Bumping into someone you know when wearing Speedos

[Papadoop]

Has anyone else experienced this? If so what was the reaction?
Tonight i put on my original skimpy black speedos and went to the locker room to put my stuff away feeling all snug and extremely comfortable then heard someone say hi to me and it was a girl i work with(who i have fancied badly for years) wearing her sexy sky blue bikini, the thought of her seeing me like that aroused me but im nervous she will tell people and everyone will know i wear speedos but will that be a good or bad thing? Most girls i have been with seem to like them but its the negative comments i worry about

[thetruetest]

Own it, it's fine.

[Torchwatch]

If she had been embarrassed at the sight of you in your Speedos she would have slunk away without a sound and without your seeing her. Instead she said "Hello" giving you the chance to see her in her blue bikini. It seems a fair trade; your black Speedos for her blue bikini, if she started going around telling everyone about you in your Speedos you can tell them about her bikini. You have a small secret shared between you now, if you fancy her tell her you will be swimming again next Monday at the same time and see what happens.

[PSDave]

If you are comfortable wearing them and the young lady didn't seem to be concerned you were wearing a swim suit at the pool, what is the issue. If you are worried about negative comments you better stay home. No matter what you are wearing from speedos to shirts to shoes or whatever there will no doubt be someone that has a less than favorable comment -- either directly to you or behind your back. Its your life and your comfort--why are you concerned about others??

[Papadoop]

If she had been embarrassed at the sight of you in your Speedos she would have slunk away without a sound and without your seeing her. Instead she said "Hello" giving you the chance to see her in her blue bikini. It seems a fair trade; your black Speedos for her blue bikini, if she started going around telling everyone about you in your Speedos you can tell them about her bikini. You have a small secret shared between you now, if you fancy her tell her you will be swimming again next Monday at the same time and see what happens.

Im now confused she was saying to me in work she needs to start getting fit again and get back into it and i was thinking it was a hint. But then today one of her louder mates said to me today, 'Leah said she seen you in the baths the other day and you had ball stranglers on' i felt mortified but sort of laughed it off. Strangest part of it though im kinda turned on she noticed and got a full view of it and as we walked to the pool seeing her walk infront of me with her buttocks wobbling in her tight blue bikini i literally couldnt wait to dive in the pool as i was battling a major boner infront of a pool full of people

[vega1210]

I say keep wearing them she liked seeing you in them. She was also probably looking for a compliment about her body saying she needed needed to get fit again. Lots of time women will do that. Looking for the I think you look great. Or maybe a come join me for a swim!!!

[Papadoop]

Thanks for the advice guys.
Update as i know already she has a boyfriend of 3 years and today i bumped into her in work wearing the tightest black and white chequered skirt which was quite short and black tights and her cute glasses i literally wanted to bang her everywhere so i dropped a hint id be at the pool again tonight trying to lose weight.
After work i was in two minds what to wear but opted for my m&s navy swim briefs as they are comfortable and feel erotic on me. Anyway my swim is done after a hour i head to the sauna and about 20 mins or so i see Leah in her pink bikini approaching the crowded sauna anyway again im fighting a boner, she walks in and says hello and we talk. Anyway after a bit we go to cool off and get back in but it gets that crowded she ends up squashed next to me at this point as her sweaty legs touch mine im erect and trying to hide it. Leahs messing with her hair and laughing and joking with me and touches my knee while we are joking and at this point i want to explode all over her. Anyway the Sauna empties out and its just us two for a bit anyway shes going on about getting rid of her belly, i at this point drop a hint im looking at her by telling her she hasnt got a belly and she tells me im lovely and goes off for a shower and comes back with her pink bikini stuck to her i have to lift my legs up to hide my erection, she then sits with her feet to her chest as we are both quite hot at this point and as im talking she is too much for me and im exploding in my swimming trunks as we speak hopefully oblivious to Leah. Anyway after about 20 mins he says shes leaving and will see me soon and asks if i need a lift as i have a hard on looking at her i obviously cant at this point but say to her ill see her tomorrow. Anyway 10 mins later as its near closing time i leave myself and go to the showers and shes there still in her bikini anyway as i walk past i say to her i am waiting for a lift and manage to get a hug from her and as she rubs herself on me..you guessed it i had to pull away and exit sharpish. I dropped the hint of going again so hopefully see her soon the lifeguard there i fancy was also on for a bit even though i probably dont stand a chance with either one of them would be great...both of them id probably die the most pleasureable way possible. Fair to say tonight ive come home with a Red Hot Tip😍😍😍

[Mollyk]

If she is a swimmer she will have seen lots of guys in their suits including speedos.

[Papadoop]

If she is a swimmer she will have seen lots of guys in their suits including speedos.

Thanks 😊 Thing is not many people in our area wear them because of the Stigma attached to them but i cant wait till the next time we have a swim and sauna and get all hot and sweaty together. Its a shame she has a boyfriend though because she is so seriously hot and its so hard for me to fight my urges and i think she knows she has got me round her little finger and knows how to drive me into sexual torment, ill have to be careful next time she doesnt get me too excited i dont want to end up ripping my speedos

[need4speedo]

Great story. Like another person said, just own it. She's seen you in your speedo and if she told other people, who cares. She's obviously comfortable with it so enjoy it. The idea of wearing a speedo without being ashamed is what we all want anyways, so let her talk about it. I might be a little embarrassed if I saw someone I work with while I'm in my speedo, but it is what it is. You're a speedo wearer...be proud! :)

[James Anderson]

Don't worry its perfectly okay. It happens generally. The most important thing is that you like wearing the speedo. Doesn't think about others. Just wear it for your comfort.

[Papadoop]

I swear im going to have to change pools in the night when Leah is there the sexual tension is getting too much thing she knows i fancy her and cant do nothing about it and loves teasing me.
Today she came into work with this tight green top on and this short black mini skirt which was exposing the shape of her underwear anyway she sits by me and for half of the day i could hardily concentrate on my work especially when she bent down in full view of my face to look in her drawer for something.
Think she knows i have a tights fetish now as well because she said about her knee being swollen from exercising and asked me to feel it, once i felt it i noticed a flash upskirt(although i didnt see much)i went rock hard in my pants and was again trying not to explode(id have had to go commando in work) anyway i had a feel of her thigh she then smiled and me and crossed her legs, i realised i was getting a bit carried away and moved my hand she then said to me 'I love these tights dead comfy' and im just pure fixated with her legs, about a hour later she asks if ive been going gym so i drop the hint to come with me tonight.
We head the pool about 8pm im wearing my sky blue swim briefs we swim for awhile and then head the sauna as its getting late we are the only ones in there so again we are having a laugh and joke shes in a purple bikini and she starts showing me her new nails on her foot i make a joke and she playfully kicks me next thing BOOM im like omg im rock hard again think she knew coz i pressed my legs up to my chest. She then asks me to grab her the water bucket to put more water on, i was saying i will in a min but she was saying do it now as we dont have long and its not that hot anyway i pick up the bucket praying she doesnt spot my todger standing out so i cover the bucket by that area and as i pass her the bucket i seen her pupils dilate as she looked down in the affected area...THINK SHE KNEW I WAS HAPPY TO SEE HER!!.
As its getting hot shes pouring water all over herself which wasnt helping then she asked if i wouldnt be uncomfortable with her laying down which i replied no, as she was laying down i could see her lovely legs, bumcheeks and her breasts and cute tummy and i think she knew i was admiring her because i could see her smiling to herself, she said i was quiet tonight, i apologised and said i was tired and we started gabbing again but halfway through a story i was telling her...you guessed it i exploded in my speedos again!! So im trying to tell this story and get it out of my mouth, while my penis is possessed emptying itself and my swim briefs are creamed to death again Leahs laughing at my story oblivious to whats going on and asking me questions i can barely answer.
We then left the pool and then went home together at closing time but dont think ill be going with her again, too hot for me to handle, driving me absolutely wild with sexual frustration i cant do anything about, id ask her out but shes got a boyfriend of 3 years(although an idiot) so thats a no no. If she was single id make a move but unless things change im better avoiding her i think.

[vega1210]

no reason to avoid her. i say keep hanging out and having a good time. hopefully soon you will be able to get yourself under control.

[Papadoop]

Its just getting too awkward despite shes cool and fine as ever.
Cant seem to spend one time with her without cream pieing my speedos if she was my girlfriend (im my dreams and many wet ones believe me) and i had the most awkward day today with her being all quiet probably because she clocked me with a full on erection in my trunks last night. ����
Felt so embarrassed today worst thing was last night in the sauna luckily after my penis decided to destroy my speedos i had to walk to the changing rooms with her, luckily enough the briefs i was wearing werent too skimpy because they were literally filled with my own spunk and shes totally unaware trying to joke with me while im panicking incase it leeks out although afterwards i had to admit i was like PHWOAR lol������������i just hope she feels what i feel but cant cope with us just being mates and cant exactly tell her what shes doing to me...if i could go one night with her without creaming myself that would be great ����������������

[Torchwatch]

This is a dangerous liaison, she is playing you and may be reporting back to her friends at work. Your reputation is at risk and because of her longstanding boyfriend you'll never get her into bed.

You will get noticed by the lifeguard you fancy, she will see you hanging out with another woman and walking about with a stiffy, you'll lose your chances there and may even be asked to leave the pool.

The woman at work is a tease and she is certainly teasing you, cool it for while until you are under control.

Keep being polite and friendly with the lifeguard when you see her.


Swim somewhere else with the lady online and wear swimming trunks that don't turn you on for the first date. Act interested yet cool and respectful rather than show up in a tiny bikini brief with a raging hardon sprouting in the pouch.

[Papadoop]

This is a dangerous liaison, she is playing you and may be reporting back to her friends at work. Your reputation is at risk and because of her longstanding boyfriend you'll never get her into bed.

You will get noticed by the lifeguard you fancy, she will see you hanging out with another woman and walking about with a stiffy, you'll lose your chances there and may even be asked to leave the pool.

The woman at work is a tease and she is certainly teasing you, cool it for while until you are under control.

Keep being polite and friendly with the lifeguard when you see her.


Swim somewhere else with the lady online and wear swimming trunks that don't turn you on for the first date. Act interested yet cool and respectful rather than show up in a tiny bikini brief with a raging hardon sprouting in the pouch.

Thats my biggest worry tbh, i dont know if its that or whether shes not happy with her bf(ive seen him out and about and hes a major ass but then again a lot of women like that) or wether she gets some sort of sexual gratification being a tease and a flirt, I know i wont get into bed with her not a possibility at the moment because even when she touches me i end up spunking myself :eek:

Im keeping my distance as much as possible though only thing in work now shes asking if im upset with her over something and says im being off with her, ive still tried to be polite but its just mega awkward given the circumstances and i cant exactly say why incase the off chance she doesnt know(ive known her for some time everyone says shes a really nice girl and doesnt seem malicious)

Ive told her for the moment im coming down with something so wont be swimming until im better and going to a different pool nearby and hopefully take the date along shortly

[Papadoop]

Today was probably the most awkward moment of my ENTIRE LIFE SO FAR!
Today i decide to burn last nights booze off and take myself off for a swim and pack my navy swim briefs and stupidly and naively i put a facebook status about it.
Anyway as i have my swim and its approaching the last hour i decide to have a steam and then a sauna anyway in walks Leah in her tight pink bikini looking all tanned and pretty but looking rather fed up i ask her is she okay she says, 'no not really been arguing with my boyfriend again so needed to get out' anyway we are having a laugh and a joke like the old days and everythings going okay and then she says to me after 20 mins do you fancy going outside for a few mins to cool down i say yes and let her go first so i can have a sneaky look at her bum in her tight pink bikini bottoms.
Anyway we are sat on the chairs and its really quiet and everything seems to be going okay just i notice she keeps fiddling with her necklace anyway i head back in the sauna and then 5 mins later Leah follows and we are talking again then mid convo she stands up and asks can i put her necklace back on for her as she stands infront she puts her back to me and asks me to put it on, i keep my distance as already shes making me a bit horny and im already semi erect and then my hands start going a bit shaky i put her hair on her shoulder and am still having difficulty then Leah says, 'You can get closer hun i dont bite' anyway i move a little bit closer to try and im thinking to my hands, 'please work' anyway as im struggling Leah giggles and says 'come here you' and she stands right next to me, her hair falls down her back again and her buttocks touch my crotch after that my penis was possessed like a bull in a china shop next thing i know im spooning Leah at this point she stops giggling im panicking and think i cant back off because she will just ask me to do it again and will notice ive got a raging hard on, so in my head im thinking 'Just get the necklace on quick and sit down she might not notice' anyway as im spooning her my hands are shaking then my penis starts emptying itself whilst my penis is up leahs bikini bottoms, i try and throw her hair over her shoulders but my hands are shaking like mad because im still creaming myself then would you believe her hair falls off her shoulder and back down her back im trying to take deep breaths to calm myself but didnt want to be breathing down her back so im saying to my hands in my head to my hands 'PLEASE WORK HANDS WORK' in the end im trying to stroke her hair but its not working so i pit my hand on her shoulder while my penis is still pumping away, in the end her hair is over her shoulder(this must have took a good 40 seconds or so because my hands just refused to work it seems only one part of my body was working and over compensating)) but then im thinking why isnt she saying anything is 1) Leah in shock? 2) Does Leah like it? Or 3)Does Leah realise whats going on? 4) Can Leah feel this? anyway as ive got the necklace in my hand im making sure i dont drop it and i had a few unsuccessful attempts to fasten it as im still creaming myself at the same time in the end there were two big bangs from my penis then the last of it shot out and thankfully after over a minute i managed to fasten it to Leahs neck she says to me in a shocked voice 'Thank you' i sit down quick to try and get my bearings and composure back as my hands are shaking like a shitting dog in what was probably the most erotic and embarrassing moment of my entire life, Leah sits down next to me looking stunned but she is just looking straight into my eyes and im looking back at her wondering what shes thinking but im in shock too and unable to speak and preoccupied with my penis being semi erect and my briefs being creamed to death. After 10 of the most awkward minutes ever i manage to muster the words, 'be right back need water' and go to the gents to sort my briefs out and get water. After this i go back in a bit more composed and make small talk with Leah and thankfully 15 mins later the pool closes for the day, couldnt come quick enough afterwards i tell her i have to head to town so wont be walking with her but we both said goodbye to each other.
But now i feel mega embarrassed, okay it wasnt deliberate and i did try and avoid the situation but i should have made an excuse to leave the sauna without sorting the necklace but i panicked and made a complete mess of the situation.
Thing is now im dreading seeing her in work tomorrow do i apologise and say that wasnt my intention but then she will know how i feel about her and it could open a can of worms, im just hanging on to the possibility she doesnt realise whats happened(im guessing she must have felt every bit of it especially the two large bangs at the end where probably a dead giveaway!).
Think im going to have to change gyms soon if Leah doesnt lose the gym bug never felt so awkward.

[Papadoop]

This afternoon was great few days holiday andthat meant a lunchtime swim session was great only a few people in there(mostly over 50) and done a 90 length swim and had a quiet sauna and cant remember over the last couple of weeks i havent done that without completely cream pieing my pants so today was a good day, no stress or anxiety or potentially embarrassing situations thinking of joining the gym in the posher area a half hour bus ride away going to enquire tomorrow