable they both are, is usually sufficient to get a guy to the point of a full orgasm. What is usually required is that once a guy is erect, the glans, or lower part of the head of the penis needs to be touched or rubbed. Doing so can quickly send a guy into a full-blown orgasm.

Why a guy’s penis is set up this way has to do with the details of how the female anatomy is constructed, and I could go into those details now, but for the moment I will not.

Learning how to delay orgasm while both maintaining a high degree of arousal and a firm erection is as much about learning psychological control as it is about the physical aspects of what the guy is doing. Bill and Joe are in a situation whereby they are both learning the important aspects of ejaculatory control as they attempt to cope with the situations they both are facing. Part of what they are both attempting to deal with is physical, but part is psychological. Let me explain why.

The straps and cups they are wearing are both putting direct pressure on the tops and sides all along their penises, but not on the underside of the penis. The sensations from the walls of the cups bearing down on them are partly physical but also involve the psychological realization that the cups are very much there and will be felt more strongly if any penis expansion takes place. Moving the cups around a bit can simulate stroking to a degree at least, and usually leads to more blood being pumped into the penis not less.

Given the shape of the cup, the tips and glans of their penises are deeply buried inside the cup and not in any position to be touched or stroked. This alone is going to make ejaculating inside the cup more difficult though perhaps not impossible to do.

Having another guy in the dorm room experiencing the exact same dilemma poses a most interesting psychological issue for both of them. To the extent that either Bill or Joe take their focus away from their own penises and their own situation, their minds probably travel into the area of wondering with what the other guy is experiencing and exactly how he is coping with the situation. Neither of these guys under the circumstances is going to be perfectly quiet in bed, as real pangs of sexual pleasure course through their entire bodies. They are both experiencing something unique.

Bill and Joe both have a long series of classes tomorrow, Friday, and both are trying to get some sleep, but will they be able to do so given the circumstances they are in?

….To be continued

Don’t fight it guys: Just kick back and enjoy!
 

It is clear right now that neither Bill nor Joe seem to know quite how to deal with the situation that they currently are in. They keep trying to figure out a way to fight back at what is happening to them, and that is perhaps often not the best choice.

A guy’s penis is a marvelous organ in all sorts of ways. The feelings and sensations it is capable of producing are not only quite varied, but they frequently seem to change moment by moment. Young guys often think that their sexual feelings are all simply concentrated in the organs that hang outside their bodies in the groin area. Only gradually do they learn that the sensations directly felt in the organs in the groin area are only the start of what can quickly turn into a whole body (or perhaps whole out of body experience) The pangs of sexual tension and pleasure may begin in the sex organs, but soon the entire body (and mind) is involved.

Bill and Joe are both lying in bed and experiencing something that is quite novel to them, a constant and steady sensation of pressure surrounding their penises. Under normal circumstances, a sense of pressure on a guy’s penis happens regularly during the day, and this is no big deal. The pressure of clothing items or whatever is there for a moment and then gone as the guy just moves around during the day. The modest sexual sensations, for what they are at the moment, are fleeting, at best, and a flaccid penis never produces the kinds of sensations that a turgid penis does. This is part of the marvelous real “magic” of male sexuality that the penis nerve endings become so much more sensitive to any sort of touch as the penis even just begins to fill with blood.

But in the case of Bill and Joe, the pressure is quite subtle but steady. Commonly, a guy’s penis will respond to a steady direct pressure from the strap, cup and compression gear. This is a very different sensation to try to deal with than the fleeting moments of pressure on a guy’s sexual organs that routinely happen many times during a normal day. Normally, when a guy senses a steady, direct pressure on his penis, immediately signals move between brain and penis that it is now the time to get bigger and harder. This is an automatic response. If the guy is wearing loose-fitting clothing this is no big deal, so long as he doesn’t get too carried away accidentally enjoying himself. Every guy quickly learns that he can become semi-hard and underneath loose-fitting clothing no one will even notice.

Of course, there can be situations whereby this is not true. Indeed, one of the main fears of guys in wearing snug-fitting swim briefs in public is the whole idea that any penis enlargement in such a garment will immediately be noticed by everyone. These same guys may be quite comfortable wearing snug-fitting briefs as underclothing but the outer garment, say a pair of jeans, will normally hide whatever might be happening underneath. But this is part of the swim brief “terror” in which lots of guys are terrified that others might be able to observe the state that they are in. All of this extends to what guys who have to change clothes and perhaps even shower in locker rooms will or will not do. This fear is very real.

But Bill and Joe have come a long way in this regard, and are now light years ahead of where they were even as students in high school. Think about what they have been doing. Despite claims by both that they are perfectly straight and sexually interested only in girls (ok, I should say college women at this point), the incident with the swim briefs just a day ago basically was mutual masturbation to ejaculation, and somehow they both made it through that experience enjoying their own bodies and without psychological scars of any sort, or at least that is what appears to have just happened. They have not suddenly come apart or concluded that they are not as straight as they once thought they were.

But the very swim brief incident (the very incident that Bill and Joe both enjoyed immensely, by the way) is the exact kind of event that terrifies so many guys. As in, what if I pull on a snug-fitting pair of swim brief and end up getting erect and my male friends are standing there, watching this and relentlessly teasing me for being a “jerk-off” all at the same time. This is a situation that must be avoided at all costs, and the way to avoid the situation is to think up any excuse to avoid wearing the swim brief.

Now Bill and Joe face another and equally complicated set of circumstances. They have both quickly learned that the direct pressures coming from the cups, straps, and compression gear they are wearing in bed is resulting in sexual tension. Further, the sexual tension is not steady and non-varying, indeed, the amount of tension seems to vary moment by moment from one instance to the next. At some moments, the pressures seem relatively easy to tolerate, just there and gone, but at other times the pressures and tension seems all but intolerable, and neither of them can avoid letting out soft moans as the waves of sexual tension course through their entire bodies. Each time this happens to Bill’s and Joe’s brains, their brains become more and more focused on their increased need to ejaculate. I need to ejaculate! I must ejaculate! But them as rapidly as this builds, the tension recedes, if only for a moment, and the situation once again seems to be tolerable.

Both Bill and Joe are tired, very tired. In the moments in which the waves of sexual tension recede just a bit both Bill and Joe start to get drowsy. Will the sexual tension keep them awake still? Well, maybe not. Oddly enough, both Bill and Joe are starting to fall asleep, both with their penises still firmly contained within the straps, cups and compression gear. Bill and Joe are starting to sense that the pressures surrounding their penises can somehow be very comforting as a guy drifts off to sleep. Do not fight the sensations or try to avoid them, just kick back and enjoy the situation you are in and everything will be fine. From a partner sex perspective, this is much like just falling asleep with your partner just holding and lightly caressing your penis as you drift off to visit the sandman.

Of course, drifting off to sleep presents an all new set of issues, as Bill at least already knows for sure.

But for now, Bill and Joe, still both contained within their really snug-fitting cups, straps and compression gear, are getting drowsy,….very drowsy

…...To be continued

Ahhh, for the fun of it all
 

Guys, straight, gay, or residing somewhere in that huge central plain in between, truly love the sensation of their penises being contained within a snug-fitting place. I suppose this is one of the major keys to understanding the physiological and biological basis for the core of partner sex, but in the absence of partner sex, practically any situation that gets a guy into this place and space will do.

A lot of guys grow up thinking that the faster that they can get to orgasm, somehow, the more “masculine” that they will seem to their partner. A basic problem with this idea is that it is quite the opposite of what is necessary for maximum enjoyment with a partner. The key to maximum sexual pleasure for guys is to train yourselves to be able to maintain the highest possible degree of arousal such that you can still hold off ejaculating until you for certain really do want to end the sex. This is not an easy thing for most guys to learn how to do for a variety of reasons.

The issues begin shortly after puberty, when a guy begins to learn some of the nuances of how to masturbate, but then learns the techniques for getting off in the shortest possible period of time for fear of “getting caught” It doesn’t matter who “discovers” what they are doing, parents, siblings, peers at school, the lesson that is always learned is that if a guy is going to play with himself, he needs to get to the ejaculation part as quickly as possible. This coupled with the fact that young guys are almost invariably uncertain as to what they are doing is “normal” or not, or whether such activity indicates, perhaps that the guy is gay and not really that interested in girls that much or at all.

All of this is terrifying to the male teen. Fun, perhaps exciting, extraordinarily special, but in many ways terrifying as well. Think about what Bill and Joe are doing right now, and take notice of how things have changed for both of them, relative to the place they were at in high school. For starters, both of them have been getting huge lessons in the pure enjoyment of staying somewhat aroused for an extended period of time without ejaculating, with their cups providing the tool for not quite being able to get off like they would have in just plain ordinary masturbation.

Second, they are both enjoying this knowing full well that the other guy in the room is doing the same thing to himself as well. In part, they have both at least to a degree worked through their fear of masturbating at the same time or place as another guy and the prospect of being teased, bullied or labeled a sissy gay jerk-off or whatever it is that teen males do or say to other teen males that invariably makes this situation for young teens so difficult. Bill and Joe are doing this largely because what they are doing is terrifically enjoyable, and they are not even thinking about attempting to apply sexual orientation on each other because of that. What end could possibly be served in labeling the activity as being gay or anything else that might be considered by some to be not totally normal?

Bill and Joe are both learning how to get the most out of their own bodies without in any way causing inadvertent issues with others. As they start to fall asleep, things are going to get more interesting still not less interesting as their penises cycle normally during the night between tumescence and flaccidity. Joe’s and Bill’s brains, even while sleeping, are interconnected to the ongoing processes occurring in the groin area. They are both probably going to start to dream, and the contents of the dreams will likely include erotic components. The physical pressure of the cups bearing down on their penises, and the cycles of tumescence and flaccidity will likely create an erotic plot to the dreams they will both be experiencing.

It is really interesting how all of what has been happening is interconnected, and the wet dreams will likely find ways of weaving conscious thought together with whatever is happening in the subconscious. Exactly how all of this plays out remains to be seen. For now, I wish Bill and Joe only the best as their respective journeys continue forward from here.

……To be continued

Very cool story! Keep it up please.

Joe has a Dream
 

So, Joe falls asleep still clad in all his gear, and being aroused but unable yet to ejaculate inside the strap and cup.

Joe starts to dream. He is standing in front of a brightly-lit arena with a big marquee that says “Riderball: 8 PM tonight!". It is now dusk, with the sun just barely above the horizon at dusk. It is cold where Joe is standing, maybe no more than 40 degrees, but with a wind it feels more like it is in the lower 30s. Given where the sun is and the outside temperature, Joe concludes that it must be late fall, maybe late November.

Joe realizes he is standing there for a reason, indeed he knows that he is there because he is a member of one of the Riderball teams that will be playing that evening. Joe opens the door to the players entrance of the arena and after saying hello to the security guard standing right there (oddly, the security guard at his station seems to recognize Joe right away and they greet each other warmly. Joe does not have to even show any identification.) Joe steps into an area, actually a walkway, that gives Joe a nice view of the entire Riderball game area along with the stands that surround the track inside the arena. The arena is huge, Joe thinks. At its base is an oval track that seems to be nearly a mile in length: the arena is that big.

But that is what dreams do, sometimes, stuff that would be totally implausible in real life sometimes seen quite reasonable inside a dream. But obviously, Riderball has some detailed rules and procedures and the big oval track is needed for some reason, irrespective of how long the track inside the enclosed arena really is. Joe notices that the curves in the oval track are heavily banked as if to keep the riders from flying right off the sides of the track. And, at about 6 (or perhaps even 8) places along the sides of the track there appears to be a goal, the goal consisting of a vertical area on the side of the track with a hole that looks to be maybe a foot in diameter, and surrounded by brightly colored metallics, gold, red and silver designed to attract the viewers’ attention to the scoring holes. Clearly these goals play an important role in Riderball.

Joe follows the walkway down to the locker room area and there are clearly two locker rooms, one for each team. One locker room has a large steel gray flag near the door, the center of which is a dark red Riderball® Logo along with the name of that team. Oddly, Joe cannot quite make out exactly what the name of that team is.

The other locker room has an equally large flag out front, but this time navy blue in color, with the Riderball® logo but in a creamy white color. In this case, the name of the team is easy to read, and they are the “Commandos”. Joe does not think this as particularly odd, but it is at least a little funny.

Joe enters the Commandos locker room, and discovers that there are two distinct groups of players inside, dressing and otherwise prepping for the big Riderball game set to take place. The two groups of players are called the Riders and the Defenders. Clearly, both will play a role in the game that is about to take place. Joe is initially uncertain as to which category of players he belongs, and the two groups, while playing the same game, are physically built quite differently

The Riders appear to be built like very athletic, competitive bicycle riders, big guys with huge thighs, skinny stomachs and visible six packs. Some of them are already in their gear, while others are in the process. The gear for each rider seems to consist of snug compression tees, equally snug compression shorts stretched tightly over their big thighs, and underneath the compression gear, Joe notices that every guy is wearing a jock strap with a quite obvious hard cup. The compression gear fits skin-tight and the outline of everything underneath is clearly visible.

Some of the riders are still in the process of getting into their gear. A few of the riders are laughing and complaining that the team-issued straps are too small and snug to contain themselves, and the team-issued cups are not exactly very roomy either. A couple of guys are off on the side, in what looks to be an only slightly covert effort to beat themselves off so that they are able to fit into the gear. Somehow, Joe’s attention is diverted to what some of the guys are doing. They do not seem the least bit embarrassed about doing this with their teammates right there in the locker room. It is just something some of the Riderball riders do before practically every game and all the players just accept this as being a normal part of game prep.

The Defenders form another group, and the garb worn by a defender is very different from what the riders wear. Basically, the game garb for a defender is very simple, just a brief in the team colors (navy blue with a cream-colored Riderball® Commandos logo on one side.) Interestingly, Joe thinks, the briefs worn by a Defender looks very similar to a Speedo Solar® brief, with 1 ½ or 2 inch sides.

The Defenders are built very different from the Riders, in fact. Physically they are athletic, but smaller in stature than the riders, almost as if they were part-time competitive team divers. Some of them too are laughing and complaining about how they are struggling to fit into the team briefs, with a similar complaint that the briefs are undersized so that it is difficult to fit everything in.

But the team owners know that part of the reason that there are huge crowds showing up for Riderball games is that the patrons of the sport enjoy seeing the players compete in clothing that really fits snug and tight, so the team-issued garb is purposely designed to put the players in a bit of a dilemma each week just getting themselves prepped for the big game. A couple of Defenders who are still getting into their briefs seem to be using the same tactic that the Riders were using in order to be in better shape to wear their briefs. Joe notices that the Defenders are beating themselves off too, just like the Riders are also doing, and they do not seem to be the least bit embarrassed by all of this.

Joe knows that he is a Commandos Riderball team member, but as was indicated earlier, he is initially unsure as to whether he is a Rider or a Defender.

…..To be continued

Joe’s dream continues…
 

Riderball has a huge following among females, and we are going to see the exact explanation why in a bit. Joe is initially not sure if he plays as a rider or as a defender. The reason for the confusion is resolved when Tom, a co-player tells Joe that he is actually a “swinger”. Some of the Riderball players can play in either position, as a bicycle-riding rider or as a swim-brief clad defender whose work is at one of the goals.

There are eight goals, and each is manned by two defenders, one for each of the teams, for a total of 16 players as defenders. But half of the defenders or four for each team are actually what are known as swingers, and sometimes these players ride bicycle in support positions as well. A swinger will commonly play the first half of the game either as a rider or as a defender, then during half time the swingers switch into the other garb and play out the remaining half in the opposite position. A swinger who starts the game as a rider will need to change into defender garb quickly while the half-time entertainment is underway. More about that entertainment and how it works during the game, too, later. What Joe now knows is that he is going to have to get out of the rider garb and quickly into his skimpy swim-brief defender garb in the middle of the game.

Joe also sees what he thinks is a strange sign in the team locker room. The sign states that “If you are having difficulty getting yourself in your team uniform, please be sure that you beat yourself off as dry as you possibly can BEFORE getting into your team competitive wear. There are cameras everywhere in the arena, including cameras that might be aimed directly at your groin area. Any “accidents” will be immediately visible to millions of viewers on the networks as well as to those in the arena seats, as this video is frequently streamed live to the big screens all around the arena not to mention that it might go out over the networks as well.”

Joe initially thinks this advice is a bit odd, but then it suddenly occurs to him that maybe that is not such bad advice. And the sign also explains what some of the rider guys are doing to themselves just before they pull on the straps and cups that are part of the competitive team wear.

Joe glances over at the defenders who are also getting into their team garb, consisting only of. skimpy swim style briefs in navy blue with the Riderball Commandos logo in a creamy white color. Joe notices that the defenders and swingers getting into their uniforms are shaved completely clean of pubic and other body hair, much like a competitive swimmer would be. Joe is starting to understand why a Riderball game has such a huge female following.

A Riderball game ball is in the team locker room. It is a most interesting ball, about 9 inches at the widest, and not exactly spherical, but not like a football, either. It is more like an ovoid in shape. It is made of a glistening clear material, probably a very sturdy clear plexiglass style of plastic. It suddenly dawns on Joe that the game ball looks nothing so much as just like a giant glistening drop of male precum! But the game ball is even more complicated. It has very bright LED bulbs inside the clear plexiglass, LED bulbs that are capable of not only shining a brilliant white but also turning on in multiple colors, red, blue, green, orange and even a golden yellow! Joe suspects that the balls are all wi fi connected to electronics contained within the scoring holes in the goals, and glistening clear the game ball shoots off in multiple colors almost like a fireworks display when a team scores.

……To be continued

Joe gets into his rider gear….
 

The big game will begin soon, and, as a swinger, Joe will be playing the first half of the game as a rider, and the second half as a defender. Joe needs to get into his rider gear, and so Joe finds his way to the team locker area. Joe finds his locker, with a big number 41 on the outside. Inside Joe’s locker is the gear that he will be wearing as a rider, and later in the game, the gear Joe will need to play in a defender position as well.

The Rider Commando logo in creamy white is on the navy blue compression tee. The Compression shorts also have the same logo on them, but in the right butt (glute) area, so the tee and the shorts match. The tee has a huge 41 in creamy white on the back. there are navy blue socks with the same logo on the tops, as well as athletic shoes in a combination of navy blue with creamy white stripes. The shoes look to be Adidas®, as there are three parallel creamy white stripes against a mostly navy blue background.

The rider gear also includes an athletic supporter (jock strap) and cup, which needs to go on before the compression shorts. Joe carefully examines the strap and how it is constructed. It is built like a conventional strap, with a 2 ½ inch wide elastic waist band a pouch made of an elastic knit material, and two conventional ¾ inch wide elastic leg straps that attach to the waistband on the sides of the front, and then to the bottom of the pouch, pulling the pouch into the correct position.

But there is also one key difference between the rider strap and a conventional strap. In addition to the two leg straps, there is a third band of elastic fabric in the middle of the back of the pouch. This band connects to the waistband at the center rear in a “Y” connection, so there are two points of attachment to the waistband. The band then goes down and gets really narrow, only about a quarter inch wide. Finally, this band attaches to the bottom center of the pouch.

Joe realizes that this is something of a “Y” thong back built into the strap, and that the narrow ¼ inch band of elastic, while stretching, is not that long. This means that the thong back will cinch up tightly between Joe’s glutes, and probably get even snugger and tighter in this regard as Joe rides.

Joe pulls on the strap and tries to get it positioned correctly, and in particular getting the Y-shaped thong back positioned correctly between his glutes. Joe swallows as he notices that the three strips of elastic are pulling the pouch upward directly behind Joe’s scrotum, in the perineum area. Joe is swallowing because this all gives an initial feeling of discomfort that is somehow morphing into a sense of pleasure.

Joe is starting to feel more than a little horny, and he now realizes why several of the riders were beating themselves off before they got into their gear. The gear is actually designed to put the riders under subtle but direct sexual tension as they play the game, and for those in the stands, this is part of what makes the sport fun to watch. Will this tension affect the ability of the riders to successfully negotiate the fast-paced track and score or not? And what about the cameras placed everywhere around the track that flash shots of anatomy of the clad riders on the big screen?

Finally, Joe pulls out the regulation cup that goes inside the pouch. That cup design is interesting too. The cup is flatter than a normal cup and only big enough to fit around a quite flaccid penis. The strap with the thong back is pushing Joe’s male anatomy upward and forward, even as the cup in its pouch is pressing the male anatomy down and back toward Joe’s groin. This is quite a dilemma. If Joe was feeling horny a few moments ago, he is feeling even hornier now.

Joe persists and gets the strap and cup in place, and he pulls on the regulation compression tee and the compression shorts. There is a mirror in the locker room. The compression gear is really light in weight, and somewhat transparent as well. In the front, the image of the hard cup is clearly outlined. Of course, Joe is feeling horny as all get out, but he knows he must persist. Joe now fully realizes that part of the appeal of the sport to the fans in the stands is that the riders are playing in gear that seems to be designed to make the players feel horny even as they play the game.

There is one of the rider bikes in the locker room too. It looks like a combination between a razing bicycle and an off road bicycle with off-road like tires that would have more traction. The larger-than-normal fenders are all decked out in the same Rider Commandos team colors of navy blue and creamy white. The bicycle seat too is shaped differently than a normal bicycle seat. It seems to be almost made to put the rider under even more pressure in the perineum area right at that point where the three straps of the supporter are sewn into the pouch.

All of the gear is designed to get the fans in the stands worked up for watching the big game, and Joe is now fully aware of exactly why this is so.

……To be continued

Joe plays as a rider....
 

There are 8 guys on bicycles on the track for each team at any point in the game. Two of these are known as swinger-riders, as they will be alternating position with two of the defenders for the second half . Only 6 of the 8 are allowed to actually throw the game ball into the scoring hole. The other two, who are actually the swinger-riders play something of a support role. They tend to ride near the back of the pack of riders, and if the game ball is lobbed their way, their position is to get the ball back up to one of the riders who is allowed to score by putting the game ball into the hole.

The bicycles are now waiting for each rider outside the door of the locker room. Joe finds his bicycle and gets up on the seat. Joe knows that he is feeling pretty good as he gets on the bicycle, given the fit and positioning of his game strap and cup. The sensations are only reinforced once Joe gets on the seat of the bicycle, which is curved in a special way to stimulate his perineum area. Indeed, the riders are all feeling something of a psychosexual “high” as they parade into the playing track. Joe now fully understands why this is so. The crowd in the stands is standing and cheering them on. There are, of course, star players as well as players like Joe who are more in a support role.

As the riders enter the arena, the big cameras focus on them one by one, panning toward their groin areas as each player passes by the camera. These camera shots are fed directly to the big screens placed in strategic locations throughout the arena, along with the logos of each team, the navy blue and creamy white Riderball Commandos and the steel gray and dark red Riderball Raiders. No doubt these same pictures are fed out to the TV network that is covering the game too.

Let the game begin! All of the riders are very good at what they do. The track itself is actually a clay-dirt material, definitely not smooth, which explains why the bicycles look as much like dirt bikes as racing bikes. The game ball is lobbed in the direction of Joe, and Joe is able to catch it while still maintaining his balance on the bicycle. Joe lobs the ball back toward one of the rider scorers who immediately lobs it into the hole and scores. The Raider defenders whose jobs are to lob the ball back to the Raider riders completely missed that one! Joe gets to count that score in his own stats as an assist.

When a rider scores, all sorts of things happen in the arena. The LED lights in the clear ball light up almost like fireworks, alternately red, blue green and gold. But the whole scoring board where the hole is also suddenly lights up. The game camera, of course, catch all of this and the din is captured both on the big arena screens. The crowd stands and cheers.

Scores actually happen relatively infrequently. Generally the defenders do a better job of lobbing the ball back instead of allowing the score than happened this time. And there are slow moments in game play. The TV cameras have been known to take advantage of these slow moments by panning the camera on the various players, sometimes the riders but often the defenders with their skimpy swim- brief style suits. The game cameras have been known to focus on the groin areas of the defenders, especially the defenders who appear to have an oversized bulge for some reason going on and showing well for the camera. This image gets blown up on the big screen and that happens almost invariably the crown goes into a loud cheer. The defenders know that the attention they get during the game (and perhaps their salaries too) depends in part on how these camera shots come off to the game team owners, so the incentive is to keep at least a semi hard-on all during the game.

We are now coming up on half time, and the game between the Commandos and the Raiders is tied 2 to 2. The crowd stood and cheered at every score. Joe has managed stay on his bike throughout the first half too and is getting credit for the assist on the first Commandos goal.

Joe realizes that he will need to change out of his strap, cup and compression gear for second half-play in a Commandos defender position. After what began as some initial feelings of discomfort, particularly from that wild-butt elastic thong back, Joe decides that he has rather “enjoyed” the regulation strap, cup, and how it fit his body. Joe is actually hoping that he will stay hard enough in his defenders brief such that the camera will focus occasionally on his groin area and that his body will be featured on the big screen at slow moments during the second half. Joe realizes that all of this is a key part of the sport for team fans, and has a lot to do why the network TV ratings for the sport are high. Everything fits together: A bunch of really horny guys in snug-fitting garb playing a game using a ball that looks nothing so much as like a giant glistening drop of precum!

…..To be continued

Joe changes into his Defenders gear
 

Joe has been rather enjoying himself wearing his rider gear. The initial discomfort of the strap with the narrow elastic band “Y” thong back quickly dissipated, and Joe quickly found himself liking the fit and feel of the strap in his groin area. Same thing with the cup Joe was wearing. Again, after a bit of initial discomfort, the feel of the cup fitting around the length of his penis felt quite good to Joe, even as the compression shorts held everything tightly against his groin. Joe was thinking that the gear actually helped him play better, and may have been responsible for his success in the assist that happened early in the game.

Meanwhile, there was half-time entertainment on the field inside the track. The entertainers were singing while performing gymnastic floor events. There were both girls and guys wearing Brazil back suits. The crowd was getting worked into a frenzy wildly cheering on the entertainers as they showed up as well on the big screens strategically located around the arena.

But Joe knew what he had to do, and that was to get into his defenders gear for the second half of the game. Initially, Joe thought that the suits the defenders wore were very similar to a Speedo Solar ® brief, but once Joe pulls out his brief Joe quickly realizes that is not quite the case.

For starters, the brief is significantly undersized. Joe has a 32-inch waist, and the brief says 28 on the tag in the rear. The front of the brief actually has an inner panel that has two elastic rings and holes. Joe suddenly realizes why the defenders typically look so hung on camera. Joe now knows that he needs to fit his penis through the first elastic C-ring and his balls through the second. While still fully covered on the outside, it is obvious that Joe will also look quite hung as the rings tend to push his male anatomy front and forward, making Joe’s groin look very similar top how the defenders looked on camera and on the big screen earlier in the game.

Joe now fully understands that a good deal of the fan appeal of Riderball has to do with the way the players are dressed for the game, and that the big-screen camera shots are an important part of that. Of course, Joe is feeling quite horny right now, having struggled to get his male anatomy through the elastic built-in C-rings. The fact that he is at least semi-hard simply adds to all of that. Joe is actually anxious to see whether or not his groin area will be featured by a camera shot on the big screen too, and he doesn’t see any reason why not assuming he can keep from ejaculating.

The half-time entertainment is finishing up, and Joe is prepared to head out on the field and play the second half of the game as a defender.

…..To be continued

Ooops....
 

Joe is now standing next to the goal he was designated to support. He has just gotten out of his strap, cup and compression gear, and is now wearing his skimpy swim-style brief with the inner panel and the elastic rings, two of them, one each for his penis and for his balls. Quite frankly, Joe is still feeling as horny as all get out as he takes his position in front of the goal. The pressure of the elastic rings snug up around his penis and balls is almost unbearable, and Joe is not only aroused but hard, quite hard.

The second half of the Riderball game has not yet even started. The cameras, passing the photos to the big screens in the arena and out to the networks, is showing the various defenders getting themselves into their respective positions right next to each of the scoring holes.

Joe is quickly getting past the point of no return with respect to his own bodily functions. He really needs to ejaculate, and the quicker the better. It is actually the cumulative effect of all the snug-fitting garb that Joe has been wearing throughout the game, the jock, the cup, the compression gear, and to top it off the skimpy briefs with the funky elastic C –rings. This all in combination is simply a whole lot more than Joe’s young body can possibly handle.

Suddenly, Joe starts shooting, and what is happening is painfully apparent on the front of his skimpy defender briefs as a giant wet spot. Even worse, it turns out that the camera is panning right to his pulsating groin inside his briefs, and the picture is immediately being shot up to the big screens in the arena, and still worse, out to the network for home viewing.

At this point, the entire arena crowd is on its feet wildly screaming and cheering Joe, painfully aware of what is happening to Joe as vividly shown in great detail on the big screens. The crowd is appalled, but also amused and even amazed at what they are seeing. Some of the young women in the crowd seem to be particularly beside themselves with what is now happening for everyone to see.

Joe suddenly awakens from his vivid Riderball dream, still lying in his dorm room bed but now in a full scale ejaculation inside the strap and cup, and compression gear he wore to bed. Semen is dripping outside the strap and cup and is forming various dart wet spots in locations on his compression shorts. This powerful ejaculation seemed to start almost exactly when the camera panned over Joe’s groin area in the dream. The dream was almost too much for Joe.

Joe now lies in bed, still wearing his strap, cup and now semen-spotted compression gear, wondering what his next step will be.

Sebbie wonders what the next steps for both Joe and Bill will be too, and is planning on taking a few days off to contemplate what should happen next. Joe’s erotic Riderball dream took a lot out of Sebbie, too.

…To be continued, possibly.

The Aftermath
 

Bill is now obviously awake too, and he senses that Joe must have had a wild night. The conversation goes something like this:

Joe: “I just had the wildest dream!”

Bill: “You too, huh!”

Joe “Yup! I’m trying to figure this out.”

Bill: “Figure what out?”

Joe: Well, I have never had an erotic dream as wild as this one. And I am trying to figure out if what I was wearing going to bed had something to do with how the story line in the dream went.”

Bill: “You mean the strap, cup and compression gear you were wearing.”

Joe:”Yup”

Bill: “I’ve been thinking about that. You realize dreams often incorporate things that are actually going on in your life, but then sometimes head off in all sorts of strange new directions.”

Joe: “You mean that the dream content was conditional on what I was actually feeling in my groin area?”

Bill: “Exactly”

Joe: “Well, it sure was a wild dream, but one thing was really odd.”

Bill: “What was that?”

Joe: “I was wearing my strap, cup and compression gear, but things really started to happen in my dream AFTER I pulled that gear off and tried getting into the really snug swimming brief.

Bill: “Was the brief exactly like the one you bought at the sporting goods store?”

Joe: “Well, not exactly”

Bill: “What do you mean?”

Joe: “Well there were these elastic rings built into the inner liner, and I had to pull my penis and balls through them. That was the point in the dream where I ejaculated.”

Bill: “WOW”

Joe: “All I know for sure is that I have never enjoyed myself so much as I did last night.

…To be continued

Joe’s and Bill’s plan to head to the gym
 

Joe's and Bill’s dorm room is only about a block away from the student gym, there to help the college students keep in shape after eating so much dorm cafeteria food :-)

The gym is set up with a lot of different exercise equipment, and is ringed by a short indoor running track. There is a small lap there pool too, and of course, the usual collection of exercise equipment—several treadmills, a couple weight machines and even three rowing machines.

Neither Bill nor Joe had availed themselves of the opportunities the gym provided, and both were starting to put on what is sometimes referred to as the freshman weight gain brought about by the combination of dorm cafeteria food, too many soft drinks, and basically spending most of the daily routine either just sitting in class or lying in the dorm room studying.

The gym seemed to provide a welcome break from the studying and the dorm cafeteria food.

“I have an idea” said Joe. “Let’s wear our compression gear, straps and cups to the gym”

“But it’s October, “ Bill said. “Isn’t it rather cold for that?”

“But Bill…we can put our items on and then pull some swear pants and a sweatshirt over the gear. Then when we get to the gym, we can pull of the sweatshirts and sweatpants, and work out in our gear”

Bill thought that was a fine idea. That way, he could decide whether he was willing to appear in public wearing his compression gear AFTER he got to the gym.

Joe said “Bill I think you already know how much I have ‘enjoyed’ wearing the
gear you helped me get out at the sporting goods store. You introduced me to something I had never known existed before.”

Bill said “That is much the same way I felt when I first got into the gear.”

Bill and Joe both thought some about exactly what they were going to wear for their gym workout. They were both excited about the idea of wearing their straps and cups, but neither was certain they wanted to be bare butted. In that case the compression shorts might be a bit transparent. So they quickly decided that the best solution was to wear their straps and cups over a pair of tighty-whiteys. That way, their butts would be fully covered, and yet the outlines of their straps and cups would be visible, but not TOO obvious.

“I really like how that cup fits me” thought Joe. The snug fit against his groin seemed at first to be a bit uncomfortable, but then his penis suddenly realizes that there is something surrounding it, something almost immovable. A guy’s penis responds to that situation the only way it knows how to respond. It starts to become not only more aware of the presence of the cup, but more sensitive to the sensation as well, expanding if only a little bit. It is not long before Joe is feeling pangs of pleasure in his groin area as his brain starts to become aware of what is happening to him down there. These sensations at the start very subtle and transparent, but quickly become less subtle and more attention grabbing. Joe wondered if Bill experienced the same thing, but he was’t quite confident enough to ask him.

Joe wondered what would happen if he made an effort to exercise wearing this gear exactly what would happen to his body. Joe finally concluded that the only way to find out was to “subject” his body to the situation and see what happens.

Bill had some of the same questions. Bill was thinking about much the same things Joe was thinking.

To be continued…

Bill and Joe and their bodies...
 

Bill and Joe, both 19, and both were still struggling with their bodies and what was happening to them. Now being 19 years of age and a long ways from puberty (heck, that happened just prior to their 12th birthdays. For both of them their first real orgasms were this crazy mixture of terror and nearly unbridled pleasure. For both, that first orgasm was indelibly imprinted on their respective brains. How could something be so terrifying at the same time it was so much fun? Heck, that very combination of fear and joy tends to haunt sexual experiences in all their forms, throughout life. At least, throughout life, pretty much.

A complicating factor, of course is that sexual pleasure and sexual relationships are linked, often, maybe most often, in complicated ways. That is one thing to be concerned about. Does sexual pleasure have to somehow be connected to a partner?

Now THERE is a weighty question, and particularly weighty for a couple of 19 year old guys who think of themselves as being straight as in ruler straight. Bill and Joe both think of themselves as being interested in girls, but obviously neither is in a relationship with a girl, let alone a sexual relationship.

But their bodies keep doing strange things to their brains. At least, that is how it seems (feels?) right now. It wasn’t long after puberty till Joe and Bill both discovered that ANY pressure, sometimes only very slight, could end up feeling really good in the groin area. And further, whatever sensations experienced in the groin area were then immediately transferred to the brain. And the most interesting thing about being a guy is that these pleasant sensations may very well begin well before an erection starts to form.

Guys after puberty quickly discover that as the penis hardens and becomes erect, the nerve endings in the penis become more sensitive to any sort of touch or pressure. This is the basic idea that drives guys to develop techniques that produce the strongest and hardest erections possible. It is only later, and more gradually, that guys discover that their penises are able to do a whole lot more than that in terms of producing deliciously pleasant sensations even prior to when an erection starts to form.

What Bill and Joe have discovered, somewhat by accident is that a hard jock cup can do very interesting thing’s to a guy’s penis. Psychologically, it is, well, interesting for a guy to have his penis confined into an area that is, well, just a little snug. Obviously, this is a key part of what makes partner sex interesting and fun. But without a convenient partner, it still can be really interesting to have your penis in a confined space that will put pressure on a guy’s penis if it expands, if even only a little.

Most guys think of this as being in a precum mode, where glistening individual drops of perfectly clear precum form at the tip of the penis, one by one. Often, this happens to guys involuntarily, and the only thing that needs to happen is for a guy to think about the possibility that his penis will be in a confined space.

So, as Bill and Joe are getting into their straps, cups, compression shorts and tee shirts, a lot of interesting things are happening in their brains and bodies. The direct pressure from the strap and cup (purposely chosen as undersized so that any erection will press against the sides and top of the cup). Then the compression gear makes certain that the cup fits up tight against their respective groins.

Bill and Joe get into their gear as described. Then they each pull on sweatpants and a sweatshirt over for the walk to the gym. Now Joe knows that the gear is starting to make him precum…he can feel a damp spot forming inside the cup near the tip of the penis. Joe feels really good at this point, despite the fact that the walk to the gym and the subsequent workout may lead to more issues. Moving arould is going to cause the penis to slide around inside the cup, with more interesting sensations to be evaluated and enjoyed.

Bill is having the same “problems” in his gear that Joe is having. Bill suspects Joe is “enjoying” himself. Joe suspects that Bill is “enjoying” himself as well. They look at each other but neither says a thing. This is an interesting moment, realizing that a guy next to you is precumming and experiencing something really interesting, sexually. It’s not a gay moment, or is it? What will happen on the walk to the gym? At the workout?

If you stop and think about it, what I am describing here is the same force that drives guys into purchasing all manner of clothing items that puts penises in a confined space. Swim briefs, snug-fitting underwear of various kind, even snug-fitting jeans. Whatever sets off the precumming is what works. Most guys know about his, but few ever discuss it with anyone.

Where will this all lead for Bill and Joe? Keep reading.

…To be continued

Hooked on a Feelin'
 

Bill and Joe were both starting to feel pretty good. Neither said anything, but whatever it was certainly was starting to happen to their bodies. Most guys know the feeling quite well. They might be just thinking about other things, their daily activities, and all of a sudden it hits them. This can be really subtle, at least at first.

Of course, both Bill and Joe had set themselves up exactly for this to happen, from the first moment they even started to think about dressing for their trip to the student gym. Both Bill and Joe had gone through similar experiences involving complicated but on occasion delicious erotic dreams, brought about in large measure because of what they wore to bed. This seemed a little, well, silly, but there was no denying that the situation they had put their respective bodies into was, well, certainly most interesting.

And how did this all begin? Well, there was that trip to the sporting goods store, where they both ended up buying swim briefs, compression shorts and tees, along with straps holding confining and slightly undersized cups. What motivated that? Well, at some deep level the real motivation was that these items would end up being turn-ons. Straps, in particular, have a way of “getting” to guy’s brains, along with the delicious ‘agony” of having a guy’s penis confined inside a hard cup. Compression gear, not only the shorts but even the tee shirts, "help" with all of this.

I guess the vast majority of guys, if not every guy, knows well the exact sensations I am talking about here. Of course, every guy knows the feeling when his penis hardens and grows in size. But I am talking about something much more subtle than that. It’s a subtle feeling of tension that grabs a guy’s attention well before there is any obvious change in the length and hardness of his penis. It’s subtle, sometimes overlooked, but a very important sensation in the range of feelings and experiences a guy has that involves his male sexuality.

Bill and Joe have been learning the nuances of all of this with a great deal of intensity, lately. There was, of course, the trip to the sporting goods store, and the sensation of feeling a little damp spot on their underwear righ at the tips of their penises even as they were shopping for their gear. This was part of what made the shopping trip so much fun: The discovery of the gear and then the anticipation of how they would feel once they got into the gear.

Now Bill and Joe were doing something different. They were going to be walking to the gym clad in all of their snug-fitting gear, and then, presumably work out in it.

But Bill and Joe were still these “modest” college freshmen, and in order to make the trip to the gym they pulled on their gear but put sweatpants and a sweatshirt over what they were wearing. They were both covered up, but the gear, the compression tee and shorts, straps and cups were still very much there and clinging tightly to their bodies. The tricky part was going to be just walking to the gym in all that stuff. Bill and Joe both knew that would not be easy, and they were likely going to end up precumming, maybe a lot, inside the sug-fitting straps and cups firmly gripping their respective groins because of the tight-fitting compression shorts. Even more interesting, Bill knew pretty well what must be happening to Joe, and Joe knew pretty much what was happening to Bill, and this knowledge made the entire experience even more interesting for both of them.

Guys have this “love-hate” relationship with precumming whenever it happens. They love how they feel psychologically when it happens, but they also live in constant worry that the precumming will soon lead to a full-blown erection with an ejaculation. So guys invariably end up being elated, but at the same time, a little scared. What a weird combination of feelings.

Of course, Bill and Joe have set this up so that when they get to the gy,m there is no law that says they must strip down to their compression gear for their workouts. If this seems too risky, they can always keep their sweat gear on over the top and no one will be the wiser.

The walk to the gym was relatively uneventful as the guys straps and cups rubbed gently against their penises as they walked along the sidewalk to the gym. They opened the door of the gym and greeted some of the other students there. They headed to the locker room and found some spare lockers suitable for their sweat gear. Next time, they needed to bring along their own padlocks to use on these lockers, but everything was quiet and this wasn’t really necessary.

Bill and Joe stashed their sweat gear and looked at themselves in the mirror. Whatever precumming had happened was nicely being contained in the cloth of their straps and there were no quarter-sized damp spots on their compression shorts. That was a relief! Of course, the outlines of the straps and cups were clearly visible under the tight-fitting compression shorts, but just an outline, and no damp spots.

Bill and Joe pop out of the locker room clad in their compression gear and start to head over to some of the gym equipment. And who should they run into but Dylan. You remember Dylan as the dorm mate who ran into them that wild night when they were heading to the dorm bathroom in their compression gear.

Dylan, clad in cotton shorts and a cotton tee said “Nice gear you have there!”

Bill and Joe did not give a verbal response, but simply smiled, a bit uneasily. They had been counting on not running into anyone they knew.

…To be continued

Good Looking Gear, Guys!
 

Bill and Joe were very surprised to see someone that they knew, just as they both emerged wearing only their compression gear (straps and cups). But there he was. Dylan, the same guy they had run into wearing their gear when they made the trek from their dorm room to the dorm hall men’s bathroom.

“Good Looking workout gear, guys” Dylan said to them with just a bit of a twinkle in his eye. Truth is, Dylan liked the look of what they were wearing very much, and was wondering how similar gear would look and feel on him. Interestingly, there are a lot of guys out there who secretly have many of the same feelings and thoughts that Dylan has. They see guys dressed in snug-fitting athletic gear. Its not that these guys are gay, necessarily, or even showing their gay side, but they are very much curious as to how their bodies would react if they were put in a situation wearing such gear.

No two guys are exactly the same in this regard. Some guys would probably just take this all in stride and not even give it so much as a second thought. But other guys, well, the outcomes might be different, so to speak. Very few guys are not at least somewhat interested, psychologically, in what happens to their brains when their penises are in a confined space, irrespective of exactly what that space might be. Dylan in this respect is no different from either Bill or Joe or most other guys, except of course that Bill and Joe are wearing the gear to an actual workout. Deep down, in this regard, Dylan admires Bill and Joe and the situation that they are both in. Exactly where this will all lead will likely be interesting to see for sure, except to say that Dylan’s mind is also wide awake in this regard.

Bill and Joe, meanwhile, are surveying the gym area. There is an assortment of workout equipment in the gym, as you can imagine, several treadmills with video screens, four stationary bikes, six weight lifting machines, and even three stationary rowing machines. Down the hall was the 50 meter lap pool. All and all, quite a set of gym equipment available for their use. Bill and Joe are also thinking about how each particular piece of equipment will work in relation to the gear they are wearing, especially the snug-fitting straps and cups. They both know that once a guy gets his penis placed inside a cup, things can seem quite “normal” but only if the cup remains perfectly still in relation to the penis. Any movement of the cup in relation to the penis can set up a situation, well, at least most guys know what I am talking about here.

Part of this is physical, but part is also psychological, as in the knowledge that if the penis expands within the confined space, it may want to enlarge more than the available space permits. Physically, this can be interesting, but it can be psychologically interesting as well. The mere knowledge that the needed space may not be available sets up a psychological situation that can be just a tough chary, but can be quite interesting as well. The poor guy’s penis is bombarded with direct but subtle sensations of confinement and a lack of all the necessary needed space.

Now penises are smart appendages, and they realize that if not all of the desired space is available compromises of sorts will need to be made in order to just fit within the space is available. But the key phrase here is “just fit”.

Then there is the matter of the exercise equipment. Bill and Joe are going to be riding an exercise bike while their penises are tightly within a limited amount of space. With each turn of the cycle, the cup is going to not only press against the penis, but also move slightly in relation to the penis. Exactly how this all sorts itself out in an exercise routine on a stationary bike could prove to be most interesting, to say the least.

Dylan realizes that Bill and Joe are not wearing their compression shorts over just nothing. He can see the clear outline of various parts of the strap under the compression shorts of both guys. He thinks they must be wearing hard cups too, but that is less clear. What Dylan knows is that whatever it actually is that Bill and Joe are wearing has piqued his curiosity, but do remember that Dylan also was curious that night he ran into the two in the dorm as they were wandering out to the hall bathroom.

Bill and Joe soon decide that the first piece of exercise equipment they want to try out are two of the stationary bikes. What will happen. Now keep in mind that their compression shorts and tees are not out of place for at least a somewhat serious bike rider. But do bike riders routinely wear straps with hard cups? Good question!

…To be continued

Time Out!
 

Bill and Joe were never anything close to being high school athletes, but that doesn’t mean that they are unconcerned about possibly looking like dorks in the college gym. In that regard, an interesting topic is te whole issue of what guys who are wearing compression shorts should wear underneath. I have done a little Web research on that topic. Since Bill and Joe are going to be riding bikes, albeit stationary bikes, an interesting question is whether serious bike riders wear anything under the compression cycling shorts while riding.

Now real cycling shorts have padding, called the chamois, in the butt to help alleviate chafing. The question is whether a guy should wear underwear or maybe a strap underneath. The bike riding guys uniformly say “no”. The underwear will reduce the effectiveness of the chamois as well as the effectiveness of the compression material in wicking sweat away.

But Bill and Joe are not wearing real cycling shorts with padding, but standard compression shorts with no padding. So an additional layer between the butt and the stationary bike seat might prove helpful. The problem is that the strap the guys are wearing has no butt cloth. An interesting question is will the guys still be comfortable on the bike.

Your author routinely wears compression gear both for stationary bike riding as well as for rowing, but I have almost always worn a pair of tighty whiteys underneath, with typically a strap, and often a cup worn over. I’ve found that to be not only comfortable, but often providing some interesting groin area sensations while working out. Maybe if I were outdoors on a real cycle on a hot-and-humid day I would feel otherwise, but this works fine for indoor workouts of the type Bill and Joe are doing.

I will admit that the gear does provide sensations some of which are physical but some psychological. I love the feel of being “contained” snugly within the strap and cup while working out, and the interesting sensations make the workout time speed by. Bill and Joe are presumably discovering many of the same things I have discovered. For guys that are somehow “scared” to experiment this way with their bodies I think you are perhaps missing out on something that could be a real source of pleasure.

I know many of you must think I have forgotten that Bill and Joe have a swimming pool available to them at the Gym, and they both have pairs of swim briefs they bought at the big-box sporting goods store. Both Bill and Joe swim, although not well. What remains to be seen is to whether or not they will dare wear the swim briefs they bought at the pool.

There are certainly lots of unanswered questions here.

….To be continued

Bill and Joe learn more about their bodies (and minds)
 

Bill and Joe are fooling around with something that is really interesting, and learning things that could be important and useful to both of them in their entire adult lives. One of these things is learning more about exactly what makes them feel, in slang, “feel horny”.

A lot of guys would say that they already completely understand the answer to that. My only response to that is to say ah sure, that is what YOU think!” Even guys just past puberty know that what happens is just a heck of a lot more complicated than that, involving all sorts of weird feelings and sensation that seem to happen at what are seen as “inopportune” circumstances, times and places.

By the time a guy reaches young adulthood, say the 18 or 19 as is the case for Bill and Joe, they have already come to grips with a lot of this. I suspect that every guy, buried in his brain somewhere, has an indelible mental “list” of things that happened involving them and the actions of their penises, often “inadvertently” and the circumstances, place and time when each event happened. At the top of this list are situations where an erection occurred in a public or semi-public place (such as a gym locker room with other guys wandering around) which in turn leads to a full-scale uncontrollable ejaculation complete with a big wet semen stain. For a teen guy, this has to be nearly the most embarrassing event ever and gets etched into the mind forever.

But, by the time a guy gets to be 18 or 19, he has probably learned at least something about ejaculatory control so that these kinds of out-of-control events occur far less frequently, if at all. Bill and Joe at this point in their lives, certainly know SOMETHING about ejaculatory control, that is, delaying a full-scale orgasm until they are in a good “situation” to get off, in the early teen years, with a degree of privacy, or “with a favorite girl”.

Learning ejaculatory control is, well, I’ve often thought, is about as interesting as it gets. This is due in part to the opposing forces at work. It has always seemed to me that the more the mind wants to tell the body that I really do not want to ejaculate right now because this is not an appropriate time or place, the more the body keeps telling the mind “but I really NEED to!” “but I really NEED to!” These opposing forces, the mental effort by the guy to delay orgasm counterbalanced by the building physical sensation on needing to drive many guys absolutely bananas, and are the real source of terror about a guy’s sexual being. It is as if the penis is playing a game of its own with the mind, and the penis is playing to win.

Let us think about Bill and Joe’s situation at their current age versus what would have likely happened had they done the same thing at, say, age12 or 13. Had I been 12 or 13 and been “required” to wear the gear that Bill and Joe are wearing, I would have likely gone into a full-scale erection and orgasm lightning fast. I’m not sure that I would have even been able to get myself into the cup, strap and compression gear at that age before that happened. Think about the gear and the situation. In retrospect, at that age, had I known what I know now, I would have silently been clamoring to get the same gear anyway. That is what is loopy about sexual turn-ons at that age. A guy wants to avoid these situations while quietly seeking them out at the same time. How weird!

But Bill and Joe are obviously young adults and in complete control of their bodies. Yah sure! They both were able to get into their gear and make the short walk to the gym without going into an orgasm. Now they have to confront the various gym machines, not to mention encountering Dylan who seems more than a little “interested” in what the guys are wearing. But more about Dylan and Dylan’s possible “hang-ups” later. For now, Dylan is simply a quiet “observer” of all of this.

Now Bill and Joe are contemplating getting on the stationary bike. The strap and cup are obviously held tightly against the groin with the cup fitting snugly around the top of the penis. Now, with each cycle of the pedals on the bike, that same cup cannot remain stationary. Instead, it is going to have to slide, if even by only a small amount, in relation to the penis securely contained within. Just the THOUGHT of this happening can be a turn-on, without the physical sensation of the cup moving back and forth along the penis. Of course, there will be some physical sensation from all of this as well.

Penises do what penises do. When the penis senses this movement surrounding it, generally there is a response which involves a clear tensing up sensation with increased blood flow which means that the penis is going to gradually press more firmly against the walls of the cup. These sensations all work together, making each cycle of the bike wheel more and more pleasant.

It is at least very difficult, if not impossible, to go into a full-blown orgasm while confined inside of the cup. Part of the problem is that the physical sensations from the cup walls are very subtle. Maybe more important is that there is just not enough room to get into a full-blown erection. Still, the urge to ejaculate keeps building with each pedal cycle. The entire workout can be very enjoyable, to say the least.

….To be continued

Sizing up what the other guys are wearing…
 

Neither Joe nor Bill were big on working out in high school. The whole idea of going regularly to the student gym is a novel idea for them. But they both decided that developing a regular workout schedule would be helpful in dealing with the pressures of study and daily college life. Why not? Plus, both of their bodies could use the exercise. Not that either Bill or Joe are significantly overweight: they aren’t. But, both of them are carrying a bit more flab than they would like, flab they hope to turn into muscle.

College can be funny. Some of the “rules” guys applied in high school are the same as in college, but many aren’t. With respect to dress for what was known in high school as physical education, or phys ed for short, the males followed what I would call the “herd instinct” rule. For a high school student in a phys ed class, you want to make sure that what you are wearing is identical or nearly identical to what the other guys appear to be wearing. In the high schools Bill and Joe attended, this meant basically cotton or poly-blend shorts, loose-fitting that extended down to cover the knee area. The top was always a loose fitting, oversized tee, often with a logo or silly statement in big lettering on the front.

There are unwritten ‘rules in high school that are rigid as well. Guys wore loose fitting boxer shorts, not quite as long to the knee as the outer garment, but close to that. All the guys wore those. The rule may have been unwritten, but was still very much in place.

In college, Bill and Joe, in wearing their compression tees and shorts, had already “violated” a key rule from high school.

One of the interesting aspects of going to a student gym in part is to see exactly what the other guys are wearing for workouts. Obviously, the “rules” that apply are somewhat different, and maybe looser and more flexible than they were in high school. To be sure, some of the guys are wearing cotton/poly shorts that extend to their knees. A few more are clad in sweat pants.

But there are two guys who are wearing something very different from either of these, what appears to be wrestling singlets, with the white “asics®” logo on the lower left leg. One of these is in black: the other on navy blue. What are these guys, anyway? Freshman members of the college wrestling team?

It turns out no. But they are freshman members of the college ROWING Team. Now the rowing team has their own gym equipment but it is a mile (or more) across campus from the freshman dorm. It turns out, the two rowing team members, Donovan and Tony, live in the same dorm that Bill and Joe live, but on the second, not the first floor.

Appropriate garb for a team rower is very similar to wrestling garb. In fact, many competitive rowers wear wrestling gear for working out. A wrestling singlet fits much the same way as compression shorts like Bill and Joe are wearing, with some key differences. A wrestling siglet is one piece not two piece with straps that pull the singlet snug in the groin area and go up over the shoulders.

Of course, one basic idea in rowing is to attempt to develop muscular and powerful shoulders. To the extent that the workout is successful, the shoulder build will mean that the straps of the singlet will snug the singlet up ever tighter into the groin area and buttocks. Rowing also tends to peal off any fat or flabbiness in the buttocks, resulting in a tighter looking butt not to mention the singlet snugging up in the crack between the buttocks. So the rower soon starts to look quite athletic, broad shoulders, tight butt, strong thighs all accentuated by the wrestling singlet. Joe and Bill are making mental notes of all of this as Tony and Donovan begin their 30 minute workouts on two of the rowing machines.

The stationary bike will accomplish some of this, most notably building muscle n the thigh area. But stationary bikes do nothing for the shoulders. Joe and Bill start to become very interested in what Donovan and Tony are doing. Meanwhile, Dylan is quietly watching all of this too, and taking note of how fit Tony and Donovan are.

….To be continued

A Rower’s Build
 

A wrestling singlet makes perfect sense as workout garb for a competitive rower. Unlike what Bill and Joe have been wearing, basically a compression tee along with a separate pair of compression shorts, a wrestling singlet, like the ones Tony and Donavon are wearing is all one piece.

Bill and Joe have always admired the “swimmers build” of young athletes their age, but the path to getting there is not always clear. The so-called swimmers build is common to 19 year old male competitive swimmers. I guess the key characteristics of a swimmers build would be 1. Low body fat, 2. Narrow waist, typically around 30 inches 3. Broad shoulders, 4. Large lateral muscles or lats, giving the chest a distinct triangular shape uncommon in non-athletes, and 5.tight (6-pack) revealing abdominal muscles. Strong swimmers often also have oversized thigh muscles too, although these are most common with competitive divers.

All of this is possible using swimming as the main exercise. But any competitive swimmer nowadays spend nearly as much time working out in the gym and weight room than in the pool. The gym work builds particularly the upper body chest, shoulders and related muscles necessary to swim fast.

A lot of this is the same, pretty much for college-level competitive rowers. Like swimming, competitive rowing is very much a full body exercise, but if anything is even more of a workout for the upper body, shoulders, lats, abs and thigh muscles. Given this, competitive rowing could be a faster and steadier route to a swimmers build than competitive swimming. Rowing really puts the emphasis on building the shoulders and upper body.

Wrestling singlets provide a fun fit, at least as snug as the compression gear that Bill and Joe are wearing, with one important difference. They are one piece, and are held in place via shoulder straps. The rowing exercise builds shoulders, and as shoulder muscles grow, the shoulder straps have to go up over progressively bigger and stronger shoulders. And as this happens, the wrestling singlet is going to. keep pressing up tighter and snugger into the groin area. This is, well, interesting as more and more pressure will be placed on a guy’s private parts, and the more the guy works out, the snugger this is going to get.

A related issue is what, if anything, does a competitive rower wear under the singlet, underwear, a strap or maybe nothing at all. If nothing at all, the singlet is going to be at least as revealing of body parts as any simmers jammer. An interesting topic top research on the Web is what is the recommended wear for under compression gear, whether the gear is shorts, cycling gear, or a wrestling singlet. There seems to be little agreement on this.
What is happening now is that Tony and Donovan are standing there getting ready to do a workout of the stationary rowing machines at the gym. Bill and Joe are engaging Tony and Donovan in a pleasant conversation, but silently checking out what they are wearing and how it fits on their “rowers’ bodies. Both Bill and Joe are thinking exactly the same thing, as in “I want to get myself one of those.” Meanwhile, Dylan too is starting to think that this is exactly where he wants to be too.

None of what is going on is lost on any of the participants. Nor is the “rower’s body” lost on them. Need to make another visit to the big-box sporting goods store. Maybe Dylan would like to go along on the trip.

….To be continued

I want one of those!
 

It’s funny how all of this works! Guys frequently like to act as if they are completely oblivious as to what clothes other guys are wearing, and this is doubly true when what the other guys are wearing is made of a Lycra/Spandex fabric, and fits really tight. Of course, every guy is keenly aware of anything that fits really snug in the groin area. All of this is learned at a very early age, perhaps before puberty when the guy is only 8 or 10 years old, maybe earlier. Guys just learning that their penises are sensitive to touching and rubbing get this (crazy?) idea that wearing clothing that fits snuggly around their penises, particularly a slick-and-stretchy fabric, might generate some interesting and fun feelings as well. So a lot of guys at a very early age go on a quest to find clothing that will stimulate them in these ways, something as an experiment, of sorts. Of course, guys are also almost invariably reluctant (embarrassed) to admit that they have these interests to their parents or to their peer males of similar age. That is part of what makes the entire situation so interesting but also more than a bit scary.

By the time a guy reaches the age of Bill, Joe, Tony and Donovan, they have already probably had the opportunity to run an assortment of different experiments involving their bodies and snug-fitting clothing of various kinds. Finally away from their parents, college guys have the opportunity to try some stuff that they were likely too embarrassed to try when they were living at home. Sometimes, the idea of having a dorm room roommate there on a constant basis makes college guys reluctant to do as much experimenting with all of this as they might be interesting in doing if they were living alone. Bill and Joe obviously got over this and worked their way out of any inhibitions they might have initially had about revealing all of this to each other as dorm room roommates. A lot of the inhibitions relate to the guy’s often deeply hidden beliefs that these interests might suggest to the roommate that the guy is a closeted gay person.

So, here is the problem or issue. Nearly every guy is deeply curious about the entire issue of whether or not his feelings, and ultimately sexual orientation is the same or not the same as that of his peer males. This rather drives everything a teen male thinks about and does in this regard. One of the key components of all of this is whether or not the other guys get the same or similar sensations and are struggling with the same problems or issues such as erections at inopportune or inappropriate times, the occasional ejaculation as a consequence, etc. etc. The clothing issue relates to whether the other guys are all able to tolerate getting into certain clothing items but I am not…jock straps, brief style swimwear , compression shorts, and now wrestling and rowing singlets. Guys always find it interesting to quietly observe the others guys getting into these kinds of gear in part to determine exactly whether or not the other guys have each resolved the potential problems at hand, in particular, observed evidence of erections, drops of pre cum etc etc. Or does all of this somehow get resolved and as the guy reaches young adulthood, all of this is somehow disappears, attention turns instead to increasing interest in finding a specific partner for sexual stuff. In short, as a guy reaches adulthood, all of this stuff regarding snug-fitting clothing perhaps gradually becomes less and less important.

Maybe, but Maybe not. Bill and Joe were certainly observing Tony and Donovan in their rowing singlets, all of them. Nearly every guy irrespective of sexual orientation has this side of fascination with how the other guy’s penis is faring in snug fitting clothing and what might be happening to the other guy as a consequence, and the rowing singlet is something new, something neither Bill nor Joe in their young lives had ever observed before. Bill and Joe are also wondering about how their own bodies would fare in a rowing singlet.

Bill and Joe are now asking Tony and Donovan where they got their singlets, clearly wondering where they found them. Tony’s response:

“These are tough to find in the sporting goods stores. Mine is an asics branded singlet. They are readily available on Amazon on line.”

Now Bill and Joe need to figure out how to place an Amazon order from their dorm room, and get he singlets put on a credit card, and delivered to their room. Certainly this is not something that either of them would want to mail to their permanent home addresses.

Meanwhile Dylan has been quietly watching all of this, saying nothing. Dylan is no different from any other guy his age with many of the same thoughts and ideas racing through his head. Dylan is “interested” too about what he thinks might be going on with the others, but maybe just a little scared too. But he is also starting to get “ideas” in his head.

…..To be continued

Understanding ourselves
 

This is one of those great mysteries of being a human being, and Joe, Bill, Tony and Donovan are finding themselves right in the middle of it. Herein also might be the key to understanding an important element of how human sexuality works at its most basic level, straight, gay or somewhere in between. The picture we have here is of four college-age guys working out at the student gym, all wearing snug-fitting clothing, clothing that might instantaneously reveal what is happening with their anatomy. For each, a significant erection is going to be quite obvious as the outline will clearly show to everyone seeing them at the gym.

Even more fascinating is the idea that without an erection, if the guy is at all sexually focused, drops of precum are going to be forming, drops that have no place to go except to form a wet stain on the snug-fitting Lycra/Spandex garments. No wait, Joe and Bill are wearing their straps and cups under their compression shorts. This should prevent stains from forming even while creating an interesting shape under the Lycra where their penises should be. But what about Tony and Donovan? What, if anything are they wearing underneath their rowing singlets? Good question! This deserves further “research” for sure.

Some guys are perhaps secretly “interested” in all of this and in particular what is going on in the heads and bodies of the other guys wearing snug-fitting garments, but other guys claim not at all. I think that this all has to do with the straight-gay continuum of human sexuality. The guys at the far straight end of the straight side at least claim that what is going on this the guys around them in these respects, and only get sexual pleasure in relation to the female anatomy.

But other guys might not be as certain. How would you react if you had observed that a college buddy wearing a wrestling singlet or compression short was clearly staining them with drops of precum. If you were wearing similar garb, would what you are wearing remain unstained if you KNEW this was happening to your college bud. (How do you react to noticing that your male college bud was masturbating while lying in the dorm bed across the room from you? Is this a turn-on for you or are you somehow offended?) What if both of you are claiming to be straight? Is your reaction to want to go into masturbation mode yourself, or not? Quite a dilemma to deal with, for sure.

Maybe this whole subject of what is straight versus gay versus someplace in between not clear at all. Maybe only a few of the guys who claim to be perfectly straight are truly unaffected by what is going on with the males at the gym around them. Maybe none? Maybe most, if absolutely not every guy, would at least secretly “enjoy” finding themselves in the situation Tony, Donovan, Bill and Joe now find themselves in studying each other and what is happening to their bodies. Maybe nearly every guy has a secret “gay” side in this respect, a side that reveals a sexual fascination in certain aspects of other guys. Meanwhile, I am unable to imagine any guy who claims to be even a little gay not enjoying the situation of the four.

These are not dumb questions for sure. They are profound questions. Ponder them.

To be continued……

Dylan’s dilemma
 

Meanwhile, clad in a loose-fitting tee shirt and equally loose fitting cotton shorts that extend nearly to his knees, Dylan, the dorm mate has been quietly watching all of this, and way feel down starting to wonder a lot about how he might look and feel clad in something more snug and form-fitting. Truth is, the clothes being worn by Tony, Donovan, Bill and Joe are starting to have something of a psychological impact on Dylan. Truth is, Dylan had started thinking about this that night in the dorm when he encountered Bill and Joe wandering down the dorm hallway between the men’s bathroom and their dorm room. The effect of seeing Joe and Bill clad in the snug-fitting compression gear is really subtle, at least at first, but the visual has been growing on Dylan. Somehow, Dylan can’t get out of his mind how he might look and feel wearing similar items.

Dylan had never really thought about this before, at least not for any significant period of time. Like Bill and Joe, Dylan had always considered himself to be ruler-straight, and certainly not at all interested in guys as sexual partners. But suddenly Dylan is caught up in something he did not think could happen to him. His mind keeps wandering over into thinking about how the four other guys at the gym are feeling clad in all of this snug-fitting gear. He is asking himself the question “What is happening to these guys, both physically and psychologically?” Asking himself these questions over and over is doing funny things to Dylan, things that Dylan is not really yet willing to admit are happening. Just looking at the other guys clad in their gear is affecting Dylan’s brain in a funny way, and Dylan is starting to feel something in his groin area now too. This is quickly leading to the idea that Dylan wants to get some of the same kind of workout gear the other guys are wearing. But how is he going to pull this all off? Dylan is starting to explore a side of his being that he did not realize existed before. Specifically, there are instances where supposedly straight guys can get aroused by just seeing other guys.

Meanwhile, Bill and Joe are facing their own dilemma, clad in their compression tees and shorts with their straps underneath. Bill and Joe both quickly realize that the singlets Tony and Donovan are wearing represent another level of what they have been doing with their compression tees and shorts. Tony and Donovan are encouraging Bill and Joe to keep ramping it up, by making some on-line purchases of wrestling/rowing singlets. Bill and Joe think that is, well, at least an interesting idea to pursue. But how?

Another puzzle Bill and Joe are trying to figure out is what Tony and Donovan wear UNDER the singlets. Are they commando? It’s pretty obvious to Tony and Donovan that Bill and Joe are wearing straps underneath their compression shorts. The outline of the leg straps extending diagonally across their butts, and the slight bulges from the cups are pretty obvious to anyone who looks. But Tony and Donovan have no obvious leg straps or cups, yet they do not appear exactly to be commando underneath either. Something is keeping them from having a clear penis outline under the singlets, but what?

Yes, but what? Bill decides that the only way to resolve this one is to simply blurt out “Tony and Donovan, what do you wear under those Singlets?”

Tony responds: “Well, we tried various ideas on that, plain old cotton briefs, a Lycra swim brief, but nothing we tried seemed to work as well as what we finally found.”

Bill: “What was that?”

Tony: “Why, what works the best is a pair of thong underwear for men. The pouch keeps our male anatomy in place and covered , and the single strap in the rear slides right between our glutes. The feel is a great sensation when we are rowing, either on the water or on a machine at the gym. The thong makes our rowing time pass quickly (hee hee).

Dylan is also quietly taking this all in, even as his body seems to be responding as well in funny ways to the information he is learning.

To be continued…..

Making a gym workout fun
 

Gym exercise programs are difficult for a lot of people to maintain. A large share of the problem is that gym workouts can often be boring as all get out, but especially aerobic workouts that involve an activity for, say, 30 minutes non-stop. There are plenty of examples of these at the gym..the classic example I suppose is the treadmill. Without some diversion, working out for 30 minutes on a treadmill can be really boring.

Another boring workout device is a stationary bike. That is why there has been so much efforts to do things like set up TV screens that mimic what a rider might see on an actual bike ride, which is much less boring.

There are also other boring exercises and machines aimed at exercises that take place over, say a 30 minute period or longer,, things like steppers and stationary rowing machines. Generally speaking, its difficult for guys to maintain their workouts if the exercises are boring. I suppose we should also include simple walking and running as other boring exercises. Where lap swimming fits into all of this is a good starting point for discussion.

Generally speaking, guys tolerate exercises involving muscle building such as weight lifting far better and tend to get less bored with exercises that last a shorter period of time. The problem is that good exercises may very well need to include the boring stuff as well as the not-so-boring stuff in combination.

So what does all of this have toi do with Bill, Joe, Tony, Donovan and Dylan? Well for starters, a good daily exercise routine with a combination of aerobic and non-aerobic exercises, perhaps started in College, is something that a guy will want to maintain for a lifetime. There are many good combinations of the two, and each guy needs to sort out what works best for himself as an individual.

I know many of you are wondering what the “twist” here is going to be. Well, the twist is how boring or enjoyable you find your workout to be in part depends on what you wear to engage in the workout.

Bill and Joe have already sensed this, given what they are wearing. Tony and Donovan are on to this as well, given what they are wearing for their stationary rowing workouts. Dylan, clad in loose-fitting gym shorts and an equally loose-fitting tee shirt, so far at least, has not quite figured this all out.

Making a serious workout more fun and less boring is at least in part dependent on what the guy chooses to wear for the workout. Workout time almost always moves along a little faster for a guy if he is at least a little turned on, as in, feeling at least a little warm in the groin area. I suppose the “classic” example of this is the lap swimmer clad in a Speedo® as the consummate illustration of what I mean, but what is going on here runs parallel to this. Bill and Joe are clad in compression gear with straps and cups underneath. Tony and Donovan are clad in singlets both wearing thongs with cords running snuggly up their respective butts. These four guys are all certainly feeling something that seems erotic, even before beginning to exercise.

Bill and Joe are both planning on first hopping on the stationary bikes for a 30-minute ride. Tony and Donovan are hopping on the stationary rowers for a 30-minute ride as well. All this movement given the items they are wearing, well, could cause more stuff to happen. We will just have to see! Poor Dylan! He seems to know that something is up, but he is not quite sure what, yet. Is there anything somehow “wrong” with all of this? I think not!

…..To be continued.

Knowing our bodies
 

It’s funny. A lot of guys think they have learned all there is to know about their own bodies, about sex and sexuality from the start of puberty (probably most commonly around age 12) through high school (usually ending around 18), but, oddly enough, there is a whole lot more to try and understand, and a lot of this seems to happen in the late teens and very early 20s, say in the years from 18 to age 21 or 22.

Part of this, of course, is linked to all of the issues as to who a guy is attracted to from the perspective of another person, straight, gay or something in between. Life would be simple if that were all there was to sexual feelings and sexual turn ons. But guys know that things can be, and often are, much more complicated than that. Interesting, to be sure, but surely more complicated than merely picking a partner.

Here we have four college age guys, Bill, Joe, Tony and Donovan, well, five if we count the really confused Dylan, who are “messing around” with stuff that initiates distinctive sexual feelings and sensations, but this all has little if anything to do with sexual feelings and sensations that are related to finding a sexual partner.

Almost every guy in their teens quickly leans that sexual sensations and responses can readily happen at inopportune times and places, places that have nothing to do with a sexual partner as such. Classic examples are situations where a young new member of a high school swim team first encounters the idea that in order to participate, he will need to get his head (and body) around the idea of wearing a swim brief in front of his team mates and then in public. School sports that require wearing a strap and maybe a hard cup elicit similar fears and potentially complicated bodily responses, even just the thought of having to do so. This is a natural bodily reaction to having one’s private parts placed in a very confined space. Part of the popularity of wearing loose fitting swim shorts, end even jeans has to do with a deep seated fear that the guy will not be able to “control” his “bodily response” in a confined space, and his lack of control will immediately be identified by his fellow classmates and, as a result, he will be teased and bullied.

But by the time a guy reaches college age, he has probably discovered a couple of important things. First, the sensations associated often with merely the thought of having one’s private parts confined in a small space, say the swim brief, strap, or even a pair of snug fitting underwear along with similarly snug-fitting jeans, are terrific fun. Not as much fun as real sex, perhaps, but certainly fun. And further, the guy doesn’t need a partner to enjoy himself this way. Second, if there is an appropriate time and place, there is no reason or a guy to not enjoy one’s body in this regard.

Ok, but guys have generally been enjoying themselves engaging in solo sex, mainly stroking and rubbing their penises to orgasm, probably in private and from shortly after they went through puberty (maybe even before!), so that is certainly nothing new. It’s a little “secret” that most guys at least attempt to keep from their parents, siblings, peers and classmates, though sometimes unsuccessfully for sure. This is a cause for great embarrassment and sometimes teasing and bullying. Guys quickly learn that solo sex is something that should be kept totally private.

Except, of course, that it is so much fun! Here is the interesting part. Guys generally spend most of their teen years thinking that having a quick orgasm, one that happens so fast that the amount of time required to do so and potentially being discovered, is minimum. This is a strategy for self-preservation, maintain an image of not being a jerk-off, and for limiting scolding from parents, or the possibility of teasing and bullying by siblings and peers. Is it not funny that sensations that are so pleasant are associated with fears, teasing and bullying?

Bill and Joe, however, are now finding themselves in a different place entirely. They do not have full erections and hard-ons. They are not near the point of going into a full-blown orgasm. They are clad in their compression gear, straps and cups and trying to engage in a gym workout. But all of this does not mean that they are experiencing no sexual feelings or pleasure whatsoever. Indeed, quite the opposite. After all, their penises are in some very confined spaces, and their brains are sensing that.

What Bill and Joe are experiencing right now is very difficult to describe using words alone, but let me try. Words are basically inadequate to describe what is happening to them both. Bill and Joe are both still quite flaccid, but that does not mean that their bodies are unaware of the situation unfolding. The compelling sensation is one of a slight but very pleasant tensing in the penis, often extending into much of the groin area. And, the production of pre-cum, lots of pre-cum. The guy is sensing this because there is clearly a damp spot that is building right at the tip of the penis. Got it? Maybe just by reading about what is happening to Bill and Joe will get you into the same situation.

Now Bill and Joe are both wearing straps and cups underneath their compression shorts, so it would be nearly impossible to see the damp spot the pre-cum is making at the tip of the penis. That is a relief for sure But how about the situation faced by the new swim team member getting into a swim brief for the first time. Isn’t the same thing going to happen to him? The only solution for this would be to get into the pool water as quickly as possible.

What about Dylan? Well he is thinking about all of this himself, and stuff is starting to happen to him as well underneath those sloppy shorts just thinking about how his body, deep down would like to be wearing the same items Bill and Joe are wearing. So Dylan is actually having a reaction to all of this, a reaction that actually began that night when Dylan saw Bill and Joe in the dorm room hall, clad in their compression gear. Since then, Dylan has not been able to get the gear out of his mind, and how his body is longing to “participate”. At least, Dylan is able to admit this to himself.

And what of Tony and Donovan, the rowers wearing the rowing singlets along with the thong underwear? Well, that is an equally interesting story too, but a story for another day!

…To be continued

Every guy is a little different, but…
 

Every guy is a little different, but every guy shares a lot in common, too. This is true for a lot of stuff about guys, but no more true when it comes to sexually arousing turn-ons.

At puberty, guys quickly learn how it feels to get an erection and then an orgasm with a full ejaculation. This is often times a very embarrassing time for a lot of guys going through puberty, as this sometimes happens at inopportune places and times, sometimes when other family members are present, or even worse, when peers are present, say, in a gym locker room, or even more embarrassingly, in a classroom.

And guys at puberty are very concerned about a whole bunch of things. First, no guy at this point wants to be labeled as a jerk-off by his peers. And all of this is interconnected with the possibility that the guy might be an emerging gay not straight. All of this presents major potential problems about when the guy enters junior high, you know, seventh and eighth grade are probably the most difficult, but all of these issues can easily extend well into high school, and perhaps even into college.

Guys have real difficulty admitting to anyone other than themselves that they can be turned on by anything other than a female. The latter is the only thing that is “safe” from the perspective of not being teased or bullied. Guys quickly figure this all out, but this means that they can never engage their male peers in any frank conversations about what is really going on inside their heads and bodies.

Some of all of this may gradually dissipate over time, with maybe college roommates being a bit more open with each other than they would have been in junior high or high school. In the case of Joe and Bill, they have worked their way through all of this. There is still the entire subject matter of what if I can be turned on by seeing/watching another guy. Does the fact that Bill and Joe each got turned on by knowing that the other was experiencing sexual thoughts and feelings in the bed next to each mean anything in terms of their sexuality, and if so, what? Why exactly did both Bill and Joe suddenly decide to wear their snug-fitting compression gear, straps and cups to the student gym, anyway? And where does Dylan, who has been watching this quietly, fit into all of this for goodness sake?

As a guy moves beyond puberty, he may very well discover that sexual feelings and responses are much more complex and interesting than just quickly having an erection and orgasm in some completely private place. There is this whole subject of how to get sexually turned on and aroused without any significant external signs of what is going on, as in lacking a big hard-on.

Tony and Donovan have certainly added a whole new twist to the story, a twist that caught even Bill and Joe completely off guard. For starters, are Tony and Donovan just a pair of straight college rowing team members, or is there something else going on here? Could Tony and Donovan be gay, perhaps even gay partners? That is not clear at this point at all.

When asked about what the pair wore under the rowing singlets, Tony was certainly up front with his answer. Why was he so candid about wearing a thong? What was the point in even revealing that to Bill and Joe? Admittedly, the whole idea of wearing a snug singlet over an equally snug thong sounds sexy as all get out, maybe even sexier than a strap and cup under compression shorts. Something Bill and Joe now would like to try for certain.

At this point, Bill and Joe are certainly feeling aroused, but so far at least, their erections are still under control. They are both dripping clear, viscous drops of pre-cum into their cups under their compression gear. They are both thinking that their next purchases will have to be tight wrestling singlets and thong underwear, stuff not readily available except on line.

Poor Dylan, he is experiencing much the same feelings while clad only in loose-fitting shorts. He is sensing drops of clear, viscous pre-cum forming right at the tip of his penis too, just thinking about the situation unfolding before him. He know, too that he needs to do something about all this, and make some purchases as well. The problem for Dylan is how to reconcile all of these thoughts and feelings with who he is or thinks he is, sexually? This is not simple, at all, for any of them.

…To be continued

Four options...
 

Male sexuality is really interesting. There is always partner sex and a lot of guys really enjoy that. But there are also really interesting situations whereby sexual arousal can occur in the absence of a partner, entirely. Any guy past puberty realizes that. In fact, many guys have probably figured this part out even before puberty. And certain clothing items can, for sure, stimulate this.

Let me review where we are in the story line. We have Bill and Joe who are clearly turned on by and wearing a combination of compression gear and straps, straps with cups. We have introduced Tony and Donovan, college rowing team members who are wearing snug-fitting wrestling singlets with equally snug-fitting thong underwear underneath. Then there is Dylan, who is largely unfamiliar with all of this, wearing loose-fitting shorts and an equally loose-fitting tee. But Dylan is clearly fascinated by what the other guys are wearing, fascinated to the point where he is clearly thinking that he wants to join in. What has been happening in Dylan’s brain and body is typical of what sometime, maybe even often happens when a guys has a first encounter with this sort of thing.

And what is this thing, anyway? Some kind of a weird clothing fetish? This all seems sexy but sexy without a partner. Are guys SUPPOSED to even react this way? That is a good question. No one really seems to know the answer to that one. Some people who call themselves trained psychologists, I guess, would label a sexual interest in a clothing item as a form of abnormal psychology for a guy. I am far more open-minded than this on the entire subject. I think that getting turned on by certain clothing items like this is all quite normal for guys, even though many are very reluctant to admit this. In short, having this happen is not in any way, shape or form weird or even considered a little bit strange or odd.

Let me play with my readers’ brains a little bit. I am going to give you four options each of which goes in a slightly different direction. The whole idea here is for you to determine if your body is interested in any of these options at all, and then, if your body is telling you that you are interested, which of the options would you be most enthusiastic about pursuing. How will you know for sure? Well, if any of the options is for you, you should feel a slight tensing in your groin area just reading about the option, and maybe a familiar wet drop of pre-cum forming at the very tip of your penis.

There actually is a fifth option. That option is that you brain and body is not aroused by any f the other four options. But then, I might ask, why are you reading what I am writing at all? That would seem to make no sense, whatsoever.

Option 1: I would like to try wearing what Bill and Joe are wearing. My body is telling me that I am very interested in wearing a snug-fitting pair of compression shorts along with an equally snug-fitting tee. I like the idea of wearing an old school jock with a cup. I’ve always admired the guys who had to do this, and I have always wondered how one of those would fit and feel.

Option 2: I would like to try wearing what Tony and Donovan are wearing. Getting into a somewhat undersized wrestling singlet would be really fun for me, and I also think it would be most interesting to wear a pair of thong underwear underneath. The idea of having a cord or elastic band cutting between the cheeks of my butt sounds really interesting, especially when paired with the wrestling singlet.

Option 3: What I have always wanted to do is wear a swim brief. But what kind of a swim brief would be the biggest turn-on? A low-cut brief with one-inch sides, one that shows a bit of my butt cheeks? Something slightly bigger and a bit less confining? How do guys deal with unexpected erections while wearing these, anyway?

Option 4: A pair of Asian style jeans. Asian-style jeans are cut really, really snug through the thigh and legs and cup your butt as well. They pair great with thong underwear, too.

So, which of these four options are you most interested in pursuing, as in giving you the strongest reaction in your groin area. Your groin should be telling you the correct answer to this quiz, the answer that is right for you.

Dylan has been pondering these options, too. [Personal note: I am wearing a singlet and thong as I write this. Highly recommended!]

…To be continued

This is tough, really tough…
 

Most guys probably have determined whether there is “stuff” like this that sends “signals” to their brains and bodies of this sort at a very early age, often right at puberty or just after. Whatever it is that “causes” this to happen is difficult if not impossible to control. Worse, for the post-puberty male, all of this somehow gets messed together with understanding the basics of how post-puberty sexual feelings work, which makes these things even more complicated to deal with. Another aspect of all of this has to do with what this all might or might not have to do with determining one’s sexual orientation, straight, gay or somewhere in between.

For a typical 14-year old, a basic question is how to deal with sexual feelings that are linked to inanimate objects such as items of clothing listed in the previous chapter. The poor guy is stuck probably thinking that he is somehow abnormal and weird if this is happening to him. If one starts reading the on line literature related to this, the entire subject is probably presented as a fetish, perhaps along with stuff related to a sexual fascination with other stuff such as women’s clothing, and this, in turn gets messed together with men who get turned on sexually by wearing female clothing as in transvestite.

But this is all definitely male clothing items: compression gear, straps swim briefs etc. The guys who wear this stuff generally are not aroused by wearing female clothing items. The guy starts to think that perhaps he is just going through some sort of a temporary “phase” which he will eventually either just outgrow as he gets older and starts to have adult-type partner sex feelings and turn ons. At least that is what the guy hopes. For goodness sakes, what do you do with this stuff once you get into a real adult-style relationship? Maybe once that happen, this other stuff will just go away, or so the guy fervently hopes.

Then there is a question as to how unique the guy believes he is. Do other guys my age have this exact same problem? This is a variation on the so-called locker room issue. What happens if I join the high school swim club and the coach insists I wear a swim brief? How do the other swim club members deal with this problem? Once again, am I unique in this regard? Maybe I will quickly get “used” to pulling on a tight fitting swim brief, strap or whatever, and its merely a matter of doing this frequently enough.

Then there is the problem that doing this stuff involving the gear is really fun to the point of being addictive. By the time a guy gets to be about 14, he has probably tried most of the plain ordinary methods of jerking off in the bathroom or under the covers by simply stroking and rubbing his penis. The slick-and snug clothing items introduces a whole new dimension to solo sex, and the guy realizes this all too well. Have the other guys my age figured this all out too? If not are they somehow “different” from me.

The guy typically then goes on a quiet effort to acquire the clothing items that he thinks will be the most sexually exciting to get into. This is tricky for a number of reasons. First, there are lots of subjects that guys feel open with their parents discussing, but this is definitely not one of these. But then how does one manufacture a plausible-sounding “excuse” for obtaining the item for goodness sakes?

Then there is the issue of making attempts to keep what you are interested in doing a secret from your peers of both sexes, but particularly from other males your age. Guys are really curious about what is happening to other guys their age and whether or not they are dealing with the same or similar issues, but this is not a topic appropriate for a conversation, in large measure because the guy bringing up the subject is likely to be labeled as a jerk-off, teased, bullied, or labeled as gay. Best to keep one’s mouth completely shut on the entire subject.

Joe and Bill are not 14 but 19, and have worked their respective ways through some of their inhibitions related to sexual turn-ons and procedures for jerking off. Further, they are now in college, and are able to figure out a way to buy the items they longed to own when they were 14 but could not find a way to do so earlier. That Joe and Bill are as open with each other with respect to what is going on in their respective heads and bodies is a rarity.

Tony and Donovan, the rowing club members at the gym, seem to have reached a level in this regard that Joe and Bill have not yet achieved. They are actively talking about what they are wearing and why it makes their gym workouts. Joe and Bill have not yet determined if Tony and Donovan are gay or not, let alone if they are gay partners. But they both certainly appear to be enjoying themselves immensely just wearing their gear and doing their gym exercises for the rowing team. They seem to have lost any inhibitions if they once had them.

Meanwhile, Dylan is watching all of this, quietly.


… To be continued

So, what happens next is…
 

Bill and Joe, after all, DID come to the student gym in order to get started on a schedule for working out, doing both aerobic exercises plus some weight lifting and other strength-building exercises.

The exercise bikes being free, Bill and Joe first decide to get on them and plan for about a 30 minute ride, covering the equivalent of about 4 miles at an average, comfortable speed.

But, do not forget that Bill and Joe are wearing straps and cups with compression gear over. They wore all of this on the walk from their dorm room to the student gym, and I might add that the walk over was uneventful” if you understand what I am trying to communicate to you here.

But also keep in mind that both Bill and Joe’s penises are held snugly within very narrow hard cups and the compression shorts are holding the cups firmly in place against their groins. Just walking in all of this can set up a bit of a situation with all of this, but as I indicated, the walk from the dorm room to the gym was uneventful.

The stationary bikes, however, are going to present a new set of issues that need to be accommodated. On the bikes, Bill’s and Joe’s thigh areas (as in the inner portions of the inside part of their legs) are going to be moving a lot more than it was on the simple walk to the gym. This could set up an interesting situation, for certain. The strap and cup are held firmly to the groin from the pressure of the compression shorts bearing down, but the inner thigh needs to move. Can the cup remain in a perfectly stable position with all the movement going on around it? Not likely, even with the compression shorts bearing down.

The cups are probably going to want to slide a little along with the inner thighs with each pedal turn on the bicycle. But remember, these cups fit snugly around the two penises. If the cup is going to move or slide with each pedal stroke, the penises are going to probably immediately “sense” what is happening, with a sense of movement taking place.

The sensations are not strong enough to send the stationary bike rider into an explosive orgasm. They are far more subtle than that. Just strong enough so that the guy’s brain is aware that something is happening down there, and what is happening is subtle but pleasant, very very pleasant.
The penises respond to the situation at hand like they always respond. First, there is an awareness that something interesting is happening. The snugness of the cups is a mixture of physical and psychological…the psychological part can easily be at least as mesmerizing as the physical sensation.

Penises do as penises do…The combination of physical and psychological tension results in that fascinating feeling of tension in the penis that the guys love so much…not a full-blown erection, but just that crazy, wonderful feeling down there of subtle tension that guys just always go goofy over.

Penises do as penises do. Once this is underway it is time to pre-cum. Bill and Joe can sense that there is a dampness forming inside the cup at the very tips of their penises. This sensation is a treat that is combined with the sense of snugness, the sense of movement, and a psychological sense of “this is really enjoyable, as in blow me away enjoyable.

All of this went on throughout the 30-minute stationary bike ride for both Bill and Joe. The 30 minute time span for the rides just sped by. Bill and Joe enjoyed their bike rides immensely, and vowed to do the same thing every time they went to the gym. This has become part of a not-to-be-missed workout schedule for Bill and Joe.

…To be continued

So what about Tony and Donovan then?
 

Tony and Donovan are obviously far more athletic than Bill and Joe, both being regular members of the College stationary rowing team. They both have more athletic builds than Joe and Bill, with broader shoulders, well developed lats that give their chests that wonderful and much-admired triangular shape and six-pack abdominal muscles.

Part of this relates to the fact that rowing is such a wonderful full-body workout, even better than swimming, perhaps. Certainly better than treadmill running and stationary bike riding. The only sport that I think might be better than rowing in this regard is men’s gymnastics, and that one is out of range for the vast majority of guys, even guys in college.

A basic issue is that if you are going to spend time working out, why not pick something that also gets you as quickly as possible to the body shape you are after, and rowing certainly fits the bill in this regard even if it is done only on a stationary machine.

A little “problem” is that rowing on a stationary machine can quickly get a little boring, and especially if done on workouts involving 30-minute sets. This is little different from a 30-minute ride on a stationary bike or 30-minute run on a treadmill in this regard.

So, the trick to making the rowing machine work is to find a way to make each stroke on the rowing machine more enjoyable and less boring. This is where the choice of what to wear for the workout becomes important.

I’ve already indicated on several occasions that most guys past puberty quickly learn how to get aroused, hard and to an orgasm under circumstances where there is a real fear that if they take too long they will be “discovered” jacking off by a sibling, a peer or even one of their parents. By their late teens most guys get very wary of any situation that appears to be even the start of the arousal, hard-on, ejaculation sequence. This WAS pretty much where Bill and Joe were when they entered college, but the past few months have been a learning experience for both Bill and Joe in all sorts of different ways, stuff they are coming to terms with outside of the college classroom.

Tony and Donovan are a little older and a little smarter about these sorts of things. Both Tony and Donovan realize something that guys find difficult to even comprehend in their early teens.. That is, the sensation of arousal need not necessarily immediately lead into an erection or an orgasm. Smart guys can “mess around” with the arousal sensation and make that sensation last for literally hours, if they want to. The trick is to get your mind and body aroused but not so aroused that the full-blown erection becomes the next step.

Messing around with this is something every guy should learn how to do, because in so doing his life will be improved in all sorts of ways in or out of a relationship with a partner. The entire subject is written up in the sex manuals under titles such as chapters dealing with “developing ejaculatory control” such that the guy acquires at least some degree of mind control over when in the process he has an orgasm. Interestingly, getting an erection and getting an orgasm are distinct events, and its possible to get an erection but not have an orgasm and its possible to have an orgasm without having an erection as well, and there are tricks for learning how to do this.

Arousal without an erection or an orgasm is the third part of this puzzle, the part of the puzzle that Tony and Donovan have become masters, and this is interlinked with their interest in college level competitive rowing.

Arousal is a not-to-be missed experience involving both the mind and the body. Arousal is a really fun experience for both the brain and groin area of the body. I suppose that a guy could get aroused by doing things like watching porn, but a more positive way on doing this is to make arousal an integral part of your gym workout.

So, Tony and Donovan are choosing clothing items that will help to get them aroused while working out on the stationary rowing machine. But exactly WHAT clothing items? Well the obvious one is the Lycra® wrestling singlets that “just happen” to fit snug and really tight in the groin area, and tug at the groin area with each rowing stroke.

Underneath, Tony and Donovan have admitted that they are wearing thong underwear, underwear that has an elastic band that cuts between the cheeks of their butts with every rowing stroke. The sensation on the rowing machine is, well, interesting to say the least.

What I haven’t told you yet is that Tony and Donovan are wearing something else between the Wrestling singlets and the thongs, in this case black Adidas with the triple white slashes and about 1 ½ inch sides. Interestingly, the brief’s fit right OVER the thong underwear and no one is the wiser at all.

Tony and Donovan have been known after the stationary rower workouts to strip off their singlets and jump right into the gym pool to cool off, dressed only in their tiny Adidas swim briefs (with their thong underwear cupping their male body parts underneath while protecting their swim brief from pre-cum “stains”.

How does a guy know whether he has found the correct combination of clothing for his personal situation? Well, that is where it becomes important for the guy to pay close attention to what is happening to him pre-cum wise. If you can feel a wet spot of pre-cum forming at the tip of your penis, you have likely found the spot you will want to be in for your workout to speed by.

Tony and Donovan’s respective workouts on the stationary rowing machines, lasting 30 minutes, sped by. They were completely “in the groove” and each stroke was enjoyable fun for some reason not difficult or boring at all…

Joe and Bill still have much to learn…and Dylan, quietly watching, and thinking about himself, his body, and what the other guys are all wearing.

…To be continued

Bill has a credit card…and Dylan wants in!
 

Bill and Joe learned a lot when they were at the student gym. They enjoyed the “breeziness” of Tony and Donovan and how they seemed to be so comfortable in their own skins, well their own skins covered in wrestling singlets. But what to do now?

Bill and Joe both knew that wrestling singlets were not something easily found at the big box sporting goods store. But Tony and Donovan made an interesting suggestion. Wrestling singlets could be easily ordered on line on Amazon®. Tony and Donovan were both wearing the asics® brand, and that gave Bill and Joe a place to start looking.

But there was one problem. In order to make an on-line purchase, a credit card was needed. But, no problem at all, as Bill had one. Bill could place the order and get the other guys to cover their items using cash.

Dylan wanted in. Dylan wanted some of the same stuff Bill and Joe had plus a wrestling singlet. The asics wrestling singlets came in black, crimson red, royal blue and forest green, and cost $38 USD each. But, what size? Well the whole idea was to wear these quite snug, and maybe down size just a bit. Bill, Joe and Dylan were all about the same size, typically about a men’s Medium. But if these were going to fit snug and tight, why not try downsizing to a Small instead? Tony and Donovan said they undersized a bit. Good idea! Joe went for the royal blue, Bill the Crimson red, and Dylan the Forest green

Dylan also wanted some of the other items that Joe and Bill had, namely compression shorts, tee, and, of course a strap and cup. But those were easily found on the on-line Web site. Dylan found some great- looking Tesla-branded compression shorts for $13 in a variety of colors. Dylan picked the electric green ones in Small. The matching Tesla compression tee was only $10. Then Dylan wanted a strap and cup as well, and he finally settled on the ProForce male supporter and cup set ($12). Sizing these is always tricky, but Dylan settled on the adult “small” for the best combination of fit and feel.

Plus, Dylan wanted to get a Swim brief as well, something he had never owned before. What came up was the Desmit Fashion swim brief ($11) . He ordered the men’s US small in the blue/geen color combination. Bill and Joe each ordered one of these, too.

Finally there was the thong underwear for under the singlets. Desmit also makes a men’s cotton micro thong ($6) that should be perfect in size Small. One for each of the three of them.

This is quite an order! Making an on-line order for stuff like this is always interesting mostly because of getting the sizing and fit right. Obviously, the right fit is a little different concept than it is for ordinary clothing, in part because the properly fitting clothing should be somewhat arousing…and that says snug fit, snugger than a guy might ordinarily wear during the day.

But even in making their selections, the guys’ bodies should be telling them whether or not they have gotten each item right or not. With the correct selection, each guy should be producing a drop or two of pre-cum. If that happens, the selection is probably right!

The order has now been placed, and should arrive in 4-5 days.

To be continued…

Some links...
 

It’s been a few days since Bill, Joe and Dylan placed their Amazon order. I thought some links would be useful so that you can see exactly what each of them ordered. If you want, you can then order something similar. Dylan, Bill and Joe are getting anxious for their package to arrive. I think you know what that means, in this case.

asics red wrestling singlet (Bill)
https://www.amazon.com/ASICS-Unrestr...stling+singlet

asics blue wrestling singlet (Joe)
https://www.amazon.com/ASICS-Solid-M...stling+singlet

asics green wrestling singlet (Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/ASICS-Unrestr...stling+singlet

Tesla Compression short (Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/TM-S17-BKRZ_M...pression+short

Tesla Compression Tee (Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/TM-R13-GRKZ_X...ompression+tee



ProForce strap and cup (Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/ProForce-Male...etic+supporter

Desmit fashion swim brief (Bill, Joe and Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/DESMIIT-Mens-...mit+swim+brief

Desmit thong underwear for under asics singlet (Bill, Joe and Dylan)
https://www.amazon.com/DESMIIT-Mens-...hong+underwear

To be continued…

The Anticipation...
 

The three 19-year olds Bill, Joe and Dylan body-wise and mentally are at the age that they are probably most sensitive both psychologically and physically to snug-fitting clothing of the kinds in the big order. This is in part due to the fact that none of them were put into a situation where they were expected to wear any of this stuff, stuff that basically is tied to certain sports pursued by males. Obviously, this is less of a big deal for students who wore this sort of stuff when they were younger. At that age, the guys who do not get to do this often wonder how their own bodies would deal with such a situation, and whether or not they would be able to tolerate the situation without some sort of perhaps “embarrassing” incident happening.

Dylan, in particular, is in the most difficult spot of the three of them. Bill and Joe have their experiences already wearing the compression gear, straps and cups, not only for the gym but during that wild and zany night they both had in the dorm room sleeping wearing the gear during that wild-and crazy dream.

Bill and Joe are having a major psychological impact on Dylan, even though they have openly discussed very little about what exactly has been going on. Dylan sees Joe and Bill in their straps, cups and compression gear and deep down admires very much how they look, while at tyhe same time secretly wondering how Dylan’s own mind and body would respond top being in a similar situation to that.

Then there is all the other stuff that looks and potentially feels interesting too, starting with the wrestling singlets, then the tiny Desmit swimming briefs, and those crazy underwear thongs that are going to make the wrestling singlets even more erotic and fun.

Dylan has not been able to keep his mind on his classes, as his mind keeps wandering over into the territory of thinking over and over about how his body could respond once he gets the order and is able to try the stuff on. Dylan has decided that the “safest” thing to do will be to quietly pick up his items and go to his own room, to try everything on in private.

Bill and Joe, having already been more open with each other about both of their bodies, both realize that part of the interesting fun will be to try getting into the stuff while the other guy is present to watch exactly what happens.

Dylan’s body is responding to all of these thoughts and issues even as he sits in his classes at school. Interestingly, as he sorts through all of this, he can feel a slight tensing in his groin area about where the zipper on his Levis 511 jeans runs. He can feel a distinct dampness on his white underwear briefs too, which seems to be getting bigger the more his mind wanders off in this direction. Dylan is hoping that the spot doesn’t get too big and show through as a quarter-sized damp area right on his Levis jeans.

To be continued....

Dylan’s dilemma…
 

Dylan in particular now faces quite a dilemma. He is now clueless as to how his body (and brain) might respond to the new items he just ordered on Amazon. That may actually overstate the situation Dylan is about to face, if only by a little bit. Dylan passed through the early years of post-pubescence much like every other guy did, gradually learning how to appreciate the various sensations and feelings that might emanate from the groin area and resulting in a sensation of euphoria in the brain. Initially at least, guys are at least somewhat mystified as how their brains and bodies can be so interconnected in such interesting and potentially wonderful ways.

Guys that age generally understand that what they are feeling and enjoying has something to do with sex and relationships, but this too remains something of a mystery as exactly how this all fits together. But, of course, at age 14 or 15, the opportunities and advisability of actually engaging in penis-vagina sex with a female partner are not only limited but clearly not advisable. But guys still enjoy the feelings and sensations that are happening to them, even if sex with a partner is not involved.

Not surprisingly, guys soon learn that there are techniques and ways of manipulating themselves to produce these wonderful feelings and sensations even in the absence of a sexual partner. There is, of course, plain ordinary male masturbation, stroking and rubbing your penis to the point whereby it gets big and hard and leads to a wonderful, full-scale orgasm. By the time a guy reaches about 15, most guys have got this technique down pretty well. It is only somewhat later that guys begin to appreciate the idea that a quick masturbation to orgasm is not really all there is, indeed there is more, a whole lot more. Yes, interesting situations available to guys who are not into some sort of a sexual relationship with a partner.

Dylan has known from before puberty that his groin area was quite sensitive when it is touched by anything. Snug-fitting items of clothing that fit tight in the groin area have always been something of a sexual turn-on for Dylan, but this will be the first time that Dylan will get to experiment with this on his own, and away from his parents.

Dylan does not know at this point exactly what his body is going to do when the order arrives and he gets the opportunity to “try on” each of the purchases. Will he go immediately into a firm erection, or not? The various items Dylan selected to purchase will each pose a different “situation” to deal with. In the case of the little Desmit swim briefs will Dylan be able to fit himself into the not very roomy pouch/ How will Dylan position himself?
The strap and cup pose a different dilemma. How will Dylan’s penis respond to a situation of being inside a not-very-roomy had cup with the strap bearing down on him at the same time?

Then there is the thong. How will that feel with the snug elastic strap coursing between the cheeks of his butt? Then what happens if you are pulling over the wrestling singlet over the thong? A correctly-fitting pair of men’s thong underwear pushes the anatomy up and forward. The Singlet presses downward, making the penis appear something like a “button” in profile. That should be interesting for Dylan, to say the least.

Finally, there are those wild green compression tees and shorts Dylan ordered . These might be the most difficult for Dylan’s brain and body to cope with at all.

But coping with all of this is what Dylan somehow must do. Dylan’s mind has been wandering in his classes just thinking about the situations he is about to get himself into once the order arrives. And his body has been responding to the daydreams about all of this. Dylan has been pre-cumming just thinking about all of this, a lot, more than Dylan thought he was even capable of producing.

What fun, just thinking about all of this!

To be continued…

The big order arrives, and Dylan tries on some of his stuff
 

The big, soft package finally arrives, and Bill and Joe call Dylan to their room in order to open the package and divide the stuff. Dylan has several different items in the package, namely the ProForce strap and cup, the Tesla Compression shorts and Tee in a bright lime green, that little Desmit bi-color swimming brief, the Desmit thong underwear, and, of course, the asics wrestling singlet in forest green. Recall that there are three asics singlets in the package, one in royal blue, a second in crimson red, and Dylan’s forest green one.

The guys decide to divide the stuff according to how they each made their order, and then simply take their time to try everything on “to see how it fits”. This is a particularly “exciting” time for Dylan, who has never owned this kind of stuff before. To be sure, he thought about it, but until he got to college, he had never really had the “opportunity” to act on his interests.

So, Dylan takes his stuff and decides to head back to his room. As you have probably determined by now, the combination of items is going to put a lot of “pressure” on Dylan, some psychological and some physical.

What is really going on here. Once he got past puberty, of course Dylan had experience jerking off. (What guy doesn’t at that age?) But Dylan, like nearly every other guy his age, faced the usual “barriers” to trying stuff. What guys normally learn is how to jerk off in a hurry, that is, go from flaccid penis to orgasm as fast as possible, lest someone ( a sibling, a parent or a peer) discover what you are up to. Now, however, Dylan has a degree of privacy. Dylan’s roommate, John, had gone home for the weekend and Dylan had the room to himself. Dylan looked at all of this as an excellent opportunity to try out some stuff he had always wondered about but never had the opportunity.

So Dylan now has all these items each of with present some real possibilities for fun. So what of this list has got Dylan hooked to try? That is certainly an interesting question to try and answer. But remember, not being a high school athlete, Dylan never had the opportunity to get himself inside a strap, let alone a strap with a hard cup. Dylan had always wondered how the other guys “dealt” with these, the basic question being what happens if you get a hard-on inside the cup, and the cup is not spacious enough to contain you erect? Most guys have certainly at least thought about that one. Its tough to even think about that problem without pre-cumming at least a little. And Dylan has been thinking about that problem ever since he placed the order in fact. Now the strap and cup is right in front of him, waiting to be tried on.Dylan is getting more and more excited.

So, what does Dylan do first? He finds the scissors in his desk drawer and cuts into the clear plastic casing that currently confines the strap and cup. The strap and cup are separate, and some snaps hold the pouch for the cup closed. He loosens the snaps and slips the cup into its correct place in the pouch.

Dylan realizes now that it is time for him to strip down naked and to put the strap and cup on his groin. Dylan’s penis realizes that is where Dylan is too, and the response is a few drops of clear, gooey pre-cum. Dylan is now feeling a clear tingling and tightening sensation right at the base of his penis, too, although he has not really grown any, or at most, only a little. Dylan psychologically is very much aware that his penis is going to soon be in a quite confined space, and what is bugging him is the possibility that the walls of his penis is soon going to be in direct contact with the pouch containing the cup. What happens if, well, Dylan “grows” inside the cup? What does it feel like if the penis walls come in contact with the pouch containing the hard cup? The usual “response” to such direct physical contact, Dylan knows, is for a penis to respond by getting bigger around and longer. But what if the cup doesn’t provide enough room for growth? Quite a dilemma to be sure.

Dylan manages to pull on the cupped strap and get it into position. What an interesting sensation. Psychologically Dylan is very much aware that the strap and cup are there, yes, very much psychologically. But physically he is aware too..he can feel the cup bearing down on the top and sides of his penis. Wow! The net result is a very pleasant “tingly” sensation, different from anything Dylan has ever experienced just doing “normal” jerking off. Dylan doesn’t feel ready to go into a full-scale orgasm, yet he knows he is pre-cumming, profusely. He can feel the inside of the cup getting damp right at the tip of his penis.

This is actually quite a special treat for Dylan, both physically and psychologically. Dylan now realizes that he could be in this “condition” inside the strap and cup for a long period of time, maybe hours. This is certainly not some two-minute jerk-off session for sure. Dylan loves it. Dylan is quite aroused but his penis is still well below the point where it would need to be in order to go into a full-scale orgasm. Something of a predicament of sorts, but a way fun predicament to be in.

But, what next? Dylan decides that what he really wants to do is to pull the asics forest green wrestling singlet over the top of the strap and cup. That should only add to the delicious “agony” Dylan is in.

To be continued…

Dylan “copes” with the pressure, as best he can
 

“Whew, that cup and strap fits snug” Dylan thinks to himself. Growing up, Dylan had never had the opportunity to be in a strap before, let alone a little hard cup. For Dylan, the sensations he is experiencing are all new, fun but a bit terrifying at the same time.

Dylan is obviously quite aroused, and his brain is sending strong signals that some interesting stuff is happening in his groin area. But his penis is basically confined inside the strap and cup. Dylan would love to rub and stroke himself like he did when he got these feelings in high school, but the interesting part is that the strap and cup acts like a barrier to prevent him from making any direct finger content with his penis as he would very much like to do. But, meanwhile, Dylan’s penis seems to somehow “know” that it is in a confined space, and his penis has expanded to the point where Dylan can sense that it is taking advantage of all of the space that is available inside the strap and cup and somehow “knows” that it is pressing against the walls of the cup.

This is a fascinating predicament for Dylan to be in for the first time. Under ordinary circumstances, Dylan would stroke himself and quickly get to a strong orgasm, but given where he is at, he cannot do this. But his body keeps telling his brain that he is aroused, really aroused, although not quite strongly enough to get off. Dylan is mentally “surfing along” just under an orgasm. This is fun, crazy fun maybe, but way fun for Dylan to experience. Wow! How long can Dylan’s body take this situation? I guess Dylan will find out.

What next? Keep in mind that Dylan is just trying on the stuff he got in his Amazon order, and all he has gotten to so far is just that ProForce strap and cup. But there is more stuff, a lot more stuff. Stuff that Dylan thinks could get even more interesting to put on.

What next? Dylan decides that next he would like to try on his new forest green asics wrestling singlet. He takes the tags off and starts to put it on.

The singlet fits tight too, really tight and snug. The size Dylan got certainly does not leave him any extra room. He pulls the singlet up around his waist and tries to pull the shoulder straps over his shoulders. This is not that easy. The material stretches, but this is heavy-duty stretch material, and does not have much give to it, especially so with a brand new singlet.

What is going on here? Well, a wrestling singlet is made for, well, wrestling. The whole idea is to have a snug-and tight fit so that your wrestling opponent does not have any even slightly loose cloth in the singlet that he can grab during the match. A loose-fitting singlet would defeat the purpose for the sport.

But remember that Dylan is pulling the singlet over his ProForce strap and cup, and then trying to get the shoulder straps in place.

The pressure from the strap and cup alone has been tough enough for Dylan to deal with. But getting the straps over his shoulders poses yet another problem, as in order to do that the singlet needs to be pulled up really snug in the groin area. Good for wrestling, but getting into the singlet will put upward pressure right in the groin area as well, as in right where the cup is now bearing down on Dylan’s penis. Not only that, this is heavy duty stretch material, and once the singlet is in place with the shoulder straps in the proper position, the singlet itself is going to bear down on the strap and cup, pressing it even more snugly against Dylan’s groin area.

Guys who wear straps and cups for sports are aware of the issues Dylan has been experiencing. With something looser-fitting, say a baseball uniform, its common to see guys quietly grab their cups to re-position them a bit in an effort to improve comfort. The problem with this strategy, of course, is that if your penis is already pressing against the cup walls, any movement of the cup is probably going to “encourage” the penis to grow a bit, making matters worse instead of better for the guy who is struggling.

Not to worry! Once Dylan struggled but successfully got into his new singlet, the cup and strap is pressing so snugly against his groin that Dylan can hardly move it with his hand at all.

But Dylan is still aroused, way aroused. Dylan is pre-cumming profusely now, with the pre-cum collecting inside the pouch containing the cup. Dylan can feel the accumulating wetness. Dylan finds the sensation of all that gooey pre-cum that is forming to be interesting to say the least. Its part of the overall sensation of feeling aroused but not ejaculating.

At some point Dylan will have had enough, and will want to quickly pull off the singlet, strap and cup and then stroke himself to a really powerful orgasm. The pressure to do this is building inside of Dylan’s head and body. But for now, Dylan is having too much fun for it to all be over and he discovers all these new sensations and feelings that are suddenly available to him. Dylan now is beginning to appreciate what Bill and Joe have been doing, and what Tony and Donovan were up to is coming into focus for Dylan too.

To be continued…

Body and mind
 

Dylan is experiencing something quite special in both his body and mind. I guess every guy must be a little different in this regard, but Dylan has really become hooked on the sensations he is now experiencing, perhaps even to a greater degree than Bill and Joe have been hooked.

This all began for Dylan when he first encountered Joe and Bill in the dorm room hallway wearing their compression gear, straps and cups that night awhile back. Something caught Dylan’s attention, something he had not realized even existed before. From that point in time, Dylan somehow knew that he was destined to wear similar gear if he only could. Dylan realized too that the gear was affecting Bill and Joe in what at the time seemed to be strange but subtle ways.

Now Dylan found himself in the middle of all of this, indeed, enjoying himself is ways that he never before realized was even possible. What Dylan was now experiencing certainly had not been taught in his high school health education class.

A still bigger mystery was how all of these experiences were related (or not) to having real sex with a partner. Dylan knew that he was enjoying himself immensely, but he did not know whether what he was doing was ok or not. Maybe he was having too much fun for his own good, and as a consequence would lose any interest in having sex with a partner. That was a weighty thought to ponder, for certain, but maybe an issue that did not need to be resolved for now..

Equally puzzling was the sequence of events that happened as Dylan started to put on the gear. The gear felt, well, just tight and somewhat uncomfortable for sure, but definitely not erotic. And then almost, as if by magic, lightning-bolt like streaks of pure pleasure coursed through his body. But oddly enough, Dylan was not ejaculating when these pleasure pangs developed. He was just standing there, thinking about his penis and where it was located firmly inside the cup, strap and wrestling singlet. The sensations were certainly different from a full-blown orgasm, but equally pleasant if not more so. And they seemed to last a long time, many minutes, not hours. What a weird situation! But Dylan was enjoying himself so much he was not about to quit.

Of course, Dylan had read some of the sex education manuals for guys. The point these manuals made over and over again is that a basic problem in a sexual relationship with a partner is often something called premature ejaculation. That is, getting aroused and erect, entering the partner, and then ejaculating almost immediately once inside. The manuals keep saying that the longer the guy can delay orgasm while maintaining arousal with an erect penis, the more fun sex will be for both the guy and his partner. These comments were very different from what Dylan had learned as a youngster about the need to masturbate and get it done with as quickly as possible so as not to be accidentally discovered by a parent, sibling or peer while he was in jerk-off mode.

Dylan by now was quite aroused and at least partly erect, but no one could tell that because his erection was held tightly inside the cup which was inside the singlet. Furthermore, he was not fully ready to ejaculate, and given where his penis was located he couldn’t stroke it. For that to happen, all the gear was going to have to come off.

But Dylan was not of the mindset that he wanted all of this to end right now, even if the end meant a really powerful orgasm. Better to just kick back and let the tension slowly build on its own, and see how far a guy can take this. No hurry to end all of this for sure.

To be continued…

Dylan ponders his situation
 

Clad in his snug-fitting ProForce strap and cup and his equally tight asic wrestling singlet, Dylan absolutely has been enjoying himself immensely. What began for a moment of discomfort, almost pain, as he was getting himself correctly positioned inside his gear has suddenly morphed into some of the most pleasant sensations Dylan has ever experienced in his young life.

“How can this be this good?” Dylan thinks to himself. The sensations are almost like being high on drugs, but at the same time all natural and perfectly safe. Dylan wonders if what he is experiencing happens for other guys as well when their minds and bodies are confronted with similar circumstances. That is an interesting question for sure. Is what Dylan experiencing right now unique or commonplace? And how do all these sensations Dylan is experiencing relate to having physical sex with a partner? Is this somehow an alternative or replacement for that, or is Dylan leaning things about how his mind and body reacts to being put into snug-fitting situations that could ultimately prove useful to understand in a real partner-focused relationship?

Dylan keeps thinking to himself about what other guys who wear various kinds of snug-fitting clothing might or might not be experiencing in their own minds and bodies as well. Are these guys undergoing a similar experience to the one Dylan is now enduring? For example, what of Tony and Donovan, the college rowing team members who admitted to wearing thong underwear under the singlets they were wearing for rowing practice. Could there be something interesting going on for them too, Dylan wonders. Dylan has discovered that he is somehow strangely fascinated just thinking about all of this and pondering what other guys might or might not be experiencing when their bodies are subjected to being inside snug-fitting clothing of various kinds.

Dylan has been rolling all of this over and over in his mind ever since that accidental encounter he had with Bill and Joe wearing their compression gear while walking down the dorm hallway. Somehow, seeing Bill and Joe that night set off some lights and alarm bells in Dylan’s brain…lights and alarm bells that he somehow could not seem to extinguish or stop. From that night on, Dylan knew exactly what he wanted to do too, and the Amazon order gave him the opportunity to try a bunch of different ideas.

To be sure, Dylan always thought he was a bit weird when it came to the entire subject of snug-fitting clothing, and this part of him he had never dared reveal to his peers, let alone his parents or siblings. Dylan has always known that somewhere there was a special place that happened whenever he got into a situation where he could (or was perhaps forced) to wear snug-fitting clothing of all sorts. Dylan had always been a tighty whitey briefs (not boxers) kind of a guy. He liked how cotton briefs gripped his male anatomy and that experience served as something of a tamer introduction to what he was going through right now.

It didn’t take him long to learn that the snugger his briefs fit the better he felt down there. So he would sometimes sort through the briefs in his dresser drawer to find the smallest pair. He often did this as a prelude to jerking off in his room late at night, long after everyone else in the house was asleep. He would sometimes crawl under the covers wearing only his favorite briefs and stroke himself to a heavy-duty ejaculation. Dylan had frequently wondered if other guys his age did the same thing or something similar, jerk-off in the tightest pair of briefs they could find in their dresser drawers. Somehow, loose-fitting boxers did not work for this, and Dylan wondered why so many of his friends seemed to wear boxers almost exclusively. Did the other guys simply not know about this, or were they somehow avoiding such a situation to keep this from happening?

Dylan has a brother who is three years younger than him, Jason. When Dylan was 14, Jason was 11. As is commonplace, sibling males usually end up wearing the same style of underwear, but, of course, Jason at 11 was considerably smaller than Dylan at 14. Dylan recalls thinking about this. As Jason was just entering puberty, Dylan wondered a lot about what was going on with Jason’s mind and body, but interestingly, male siblings never dare ask the questions to each other that are important to them. Jason had a lot of questions he would have liked to have asked Dylan, and Dylan would have liked to better understand what Jason was going through, but none of these questions ever get asked or answered, as both parties are too embarrassed.

But one night at age 14 Dylan was feeling particularly horny. At that point in time Dylan was wearing tighty whiteys boys size 18 which are nearly as big as the men’s size SM. Dylan knew that Jason’s briefs were such smaller, boys sizes 12 and 14. After all, Jason was only 11. Dylan snuck into Jason’s dresser drawer and “borrowed” a pair of Jason’s briefs. He found a pair labeled boys size 12. Dylan rationalized this all of the basis that Jason was undergoing puberty, and had probably outgrown what looked to be overly tiny white cotton briefs anyway.

That night, Dylan struggled to get himself into the tiny boy’s briefs, but somehow he managed to accomplish this. Dylan suddenly felt really, really horny, and he knew he was going to have to get off, and soon. Two things were going on here. First, the briefs Dylan had borrowed from Jason were really tight, and at least at first, uncomfortable. Secondly Dylan was pondering what it made him feel like to wear another guy’s briefs, even if the other guy was his little brother Jason. Dylan got hard and was ejaculating into the briefs in only a very short period of time.

The only thing Dylan had to figure out was how to get those cum-stained briefs into the weekly laundry loads. He figured the simple solution was top just mix them in with his own wash which included several pairs of white cotton underwear although a larger size. If his mom discovered the cum-stained size 12 briefs, briefs that belonged to Jason, she might only conclude that Jason was making “real progress” in becoming a man. No issues here for sure, as mom was not about to do research on whether the cum stain belonged to Jason or to Dylan.

From that night on, Dylan knew that both his mind and body loved snug-fitting clothing, and that in some ways he was hooked on the entire experience. Now a 19-year old and in college, Dylan increasingly had been wondering whether his experiences with clothing as a young teenager were at all like the experiences his college buddies had as young teenager.

Growing up, Dylan also had a thing for really skinny undersized jeans to the point where he almost never threw out jeans that had obviously gotten too small for him as his body grew. But the events there are a story for another day.

These are questions relating to stuff normal college guys do not ask each other, but Dylan had already learned a lot just by quietly watching Bill, Joe, Tony and Donovan and how they seemed to be reacting to various things. Maybe Dylan was not quite as weird about all of this as he only recently thought he was. Maybe these sensitivities to clothing for guys are not rare but indeed quite commonplace, and maybe a lot of guys like to set up situations where they expect to get horny but are not able to ejaculate in order to release the building pressure. Maybe Dylan is fine. Maybe Bill, Joe, Tony and Donovan are just normal guys who like to enjoy themselves too, just like Dylan does.

Meanwhile, Dylan’s body has filled the cup to the point where Dylan has no more space to expand into, but Dylan still can’t get off. The cup is pressing on three sides of his penis, and the snug singlet makes the cup bear down and press against Dylan’s groin. It doesn’t help that Dylan has been thinking about all of this, stuff that happened to him when he was in high school and stuff his college buddies are doing now.

To be continued…

Thinking back...
 

Dylan keeps thinking back about events that occurred when he was a few years younger in high school. Dylan has always thought that his body and in particular his groin area was particularly sensitive to all sorts of different kinds of snug-fitting clothing, and as an adolescent, he was always figuring out ways that took full advantage of his sensitivities. This situation first became apparent to Dylan when he was only about 11, at the very dawn of puberty. Actually, Dylan had already discovered some of these feelings and sensitivities far earlier than that, maybe when he was as young as 7 or 8 years is all.

By the time Dylan was 14, he had developed a list of clothing items that he thought might be fun to wear and had started developing strategies that would allow him to obtain the items that he thought would be interesting and fun to try wearing, as well as a developing a “plan of attack” for doing this. For a 14-year old, none of this was that easy. Dylan wondered if the other boys his age were coping with the same or similar thoughts and problems. The first problem was identifying the specific items that he thought would be fun. Problem 2 was obtaining those items, and this often involved convincing his parents that he needed these things that seemed a bit odd and that they would make sense for him. The third problem was finding a time and place at that age where he could run some “experiments” with the various items.

Parents can often time be a little difficult in these efforts. Boys at 14 are growing rapidly in all sorts of places. Often times a major consideration for parents is buying clothes for their boys that will last a while and thus are oversized. If what they are buying is loose-fitting and sloppy, at least initially, so be it. That is just a “price” paid to get ‘longer wear” out of the pieces of clothing being purchased.

But loose and sloppy-fitting was and is not where Dylan’s mind was going at that age, not at all. Dylan at age 14 was thinking snug and tight, and the snugger and tighter the better. Already, Dylan had discovered that Dylan was very sensitive to snug and tight, and just thinking about this produced some very enjoyable sensations both in his groin area and mind. Dylan wanted more. A lot more. The more Dylan thought about this and what was happening to how he felt, the more excited he got. Further, the more his parents denied Dylan the items he sought the more interested he got in wanting to go exactly there. So, inadvertently, Dylan’s parents in their actions were making Dylan ever more interested in pursuing this.

What were the items? Dylan has been pondering this entire question for at least 5 years. There were several items. We can assume that anything on Dylan’s list might be a useful aid to jerking off For example, we know that Dylan really loved very snug-fitting cotton briefs. Indeed, anything that ends up ultimately getting nicely cum-stained probably can go right to the top of the list. But the cotton briefs are just the start.

Dylan also knew that he liked a lot of different kinds of sports gear that fits close to his body, compression shorts and tees, athletic supporters and similar. Then there are the jeans. For a long time in Dylan’s short life, Jeans were only sold that fit really loose in the butt, leg and thigh, and these were anything but a turn on. But when Dylan turned 16, about three years ago, this started to change in a hurry, and slim-fitting, or shall I say, snug-fitting jeans almost overnight became really popular. Once Dylan discovered that jeans fitting snug in the butt, thighs and legs, there was a little signal that suddenly went off in Dylan’s brain that this was where his brain and body wanted him to go.

What was happening to Dylan? Dylan wasn’t entirely certain, but he really knew he wanted a pair of skinny jeans. But, convincing his parents that he had to have a $40 pair of Levi’s 511® skinny jeans was not going to be easy. (Dylan actually really wanted the Levis 510® super-skinny jeans, but they were $58 so that one went from difficult to totally impossible.)

Of Course, Dylan’s parents still followed the old decision rule that said buy clothes oversize because then the boys (Dylan and Jason) can grow into them and wear the clothing for more than a year or so.

Dylan at 16 knew he had not yet finished growing, so jeans, even 511 jeans, that seemed a little loose now, were going to get snugger and tighter as Dylan added body muscle over time.

Dylan still has this pair of 511’s, a sand-colored pair that he had gotten when he was 16, and this pair of jeans went along with him to college. The same jeans that once fit a little loose when his parents bought them for him at 16, were gradually fitting snugger and tighter over time. Dylan still loved to “try on” these jeans, particularly when he was feeling a little horny. He would try them on and look at himself in the dorm room mirror. He loved it that the mirror revealed that even though he was wearing jeans, it was still quite apparent in the mirror that he was a guy. And he loved the ever snugger fit in the butt, thigh and even through his calf muscles, which were now filling out the lower part of the legs of the skinny jeans. The combination of a pair of tighty-whiteys and the jeans felt really good to Dylan.

But today, Dylan had gone to another place entirely. The items he got out of the Amazon® order were many things that Dylan could have never purchased even with his own money, when he was in high school, because Dylan knew his parents would have objected or would have started asking questions that Dylan would have been too embarrassed to try and answer (“Dylan, why do you NEED a jock strap?” Dylan could have hardly said to his parents “Because I think it might be fun to try masturbating into!”) You see what the problem would have been. No guy dares openly tell his parents that he wants specific clothing items because he thinks these items are a turn-on to help him masturbate more powerfully. That is just too blunt, but Dylan also suspects that other guys have these same or very similar thoughts and interests, and are in the same boat in dealing with their parents. Guys try their best, and manage to get what they can while trying all along to leave the appearance that nothing is going on in their brains and bodies.

But now as a young adult and off to college, Dylan was able to pursue getting the exact items he always thought would be fun to wear. Dylan’s experience hanging out with Bill, Joe, Tony and Donovan at the school gym was a real eye opener. The Amazon order became the list of stuff Dylan would have loved to have access to as a 16-year old, but could not. And remember where Dylan is right now, clad in a snug-fitting forest green asics wrestling singlet, strap and cup. The sensations Dylan is experiencing now are nothing short of amazing, and something is bound to happen. Maybe that something is already happening.

To be continued…