This is an interesting read

[sebbie]

http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/986149-Does-this-sound-weird-to-anyone/AllOnOnePage

[Byron]

Well, you said "interesting" so honestly I did try - but fell asleep when I realised there were pages and pages and pages of the stuff to get through.

I suppose we can at least say it was balanced - IsGraceAvailable thinks you're wonderful and Poshwellies says you're sad.

[sebbie]

The guy who said I was said had a smiley emoticon next to the statement. I take that as tongue in cheek...

I do, however, wonder why adult guys who masturbate alone get such a rap by some. These guys are generally thought of as either having not quite made it through childhood, sad, lonely or some combination of these. I think adult masturbation deserves a lot better than that.

Sebbie

[SwimTeamSpeedo]

I find the whole gay sterotype of guys who like tighter fittng swimwear or form fitting underwear strange. Even many gay guys will tell you if they see a guy in a Speedo at the beach, they assume he is gay first, There are plenty of str8 guys who like the look, feel and fit of brief swimwear (or form fitting undies), and maybe even get turned on by it. Sometimes the attraction has nothing to do with a sexual act or preference, but may simple be that you like how they make you look. I have a long time str8 friend since swimming as a kid who prefers and wears only racing style suits. His view, why cover up my swimmer body with long shorts. Also, sometimes its the reaction they get from the girl that they are after, and if that leads to sex, probably not a bad thing. ;)

[Byron]

"...........why cover up my swimmer body....................."
Yes indeed - "if you've got it flaunt it" as the saying goes
and a fit guy in a racing brief does look very attractive
(and not just to impress the ladies I would add).