The Japanese Speedo video Story

[sebbie]

Part 1 of a new series

The other day, I was doing a Web search on Google using the terms “Japanese speedo”. One of the earlier hits took me to an X-rated video site, and up popped a lengthy video lasting 20 minutes involving an Asian guy in a skimpy little suit. I am not normally a guy who sits around watching X-rated porn, but after about 30 seconds, this particular video “had” me.

As I continued to watch the video, I got more and more ‘involved” in what I was seeing. The Web site was obviously directed at gays with uploaded amateur videos featuring explicit gay sex, but one of the first things that occurred to me watching this particular video was that much of what I was seeing would apply equally well in all sorts of different sexual-arousal situations. For starters, many of the arousal techniques could be used in solo-sex. A guy could experiment with the specific techniques alone, and only later with a partner. Second, many of the techniques could prove interesting irrespective of the sex of the partner—only in the very late stages does this become specifically gay sex, and it is the earlier parts of the video that sexually are most interesting, anyhow. In other words, women could learn some things here too, not that women frequent gay video sites to learn sexual techniques for their men.

Third, for those of you interested in perfectly-safe yet highly-arousing partner sex involving tiny swimwear, there are lessons that can be learned here. Again, only in the very-late stages do potentially unsafe practices occur, and that is by far definitely not the most interesting part of the video.
The subject in the suit featured in the video takes ejaculatory control to a whole new level. This is always a fascinating topic for me, and I continue to write a lot on the subject. How he manages to hold himself together in this regard with everything that is happening around him is nearly super-human, but that in part is why the video gets a lot of hits.

Now, some of you are going to be probably racing to Google to try and find the video I watched that forms the basis for this, but for now I am going to tease you by NOT giving you the Web address. Hang tight with me and DON’T go rushing to do a Web search and ruin the story line. Instead, I am going to walk you through the video verbally in a series of stories, each adding my own twists to the ideas from the video. For now at least, you do NOT need to have a sexual-partner handy. We will get to that in later chapters. Instead, all you will need is a skimpy, snug-fitting swimsuit of your choosing. I presume that there is no one here who is short of a number of choices in that regard. As you all know, I certainly do!

So, I am assuming that you have pulled on your suit, and it is not only fitting glove-tight all over, but it is leaving you with only a little bit of space to place you equipment. Because of all of this, you are at least a little bit aroused, and you are experimenting with exactly where to place you penis. The easiest fit is to place it horizontally, to the side. I’ve noticed that guys who position themselves to the side usually point themselves to the left not the right. I’m researching the question of whether right-handed guys like to point left, but left-handed guys like to point right. This topic clearly needs further study.

The suit on the guy in the video is blue, and he is pointing left. Your suit could be blue or some other color. You are assumed now have your suit on, pointing left, slightly aroused, and lying down. The outline of your penis is now clearly and increasingly visible under the suit. End of part 1. …To be continued.

[MicroRon]

Seems like I need a virgin muscleskin while I wait for the rest of your postings. Good thing Jupiter is revising his fitting options... thinner and more form fitting should help my erotic anticipation... Thanks for the cheery beginning, Sebbie !!~~!!

[sebbie]

OK so now the Japanese Speedo guy is blindfolded. He is lying down too. There is another guy in the video, plus a cameraman who initially appears to have no role in the video except for holding the camera. I notice that the Japanese guys like to be lubed up with a clear lube all over their bodies—this looks oily but probably is not. This Japanese Speedo guy appears to have clear oil or other clear lube all over his body. Remember, the Japanese Speedo guy is blindfolded. Now the other guy starts to touch the Japanese Speedo guy by lightly-but rapidly moving his fingers all over the guy's body. His fingers are moving rapidly. He stops a bit at the man-tits and caresses those. He moves his fingers around the groin area. He circles around the Japanese Speedo guy's somewhat erect penis, ant touches all the areas right around his penis through the blue swimming brief. But, interestingly, he avoids any direct touching of the penis. He gets very near to it, but circles around it with a light touch of his fingers. He is only there momentarily. After that, me moves back to the guy's inner thighs, then quickly back to the man-tits, which, of course, are also lubed, and then quickly back down to circling around but not touching the penis. The Japanese Speedo guy seems to tense, involuntarily, and he lets out some slight groans of pleasure, as if where the fingers are heading next is unknown and thinking about this uncertainty is aeousing....to be continued.

[sebbie]

There is nothing more arousing than being able to closely watch a guy getting aroused, but then, in particular, fighting off the urge to ejaculate immediately as the psychological and physical sensations combine to cause the pressure persistently build. A lot of the fun of wearing a really snug-and-brief suit is that such a suit almost invariably gives the guy a partial erection, which is quite noticeable if you pay attention (and who, gay or straight does not?) , and the fun here is seeing how other guys cope with the building psychological and physical tension, particularly in a public or semi-public setting.

There is a fairly lengthy front end to this video, all in Japanese, where they ask the guy a series of questions and he comments on what he is about to undergo. Since I do not understand Japanese, I can only imagine what he is saying. I expect, however, that he is telling about the skills he has acquired in developing ejaculatory control, even under the most extreme psychological and then physical pressure to get off. And, the video, running nearly 20 minutes, is this a huge treat to watch to see how he manages the various pressures, psychological and physical, being thrown at him! A lesser guy would be able to last only a minute or two under such intense circumstances.

At this point in the video, just a few minutes in, you can easily tell that the guy is already straining to control his urge to ejaculate. But, keep in mind that the video continues for another 20 minutes or so.
So far, the guy giving him the treatment with the fingers has moved around a lot, and the result of his is that he appears to be tensing up at point, almost convulsing particularly as the fingers touch unexpected places. So far, this has got to be sexually exciting, but not enough to cause an immediate ejaculation.

However, his skills at ejaculatory control are going o be tested more thoroughly, much more thoroughly.

Suddenly, a big electric vibrator appears in the video. I think the cameraman, an as yet unseen third guy involved in the video, is holding this. The vibrator is no wimpy unit running on AA batteries, It is very large, obviously running on AC current, with a head that both rotates and vibrates. As it runs, it emits a loud and low-pitched growl. Remember, our Japanese Speedo guy has been blindfolded through all of this, and can only guess where the loud growl is coming from. They start by hitting his body with the vibrator, but away from his penis and groin area. He must fairly quickly realize that the tool being used on him is a powerful vibrator. As the vibrator first touches his chest and abdomen, you can see his body tensing up and straining to maintain control, and he emits some low-pitched growls of his own. These guys are serious about testing his ejaculatory-control skills, and are not going to let him off easily. And, so far at least, the big vibrator head has not been anywhere ner his suit-clad now more obviously erect penis....to be continued.

[sebbie]

At this point, the urge do ejaculate must be becoming nearly unbearable, but we are only 6 or 7 minutes into what is a 20-minute video. Now, the cameraman guy pulls out a squeeze bottle of a clear gel-like lube, and starts squeezing globs on his blue suit, near to and also on what is clearly the bulge of his long, horizontal penis right under the suit. The poor guy is still blindfolded. He picks up the sensations of what his happening to him but he can't see. The other guy is still fingering and fondling him on various parts of his chest and groin. The cameraman guy applies some more of the gel lube to the business end of the rotating, pulsating vibrator, and proceeds to hit his body at various random places. The guy, being blindfolded, doesn't know where he is going to feel the sensation of the vibrator next...his groin, the inner part of his thighs, his man-tits. Or somewhere else. The vibrator gets closer and closer to his penis-bulge, and hits his penis with an occasional glancing blow. Mostly the cameraman kinda circles his penis, touching all the areas on his leg and thigh all around is thigh, but only occasionally giving him a glancing blow directly on his penis-bulge through the blue suit. So at this point two guys are working him over and hitting him up with a variety of sensations. The loud-and-low growl of the vibrator motor adds to the mystery. He can feel the finglers of the first guy quickly moving over his chest and groin area. He can surely sens the vibrator head circling around his penis and touching his leg and thigh. He certainly felt something in his penis when that lube was applied from the squeeze bottle. After all, he has quite an erection going on under that skimpy-tight blue suit. And there is that occasional glancing blow.

For me, this is all really fun to watch, in part because his groans of pleasure from our Japanese Speedo guy tell me both that he is really enjoying himself, but also that it is becoming more and more difficult for him to struggle with not ending it all and ejaculating at once...a delicious combination of pleasure and agong...the poor guy is fighting the urge to ejaculate while enjoying himself immensely. Heck, this must be great fun for the two guys working him over as well. What new challenges can they think up to make his situation even more difficult? How much of this can he take? Where do we push him from here. The psychological and physical pressure on all three guys must be intense, and by now the two guys working him over must be feeling an intense urge to ejaculate as well. But, the video is by no means over

[a speedo minded guy]

Sebbie,

You have the makings of a good author. Please comtinue your work. Can't wait fo the next episode

[shaulis]

I believe I just watched this video. So far your narrative of the video is spot on. Please continue, I hope at the end I find that I watched the correct one.

[sebbie]

I desperately need to ejaculate! I desperately need to ejaculate! I would do ANYTHING if I could ejaculate! As you are watching this video, it naturally occurs to you that you would like to determine for yourself exactly how difficult it is to do what our Japanese Speedo guy is doing. In other words, faced with a bunch of different psychological and purely physical pressures to ejaculate, and a full-blown erection, can a normal guy somehow maintain his composure, his erection and still not ejaculate. Fortunately, you can run your own experiment relatively easily on your own. Now this will not be exactly the same as the situation faced by the guy in the video, as you will not have two other people working you over. I told you I was going to add my own notes to this, and that involves running my own experiments.

I have a plug-in vibrator that runs on AC current. These are usually a good deal more powerful than the battery-operated units.. The head on it is somewhat different from the head on the vibrator shown in the video. I have a blue suit, too. Watching the opening parts of the video is a good way to get a nice erection going. Meanwhile, I am taking notes on exactly the places the vibrator is going to in the video. All around on the chest, particularly the inner part of the thighs, then just touching the balls, circling around the penis, occasionally hitting a glancing blow along the shaft, and the even more occasional grazing of the tip of the penis under the suit.

So I try a series of these, attempting to duplicate the moves myself. Several observations:

1. The guy's ejaculatory control is even more amazing to watch in the video after having tried these experiments.

2. If you spend too much time hitting the shaft of your penis with the vibrator, you will get to the point whereby you will be in real danger of going off without even being fully erect. In short, unless you are careful you will go into an involuntary ejaculatory-spasm mode with only a semi-erect penis. These semi-hard ejaculations are interesting, if you have never done one before, but ultimately not very satisfying.

3. So, the trick in doing this is that you really need to be able to “read” your brain and body so that you don't push yourself using the vibrator past the point-of-no-return, in which you completely lose it. But this is basic for any guy trying to learn the more subtle points of ejaculatory control.

4. The trickiest part for our Japanese Speedo guy is that with the two other guys “doing” him, he has no control whatsoever over where the vibrator head goes next. Doing this myself, I can simply move the vibrator to another position on my body if I start feeling that ejaculation is on the edge of being imminent.

5. The science and chemistry on this is very interesting, and I've done some more detailed writing on that in the new understanding male sexuality book on Amazon. The short version is that as ejaculation becomes imminent, the brain sends signals to flood the muscles that spasm in ejaculation with nitric oxide. It is the flood of nitric oxide that causes the muscles that result in ejaculation to go into an involuntary ejaculatory spasm. Once the nitric oxide flood occurs, ejaculation cannot be stopped and is only moments away. A guy can learn to slow this process, but some point, the guy can no longer stave off the impending flood of nitric oxide any more, and ejaculation happens.

6. Some guys do not realize that the process that leads to an erection and engorgement of the penis biologically is very different from the process that results in the involuntary muscle spasms of ejaculation. The two processes are ultimately interrelated but quite separate.

7. I first learned about all of this playing around with the jets of a hot tub. Get the underside of the shaft of your penis close enough to the pulsating jet, and you will ejaculate almost immediately, erection or not. The sensation is something like the sensation of having semen vacuumed out of your penis.

8. It is possible to do much the same thing with a hand-held vibrator, even if your penis is contained within a swimsuit. And as your erection builds, you need to be more and more careful so as to not go into immediate and uncontrollable ejaculatory mode. The trick, of course, is moving the vibrator back and forth close to and momentarily on the penis and then quickly to other parts of the body, while you “cool down” a bit. Also, as you get erect, the underside of the head of the penis will be especially sensitive, and at some point just one touch of the vibrator head on the underside of the penis head could send you into an immediate and uncontrollable ejaculation.

9. So, somehow our Japanese Speedo guy has learned how to stave off the flood of nitric oxide, despite the enormous physical and psychological pressures of the moment. You can see that he is literally writhing and groaning in a delicious agony during his efforts to stave off ejaculation, and that is really what makes the video so much fun to watch. His brain is being flooded with naturally-occurring endomorphisms, and psychologically he is having great fun dealing with it all. A lot of the fun of gay sex is getting to see the partner struggle with this up close, and no guy, straight or gay, is going to be able to watch this without himself getting aroused to a cerain degree.

10. There are drugs that have the side effects of delaying ejaculation, generally those of the class of the so-called Seratonin Re-uptake Inhibitors, examples being the drugs commonly used to treat anxiety, depression, panic-attacks and in smoking cessation treatments (trade names such as Prozac and Paxil). As I understand the chemistry here, the Seratonin Re-uptake inhibitors is that they slow or perhaps stop the series of events that have to occur of the nitric oxide that triggers ejaculation to occur.

11. Straight guys taking these drugs sometimes complain that they can engage in penis-vagina sex with their female partners literally for an hour or more without ejaculating, and delayed ejaculation can become a medical problem. (If your erection lasts for more than 4 hours you need to get to the emergency room!)

12. So, given the difficulty I personally have staving off ejaculation with a vibrator I control circulating around and then on my penis, I am not saying this at all for certain, but the Japanese Speedo guy could be taking a Seratonin Re-uptake inhibitor which is to a degree partially shutting down the body chemistry that leads to an uncontrolled ejaculatory spasm, he may be getting a bit of “help” from one of the drugs.

13. YOU can run your own experiments if you want, and post your results here.

[sebbie]

Part 6
OK, the blue ARENA suit our guy is wearing has stretched out elastic around the left leg opening. The camera-man is abe to pull his penis and balls completely out from the suit through the leg opening, while leaving the suit completely in place, and his now fully-erect, fully engorged penis (it looks to be at least 7 inches long (who says Asian guys are undersized!). The guy's penis and balls are completely lubed up with the clear gell lubricant. The cameraman guy starts to stroke the Japanese Speedo guy's penis from tip to shaft. He must realize that the guy is close to coming apart because he doesn't do this for an extended length of time, but in short bursts of activity. The Japanese Speedo guy is really on the edge of ejaculation, but the breaks from the stroking give him an opportunity to regain his composure and cool things down just a bit.

Then that nasty low-pitched buzzing vibrator comes out again. The camera guy first hits him up on the nase of his balls. That must feel really really good. Balls get really sensitive when I guy is in a full-blown erection. Were I the one doing this, I would have hit him up with the vibrator in the perineum area just behind the balls too, an area that also gets extraordinarily sensitive and pleasurable as a guy reaches a full erection.
Meanwhile the other guy is still working him over with his fingers on his chest and abdomen. Now the cameraman starts massaging the tip of the poor guy's penis. Most guys would ejaculate in about 10 seconds if they start getting hit up on the underside of the tip of their penises, if they have not already. The cameraman has a stroking move I had not seen before that involves a fast flicker with the thumb right over the slit of the penis, at the very tip. That's a new move on me in that my focus in terms of sensitive penis areas has always been on the underside of the tip, the so-called frenulum.

The guy is now moaning and groaning with increasingly frantic pleasure. I'm not quite sure what communication is going on with the cameraman, but something must be happening, as the cameraman seems to know just when o stop stroking. Then the vibrator goes up right along the shaft, and takes glancing blows on the frenulum.

There are a lot of important lessons here for maximizing pleasure in solo sex. The vibrator technique in terms of sequencing is useful. The next time you have a full erection try massaging your balls and shaft with a vibrator. What you will probably discover is that the sensation is very pleasant. But then as you near the underside of the tip, the frenulum, you will probably quickly learn that the vibrations there are simply unbearable and you will be spurting semen almost before you realize it. I do not think that even with a good deal of practice, most guys will be able to hold back ejaculation when the vibrator touches the frenulum. Chemistry-wise, the vibrations on the tip must result in a near-immediate production on nitric oxide which floods and trigger the muscles that are the ejaculation pump. If you develop a method for staving off ejaculation when your frenulum on an erect penis is being touched with a vibrator, let me know, because I think it is all but impossible to do.

At his point, this video has been highly instructional for gay guys interested in safe sex while maximizing their partner's pleasure. In some ways, all of this must be almost as much fun for the two guys working him over as it is for the recipient. Keep in mind also that aside from some French kissing, there has been no exchange in bodily fluids. This could easile be absolutely safe. Really it is all about mutual masturbation at its most erotic level. There are important lessons here that would be useful for almost any pair (or trio) of gay guys. At least to this point, there is proof that great gay sex doesnt always mean risky anal or oral sex. That is just super-cool to know.
For that matter, for straight guys, there is also useful information. The techniques used on the guy could be applied by a female partner as well, and drive the guy goofy with pleasure. This is all really about sexual foreplay. This is another one of my book topics. Straight guys are often so fixated on getting penis in vagina that they miss out on all this other deliciously-arousing stuff that could be part of a terrific sexual relationship for both. Gay guys who are fixated on having butt-sex or even oral sex have the same issue, in my mind.

For me, we have now seen the important stuff in this video. The video continues for several more minutes with an anal intercourse sequence, which in my view is boring compared with what we have already observed and also adds some risky elements to the encounter. In a subsequent section I will have some comments on the anal sex sequence, however. For better or worse, my biases on that subject come out...to be continued.

[sebbie]

Part 7

So, I went to bed last might, my mind still fresh with the scenes of the Japanese Speedo guy straining and nearly convulsing to control his urge to ejaculate, even under immense psychological and physical pressures. For me, it was a quiet night. I dug out a pair of bigger (34 inch waist( solid black Speedos with only the little white logo on them, and pulled over my fuzzy plaid sleep pants, adjusted my penis to a comfortable position (even though the suit is pretty big, least as as my suits go, it had been worn only a few times and the fabric fit snuggly all around. I quickly fell asleep.
I did not awaken again till my alarm clock said 3:30 am, and the first thing I did was check to see if I was still positioned the way I had fallen asleep. Indeed, I was still horizontal, pointing right, just like the guy in the video. Not only that, I had a really nice semi going on.

I really like a nice semi. A nice semi is so pleasant to the touch. A couple of ideas I quickly noted. First, although some of you may think Speedo has been eclipsed by some skimpier and sexier designs, they still have something really really good going on with the fabric they use. In my condition, just slight taps with the very tips of my first two fingers is extraordinarily pleasant. It's almost like getting on a lane of something of a sexual pathway superhighway for a wildly pleasant ride. I touch various parts of my shaft with the tips of my fingers, savoring each new moment.

The Speedo fabric acts almost like a gel lubricant, allowing me to move around and enjoy each moment.

I think about everything I have been writing here and in my new books. In particular how the brain and sexual organs are linked almost as if they were a single entity. I tap my penis through the Speedo, then kinda hold it, even caress it. Each new move brings on a new, even-more-pleasant sensation. The images of the Japanese Speedo guy writhing under the stress of containing himself keep running through my mind, over and over.
Interestingly, I discover that other places on my body are sexually-sensitive too. I note particularly the contrast between the coarse-but soft texture of the fuzzy sleep pants, and the super slippery feel of the Speedo. Oddly, its fun to cup my But on either side with the palm of my hand and feel it under the slick fabric of the Speedo. And my balls just feel wonderful under the slick favric.

I fall back into a light sleep while caressing myself.

It's now 5:30 am, and time to get up and do a little writing. I never went into a full-blown ejaculation, but my night was immense fun anyhow. I think about how fortunate I am to be 65 years old and still have a body that can sustain such pleasant sensations. I could have pushed myself over the edge any time I wanted, easily. But I so much enjoy the extended pleasures that accompany maintaining an erection that does not go over the edge. That is an art that a lot of guys seem unwilling to learn or begin to master. You just simply can't be so fixated on ejaculating that you miss out on all the extended fun getting there.

I would have the same advice for couples—same-sex or different-sex. Don't be so fixated on getting off that the sex act that it's all over in a bout a minute-and-a-half. Slow sexual play is good, but languidly- slow sexual play is even better. This is the lesson for guys without a sexual partner as well. There are still plenty of things you can do to make yourself happy, sexually. I have a whole data base of these ideas.

So I get up and pull off my black Speedo. No ejaculate, but I have a stain bigger than a silver doillar from pre-cum. Last night must have been fun. Really, really fun. I need to do that again. And soon. Goodness, the story I could tell to help guys who live alone to enjoy themselves.

I'm thinking about all of this in the context of the video, but also in the context of the guys who claim they would never wear a Speedo, even to bed. For goodness sakes what gives with that? I keep wondering if these guys are scared of their on bodies and what their own bodies are easily capable of doing. Or are they scared because this is not sex involving a partner in a conventional way. Too much of a sexual Speedo fetish perhaps? I keep wondering about his. What drives some guys' fears and apprehension? That self-pleasure using a suit is still somehow wrong or even a little bit abnormal? These are all real sensations. Stay tuned. Your mind and body can go to all sorts of immensely pleasant places....to be continued.

[sebbie]

Hmmm. the link is no longer there,..the video must be down too..good I was at the end of my story.

Speaking of Japanese Speedos, however, I have been looking at some videos of how the Asian guys wear them. There seems to be no embarrassment whatsoever about showing considerable butt crack..in fact the lower the better! This as much a part of the accepted culture there versus here in the US, where showing butt-crack is mostly frowned upon. I watched a great instructional video last nite on xtube with both Asian guys wearing suits very similar to mine. They had a great deal of fun for sure with the suits on throughout the video.

Those Asian suits are really fun. I've been wearing both my Aqux suits as bedtime wear. That center seam that stretches feels really good at night. Equipment must be placed horizonally..down just doesnt work at all... Bottom line, I was off in a jiffy. The ther is warming up, and its a good time to start wearing something tighter and skimpier at night for sure! Highly recommended!

Sebbie

[shaulis]

I currently don't have an Asian suit in my collection but am looking at a few to buy soon. I wear some of my swim briefs to sleep. They are cooler than the pajamas I wear which can get uncomfortably hot.

[sebbie]

here is the link if you want to see the original video
http://www.gayforit.eu/static_view_video/201951.html

[LeanHunk]

Hi guys, new to the board here. Sebbie, I know what video you are talking about. That guy's name is Daigo Kitazawa and he acts in at least one other video than the one you described.

Here's the link (http://good-gay.com/sweet-japanese-hunk-speedo-98499/)to the video you described.

This (http://www.xnxx.com/video3940141/beast_body-x_010_daigo_kitazawa) is the other one in which he acts.

He has a beautiful bod and amazing control over it in both vids. I'm going to try your experiment sometime to see how long I can last (I'm guessing maybe a minute at most lol). Been meaning to buy a pair of low-cut, sexy Asian speedos for a while and now's the perfect excuse to do it!

[Byron]

LOL, he IS an author - he just wishes people would buy more books
(look up David Sebringsil) (I expect a cut Sebbie ;))

(welcome LeanHunk as of yesterday)

[sebbie]

Byron, the Web site has been up in various versions for 25 years, and has continued to get a lot of of hits each month. Unlike other sites, I have paid for the server space myself, and have not accepted ads from outside nor asked anyone to support the site in other ways. Last year I got the idea to try doing a paper copy book on Amazon,with the thought that maybe some of the site vistors would order the book. But that idea hasn't worked out to any degree. Quite a few people still visit the site each week, but no one seems interested in buying a paper copy book.

I am not quite to the point yet where I want to make the book available as a free download, in part because if there were lots of downloads it would probably cost me more money to do, as the server company charges extra if there was a lot of use. Nor am I at the point where I want to start taking in ads. For the moment I'm still debating strategy on the whole idea. I've thought of shutting down the Web site entirely, but the stuff remains popular.

I think the paper book I wrote is by far my best work, but especially if you like reading the stuff on the site..

Sebbie

[Byron]

...now you know, engage your PayPals and place an order with Amazon.:)

[sebbie]

Both these videos are amazing. If you read my book, there is an entire chapter devoted to helping guys determine for themselves whether they are straight or gay. Instead of looking at this as a 0-1 situation (are or are not gay), I argue that at least MOST guys fall somewhere in the middle, withonly a few guys being unable to get turned on by the other sex under the right (or some woyuld say wrong :-) ) circumstances.

Anyhow, I am always thinking particularly about situations that could be labeled gay and whether or not they would "affect" many iif not most straight guys too.

In that regard, both of hese videos are oustanding "tests" to see whether or not a straight guy could watch them without himself getting turned on.

These are both long videos, and even watching them on successive times I confess that I cannot make it all the way through them. I can make it only maybe 8 or 10 minutes into a twenty-minute video There is something about the calm, non-rushed approach. The stuff that happens to the guy is at one level more than a little mean, but at another level very sweet (dare I say "loving" and caring?) Watching all of this is just over the top.

And would there be any les impact if the person working over the guy sexually were a woman doing those same things rather than a guy? Here the same-sex part in my mind is largely just incidental rather than critical to the turn on.

Of copurse, for the guys here, the fact that (at least at the beginning) the guy is wearing a skimpoy little suit certainly doesnt damage the overall effect. But, if the guy doing the work were a woman would that really make any difference in the scheme of things?

There actually appears to be three not two guys in the video, in that we have the guy in the dark glasses as well as what appears to be the cameraman operating the big mean vibrator. Left out of the entire show is how they and their bodies are reacting to the situation at hand. I cannot believe that all that is hapining is not having a pretty significant impact on the cameraman's ability to do his work, but we never get a clue on that one.

All in all this is fascinating stuff on all sorts of different levels, and hugely educational in terms of being able to learn about your own sexuality as you watch. It's in an entirely different league from your standard porn video, gay or straight, which in comparison look pretty silly. I can assure you that watching either video you will learn something about what really drives your own sexuality, gay or straight.

[swim suit eddie]

There are times during the summer months, I like wearing my speedo swimsuit to bed, instead of pajamas. I'll wear my favorite bright blue speedo with fully lined white nylon lycra, making me feel snug and secure and very sexually aroused. My erection is always positioned upward, feeling so much better than to the side. Sometimes when at my uncle's place overnight, he wants me to sleep in the nude, but I like wearing my tight royal blue colored speedo. He's wearing, just a white toga before bed and seeing me in my snug swim briefs. He tells me it has to come off before climbing in bed. I'll blush and cover my well outlined erection, as he says he's going to strip off my speedo, despite my childish pleading to keep it on. He has a very interesting way getting me unspeedoed so I don't ejaculate in it. While standing facing one another next to the bed, I blushed, as he gently untied the long draw strings while tickling me so much. I wondered how he was going to strip it off me, while he began stretching the tight swimsuit waistband, giving big smiles and warm hugs. I squirmed and playfully resisted, feeling the tight polyester material slowly slip below my waist, lower and lower he he was peeling it down to my full hard on, still snug and secure under the soft tickling inside lining. I made another plead to keep it on , but to no avail when he told me to hold still,reaching under the rolled down suit, looking like a bikini. My moment of truth would come now, instead of uncovering my rear first, he began peeling it off my erect penis, slowly freeing it from the soft white inside lining. The feeling was sensational and I had all I could do to not ejaculate, looking down seeing the dangling draw string with only inside white colored lining showing and my exposed bouncing wet penis. He looked at me saying " off, Speedo off" while still pulling and tugging my Speedo down and off. He then turned me around bending my rear torso, with my behind still encased in blue polyester. It was a bit of a time consuming, yet enjoyable process for him stripping my favorite speedo off and getting me naked for bed. For me it was sensational, feeling the tight swim briefs slowly slippping off my behind, despite my continued playful resistance, squeezing my buns and crossing my legs. He peeled it out of my crotch and all of me was now fully exposed, when I let out a loud childish whimper. as he continued peeling it down my squirming torso and legs, then freeing my kicking feet from the tangled Speedo swim briefs. Once finally naked, he gave a firm, yet gentle swat on my bare behind when I ejaculated hard on the carpeted floor with my erect penis still bouncing. He said this the best way to get my Speedo off with out me soiling it. We soon climbed into bed and I told him how wonderful it felt being unspeedoed by him without ejaculating before he had me naked, He was certainly very happy and said he will strip off whatever style speedo swim suit I'm wearing, no matter how tight it is or how long it takes getting me naked for bed.

[SpeedoIan]

here is the link if you want to see the original video
http://www.gayforit.eu/static_view_video/201951.html

Hi Sebbie I have tried to find that video from your link but can't. Can you help me with the exact video please? Ian

[sebbie]

I am unable to find it any more either

[swim suit eddie]

A college age lady friend told an interesting story, one day at the beach, where she met a lady somewhat older and heavier than her wearing a lady's one piece red and black colored Speedo swimsuit. She is somewhat petite for her age being in her late twenties and wearing her sister's one piece two tone green swim suit, a size that fit smaller and felt very sexy on her. After being with the older lady a while, she was invited to the lady's home where she could change into other clothes if she wanted. After some time and a lot of good conversations including some hot sexy fantasies, the lady took her into the large fancy bedroom while still in the one piece large swimsuit and my lady friend still wearing her sister's one piece tight fitting swimsuit that looked like a leotard. Little know did she know what a surprise she was in for, when the large lady helped her onto the bed tying her arms and legs spread eagle, telling her, she will tickle her all over including having her swimsuit clad body massaged with an electric vibrator too. She didn't know what to say, as she laughed and squirming her tied down body. The soft close feeling in the polyester tight swimsuit, the large lady's tickling,and being excited while the vibrator was rubbed on her feet, legs and upper body. As she still squirmed, the large lady said my lady friend needs to have a full feeling being tickled and massaged in the nude and still tied down spread eagle on the bed. My lady friend pleaded with her not to strip her bare, but to no avail while saying she'll really enjoy it, while untying one of her arms and slowly freeing the swimsuit from one arm then retying her arm, now moved to the other side of the large bed and untied her other arm and freeing the swimsuit shoulder strap and retying her arm. My friend still begged not to strip her suit off, yet the large lady would say "enjoy your new adventure, especially once I have you naked." The large lady would climb on top of her and begin peeling the tight one piece swimsuit down, exposing her slim breasts, despite my lady's restricted squirming, slowly the soft tight swimsuit would come down while the large lady continued joyfully stripping her naked. What a sight, my young lady friend tied down spread eagle with her sister's tight one piece swimsuit still half on her, as the the larger lady still wearing her one piece Speedo swimsuit would laugh and continued reassuring her that she should enjoy her new endeavor with the large lady, acting out her fantasy with another woman. She then untied my friend's legs, as she kicked and squirmed, knowing soon the large lady will have her out of that tight sexy small size one piece swimsuit. She managed to look down and seeing the lycra light blue inside lining now showing. Feeling the tightly clinging swimsuit slowly slipping off her, as the large lady straddled her squirming body, yet with her arms still tied and closely squeezing her strong shapely legs while trying to keep the large lady from getting it off. Soon she was overtaken by the large lady straddling her squirming lovely petite half bare body, as the tight sexy swimsuit began slowly slip out between her legs, as the large lady would work it down her kicking legs and finally off her, while admiring her now naked shaped body. My lady friend said "like me , as a man the feeling of being tickled and having her body massaged with a vibrator was beautiful, yet really sensational having her sister's tight sexy one piece being stripped off her by the large lady in a Speedo woman's one piece swimsuit.

[sebbie]

I am very sad that the Daigo Kitazawa video is no longer available, at least not readily so. I learned a lot from this video as the star struggles with maintaining a high degree of arousal while somehow being able to delay an orgasm for an extended period of time. His buds try all sorts of ways in attempt to break him in this regard, but at least until the very end of a long video, he succeeds in somehow maintaining himself without going off. Most guys would probably ejaculate just thinking about a noisy handheld vibrator getting that close to a fully-erect penis, but Diago seems to take it all in stride.

Some guys may see this video as just another piece of pornography, but in terms of understanding the nuances of male sexual drive, it is much more than that.

Diago deserves a world championship prize for his skill in delaying an orgasm while fully hard. But so do the buds who tried every imaginable way to get him to move into an uncontrollable ejaculation.

Too, part of the fun is that he is wearing a skimpy swim brief through a lot of the video.

[sebbie]

Not as good as the original video, but fun anyway

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5e39d8a8536d4

[sebbie]

I ended up watching the first half of this new video one more time last night. For me it was both educational and totally different than the usual "porno" videos involving two men.

At one point in time, pre-HIV, being a gay male meant that you were engaging in anal and oral sex with your partner.

As you watch the video take not of what I observed. The first pair of "wrestlers are actually a sweet couple who enjoy each other tremendously. The wrestling is simply a fun way of playing with each other.


But, most importantly, this video illustrates all sorts of ways that two guys who are close can enjoy being close without engaging in anal or oral sex. Pay close attention as to the loving way they oil each other's bodies. Just watching this might cause a guy who thought he was straight to turn gay on the spot.

The tumbling mimicking wrestling with the oiled bodies has got to be great erotic fun in itself. But then the video gets really interesting when they start playing with each others balls and penises.

Take note that each of these guys seem to know exactly how much fondling the other can tolerate without pushing the other over the edge. They keep edging along via what I would call the stop-start method and intertwining the sex organ play with play that is arousing but takes the immediate pressure off of ejaculating. Being able to "read" another guy in this respect takes real skill. Straight couples could learn a lot from these guys about making your partner happy without immediately going into penis-vagina intercourse.

Is this pair a gay couple in real life? I don't know but I certainly hope that they are!


All in all I found the video of the first wrestling pair enormously useful and I learned a bunch of stuff about the current range of sexual behaviors between men. The couple in the second half of the video basically ignore the idea that they are somehow engaged in a wrestling match, and get more immediately down to stroking each other's penises. That's OK I suppose, but not nearly as fascinating a video on the subject.

Watch and enjoy!

Sebbie

[sebbie]

I ended up watching the first half of this new video one more time last night. For me it was both educational and totally different than the usual "porno" videos involving two men.

At one point in time, pre-HIV, being a gay male meant that you were engaging in anal and oral sex with your partner.

As you watch the video take not of what I observed. The first pair of "wrestlers are actually a sweet couple who enjoy each other tremendously. The wrestling is simply a fun way of playing with each other.


But, most importantly, this video illustrates all sorts of ways that two guys who are close can enjoy being close without engaging in anal or oral sex. Pay close attention as to the loving way they oil each other's bodies. Just watching this might cause a guy who thought he was straight to turn gay on the spot.

The tumbling mimicking wrestling with the oiled bodies has got to be great erotic fun in itself. But then the video gets really interesting when they start playing with each others balls and penises.

Take note that each of these guys seem to know exactly how much fondling the other can tolerate without pushing the other over the edge. They keep edging along via what I would call the stop-start method and intertwining the sex organ play with play that is arousing but takes the immediate pressure off of ejaculating. Being able to "read" another guy in this respect takes real skill. Straight couples could learn a lot from these guys about making your partner happy without immediately going into penis-vagina intercourse.

Is this pair a gay couple in real life? I don't know but I certainly hope that they are!


All in all I found the video of the first wrestling pair enormously useful and I learned a bunch of stuff about the current range of sexual behaviors between men. The couple in the second half of the video basically ignore the idea that they are somehow engaged in a wrestling match, and get more immediately down to stroking each other's penises. That's OK I suppose, but not nearly as fascinating a video on the subject.

Watch and enjoy!

Sebbie

[Torchwatch]

In Japanese oil wrestling the objective seems to be to make your opponent cum first. Once you have oiled each other you must hold him down and work him into a lather.
Once held down on your back and unable to escape you must grit your teeth and edge as best you can for as long as you can.
of course once the looser has cum he might as well service the winner until he cums too.
This isn't love play, it a contest for the camera.

[sebbie]

Maybe both? I do not discount that some guys find it more erotic to do this camera rolling than in private. I have no problem with that at all...whatever floats your boat!

Is it more fun for a guy to masturbate in a swim brief alone in private, or with a male bud who might "help" you along on occasion? And suppose he is doing the same thing. Might you on occasion give him a "hand"?

And wouldn't all of this be more exciting if you knew a camera was running, and the video would be showing up on the Internet?

Are the two guys having done this somehow both gay or are they just engaging in what is sometimes referred to as typical "horseplay" when two horny males are given an opportunity to enjoy themselves and each other? Why should anyone even care about the answer to this question?

[sebbie]

Maybe both? I do not discount that some guys find it more erotic to do this camera rolling than in private. I have no problem with that at all...whatever floats your boat!

Is it more fun for a guy to masturbate in a swim brief alone in private, or with a male bud who might "help" you along on occasion? And suppose he is doing the same thing. Might you on occasion give him a "hand"?

And wouldn't all of this be more exciting if you knew a camera was running, and the video would be showing up on the Internet?

Are the two guys having done this somehow both gay or are they just engaging in what is sometimes referred to as typical "horseplay" when two horny males are given an opportunity to enjoy themselves and each other? Why should anyone even care about the answer to this question?

[sebbie]

Ordinarily, I don't watch Pornhub videos, when I do...

I was interested in videos demonstrating the use of VED and estim devices that might be useful in the post RP rehab "work" I have been doing. I ran into videos by this guy where he demonstrated the use of both in an edging application (as in see how close he can get to having an orgasm and then stopping just before an involuntary orgasm occurs)

This guy makes a few references to possibly being gay but the videos are solo efforts. It appears that he might in part be funding college from revenue he gets for the video posts. He never shows his face, which is smart for whatever future career he might have. As porn videos go this is tame and sweet stuff esp if you are interested in seeing a guy cope or struggle with being near to going over the edge but not quite there.

https://www.pornhub.com/model/xiao-qiang/videos

[microbikinidave]

Out of curiosity, I googled Daigo Kitazawa and found the video that has been discussed. Try https://www.gayforit.eu/video/215318/Asian-Speedo. Yes, it looks very interesting!

[sebbie]

That's the second of what originally were two videos, tho they are similar. In the first he is in a white or gray suit not blue. It;s fun to see a guy struggle that long without ejaculating. That takes tremendous skill and will power as well as talent.

[sebbie]

Daigo’s videos offer an advanced class on male edging technique as in lessons as to how to get and remain aroused and erect without quickly getting beyond the point where involuntary orgasm and ejaculation occurs. Guys are not all built with the ability to successfully do this for an extended period of time, and the training guys do in this regard often works in the opposite direction as in inadvertently learning how to get off quickly and not at a slow pace.

As a general rule, slow ends up being ultimately a lot more satisfying than fast, alone or with a partner, so it is important to learn the techniques. Daigo was so successful on the first viewing or two I thought the video must have been put together over multiple takes encompassing several hours if not days. But I have since decided that what you see is mostly what happened in one long take, although there are some edging “tricks” involved.

In much of the video, a sleek little swim brief is worn, and at the start, he is already fairly hard with his penis in the “up” position the underside pressed firmly against the smooth, stretchy cloth. As most guys know (I guess) that is a really enjoyable place to be. The underside of the penis is more touch-sensitive than the top side, and the really hot spot, the glans area is very “accessible”. When touched, the glans area feels really really good, so good in fact that a guy will quickly go into into an involuntary orgasm even if he is not hard. The rest of the penis underside is sensitive but should not send a guy immediately into a soft orgasm, even when stroked with a massage vibrator.

If there is a “trick” in keeping Daigo aroused but not ejaculating, note that the guy with the massage vibrator is 1. For the most part at least, passing the vibrator over the penis with the swimsuit covering the penis not bare, and 2. Moving around a lot to places other than the penis underside.

The vibrator he is controlling is a version of what is sometimes called a “Magic Wand”, a classic massage vibrator made by Hitachi that runs $50+ on Ebay. It is not some silly battery-powered penis-shaped unit, but a serious tool for “all parts of the body” that plugs into the wall and runs on standard AC current. A basic move is to touch the vibrator to the underside of the penis base and then slowly move upward toward the glans area. That feels great but should not send a guy into immediate orgasm. The glans can be touched (which feels super-great), but the “trick” you are seeing is that this is only for a half second or so, and then the vibrator is quickly moved to a hot spot away from the penis.

What hot spot? Well, any guy has a number of places, all can be accessed with the swim brief still in place. The ball sac would be a neat place to start. Then work the way to the perineal area and touch nerves just behind the ball sac. Press upward there and the vibrations should reach the prostate. Work all the way back to the anal area which is very sensitive as well.

The guy operating the vibrator knows exactly where to go. He even hits Daigo’s male tits for a bit, then works back to a long pass once again along the entire underside of the penis and giving the glans a nice but only momentary touch. The guy with the vibrator knows all the good spots to hit and also exactly how long he needs to stay in each spot to cause wild pangs of pleasure to race through Daigo’s body without causing him to go into an immediate involuntary ejaculation. Not quite! Every guy can learn from this.

I’m not enthusiastic about pouring lube on top of the swimsuit. If any lube is used I think a better idea is to lube up the penis before the suit goes on.

I “just happen to own” a decent vibrator that runs on 110 v AC current. It doesn’t look quite like the Magic Wand but it is a solid unit with several settings. Since I had figured out some of the moves in the video I decided it might be fun to try some of them out on me. Oh yah, I think this works better if you go with a swim brief that has the lining cut out. I decided to try a pair of stretchy polyester-blend underwear that looked and fit like a swim brief but using thinner material and unlined. Penis up, I was ready to experiment.

Yup, that basic vibrator stroke on the underside feels outlandishly pleasant and I can give my glans a touch which is kind of like a momentary turbocharger boost. I had just a little lube on my penis but I did not pour gobs of it on the brief, in part because I wanted to see if I was oozing precum or not. Then I started spending time in other places (all around my ball sac and in the perineum area, all the way back to vibrating the anal area). I kept going back and forth to the basic move along the underside of the penis, and then along both sides.

It wasn’t long before I could feel that my penis was responding by filling with blood, and more interestingly, the massage was making me ooze a nice drop of precum or two as seen at the very tip through the thin-but-slick briefs. This is a great fun place to be if you have never been there. It falls in the category as certainly one of best places a guy can ever find himself.

I was starting to worry that if I didn’t take a break I was in danger of going into the spasms of orgasm.

So, I stopped cold and put on my penis pump. That was fun too, and somehow the pump seemed to be working better than usual, me having been “pre-treated” with the vibrator. I do that for several minutes then pull the pump off and apply gel soap to my hard penis that has been through these steps. Usually I just keep edging, avoiding going into an orgasm for yet another day. I then suddenly stop and dive into a hot tub of water. Orgasm can be delayed for another day.

If you have a sexual partner (male or female), the trick would be for both of you to learn the nuances of how to effectively utilize the vibrator. There is quite a bit to learn and I have found various videos to be both educational and helpful. And I am ready for another day.

As fun and arousing things to do go, this is all safe, clean and inexpensive fun. A real treat for both the mind and body. Your partner if you have one might think this is a little silly, but I suspect your partner (male or female) will soon be hooked too. Just watching you “suffer” is psychologically enjoyable, and there are always ways for the partner to get in on the action in some way as well.

All the best!

[sebbie]

Basic steps in self pleasuring

1. Select one of your favorite swim briefs from your collection. Choose one that fits snuggly and if your penis points up in the pouch, presses firmly against the cloth pouch. A brief with an oversized pouch will not work as well. Try to find yourself one that applies enough pressure so that your penis even if flaccid or nearly so will still stay pointed up toward the waistband on its own. Though what is about to happen to you alone should be enough to get you at least a bit hard (or more).

2. Make sure the very tip of your penis is pressed firmly against the slick cloth pouch

3. Now dig out your hand held vibrator and apply it to your penis underside starting at the base and working your way to the tip.

4. Be careful around the glans area. It is really fun to touch but a bit too much attention there can cause you to go into uncontrollable ejaculatory spasms in a hurry. If you start to sense that you are nearing that point, you need to quickly back off and move the vibrator to some other place on your body to cool things down a little. You will be dealing with these sensations over and over as you go though these steps so learn when you need to stop.

5. Meanwhile, watching the precum form in crystal clear droplets through the suit is great fun, and if you can keep your penis in approximately the same position you should be able to make some really big ones quickly.

6. I like to apply the vibrator in all sorts of places once I get going. Penis up, moving the vibrator along both sides all along the penis as well, which produces slightly different sensations from the underside massage. Its fun to research this and see exactly how much precum is produced by each area

7. Keep trying various places, At some point you will say you have gotten to the stage where if I continue this any longer I am going to ejaculate. Once that thought occurs to you its time to stop without ejaculating.

8. Pull off the brief, apply a bit of lube (gel soap works fine at least for solo sex) and crawl into your penis pump you bought for $20 on ebay.

9. Try using the vacuum pump to take you to a degree of size and hardness beyond where you got yourself in the brief and using the vibrator.

10. The sensations you get will feel a bit different from what the vibrator gave you. Different but interesting as well. For starters you can’t touch your now elongated penis as its inside the polycarbonate tube. Your penis will look, well, big and red, which is always an interesting place to be.

11. I like to raise and lower the vacuum multiple times. There is a quick vacuum release valve on every pump. As the vacuum increases from pumping you will grow noticeably with every pump stroke. You will get a little smaller with each vacuum release, but if you keep doing this repeatedly you should end up bigger and bigger with each cycle. It’s very difficult to go into an ejaculatory spasm while still in the pump. Guys have been known to do it but the real point is to get you hard enough so you can ejaculate if you want once the pump is off.

12. In prepping the pump the trick is to put a small silicone ring over the sleeve that can be popped right onto your penis as you remove the pump.

13. Remove the pump and sleeve leaving the silicone ring in place. At this point your penis will feel really neat and it’s time to apply a gel soap to your entire penis.

14. Now it is time to see if you can make yourself still harder using your hand and fingers on your lubed up penis. If you feel ready to ejaculate, just stop playing with yourself and cool down a bit before restarting. This is a variation of the classic sex therapist’s exercise for helping guys cope with premature ejaculation

15. What you do next is your choice. The orgasm you could have right now will be really powerful I’m sure, but you could just stop before you quite get to that point and pick up where you left off by repeating the steps the next night.

16. A stunt guys do is to see how many days they can go getting themselves almost to ejaculating but then stopping. Some guys run contests of this sort with themselves. Each night you don’t ejaculate it will become more and more difficult to keep from ejaculating the next night, but that is part of the fun.

17. The guys who can keep from ejaculating after doing this, say, for a full week, claim that the orgasm that does occur finally is right up there with the best they have ever experienced. But that is all up to you. And all of this is clean safe fun without a sex partner. Or maybe with!